Are you in the wrong relationship? Q/A with Stephan Speaks

Tune in as Alana and Madison ask Author and Relationship expert, Stephan Speaks questions ranging from healing, cheating, childhood trauma and more. In this episode the girls dive deep in getting insight on what Stephan Speaks has to say on what it takes to be a good partner, how to heal rooted wounds, and growing your relationship with God.

[@1trudiva]

Stephan speaks is what brought me here……thank you man of God ❤

[@ms.boogie8132]

That inner work should be done before you get into a relationship. In the relationship, it should be maintaining the progress you have made.

[@dianaross1055]

amazing 😍 video 👑 you continue to put out wisdom, truth and honesty in knowing the true reality of life. grateful to be able to hear and watch, the young ladies, they had good questions and you gave it 🙏🏼 with honesty 💜 and realness ✊🏼 another best video. I really appreciate you, beloved 😍 🤗

[@andreeaistrate2222]

This video is exactly what I needed to hear. I’m with my boyfriend for 2 years and I always struggled feeling worthy for him and often times very uncomfortable with him because of my wounds. I love him so much and I was always scared whether we will still be working when I’ll heal as is really hard to build a healthy relationship when I’m not healed yet.

[@danilaroche1156]

Soul ties. You won't heal if your sleeping together .

[@lydiajohnson3116]

You’re amazing thank you for your great videos . I have learned so much just by listening to your coaching . I pray someday God leads me to a better understanding and wonderful relationships.💗

[@nanae123]

Does he even have a successful relationship!?

[@rhondacummings]

I wonder why he never answered this question, cause Stephan has been asked this numerous times.

[@mhamilton4547]

@@rhondacummings maybe he hasn’t found the one yet

[@rhondacummings]

Maybe he has not, it's amazing he speaks well of relationships and marriages, maybe he gets full attention from all of his followers and see no reason for a life time partner.

[@renaidaleito703]

He have his own channel. On this channel he sas that he don't have partner yet because he have not find "THE ONE"

[@ms.boogie8132]

No. He said he is waiting on God to bring her to him. That is the opposite of what Proverbs 18:22 says.

[@xyo383]

Y’all so fixiated on this man weakness’s because his facts are too compelling to be true lol

[@RacilleAshley-sf7yv]

🙏. TRUST GOD..

[@madisonjones4576]

Amen!

[@danilaroche1156]

My feeling is he wants perfection. He's surrounded with beautiful Christian ladies. Tons. He has issues.

[@sportsport1654]

Well I don't give a fuck anymore one it's life just live it

[@danilaroche1156]

Stop cussing. Your bitter.

[@sandracrump]

I think he’s intelligent but I can’t get into him or catch his vibe! He’s so secretive and we never know if he’s successful in his relationships. Maybe it’s his purpose to help others but his life doesn’t reflect it.

[@citysk]

I watched his interview with Breeny Lee where he responds to her question of if he was once married. When asked what went wrong, he didnt want to talk about it..that totally threw me off for a loop. Ever since I've always looked at him sideways as others like Dear Wifey are very open about what went wrong in his marraige. Didn't get why the hush hush with Stephan.

[@rhondacummings]

My same thoughts too

[@Rondo312]

Why must we always know the personal lives of relationship coaches especially black men. I rarely hear people questioning female coaches who are presumed single. They’re just looked at as independent and empowered. Stephan has made his purpose to help people understand relationships better particularly from a positive Christian standpoint. He gives good sound advise. What is there to question?

[@christieann1259]

@@Rondo312 Thank you ! You conveyed my thoughts exactly, people get so caught up in the messenger and don’t focus on the message.

[@TomikaKelly]

Why does it even matter? Does his advice work or nah?

[@taytalkss7593]

this was amazing, thank you!

[@marygranke204]

Babies are born sinless. Yes babies are born into a world of sin, but babies and small children are innocent and sinless until the child becomes aware that they are sinning.

[@danilaroche1156]

Stephan is jive. Sorry ...

[@zinobiapillay9018]

19:00 on point....Love is Love.

[@surindermangat9732]

These books are a great gift idea 👍

[@Rico-RR]

Dope interview

[@dama_shares]

Yes! What a great conversation, Girl Connect. This is all so refreshing & ladies...your questions and statements are on point in addition to your stunning beauty. I love how authentic this presentation is. I love things like this and how it's a safe space to discuss real-life issues, even as people who have some kind of faith in God. Stephan is also outstanding. All of his content has balanced teaching delivered in an intelligent, relatable, compassionate & encouraging style. Even when topics are challenging or uncomfortable, it's hard not to feel uplifted by the time the presentation ends. Stephan is surely the friend, big brother, uncle, cousin & father figure that so many people may need. What a blessing. Time listening to and watching Stephan's content is never wasted. Word!!

[@girlconnect]

Such kind words. Thank you so much for this message! ☺️

[@dama_shares]

@@girlconnect You're Absolutely Welcome! Have a safe and enjoyable Winter 2022.

[@jayc5756]

Yeah, he's great. Always gives out great advice.

[@Lesah_]

All this relationship advice BUT you have no wife. Something is getting weird?

[@KaraBahama]

Why does he have to be married. Dating advice is dating advice and we have different types of relatiknships

[@Lesah_]

@@KaraBahama america have no code/order/ culture, no-one have to do anything, its the anything goes show but, would you take financial advice from a person who have no finance??

[@citysk]

@@Lesah_ he was once married but now divorced. Listen to his interview with Breeny Lee.

[@zeal4god402]

Stephan stated once he gets the confirmation from God that a particular woman is the one he should pursue, he will proceed, until then he is in the waiting process

[@simonehigginson4165]

@@zeal4god402 Exactly & Well said

[@alanarenick5831]

Love this

[@zeal4god402]

Excellent show ladies, great job for bringing on a master coach. I pray your influence continues to grow exponentially 🔥 🔥 🔥 I would love to connect and communicate personally with Alana

[@simonehigginson4165]

Awesome A/Q episode.....Thanks for sharing.

[@tamaramoore6069]

Okay now I got a better understand how things supposed to go okay I'm cool I can still stick it out staying strong by the side by my man I love my man I love my man I'm to the end

[@JM-mq1bt]

Yeah, leave when she takes half of your money… I mean who needs money today? Thats overrated anyway…

[@kimberlywright4988]

Oh y'all had to play my Burna Boy I'm done.

[@tyreeduncan5866]

Yes I need to be dating Travis outlaw

[@lizmy606]

Awesome

[@Jayee9999]

I find it interesting Stephon that you say you’re Christian in the Bible believers with the basis for divorce that you give being that happy is nowhere to be found in the Bible.

[@simonehigginson4165]

Huh???