"As a Single Mom, Don't Date Single Mothers..." Woman Warns Men, Says They Will Always Regret This

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[@whyworkwhenicanrap6830]

Facts

[@jojojohnson227]

Us men take care of our own not anybody else’s or play sugar daddy 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@dylanhill1640]

My father told me at 13 years old to stay away from single mothers at all cost. His advice has saved my money, time , and mental anguish.

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

How do you work that out if you never did it? That’s just assuming Not all women are gold diggers so not everything is a financial loss And you’ll never know lost time if you’ve never had a relationship with someone who may just have been the right one for you - that seems like a lot of a waste of time for me - and then to add that it’s like you’re saying those kids don’t deserve a dad - that seems akin to me that no adopted kids deserve the family they received either. Everyone deserves love and love can come from some of the most amazing places

[@dylanhill1640]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 There are plenty of simps and son husbands who will take care of you. I learn from others and don't have to try Fentanyl to know it will kill you. I have peace of mind and a great family thanks to the advice my father gave me.

[@antoniobattle2036]

Absolutely , you don't need to stick your hand in fire to know what it feels like to get burned... Also l would advise men who have children of their own to also not date single mothers. A man with children should invest his time & finances in his own children. Never invest in another man's legacy when you have your own. .

[@ClintParker-xy3rg]

Dude women that don't have kids ain't ish,,,,it's even worse for the ones who do have them,,, picture that...

[@dylanhill1640]

@@ClintParker-xy3rg All I can say is that the wisdom that my father shared with me has positively impacted my life. I have passed on the same to my children.

[@miguellorenzo3609]

I married a single mom. It was one of the worst decisions I ever made in life..

[@williamosborne2531]

The same thing happened to me and I know now that, it was the worst decision I've ever made in my life!

[@chemicalflame24]

Dam

[@professionalpookie]

Loser

[@michaelfalu4590]

Why?

[@motorcitygarage2351]

Bro. I didn't marry a single mom. I had a kid with them. Worst decision ever. My life completely changed. And her kid never really liked me like that. It was a straight disaster

[@Cyber-Rain]

Ask these same women if they would want their sons dating/marrying a single mother.

[@brianlauderdale7840]

That's the question of the year ? I love it...

[@blaclabel4762]

Some would say yes only because they are..

[@aquarianrain9082]

As a single mother...I would not want my CHILDLESS son dating a single mother. However, if he ALREADY had children...I would have no issue with it, as long as she is a good woman. I am a huge proponent of ppl with children dating other ppl with children. If you don't have children...date other people who do not have children. I never desired to date a man with NO children as a woman with children. That is my preference. Men with children tend to be better with children. This is not a hard question, and is quite simple really.

[@gina468]

As a mother of a son. Nope. I would not want my son to marry a single mother.

[@shane-ft1ol]

No & I have 2 sons

[@Mrjonezzz]

Had a potna who dated a single mom. Her daughter lied and said he touched her. She eventually admitted she lied but he never got his reputation back. He ended up leaving town to start over.

[@LadyK007]

😮

[@Mr.Edwards233]

Damn that's rough. That was one thing that I always feared in dating a single mom especially with a daughter, that child can say anything false at any point and it can turn a man's world upside down.

[@fudgematthew33]

What can the daughter do? Say, "I'm sorry"? "My bad. I was on one that day"? She can't. The damage she caused can't be undone.

[@BlocoBlow]

One of my biggest fears and reasons to stay away from women with kids. People play dirty games

[@ChronxxTrapFlap]

Damn😮

[@GEMINIRED300]

I am so glad I took my stepdaddy L early, learned self respect and said hell no to every other baggage deal I was approached with.

[@Techgunius]

At this point of my life, im at the just sit back and watch people suffer stage; no one wants to listen, everyone just wants the pain.

[@dirtysouthg4l]

😂😂

[@Floreatmajestus]

Yikes

[@Avenue77]

It makes sense though lol...I been doing that for a few yrs now...they only care about money, trips, scrolling on their phones, eating constantly and not getting to know you

[@Wainguapo718]

Damn me too. I thought it was an old bitter man thing lol

[@shawnsimon6574]

Same 😂😂

[@RosaX305]

I met my husband at 39. The FIRST question he asked me was “how many kids do you have.” He was so relieved when I said “none” that he screamed out “Thank God, because I really didn't want to have to walk away from you!” 😂

[@ymarley1180]

😅😅😅

[@IndieRockerG]

You must’ve looked so good he was shitting bricks before you answered lol

[@RosaX305]

@@IndieRockerG 😂😂

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

I 100% Agree with you... No man with an OUNCE of self-respect would date a single mother.

[@SouthernRebels94]

​@@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206that's not true I have self respect and I've dated single moms before and I loved her kids and treated them like they where my own kids. Even tho we are no longer dating because of personal reasons due to moving I still stay in contact with her as friends now but I never once had any bad experiences with dating a single mom. If you truely love the person you wouldn't care if the person has a child.

[@ernstjacques2056]

I've dated 1 single mom by far the worst dating situation I've ever been in.

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

Well that’s her - that’s not all women of all time and in all the world- just like all men aren’t exactly like you

[@ernstjacques2056]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 naw single mothers are selfish in relationships.

[@dancleary4101]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 the marriage rate for SM is less than 10%. Why do you think that is?…

[@dennisjohnson7139]

​@@angelika_munkastrap4634 I've dated women all my life with kids. It can be a thankless job. I don't regret it but it's not easy

[@jackjohnson6230]

​@@angelika_munkastrap4634cope some more Its not worth it for a man to date or marry a single mum In fact marriage is not worth it full stop foe men

[@Noparole75]

Leave single mothers alone brothers???? Get your own with your name on it 😉😉😉

[@rellb3480]

Best advice 💯

[@SixtyYears]

Most people be simping for single mothers so it’s hard. They won’t listen until they realize they’re being used.

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

Wow you really hate women hey? I don’t even know what to think hearing modern men say this except you clearly have never met any real real women Those who’d die for you - who’d lay down all they have and are for you And that’s sad

[@dmoneydmoney6050]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@angelika_munkastrap4634single mother means they didn’t pick correctly(does not think clearly). They robbed their kids of a father. If they would not die for their kids father they would not die for anyone else. Women like that are disasters.

[@shabba7829]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 Not wanting to date a single mother means he hates women? You do realise not every woman is a single mother, right?

[@douglasbryant9571]

All day, every day it's the "unreal" Women that's outside bitchin and moanin to anyone who'll listen about how hard it is to find good men... But as soon as Men vent about the pain in the ass hoops we're expected to jump through, just for the "privilege" of dating a Baby Mama, we're called "women haters". Any halfway decent lookin woman can "get" a "NICE Guy" to have fun and play games with. The "REAL" ones are the women who get chosen for MARRIAGE and KEEP the "GOOD Men". Big Difference. I hate to break it to you but the hypocrisy and SIGN Language coming from the Sistahood is tired, it's old and it's annoying AF. "Buy a dog and die alone" RIP Kevin Samuels.

[@WacoBeautyQueen]

I had to knock some sense into my younger brother so he would stop dating his ratchet, toxic baby mama ex-gf. Luckily he got out before he got her pregnant but unfortunately I think that trick was the one that gave him herpes.

[@Saveahorse82]

I dated a single mother. Worest decision ever. She was widowed. It was a trama bond. I was trying to give her what my mom never had and i was trying to give her son what i never had. It is 100% weak. Of course she begged to move in with me then instantly quit her job. I kicked her out and by the grace of god i never put hands on her. She begged for money every day.

[@darrendyson8347]

Damn pimp sorry to hear that 💯. Why everyday though?? Why does she quit her job what did she say? Did the father tell you something and warn you?

[@CobraR1993]

Years ago, I met a business colleague who just got married. A few weeks after their honeymoon, his wife quit her job and got pregnant by him. As he told me, that wasn’t the plan BEFORE they got married. They lived in a high cost of living area and he needed her income also so they could live comfortably but she just quit her job and made all the bills his problem. She didn't even clean, he had to hire a maid once a week to clean their condo. That was one of the early intros to stay single. Women do a bait and switch

[@morristhompson9189]

@@CobraR1993 Damn, I am currently am on-again, off again with a single mom, BUT, whenever she wants me to seal the deal...something tells me to don't do it. You guys stories are backing up my fears...

[@w3n33dam1racl3]

​@CobraR1993 that's horrible! But there are men who complain about his wife keeping her job and continuing to work.

[@tottryship5608]

​@@CobraR1993Lol, dang. That was a real situation and can happen to anyone though.

[@tomhare8740]

I married a single mom and I paid 40k to divorce her after 10 years. She was a narcissist and cleaned out my savings!

[@jayglenn82]

Going through something similar now married 10 years as well

[@tomhare8740]

@@jayglenn82 Hang in there, there is a light at the end of the tunnel

[@1mikesofocused42]

Damn bro

[@DD-es6qd]

She also might of had bpd

[@harlemstream6062]

You too. I married a narcissist also. Terrible mistake

[@cezz1105]

Kevin Samuels said this years ago. And they called him a chauvinist pig! 🙄

[@Chazzabox1]

As a woman my dad told my brother this 15 years ago when he started dating a single mom. It made all the sense to me, I really don’t know what the push back is from woman when it makes so much sense. Growing up in an African household it felt like this was just obvious. But my brother was 18 and thinking with his you know what so I give him grace for that. Unfortunately he didn’t listen. That decision should be haunting him cause it was everything bad that we all said it would be, and because of his daughter he is stuck with this woman and her toxic family forever.

[@KlubMila0124]

I was a single mom and my husband had no kids. Almost 11 yrs later, we are still together and have one child together. I understand that we are the exception, not the rule. My son is now 15 and i tell him to NEVER get with a single mom or a girl with daddy issues. Nothing against the girl/woman but I have a son to protect and I understand that not all women are like me. Stay safe out there, guys! ❤

[@breaks3085]

How do you know when a girl has daddy issues

[@nwaeze]

Your husband is a simp and part of the problem

[@Johnyrocket70]

Always ask a woman about their relationship with their parents. Parents know them best

[@skello4105]

Not all women are like you huh 🤣🤣 You funny lady!!

[@zapgroupllc]

Russian? Russian women take relationship seriously.

[@DB57RB]

Most women have absolutely no problem being dishonest if they think it will benefit them. They freak out when ppl say don't date single moms because that either is them, or they're terrified that might be them one day. They know it's a stupid move for men to do that but the vast majority will never admit it. Good on this woman for being honest.

[@bonnydaise8112]

You have go to be crazy man or woman to date or marry someone with multiple children and baby mamas and daddys

[@Mr.Edwards233]

All you have to do, ask them would they let their sons do that; watch the reactions.

[@CobraR1993]

The woman in the video still has an angle. She's telling what men want to hear or telling the truth for once so she can get views. Women who have uncommon views or viewpoints that are support men's beliefs gets lots of views.

[@tobiakilo3413]

​@@CobraR1993 she is making a lot of sense, angle or not

[@m2goofy760]

​@Mr.Edwards233 what's really fk'd up is them wemons who will say they would encourage their sons to do exactly that, and put the "sista-hood" above her own flesh and blood. How broken and selfish do you have to be to wish that on your own child...

[@sonicck]

Anton you ain’t never lying about this it’s crazy for a man to do such, I have a friend that went through this with a redbone with twins and the kids disrespected him and when he wanted to check them the mom felt some type of way about and the kids father had something to say about it so he ended up ending that relationship and ended up finding a women with no kids and created a family with her and he’s good to go now. Absolutely correct

[@LBAB4]

I feel him. I’m a woman but married a single father. Same issues. He feels some kind of way about me bringing up discipline. His kids know it and manipulate him against me. He takes their side every time. Our marriage may not last long. You’re better off finding people without kids if you don’t have any.

[@Chazzabox1]

@@LBAB4Agreed it goes both ways. But most likely than not the kids are with the moms and the dads are weekend parents so the new woman doesn’t have as much interaction, but if he is solely with the kids, the same problems arise. Good luck on your marriage.

[@LBAB4]

@@Chazzabox1 same problems arise regardless of time. A child isn’t going to act differently or be disciplined differently just because they are with you less. That’s not a thing. Not all dads are weekend dads. Custody split 50/50 in this case.

[@jfleurantus05]

Anton, You could not be more correct!!! I dated a single mother of two kids for nine years. I grew to love them as they were my own. After an argument, she snapped her fingers and kicked me out of their lives. Six months later, the pain is still too great to talk about consistently. My dad and friends warned me, but I had to learn the hard way. I don't have kids yet, but I plan to one day. Fellas don't be me and avoid the pain.

[@cometogetherlikevoltron1230]

She used you until the kids where at an age that she didn’t need you anymore.

[@jfleurantus05]

@@cometogetherlikevoltron1230 Agreed! The best part is that I lost an additional 40 pounds and am in the best shape of my life. Make more money and have more women in my DMs. There is a Bright future ahead, and there is tons of wasted time to make up!

[@tottryship5608]

That's messed up... But not all are the same. But yeah it's not worth the risk for the most part.

[@rainbowmustang]

You can't say as if they're your own But sorry. And good luck

[@Eaglesbchamps2025]

It is silly. A single mom regardless of look’s shouldn’t be your first choice if you are a childless man. If you were to date a single mom who has 1 kid while you have 0 kids. That woman better check every single box and create 5 new boxes to check off

[@m2goofy760]

Nah, never consider them for anything but practice. Put the work in and get your stroke dialed in, then find you someone worthy of risking your future with and who isn't bringing you another man's pre-built family. If you feel some type of way, like you are "using her", pay that no nevermind, cause she is trying to use you.

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

MAN STRAIGHT FACTS 💯👍

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

​@@m2goofy760preach! 😂

[@Mind-H-Walk]

@@m2goofy760I have to disagree bc that’s how they end up becoming baby daddy number two lol 😂

[@niamtxiv]

It is forbidden in some cultures. Men in my culture will forbid single sons with no kids to marry single mommas

[@alvinm.2230]

Dating a single was the decision of my life. Had hella baggage mentally and financially 🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[@JesusLordofmylife]

I was with a guy as a single lady many years ago, he didnt want me, he married a woman with 3 kids, toddlers at the time! He had NO kids. His family was devastated, so was I, as they wanted me with him. I heard he went thru some things. But hey thats how life goes! Its over 20+ years that happened. Life taught me a lot!! I learned people have a right to love who they are comfortable with.. life is not fair, but we move on as God knows best in all things in advanced!

[@dancleary4101]

What does any of this have to do with the video?

[@Mr_Don1]

He did you a favor. He wasn't feeling you like that.

[@gailcofield9795]

My mother told me at 10 years old….. Fair is what you pay to ride the bus other then that it don’t apply 😂

[@dennisjohnson7139]

​@@dancleary4101lol lol right

[@MrDonniemac5]

My dad says it this way: You’re not really married until you have a child together, and you’re not really parents until you have two children together.

[@nwright1024]

I have no sympathy for guys that are marrying these single moms with no kids of their own 😂

[@0ijm3409fiwrekj]

No SIMPathy😂

[@Hilfiger187]

Unless u got a unicorn u in for a big surprise 😂

[@boogitybear2283]

I’m almost 44 and still single and child free! It’s the best life ever!! Do what I want when I want!

[@2fly4u73]

Sad single life I bet 😵‍💫

[@blastedmcgraw152]

@@2fly4u73just because you’re sad being coupled up doesn’t mean you need to project

[@ismalali]

Only deeply traumatized men would ever date a single mom. By the time you’re a teenager, you should know to abstain from toxic things like cigarettes & single moms

[@SouthernRebels94]

I would never judge a single mom without knowing them first and not all single mothers are toxic, I've dated a single mom before and had a great experience as well getting to know her well manner respectful kids, she didn't choose to single because her husband died. Plus no child should go fatherless just as no child should go motherless, if you truely love the person then you wouldn't care if they have kids or not plus dating or marrying a single parent is a good way to get the experience in what it's like to raise a child. Plus no all men can have kids just like not all women can have kids so sometimes the best option if adoption is an issue then giving a single parent a chance is a great option.

[@ismalali]

@@SouthernRebels94 single mom whose husband has passed on is one thing & im glad it’s working out for your family. But I’m definitely going to judge a single mom, just the way men get judged on a laundry list of items. I personally would never date a single mom. Not for me. And if it’s a single mom estranged from the baby daddy.. best believe I’m judging harshly and staying away.

[@MrBronx61]

@@ismalali 💯💯💯 Exactly. I made the mistake of dating single moms when I was younger....learned my lesson. Never wanted kids of my own, not dealing with another man's seed and the drama that comes with it. I'm glad the younger men are waking up. Single, childless men should avoid single moms like the plague. Let these sucka4luv simps roll the dice and deal with them.

[@dancleary4101]

@@SouthernRebels94 if they were good options, then the marriage rate would be higher for them…

[@jamesmatlock9414]

I'm staying Single !!

[@Ghragle-]

I married a single mom, now I’m a single Dad. 🤦🏾‍♂️ I would never let my son do what I did, but I also had no guidance, and was raised by my mother alone after my father suffered a mental break and left. I watched my sisters and mom struggle and it created a complex inside me. I wanted to solve those problems. I wish any men I knew cared about me.

[@bishrob345]

I will always revert to the Lion King for how offspring not of the King gets unalived the moment the new king takes the Pride!

[@Mr.Edwards233]

That also goes for the primate kingdom also. When The new male gorilla comes through and asserts his dominance, he will either unalive the babies or treat them with serious disdain.

[@KAM0327]

I use this analogy all the time..

[@tamid2225]

In the wild male lions will also kill their own offspring

[@lowkey6597]

But we are humans so thats a dumb analogy

[@tamid2225]

@@lowkey6597 exactly! People pick and choose from nature to whatever it is can fit their narrative

[@MyNameIsCorey]

When I was single and childless dating a single mom was the furthest thing from my mind...I created and built my own

[@reginald5412]

In texas, if you move in with a single mom and playing that father role. When yall break up, you are on the hook for that child support. Know your state laws 😂😂😂

[@KA-or8mv]

Damn bruh, by the time we've got enough dating experience we will be ready to take the BAR from knowing all the laws 😂😂😂

[@1delta_10tangos]

So... a roommate situation can manifest parental disposition? Ha ha ha 😂 Stop, Sir. Just stop. ...smh

[@moblack5883]

Not true at all SMH. Yall just be making up stuff.

[@TraciBradley-i8k]

If the man adopts the kids yes but roommate no. Their father should pay child support.

[@Ifbbprodamion]

That’s law everywhere. If the kids established a relationship with you as the provider the courts will grant her child support

[@AlbowaSinema]

It is amazing just how many men have accepted dating marrying and taking care of single mothers. The amount of social engineering it takes to make men go against their own good is amazing. On this comments section alone there are several men who have done this without even thinking it is a horrible example. I have no words.

[@chrishodge9437]

Never invest time,energy, or money on a woman who would never acknowledge your existence if she was not a mother who had a baby out of wedlock.

[@BlakeCashington]

Did it once and it’s an absolute L. As a man you’ll never be her priority, and craziest shiet is you’re paying all the bills in the house.

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

You sound a gem - I was with a dude 14 years and if I didn’t pay a bill it wasn’t getting paid If I didn’t clean nothing got cleaned and if I’m broke that week he’s not contributing but you’d better BELIEVE when he’s running low on cigarette money he’s in my pockets the next week and I always gave I gave til I was so sick I couldn’t even stand up anymore and had to go to hospital Three years ago I asked the bum to leave my house and guess what? He’s still here and pays nothing - I can’t get him out of my life

[@BlakeCashington]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 Definitely a bum… He’s wasn’t your man, he was another child and a responsibility. 😂 14 years?! Why the phvk would you remain 14 years with dude?? Lol As soon as you see that type of bum activities you should leave the situation. Know your worth. Don’t settle

[@poeticprincee9750]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634you were dating a brokie!! That wasn’t a man. You dated him in order to control him.

[@dancleary4101]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 did you not read the rest of the post where he said it’s an L and he’s not doing it again?… Stupidity at its highest level.

[@JohnDoe-pd4jo]

What’s crazy is that dudes don’t see the whole issue entirely. Most men are okay with paying and being used by women lol. Single mother or not, still the same finesse 🤦🏾‍♂️

[@Topself24]

I made the mistake of getting with a single dad when I had no kids. Don’t do that either. It’s the same difference

[@illapuproductions]

Then go make a video on it. The topic is single mothers. Class dismissed bum.

[@amazinggrace313]

Yep no difference. I’d actually argue and say they are worse because of them being financially fucked paying into another woman’s house for many years. He’s a stunted provider and could never function in his full capacity as a man for two homes. Hell no. Be smart and stay away from

[@mrs.americanpie2079]

I had a friend who married at 18 to her junior high sweetheart. He died when they were in their late thirties, of course she and the kids were emotionally devastated. Financially they were fine because of life insurance and savings. After some years she was looking to date and would only consider single fathers who actually had custody. She wanted someone invested in family and didn’t think that a dad living apart from his children was really as attached as a father should be. She met a nice guy that fit this and they got married ❤. All of us were thrilled for her and the kids.🎉

[@dancleary4101]

What does that have to do with the video?

[@minimatemasterworks]

I married a single mom. My stepkid is a good kid. Best stepkid a guy could ask for. When she left she took him with her. Losing her was easy because of the kind of person she was. Him on the other hand? That was hell. It was difficult for my parents. My mom especially. If you won't do it for yourself at least avoid single moms for your family

[@CA1567-v8p]

Cold blooded

[@dotfocus_]

There it is!!!!!!! “She” said it herself!!!!!!!!

[@JD-te6vm]

We don’t talk enough about Beckys being single moms. There’s loads of them!

[@ItsTheJourney24]

Dated a single mom once and after about 2 months of dating she started asking for bill money when she had her own place and I had my own, never again.

[@UTP504]

What, bill money?? She was down bad for that.

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

​@@UTP504very common for single women nevermind single mothers to expect financial support from men. It works to some degree because of the unregulated sexual marketplace. 80 percent of women are going after the top 20 percent trying to lock on down for financial security. If they fail at this they settle for a beta bucks option

[@chriswilliams7504]

Same here!!!! I had one tell me ….’you better be glad I’m not asking for bill money’ …… I said SAY WHAT???

[@amazinggrace313]

Sort of the same. Mine was more so expecting it and would drop reverse manipulation bullshit to try to trigger your giving nature . I read the Jezebel manipulation from miles away. She literally told me she won’t fuck with no one who won’t do for her and her kids and she said it with all her chest out like she was some sort of prize and like her expectations were reasonable when in fact they were delusional. Keep in mind she never felt responsible for anything in my life .. interesting how that works huh ? I would never pay bills in two homes just to date a used up woman with other men’s children. I actually thought she was cool for a minute until I experienced her true intention.

[@shafinah6819]

I agree with her. Being a single mom myself. My daughter is a senior in high school now and I haven't dated since she was 5yrs old. By choice! It's too risky and being a single mom the pickings are slim anyway. And that's just a fact. Plus, I never want to put my child through the whole break up drama. Because when you hurt... they hurt and they suffer psychologically by seeing you hurting. Maybe when she's in college....maybe. I don't know. But I am not pressed.

[@LadyK007]

Smart‼️

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

your daughter being a senior is about to become your competition. When she is in college and comes home to visit and your date sees her, he will see an improved version of you. In his mind, he will be thinking why should he stay with the old model when the new model is better! This is why I always say, women have no friends. They only have competition (even from daughters) and secret haters (these are the so-called friends)

[@ThesisOriginals]

It’s to late youre cooked

[@shafinah6819]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp lol. Ok. That's your opinion.

[@shafinah6819]

@@ThesisOriginals the negativity is hilarious.

[@samueljean4201]

She is correct this should be logical. Single mothers should date single fathers. That way the baggage is matching. No point of rescuing her and her ungrateful children.

[@ThatsOPV]

I got screwed over from a homeboy dating a single mom. I got screwed and I wasnt even the one dating her. you see how crazy that is

[@jeremiahbryant123]

How did you get screwed ?

[@Pursuit23]

She's right a 1000%. I went through hell. It's not worth it in the end.

[@Leonardo-ms2nk]

I guess my experience is the exception, 12 years strong , that lil boy I took in is now mine along with 2 other little girls , I personally made sure he had a relationship with his biological father but everything else I take care of and to me that woman has been a blessing, wasn’t sure at the beginning but I am now

[@MegaCityOne]

Getting with a single mother is the ultimate settle for a man.

[@jamesw7072]

Right, we used to only marry virgins now ninjas marrying prostitutes and single moms, smh. My how the mighty have fallen.

[@trusttheprocesstarot1554]

It's the same for women too. They don't want to be step parents either.

[@NewportB0agies]

@@trusttheprocesstarot1554 no it’s not. Why are you betas always trying to make false equivalences? Women don’t even care about body counts. Wtf you on?

[@39mack23]

@@jamesw7072😂😂😂😂

[@illapuproductions]

@@trusttheprocesstarot1554ah the same old women and men do it too comment. Women like you just refuse to take accountability.

[@TheprophetDJ]

Finally the truth has been revealed

[@jamest1242r]

I agree with that. If 80% of women pick 20% of men to have kids it's not a man with no kids responsibility to take care of kids a female didn't see fit to gift you with. It's up to these dudes to take care of their seeds not you. She basically said your genetics isn't worth it for whatever reason so let her deal with that dude and that has nothing to do with you. You're taking care of another dude's kids while the other dude go get another woman that was meant for you pregnant.

[@mrdacusthenavigator4989]

To any guy considering dating or marrying a single mother, just remember, depending on their relationship, when the father dies, those children and the mother are going to sit in the front row of his funeral crying their eyes out

[@angelika_munkastrap4634]

Of course they will and they’ll do the same when you die - love is a powerful thing and it’s lasting - real love transcends anything and never goes away but it’s also so powerful that it can include more then one person

[@anajeeullah]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634lol what person wants to be apart of a package deal.

[@dmoneydmoney6050]

⁠@@angelika_munkastrap4634if real love transcends they would have never parted ways

[@demetriusjames9535]

@@angelika_munkastrap4634 All the more reason to avoid the single mother, it would seem...

[@hardno123]

this a point noone has ever brought up

[@Mbaby5187]

The same goes for being a step mom… if you can avoid being a step dad AND a step mom, please do*

[@robsawyer8034]

While different, that is a good point. Difference is that a father has the ability to provide for a new woman. A single mum will be committed to raising some one else's kid. So she can never be committed to you when she's about someone else's business.

[@trusttheprocesstarot1554]

Yeah women don't want to be a step parent either the way it is looking.

[@NewportB0agies]

⁠@@trusttheprocesstarot1554 for the second time, shut up. You keep bringing this up throughout the comments. First of all, nobody is talking about step mothers, and second of all you literally just made this up to be a contrarian. Single mothers equals baggage, she’s literally raising another man’s child. This never happens in nature. It’s against the nature of man. It isn’t against the nature of women. Why continue to lie and act like you know what you’re talking about?

[@gayleedwards318]

@@trusttheprocesstarot1554exactly. Men seem to think it’s okay for women as if we want to take care of children that aren’t ours

[@amazinggrace313]

@@robsawyer8034you’re fucking delusional. Single fathers are trash buckets right along with single mothers for all the same reasons only now you’re a stunted provider having to siphon money into another woman’s house that would take from me and mine and you’re smoking good drugs of you think any woman of value is going to see it as attractive to have her children have half brothers and sisters and when she can choose an intact nuclear family. Yuk. Get off this grand delusion men have that seriously see themselves as better than single mothers . It’s fucking irritating because you’re yesterday garbage just like her

[@broinsocali]

I'm surprised single mother's have time to even think about dating.

[@amazinggrace313]

They need money duh lol and they ain’t got none so you’re it ! 😆 just stay away from them ok. I’m a woman telling you this. No one in the world can pretend to be in love with you better than a single mom.

[@Noparole75]

Make sense, course i will never take care someone else kids,,she makes a lot sense to me, great job lady

[@bonnydaise8112]

What about the Cam situation ?

[@adielwilson8749]

She right even though I'm dealing with two single moms right now with no kids. To each their own

[@PaulGomori]

Appreciate her honesty. That in and of itself is a surprise.

[@Theincognoah]

I think a lot of women don’t realize that it ain’t the woman or the kid that’s the issue, it’s just the situation. I know a lot of great women who are single mothers but unfortunately, their value has depreciated. We all gotta learn a lesson in some way, it’s no shame. But single mothers should seek single fathers, not men who have they whole lives ahead of em and executed better decision making to be where they currently are.

[@w3n33dam1racl3]

Single fathers and single mothers should date each other other. A woman with no kids or a man with no kids should not date single mothers or single fathers

[@eobenji11]

Even single fathers shouldnt do it...

[@schwanhumes323]

I don't think a woman without kids shld date a man with kids either ... Cus if he gets custody she will be the one who has to take over parenting duties for someone else's kids...not to mention that just like women some men aren't good dads and come with financial baggage as a result of their kids​@@eobenji11

[@Ronyashmet520]

Single father's shouldn't date single mothers and here's why, the court system grants custody of children to mothers around 90 percent of the time and fathers get full custody around 10 percent. If you get with a single dad 90 percent of the times he probably is just paying child support and won't have his kids living with him, but the woman will.

[@aquarianrain9082]

I completely agree with you. This is so simple.

[@aquarianrain9082]

​@@Ronyashmet520The kids will STILL be a huge part of his life, if he's doing it right.

[@RoccoLennox]

So, apparently, dating a single mom means you're signing up for a two-for-one special-except it's not just dinners and trips, it’s also doubling up on child support. Your kid gets less because now you’re chipping in for someone else’s too. Remind me again why we’re paying extra for a package deal that comes with more responsibility than rewards?

[@howardmighty6764]

😂😂

[@Mr_Don1]

Not only does your child get less, but the single mother costs you more than the single woman with no kids. You're also limited in the time you can spend, the places you can go, etc. It's just all bad.

[@MCLottotv]

People with children need to date other people with children

[@GiftedKG]

@@Mr_Don1the woman with no kids still gets limited resources and time from you. Not to mention your child’s mama who will always be around. She will always be last on the priority list.

[@Mr_Don1]

@@GiftedKG that's true too.

[@30tannika]

She’s absolutely right,,,,too much unnecessary baggage&definitely not worth the hassle!!!

[@adriennem1003]

Yeppers. I tell my friends who children are either grown or don't have any kids, not to date anyone with young kids. It's a different dynamic. My daughter in her 20's& if I was in the dating scene, I wouldn't either.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

if you were in the dating scene, and you are, your daughter is now your competition. ANY man you bring home will want to upgrade to your daughter. Why waste time with an old chic when the fresh model is here is what men think.

[@adriennem1003]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp first...glad I'm not in the dating scene& sometimes from what I've heard, it's not just an issue regarding single parent mothers, but also men with young kids and kids mom can be off the charts also.

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

@@adriennem1003 Good for you to be out of the dating scene. May I suggest you stay away from single black women and the "sisterhood". Do not share anything about your relationship (except the good parts) with your so-called friends. They are not your friends but your secret haters and competition for YOUR man. Now, a good man with a kid is vastly superior to a good woman with a kid. The man will be expected to PROVIDE for all kids. His money will not just be spent on his kid but on pookies too. And after all that money and resources, that child will say, "you're not my daddy" and the woman will NEVER put the man first. She will always take her child's side. Always.

[@Freeyourself01]

You ain’t my daddy line hits so hard never again.

[@fudgematthew33]

You know it's bad when women not only tell men not to date single mothers, but when they tell their sons the same thing.

[@Cahluvca]

Talk about a nuetuered environment....why this even needs to be said says alot

[@jerome123306]

They want us to ride as a passenger with no seat belt because they chose to not wear theirs and crash out with them. The car is old, the brakes are worn down and transmission is slipping. Fellas…. Find a safer driver “ potentially in a newer car and make sure that seat belt latches properly. Stay safe in these streets.

[@saonedixon5476]

She made some valid points 🤔

[@jalenjohnson6187]

This is true, too much drama. Just a bad deal to be involved with.

[@jalenjohnson6187]

The fat meat is definitely greasy 😂😂

[@ronlatimer3161]

I'm a widower with a daughter. I will not date a single mother again. I would rather be alone than marry wrong.

[@nikofeelan47]

Relationships are all about drama. Life is drama.

[@sintheeahe7753]

Yeah I wouldn't date as a single mom.. there's no time for anything else, but parenting and trying to climb out the financial hole

[@rutietu-2]

I really hate that we even have this conversation. I'm a single mom, and its feels too obvious to be even mentioned-- not everyone is ready for/wants to engage with (your) kids. and that's fine. That simply filters out incompatible partners. What really bothers me about this conversation is the attitude towards single moms, like we're unreasonable, dishonest, and conniving. Or that single moms are SOOO AWFUL, STAY AWAY!!! Navigating dating as a single parent is tricky enough.

[@JoseDiaz-rd9fh]

Too bad single mothers have to pay the price but laws need to change. A live in boy friend should never be forced to pay child support if he never adopted him. And yet many courts establishing that if he played the provider role he is fair game. We can't force women to have sex with us but they have no issues forcefully taking money from men with impunity. There's a reason 62 percent of men are no longer dating or looking. The juice is not worth the squeeze

[@amazinggrace313]

The truth is you’ll never be more desirable than a woman who doesn’t have kids. You having kids is a very big fucking deal.

[@smithkaren1387]

I don't date men that have multiple baby moms

[@SaiquanCanty]

It depends. Every situation is different. Some people marry single parents, and it works out.

[@mightefm0717]

Don’t forget. If you divorce a single mother, she going to ambush you with child support for a kid that doesn’t belong to you. Yikes!

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

That what my brother is going through

[@acethefloridianforever]

Widows can be remarried. Now if the woman has a few kids by a few baby daddies, then it is a hard pass!🤷🏽‍♂️

[@demetriusjames9535]

Even with a widow, there's always the circumstances.

[@DexterBoyz1984]

Easy pass

[@dennisjohnson7139]

My ex was a widow with 2 daughters. I raised both like they were mine. Through action I was showed they weren't

[@otisjenkinsjr.3556]

​@@dennisjohnson7139my mother passed as a child. Every woman my pops was with, got nothing good from me.

[@RichardSchiffman-jn1ds]

Stay away from widows! They literally compare you to a ghost 👻 Creepy as fu*k!

[@stevewells9840]

your value does go down if you only can date dudes with kids, as with a woman with no kids she can date whoever. These are the words out of her mouth, So its not stupid rhetoric.

[@shirleygriffin7672]

Skipping this video. Not a single mom thankfully. Whew

[@blackticalmayhem8461]

SHE IS 100% CORRECT! 😂

[@wutang23361]

I learned my lesson twice

[@derrickjenkins2455]

Yup, I had to learn the hard way as well. Not going down that road again.

[@nsearchofself1980]

Twice though brother

[@mfalmekali]

✌🏼? 😂😂😂

[@handleyobusiness]

Just don't make it 3 times.

[@Kizz_97s]

Bro twice is crazy work😂

[@Peter-p2q3s]

So true, well done Anton

[@perrykeshahwalker5321]

I respect your opinion, but I don’t fully agree. Yes, it can be risky, and I don't deny that. That said, I married a woman with two children, and we've been happily married for 28 years. Over the years, I've heard this argument many times, and while it used to bother me, it doesn’t anymore. I have a wonderful family, a beautiful wife, four children, and three grandchildren-life is great. I believe everyone’s situation is different, and to each their own. By the way, when I met my wife, I didn’t have any children of my own.

[@icedwhaticed]

I’m glad it worked out but this is not the case for most men. And honestly any man who has no kids settled for a woman with kids he Simped out. You did too honestly. Because out of all the women to choose from you choose a woman with a couple kids?. That sounds like settling to me. But I’m glad it worked out for you tho.

[@timothylavender191]

1% like those who run the world! congrats finding a women with kids, I'd call it an anomaly!

[@perrykeshahwalker5321]

No, I didn’t settle. I saw her value and made a conscious decision to be with her. Actually a S.I.M.P is a man who compromises his well-being for a woman, but that wasn’t my case. I was previously married to a woman without children, and it was a terrible experience. In fact, many single women without children can be more difficult than those with them. My wife of 28 years has always honored me as the head of the household. She has never disrespected me, put me down, or gone against my guidance. That’s more than what a lot of men can say about women without children.

[@Jaslath]

@@perrykeshahwalker5321 I agree with icedwhaticed in that I'm glad it worked out for you but it seems you're letting your personal experience color what should be a logical decision. You, figuratively won the lottery. Yet you're disagreeing when other people say men should not to depend on 'winning the lottery' because most people aren't going to win it.

[@christopherclyde7791]

Glad for you.... You are in the 1% of good experience. The other 99% can relate to this video.

[@StevenA329]

Facts, ive been through this and it was very hard on her kids when we broke up

[@lazjunior712]

Single fathers should pursue single mothers. because they know how it is.

[@cometogetherlikevoltron1230]

That Brady bunch crap don’t work either

[@calinola7957]

People without kids do not enough common with people with kids to have a real connection. That is why most of these relationships do not last. I live a completely different life from a person with kids.

[@hustle-n-grow]

Now this is probably the exception and not the rule, but I met my wife when she already had 4 kids. All by the same guy. Since then we've had 5 more. So we have 9 kids altogether. Hasn't always been easy but she is the type of woman you don't pass up, kids or not. I've never regretted my decision and honestly wouldn't change a thing. We've been together almost 12 years

[@deshondrehigginbotham506]

Bro saw cheaper by the dozen and said hold my beer 🤣🤣 but naa that’s a blessing man

[@hustle-n-grow]

@@deshondrehigginbotham506 🤣It is a blessing. I really only had one big issue with them and the father early in the relationship but we on good terms now. They go over his house every other weekend or so but besides that we just living life

[@alphapimp0073]

You are a sucker for

[@Mr_Don1]

This is DEFINITELY the exception. It's also different if she was married to that man, gave him 4 kids, got divorced and married you. I don't think that's particularly bad because she was willing to give you a big family, too. The fact that she's had 9 kids shows that she's very unselfish, which is a good (and rare) trait for a modern woman. That's a lot of time spent being pregnant. A woman having 4 kids with a husband is NOT the same thing as a woman who has 3-4 kids by different men and has never been a wife. I don't put baby mamas and ex-wives in the same category. There's usually a difference in the class of the women.

[@Eddybo22]

Yup you are the exception to the rule. Wouldn't recommend any guy go through it. Been there done that and it isn't fun.

[@Leeotheelyon]

This happened to me I dated a woman with 3 young kids for 5 years and loved her kids then she cheated on me and moved on and I missed her kids being in my life. Shes right about how it affects you when you lose your exs kids its devastating.

[@Fiyaman79]

My wife was a single mother when I met her. We now have a son together and have been married for 8 years. I wouldn't change a thing! She's a wonderful wife, and our 2 sons are a blessing! I guess we are the anamoly, or we are both just highly favored by God. "Some" women are worth the risk.

[@dancleary4101]

That’s the exception to the rule not the rule. There’s a reason why single mothers have a less than 10% marriage rate…

[@huelaura4691]

Waow🙏 Glory be to God!!❤

[@tonirowe1975]

Well spoken like a Grown Man

[@Mr.Edwards233]

Good for you man

[@dancleary4101]

@@tonirowe1975 grown fool

[@IIIDarkIII]

I 100% agree, I naturally thought this way when I stepped into the real world on my own.

[@St4rTr3v1Ut10n]

"Does it make women less 'valuable?'" YES. Yes it does!

[@Mr_Don1]

That's the only thing she said that I didn't agree with. She only said it because she didn't want to admit that she was less valuable herself. Even when admitting the truth, women still hold onto that narcissism. Amazing, isn't it?

[@AJG0923]

It definitely does! And I’m a married woman saying this 😂 but they can’t answer the question how they gain value?! 🤦🏾‍♀️ after having someone else’s kid that is lower level male. Value doesn’t get passed up or looked over. They are only valuable to their children (if they do that right) but not the market

[@Avsfan23]

You want the week old tofu? Or do you want the Michelin steak dinner?

[@youareloved8274]

Im a single mom, i don't want to get married again, I'm trying to rebuild my life from abusive marriage and bad divorce, it wouldn't be fair to bring this drama into another relationship, so im staying a single mom, not looking to date anyone

[@patrickbrowne2594]

Man I have one son and it’s even hard for me to date single moms, I still was having trouble being able to accept her daughter as my own even though she was a sweet girl, but it’s totally different when a woman dates a man with kids and when a man dates a woman with kids because we are expected to take care of our own anyway despite the woman being there as opposed to dating a woman with a kid you are expected to take care of them. Glad i can now just focus on my son and being better financially, and preferably meet a woman with no kids.

[@amazinggrace313]

Don’t get it twisted. Y’all are both at the bottom of the barrel

[@KevinDavis-z8v]

Crazy or desparate!

[@xrtxrsm05]

Agree with her partially. First of all, whether she likes it or not, a woman’s value does go down in the dating marketplace having kid(s) from another man. Even a single dad is different from a single mom…he is still taking on more risk.

[@trusttheprocesstarot1554]

Single fathers are no different from single mothers. Women sound just like you behind closed doors. They don't want to raise other women's children. To them single fathers have a low value.

[@lama3469]

A single mom of one dating a single dad of one. We both have our own professions, living separately: he visits my home and I visit his , we both don't want any more kids and don't want to get married. We're both happy and compatible as life partners, sometimes it does work, if you're on the same page and not dependent on each other🤷🏽‍♀️.

[@anthonysaidit]

So yall fuck buddies. How long does this last ?

[@McCoyReginald]

My Grandfather R.I.P. Told Me Back In My Age Of 20s "How You Gone Be In A Relationship With A Single Mother Taking Care Of Someone Else Child Thats Not Yours, Then You End Up Going To Store and You Can't Afford To Buy Yourself A Loaf Of Bread?"

[@Specialcot77]

Of Course the Truth Hurst

[@adraincrawford7733]

I date a single mom years ago and it was the worst decision of my life. Never fucking again. I have a daughter from a previous marriage and I'm taking care of her and only her I'm not taking care of any women with kids. Call it what u want

[@ccavila323]

As a man in this situation listen to this man!

[@NexusFantismo]

Having a serious relationship with a single mom is a losing proposition of epic proportions.

[@DJQUAD1000]

@anton, my brother. I have lived this story a number of times. The pros and cons of stepping up and being told another man was my father. I think it would be a great episode if you had me on???

[@mskimrn9636]

Before I got married, I would have never dated a man with kids. Absolutely not. I 💯 agree with this woman. To women , don’t date single fathers , it never works.

[@dancleary4101]

The topic was single mothers

[@dany6781]

Very good! Never change this mindset, EVER!

[@LadyK007]

@@dancleary4101And? She can share her perspective!

[@jessss333]

Facts. I’m not really interested in dealing with children that aren’t mine.

[@LBAB4]

Same here! Married a single father and I do regret it. Are 💯 with this post. It goes both ways. Single fathers and single mothers.

[@jamesleblanc4066]

Worse decision I ever made, by far!!

[@VictoriaHerizon]

I agree, ima single mother and from my experience only dudes who ain’t right want to use and abuse single mothers and play daddy. Thats some crazy evil shiiit.

[@MrNilknarf2]

I’m using a single mom, until I get my business off the ground💯 Once I’m good I’ll find me something young and fertile for me…. I don’t abuse ‼️

[@JakeArgue-hh9hp]

I agree ​@MrNilknarf2 ! Get on your feet and move around. F'k them kids!! They barely like their own dad so how much more will they like yo!?! 🤦🏾

[@LadyK007]

Protect your kids at all costs!!!

[@VictoriaHerizon]

@@MrNilknarf2 as long as its okay with her and thats the transaction. I just don’t date anymore as a mother with children.

[@Skamala89]

No offense as a man we know single mom's are just easier based off the kid alone we know you make very bad decisions....

[@bigbayday5772]

Its because they dont want to be limited to who they can choose. Great job bro