Are You Disappointed With Your Life? (Watch This)

[@michaeldodd9260]

That guy ditching out on his kid is a joke. I spent $500K in lawyers and support payments fighting to be in my daughters life even though her mother had mental disorders and self destructive narcissism. But my daughter was worth every cent. I may never have that sports car I dreamed of, but I have her and her spirit intact. My daughter is better than any other desire I may have had.

[@Hamyhamster24]

You’re a very lucky person to have someone that you love that much. I don’t… so sometimes life feels robotic 😔

[@michaeldodd9260]

@@Hamyhamster24 I found a great deal of solace in awareness. Your purpose in life is to raise your consciousness. You are not your thoughts, ego and emotions, but so much more. All of a sudden the things you thought were important are gone and a real deep joy can come forth. That has carried me through the darkest of dark places and will bring you what you truly seek. Wish you the best Hamy!

[@Hamyhamster24]

@@michaeldodd9260 thanks for your insights. your daughter is really lucky to have you as her father.

[@peachachoo]

Good for you. You sound like a great dad and person. ❤

[@MaryGlover-sx1fl]

@@Hamyhamster24

[@naturalebeing]

John I'm so happy I found your videos. It's not even your advice always, as a single 24 year old with no debt, except the debt I feel to my parents (getting my dad a vintage car one day!) It's just your energy. You exude so much warmth and positivity. So much security.

[@OkiChick302]

Stay strong, Heather. Been there. I'm in a new chapter of my life and I couldn't be happier. You can get there too.

[@jenniferdouglas1740]

I can 100% relate to the teacher. I also teach and I don't feel like I can leave because I feel like I am abandoning them. Many schools, not just public, are struggling with students having serious struggles beyond school/learning. It's hard not to want to help all of them.

[@bffoxjr]

Caller 1's husband sounds like he's full speed into his midlife crisis.

[@BagsNBaguettes_327]

Dr. John, you are heaven sent! We needed you ♥️

[@mariee.5912]

Omg. That teacher made me cry. Please take care of yourself.

[@carolharrell7209]

I can so relate! I used to say I feel like a juice box and everyone has a straw stuck in me and they're all sucking everything out of me. I too am everyone's favorite, the dogs, the cats the kids. I am the one everyone comes to to fix whatever is broken. The funny thing is I also have ADD and I cleaned houses for 21 years!

[@blueseptember2174]

Do you have any tips 😅? This is pretty relatable.

[@candyluna2929]

Wow the teacher. That was so sad. I can now understand why she doesn't want to leave.

[@Donna-C]

Look after you Heather. “She believed she could, so she did”!

[@elainebmack]

Loved your comment about lesson plans. I hated them when I taught English abroad. Lesson plans are a basic outline, but you must be ready to depart from those plans in a heartbeat. You serve the needs of your students in a creative way. It keeps things loose and fluid. This is something Mary needs to feel, now.

[@bevbayb3029]

2:13 - John's response to her greeting 😂😂

[@ijremski1813]

Mary thank you for being a hero daily! Youre an amazing person!

[@elainebmack]

That teacher needs to be real with herself. There are limits to what any one person can do. My mom taught in public school for nearly 35 years, and it put her in an early grave. If you feel unsafe and unsupported, LEAVE! Find another school or change careers. No student, no job is worth sacrificing your life and sense of well-being for. That's the stuff of these bull**** feel good "noble" teacher movies. Dr John is right. You are NOT a social worker/mommy/maid/punching bag clown, smiling no matter how hard you get punched.

[@ritadaniels3175]

I CANNOT WATCH ENTIRE PROGRAM BCOZ I NEED TO GET BUSY... This particular subject could be an ENTIRE WEEK 24/7... MENTAL HEALTH IS A HUGE ISSUE IN OUR WORLD TODAY❣️✨🙏😢

[@rogermarr9067]

Boy that phrase you just said world-class liar.. that just hit hard with me from my own personal reasons and with what you're saying about doing the things I need to do to be well makes me realize that I have not been doing that and why not I guess that's the real question

[@elainenilsson5472]

I had one of those, lol

[@andrajensenartist8933]

I just noticed the Steve Martin album on the shelf. Such a fun picture.

[@theydontknowmeson007]

Happy Friday!

[@Hamyhamster24]

my heart breaks for her...that alot to carry omg.

[@87Mtrujillo]

So much I can relate with the 1st caller

[@peterlee584]

Stay Strong Heather, this too shall pass.

[@amiramahgoub]

I never felt home anywhere, even in my father house. I was alone and no man made me feel safe with him. Nothing was permanent. Moving from place to place, from marriage to another, from language to another one. As soon as I feel safe somewhere it happens that I have to move immediately . I can tell you John that the desire to get married again and be with Him for eternity it scare me sound weird. Bec there's nothing last long with me!

[@alondrasalcedo2495]

Can we talk about why she's wanted to protect something that's been toxic to her for so long?

[@lesliemontagne6797]

We should talk about it! It’s a great question; “why” do we stay in and try to protect what is hurting us to the very core? Dr. Deloney’s show, IMO is about understanding and uncovering the “what’s”, which takes time enough in itself. He does give people insight into what issues in their past or present form current decision-making. And he DOES make clear with many listeners what their unhealthiness looks like, spiritually, physically and emotionally. The “why” we stay in hurt is another whole thesis in itself. This is mostly about fear and insecurity. Fear to learn awareness, fear to assess reality, and fear of action and change. The “why” is as simple and as complicated as culture, family history, family dynamics, what makes us feel safe (healthy or not), and a whole lot more that Dr. Deloney could name off better than me. It would be a long discussion! For people seeking the “why”, I recommend reading “Embracing Fear” by Thom Rutledge. It needed better editing - IMO, but helped me end my destructive life path of a horrendous childhood, addiction, and marriage trauma, as did “Letting Go of Your Ex” by Courtney Warren, PhD. After facing my fear I walked both feet out of that door at age 63. Complex and frightening, yes. The “why” is no simple answer. Best to you all….

[@Your-Average-Jo]

53:37 "I've got a bathe to kid" 😂 I love it!

[@Mathiu_Truhile]

I don't know how many times I bought Ready to Die. One too many.

[@tessaoshea5697]

While teachers are willing to sacrifice themselves to do a job badly that they are not trained to do, the people who can change things will not change them.

[@jasonreid1332]

8 tracks and LP came back too.

[@candyluna2929]

Is the first caller still concerned with how she can help him???

[@holdonC]

Being a teacher and experiencing burnout go hand in hand.

[@Foxie635]

First caller sounds like my marriage. Midlife crisis. He filed for divorce. All of a sudden he wants kids after not wanting them. Also, he is suing me for half the house to get a younger wife.

[@kita3256]

I’m with you about CDs!! 💿 I buy CDs LOL

[@cyn5962]

So do I.

[@swim610]

She needs to stop fixing this man. I see it because I was the same. Very similar. She has betrayl trauma. Hes a crazy maker. Her life is about to improve. I hope she and her son are well and healing.

[@sds6303]

This guy sounds like a huge narcissist. Not taking accountability, lacks empathy, emotionally immature, poor communication. He wants to maintain his image so he blames his partner for why he’s making the bad choices he is. Can’t stay faithful but demands blind loyalty from her. Time for her to move on with her life, she deserves better than him. I also almost guarantee that as soon as she files, he’s going to come crawling back like “Woah woah woah, I didn’t actually mean it!”

[@devin3607]

Gotta say this is the most pro-divorce channel I have ever seen but pretty interesting conversations with a bunch of different characters

[@lonidenham849]

But did Delony sound like Liam neison for a split second there... "This is going to happen," ?

[@priusa8113]

I don’t understand folks who remain married after infidelity… you gotta have very low self esteem:(

[@imnotanalky]

Many couples invest years of effort and experience to build a family. Most people won’t walk away without doing anything they can to save it. Some will try and reconcile to avoid hurting their kids. Some couples do a lot of work and the marriage can end up better than before infidelity.

[@imnotanalky]

@@elainenilsson5472 I think Dr John asked some questions that would allow the caller to understand that her husband has checked out. The husband, in this case, doesn’t seem to want it to work. She could read books or complete counseling, but he is probably still going to leave. It’s sad but true, unfortunately.

[@imnotanalky]

@@elainenilsson5472 I’m so sorry to see that your marriage ended that way. It is selfishness, and it’s very painful.

[@camieparsons695]

A mole is 6.022x10^24

[@BeaBelfastVideos]

Dr. Delony, that a grown up man needs to be told by his (equally working) spouse "what needs to be done" around the house, says a lot about that man. He has eyes to see what needs done. I bet he doesn't need to be told when his car needs washed.

[@emmarose6590]

Exactly. He does the things he wants to do without a problem

[@elainenilsson5472]

Or told that it's time to have sex.

[@jackdeniston59]

What needs to be done, does not need to be done. Grow up yourself.

[@Dbzman-69]

So in regards to the first call, I did feel bad for the woman, but doctor J just made the husband the villain of the movie, she did mention she had mental issues and anxiety I'm sure that played a giant role in his decision to leave and that was never addressed 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@kita3256]

Wrong. Her anxiety and mental health issues could have started because of her husband being so bad to her. He did address it. He said chicken and egg scenario.

[@jeradkiester698]

@@kita3256 yes. Accountability is kryptonite for women.

[@Chalk89]

@@kita3256 It could have been before, or could have been the catalyst to the husband's actions. Either way, seemed like that was completely ignored.

[@LadyMaeloraBeesbury]

Whatever her mental issues are, they couldnt have been as bad as his addiction. If his cheating and antics didn't run her off, why should her mental issues? How selfish

[@elainenilsson5472]

Spoken like someone who sees no wrong with walking out. For better or worse?

[@haolegirl7230]

He's found someone else. All the other things are just an excuse. I wish this was addressed.

[@emelybrito4047]

How does she know her kids have similar trauma as her? I hope she is not seeking these kids out about their issues. Like attracts like. If you ask me she has no boundaries with her students which in the end is going to hurt her and them.

[@MatthewChristianMurray]

April Fools!

[@auroramothergoddess]

Too long make it into bits or at least add time stamps

[@janeddooee]

They upload almost all segments as individual videos on the channel as well as these full episodes

[@mariee.5912]

If you go to the posting info there are timestamps.

[@johniii8147]

No CD's are not coming back..LOL