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[@YourWaywardDestiny]

"Why are asexuals always scheming?" Don't worry about it, Jammie. _Don't any of you worry about it._

[@magickquill6724]

This has some serious "pay no attention to the man behind the curtain" vibes. like isn't that the thing you would say if we should worry?

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

@@magickquill6724 It sounds like to me-- and I may be mistaken-- that you're worrying about it. Hey, you know what? Don't do that. No need to do that. Absolutely no need for worrying about possible world domination by asexuals. None at all.

[@Oxten42]

​@@magickquill6724 You should stop overthinking. There is nothing to see here ...

[@xenkk0o]

. _psst_ _so what's next on the planner?_

[@hwalleluja]

yes, yes, allos? dont worry about it.

[@sockatoo_]

The little blue and orange flag is the Aro/Ace, Jamie! I don think it’s as well known as the separate aromantic and asexual flags, so I don’t blame you for not knowing :) The flag was made for ppl who are both aro and ace, so they can just use one flag instead of two. Wow, i didn’t realize how many people would find this useful. You’re welcome! Have a virtual cookie 🍪🍪🍪

[@goodgaminggirl_2861]

I hate the aroace flag so I literally just made a new one by mixing the colours together

[@craftyweirdo2799]

Love ur profile pic

[@Trees...]

So cool! I didn't even know we had that. I'm totally gonna be using it. Do you know where it originated from? No need to answer, I'm just curious. :)

[@funcat3560]

Now we have three flags instead of two. Stonks

[@opossumlover3432]

@@goodgaminggirl_2861 the aroace flag is literally the prettiest flag I've seen so far except maybe the lesbian flag

[@fictional-girl_05]

Do you guys think Jamie realizes that the bi and trans youtuber ball saying "Hey Spoons!" is clearly supposed to be a reference to him?

[@jijitters]

Were they avoiding copyright or something or did they just not realize spuds was a word? I wouldn't have assumed Jamie either because spud and spoon are nowhere near the same word :o

[@fictional-girl_05]

@@jijitters It’s a parody

[@DragonGirlStar]

That's what I was wondering

[@jenniferhof9448]

I think he's just too pure to realize that it was about him. 💜💜

[@Phisnothere-nz7rt]

EXACTLY

[@ThoseHappyHips]

As a middle aged Asexual, I can confirm that my mom is perfectly happy with having two pit bulls and grandkids. They even know what " let's go see Grandma!" means and run straight to the car. She is really going to miss them when we take over Denmark.

[@timnewman1172]

First Denmark, then the world!

[@murlocknight1427]

I still think France is the better choice!

[@silverstar1726]

Yeah, but the question is: what next?

[@ProfessionalBugLover]

@@silverstar1726 vactican city as a warm-up, then we will go on to bigger quests

[@silverstar1726]

@@ProfessionalBugLover ohhh, i see.

[@corvusalbus7276]

A moment of silence for our asexual vampires, forever deprived of garlic bread.

[@resourceress7]

🤣

[@Komi83]

But what if the whole garlic is harmful to vampires is a myth created by vampires that actually love garlic so their humans will come preseasoned?

[@corvusalbus7276]

@@Komi83 Hush, don’t give away our secre…I…I mean, surely someone would have figured out by now, if garlic really were ineffective, right?

[@ssbruv]

Bro I'm suffering. I'm a vampire AND lactose intolerant

[@puplays]

…

[@PokhrajRoy.]

The world of Asexuals is so accessible yet Aphobic people act like it’s Rocket Science. Prioritising good food over people (with exceptions) is awesome and the best thing, you can be any (insert food here) Asexual you want.

[@draalttom844]

As an ace who definitely prefer sex over food, weird

[@Ambipie]

aphobes are anti Romantics

[@NachosRenard]

Sooouuup

[@Shlaps]

cheesecake asexual cause I don't like regular cake

[@kijete]

kaiser roll asexual here, i fucking love bread

[@panthergirl1256]

As an awkward ace person who doesn't have any ace friends, there's something about seeing asexual and LGB(all)T near each other in the same title that makes me feel included 😊

[@dreamrose1582]

You are now my fellow ace friend

[@Pika999]

Hello! I'm aroace and here to let you know you are valid, don't let anyone tell you otherwise! 😁👍

[@WantedVisual]

Professional phone goblin here: if someone misgenders you on the phone, do what the (polite) cis people do when it happens (and it happens at least twice a month with the most cishet client base imaginable): smile so they hear it in your voice and say "uh, it's [correction]" and continue the conversation before they can interject a mortified apology. Exact same mood as if they wildly misunderstood your last name and it's suddenly got three extra syllables.

[@chey7691]

Thanks for the advice, have a higher voice pitch than a man but too low for a woman. But the usual response is to assume woman for some reason, even if I speak like an English teacher and make it clear over the phone. Don't know how it's always the phone where I run into issues.

[@HajudinStar]

"because it's bisexual erasure, not trans focus" - Dodger, Jamie 2022 (0:33)

[@Hollieanaaa]

Lmao

[@asv3331]

This joke made me laugh so hard.

[@Lahhsn4j]

I may be dumb but I don't get it

[@Zeddish]

@@Lahhsn4j L, G, Ball, T. The B is left out, and thus bisexual erasure! You're not dumb ^^

[@emmafischell622]

I always thought a better name for the sub would be r/BalLGBT to avoid this problem

[@Kumahachi8]

5:44 That’s the combined aroace flag, Jamie. It’s often called the sunset aroace flag.

[@user-eu1wf5uj7w]

Don't make fun of us

[@LostAllEmotion]

@@user-eu1wf5uj7w wdym

[@Kumahachi8]

@@user-eu1wf5uj7w Hi. Did you respond to the wrong comment? I’m not making fun of anybody. In fact, I’m aroace, myself.

[@definitelynotabot1743]

Was going to comment this.

[@Kumahachi8]

@@definitelynotabot1743 I don’t blame him for not knowing, honestly. It’s fairly recent, and not everybody uses it. A lot of people use the one with the aro and ace flags combined. It just depends on preference at this point, really.

[@shiroiojicosplay9622]

Jamie, as a fellow Doctor of Psychology, I’d love to talk to you about my awful experience working for Pride Counseling, aka Better Help. It’s so hard to watch some of my favorite KZbinrs suggest this service with how horrible they are to their therapists.

[@WritingsOfQuill]

Oh dear! I was considering checking them out but I've heard awful things about Better Help from a lot of therapists. I didn't realize they were under the same company. Thanks for the heads-up.

[@neurodivergentlyblog8882]

Just curious, why?

[@DragonFae16]

It's thanks to watching Jammi and OT that I figured out I was ACE. I always thought I was someone who wasn't currently interested in sex because I had health issues but I would totally find a boyfriend and all that at some point. Now that I know I'm ACE, I've stopped worrying about all that.

[@ameliasellers6396]

Guess you really aced your self-discovery!

[@DragonFae16]

@@ameliasellers6396 Ba-dum tish

[@SomeOnlinePerson]

It's wild how freeing it can be to realize these things, isn't it? On the ace side, I was one of the ones who just thought everyone was being super hyperbolic about sexual attraction until I figured things out; the bigger thing for me was gender. I didn't realize how hard I was ignoring that certain aspects of myself bothered me for not fitting what was expected of what I'd been assigned until I realized that the assignment hadn't even been right in the first place. Suddenly, so many of those things that weren't "right" were things I could *honestly* appreciate instead of just things I pretended not to care about.

[@zyrandomness197]

Heh adora _ball_ As an asexual, we’re always scheming because without having to worry about sexual attraction, we have plenty of time for chaos :) And world domination just sounds fun tbh

[@transparentjpg]

I really want to draw a ball as Adora from She-Ra now

[@lizzygrrant]

awh noooo the pun 😭

[@bdariamihaela]

Sometimes I'm just thinking about all this crazy things like if you fall from a boat what clothing itom should you discard first or is Azula from atla sapphic and I wonder, if I was allo would I think of that?

[@vincentfreddoyle7555]

_Chaos?_ More like *_slay-os_*

[@spoonikle]

sounds liberating tbh.

[@waveeyes]

As an asexual person I just love the _Chaotic Neutral_ vibes the ace ball has. Just beautiful.

[@broblerone413]

as a chaotic neutral ace i approve

[@minkofcats9154]

As a chaotic neutral aroace, I can also approve

[@bookworm98891]

I have yet to meet an ace that isn't chaotic neutral. (I am also a chaotic neutral ace)

[@acornmaybe]

@@bookworm98891 as a lawful neutral ace, hello

[@bookworm98891]

@@acornmaybe hello

[@chingalenkosimkhwanazi4813]

3:25 do u think he realizes he's the bi youtuber

[@erikapavedtheway]

i remember in another lgballt video there was a trans and bi youtuber ball that said "hey spoods" (even more obvious than spoons) and he still had doubts that it was him

[@rellik6306]

Most of the time when I think that someone is attractive I always find that it's gender envy in disguise bc I'm trans and aro/ace but I'm also too scared to ask my family to use they/them for me bc they make fun of people for being trans sometimes

[@knate44]

The asexual world domination thing is basically just that when your mind isn't thinking about sex all the time, it gives your brain more time to scheme.

[@addisonrules2522]

We shall steal all the kneecaps! I will make a nice necklace

[@Hollieanaaa]

@@addisonrules2522 I need them to add to my 4'11 height 🥲

[@lizzygrrant]

well i’m generally just disgusted whenever someone says “sex” it genuinely makes me wanna throw up so that takes up a lot of time…

[@lizzygrrant]

maybe i have sexphobia? is that a thing?

[@addisonrules2522]

@@lizzygrrant there’s nothing wrong with not wanting to have anything to do with sex. Asexual is just a umbrella term to not having any desire to have sex. I suggest looking further to see where under the umbrella you are. I’m sure you can find a term that you can identify with, and if you don’t no need to worry labels aren’t everything.

[@sashamacritchie2427]

Gay women and straight men be like "women are hot" Gay men and straight women be like "men are hot" Bisexual folks be like "men and women are hot" Asexuals be like "fire is hot, technically speaking. But world domination is sexy!"

[@Hollieanaaa]

Ah yes world domination 👌

[@hottest_moomoo_aghase3105]

So true😏😏😏👏👏👏

[@denielf.7169]

100%

[@PinkPuffball1992]

Truer words have never been spoken

[@tarmairon431]

Trans women be like "heat from fire"

[@flamelash8668]

I came out to one of my friends as trans. He switched from calling me bro to calling me sis. I'm so glad to have someone supportive.

[@jvseventeen]

The aroace one with the grandpet line reminds me of my mom. She recently told me outright (as part of a larger conversation we were having) that she's happy with having granddogs, and she's totally fine if I never have kids. She gets that I don't want kids, and as she said, if I don't turn out to be a good parent, she's gonna be the one who ends up raising the kid(s) and she knows she's too old (her own words) to feel comfortable doing that and giving them a good life. I already knew that, I've been adamant about not wanting kids since I was a teenager. And she's always been very "grandmothery" to my dogs, treating them as I do, like they're my babies. But it still meant so so much to actually hear it from her.

[@Mogha99]

Me (an asexual danish person): I can help from the inside! 😂

[@tdawggrayson]

Insider information 👀

[@manateebison6494]

THE SPY

[@commandercorl1544]

Meet the spy

[@NotAFanOfHandles]

cheers my dude!

[@tjenadonn6158]

@@commandercorl1544 Gentlemenbies!

[@cory_and_co]

3:37 I am like 87% sure they were talking about Jammi, because "spoons" is close to "spuds" and Jammi is a bi and trans youtuber

[@commandercorl1544]

What happened to the other 13 percent? WHAT HAPPENED TO THE OTHER 13 PERCENT?! WHAT DID YOU DO TO IT?!?!

[@cory_and_co]

@@commandercorl1544 I am 13% not sure of this fact-

[@nuclearpancake3683]

it probably is

[@kayquinn9439]

I thought so too

[@lindabrouwer]

YES!

[@Lookingquitedappertodaymygoods]

2:59 I understand what this person is going through, my brothers always say really bad things about the LGBTQIA+ community, and it upsets me a lot because I am currently closeted and now I’m too afraid to come out.

[@Ocean_Rainstorm]

I can’t wait till I’m 18 and I can finally go to a pride parade and hold up all my pride flags and just feel proud - asexual polyamory’s non-binary Genderfluid lesbian 🤍

[@neurodivergentlyblog8882]

Me too! -asexual demiromantic biromantic demigirl agender

[@ProfessionalBugLover]

same :D -aroace enby goober

[@samanthahello]

The flag at 5:45 is the aroace flag. It's newer and less commonly known/used. It is for people who are asexual and aromantic. Lots of people just use the aro and the ace flags separately but this represents both.

[@Creature_of_Knight]

It's so new/rarely used that I, an AroAce, didn't recognize it 😅 I do actually prefer the look of the green and purple one. I know it's the separate flags put together, but I like how it looks

[@apapz3245]

No one cares

[@purple_insomniac6817]

@@apapz3245 U say as Jammie literally asked 💀

[@charlottemp777]

@@purple_insomniac6817 no use arguing with them. Their profile says their subscribed to Matt Walsh and PragerU 💀

[@samanthahello]

@@Creature_of_Knight to be fair. So do I. I prefer the purple and the green with the black, grey, and white. But some people will want to use the blue and orange one. Just think that it's useful to know. Not that it's bad if you didn't. The amount of time it took me to learn all of the ones that I know now. Far too long.

[@Mockingjay975]

Heyy my asexual pals! I am bisexual and I've noticed a lot of similarities between our magical sexualities. 1. The purple stripe. I know its kinda basic but still. 2. People tell us that we're confused. 3. People are still phobic against us but there is less awareness about it. Thank you for reading, I totally support your plan for world domination and hope you spare the bisexual's lives because of this. Edit: 4. We're both invalidated by certain members of our own community if we're in a m/f relationship (somebody reminded me of this :D) No but srsly no jokes, go live your best life, whatever your sexuality or gender identity. :)

[@rawr1131]

Hello bisexual friend, this is one of your ace pals. Come join us in our quest for world domination. We will end world hunger by providing free cake and garlic bread to everyone:3

[@Mockingjay975]

@@rawr1131 Sounds great!! You now have a bi ally in your quest :)

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

Add that we're both invalidated by certain members of our own community if we're in a m/f relationship to this list, and you've got them all!

[@Mockingjay975]

@@YourWaywardDestiny ooh yeah I'll add that :))

[@Alicia-zf3nq]

I feel the need to tell you that asexuals and bisexuals were allies in the past! Bisexuals used to include asexuals in their community because having no attraction towards any gender means having equal attraction towards all genders, meaning asexuality had commonalities with bisexuality. I'm too sleepy to remember the entire story of our alliance, but I recommend looking up our history together

[@chalkwarrior5542]

i just remembered about a year ago there was a thread on tumblr where it was an LGBallT comic where they were giving the little balls weapons/items that corresponded with the first letter of each identity (lesbians get longswords, bisexuals get bats, etc) and i added to it using a suggestion a friend came up with: asexuals/aromantics/a-specs get "*A* freaking death star oH GOD"

[@krazykristy7558]

Thank you for helping me be able to come out as my true self and continue working every day to become someone that I like when I look in the mirror. It's been 10 days since I had top surgery. It hasn't been the easiest of roads but I wouldn't change it if I could.

[@UNKNOWNHACKER-ob1zc]

congrats!🍾

[@steampunkwilson7435]

"Why are the asexuals always scheming?" Shush, no one tell him!

[@crumble2000]

Aceball: "There will only be 6 planets left in the solar system after I destroy Uranus" Biball: "Isn't that a pickup line ? Also there are 8 planets." Aceball: "haha no" _Neptuneball shattered to pieces in the background_

[@azrael5839]

Saturn is next-

[@SomeOnlinePerson]

XD Gotta appreciate the occasional "the joke is that it's not a joke."

[@WhatsInANameArts]

8:04 i work as a front desk human so i call people a lot and it's very quite disheartening when people misgender you in really sweet ways over the phone cuz it's like "oh wait ow but also thanks for being nice?"

[@NohrianMaid]

I’m honestly still working on my coming out. My current home environment isn’t safe for me. Parent, one false supportive (now unsupportive) the other hot tempered and don’t want to be in the same home as when I come out. Like fighting a level 99 dragon with a stick.

[@tealkerberus748]

Your validity does not depend on how much you tell the people around you. Safety first. Also, you will feel glorious when you do get into a life situation where you can live your authentic self. Stay safe and stay strong, because what you have to look forward to is awesome.

[@fairycat23]

Did it go over Jamie's head that the bi trans male KZbinr going "hey spoons!" is supposed to be him or did he just not feel like acknowledging it?

[@abic24]

i was wondering the same thing

[@If-loki-was-a-fox]

I was also wondering about that...

[@midnight_blue_moon]

I thought it was supposed to be but then he didn't acknowledge it so I thought I might be crazy

[@If-loki-was-a-fox]

@@midnight_blue_moon exactly the same here!

[@commandercorl1544]

@@dustygania2425 Who's this bearded lady you speak of?

[@PhantomFerret]

My little nonbinary asexual heart is loving this video. Thanks for more of the ace content, Jammie! You're one of my favorite KZbinrs!

[@CaptainBulbasaur]

Heeeyyy I'm nonbinary too (not ace tho I'm pan 🍳)

[@PlayerOfCeleste]

Heyy I'm non-binary (and ace!!)

[@ninjawizard]

Heyyy another non-binary ace im a aroace

[@Hollieanaaa]

Hello I'm also another

[@midnight_blue_moon]

Same

[@scabscribbles]

Came out to my grandad as transmasc almost a week ago (over text because I have serious anxiety) and he has left me on read. For a week. It isn't fair that he accepted my mum being a lesbian but not me being a man. Anyway how is everyone else doing?

[@aurumisgreat]

My parents made a joking off-handed comment about taking a vacation to Denmark and as an Asexual I got very excited (as we do). My parents were very confused though since I am closeted. :)

[@PokhrajRoy.]

Asexual Domination would solve so many problems. Everyone gets to be who they want across the spectrum.

[@SIC647]

You have more faith in humanity than me. I would expect asexuality to then become normative, and sexual people being ostracised and disciminated against. Not because asexual people are bad, but because humanity in general tend to want to group things into right and wrong.

[@paitynnicolosi8907]

No, I believe we’re rational and understand that sexual intercourse continues the species.

[@Lauren..Thompson]

Yep, never in my life met a homophobic ace person

[@paitynnicolosi8907]

I’m confused. Are you calling me homophobic?

[@timnewman1172]

Except for bullying a-holes, right? We can't let them continuing to be be bullying a-holes!

[@ojrmk1]

Being a Gundam nerd, every time I hear Trans I can't help but think of the Trans-am system from 00. So my immediate thought is that Jamie and all the other trans folks out there can glow red and go 3 times faster if they need to. Also, all the Ace people out there, in my head, have 5 confirmed kills. Of what? I don't know. Confirmed killed 5 loaves of garlic bread in one sitting perhaps? This gets even worse when they're Aro-Ace, because I hear Aero Ace and they're all just wearing scarves in biplanes. BI planes! Fuuuuuuu....

[@MultiKswift]

I hear Aro-Ace and I start thinking of Archers. Which is funny because Katniss, Merida, and Artemis (some of the most popular archers in pop culture) have personalities that makes them seem like they are Aro-Ace.

[@jvseventeen]

I love seeing that other people also have weird word-associative leaps of "logic" like this and end up confusing themselves (I do it all the time lol)

[@curlybrace314]

Gundam is trans culture

[@alexxmichaelis5669]

Whenever I see "Gundam" my immediate thought is. *Gundham Tanaka* But I'm guessing you're talking about the anime?

[@mooncat0587]

2:46 I just love how we could outnumber Canada and Australia but Germany is just so cramped full of people it's the only European country that couldn't be outnumbered (by aces alone)

[@Hufflepuff_cookie]

9:31 the way you said "some people-" my brain just automatically went '-long for a life that is simple, and planned...' Because I listen to that soundtrack way to much

[@DonutCare564]

Can't blame you tho; tightrope is a good one

[@berf9445]

Im closeted trans and the internet really does at times make me feel so accepted. My friends all call me the right pronouns, and it makes me almost cry.

[@underthetable73]

Wish you all the best with your journey! I'm also a closeted trans but a lot of my friends call me by my chosen name! And it feels so great...

[@squeaktheswan2007]

Take care! You'll be just fine.

[@kitkatbreaker1270]

I'm sorry but I keep reading your name as barf

[@mx_nana_banana]

Lgballt is one of my most favouriteist sub reddits. (Also learning that I outnumber most of the population in my home country of australia makes me super proud)

[@mld04]

Omg a fellow Aussie Ace hi

[@macysorbit]

did you notice hoe tassie wasn't coloured in

[@hannahbarrett6560]

And me with 🇳🇿!

[@HalfDemonMax]

8:08 this whole part made me feel so much. I came out when I was 16, and it made me so happy to finally be myself. But when I was 17-18, I was bullied by my peers so much so that I felt that I had to force myself to be nonbinary. I started to identify as a trans macs again when I was 18-19, and a guy I used to work with and myself started hooking up. I thought he knew, like I was open about it and even came out to EVERYONE at work. I told him that I planned on going through with my transition and he just up and left, saying “I’m not gay” and “I don’t sleep with men”. It really hurt, and it felt like I would never be loved because I’m trans. But I’m 23 and really happy now, with a wonderful life partner who supports me, and is ok if I do want to go through with my transition. He makes me feel happy and loved, and I’m genuinely thankful I found him. And I hope everyone here is able to find that someone that makes them feel good and will always stay by your side no matter what. You’re all wonderful, beautiful, and handsome people, and deserve the best days possible.

[@shadowemperor5177]

This guy is the most sane, normal person I have ever met and I love it

[@_TheMousies_]

I genuinely just- whenever I see closeted people talk about other people being homophobic in front of them I get an extreme urge to hug them. I’m giving free virtual hugs here

[@squeaktheswan2007]

Thank you.

[@missnaomi613]

I can relate! My mama-heart just wants to scoop up every distressed LGBT+ kid (anyone younger than my 50 year old self is a "kid") into a big hug! ❤🧡💛💚💙💜 🖤🤍💜

[@queerqueen098]

thanks. my mother and her friends were recently discussing lgbtqia+ people in the most horrible way and it made feel sick but i couldn't do anything because I'm closted

[@_TheMousies_]

@@squeaktheswan2007 :)

[@_TheMousies_]

@@missnaomi613 Thank you for that!

[@HumbleWooper]

As an aroace person with (suspected) executive dysfunction and the competitive drive of a marshmallow, I'll just chill at home with my cake. World domination sounds like it'll take a while, and it deserves to be done by people who can follow through with the whole thing, not stop to eat and never get back to it. 💜

[@SomeOnlinePerson]

I wasn't expecting to stumble into a mirror.

[@robertabarnhart6240]

World domination also involves soooo much paperwork.....

[@TheLostBear78]

I signed up with Pride Counseling, been very happy with my therapist so far. Thanks for sharing them.

[@helensaunders99]

Oh the second i came out as ace to one of my friends, they immediately said, and i quote: "Yeahh another for our ranks 🍰"

[@ItalianCountryball11]

Acesexual life goals (mine) -World Domination -A BIG CAKE 🎂 -Infinite Garlic Bread -Create a Dragon with S I O N C E -Help cats rule over the world with us Asexual’s

[@Hollieanaaa]

I want a cat so muchh

[@_TheMousies_]

@@Hollieanaaa I hope you can get one one day!

[@PrismTheLoser]

Me, an asexual trans woman: But Denmark good!

[@Hollieanaaa]

@@_TheMousies_ ty lol

[@akitokutikabanae7010]

*Big cake EVERY WEEK 👉👈

[@murdermyinsanity]

When I was a teen Trans people- especially Trans men weren't really well known. So I'd ask my boyfriends if they'd still love me if I ever found a genie and got my guy body. They all said yes of course. I don't really believe all of them would have stayed in a romantic relationship with me. But I do think they would have kept loving me. And those are the types of people you should always surround yourself with.

[@queerqueen098]

that's beautiful

[@NohrianMaid]

OMG! That lesbian one at the end, there is an Owl House one with Amity trying to say lesbian next to a Clueless Luz as Willow and Gus are watching. LoL!

[@BatBoy3000]

JammiDodger: an asexual that doesn't like cake, omg Me on my second slice of cake even tho it's 9am: couldn't imagine it

[@call_me_julie]

9:17 damn now I want "hi I'm lesbian" "I thought you were American" as an r/lgballt comic

[@SomeOnlinePerson]

I'm pretty sure I've seen something like that and/or a reversal (where a nationality is mistaken to be a queer identity).

[@Akira-Akari]

I’m an asexual who only likes chocolate cake

[@_TheMousies_]

Welp that’s fair, chocolate cake is awesome

[@Akira-Akari]

@@_TheMousies_ yes it’s the best

[@waytoobiased]

michael rosen?

[@Akira-Akari]

@@waytoobiased hmmmmm

[@waytoobiased]

@@Akira-Akari "chocolate cake!"

[@Birdkiller46]

I have my first day at a new high school tomorrow and I’ve been nervous today, especially as I’m trans and praying people read me as male so I can avoid transphobia, or if people read me as female then they gender me right once I correct them. So seeing a Jaime video made my day! And this is my favorite subreddit he’s covered, so it makes it even better :) 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

[@lavender_garden8042]

Yo, I just wanted to say your videos are helping me prep for telling my little brother I’m trans! I’m nervous and feel a bit rushed but watching your videos help me get ready. Thanks!!

[@fungithefox4227]

I'm pretty sure the bi ball at 3:30 hey spoons is talking about you Jamie hey spoons? Hey spuds?

[@PrismTheLoser]

5:48 That’s the aro ace spectrum flag! We will use it as a replacement for using ace and aro flags when we need just one, or when people aren’t fully aro ace, (ex: less of a partner, more of a special friend, Or maybe gray ace/aro, or just no real label) but still on the spectrum, then that’s the most general flag to use. (Like how if you’re not sure if you’re trans or NB, you can use trans flag because NB’s are also trans. Just not mtf or ftm.) Edit: to the aphobes in the replies, please do yourself a favor and accept that we exist. And to everyone else: Thanks for over 125 likes over just 3 days. Having a comment like this get liked and replied to so much with a surprising amount of positive replies. (Also thanks to the people that backed me when the troll nation attacked)

[@tutsbrasilio]

oh, I didn't know it could be used as an spectrum! I was told it was aroace specific :0

[@PrismTheLoser]

@@dustygania2425 Actually, this is an orientation. It’s not so much like being straight, gay, lesbian, bi, pan, etc, because the difference is that there is no sexual or romantic attraction. But just like those, being ace aro is an orientation. (Ace means no sexual attraction, Aro means no romantic attraction, Both are no romantic or sexual attraction. But just like everything in the Lgbtqia+ community, there’s more to it than just the basic definition, which is why this flag is for the spectrum, not just the combined ace and aro identities.) Take it from an ace aro.

[@TheodoreStagnum]

@@dustygania2425 you need to take your bigotry elsewhere.

[@Bela13]

@@tutsbrasilio sabia q vc é br kkkk

[@PrismTheLoser]

@@dustygania2425 “If you don’t have anything nice to say, don’t say anything at all” Didn’t we all learn that in kindergarten? Or am I misremembering?

[@jamestheskeleton122]

I hate the fact that I'm in a situation where I can't come out to most of my family because they're homophobic, transphobic and could easily hurt me... I can't get myself a good binder and I can't go on T yet because I'm not 18... I hate that I think about ending myself because of that, and because I keep getting misgendered by my family... I hate that I can't get counselling in person or online because I can't pay for it... I hate the situation I'm in with my family and I hate that I can't get the multiple diagnosis I need to be able to live comfortably... I hate that I can't remember much of my childhood before the age of 12 and then having large memory gaps after the age of 12... I hate the fact that I live in Germany and I hate the fact that I'm actively trying to escape my family and leave the house I've lived in since birth...

[@tealkerberus748]

I'm a year late, but I hope you're okay. The important thing to hang on to when you're a legal minor under the control of people who don't love you the way a family should, is that it passes. You just have to keep getting through each day and eventually you will be a legal adult, you will be in charge of your own life choices, and you will be able to do all the things that you know already you need to do. Just stay strong. Keep breathing. You'll get there simply by waiting them out.

[@melanopygus]

5:45 The orange, yellow, white, blue flag is aroace!! It's for anyone who's on the aromatic spectrum and asexual spectrum. Ex. You could be asexual and aromatic, demisexual and aro, ace and gray-aro, etc. and use it!

[@KainceeYT]

Hey, that was my comic at 9:42! Thanks for reading it! Sadly I still do not like cake but I do, in fact, like garlic bread! Edit: I now identify as demisexual and also have come around to liking cake again. LOL

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

Don't feel bad, we will accept brownies as a form of cake. And ice cream cake as a cake. A crab cakes as a cake.

[@acornmaybe]

@@YourWaywardDestiny And cheesecake?

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

@@acornmaybe Of course, how could I forget cheesecake? One of the most delicious sorts.

[@Wes_Master]

5:46 That’s the aroace flag. Aroace means Aromantic + asexual. I don’t blame you for not knowing. I only know about this because my best friend happens to be non-binary and aroace. Side story: We went to pride in Manchester yesterday and they saw an aroace flag being carried by a person in the parade and they got really excited. It was really endearing to see.

[@squeaktheswan2007]

Petition to make Jamie's facial expressions into their own emojis.

[@nemaele]

As a demisexual panromantic the whole "Do I want to date them or be them?" struggle is real.

[@tireddruid4970]

5:53 that is the aromantic asexual flag though there has been a push to change it to a different flag

[@ashtoncommittedarsonbutina131]

why do people want to change it? is it because of the colors? i couldn't really find any other reason people would want to change it

[@alchemysaga3745]

@@ashtoncommittedarsonbutina131 Because the combined aromantic-asexual flag (the one in my profile) has been the one that's been in use for longer, by more people. It also has resemblances to the Apartheid Africa flag. Which is objectively valid. Some people think that them creating flags for Ethnic LGBT+ identities *when requested to do so by those groups* is problematic. And that them supporting Endogenic Systems¹ is bad. There is *also* a section of the community that has a problem with it because the creator supports MSpec Lesbians/Gay people, which they feel entitled to consider 'problematic'- despite the fact that MSpec can mean either "masc-spectrum" or "Multi-Attraction Spectrum"... And, more importantly- either way, none of these are *valid criticisms except the concerns about the flag resembling that of Apartheid Africa.* The people that have problems with MSpec people identifying as Lesbian or Gay, in particular, are objectively in the wrong because they are attempting to gatekeep and force people to identify in a specific way. They're not only doing the very thing that the LGBT+ community joined together to escape- the cisheteronormative demands to adhere to an identity others demand of you; but doing so in a way that has, historically, forced people who *created communities* to stay closeted or be kicked out of the community they created. ¹Endogenic Systems means a case of DID, or a system of alters, without a known trauma to cause the creation of alters. People who try to use the idea that Endogenic Systems "are not valid" because they weren't created by a known trauma, are people who are conveniently ignoring the fact that the person who created the term *specified* it shouldn't be used to delegitimize, villainize, or exclude Endogenic systems. _Particularly because the idea of systems being solely Traumagenic is itself under question, and always has been,_ as it was a decision made by medical professionals without actually interacting with or consulting those the decision effected._ Given that the same thing happened with the intersex spectrum being renamed to "Differences of Sexual Development" despite the Intersex Community being VOCALLY against the change, as it was a change strictly driven by the desire to medicalize intersex existence- and thus treat their existence as "something that needs corrected"- I shouldn't need to explain how the attempts to push Endogenic Systems out- and thus cause them to be denied resources and treatment that the lack of could cause *serious harm-* are exceedingly troubling and concerning.

[@raynezero208]

Liar, all aces like cake as well as garlic bread

[@ClaraMicroraptor]

I need more evidence of this! I should bake cake and invite ace people!

[@AceOfStars0]

It's not that we all like it, it's that we would rather have cake/garlic bread than sex. It's actually better when you sont like it cuz it's like "I hate cake but would still rather have it than sex"

[@Bela13]

I don’t like cake LOL

[@commandercorl1544]

@@AceOfStars0 Your profile picture is terrifying, I love it.

[@AceOfStars0]

@@commandercorl1544 lmao thank you

[@anorien111]

I really love seeing videos covering r/LGBallT. I'm ace, and it's super refreshing to see asexuality so casually included in LGBT+ without any "oh, you're not oppressed enough to be here" nonsense. 💜 Love your videos so much! Please come back to this subreddit again soon! 💜

[@Im_not_creative]

5:47 The flag is the Aro/Ace flag! Not many people know it since the two flags are usually separate but thats the official flag for people who are both aromatic and asexual

[@Stick_and_stone]

9:11 the gendersolid

[@VerrouSuo]

Jamie’s videos helped me realize I’m aro/ace and now I’m starting to realize that I may want world domination as well 🤣

[@ravenclawfairy3648]

Thank you, Jamie. This made my day 💜🤍🖤

[@nickcarter2072]

This was really lovely. You're wonderful Jamie. ☺️

[@notmegan8799]

5:55 that's the aroace flag!

[@opossumlover3432]

2:45 as a Polish ace, come pick me up, I'm done with this godforsaken country

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

I hope it gets less nasty in the next 20 years, I want to visit Poland at some point because the landscape looks to be just right for my idea of a good time, but (from everything I've ever heard) the weird side of Catholicism is very loud there. I don't blame you for wanting to get out.

[@opossumlover3432]

@@YourWaywardDestiny yeah, the only thing that's good about it is the landscapes, especially now since the inflation and all. PiS really fucked it up

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

@@opossumlover3432 I think it's time for everyone to move to Canada. That seems like a nice place. We can let nature consume Poland for a few years until everyone learns how to act. It'll be even more beautiful when everyone gets back.

[@Key-eh8lx]

I have no watched you in a while but came back to watching you and idk why I stopped (Congrts on 1m btw :D)

[@christinakohl6111]

I would love for you to do this subreddit again, it's so much fun!😂❤

[@the_roach_king.]

When Jamie uploads: 💃💃🕺🕺 Also the flag at 5:56 is the aroace flag!

[@Mel_TheBudgie]

0:57 I THOUGHT YOU SAID PRIDE CANCELING OMFG I AM SO STUPID LMAOOO

[@breadbird]

SAME LMAOOO

[@Elfieee13]

Tysm for making videos I live in texas rn. my family is trying to move because of how dangerous it is for me a bisexual girl and my non-binary sibling to live here. And any time I'm at school and the kids are being really homophobic I remember your video and know I have a safe space to go back to. So thank you💕

[@area52ron]

Genderfluid getting frozen is now Gendersolid

[@Lupinequeen13]

Kinda wish he had a brief look at the comments on the posts. People will usually list less common flags. (Also, the comic at 3:18 is inspired by YOU, Jamie!)

[@UnofficialMarsBar]

Hello fellow asexuals - I have recently checked out Denmark and it’s very good- I would definitely start preparing to invade/ dominate now 😀😀

[@soborarus4705]

And learning Danish is actually quite simple if we want to! It's been over 60 days that I am learning Danish and i like it pretty much!

[@jacepawplayz]

Ty

[@hattie6469]

I love this mini series ! Always a good watch

[@mistymoooooor]

congrats on 1 mil Jamie!!!

[@Darknienna08]

Am I the only one that recognized the "bi youtuber" as Jamie as the ball was also trans? Hey, spuds is pretty similar to Hey ,Spoons.

[@SomeOnlinePerson]

No, but I get the feeling it went over Jamie's head. ^^; Dude's too humble and sweet.

[@DrZaius3141]

Just think about how much effort, energy, time, money and focus allos spend on getting laid or finding relationships. Now imagine all that effort put to another use - spend what you need on world domination and there's still enough left to make garlic bread. No cake though, I'm vegan.

[@YourWaywardDestiny]

Don't be absurd! There's vegan cake mixes out there in the world, they usually just call for oil so they're _easier_ to make than a traditional cake. You can have cake with the rest of us and with less effort!

[@mirandarensberger6919]

One of my favorite local restaurants makes a chocolate cake that is completely vegan. Best cake I've ever had, and I say that as a person who eats eggs and dairy. The place also has gender neutral bathrooms. It's a great restaurant. I'm curious, though, garlic bread without butter?

[@DrZaius3141]

@@mirandarensberger6919 Butter is a scam. We always had margarine when I was a kid, so for me that's just the natural one. Butter (at least to me) has a non-neutral taste which I don't like on a spread. I'd argue that butter is the most easily replacable food when going vegan. As for cakes in general, I've never been fond of them anyway (which is heresy where I'm from, but oh well).

[@paitynnicolosi8907]

I like eating meat too much to be vegan. Though there are vegan cheesecakes out there. Called Daiya, I think. Pretty good.

[@John_Weiss]

@@DrZaius3141 Fun Fact: The oil you use as the base will lend its flavor to a margarine.

[@camillex5916]

Dear Jamie, Yesterday was my first public coming out as nonbinary! (I was so scared.) It was a dancing class that started yesterday. We must change partners every few minutes and at the beginning, I just faced a girl and told her I’m dancing the „man“😂 The teacher asked me if I want to continue to dance this part, and I told him I’m non-binary. He‘s queer himself and therefore was completely fine with using no pronouns for me and so on. 😊 The complete lesson went well, no one asked anything. It was such a positive experience with those people, plus the extreme gender euphoria - I’m so glad it happened like this!🥳 So, Jamie, THANK YOU!!! You helped me so much to achieve this! And I’m hopeful now that I can come out to more people. ☺️ P.S.: Sorry for my English. ;)

[@slomo_thesloth6940]

It makes me so happy that there is finally recognition for asexuality and people like you, who even tho they aren't ace themselves, do content like this! Hope every ace (or allo) person in the comment section has a fantastic weekend

[@c.djinmyr]

Lots of trans creators out there that helped me accept myself, you included bud 😁👍🏳️‍⚧️

[@squeaktheswan2007]

Nice

[@Dragon_Fire_2468]

*spud

[@c.djinmyr]

@@Dragon_Fire_2468 your right, spud 😁

[@milkncookiesmoon]

7:22 Trans dad trans dad trans dad trans dad

[@scourgescourge4202]

Always love when you make these videos Also I just realized your made it to million subs I don’t know if it’s been like that for a while but I just wanted to say congrats

[@gayaxolotl3281]

Yo Jamie your hair looks amazing when messy omg! Good job

[@Mel_the_Pirate]

I think this sub helps because it's super easy to make a comic if you have an idea for one -- just draw a ball, color the orientations, and give it dialogue. Easy. It's such a nice way for people to share their stories

[@aroacecreature]

About getting support online from queer people, I like to be on streams, where I can be called by my chosen name and interact with other non-binary and a-spec people. As someone who's very closeted, this is very important to me.

[@harukaru84]

the ace world domination joke is very old and very funny, because it came from straights be like "oh you dont feel sexual attraction? you must have so much spare time" "yeahh for world domination buahahaah" "confused straight noises" truth is as an aroace, I can attest that I still have zero free time, like give me 35 hours long days or something.

[@QueenMegaera]

As a concerned neighbour of Denmark: Please don't draw a knife on Denmark, dear Aces! Denmark is barely armed, if they don't let you in willingly I'm sure you can trick them with cake.

[@gryphka]

3:20 anyone else think the youtuber in that comic is supposed to be Jamie? It's a bi/trans flag, spoons sounds similar to spuds, and Jamie mostly focuses on LGBTQ stuff

[@jeffthebloodthirsty9388]

8:27 regarding the "unlovable" part, as for EVERY other unfixable difference with the majority, you do NOT have to fit in to be loved ! There will ALWAYS be someone who will accept the part of you that you thought you had to change ! If you don't agree with me you haven't met them yet, i'm 20 and it's only yesterday my friend told me he "don't think I'm bothering him and actually enjoys hearing me renting as the mess in my life is very amusing"

[@armedwithjello]

My mom had 5 grandcats and 2 grand hamsters. She died before she got to meet her beautiful granddaughter, which she wanted so badly.

[@sagemorrison8228]

"why are asexuals always scheming" taking advantage of the extra time we have compared to those who think about / have sex