Are You Even Alive????? [Hello Counselor Sub : ENG,THA / 2018.02.12]

[@chelesehernandez6175]

I'm glad that they blurred the daughter's face because children that age can tend to be very mean and they might make fun of her because of her family problems so I'm glad they protected her.

[@ichaaisyah5387]

Chelese Hernandez agree. It's so true. I feel relieved too. I worry if she get depress more because of the problem.

[@amiracanenglishk5398]

True

[@jekesan4221]

@@ichaaisyah5387 She deserved it being that immature,the family should have just disowned her

[@mailinhbanhu1997]

Jimin has all my Jams. I totally agree with you. Me and my brother grew up in the arms of my parents but my family fell apart when my parents got divorced. My brother has always had problems with drugs and alcohol but my parents never left him. Of course it’s easy to say you can disown your family when you’re angry but you can never totally let go of someone that is your own blood. I’m glad you have supportive parents and that you realized that now.

[@chocoleeknow]

I don't see that they blurred her face?

[@LokiHiddlestone13]

Her having a child and leaving without a care in the world was so frustrating..wow

[@ams1877]

Loki Hid it's not like that.

[@ams1877]

Loki Hid ur not looking through enough. Maybe cos ppl who has been similar situations or had hard times and then trying to look through more only sees it

[@amera-3792]

shes at fault but so the dad who got her pregnant and manipulated her at a young age

[@skullrazor]

She does care, but because she knew her parents would look after her, she felt comforted and acted foolishly to leave and try to pay off the debt she caused of her actions when she was young. Honestly many people will do and have done this mistake, and happy that she realised through talking it out on this show

[@ehangr]

Not really.. You can see the pain and the regret in her eyes when she talked to her daughter

[@Sunnybias]

This girl/woman needs some serious help and therapy - I think the bad people she met had something to do with drugs/gambling or something like that. And it’s clear that is what started it all. Also she is alcoholic. BUT the fact that she came to the show, shows that she really wants to change and wants help so desperately. I feel bad for her. This is very serious. And the effects it has on her daughter is just heartbreaking and a concern also.

[@agnesiakharisma4674]

Sunny.bias i absolutely agree with you. I thought she had serious issue bout her mentality.

[@sihuiwang4706]

still is not right for her to leave her child?

[@angeldennis7042]

no one is saying what she is doing is right, but what i can see is that she REALLY REALLY REALLY needs help. she can't be there for her daughter if she herself is not ok!

[@kkulgang89]

I was thinking the same.. something happened to her and.. mentally she is just not ... she basically seems like she never grew up. I was repeatedly getting extremely mad, but at the same time feeling so sad for her because she needs help.. :S

[@mirakabana7987]

Sunny.bias It’s clear this girl has major chronic depression and probably ADHD, I know that psychological help is taboo in south Korea , but she needs atleast medication and I highly suggest psychological help or she won’t be able to survive and might end up committing suicide. I have a strong feeling what she’s most scared of is feeling like she needs to kill herself to escape.

[@lailaa.82_a]

"you don't have to be married to have a kid" Dongwoo looked so shook

[@AlitaNNika]

Laila Mohiuddin he was too cute and naive really 😄

[@jaemiixx9643]

I dont think he understands the concept of one night stands lmaoo

[@cindys8629]

So innocent :')

[@fiez7240]

public's mindsets like that are the reason why korea become no. 1 in abortion. not saying that she aborted her daughter tho-

[@regcla6667]

He's so precious, someone protect him😭😭😆

[@SHYLE0N]

This episode makes me soo upset and sad.. i hope she keeps her promise.

[@purelysan]

@@sarahs5386 wtf

[@shigonoku0040]

@@sarahs5386 you can't say that :(

[@kimborassecondwife]

This is actually one of the most serious ones I've seen😅 especially after hearing about her daughter

[@suraichii]

I'm everywhere you go Ikr 😂

[@Crisfer05]

I know. And this make me really mad because stupid selfish people should never have kids. I feel so much for the sister too because I have gone trough some things with my family and I know how trapped and stressed she must feel. She cannot completely live her life because of the stupid bitch she has as sister. The family would be better of if she leaves with her debt and bad habits.

[@alyaasyazana1213]

I'm everywhere you go in

[@sumizuki]

ok what you say about the sister is little bit to harsh

[@kamlilmama8573]

Me too. It's a serious and frustrating concern at the same time that makes me feel frustrated.

[@dnahubs]

The fact that she kept complaining about her family and saying she doesn't want to live with them, but then she expects her parents to pay for her debts. And she abandoned her daughter damn it! This might sound callous, but honestly, she ran away. She turned her back on her family. They owe her NOTHING. They should stop paying for her debts. Her not selling her father's jewelry was the only redeeming action.

[@mamayapapaya4599]

Exactly!! She needs to mature and accept responsibilities, because it really doesn't seem she will if she doesn't face reality. Depending on her friends and alcohol is the last thing someone should do because most of the time it ends horribly with both. She is just running away and I feel so bad for the daughter :(

[@diajenglrst]

I think she's mentally ill.

[@jeb284]

Mamaya Papaya Korean laws might force them to pay

[@xumilikesfood7038]

She is really childish

[@oliviasa972]

I think that she was sexually assaulted and have this baby that’s maybe why she seems so scared. She need a psychological help but in korea, going to a psychologist is not really seems good but who cares ? If you are ill go to the doctor, he will help you

[@chalcedonyy]

Her situation is similar to mine. I am still a teenager and both my sister and I are raised by our grandparents. My mother left with another man with four kids and my father, well, he's still around, imprisoned for false accusation, but is with another woman and has a son. Everyone in our house, my grandparents, aunt and uncle, treats us like slaves, telling us things like "You should just sell yourselves so you could earn money" or "Even if you sell yourselves, no one would dare buy you" and even "When your grandparents die, you will either be our housemaid or just go work in a nightclub" which was always said to us when we sometimes do not clean the house or feeling lazy, because we're still just teenagers, we want to socialize and have fun. My grandmother would embarrass us, especially me, at public places, e.g. school, if she doesn't believe what I say or if my grades lowered or if I go home late because of projects but thinks that I've been out with friends. She would beat me in front of a crowd and yell at me. I have always been at the top of my class and what more do they want from me? Us? We tried running away but somehow it doesn't feel right and my grandmother always comes to pick us up. I've thought of cutting myself but I couldn't do it. But my sister did. Seeing her with those cuts made me cry while I was cleaning them. They have gone too far. We have been treated like it was a mistake that we were even born in this world. It's heartbreaking even though we try our best and I know we can have lapses at times. But it's suffocating here, in this house. The woman is lucky to have such understanding parents and she should move back in for the sake of her daughter. Seeing this made me cry because how I wish I could hold my mom again and be with her, get out of my house because everyday is torture. Not a day passes by without the yelling and nagging in this house and I don't know if I can still hold it in. But I should right? One day, I'm gonna get past all of this and have a bright future. Someday. I hope the best for their family.

[@bredstic9836]

I'm really sorry to hear your story and i wish i could help directly... Please just carry on with your life as it is, i know it's hard but please just hang on and stay strong... If your situation is really bad please reach out to someone. Heck, you can even talk to me for that matter. If you want to you can always talk to me, i'll find a way. Helplines are always there too, you can talk to those experts through lines like headspace and kids help line. If not, talk to someone you know, like a teacher or a trusted friend. Please remember that self harm is not the way to go and please don't beat yourself up over your situation, it's obviously not your fault at all. Please tell your sister about this too and help her stay strong as well, you both could support each other. I hope you can live happily one day and i hope that day comes soon. Don't forget about what i said, please reach out to someone if you're having a hard time. If you don't want to contact those helplines please talk to me i'll try my best to help you. I know i'm just a stranger living on the other side of the world... But please, just hang on there, ok? Don't hurt yourself.

[@hikariwhite007]

I just watching this video and read your comment today. It's so heartbreaking to hear that, but please... Don't ever took your own life or hurting yourself. I more than once try hurting my self and do suicide too, but I think it's not making my problem go away, more felt like I'm running away. I believe every problem has its way to be solved, keep encourage your sister to live and you too. You can contact me if you need someone to talk or help, I'm sorry that I can't give you much help. But I'll try my best to help you. Don't lose hope and keep going for your life. Because you and your sister are not alone... You two are so precious, keep encouraging each other to keep living and someday I hope you guys can get your own happiness. You can contact me on email [e-mail] or my instagram: @nadyaputri.s

[@karadeniz4822]

Crystal Root I'm so sorry for all the stuff u went through. I wish I could somehow help u but all I can say is keep holding on. All the the stuff u went through will make u stronger, im sure u will have a better future. Just dont give up. Sometimes we need to wait for brighter days to come, but we also need to do everything we can so that those days can come. Make sure u keep studying so u can get in to great jobs. Some ppl are born and live with luck in this world, but some are born without it and need to make their luck. But this doesnt mean u will always live in misery. In the end it will all be worth it. Just keep holding on. 💙

[@Ana-ms1bx]

Só posso desejar boa sorte, força pra você e para os seus irmãos!!

[@army_eris9th]

I'm so sorry. I'm sure you'll be one of the most beautiful human ever born... after all this, you still talk like this. You seem an angel. I can't help you and this broke my heart. The only things I can offer to you is my friendship and my prayer. Probably you don't belive in my religion, but I want you to know that someone is praying for your happiness everyday from now on. I'm 19 years old and I always felt an hypocritical, now more than ever. I wish you the best. It's not your fault and it'll never be. Love yourself and be happy is the best revenge. You're amazing.

[@MegaElsya]

i think, it's about time for hello counsellor to invite a psychologist/counsellor as well

[@sashia9919]

I heard that they do have one backstage

[@toomacchi]

They actually go through it with them and show if they needed them

[@netsreikarguson4053]

They have it backstage

[@과일-s6o]

@@sashia9919 maybe the psychologist writes some questions for the interviewees?

[@Nasty_Jello]

@@과일-s6oㄹㅇ?

[@zoroslvr]

The *worst* concern

[@KONFUS3D]

Btob daebak agreed

[@joyitadarling5815]

Yeah i just cried. This is sad in every way. :'(

[@lauraj8436]

666 likes......sorry I had to

[@kokomhie1809]

@@lauraj8436 oof

[@moonchxld3829]

along with the one where the father was abusing his wife and daughters and the one where a father kept playing with his sons penis.

[@nl2886]

at first I was angry at her but later I was super upset because she doesn't even realizes what she is doing wrong..... it's so sad and the daughter , I just want to giver her daughter a huge hug :(

[@karengabriella4057]

nino lortkipanidze

[@sahithi8698]

true. she needs help and people are seeing her as selfish not even realising that her life has been traumatic from the get go and she just wants to run away from everything but she's still tied to all the damage she has done to her family. so she's taking things slow so she can make up. i honestly wish the best for her.

[@FawNdhyl]

Yes she may be wrong but I feel like she needs to see a real therapist. This will help her feel a lil better at least. But we cannot deny the chances of it going downhill again soon without proper help. I wish for the best for this family!

[@asyakatie]

It is really sad when dongwoo mentions his late father

[@TT_Hillie]

Ikr😔. I was almost about to cry.

[@TT_Hillie]

@@ssandyrose the one in the pink hoodie. INFINITE's main rapper and main dancer Jang Dongwoo.

[@Rose-jaee]

That 11yo girl they said so mature... she will be very upset as adult realizing she matured too fast.. missing the chances being a kid.. i grew up similarly as her.. being told my face remind them of my father and how they hate him.. tip toeing around uncles and aunts when u hv to ask for favors they hate to do.. staying in their place knowing u r not welcome... crying silently... all this will scar for life.. but once u learn not to self-pity, everything will be just a meaningful experiences that helped u grow.. then hardest to overcome---- comparing your unusual life with peers at very young age, which she have to go through... wish u all the luck in the world

[@Just999Me]

the fact that her daughter is the one telling her/the mom "to be a good girl and listen to her parents" speaks volumes on the situation for both the child, parent & grandparents. it sucks for all parties involved and most have their own issues/fault in the matter except the child of course.

[@ngandang96]

I feel you bud I am very similar I hope the best for you its very important for ppl like us to be positive by ourselves and strong:)

[@angelicbin1713]

I honestly grew up like that as well and it's really stressful to me, I really do hope that she grows up to be the best version of herself and lives a great life, I wish that for all of you as well,,❤️❤️

[@natshu_wakatsu]

I relate with you. Stay strong too :)

[@zorro4406]

I grow up in same situation...and it's hard to grow up.😊

[@marie-eugenieramirez3105]

The moment the dad started crying, I instantly started crying too. Poor parents honestly..

[@asdayunimaimun8788]

It's really a concern. The problem is psychological, in one side the older sister can't take pressure from others or environment, other side the parents takes a hard way treating their daughter. Poor the granddaughter that takes thr hate from her grandparents. The solution is I think that the older sister could start prioritize her daughter, since she is her responsibility. And endure the stress from works, because she needs to pay a lot of debt. If she still can't endure it, there's no solution for it, to make she pay the debt. Since she wants to pay it first. Sorry bad English, and please take no offense.

[@slefevr]

I really started crying after I saw the father crying. When the older sister came in, it looked like he wanted to act like they were already losen up their trust and hope of her. But then he started crying which made me realize, he really still loves her and it looks so much like he’s in emotional pain about seeing her daughter living like that. Everything good to their family!❤️😭

[@eikaameyr5501]

How could u not know ur daughter doesnt like u? U abandon her and left her. This is so frustrating. A 33yrs old acting like this is so selfish.

[@swirlybun9616]

It’s not selfish, rather there’s a mental illness somewhere.

[@baitlord2932]

@@moimoiyoop if you think of it, she didn't have proper education + bad crowd after middle school. Adding the underlying problem from her childhood, don't expect her to develop a good thinking pattern and capabilities. She might be just a middle schooler in a body of a grown woman (with a child) until she learn something valuable from her life.

[@ungegreier1802]

@@moimoiyoop If you only knew what you were talking about...

[@tingle2323]

@@swirlybun9616 well everytime this excuse don't work.. She's gotten that habit

[@sanakizaki7044]

I love Baek Z Young, she gets straight to the point and adresses the concerns in the best way possible.

[@doyouknowosolemio3295]

I somehow can relate to this. I've been run away from home for 3 years now, i only come back when its christmas or lunar new year. Same with her, i cant do regular job, i worked at a night club too, if i stay at home my parents would make me do some regular job in office or factory. But i dont have children, i also never send my bills home so my parent would be the one who pay that, i live in my own without being any burden to anyone. But this lady has a daughter, also she made her parents pay her shits and thats totally not okay, you're grown up woman you should be more responsible and stop saying things like "i need more freedom so i'd prefer to live by myself" NO GIRL, ITS NOT GOING TO WORK THAT WHY!! When you are already a mom, your child should be your number 1 priority, put aside anything about yourself, just focusing in your daughter and act your age!!!!!

[@czareendioquino2248]

👏👏👏

[@czareendioquino2248]

Do you know O Sole Mio? Do you know mamma mia? 😂😂

[@joyitadarling5815]

It's not cool to compare yourself to her. Her perception and behaviors are different from yours because you aren't the same person and didn't experience the same things. Your experience is no reason to be condescending. :/

[@onjawa8295]

Joyita Darling I don't think he/she is condescending because of her personal experiences. I think its because the woman has a daughter whom she abandoned along with a sister and parents who she strapped with jer debt. I understand her need and want for freedom, but because of that she is hurting those around her and holding them back in many ways.

[@somab2051]

I think you should learn from her that loving yourself and making decisions you are proud of is very important. She keeps running away from what is good and long term, and you are too. Maybe youll be the same kind of parent that is driven away from tedious work and commitment. Use this as a learning experience and try to learn to make your investment of effort and time grow. Running away from home or cutting ties from family can make you a lonely person mentally, you might not care about the consequences or destruction of yourself. I dont know your family, but you dont seem to have benefited much if you don't take this freedom as an opportunity to lead your life in a good direction. Much love to you

[@ninascorner_]

This is so sad. Her daughter even had to tell her to grow up. Everyone is suffering because of her actions. Her parents make her daughter cry because they are overwhelmed by the similarities she has with her mother facial wise. It's just not right.

[@nurfarihah7492]

Woohyun is crying😭

[@falsegirl5404]

Nur Farihah when ?

[@nursyafiqah1469]

+False Girl at 23:40 😢😢

[@falsegirl5404]

oh noooo ;-;

[@jessicaarmy-animegirl9454]

Yeah I saw that too 😭😭😭 I cried too

[@shayrah3443]

@@jessicaarmy-animegirl9454 which group is it? They are such sensible kids

[@harundaniel7705]

When will she ever realise that her Daughter is the one who is hurting and in pain? I get that you have debt to pay, but you also have a daughter who is missing out on her childhood...wtf! And it must be frustruating for the grandparents but don't say that you hate your granddaughter just cus she resembles you own daughter. Dats fucked up

[@anisborhan]

Harun Daniel of course

[@chaoticneutralsheep]

Harun Daniel, I don't think she'll ever truly understand her daughters pain, she never got the chance to learn empathy because her own family never let her. They have even turned her daughter against her, just like how the sister uses her as a punching bag, it's all quite frankly a mess, I think it would be better if the daughter went to live with her mother and somehow she would get supported for a few years. Pushing her back with her parents will unfortunately only continue the cycle of abuse.

[@yooh1785]

yeah I agree the grandparent are at fault to but I understand them. when you keep the anger inside and one day it just burst.

[@winwinsonlylinesinboss]

it is fucked up, but in all honesty I would do the same. I wouldn't stand to see my granddaughter's face. all of the built up rage, I wouldn't stand it. its not a good reaction at all, but yet a very human one.

[@rostaroz]

everybody has their own life story, whether it's bad or good. just saying. but dongwoo's expression is the best, he didn't even know that you can have a kid even without married, he's the best! XD

[@nskim450]

I cried after heard her daughter's thoughts and the fact that Woohyun cried too its so heartbreaking 😭😭

[@Morlla234]

when she was talking with her mom I cried 😢 that’s so emotional. She probably loves her mom so much but her mom isn’t making her a priority and that is so sad. My son is my first priority, not even just one of them.

[@btsbangtonboys2290]

So like in the end, when she met her daughter. She didnt look happy or like she was grateful. Its my opinion

[@anushasaeed7419]

bts bangtonboys Sameee I noticed that too.😓

[@dayahsudin5090]

bts bangtonboys but her daughter seems very happy when she meet her mother

[@ScarletSangre]

I think it might have to do with how she was burned, as her expressions seem limited. Possibly due to the scar that she mentioned.

[@xarnies8738]

She seemed not to express much emotion throughout the entire episode. Maybe that’s just how she is, I don’t know

[@catherinewang9183]

bts bangtonboys I think this was a very overwhelming experience and there was still cameras around.

[@TT_Hillie]

When Dongwoo talked about his father, tears fall down. He even wrote song for him. 삼가 고인의 명복을 빕니다 아버님.

[@zeinachlys2580]

my mother left me with my grandparents when i was a year old and she had similar reasons with this woman but i never really understood why. she brags about me to her friends and social media accounts about me receiving medals as the top of my class every year, and her friends praise her without knowing that i never bonded with her and i always think that she doesn't deserve the praises. i am not even comfortable when im with her.

[@FinancialMatter]

I’m imagining how different her life would be if she had good friends growing up...it’s so important to surround yourself with GOOD people throughout your life

[@Yiusyeng]

She cannot accept criticism. It's all about her. so frustrating, she doesn't even care about her daughter

[@sheffieraindriya9056]

Woa, i just really want to apreciate the staff / production team for bring her there

[@menlhamu6637]

One of the best shows in Korea. I still watch the old episodes. It's very nice and relatable with social and family issues🥰

[@kwells1111]

Its sad that the niece is gonna wind up being raised by her aunt and hate her mother. I can only see the oldest daughter changing when their parents are no longer around. And by then it'll be too late; everyone will blame her for her parents death, her child will have trust issue's and the aunt will have to put off getting married to raise her. How selfish can you get?

[@SS-cl2nn]

It’s fine she want to leave and live her own life but don’t send the bills over to you parents house. She knows her parents will pay for it or she will get in trouble. Don’t get pregnant and leave your daughter for you parents to raise. She is selfish and all she wants is to have fun and not have responsibilities.

[@monicevangelista3514]

This is the most serious concern I've watched and this is the first time I cried watching this show

[@natchi5970]

This is my favorite concern. I think about it regularly and watch it every time it comes into my recommended. I truly hope she kept her promise and their family is happier now.

[@jasminelouis1499]

“Pregnant for 100 days “ why is he such a baby lol😂😂😂😂 so cute

[@user-qi9pi7lt3q]

This is the first time I’ve ever cried while watching this show. The moment they told to daughter to talk to the mother and the mother could barely speak back and ask what she was doing I burst out crying. It just broke my heart. I’ve seen so many episodes and this is the very first time I’ve cried.

[@sanakizaki7044]

This concern was.. exhausting. It's probably one of the most serious on the show, I was surprised. It's one thing to make a debt for your old sick parents and still want to drink with friends and not work, because it's hard. It's a whole another thing to also have a child at the age of 11, so mature and understanding. I can't blame her parents for telling the girl they hate her sometimes, they have so much on their heads. They can't even take it out on their own daughter, because she's somewhere living her life. Hope everything was resolved and she does what she said she would, gets a proper job and takes some of that stress of her parents and daughter's shoulders.

[@toniesj11]

Heartbreaking as it is I am somehow glad she finally got some sense in her head. People tend to be selfish sometimes always saying this is what I want but tend to forget their real purpose in life. I hope her daughter grows up well.

[@melklee.05]

This show have taught me alot. How precious moms are,how much our parents worked for us,how cruel parents can be and how ignorant they can be,how precious siblings are,how mean siblings can be,how much people love their friends,how spoilt can a child or your kids can be,how parents discriminate their children and so many other things too....this show needs to come back asap

[@BakersTaste]

Let's all be grateful for how lucky we are after hearing about the truly heartbreaking struggles others endure

[@heonikwan]

I love how she came here to resolve the concern, but In those years she felt suffocated, she could've talked with her family instead of just leave without any reason.

[@vinitakumari7341]

I have nvr seen this kind of case before....I cried jst listening to that kid voice...I hope that kid will get lot of love from her mom nd grow up well.

[@karlaaulia8002]

This is the most complicated case that i’ve ever watched . i think it all started by the parents were not there when she needs them & also at some point she might be sick of all the madness of her parents threw at her but no one hear whats going on in her life she has no one mature enough at that time someone who would listen to her prob. grandparents her and sister all needs change to make better life for one and another , don’t be selfish and compliment even just A tiny change it’ll make it’all better. but i think she do need doctor to just opens up and clear of her head.

[@mikailagray]

Karla Aulia I agree she clearly feels bad for leaving but it's like she can't help but want to escape....

[@anti-perceptionofrealitysu5257]

It's not that the parents were not there. It's that they couldn't be there. Couldn't and just not being there is very different.

[@bchang227]

The parents worked hard to provide for their kids. How are the parents to blame?

[@midoritea4413]

You can't let something like that define your future-- her parents did the best they could to give their daughters a chance at something better. She needs to grow up, and take care of her damn priorities. How can you let your parents, whom are clearly struggling to raise a child you left behind at 3 years old, pay $10,000 of YOUR debt?! Ridiculous

[@paulinawinter8188]

Her lil sister who living in the same condition is doing fine tho

[@Kim-_-JH]

언니의 행동은 가족이라ㅡ볼수가 없는것 같아요

[@azazleue]

Her mom is trying so hard not to cry. I just want to hug her tbh

[@jenl6470]

i have watched this show for so long now and this is one of the first concerns that have actually made me cry. The way that she treats her family is just so rude, especially her daughter. I get that she had her at a young age but she's 33 now! She is more than old enough to be responsible of her daughter. All she wants is to have fun. She's been doing that since her teenage years, when is it ever going to be enough? She's just being selfish and immature at this point in life. She still makes excuses to run away from her responsibilities and doesn't want to do anything apart for fuck around. It makes me so mad. Even her daughter is more mature that her, i swear. ANd her poor parents? Gosh they are so sick and are going through so much that they even want to kill themselves! Is this how you're supposed to treat people who brought you up and only wanted the best for you??? I'm so done with her and i get that she wants to change but i honestly do not think that she will. best of luck to her family. If you actually read through this, God bless you and sorry for wasting your time.

[@menen3804]

The most concerning concern ever! I cried. And it’s not easy to make me cry.

[@cconyap]

With them crying i can feel their deep longing and care for her no matter how frustrating she is to them 😔

[@crystalmethany2682]

I'm actually curious to the reason why she ran

[@maride95]

She said she meet bad people, so she was probably influenced? When you feel like nobody loves you, whoever comes with a tiny bit more seems like the best person you ever meet and you fall for things easily.

[@eggchi5159]

Mariana Yeah and besides, even if she had a good and loving family, the bad friends will trick her into thinking nothing or nobody cares for her and shit.

[@Knapek27]

Her father, probably. He looks very strict and seems to get easily angry. As her mother wasn't often at home, the father was in charge to take care about them. She probably had to take care about the home, herself and her younger sister by herself. They mentioned she got often beaten and felt lonely so she maybe just felt betrayed by her family, because they were supposed to love her.

[@ihavenoidea8179]

she just wanna have fun and be free

[@jeb284]

Her sister said that she was really naïvely nice before all the bad friends. Listening to some of the story, she also properly has issues with addiction

[@joylee6976]

WOOHYUN COULDN'T SAY ANYTHING PROBABLY BCOS OF ANGER AND DISBELIEF

[@lworc]

he cried though

[@bosbosloo780]

I cry is much... as a mom I don’t think I can ever separated from my child. God bless them.

[@cindie_laira]

"When do you miss your mom?" "Whenever it rains after school, and i don't have an umbrella, i have to walk home by myself." THIS IS SO SAD 😭😭😭

[@shampuu7623]

The fact that people are justifying the sisters actions actually baffle me. I know in American society kids can act out and it's just considered normal and "a part of growing" but this is to another level and people defending her is pissing me off. Not only is she selfish to the end but her actions affect her child and family. Her parents health should be number one along with being there for her daughter yet she cares about only herself. Don't try to justify these selfish childish behaviors by talking about her sister "being mean" to her. I honestly feel so bad for the parents and daughter. They are so forgiving because I would be upset to see her.

[@suzychocolate7]

thank you, someone finally said it. even if we presume that she has a mental issue, that doesn't mean that it would control her actions and let her do bad things. she is a grown up woman, even with mental issues, what's wrong is wrong. she had a bad childhood, most of us did, she should just grow out of it and move on since she cannot change the past. she can change her future if she is really willing to, but she seems to be the kind of person who leads a carefree life and runs away when responsibilities emerge. she has no shred of guilt or remorse in her eyes, and I bet she's never gonna change because she doesn't want to.

[@alexstone3156]

Exactly! She just don't want to tied down to any responsibility be it parents or her own daughter. It is almost like they are there to pay my bills, why should I care. I can just enjoy my self. I was really pissed with her arguments. About her sister being mean, man are there even a single pair of siblings who doesn't fight or say mean words to each other in their young age? About their parents being out, was she alone in the situation? no the younger sister had the same situation.

[@margaridamendes8382]

No one here is saying that it was okay for her to do what she did, however her behaviour is not normal, and people don't just wake up one day and decide to leave their lives just like that, there is always a reason for that, wether it is mental problems, drugs or a disfunctional family life that can cause trauma. When we watch these types of shows we don't get the full extent of the problem, so how can we make preconcieved judgments about who is at fault here? Once again, not saying that what she did was okay, but we need to try and understand her actions and get to the root of the problem so she can be helped.

[@HisSnuggleBear18]

Don't say "American" because that makes the same crap that others says about "Koreans are/do" true too then. I'm American and the older sister is a selfish brat. As a mother, I could never do any of the things she's done. I understand the cultural difference.

[@caitthecat]

@@alexstone3156 Yes, just grow out of mental illness! Cuz that's how it works...?

[@cananyonetellmethesizeofwo7920]

I can't blame her of being that immature that was a psychological issue and most people can't really overcome it no matter how we see ourself normal. She really needs a counseling. Though on the other hand , the reality is whether the world is cruel or kind some people do good things while some people don't. Its weird that how could it be that some people can't do well instead even its good or bad.

[@chabannat9795]

Low self esteem, poor communication with family members, alchohol = digressions in life. She needs more than a show. I really hope that after these stories the production crew actually recommend these people professional therapists to further aid them

[@pitoukeo4867]

For the work that the MCs and guests have done on this case and others, I salute them

[@flover127]

i watched a lot episodes of hello counselor and sometimes cried but this ep was the most sad its so painful to see what the family had been going through bcs of her and especially for her daughter she needs her mom the most at that age. I hope they become a happy family now as they used to

[@bhemochiiaa]

I've been watching Hello counselor for years and this is the first time I've ever cry. ah~ I do hope she's going to come home after this month.

[@superlazy0uo995]

It’s so heartbreaking to see a bunch of people on the shoot crying. I’ve never seen so many people cry before in one hey counselor video.

[@Amelia-qd2kf]

they should have a part 2 to this I wanna know if the family is doing okay I can't help but feel so bad for them.

[@saidaabdulaziiz3327]

The most painful hello counselor segment i have ever come across, i can stop shedding tears althrough the video. Family is painful things, its your strength and weakness. I love my family and can do everything for their sake. I wish evelasting happiness for this family and to be honest i really hoped one of these celebrities to support this family financially (maybe they did it in private who knows) although their problems lies greater than money.

[@ashleighthompsoneyre1918]

This hit so close to home its unreal. I was in tears the while time 😢

[@athirah_y4412]

They were really brave to shared their problem on TV.. Not everyone can do this..

[@deborahpark3429]

돌아갈 곳이 있다는 것에 감사하시길 바래요..

[@eya_jjk1672]

I cried a lot, Since i'm the eldest, I want the best for my parents and for my little brother I want to make them proud of me I promised them that i would study hard and achieve my dream job and i would help my brother finish his studies and achieve his dream too Watching this makes me really upset of how her older sister did to them

[@baurlia4043]

She's crazy, leaving home withount any words and come to program tv after 5 years

[@Bro-tl1ev]

I cry so many times while watching this show. There are so many broken hearts it just sucks

[@winterpang641]

Watched this a second time and still cry along when the dad cried :'(

[@KatieBudd]

It seems like she liked the freedom from everyday life she got when she ran away, but clearly she’s got herself in a complete mess. But when she had her daughter she started to get back on track and stuck around for 3 years, but sabotaged herself and left again. From what she’s said it seems like she feels like a burden to her family, but instead of trying to change and turn things around she just carried on with the way she was living. I hope this has given her the push to change things and the family becomes closer.

[@retasalsabila1263]

this is the first time i cry while watching hello counselor...

[@sintagasella6137]

Everytime I come back here, I can’t hold my tears. I hope they resolve everything and live happily.

[@ithilgreenleaf8184]

This is so upsetting. There was obviously a deeper reason as to why she doesn't want to be with her parents, than just wanting to enjoy her life. I hope she seeks professional help to guide her through her pain and struggles. Her father being abusive, may have caused her to be traumatized for ever wanting to be in the same house, or even room, as them. Plus she experienced too much pain when she was young, from the people that lived in that area. Hopefully she manages to find a good paying job and pay off her dept, then she could afford to live, with her daughter, somewhere away from her parents (because they seem to be the underlying problem).

[@hummingmoon7128]

Who is that innocent boy who asked you can have child and not married ,he is understanding,when he said i miss my father you should realize before its too late am a fan of him 😍 he is genuine

[@winnie37]

That's Dongwoo from boy-band INFINITE🥰 Hope you'll check him out for sure

[@hummingmoon7128]

@@winnie37 sure i will 🤗❤

[@meganwilliams7129]

Even though what the big sister does is not okay, I feel like she needs to get her mental health right before parenting her daughter again. How do y'all expect her to take care of her daughter when she is struggling mentally herself. That would probably make the situation worse for the both of them. She obviously needs to get herself mentally and also financially together before she starts to properly raise her child. I don't think she is a horrible mom, yeah leaving your child is not okay, but I understand giving how the mom is mentally. You can tell she cares on the inside, but whatever happened to her as a child that made her run away affected her so much that she keeps doing it to this day is something that should be seriously focused on. There is obviously something deeper going on between this family if it cause that girl to become like this. I mean that dad beat her and scolded her to get her to stay which only made it worse if she can't stand to be around them at all.

[@sahithi8698]

this !

[@namjoonswhite-stripedcrab]

How happy her daughter was to hear her mom was coming home at the end of the month and made her her pinky promise...sadly, I have zero faith that mom actually will. Poor family.

[@KONFUS3D]

No doubt she's probably gonna run away in 1 month probably feeling suffocated.

[@vaniaclaressy6486]

I'm crying while watching this I hope they're happy now and can solve their problem together.

[@yang567]

ACTUALLY HER PARENTS ARE SO LOVELY. THEY WERE NOT HOME BECAUSE THEY WERE WORKING HARD TO MAKE ENDS MEET, SHE SHOULD TRY TO UNDERSTAND HER PARENTS. THEY WERE DOING EVERYTHING THAT THEY CAN.

[@jkuyfkil]

진짜 맏딸이 저러면 마음이 무너지지 부모님 입장으로서...어휴 언니분 정신차리고 가족한테 잘하세요 나같으면 호적팠다

[@TrieNingtyasHapsari]

Wahhh I think this is the most serious concert as long as I watch Hello counselor. Idk why ppl keep thinking and their own life when they have a children. I can understand what she felt but I'm sure that she could do better ❤

[@Rorita_Animator]

well i know someone who is really close to me has the same problem ....her mother left her with her grandmother and grandfather and now she is17 ...she is so cheerful and happy and she Really Love her grandfather and grandmother and even if her mother didnt come back ...she is not sad...i really love her and wish for her a happy life without worry about anything .... i wish all people that have the same problem to be stronge ....

[@madrisa4]

It's obvious she's depressed about her looks and not receiving as much love as her younger sister. It also seems like when she's home her family teases her about her faults, I understand how she feels in that regards. Her family shouldn't be badmouthing her in front of her daughter, no matter how much of a headache she is. It causes her daughter to not want to be close to her and also have no respect for her. The sister definitely needs therapy, but from what we see in Korean culture, they tend to be aggressive or blame the person for feeling the way they do.

[@ligayalam2680]

But she must not waste her life for that reason alone. She must show to them how strong, beautiful and loving she is. And she even get herself pregnant. WTF.

[@farhanaifnt9670]

I think I cried so much on this concern. This is the serious concern ever I've watched.

[@navyasanthosh6331]

This is a really serious concern that they can't joke about. I hope this family does well and survive!

[@LunaCidnie]

She reminds me of my step-sister and for the reason alone I don’t know if I have any faith that she will change. Best of luck to her and her poor daughter who suffers the most in all this.

[@katherinerodriguez7402]

This is one of the strongest cases I have seen in this show

[@hudarsd]

Pity every one in this family. Everyone is depressed because of one person. I'm mad with her but she's also living a lonely life, and she gets stressed for over thinking about all her mistakes. She's afraid to go home because of the problems she made. I'm so glad that her sister came to this show and try to solve everything. I'm also glad that this show exists to help people out with their problems.

[@jongsunkim5097]

엄마보니 아직 멀었네 철듢었으면 목소리 듣는 순간 눈물터젔을꺼다

[@Sumolate]

รายการดีมาก ขอบคุณคนทีาแปลชับไทยให้อ่านนะคะ

[@jwehope]

she needs some serious counseling and rehabilitation. her chances of relapse are extremely high considering how long she's been in this cycle. it's a sad story all around.

[@ArmyAngel_BTS]

I lost my mom 2.5 years ago from cancer and I feel as if I failed her but living so far away. I only had 4 days with her befo3she died. Plz be better mother, sister, daughter before its too late. I beg of you

[@yassaini2443]

I feel tired after watching this..this is the most upsetting concern..she needs serious help..

[@meilanyanugrah4789]

Wow. She doesn't even realize how great her family is. Lucky she's korean, if she were an Indonesian, her family would have cut her off from the family registry and announced it in the newspaper.

[@jessicamars1281]

Oh God !! Have mercy for this family !! I cry like a river !!! The daughter oh gosh

[@neno9186]

She's doing it for 20 years..how can you expect her to change only in one day

[@sahrathiriet8523]

I actually understand the older sister as I felt quite similar and had this kind of experience when i was younger, but when you grow up you change your idea. Once you leave the home you get some responsability and looking back you understand that it should have been difficult for your parents too, even if they fail they tried their best raising you. You can let go of old grudges this way

[@keyshawilliams1445]

this was deep> i really hope that she went home at the end of the month and got herself together. i cried this whole video.