So if someone says they have a lot of issues, believe them. If they tell you they're not ready to commit, they're not! Don't try and change what they say to your liking.
@norapeace6526 Жыл бұрын
So true… just walk away at that point if you want different things. Save yourself from heartbreak
@norapeace6526 Жыл бұрын
@@stacyjaye6350 so true!! Facts! Bc people don’t want to hurt your feelings.. I know I would do the same to not hurt someone or make them retaliate. People are nuts! Especially men 😂 some guy just called me 2 days ago from a blocked number, asked for me, but wouldn’t say who they were. They were playing!! Then they hung up! Smh
@norapeace6526 Жыл бұрын
@@stacyjaye6350 😂😂😂 so true!! So sad. Stay prayed up, that’s all I can say
@maxinepeel7057 Жыл бұрын
It's a fact that people know themselves and when they tell you something believe them otherwise when they come through with their behaviour that they warned you about you at least you won't be surprised and feel betrayed. Observation is key...
@KG-kx3pp Жыл бұрын
100% Exactly this. Well said.
@siritalis4956 Жыл бұрын
I remember seeing this one of Matthew's videos a while back. It really stuck with me. It's the caveat to, "Trust their actions, not their words."
@rachaeljackson8642 Жыл бұрын
Yes, so true. I had to think about it for a few seconds but then read your comment which made total sense.
@rachaeljackson8642 Жыл бұрын
Thank you 👍
@Rebecca-ys3cb Жыл бұрын
My boyfriends actions are totally different than to his words! It’s so hard as he in general treats me so well. But what his told me I can’t not listen to so, of someone comes across me that’s interested in me than I have to take them. I wished he’d be interested in me, but his not. I just don’t understand why he rings me all the time. Why he checks that I’m okay. Why he buys me so many presents. And why his hung up on his first love that was never his gf she never even did anything for him.. she doesn’t even know his eating himself to death because he only has eyes for her! It’s sick as she never even loved him back, just married another man had his kids and cry’s to him five or more times a year about how her life sucks! She’s evil…. She should have cut contact while she refuses to cut contact I guess he won’t and if he doesn’t than I got to go.
@siritalis4956 Жыл бұрын
@@Rebecca-ys3cb That sounds pretty toxic if I'm correctly understanding that he's telling you what you can and can't listen to, do, etc. Maybe he does care about you, but that doesn't always translate to healthy choices inside of a relationship. If he's hung up on this other girl, I think it's important that he sorts those feelings out
@Rebecca-ys3cb Жыл бұрын
@@siritalis4956 his not telling me what I can or can't do. He actions are as though he loves me. What i am saying you "you can't even tell by their actions". And that I agree with the statement Mathew is saying, the probably true. Just because someone treats you exceptionally well, as though they actually do love you, they think about you, always thinking of me brining me gifts, they call you all day long, the message you good night, they want to make you genuinely happy. But they are hung up on another woman from 10 years ago that feeds her own ego by keeping him there while married with children to another man. A woman that never wanted him. A woman that only cries to him when her husband ignores her as she has this other man, who won't ignore her. Yes. I am in total agreeance that he needs to sort out his feelings with her, and if that is that he continues to eat himself to death over her, while he will never have eyes for any other woman than her than that is what it is. I am not going to watch him kill himself. He needs counseling. I can't be his healer; I am involved with him. Sure, he doesn't want to eat when his with me, and he feels full when his with me. It took him a little bit to get to that, yes, he is healing by being with me, and as a collector I'm sure he would never let me go, but if she said come to him, he'd be on the plane to her in a second. This is a woman that when I asked, "what has she ever done for you?" he said "nothing" oh with the exception of wanting to set her sister up with his cousin to which he was looking forward to the wedding to see her. He said nothing. He is in love with a woman who has done 'nothing' for him. Who in their right mind would keep themselves attached to a woman those sleeps with another man. And is unfaithful to that man by maintaining contact with him for 10 years. Contacting him 5 times in this last year thats a lot considering she is married to another man! I had a bad urine infection back in August. I know that I must trust this when I get this, as it is my spirit energy telling me another woman is in my man's energy. It wouldn't go for 2 weeks. I couldn't figure out what it was as at this time I was actually even staying at his home with him. But now I know. When my dog passed away my priorities for him in my life changed, before I kept the peace for my dog as my dog loved him and needed a daddy as my dog had issues and cancer. They loved each other, it was so special but short the relationship. He tells me he is exclusive with me, but he is not all in. Why because he is in love with a woman that he thinks is the one that got away, but if she was the one, she'd be the one. So he is searching for the same love, but how is he going to get that while he is apparently exclusive with me. So, he thinks its okay to not be all in because just encase he finds someone else or so he keeps himself available for this woman encase she finally leaves her husband. And fact is when she knows his gone she probably will leave the husband just to get him, but then no doubt if the husband begs her back she'll go back and he'll be back to where he was before. In love with nothing. Which is not my problem. My problem is I have a man that is not all in. My Virgo Moon searches for souls that need healing, Dr Joe Dizpensa is infamous for how to build new neurological pathways in the brain. I can teach him why he formed these in the first place. I do have a connection with him, he speaks to me in my dreams which is the state of the brain waves in meditation, but I keep falling asleep and can't quiet do it yet awake. I've spoken to him before I even met him in person. He is who I was told I'd meet 19 years ago. Along with 3 others that I also know. His purpose in my life is around my children, as that was the question, I had asked 19 years ago. As it stands, I can't have him around my children until he figures out who he is and stops lying to himself about who he thinks he is. Fortunately, they are not conceived yet. My doctor was one of the names that was given to me, and the sperm donor was the other important name. But I can't be the one to heal him. I am involved with him, my reasons for healing him are subjected to having a full relationship with him. That I believe he needs to come to on his own terms... and if he was going to do it alone, he would have already done it. So yes Siritalis I need to put space between us, while he goes and figures out who he really is, and who he wants to become and if he is going to do this, he is going to need someone trained to bring out the reasons why he is keeping the 'in love' feeling style attached to a woman that definitely doesn't give love in return.
@MrMarthadiaz Жыл бұрын
Always listen to the Narcissist, because they always are telling on themselves
@maxinepeel7057 Жыл бұрын
You can observe their eyes, the tone of voice, the body language and how much it hurts them to share. The hesitations, the fears and the longing alone is key. But the fact that they trusted you enough to actually share - is one of the most blessed moments because you must hold their words into your heart and keep it secret.
@piamoltzau4382 Жыл бұрын
Ich denke nicht, dass jemand meine Körpersprache, der Ton meiner Stimme oder meine Augen wahr nimmt wenn ich etwas erzähle und "teile" oder "mitteile"
@maxinepeel7057 Жыл бұрын
@@piamoltzau4382 Do not understand your language - German is it? Sorry
@piamoltzau4382 Жыл бұрын
@@maxinepeel7057 oh das ist ja so schlimm-ist aber nicht mein Problem-lass es dir von Idris, Ann Tor ill oder Tur id übersetzen Dann geht es uns allen direkt besser
@runningafterclouds3519 Жыл бұрын
This.
@agape843 Жыл бұрын
My husband and I have made this pact to each other. It’s not easy to be brutally honest,and you’ve got to be prepared for the answer,but then comes the commitment to communicate and work through whatever truth is revealed. I don’t know how couples “play pretend” in any relationship,you might as well be out of it because quite frankly,you all ready are at that stage.
@kristofferbjrnknudsen9220 Жыл бұрын
Smart answer
@buahburke9912 Жыл бұрын
It's brutal that "society narrative" changed, (to mostly lies) & now, just as predicted, it's husband against wife, daughter against mother, and chief friends separated. The Bible foretold it with stunning accuracy.
@DesmondHubbard Жыл бұрын
But be careful of them feeding you bread crumbs. Just enough to make you believe but not enough to know the whole truth
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Exactly i hate that 😒
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Or like you cant handle the truth..id rather have a harsh truth than a lie that will fuck with my mind.
@piamoltzau4382 Жыл бұрын
die ganze Wahrheit ist, dass ich gewählt wurde weil ich fett, deutsch und dumm bin Der Plan stand schon vorher sie haben nur wen gesucht mit dem sie es machen können Mitlerweile glaub ich das der Plan schon bei er ersten Begegnung da war und sie das dicke Monster gesehen haben welches dazu gebraucht wird
@LizaS1919 ай бұрын
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@LizaS1919 ай бұрын
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@l.l.8022 Жыл бұрын
Not so fast. Some people put in A LOT of work to be deceitful and will choose to reveal the lesser of two evils to save face. Deeply disturbing.
@Freespiritedqueen Жыл бұрын
Yes, I paid the price and so did my children. Never worth being with them.
@audreyblackmon8413 Жыл бұрын
Sometimes truth isn’t that bad
@desiderata333 Жыл бұрын
@@audreyblackmon8413 and sometimes the truth is the worst evil that you can imagine. Think pedophilia.
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@breannadfwrealtor3272 Жыл бұрын
Yesss!!!👏
@seektruth983 Жыл бұрын
That’s someone who cares about you more than their own comfort and convenience of avoiding conflict.
@positivevibe7684 Жыл бұрын
Or they had no choice because you would have found out anyway.
@comparecards5688 Жыл бұрын
@@positivevibe7684avoiding conflict it doesn’t mean you’re being found out of anything if anything it shows maturity!
@AbnegationTranscendental Жыл бұрын
Yeah but the problem is when they don't tell anything.
@cinnamon5124 Жыл бұрын
Then they shouldn’t matter to you again
@synesthesiafilms Жыл бұрын
They never talk. They just want sex or their mobile. (or shoes and bags... why??)
@Noemie291 Жыл бұрын
@@oscargaitan7524 what?
@LinnLinnok-fe5tq6 ай бұрын
If they won’t tell anything, it’s time to RUN.
@MariaK222 Жыл бұрын
When someone tells you or shows you who they are, believe them
@byefelicia8632 Жыл бұрын
No one knows who they are. You’re not Maria. That name was given to you. So who the F are you? Stop saying bullshit things batch.
@MariaK222 Жыл бұрын
@@byefelicia8632 lol
@bennycb6256 Жыл бұрын
She was subconsciously trying to tell me she is not the kind of girl I believe her to be, but I didn’t listen…
@nadiaoak5123 Жыл бұрын
There’s no way of knowing if they are or are not showing you who they really are
@mihir777 Жыл бұрын
She showed me first how she was disrespectful and took me for granted. So I broke up. But then she said sorry and promised she would change. So I took her back. But I’m still seeing the signs of her old personality… easily getting annoyed.. not respecting, etc. When I give her all my attention and start to be emotionally attached, she starts testing and disrespecting me
@trubbleedwards1993 Жыл бұрын
Have you ever met a narcissist??? they'll lie and make their lives waaaaaay worse and believe the lies 😂 😂 😂
@AZubb__ Жыл бұрын
I met one that was a little brat . He played way to much most annoying person ever . But I’m glad I had him in my life learned a lot from him .
@thinking99998 Жыл бұрын
Facts. They’re so arrogant and prideful, yet have no issue playing the victim 😢 The irony isn’t lost on me 😂😂
@Opopopop-pn7ws Жыл бұрын
@@thinking99998 agree.
@mooncaz506 Жыл бұрын
He did said a key word “probably “ 😅😂😂
@freepalestine8454 Жыл бұрын
Hence, the word "probably." You hear in order to respond, but you don't listen.
@makinglovelast Жыл бұрын
I completely agree! People don't just tell you things to make their lives harder. Great quote!
@smarterthinker1729 Жыл бұрын
If someone lies with another lie on top of the other is telling you they aren’t worth your time.
@byefelicia8632 Жыл бұрын
No one is worth anyone’s time. You should make your own self worthy of your time not the other way around.
@LizaS1919 ай бұрын
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@Alabamasparra Жыл бұрын
Be careful there's people who will tell you part truth to think this then months later there's much more... be careful people xx
@renegaderogue6310 Жыл бұрын
Yes, I've been afraid to tell my ex exactly how he made me feel, but it was liberating when I did. He pushed back hard, but MY TRUTH was already out there.
@alisongordon3646 Жыл бұрын
This statement has resonated very much at a time I needed to hear it the most.
@joannedavis1991 Жыл бұрын
The problem is they get angry when you tell the truth and are trying to help them. People don’t want to face the truth.
@lisadeav73 Жыл бұрын
That's why you gotta watch their actions cause your gut is always right
@madmudslinger Жыл бұрын
The best liars do this to obscure their bigger lies
@everydaytherapist7315 Жыл бұрын
That's funny, I thought the same thing. I've witnessed liars who are very "fake-humble" or "fake-hurt" or "fake-guilty"
@keatengaskill3859 Жыл бұрын
Yeah... it's chess. Any sacrifice makes the game harder, even the sacrifice of a pawn.
@noanoa8991 Жыл бұрын
@@everydaytherapist7315 these are the most dangerous
@khaoscualdawath Жыл бұрын
The most apparent difference between those who do this to aid their lies, and those who are hhonest is the situation. If the one telling you this gains nothing from telling you that they have issues, likely in the getting to know eachother phase, it is rarely if ever a lie. If it is someone who is already in a relationship with you, and have more to lose, they will be better off telling you truths - if they have your interests in mind. If they use this to avoid telling you truths, they do not have your interests in mind, so you can see the direction the relationship is going.
@cinnamon5124 Жыл бұрын
If these people are giving you cause to have doubts to such lengths then you should either stay away from them completely or limit your contact to things that don’t matter. Because you’ll likely create self fulfilling prophecy in your connection and cognitive bias and screw up a good connection or worsen a bad one. There’s nothing worse than scheming against each other in daily life day in and day out.
@DiscussionsofLife Жыл бұрын
If you're going to hurt people, hurt them with the truth.
@TanyaZorn-lz3cy Жыл бұрын
But what if u don't know how they re going to react
@DiscussionsofLife Жыл бұрын
@@TanyaZorn-lz3cy You don't need to know how the person is going to react. Hurt the person involved with honesty, but you can do so in a loving way. Once the person responds, you then show that you care by walking the person through the grieving process in a way. It's not so easy to explain in text.
@TanyaZorn-lz3cy Жыл бұрын
@@DiscussionsofLife but what if there respond is a punch to the face? I'm not taking them kinda chances. I don't think he would but still why even go through
@DiscussionsofLife Жыл бұрын
@@TanyaZorn-lz3cy I'll make a video on what to do in this situation.
@TanyaZorn-lz3cy Жыл бұрын
@@DiscussionsofLife please do. Amuse me.
@thesoccerwhiz Жыл бұрын
I love your advises. Thank you Mathew.
@thinking99998 Жыл бұрын
Believe none of what you hear and half of what you see. Assume people are lying for their own benefit and you won’t ever get hurt/blindsided again. Seems people forget trust is EARNED. If you trust someone right away and get burned that’s on you.
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
Divine timing ❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you
@comparecards5688 Жыл бұрын
Is diving timing far more important than breaking your family ?
@angelinasamson6996 Жыл бұрын
@@comparecards5688 obviously not
@Girlwiththecurls Жыл бұрын
This is deep. I never thought about it this way
@onamennarkm2143 Жыл бұрын
That actually made a lot of sense to me and put things in perspective I never thought about it like a whole years worth of pain heartbreak and having that all come at you at one time would be devastating on a person although definitely would make for the right medicine at the right time gods time!!
@donny121able Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately this is a solid way to manipulate and create trust. A professional liar will do this all the time.
@user-th2hh5zm5w11 ай бұрын
Isn't it agony that all of us demand a person to be truthful.. and when they do . We just cannot live with it and make the other persons life more difficult for being truthful. ? It's easy to ask to be truthful but it takes more courage and bravery to not make the other person feel sorry for being truthful.
@bettyletkeman647 Жыл бұрын
Lying is never okay! Especially for people that already have trust issues and that person could be watching them do something bad right beside them and they will still lie until there blue in the face and NOT EVEN care no matter how much they know that the other spouse found out there lies
@annamikulic3562 Жыл бұрын
I wasn’t told extremely important things and it all came crashing down!!! I suspected so much but was too weak to confront
@keatengaskill3859 Жыл бұрын
Lying 101: sacrifice your queen, not pawns. Pawns have the potential to become queens, and the taking of your queen drops your opponent's guard.
@deeegeee8345 Жыл бұрын
Wow
@massmom8919 Жыл бұрын
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@keatengaskill3859 Жыл бұрын
@@massmom8919 translation: go big or go home 🤷🏻♂️
@massmom8919 Жыл бұрын
@Keaten Gaskill so it someone is telling you something they know wil make you mad or they know will have you looking at them differently, believe them?
@keatengaskill3859 Жыл бұрын
@@massmom8919 if someone tells you something that makes them look bad, it does NOT mean that they are being honest. They MIGHT be being honest... or they might be 'sacrificing their queen' in order to earn your trust as an effort to manipulate you. There's a difference between believing someone and investing in a belief in someone. It's wise to avoid investing in your beliefs in new people until you've known them long enough to discern their character.
@SheilaCarl Жыл бұрын
Honesty sometimes c a n backfire but be honest anyway . It's the their problem if they don't believe you...
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
I agree too like certain things we may never know the truth..like slipping names especially if it was just once. We may never know why..
@lesliesantos8595 Жыл бұрын
Especially if you are given two scenarios that cannot co exist
@Jenny-bx7er Жыл бұрын
Wow, what a nugget kf knowledge that obviously no one could calculate this before this fellow reached deep into the cosmic, universal truth and connected with the vein of truth and allowed I to flow straight into him.
@spiritual_earthly_insights Жыл бұрын
Right! I agree with you completely. Some of the people in the comments don't seem to understand the difference between genuine authenticity or artificially created manipulations. An artificially created lie or partial truth meant to manipulate is a thing that makes a person's present life easier, hence it's not what Matthew is talking about. Believing someone's lies or partial truths or covert words to hude their core inner truth, means the person being lied to needs to re examine where they are inauthentic or why they are attracting such experiences. While those who are suspicious of someone's sad or difficult life history, that maybe they had oppressed for years of their life, and others who knew them for years didn't realise, that's something where if the person opens about their life history their present or future life could become difficult as a result of that revelation. Such cases that mathhew alludes towards could be related to abuse of all kinds, or say racial history, some criminal activity from childhood days, something they did criminal or just socially unjust in the past that they regret, etc.
@MA7-6585 Жыл бұрын
My career went to hell when I outed my narcissistic supervisor for abusing a third person, under my supervision. But I had to.
@miivii Жыл бұрын
I am proud of you! Hat off!!!
@AdrianaMartinez-zq7bw Жыл бұрын
So true, bc it took guts to say it! 😅
@shantinarichardson8247 Жыл бұрын
Basically, if they are willing to take a loss to tell you something that benefits you, they are telling the truth.
@sommy9152 Жыл бұрын
Some people tell you something they don't want to hide something even worse
@mariefrias829310 ай бұрын
Absolutely, i was sceptical at first but realised he was telling the truth.
@LoveYou3539 Жыл бұрын
But the truth will set you free!
@YesPlease1 Жыл бұрын
Or if they can hurt you then it makes them feel powerful. Hurt people hurt people. Highly antagonistic personalities. Be careful of the covert narcissist who hides behind a veil of manufactured kindness like "This is hard for me to tell you, because I don't want to hurt your feelings, but..." and then engages in emotional abuse. "You're a creep, and an extremely cringey person." or "You're low quality person. You're a loser." or "Nobody likes you or wants to be with you." They can pretend that what they're saying is difficult for them to say, and so by Matthew's rule of thumb here you'd take it as truth. But are any of those statements things that healthy, secure, empathetic people would say? What they're doing is actually making their life EASIER for themselves by blaming YOU for the reason things didn't work out, for example, thus alleviating themselves of the emotional burden of the truth which is that they contributed to the downfall. And someone who's toxic enough to devalue someone like that, and manipulative enough to conceal their toxicity behind the perception of kindness definitely contributed to the downfall.
@siritalis4956 Жыл бұрын
You're right, but the difference is that Matthew is talking about people telling you something about themselves, not something about you
@jtothec123411 ай бұрын
Could this be more avoidant behaviour?
@BrazilianGirl. Жыл бұрын
Respectfully disagree! I know a lotta girls that make stuff up to play the victim, such as being abused , or explaining a past breakup blaming only the ex partner ...🤦🏼♀️
@Love-np2rt Жыл бұрын
Men lie all the time too about "their exes." The point I think he's trying to make is, in situations where telling the lies are "difficult " for all involved.... to consider that folks have things to gain or lose by lying - and to consider that.
@KARRMA333 Жыл бұрын
Girls are too competitive and want male validation/attention too much to ever believe other girls.. You'll come out looking foolish every time...
@sunbugg Жыл бұрын
Great point
@andresesther5702 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Matthew for advices
@Iris-vo5gd2 ай бұрын
It's them being honest about their feelings but it doesn't always have to mean it's your truth. At times, people perceive reality differently than us. And that's their truth.
@izawaniek2568 Жыл бұрын
Spot on.
@Martin-rh7mf Жыл бұрын
Many are not grasping what he's saying If someone opens up about something they're deeply uneasy about then they're trying to open up..
@lilasfaves7846 Жыл бұрын
Depends if they want to damage you more than themselves I’d say
@CrystalDatingCoach Жыл бұрын
NO ONE Damages themselves!
@genietravelblog2940 Жыл бұрын
I have the difficulty telling how important the person to me .. but if I say it it’s really mean a lot
@buahburke9912 Жыл бұрын
This applies directly to the lies spread so liberally in the last 3 yrs. When telling friends truth gets me the hand, or unfriended, it's time to go solo, and shut up. Better than compromise and living a lie.
@milenaseymour4465 ай бұрын
Wow deep and so true ❤
@woodrowwilson1091 Жыл бұрын
People are made to change clarity helps you realize things a lot
@daviedood2503 Жыл бұрын
If they touch their face, look to their right side or give a bunch of detail to try and CONVINCE you, theyre lying bro 🤣🔥💪
@anne-marieh612811 ай бұрын
❤❤❤ this chap!
@TrappedinaBrain Жыл бұрын
Of course, it's possible that the thing they're telling you is a lie, to cover up something even worse.
@gracethaimei808 Жыл бұрын
Can somebody make this simpler to understand for me
@africanfufu Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂 i am reading comments so I can even try to understand
@joyalexander440 Жыл бұрын
Same lol I’m like tf he just say
@rocksroll6841 Жыл бұрын
Lol! Thank y’all Im also like I think I know what he means idk🤔- I’m wondering if it something like this- a friend once told me she just met this guy and first talk he told her basically ‘all his stuff’ that he understood that if she would not want to see him again bc of those things; but he really liked her and wanted her to know. They ended up getting married. He was being honest bc even if it meant it would be harder for him bc she could just say no thank you and not leave the door open for more challenging conversations - don’t know tho if that’s it
@davehughes774 Жыл бұрын
Just let people be who they want to be .
@rupalarupi Жыл бұрын
That is when people leave us😢
@janiecepoush1904 Жыл бұрын
🙏🏻Thanks, Kindly! 💛🕊🍃
@aryanpatel647 Жыл бұрын
100% correct 👍 i think like this too
@norapeace6526 Жыл бұрын
Definitely makes sense
@neelkanthbk Жыл бұрын
Absolutely true
@disnalee Жыл бұрын
Yes LISTEN TO THEM!!! ignoring it will only lead to a painful path... Learn to listen
@motherflipper44807 ай бұрын
Yes, like when he told me on our first date, that he didn't want to be in a relationship. He wasn't lying. "When someone shows u who they are, believe them the first time". Maya Angelou Angelou
@_VR_8 Жыл бұрын
Good point!
@marckemp995511 ай бұрын
Why would I ever take advice from a liar? Why would a liar think I need their advice? I'm not like everyone else. I don't care what most people think. I'm not easily controlled. If I'm being manipulated I'll know it and only play along for one purpose. I only argue cases I know I can win. If I can't observe...I won't even try for someone. I don't need someone else's advice. My observation skills plus my inner sense and knowledge always serves.
@aaariguadalupe1 Жыл бұрын
LOGICAL !!! What’s wrong with people’s common sense.
@nadineelizabeth195 Жыл бұрын
That's why people hate people who speak the truth but they do it regardless if it's going to get them hated or not
@user-qg8zk4li4s Жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you!
@Phoenixonfire2 Жыл бұрын
I had to hear it over+over to really get it
@Julia-LArt Жыл бұрын
I have listened several times and still don’t think I get it?
@cashmererose1101 Жыл бұрын
I’m not sure I completely understand. Does he mean if someone is uncomfortable telling you something then it’s true.?
@proudally6662 Жыл бұрын
Me too
@mariadelpilargarcia9561 Жыл бұрын
Not only uncomfortable...humiliated or not at a good position...
@tarabrown7399 Жыл бұрын
This is so true!
@fluffytail6355 Жыл бұрын
If someone is telling you something that can be verified by facts, verify the facts. Liars won’t have any evidence.
@lindahebb4832 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting
@therighteousrighthand Жыл бұрын
That's exactly why I believe and put my faith and trust in Jesus Christ..After the ressurectuom of Jesus, His disciples continued to proclaim the truth even if it led to persecution and death.
@richardandrusiak8346 Жыл бұрын
I hope so. And I hope not. God have mercy on me.
@syndicateoff613911 ай бұрын
Unless that person has lied their whole life and knows how to throw them selves in the fire and still come out 💯%
@MostPowerfulPMofIndia Жыл бұрын
Amazing Never thought about that
@karengonzalez8739 Жыл бұрын
I would believe Him just It's Heart Breaking too 💔 😔 Understand why are they Hurt ing 💔 deep down inside 😢😢😢 wish I could do more help to relate and explain to help explain how I have so much empathy for somebody else hurting it's so sad and frightening I will pray to God about this
@mr.kakerudanielvl6496 Жыл бұрын
I want a relationship, getting to have a family or at least express this side of love, it hurts not to express it. But my situation doesn't make it easy, i even had to get away from a relationship because of it. But well, that's life. I'll find a way through this.
@PUREHEARTS296. Жыл бұрын
even seeing what they wouldn't have tell,n" still keep out of world s view,to I got your well-being with or without this.
@I-Khan75 Жыл бұрын
Your talk inspires! Just subscribed..!!
@crystalmassey4907 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤
@DorthyG-sc5nw Жыл бұрын
I'm still listening Gallagher. speak. make me BELIEVE.
@triamoore2931 Жыл бұрын
A lot of y’all are completely missing what he’s saying it’s going completely over your heads! He’s not talking about narcissistic people or manipulative people he’s talking about genuine people confessing or being vulnerable about something even at the risk of the likelihood of a certain outcome
@nadiaoak5123 Жыл бұрын
Many people get that sone don’t but the fact is there’s no way to know for sure if a person is genuine
@user-wh5dr9mf1z Жыл бұрын
Yes I believe them
@PURPLE_ROSE. Жыл бұрын
For those that think Jesus & The Holy Bible isn't real this logic applies. Those ppl in the Bible went through SO much including being tortured to death bc of the Truth which is Christ Jesus❣✝️💯 The Bible is accounts from different ppl recounting, from their perspective, being led to write by The Holy Spirit.
@manojshankar8255 Жыл бұрын
Can someone explain this in simple language please?
@christinelucas3814 Жыл бұрын
Right!!
@lesliebean4594 Жыл бұрын
If it’s something that would make them look bad, or leave them at a disadvantage they’re probably telling the truth.
@manojshankar8255 Жыл бұрын
@@lesliebean4594 thank you
@lesliebean4594 Жыл бұрын
@@manojshankar8255 You’re welcome.
@JASA3861211 ай бұрын
Why are so many people thinking this is about liars and narcs?
@SeonaMoon-xi1tg Жыл бұрын
If it was never going to be told. Then it stays that way. Simple.
@kayhollie1490 Жыл бұрын
Correct. 👍💯
@MsJoyce31202 Жыл бұрын
Yes.
@nelyn4752 Жыл бұрын
Prince Harry and his Wife Are right then😢
@mariaasiaico9133 Жыл бұрын
Humanity is very conflictive there are millions of people that have been tru hell and back since their childhood and have never Expressed , mimed and keep moving on , stories that will rock the world, and they have lost a lot of opportunities most of their lives, shot their mouth, their Dreams and Victories why because because of men’s ego not letting others be EXPOSED to their triumphs . It’s so REAL IT IS CALLED SELFISH, EVIL , SO MANY.
@Kann841 Жыл бұрын
My guy (broke up with him) confessed he cheated on his wife and I thought that was brave of him. But he was married 41 Years to a woman that didn’t physically want to be with him (very little sex he said) and yet he said he only cheated once! When I was dating him , he got on porn, he would stare at women in church or a dance event and it was sooooo much so that it was obvious and uncomfortable for me!! So I had all these signs he was sexually a problem …so I finally gave up! He would Stop Our phone conversations to take non emergency calls , he constantly arranged our Plans To Satisfy himself always, he would put friends, famiky and all others before us , I was sick of it. He was in a rush to get married after only knowing me a few months. Constant red Flags. He was shallow, selfish, and infatuated and not truly inlove. He was more Obsessed with me and when I finally realized this I was done. I just wish red flags would Have convinced me sooner
@sherristevens3972 Жыл бұрын
Absolutely 💯 AMEN
@ddc9817 Жыл бұрын
This is smart advice.
@gayleanders6248 Жыл бұрын
Exactly
@myself5913 Жыл бұрын
The apostles of Jesus Christ. The truth they told not only made their lives difficult, it literally costed them their lives in brutal ways.
@Its_Edenplayz3 ай бұрын
Not me thinking that's harry potter for .00 seconds 😭