【Apple】Years after kicking me out, my ex-mother comes begging for money and finds out what she lost!

[@bcgrote]

Once again, when cutting ties, block those suckers right away.

[@evadedenbach1226]

Yes. No contact is the only way to have some peace in your life.

[@hoodie2shoes273]

Never EVER look down on the trades! They literally keep everything running. Infrastructure would literally crumble without them.

[@sarahader8118]

Favoritism...gets the parents that plays that into big trouble. Same with the favorited child. And the 2nd story with the monster in law was something else

[@michaelgum97]

She's the type of "person" who wouldn't be able to understand that she had to spend money because 1. raising children is expensive and 2. that she was his legal guardian and that if she didn't provided for him then she would've been arrested for children neglect, abandonment, endangerment and abuse.

[@karenpatrech4346]

This Mother's attitude is why there is such a SHORTAGE of Qualified Tradesmen; Electicians and Plumbers and Builders, etc. in Australia.

[@trzmdpath]

This is also an issue in the USA 🇺🇸.

[@gfriend94]

This narrator is the absolute best! I love her uppity voice and quick wit. Every time I hear her voice I remember two great one liners “I decline” and “hungry as a bear”

[@Renville80]

Julian should have said “I don’t give money to hostile strangers” and blocked his egg donor.

[@ellenbacon]

Mom is a gaslighter! Good for Julian! I wouldn’t give them any money either! They made their bed, can’t take responsibility for their actions!! They can lay in their bed now, WOW!!!😮

[@tammycosby4495]

Good for Kate not paying Deborah to marry James. There’s no reason to buy a pig just for a bit of sausage.

[@debracoronado3331]

😂

[@elizabethrossi7604]

🤣😂😛😜🤪😝😁 GREAT ONE!

[@44widow]

😂😅

[@Pikapower7]

I feel bad for the sons in both stories because it's clear their parents only viewed them as property. Doesn't excuse their behavior, but still.

[@MorningRose370]

I feel sorry for Mark. I can easily see this Mom making sure he does nothing but study, so of course he has no social skills.

[@TheJinx1441]

Honestly, same. I wish that Mark would have found a way to break free from that hell, but sadly, that debt is not pretty. Maybe Julian could have helped him become more social?

[@dymonddavis7847]

Julian made it 100% clear that she is not his mother anymore when he called her by her name instead of calling her mom and wants nothing to do with them anymore.

[@BersealiaDreamheart]

Ooo, that must’ve hurt. ;P

[@ImaginaryCyborg]

So, the "idiot's" money is good now, eh? How can someone be so clueless as to not know that begging someone for money, while insulting them, is a ridiculously bad idea? 😂

[@MelMel-zo9sy]

It always amazes me, that without fail, people who ask for money and are initially refused always accuse that person of being poor or stingy or insensitive. I mean, isn’t the fact your begging proof that you’re the poorer one?

[@tammyminder833]

Ma'am why in the hell would you think for a second that he would literally help y'all the Audacity 😂😂

[@richardbassett9367]

I agree 💯 percent with you on that

[@richardbassett9367]

Julian stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what

[@ire1398]

Blue collar work is some of the only work that’s consistent and regular. Unions rock.

[@marvimgreene4377]

You know these so called Mothers need to be put in jail somewhere and let them see what it's really like to be bullied! Hugs to the mistreated!! Belinda Greene

[@TheEmpressReborn]

I'm very glad that Kate's got a shiny titanium spine, standing up to that scheming old bat (meaning Deborah).😊

[@joansamuels3241]

"Take responsibility for yourself," says mom. Take your money and yourself and get outta there. Give back the space you take up in her house. Mom can pin their future on brilliant, friendless unemployed Mark.

[@PattyT-xl1zv]

Deborah, I am very shocked to hear your proposal! I have to pay ten grand to marry your son! I will call the Police on you!

[@evadedenbach1226]

Mom: I dont want you in my life anymore. My response: The feeling is mutual. Then I would be blocking her number, and anyone who has enabled her behavior. That would include my dad, my brother, my grandparents, etc. Since my mom chose to disown me, then fine, I dont have a family. I'm better off without them. This is not only verbal abuse, this is emotionsl abuse, financial abuse, mental abuse. I hope Julian has sought counseling . Mark will always be the golden child, while Julian will alwas be the scapegoat,. I hope Julian stays strong. If his so-called mom and family uses the "But we're family" and is begging for money, forgiveness, a place to live, etc. , that would have been a hard no from me. Toxic is toxic.

[@jesscharles1512]

Good evening everyone from the Appalachian mountains in Virginia. I hope everyone has a wonderful night. 😊😊

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Thank you 😊 Have a wonderful night, too.😊

[@sophierobinson2738]

Good evening! Many of my distant ancestors came from your area!

[@glenystranter2713]

Good afternoon from Australia to you.

[@Gerilyn2003]

Any "genius" that grows up without friends will never be able to handle any kind of job the requires working with others. If Deborah wants $10K as a business deal for OP to marry her son...then I'd add a contract, that if the marriage fails - Deborah owes her $20K.

[@AcerNitroFive]

2:29 - If I were the OP, THAT would be the final straw! Karma: "Chill, Bruhhh! That's too early. Stay and you'll see why.."

[@warriorsorb1111]

One of the things I've always hated about the bitter family members like Julian's mother, it's when they disown and ostracize their own children for stupid reasons then come back years later and expect the ostracized members to still pay and whatnot. Talk about pathetic.

[@AlexRising_]

“An heir and a spare” except Julian’s parents are idiots and decided he was a preemptive spare.

[@sarahfarr7400]

The street performance was probably James's way of rebelling against his mom. Even unconsciously.

[@StoopidMonkeysMomma]

One finger salute to Mom and the whole toxic family

[@evadedenbach1226]

It's not the thumb. It's not the index finger. Its not the ring finger. It's not the pinky. It's the one you put up when you don't give a f----.

[@DoctorRobertNeville]

A two handed eff you to that whole toxic family. They can take a long walk off a short pier. They can jump into a live volcano. I'd even dare say we should kick them outta the airlock.

[@briannamcdaniel266]

🖕🏾 This one right?

[@StoopidMonkeysMomma]

@@briannamcdaniel266 hell yeah!!

[@citadelofwinds1564]

Story 1: What an evil woman. He endured her malice and verbal abuse for way too long. And it's amazing how often these villains keep insulting the person from whom they are demanding money. As if they cannot work out the basics: don't insult or berate someone if you want a favour from them. And don't try to rewrite history and pretend that things didn't happen. Self-serving lies and gaslighting are so pathetic and only drive people further away.

[@noxiouschocolate9644]

So James was okey dokey with his mother basically renting him out to his wife- I say renting over selling because we all know how mama’s boys treat their wives.

[@Serpentor2000]

Yeah this MIL is waving a giant red flag 🚩 she needs to run

[@nco_gets_it]

This story reminds me of an important truth everyone must remember: don't rush in to relationships. It takes more than a year to get to know someone, their family, and how the family works. In fact, I would say two years at least. You need to know what the parents do, how they interact with their children (adult or not), how the kids interact with each other, and how they maintain themselves (work, school, home life). After all, a person who cannot take care of their own life is not going to be an addition to yours.

[@riley6740]

I’m more of the “ people can’t keep up the act for two years and sometimes a little more. Eventually, they let the mask fall off, even if it’s bits of it. Eventually, the whole thing will melt off. Even a couple of my ex boyfriends would laugh at any new person I dated because they knew that they were not getting into my pants for at least two years. I’m not one to give myself to anyone who doesn’t understand that my body is attached to my head. They work in tandem. Get to know me and everything I am, or move on. I’m not a notch on his bedpost. So to speak.

[@ceciliapreziose3783]

YEP!

[@Jenifer_R_]

Meanwhile, the OP split up with James and got married to someone else after just 3 months. Who knows what idiot she's married to now.

[@Chris-jn2pk]

​@@riley6740That's smart some people are good actors until you get into a serious relationship with them my thing is what you see is what you get with me I've had women tell me they couldn't be in a relationship with me because I could cook better than them how is that a "red flag"? Could someone explain it to me

[@riley6740]

@@Chris-jn2pk It’s a way to take you down or to take away your confidence with your skills, no matter what the skills are. They will Never let you be better than them on any subject. With a few exceptions. These are the people we all want to avoid. Control over their prey.

[@sceetherthenadder]

“You’re not my son! Now give me money!”

[@FirebirdPhoenix87]

Him: "Okay. I'm gonna have a great job, have a family, and tell you no." Mom: (Surprised Pikachu Face) Him: (El Risitas laugh)

[@snidecommenter7117]

Mom: How can you say that? We're your family. Julian: I was disowned. I don't have family. ( then do the Smurf sing *la la la la la, la la la la la* Over and over again. ) broken record her.

[@GeorgieB1965]

Trade school = a very comfortable lifestyle with minimal educational debt College = a very uncomfortable lifestyle with tons of debt.

[@pollypockets508]

It depends on the person in both cases. You forgot to mention art and design school for instance. Everyone takes their own path.

[@GeorgieB1965]

@@pollypockets508 Yes, but only because those didn't immediately spring to mind. You could also lump those in under the umbrella of "trade schools", as they could be considered a trade too.

[@artemisofthemoonandhunt1486]

Julian should have changed his number when he got kicked out. Definitely when he transferred overseas. That'd keep Mommy Dearest away.

[@bisonfarm]

Yes! Changing numbers is a pain in the butt- but doing so after something like that is always a good thing- especially if you have any beliefs that they will try and reach out again at some point. - new number and even still block their numbers or better yet-- why even respond in the first place? At the most, confirm that it’s dumbo and then-- stop responding and immediately block. They don’t need an explanation. They don’t need to know how successful you are. All you are doing is exposing yourself - and unnecessarily communicating with someone who doesn’t care about you- only money- which means they know you have some now, they will continue to try to get to you.

[@warriorsorb1111]

I just limit my phone number to those I trust. If any of my a-hole family members were to get my number through my trustees' (like going behind their backs, look into their phones, and find my contact number, or be nosy and look to see my caller ID and number when I'm calling said trustees, stuff like that) I would block their numbers immediately and if they used my trustees' phones to contact me, then unfortunately I'm still blocking.

[@jm1670]

Wants money but keeps insulting the hand she wants to feed her.

[@emmyploeger512]

Hey mom, where is your sense of responsibility???

[@Icyangel10]

Story 1: The fact she tells him not to call her mom cause they're not family but is going to him for money cause she's desperate then she turns a whole 180 when she learns what he's up to. She must be miserable knowing the child she never loved is doing better than the favorite one who is a failure she had to kick out but she likely still deals with a little of his debt.(He still has most of it but likely had his parents pick up some of it) Now she'll never get to enjoy the life of being the mom of a successful man & enjoy grandmotherhood because she & her husband threw Julian away. Story 2: Before learning James was a terrible person maybe worse than his mom I expected him to be willing to cut contact with his mom cause she was insane for treating his fiance like this or while sad willingly accepted it's better they separate & eventually found someone else after cutting contact with his mom. James & his mom are terrible people, his mom is lucky she still has her marriage & that James hasn't tried to ruin her attempt at getting a job

[@HELLINA-HANDBASKET]

She's lucky she still has her teeth, because she wouldn't if I were Kate 👊🏻😬

[@annnichols3091]

I don't care what Deborah says. I'd check with James.

[@kdeville87]

When she asked when the money is coming I would say when hell freeze over

[@paulagoeringer9466]

I'd tell her to see how much she can get on the streets.😂

[@curtisberard7831]

*Age does not denote maturity.* *Education does not denote intelligence.* Volume does not denote veracity.

[@dixiecyrus8136]

Deborah seems to forget that back in the day the groom's parents paid the bride price😂😂😂

[@pollypockets508]

That was a long time ago, weirdo.

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good evening and have a wonderful night everyone 👋🤗 From Louisiana 🐊

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Good evening 🙏 😊

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@baffledanderanged2101 Good evening 👋🤗

[@mariefish9535]

Story 2, This Mil is a total nightmare to blackmail Deborah into paying her £10,000 to marry her son you keep your son and I will keep my money then James can live happily ever after with her precious mommy coz I'm already married to someone else 😂😂😂😂😂 byeeeeeee!!!!😂😂

[@raeishimura]

Begging for money while insulting him? seriously, is that supposed to make him WANT to give you money? What, did she think he'd go "Oh sure, you sit here and insult and belittle me, i'll gladly give you money!" most people aren't that kind of masochistic

[@annnichols3091]

So often in these stories it's the person who refuses to take responsibility for his/her actions who demands that someone who has no responsibility for the problem take responsibility for it.

[@afsoto]

We need a page where they credit the voice actors.

[@lisanassy-harrison8670]

Trade school graduates sometimes make a lot more than those from regular colleges. In the UK, "trade" schools include things such as nursing....

[@rogerrabbit80]

Mom: "I just mean that there is a lot going wrong over here and you need to help us!" Julian: "No, you want me to help you. I don't need to help you. Can you understand the difference?"

[@dimandmage123]

Evening everyone

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Have a wonderful night 👋🤗

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Have a good evening 😊

[@ThatCrazySylveonIsAtItAgain]

"I apologized! Isn't that enough?" Yeah, no. Too little, too late! This is what you get for being a terrible mother!

[@DarkKirby8976]

Serves Julian's family and Deborah right!

[@dorothylloyd1804]

Thanks for the video

[@georgiegal6745]

Julian's mom insulting the crap out of him and asking him for money...... Woman, if I were him, I'd be buying popcorn for the damn show and spend every penny on JUST that, to SPITE YOU.

[@janibest7401]

If James was as bad as Kate says he is, then why was she going to marry him in the first place?

[@darylecostello7435]

This is where you show your Fiance your texts with his mother!! If he says Pay!! her smile and just say 2 words!! It's over and walk!! If he backs you kick her out of the wedding (she would blow it up) and tell her you are going NC To include your future Children!!

[@michellemaloney2839]

Traditionally, the dowery is paid to the bride's family. Methinks Deborah is a bit confused.

[@sugakookie7985]

You can't really call what the husband said as blackmail, she has debts so she had to get a job to pay them off perfectly reasonable

[@twiceshy9773]

Also 2nd story- and that's no way to ask for a favour!! Her rudeness made it super obvious the money was for some kinda addiction, why else was she so adamant about keeping it a secret?!! Lol I like "dodged a bullet" stories😊

[@potatoflakes247]

Best revenge ever. Live a life full of happiness and new family❤❤❤

[@vanessacarter5966]

After all she said to him and kicking him out, in what world did she think he would do anything to help her.

[@mamabear918]

6:47 you just asked him for money?! He’s no longer your son. 9:26 you abandoned him so he’s just doing what you want. Leaving you alone

[@happydoots382]

Humans are social creatures by nature, even some antisocial people reach out to connect with others in some way. I’m not big on social niceties but do like to just be somewhere people are, even if I never talk to anyone present.

[@kdeville87]

I would of hung up and blocked them all

[@TigerLily12345]

So, in the first story the mother thinks everything can be fixed with just an apology.

[@karenlommler6473]

Julian needs to forget the promise that he made to his father and just move out of the house. Mom, Dad and Mark are jerks. Be happy to leaving the house and go no contact with them. The father is not any better than the mother. If you can afford to pay rent to your parents you maybe available to find your own place.

[@kentjensen4939]

Both stories: actions have consequences.

[@StoopidMonkeysMomma]

I love the way you guys keep improving the stories major kudos

[@bdhu2001]

Bonsoir de Benicia CA

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good evening and have a good night 👋🤗

[@baffledanderanged2101]

👋 Hello 😊

[@stephaniehoyland4901]

Wow his mum really threw away the diamond for the trust isn't she

[@sherrykirksey8098]

She needs an attitude adjustment real fast. She needs to get a JOB

[@UchuKejiMovan]

He didn't block her after getting kicked out smh

[@Mama_Bear_of_4]

I pray to the Goddess above that there aren't many parents in the world like this disgusting mother.

[@DaiyenCairo]

Sadly there are millions of people like this person in our world. It's horrible and disgusting. I pray that the God's and Goddesses will give us hope for the future.

[@Mrstigger747]

💜🙏🙏👋🇨🇦

[@youmadhuh6375]

Stop calling her "mom".. that is not a mom julienne.. is Deborah ok?.. that lady doesn't owe her for raising HER son.. what drugs is Deborah on?.. Deborah found out james isn't worth 50 cent, let alone $10k😂😂😂😂

[@Serpentor2000]

I would have told her to call her lawyer, she’s going to need it when I press charges for the threats, or would it be blackmail? No threats, she addmited she was threatening the girl.

[@paulredinger5830]

I wouldn’t call her mom. I’d call her Mrs. so and so.

[@powellmountainmike8853]

Great stories. The second story, where Kate had a spine was especially enjoyable. I detest those all to frequent stories where the female OP plays the doormat and puts up with abuse or manipulation by a husband or mother in law.

[@BladeStar-uq6xe]

My mother would have NEVER talked to me like that! I would have packed my stuff and left!

[@dollagent690]

Verbal abuse by far.... and still wants money from him for his brother. Shameless woman....

[@marilyngordon5815]

I wouldn’t give her the shirt off my back and I wouldn’t give them any money let them get a job

[@glendawhite4477]

Does the mum work 🙄 that is y I laugh😂

[@sarah.268]

Was wondering if its possible to have the play list organized. That way if someone want to listen to all of the videos in a category about...... Let's say! Momma's boys then we can easily have a play list for that.

[@veronicajules844]

No MONEY for you AGAIN😂😂😂😂😅😅

[@jporras1439]

She is just like my mom. It's been 12 yr since we spoke. This time.

[@califdad4]

Really liked the 2nd story

[@pamelamitchell8789]

She should have told the prospective mother in law, if she has to pay for her fiance's upbringing, then he has to pay the same amount to her parents for her upbringing! LOL

[@lonnysimmons1889]

Dog playing with the bone is cute.

[@richardbassett9367]

Kate stick to your guns and don't back down no matter what

[@eshaytoastie9790]

Wow breaks up with James and then gets married to another man only months later, wow just wow 😂💀

[@tattoorocker]

There is nothing wrong with trade school

[@annnichols3091]

Deborah, I don't know of any country in which there is a groom price.

[@pioliboo]

Good stories

[@MsEgyptianGoddess]

Love the voices

[@baffledanderanged2101]

Lol, now Deborah can't extort money from OP because of the break-up.

[@blitzwolfmon8297]

Lol. Yes let's drive away all potential marriage partners by trying to extort them for their money. What could possibly go wrong?

[@baffledanderanged2101]

@blitzwolfmon8297 The "almost" future MIL is appalling . It is better to stear clear of people like her.

[@blitzwolfmon8297]

@@baffledanderanged2101 Appaling yes but fortunately not very bright.

[@baffledanderanged2101]

@blitzwolfmon8297 yup, the light bulb in her head is on the lowest setting.

[@brigidosullivan5704]

My elder brother found school hard. However he persevered and is now so wealthy and successful that he spends 90% of his time travelling and playing golf. He is a wonderful man.

[@carolroberts4614]

That's great! I love a happy story like that.

[@veronicajules844]

When you work the salary will be on your account in the bank

[@VickyfrenchFrench]

I would have asked her if she needed help dialing her lawyer.Laughed and hung up.

[@prakashholla7331]

Ex mom : Julian, gimme momey Ju: who dis? EM: your mom, stupid Ju:me mama, she dead long time, who dis one more time? EM: your mom, stupid Ju: i am blocking you. I be afraid of haunts and zombies" Ju blocks number

[@francessweeney2308]

Deborah, that's called extortion and blackmail, a felony. 10 years in prison.

[@derGhebbet]

"All you are is a failure and a mistake." YOUR failure and YOUR mistake. lol

[@alvinhope7685]

It is really too bad that we do not have stocks anymore. That is what she deserves.

[@Mrwillie95]

I would have block Deborah number and dump her son and count myself lucky that I didn’t marry into this family story 2