"The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along" That hit hard.
@JessBess4 жыл бұрын
I KNOW RIGHT
@siberiasian3 жыл бұрын
I almost cried
@CiciliaTifany3 жыл бұрын
i read this and i cried
@sophianwk3 күн бұрын
i literally started crying when she said that
@riyadpatelwrites5 жыл бұрын
“It breaks my heart to see people who don’t have the confidence to just do what they want to do” That hit different, man 👀
@serenaowens28755 жыл бұрын
Blue I was literally looking to find this comment to see if anyone felt that like I did 😳
@somyajindal4 жыл бұрын
I just feel like her...I relate to this so much...seeing the first half of this really made me emotional because I'm just the same...I want to dance too...
@_Phoenixrise_4 жыл бұрын
very true i get scared to dance in public, i do dance but not to the fullest i know i can when i am at home. Career too and other things
@gurpreetchoongh13654 жыл бұрын
Yeah... Its hard because you miss SO many good chances because of yp8r lack of confidence and because sometimes you think you wernt good enough for it anyways like you'll mess up.... And you end up hating your self because you didn't have the guts...But then you think that maybe it was for the best even though it hurt... Alot...And sometimes it makes you emotional.. because everything you went through...
@GenesisUrquijo964 жыл бұрын
I feel the same. Can we be a support group?? 😭
@NativeNomad3 жыл бұрын
Awe! I love how he “saw” her fear and played grooves. There was such kindness in that. Just so sincere and focused on getting getting her comfortable. The essential key to a gentleman
@Blackthorne3693 жыл бұрын
It is a sign of a good teacher as well.
@mrzmorphine2 жыл бұрын
💯💯🖤🖤
@fabyv59664 жыл бұрын
When Kyle said that she had a certain awkwardness but that's what's makes her great and he looked so proud, I died of love
@cassandrashaw19244 жыл бұрын
Same!!!
@yixinzhang81764 жыл бұрын
SAME HERE IM SO DEAD
@Refreshadas6 жыл бұрын
I cried when she said: "The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along. It was just me being confident with who I am."
@randomperson66596 жыл бұрын
Nobody like this comment anymore, it’s at 666 likes
@poojalarouxja6 жыл бұрын
bruh me tooooo
@eden-she-her36686 жыл бұрын
Hahaha me too, actually welled up seeing her become so confident with herself!
@fhardz86705 жыл бұрын
When she said that, I immediately remember Agatha from TSGE by Soman Chainani
@SilverLinings724 жыл бұрын
Glad I wasn't the only one getting choked up 😓😩
@annastorey83284 жыл бұрын
Dude... the CONFIDENCE she gained is just magical.
@k8ball6664 жыл бұрын
It’s true when they say confidence is the best accessory. :)
@rachael56117 ай бұрын
God loves you! He wants to have a relationship with you! Repent and believe that Jesus paid the price for our sins! He can give you so much mercy, joy, peace and love!
@peacecful3 жыл бұрын
Can I hire Kyle to be my life coach!? What a genuinely nice human being.
@manuelamejia76703 жыл бұрын
Why is no one talking about how supportive everyone was?
@kingdeviljin71953 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about the same thing
@nadiademchuk76583 жыл бұрын
Yesss
@rainsies2 жыл бұрын
All I heard was “I”
@Raj.Sakaria2 жыл бұрын
Dance communities are always like that. Unless they’re boomers
@chickenbreast7016 Жыл бұрын
@Raj Sakaria Nah even oldies who dance got that positive vibe, especially the ones doing it for health. Most toxic dance community I gotta say is ballet.
@LekhaPReddy4 жыл бұрын
Let’s also talk about how Kyle is SUCH a sweetheart and so so so encouraging and kind
@melanievillalta18114 жыл бұрын
IKRRR I NEED SOMEONE LIKE HIM IN MY LIFE
@diyaparikh64404 жыл бұрын
I know he is so sweet
@lokhiwilder4 жыл бұрын
Couldn't agree more! A lot of people can show how to dance, but it takes so much patience and faith in your students to make them dance out of joy like he does.
@throughhellfire20yearsago44 жыл бұрын
@@melanievillalta1811 I aspire to be like him!
@clickclackbadabingbadaboom37384 жыл бұрын
5:00 #KyleHanagami so HOT i loveeeee it babe
@catbus78244 жыл бұрын
"It breaks my heart when people don't have the confidence to just do what they want to do," well dang, why you gotta call me out like that.
@sugaiskindofreallysweet113 жыл бұрын
i mean yahh that hit different
@sydneymitrecic3 жыл бұрын
That felt like an arrow into my heart
@user-rh2sc7hy4q3 жыл бұрын
I legit am sobbing right now, like whyyy can’t I just be confident
@danielaleal40383 жыл бұрын
Yeah that was deep
@teutaarmy463 жыл бұрын
Lol No samee
@purple_universe43293 жыл бұрын
We really need people like Kyle as our teachers who dont mock us but helps us to be better and comfortable being awkward. They both really worked hard and it turned out to be the best ! I wish I could do this .
@jimjam53532 жыл бұрын
Exactly mine was like why you don't know anything ? So they basically made fun of me constantly.
@kanika.282 жыл бұрын
@@jimjam5353 same lol
@LizaLizzaaaa Жыл бұрын
Mine was like lose weight then only then you'll be able to dance. I was just 4 kgs overweight
@kylehanagami7 жыл бұрын
It’s so weird watching myself on camera. Lol. But Ashly, I’m so proud of you! You definitely found your inner sexy. 💃🏽
@jasmine73737 жыл бұрын
A KING IN THE COMMENTS SECTION OH AND THANK YOU FOR THE AMAZING PEEK A BOO CHOREO IT WAS GREAT DJKFNJKDNK
@Adrian-Maxwell7 жыл бұрын
You did so good with her, Kyle!!
@amandasmith5117 жыл бұрын
kyle!!!!!!! you and hayley are my favorite ahhhhhhh❤️❤️❤️😍😍😍
@laurensbison14107 жыл бұрын
Teach me too!!
@korokseed10377 жыл бұрын
KYLE HANAGAMI I'm going to play grooves with my friends that looks super fun!!
@IshanAli7 жыл бұрын
Ashley’s transformation is inspiring
@i22y7 жыл бұрын
Ishan Ali I’ve seen a comment of yours at least 10 times today. I swear you’re everywhere
@mollyworkman3847 жыл бұрын
Hi same
@nay7ani7 жыл бұрын
Ishan Ali I agree
@maisiesmith98007 жыл бұрын
Ishan Ali I see you in every comment section I swear 😂😂
@djungelskogz7 жыл бұрын
Her name is Ashly not Ashley.
@myrtillemorel94654 жыл бұрын
it's incredible: when a woman has confidence in herself, she is immediately more beautiful
@TheAnitamary4 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more!!
@kananpreet72734 жыл бұрын
Ohhh can't agree more
@DisabledComics19954 жыл бұрын
FACTS
@blackyoshi44844 жыл бұрын
Tbh that’s with both male and females
@shreenidhiravishankar18814 жыл бұрын
Very true
@FlRELAlR3 жыл бұрын
I was a little teary eyed with how well she did, and so excited to see her transformation as she became more confident. When she said "it was me all along," my heart really went out to her. But then Eugene at the end had me burst out laughing, and I lost it, LOL
@zcox11734 жыл бұрын
My dance teacher is CONSTANTLY telling me "Dance is 90% confidence"
@ashlee84804 жыл бұрын
I couldn't agree more but its also about body movement which i lack most of the time djshdh
@lala-nx5pv4 жыл бұрын
Ash Lee same I can’t even do a body roll properly I just flop all over the place 😂🤣
@bettys72984 жыл бұрын
Nice to know. Thanks for sharing this!
@amaliastoican334 жыл бұрын
Is it Mina Ashido?
@ambilyks95524 жыл бұрын
@@Billie_Carter1 Kacchan🥺
@bxhija78984 жыл бұрын
this has to be the most motivational dance video i’ve ever seen
@shwethadharmalingam89314 жыл бұрын
Yaaaaay fellow army saranghaeeee💜💜💜💜💜┌(・。・)┘♪
@bluesoul12604 жыл бұрын
Yass truee
@cassandrashaw19244 жыл бұрын
So freaking true. I'm that awkward girl who has never been comfortable with her own body as well. But this......so much motivation and inspiration!
@bxhija78984 жыл бұрын
Cassandra Shaw same sis! i always felt really frigid (still do, but not AS much anymore) and just literally couldn’t dance for the life of me. however, watching this video motivated me to get into dancing to kpop songs as there’s so many dances and easy access to tutorials, and now ive improved so much over time of practicing.
@cassandrashaw19244 жыл бұрын
@@bxhija7898 that's amazing! I'm so glad you were able to do that and I'm glad I'm not the only one inspired by this video
@zaynshakeela94723 жыл бұрын
The fact that she learnt how to dance that well in heels within a month is unbelievable. The confidence be showinggggg
@bennyvineethagmail81483 жыл бұрын
Army💜
@evaxbts28303 жыл бұрын
Army......
@zaynshakeela94723 жыл бұрын
@@evaxbts2830 Army!!??
@zaynshakeela94723 жыл бұрын
i love my Army family 💜
@evaxbts28303 жыл бұрын
@@zaynshakeela9472 💜💜
@annikakaufer44903 жыл бұрын
Her progress is unbelievable. The gain of confidence is insane, it looks so good!!!
@ElenaTaber6 жыл бұрын
I was literally smiling through the whole damn performance because that right there is an empowered women oozing with confidence and I'M LIVING FOR IT
Damn 5.5k likes with only 1 comment? Im gonna be 2nd comments
@tanjeem054 жыл бұрын
Lmao
@hongsami.4 жыл бұрын
i felt that LMAO
@indeedical263 жыл бұрын
Why only 4 replies lol
@Kelshehe7 жыл бұрын
The progression of her confidence makes me SO HAPPY
@henrylikespopcorn19407 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Lee SAME
@burnedwithoutasoul17996 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Lee p
@skinsoups6 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Lee OMG I LOVE KYLE! IVE BEEN SUBSCRIBED TO HIM FOREVER!
@ameliax71966 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Lee i
@tessadav47126 жыл бұрын
Kelsey Lee SAMEEE
@diechaoshueterin31863 жыл бұрын
I feel so happy for every everyone who feels confident while dancing. I tried dancing for myself and ended up crying, because I felt so uncomfortable lol
@Lili-sc6ck3 жыл бұрын
It's Okay !! Keep Going , U can Do It
@muskanraj46413 жыл бұрын
Hey, you are gonna find your style and be comfortable with yourself! Just please don't give up on that...I hope you're still trying and if you are I know you're doing great🖤🥺
@akumi32763 жыл бұрын
Yeah i used to love dancing n thought i was better than average but nowadays i have realized i was never good at it. I just thought i was
@evalinacesarcassule50973 жыл бұрын
@@moraakinyi record yourself. Your progress will be the"something" encouragement to you.
@wilburscoot46213 жыл бұрын
okay im just gonna say this. its completely normal to feel uncomfortable when starting. you gotta start somewhere, you know? you're not gonna get any better without making mistakes!
@supriyapuntambekar45505 жыл бұрын
"I don't like my body,okay!" Sis I felt that.
@bassy_michaelis_6665 жыл бұрын
Ikr It felt as if I'm the one who said it
@drazoboskov7715 жыл бұрын
Funny thing about my body is,I spend so much time hating it,but it never said a bad word about me-Tim Minchin
@ArmoredPetals5 жыл бұрын
It’s sad how so many of us can relate to this :(
@shi72125 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@Hx_jamie5 жыл бұрын
Me too
@thayssabassut13485 жыл бұрын
ok but like she worked with the best dancers and choreographers in LA, i'm so jealous YAAASS GIRL
@dvbgnn43795 жыл бұрын
Me too😭😭
@cassandrashaw19244 жыл бұрын
She had to come out of that shell and defeat her own insecurities. She could have had the best dance instructor in the world but if he hadn't gotten her to that point then she never would have felt that.
@uncuriousaj94585 жыл бұрын
Kyle looked like a proud dad when she finished.
@gloss21324 жыл бұрын
Hair Care And Share your pfp I-
@Kris.krisis4 жыл бұрын
Awe
@Katie-md7mh3 жыл бұрын
She took the lessons so well. As an insecure shy person I wouldve made so many self deprecating jokes, excuses, and have given up super quick. I probably wouldve cried. The eye contact thing genuinely terrified me I'm also tryna learn how to dance. And watching her look so darn good really inspired me
@caseycat9 ай бұрын
I am exactly the same
@ruumuur6 ай бұрын
yo, it's been 2 years, are you dancing?! you'd better be! even if just for fun at home ^-^
@Katie-md7mh6 ай бұрын
@@ruumuur LMAO I never reply to comments but I was literally just dancing to Sugar Rush by BIBI and I opened youtube to get dance move inspirations. I don't consider myself a dancer cuz i really only know 1 full dance. but I've danced in front of my friends to be silly and they said it was good. I've also grown into a much more confident and out going person. This comment was really wholesome so thank you! I hope you're having a great day wherever you are! 🌷
@teide99547 жыл бұрын
she was so insanely good at the end omg *edit: thanks for the likes i did not know i had*
@Littleloulotus19644 жыл бұрын
I love how the background dancers during the final performance sometimes sneaked a peak at her and kinda smiled proudly seeing how she was enjoying herself. That's how I interpreted it at least :)
@xbluekidx3 жыл бұрын
i also saw that, it was so darn freaking cute.
@devinbagnell80797 жыл бұрын
"and my body wasn't a joke, and I had fun, and I had the best time" what a beautiful statement towards the end. I'm obsessed with this transformation, congratulations ashly! girl you did the damn thing and then some
@taylorj60383 жыл бұрын
As a fellow awkward girl, I got chills and definitely teared up during her final performance 😭💕✨
@vixvaporub7 жыл бұрын
“and my body wasn’t a joke” i love that
@pinky25667 жыл бұрын
hi morty
@maisiewuh7 жыл бұрын
Brother
@maisiewuh7 жыл бұрын
Lets work together to buy way to much rick and morty merch
@rosemarie30097 жыл бұрын
Morty Smith o
@windsong49486 жыл бұрын
6:23 "It breaks my heart when people don't have the confidence to just do what they want to do" SO TRUUUE! thank you for that words, especially being an experienced choreographer and still that open as a person
@siboboshi3856 жыл бұрын
Yes thanks I agreed
@siboboshi3856 жыл бұрын
Love ur words
@flaviacanto38026 жыл бұрын
I loved him 😍
@aiaru75616 жыл бұрын
Alina Juravleva д
@desireesfiligoi35876 жыл бұрын
9
@_unknown_91704 жыл бұрын
"My body wasn't a joke" I felt it so much I used to take dance classes for 5 years and I loved dancing, till one time that I danced in front of my classmates and they made fun of me, I stopped dancing and today I miss it so much. Don't let anybody make fun of what you love. (Sorry for my bad English) Edit- thank you so so much everyone 🥺❤️ gained my confidence back thanks to you guys 💕 And Remember, the only way to dance right is to have fun.
@topsyturvy86744 жыл бұрын
Damn, felt thissss
@monieslife48774 жыл бұрын
Really needed this,thank you
@_Calliegraphy_4 жыл бұрын
Go back!! Start dancing again!!!! Do what you love!!!!
@alexandriavictoria12204 жыл бұрын
I know it's easier said than done, but if you love something, don't let others get in the way. It'll take time, but I know if you go for what you want then you can achieve your dreams. You can do this!
@_unknown_91704 жыл бұрын
@@alexandriavictoria1220 thank you so much!!! I really appreciate it!💕
@themissydeyo3 жыл бұрын
She could really benefit from daily affirmations. I thought it was bogus or silly, but it has really helped me realize all the negative language I use on myself and changing the things you say to and about yourself really makes such a difference!
@saraschneider63745 жыл бұрын
“Something’s missing right here.” “Yeah, the boobs.” -killed me
@xsamix5 жыл бұрын
me 😂
@angeltolentino71765 жыл бұрын
Ashley is me :')
@shi72125 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@kaylabrooke37125 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@steffitorres18465 жыл бұрын
so me 😂💔
@kateaspacio78775 жыл бұрын
When Kyle Hanagami said “she still has a little awkwardness to her, but that’s what make her great!” wanna hug him😩 thank u for appreciating our awkward queen💕💕 12:15
@tumblrwinks037 жыл бұрын
The ballerina who was teaching her seemed so sweet and encouraging!!
@berrymeringue8 ай бұрын
seeing ash talk about his struggles with his body/being himself from 6 years ago vs seeing him now on instagram post-transition and feeling confident in himself is so great
@Eudorcas885 ай бұрын
What’s his instagram
@ZombieFaceClause7 жыл бұрын
Lol. I like how the outfits got progressively sexier as she built her confidence
@myfavoritefoodispastayumyu26937 жыл бұрын
Anne Smith HAHA
@walihahabib60165 жыл бұрын
It should be qouted!!! Kyle said " I just feel sad when the people don't have the confidence to do what they want to do " Yeah that's me !!! But I learned things from this video that just pop up from no where!☺
@_leivouszx5 жыл бұрын
6:24
@itsquinzallnottaylor1645 жыл бұрын
sis i am relatable
@juicy.bug.carcus93194 жыл бұрын
The fact that she learnt this in 30 days and I still cant dance after 3 years hits different...
@raghugorla24234 жыл бұрын
Learn one move a day master that move on that day
@wouldyoulikesomewiessedtea87574 жыл бұрын
She has dance teachers and stuff I have been dancing for 2 yrs Not dancing just you know like ..a joke dance ? Idk but I haven’t gotten that gud
@tyrakristiansen71884 жыл бұрын
Well i mean she's worked on a single choreography for 30 days. The teacher didn't try to teach her to dance, he tried to teach her to dance THIS dance. It's easy to learn a choreography, but it's extremely difficult to learn the dance
@holyghostgirl984 жыл бұрын
😂😂 right
@fairy56684 жыл бұрын
Me with guitar lol. I stopped guilting myself over it tho
@destinyfaith6759 Жыл бұрын
I genuinely cried whilst watching this, I loved seeing Ashley improve day by day - both mentally and musically!! Very very inspiring for me who's just beginning my dance journey at 22
@fakingdeep64187 жыл бұрын
The best thing about dance is when the music hits and the nervousness from performing dissipates and you feel really free. Because of this you can really get out of your mind and be confident with your body. It's one of the most gratifying feelings because it helps you feel sexy with yourself. Ashly really shows this so glad she did this!! Dance is 20% technique and 80% confidence / energy.
@onemillionpercent7 жыл бұрын
expreshayne depends on the type of dance! hip hop is def this, whereas ballet is at least 60% technique if not more :) but I totally agree w u
@fakingdeep64187 жыл бұрын
ForCommentingMusic&Etc. :D♥ I forgot about ballet but I agree it's a form of dance that requires so much technique
@wisp43227 жыл бұрын
*Ashly
@chiarabadolato4997 жыл бұрын
expreshayne this is soooo right and relatable, any issue or insecurity you have with your body or your confidence goes away, it's one of the best feelings in the world 💕
@lunacraftcrochet7 жыл бұрын
expreshayne exactly, I am always the tomboy and I get so nervous before a stage, but after the songs starts, bam. Plus, I'm the one girl who when the song is off, cannot remember my steps, but as soon as the music comes on I just move. No thinking involve.
@xiangyunzhang13345 жыл бұрын
She killed it. Especially considering she had no dance background. It was more than just the dancing, it was the performance.
@tiki-tots7 жыл бұрын
The best thing about this is that she probably gained so much confidence she never knew she had after this.
@kris280able7 жыл бұрын
Agreed
@chubs14193 жыл бұрын
*it breaks my heart when people just dont have confidence to do what they want to do* he is so sweet..m cryin
@stellarose6117 жыл бұрын
As much as I'm EXTREMELY impressed with Ashly and how hard she tried and how well she did I'm also really impressed with the teachers! I mean I don't think many teachers could make someone who knows next to nothing about dance into someone performing a what seemed like flawless routine! Props to all involved for sure!
@iloves0up5 жыл бұрын
As being a dancer for 8 years, this is incredibly amazing. Coming from not knowing how to dance to knowing how to dance in 30 days is absolutely incredible. Congrats her cause she grew and should grow more as a dancer
@sleepypopins88715 жыл бұрын
Megan Miles I really like dancing but I could never take dancing lessons I've been dancing for a couple of months and I feel like getting better do you have any tips? I'm struggling lmao
@aurawrs5 жыл бұрын
Sleepy Popins I need help too sis 😫
@sleepypopins88715 жыл бұрын
Y / N oooo u living the y/n life? XD wait for Jimin to walk up to you lmao but me too just try harder you might get better at it just like that, and hey who knows?
@Gahsonie5 жыл бұрын
IKR same!
@aurawrs5 жыл бұрын
Sleepy Popins j-jimin? 😳 and sure I’ll try harder 😳
@PhiladelphiaMeteKingi7 жыл бұрын
Probably the most un-cry-worthy video, but I cried because seeing the confidence burst out of this amazing woman was unbelievable. We need more female advocates like this promoting how important it is to be confident in your own skin. Thanks Ashly xx
@KenzieTaylorlovekenziie7 жыл бұрын
I cried for the same reason!
@tatianaali63547 жыл бұрын
Same😫
@gee3x7 жыл бұрын
I cried too!
@FunkyRainbowbubbles7 жыл бұрын
Philadelphia Mete-Kingi saaaaame
@eligaschler1537 жыл бұрын
Philadelphia Mete-Kingi so true
@hanna93083 жыл бұрын
“idk how dancers do what they do to their bodies” me, a dancer: *looks at my yellow and purple knees* welp-
@bennyvineethagmail81483 жыл бұрын
Well you are good by your own body, personality. So love loveyourself. If you still cant love yourself go to see some bts songs and bts inspirational quotes😄
@shenenigans20372 жыл бұрын
Me too! When she popped the picture of her knees up on screen, I looked down at my own, even more bruised dancer knees. We match, lol!
@jaayghose38175 жыл бұрын
why isn't anyone appreciating Kyle for being sooooooo understanding and awesome towards her? 💖😍💕👀🌙🌍
@spagetd15265 жыл бұрын
I know! The fact that she commented too!
@cassandrashaw19244 жыл бұрын
Seriously the best dance instructor I've ever seen
@iblivs212 жыл бұрын
Yeah! He was so kind and patient, what a nice choreographer, no wonder why Ashley learnt so much in just a month!
@IDk-st5ep7 жыл бұрын
The fact that she did improve so much in 30 days makes me want to start dancing so that I can also gain confidence
@caoimhem25105 жыл бұрын
I D k You definitely should!!😄
@lananhho18137 жыл бұрын
Her smiles changed so much throughout the process. She’s so beautiful I’m glad she realized that
@-gf-3 жыл бұрын
geez what an era of buzzfeed. this is the only regular buzzfeed video i'll come back and watch after all these years.
@omelasbaby7 жыл бұрын
wow she KILLED IT. It makes me wanna do a 30-day dance challenge myself lmao
@cassiadsouza7097 жыл бұрын
PrincessM yeahhh same. I have no confidence! I can't dance lol. I would love to try the 30 days challenge
@yams86657 жыл бұрын
Ikr
@aurawrs5 жыл бұрын
STAN Kim chungha uwu yEs we stan a queen 😭😔💞
@monomo58305 жыл бұрын
You should totally do it! It’s not really that hard like physical wise but what’s important is you have to confident
@alfa82775 жыл бұрын
I really want to dance sexy and challenge myself but I'm totally bad at dancing. Can't learn within coach. I learn to dance from youtube. and i was so cringey of myself.
@ytuser9206 жыл бұрын
Aww kyle was like such a proud teacher at the end when was clapping and having that beautiful smile it made me happy so much 😍😍
@shyladutt6 жыл бұрын
Chaitrali Patne #MendesArmy
@poptarts69376 жыл бұрын
Imagine then together 😭😭
@divinewords43505 жыл бұрын
I love how when she was sick, she went over old footage. She literally did everything she could to become great! What an inspiration!
@emekogo20 күн бұрын
Seeing this, now knowing Ash as his true self, makes so much sense.
@dontlookback53076 жыл бұрын
I love when professionals actually NAIL the advice and you can understand why they are called, professionals. PERFECTION at the end.
@hondamobile68406 жыл бұрын
Dontlook back i
@samminicksm7 жыл бұрын
Eugene’s whole ramble at the end was great.
@batterybroken4 жыл бұрын
When she said “my body wasn’t a joke” ugh, my heart. I want to take dance classes now. I was confident once, for a few months and that was it in my entire life. I would like to feel that way again. 😞
@rocxanebernard73754 жыл бұрын
Olivia C.S you’re not the only one. 😭
@angelhuntress214 жыл бұрын
I've never been confident (at least, not to the level of Ashly at the end of this video)...I mean, I am a little bit more confident now than I was growing up but I've always had MAJOR self-esteem/self-confidence issues and am very shy...I've also been wanting to take dance lessons for ages but either I can't afford it or it clashes with my work schedule.
@nivedha33864 жыл бұрын
@@angelhuntress21 Dude whoever you are, I hope you reach your goal and your confidence blooms like a QUEEN cause I have a feeling YOU DESERVE IT!!! But whatever happens you happiness comes first, but also be KIND! Always BE Happy
@godlyfish4 жыл бұрын
Yes you can. Confidence is gained different ways for different people. I know that it may be difficult to something you want to all because of self-consciousness. Let yourself figure out what makes you happy.
@nonamesmyname40603 жыл бұрын
Feel you
@HOUSE126GAGAАй бұрын
This video stuck in my mind till this year, and now Ashley is now Ash make me even feel more impressive! So proud of her!
@huongmija59917 жыл бұрын
I'm so darn moved by how Ashley determines this change for herself, even when there were pain and uncomfort. Cheer to our new sexy side of Ashley
@grecialugo85937 жыл бұрын
Hương Mija I️ actually cried watching her transformation
@huongmija59917 жыл бұрын
I love how she points out that "the version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along. It was just me being confident with who I am". This is a confidence boost for everyone!
@aiaru75616 жыл бұрын
Kyle is like a sweet grandma.
@j.a.22325 жыл бұрын
Liv _uwu thanks for make me laugh 😂
@multistannerbitch71095 жыл бұрын
Jgkh Jxjwtj yeah, a hot one, omg wait-
@victoriasmith70045 жыл бұрын
What is Kyle’s last name?
@TheTigereye225 жыл бұрын
@@victoriasmith7004 Hanagami :)
@alicelacson76167 жыл бұрын
Lowkey wish I worked at Buzzfeed so I can openly try to unlock certain aspects of myself and be able to say that I’m doing it for work without feeling awkward and saying I’m doing it for myself irl
@ananyasahay7 жыл бұрын
Alice Lacson same
@youngbluntandmizguided7 жыл бұрын
I dead feel the same tho, plus is it free since it's for work lol 🤔🤔🤔
@Diana8Matienzo7 жыл бұрын
Literally me!!!! 😂
@Louffydances4life7 жыл бұрын
Alice Lacson me too!! I was literally just googling how to apply at buzzfeed but then im like..: i don’t think 16 years old can work there but then im like maybe i can do intern but then again id have to travel to ny all the time
@alicelacson76167 жыл бұрын
Nubian Lolita I had the same realizations 😭😂
@christinesambrano1205Ай бұрын
Who came back here after seeing the new try guys video💁🏻♀️
@NevaRthelesser14 күн бұрын
ME
@aestheticwhale28037 жыл бұрын
Makes me wanna take dance classes now
@aayushaneupane52427 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic Whale Same, my parents always wanted me to dance but I never had the confidence. Not the most confident person here.
@gracetuxen92027 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic Whale so do i
@jackiesanchez65467 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic Whale right
@gabija94077 жыл бұрын
Same
@annika17957 жыл бұрын
Aesthetic Whale same
@YouTubeusername52857 жыл бұрын
“And my body wasn’t a joke” hit me
@maishazarinanan50287 жыл бұрын
Jamaica kelly I know 😍
@mirandascoool7 жыл бұрын
Me too.
@apandemos7 жыл бұрын
same
@bricoley7 жыл бұрын
me too!😍😍😍❤❤❤
@mynameismila7 жыл бұрын
As a dancer watching you thrive was absolutely amazing! I cried seeing the final performance as you having an impeccable amount of courage and confidence compared to day one made my heart so warm! You looked hot! Congrats on building more love for yourself and the fact that it was through dance is so wonderful to see
@neko52877 жыл бұрын
Really glad I'm not the only one who cried at the end!
@merryllindewi78677 жыл бұрын
Same me too I was very proud since how hard she worked and thrived . I myself have been dancing for the pass 7 years both hip hop and ballet and it's definitely not easy and to see her do that at the end is truly amazing
@prjdghyt3 жыл бұрын
I felt happy seeing her perform. She nailed the sexiness even while smiling. Also, the choreography is BEAUTIFUL. I love it!
@FlatEarthLuvr6 жыл бұрын
Kinda cried when she nailed it
@hazydazy15616 жыл бұрын
Me too, hahaha, I was crying in front of the laptop)
@annakarenpena5 жыл бұрын
FlatEarthLuvr p p n n
@treesuh5877 жыл бұрын
After she said 4 years no heels I expected a baby giraffe...but noooo!!! Ashley can work them heels! SLAYYYYY
@CloRoMobile7 жыл бұрын
At first... it was so awkward to watch... and then.. I started crying... OMG the most inspirational video evar!!!!
@mari_alva076 жыл бұрын
Clo Ro .
@EnzovlogsSD6 жыл бұрын
Clo Ro same
@sydneyparisien91756 жыл бұрын
Same here!😂😂😂😭😭😭😂😂😭😭😂😭
@omnium_gatherum6 жыл бұрын
Clo Ro me too!!
@bethboo21826 жыл бұрын
Are you on your period cuz I am and I started crying and I can't tell if it's pms or just the video
@CatherineJones7 Жыл бұрын
I literally cried at the end when you said that this version of you was inside yourself the whole time!! Sooo inspirational, beautiful, thank you for sharing this!!
@mydogeatspuke Жыл бұрын
Well now she believes a boy was inside her the whole time, which means she didn't mean any of the things she said here. You're inspired by lies.
@buzzfeedviolet7 жыл бұрын
Had Freddie and Jazz style me, learned to dance... what do y'all wanna see next? -Ash
@ebbandflowph7 жыл бұрын
BuzzFeedViolet We'd love to meet your girlfriend and learn about how you two got together! :D
@elea90707 жыл бұрын
BuzzFeedViolet you should try another sport! maybe gymnastics, soccer, contortion, skateboarding, etc.
@Lilmeowxo7 жыл бұрын
More dancing!
@clattercat47077 жыл бұрын
Ashly learns to figure skate
@Adrian-Maxwell7 жыл бұрын
More dancing. Learning more stuff you wanna do. Is there any sport you've always wanted to do? Or wanted to learn makeup, or what? When you're doing something you're passionate about, it shows. Sidenote- watching you learn to do SIlks would be really fun.
@alyxandriaang7 жыл бұрын
One of the best buzzfeed vids ever and go ashley!!!
@eddieuvie90457 жыл бұрын
Alyxandria Ang I 2nd that!!!
@janellebottomley60457 жыл бұрын
Whats her last name?
@onyinye-41887 жыл бұрын
Janelle Bottomley it’s in the video but it’s Perez
@lexibrb6 жыл бұрын
HI ALEX LMAO
@Soyxmilk6 жыл бұрын
Alyxandria Ang mhm
@booitscaitlin6 жыл бұрын
what a transformation omg both her skills and confidence i’m amazed it would be amazing if choreographers held boot camps like this for all us awkward people out there!
@jazzlin83086 жыл бұрын
booitscaitlin omg, i wish. I always wanted to dance but im to shy and embarrassed to go since to dont know how to dance whatsoever
@bamanlikedarius47966 жыл бұрын
booitscaitlin i thought she was cute threw all of this video. she sexy to me.
@emmykitty98696 жыл бұрын
+jazz lin Same! So what I trying is finding a song with a nice beat I can learn, dance to the song first, then teach myself a dance to the song step by step and put it all together and BAM Choregraphy!
@sofiagrover6366 жыл бұрын
jazz lin I'm a dancer, and believe me when I say this, I felt the same way. I finally pushed away my fear and decided to do it. At first, I felt awkward. But now I've been doing it for 5 years and honestly I can shake my body so much in front of limitless people. I think you should do what I did
@ellarose58856 жыл бұрын
booitscaitlin yeah
@beachesbonfires25363 жыл бұрын
2021 and just seen this video. I love how supportive and nice everyone is when someone doesn't know how to dance. This was mainly about her self confidence and she definitely found it. She did awesome!
@MegIgarashi7 жыл бұрын
I love how Ashly constantly pushes herself into new boundaries. I really do hope you keep dancing. BTW some other dancers/choreographers I like and watch are Jake Kodish, Wildabeast, and Sean Lew. You should go to their classes or workshops sometime. Keep being awesome Ashly. :D
@liyahStarlight11227 жыл бұрын
Oooo yeah Those choreographers will pushhhhhh you
@txtshawol40107 жыл бұрын
Tricia miranda is the best as well
@avarae71147 жыл бұрын
SEANNN LEWWWW
@mayonaise89707 жыл бұрын
MEGSTER メグスター
@lisagentile33246 жыл бұрын
MEGSTER メグスター bagus
@erica75657 жыл бұрын
the fact that she didn't like her body was insane because throughout the entire vid I couldn't stop thinking about how nice of a body she has.
@astridvandromme66197 жыл бұрын
I don't know if someone from buzzfeed is actually gonna read this but I just want to say thank you for those couple of videos about body confidence. Like this one and the Ladylike Pole Dancing one are just wonderful because they are about being happy with yourself and there is no talk of body type or anything. It just proves that beauty is really on the inside. Thank you and please keep them coming !
@SarahJohnson-dp3zy7 жыл бұрын
i love that they're just about finding your confidence as you are, nothing about being thinner or fitter or changing your style. they're really great.
@veronicameeks90563 жыл бұрын
Watching this video is really interesting to see how we are all going through different journeys. I grew up dancing and being told how to look pretty/ cute and then sexy with what shoes and clothes to wear to accentuate feminine features. I went through the opposite problem with feeling over sexualized and having everyone look at me in that way but just wanting to be seen as the fun/ goofy person. I’m happy to see she got what she wanted out of this. Dancing can be a great way for expression but I will take the well balanced high top sneakers and hard beat moves any day over the club grinding music and “sexy” bunion causing heals. =P
@daisysweets17942 жыл бұрын
Wow, you're so not like other girls 🙄
@chickenfoot24232 жыл бұрын
@@daisysweets1794 you clearly have no idea what that means and, ironically, bashing women for no reason is what ‘not like the other girls’ is about
@caylinalise66677 жыл бұрын
Eugene looks like a proud momma at the end performance 😂
@Fidddle2Pie7 жыл бұрын
YAS GIRL SLAY. also KYLE OMG HI. and that part 6:22 where he's like "it breaks my heart when people don't have the confidence to just do what they want." I actually feel so inspired to be more confident now ^^
I LITERALLY SAID THE SAME THING WHEN I FINISHED THE VIDEO
@jowieman19607 жыл бұрын
YASSSSSS
@adrianamiranda32327 жыл бұрын
OMGGG YEEESSSS
@LA-sh9jh7 жыл бұрын
YASS PEOPLE KEEP LIKING THIS SO THEY WILL SEE
@arianahill81673 ай бұрын
Watching this in 2024 the viewer had such different perspective with Ash’s journey. I’m so glad he found his way.
@lumosmaxima_236 жыл бұрын
I love how she's just smiling every now and then during the performance. You can clearly see that she's enjoying it. I feel like she gets awkward from time to time but her aura on stage damn. She nailed it
@notsofiasco4 жыл бұрын
You guys see how much more beautiful people become when they're confident?
@notsofiasco4 жыл бұрын
@@Nah-mo6lf yeah, I know right
@abbyrose86323 жыл бұрын
Yep I guess I've been stuck with the kids at my school never being confident in me or making fun of me or saying no dont ever do that again so I just like to do it myself
@jadynwilson69666 жыл бұрын
HER SMILE IN THE BEGINNING OF THE PERFORMANCE IT WAS LIKE SHE KNEW SHE WAS BOMB 😂😍💕
@aqualucy_48173 жыл бұрын
Ashley: I have no idea what to wear dancing Kyle: dance clothes ...
@koriethegiraffe5 жыл бұрын
"dont be afraid to touch yourself its your body!" 😂😂😂
@jnk57905 жыл бұрын
They always say that to us😅
@misskalea6315 жыл бұрын
No Nut November would beg to differ-
@Jivi_Galaxy4 жыл бұрын
♥️♥️♥️♥️
@haileelast92274 жыл бұрын
Lol
@gaylordbalmes15574 жыл бұрын
@@misskalea631 eh
@eiiie57377 жыл бұрын
“It’s hard to be Beyoncé” 😂😂😂
@tichootlet38847 жыл бұрын
*THIS IS QUALITY CONTENT*
@angelicavales5553 жыл бұрын
This takes a lot of energy and motivation to do. Dancing ain’t my thing as well and you doing it makes me realize sometimes u need a little push from people around you and must supports you. I’m glad they were there until the end. 😊
@imamiachia5 жыл бұрын
ashly is so freaking beautiful, especially when she smiles. Dude im crying. Also side note, i think i actually love her more without makeup. Im so happy for her because i know how hard moments like this can be. Im so happy she did this for herself and everyone else.
@liviajohn1235 жыл бұрын
Ugh why do people always have to comment on makeup like that’s not even the point and it was her choice to wear it and what made her confident and happy like just love her for who she is and her journey not if she’s wearing makeup or not
@ThandoHlophe7 жыл бұрын
"The version of me that was sexy at the end was me all along."
@octopuswiggle49335 жыл бұрын
Eleane Lin no but u can! Confidence is sexy!
@metr0dusk42476 жыл бұрын
Self-Confidence makes anyone attractive
@daliavega31563 жыл бұрын
I need this in my life! I need a professional choreographer to teach me to just let go and flow with the beat !!!!