ASK A Man These 3 GREAT Questions In The Early Stages of DATING

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Portia620]

I disagree with you I think a man I’ll let you know his intentions and it’ll be crystal clear what his wants and are in the relationship and if it isn’t, then that tells you all you need to know!!!

[@Portia620]

I disagree with you I think a man I’ll let you know his intentions and it’ll be crystal clear what his wants and are in the relationship and if it isn’t, then that tells you all you need to know!!! This also goes to the amount of time he chooses to spend with you everything and all his actions will tell you exactly who he is as a person does he put himself first who does he put first does he take care of himself, but also make sure that a priority in his life???? people default to being who they are they might show up to be who you want them to be when you ask questions and demand or want them to do more this or that but remember they’re gonna always default to be who they are so why don’t we just sit back and watch?

[@Portia620]

I disagree with you I think a man I’ll let you know his intentions and it’ll be crystal clear what his wants and are in the relationship and if it isn’t, then that tells you all you need to know!!! This also goes to the amount of time he chooses to spend with you everything and all his actions will tell you exactly who he is as a person does he put himself first who does he put first does he take care of himself, but also make sure that a priority in his life???? people default to being who they are they might show up to be who you want them to be when you ask questions and demand or want them to do more this or that but remember they’re gonna always default to be who they are so why don’t we just sit back and watch? Women should never cheat but many times I see it with successful men due to unavailable. I was raised to see that as normal.

[@Talking.To.America]

Dating fatigue is real! We definitely need to stop dragging out relationships that aren't going anywhere.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Definitely 💯

[@t.g.4311]

Amen!!! Yes it's very real....

[@StephanieSmith-ko6xl]

Point taken ❤

[@snowshen902]

So true. After a long relationship, I learned that in a hard way!

[@dallisreed5717]

So true. I sometimes hold back with questions because it typically scares men off but I’m to the point where I want to scare off the wrong ones so I can run into the right one

[@JStig12]

@dallisreed5717 Some of us men want to be asked questions.

[@misselle1430]

Men have perfected the art of scaring women inyo never asking the needed questions. And society too and the men know thus and play into it. You have to ask the questions and you have to say what your plans are. So what if he runs away ??? Guess what ... you know he wasn't liking for what you were.... simple. Onto the next.

[@joyricherson4570]

That is so funny cuz I remember this one time this guy approached me? When I told him I am a Christian he said Oh you mean like no sex before marriage? I said absolutely not! He was like okay well nice to meet you bye. I nearly died laughing at the store, but I appreciated it.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@enaalexis92]

I love the way Stephan plays peek a boo with his audience, he gives little glimpses about his life and personality not too much, just enough to see what he says next 😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@docwhoshops]

Inquiring minds and eyes are watching. 🤣

[@tiannad1378]

2:55 what does he feel is the role of the man and the woman in a relationship? (expectations for what you need in the relationship, emotionally and what roles to play) 8:23 what are his pet peeves and deal breakers? (it may not seem like a big deal to you, but you should understand what's a big deal to them and vice versa) 13:26 what are his views on marriage? (you need to know what they're about so you're on the same page)

[@kyliefenwick4694]

1) What do you see the role of a man and a woman in a relationship? 2)What are His pet peeves and deal breakers? 3) What are your views on marriage?

[@vintagegallerina]

Asking about his views on marriage is still important to ask even if the one asking isn’t interested. It allows the other person to be informed about your position and make their own decision about continuing the relationship. If he’s marriage minded and I’m not, then he should know from the outset and we can wrap it up.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Well said 🙏

[@deshajames2224]

A good question is also what are your non-negotiables, it's helps to determine if your values align.

[@joyricherson4570]

I also said," Do you have a problem with women in ministry? I have a ministry so I need to know."

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@JStig12]

@joyricherson4570 I don't see myself being able to marry someone who has a problem with that either, especially if they have a problem with me listening to them. It is not just about a chauvinistic attitude, either. I don't know if this has been your experience, and I can't 100% prove it, but I believe that not believing in female ministers can block the flow of supernatural blessings that God wants to bring into our lives, including material provision. Joyce Meyer has been an integral part of my life success. I keep a copy of her book, 100 Ways To Simplify Your Life, among my favorite books.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

For those whom doesn't understand this...Providing emotionally in a relationship is just as important than just being a "provider". The emotions can still be there when there is no funds( say if man loses his job), which helps get couple get through those times due to the emotional bond. Nkt doing so to me is the equivalent of someone buying a family pet just to only feed it, but show no affection whatsoever.

[@2okaycola]

Great analogy

[@sassykat2000]

One hundred percent.

[@ElizabethMorgan-f5l]

Great video! My five year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, but I really miss him.

[@FeliciaWolfe-e7y]

It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him.

[@ElizabethMorgan-f5l]

That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?

[@FeliciaWolfe-e7y]

His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.

[@FeliciaWolfe-e7y]

Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.

[@ElizabethMorgan-f5l]

Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked him up online, and I'm impressed.

[@mustangmare]

After middle age there is no sense in dawdling if you are dating with purpose. I do believe in "Paint or get off the ladder," and will speak clearly, respectfully and really with no pressure, just clarity. :)

[@joyricherson4570]

Right again cousin cuz! I asked my honey day one, conversation one, moment one,WHAT IS YOUR PURPOSE FOR GETTING TO KNOW ME? He said I would like to see if we can lead into marriage.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@mariacolucci6958]

That's an awesome question to ask! It would have never crossed my mind, thanks for sharing!

[@iyounghuang5433]

Good conversation. You guys Matching. Another story, The meaning of marriage, purpose of marriage and spouse may difference from one to another.

[@dpharrison7]

I like how you said when you get married you are signing a contract one way or another and the prenuptial agreement is writing out what you both agree with when the love is flowing

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

A good question could be like... "Do you believe in living with a potiential mate before marraige? Also or, how long do you date before considering marraige?

[@irinaivanovic9792]

Everyone can lie though. 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

I understand your point of view. It doesn't have to necessarily be shacking up. People can make boundaries and stick them. Sometimes people just want to see how things would be in a living enviroment before they get married..like a test.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@@irinaivanovic9792 That's true, but all lies do get revealed in time. Some right away.

[@roxanemarquez7825]

I think we should be careful with prenups, especially signing one when you are a younger woman. No way can you let a man dump you and leave you with nothing after you have given him your youth and arguably the best years of your life. That’s what my mother taught me and she was absolutely correct.

[@h8h215]

Prenups are for marriage, the people who are filing for divorce is overwhelmingly women, what ever your point is at least keep it in line of reality please.

[@annekecaupain7598]

So true..communication is the key to both our HEARTS(feelings)...To have open communication....make s your relation stronger❤❤❤

[@philisiweradebe4063]

Wish me luck, going on my 3rd date tomorrow. So far its been great, after 3 years of no dating. I asked about his pet peeves. Will ask the other 2 questions 😅

[@carnidethermidorpianist1222]

I just want you to know Steph, that you are chosen for this! Everyone has a ministry; and this is what you are chosen for… I’ve been listening to many people who are doing the same thing; sincerely, I can never finish watching their full session. They never reach to me… But with you, it’s never enough.. I watch you to fall asleep, just to fill my mind with the right information. I used to listen to prayers. But I put the hymnal in the background on my laptop and then combine it with your videos. Because I can see that God has given me you, as my brother for serious therapy!!! And please note that, you’ve been in my prayers daily!!! Blessings to you, man of the Living God!!! ✊🏿✊🏿❤️❤️🎹🎹🎹🎹❤️❤️✊🏿✊🏿

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Also to add..people still have to use discernment when dealing with emotions, because some people use emotion to play on other people's emotions like a narcassist, and emotionally manipulative people. The faster one is aware, and not naíve to the situation, the better to know how to deal with such a situation.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Nicely stated 🙏

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

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[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Oreo, Cherry St. "The frequency to click into sync with you" "The only guy that came back for a second piece of her pie."

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

My youngest daughter Omega keeps dreaming about these twin boys😌

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks 2602..and a surname sign that rhymes with Soane and loan

[@AMH2001]

Q- can you do a video on how to have this conversation & draw the info out of the guy? Some guys are not very good at articulating their needs/wants.

[@h8h215]

Depending on their needs/wants its more beneficial to them to not articulate them.

[@shelleym2432]

Yes sirs! Definitely doing a prenup. After 40 we’ve worked too hard to lose it all if things don’t work out.

[@ladydi3618]

Great conversation nuggets that will save a lot of wasted time😍🙏🏽

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@rd1982]

Yes, prenuptial agreement. I am a female and I will not get remarried without one.

[@HalfSweetness]

This post I will definitely remember when it comes to the important questions to ask at the beginning of dating a potential partner so no time is wasted between the both of us, for sure. Also, I still agree with prenuptial agreements, and thank you for sharing a little about yourself in your college era, Mr. AlmondJoy.😁 ✋🏼💯

[@thobekamantshongo4458]

You are like a big brother I never had. Love your content, like u very much❤️🇿🇦

[@Mlp4041]

I appreciate your transparency and using yourself as an example. Great advice thank you 🙏🏽

[@debbieterry1453]

That is so true. After me and my boyfriend dated for 2 years. We got married. I woke up to a completely different man!!?

[@eva5637]

So, tell us!

[@debbieterry1453]

@@eva5637 He said no woman of mine is going to wear a mini skirt I used to make all my own clothes and most of them were middle thigh. And I had some cute clothes trust me. He then announced that I would not be able to work that he wouldn't want a woman of his to work. And then we had discussed that we would wait 5 years to have children and he grab me one day and well I got pregnant. And we hadn't even been married a year. He also told me that if we fought that it would automatically be my fault because I came from a broken home and he did not.

[@HolyDivineSJ]

That sounds toxic.

[@eva5637]

Wow it does not sound like happy marriage. I am sad for you he changed all of a sudden. It feels lonely. You wouldn't believe how much we have in common on this subject. Did you escape? I hope so. ❤ you deserve that true connection.

[@debbieterry1453]

@@eva5637 Well I really didn't know any better and so I put up with it until he walked out. You walked out and my son was 10 and my daughter was 5 and broke their hearts. And then he asked me for a divorce on mother's Day said he didn't love me anymore.

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

No one should have to express that getting stood up a.k.a. lied to is a pet peeve

[@DashaTheDivineDivah]

I agree .. this is less of a pet peeve and more blatant disrespect and disregard to another's time. Are we grown or are we grown?

[@SarahEg91]

Girl that’s what I’m saying this is a pet peeve annoyance when it ought to be a standard and just common respect for a person. Huh? A pet peeve would be like… smacking yo gum too loud or eating like a pig. Huh???? Are we grown yet😂

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

@@SarahEg91 preachhhhhhh

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

@@DashaTheDivineDivah exactly- see? there are us girls with standards and morals out there

[@annieb749]

Love this. Have to say though. I would ask about marriage even if you don't want it. Because what if you don't and he does?

[@ElectraHorvat]

ah Stephan, you've been killing it. popping on YT to check stuff and keep noticing and saving your videos to 'watch later'... and then I watch later

[@sharmawade5498]

Hello. Thank you for this beautiful teaching. Although, I’m not dating, i’m always looking forward to listening and learning ways to go into dating in the future. Love and Peace Always 🌹❤️

[@candacebarnes2496]

In my experience, there are men who will say they are "open" to marriage, when in fact they're quietly conflicted about it for the same reasons highlighted (govt., finances, etc) They say they're open so as to not scare off a woman they're attracted to/see potential with. A lot of men are aware that most women tend to want marriage. What I've learned is to keep probing (carefully) about marriage/long term goals as you get to know them and see if they contradict themselves. The guy I just dealt with started out as "open" and then gradually got more and more skeptical, even when I said I would sign a pre nup if we got there. We are no longer dealing with each other (for other problematic reasons), but it ending was a blessing because I think I would have ended up wasting time in a dead end relationship had it gotten there. Going forward, I'm looking for a man who confidently asserts that he is looking for a wife and not just "open" to it.

[@DashaTheDivineDivah]

I have the same deal breaker... I've have 4 guys not follow through on dates this month alone....I don't even get ready anymore unless I hear from guys because of this... they are all blocked now

[@kathywalker7778]

I come at the marriage issue from the other side of the equation. I am all about a committed relationship, celebrated and solidified with a ceremony, and if a traditional marriage is what my partner would need, I would definitely have a pre-nup.

[@Mlp4041]

Communicate and be mindful of the other person’s thoughts and not to devalue his or her thoughts we all have a different perspective so many factors contribute to our perception such as culture, how we are raised, social and financial status etc be honest without being judgmental and take what they say at face value. If he or she isn’t for you move forward 🙏🏽

[@karenalford4025]

I love your search for truth and clarity; and the overall integrity of a relationship. Thank you! 🙏

[@marywillis600]

I agree with a prenup , I had one when I married my husband.

[@mariacolucci6958]

Awesome video, thanks for sharing! Open and honest communication is super important to me and yeah, I totally should be asking this. Now I just gotta go and find me a date! 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for sharing, much love 💖

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

You’re welcome 🙏

[@user-fi5gf9ur4g]

I STAY XHAUSTED!……. I DON’T HAVE ENERGY FOR ANY GUY at this point. I DON’T CARE TO HAVE A GUY. A GUY FRIEND YES, BUT A WHOLE NEW ONE FOR A FRESH START. Where there’s no drama history.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Another not so bad of a question to ask would be, "How aware are you of your family?" Like many people(especially melinated native people) are not aware of the strong Haitian presence here in the U.S., and may not be aware that they could be part Haitian. Like I just discovered people with my last name in Jamaica. Also there's a "Wauconda" in Illinois. Very interesting things I must say.😊

[@Blessins00]

These are cool facts but not relevant at all to this video.

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

@@Blessins00 It is very relevant to the video, which is why I made such a statement...4 others understood.

[@oznuraygen7254]

Agree, we need to weed out by asking these questions.İf he is not serious then he should check out himself and should not waste my time

[@joyricherson4570]

This is important. There are many testimonies of people not dating. Society tells us we have to seriel or casually date. I used to think so until a few years ago. The closer I got to God I started seeing more clearly and started weeding ppl out BEFORE a date. I remember this one time I went out with this guy. He was cool andlur talks we good. I never thought to ask,"God is it ok to go out with him?" Anyway we go out to the restaurant and all the time Im thinking this is a waste of time, why am I here? My husband could be ringing my doorbell RIGHT THIS SECOND! 😂 I couldn't get comfortable AT ALL. I felt so stupid when I got home. I asked,"God why am I feeling that was pointless?" He said,"Because I never told you to go out with him in the first place!" That was about 4 years ago. I haven't done that since.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

AWESOME !!! another banger Stephan asking questions thats my thing but my problem is getting an honest answer because at this stage they try they best to real you in 😅

[@jordansjul]

Correct!

[@h8h215]

Stop giving s3x early and watch his actions to see if they line up with his words.

[@ishamunu1283]

Deep Truth Mr Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you 🙏

[@JenniferArzadon-yc9fz]

Amazing video thank you for sharing communication is the key both❤🙏👍

[@joyricherson4570]

You're right! I said I have no intention on working outside of the home while I have minor kids and after I don't desire working a traditional job. Do you have a problem with that?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@irinaivanovic9792]

Even if I have no kids I still don’t believe I should have to work a traditional job outside the home if I’m married to a grown man and having sex with him. I want to be fully provided for because that’s how I can feel safe inside the relationship.

[@shantewilliams7684]

Is there a polite way to inquire about mental health and therapy?

[@JStig12]

@shantewilliams7684 I believe so. I don't know if there is a one-size-fits-all answer though. One way that I can think of that suits me is, "Do you claim any mental disabilities or impairments over your life?"

[@HappinessHeavenHugs]

I'm going to lean towards no. Some people will take it as you've dealt with someone with mental illness and you don't want to repeat it and want to avoid people who are disabled. So they may just answer honestly and move on with the convo. But there are some that will be offended. They will think you are asking because YOU think they have a mental illness. Some will think you aren't that smart or you are gullible. They'll think you should be able to tell by paying attention to them to see if YOU notice any behaviors that add up to a mental illness. It shows you don't trust your own judgement. Therefore you may be easy to gaslight. Then if you have to ask, you might believe anything. People who don't know you well, and you haven't proven to be a safe space for, (more than likely) aren't going to just up and tell you their private health details like that. They may just lie. You may have a little better of a chance once a relationship is established. I think you would have to see a behavior and be concerned about it. Then ask if they ever thought to talk to someone about it. But therapy and mental health is a touchy subject and has a lot of negative stigma towards it. Many people would prefer not to talk about it or address it.

[@Marie-vz2qp]

I didn't know divorce was so disgusting.

[@MelindaBerney-eg5tb]

LoL, man Stephan REALLY didn't want to talk about the Prenup! LoL, I'm dying!!!

[@fantasiaroberts5157]

I fully agree with you on everything you said, I would love to hear more about your personal stories...😁🙏🏽💚💚💚🙌🏾

[@TawandaClark-ii9ps]

Another good question could be like..."How aware are you of the world aroubd you?" For instance I'm just learning there's a Flint, New York just there is in like 12 other U.S. states.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Good question! 🙏

[@yubanihernandezmiranda9252]

I ask everything bc I’m not wasting my time! But it took a while to get there.

[@monaeeekattii6923]

I love your honesty the questions to ask men and no we are not offended by any of your saying God bless you and your Knowledge ❤❤❤❤❤

[@Pebbles5064]

Not sure what most ppl or Stephon considers "the early stages". Is it the first date, two months or three months. I don't want to appear anxious with a ton of questions because most of the time, I am trying to determine if I even "like" this person. Most of my conversations during the early stages are centered around overall life, work, faith and family. Perhaps, I am doing it wrong.,🥴😂. What is Early Stages.🤔

[@h8h215]

"Like" this person translates into does he give me tingles, this is a poor metric for finding a suitable partner, the questions stephan wants you to ask are objectivly based absent feelings because they are important. Set aside your feelings and be more objective and you might find what your looking for, my guess is you dont know what your looking for.

[@PeterDonwin]

*I love the grounded reality of this channel!!!* Retirement took a toll on my finances, but with my involvement in the digital market, $47,000 weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD❤️

[@PeterDonwin]

Only God knows how much grateful i am. After so much struggles I now own a new house and my family is happy once again everything is finally falling into place!!

[@Anabel-y2w]

Wow that's huge, how do you make that much monthly?

[@Anabel-y2w]

I'm 35 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??

[@PeterDonwin]

Thanks to my co-worker (Scott) who suggested Mrs Maria Angelina🙏.

[@PeterDonwin]

She's a licensed broker in the states 🇺🇸

[@JenaeDiamod]

You right I agree with that

[@Cindy_Love_2025]

Excellent video ❤️👏🏼💯

[@user-fi5gf9ur4g]

Now that I think about it, that s exactly what Josh would say and how he did/was

[@joemincer8882]

I would absolutely sign a prenup. When I walk away, I usually make a clean break, and I like to do it peacefully. (Your personal stories are a trip.🤣🤣🕳️)

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thanks for sharing!! 🙏

[@YourChronicIllnessAdvocate]

Readyyy Mr. Stephan

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@RaeMajorsWildman]

I agree about having a prenuptial. Also these days women have more money than men

[@h8h215]

The evidence still suggests women date equal and up economically, so at worse women lose nothing at best women gain everything, prenups are for mens protection mostly.

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

i'm sorry but even if a family member died, I would still expect a text letting me know

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

but I would never do that to someone

[@Blessins00]

Or a phone call.

[@eva5637]

Pet peeve, I was not familiar with the word. Mine is being ignored, last in line.

[@leapsandjump]

Much needed message 💛✨️

[@user-fi5gf9ur4g]

Stephan, cursed!? 😳 Hard to believe

[@zariyabe]

Thank you!

[@kimslife_de]

Thanks 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@RaiRyu292]

These questions should work both ways. For example that first question. The question itself is fine. However, if you as a woman may feel some type of way about if a man asked that instead, then you as a woman shouldn't be asking that question either. And it goes without saying this applies to men too. It's a great question, but at the same time it's also a can of worms of a question for both men and women. Why? Because so many men AND women want to treat roles and relationships like it's both 1924 and 2024 at the same time. Treating it like a buffet where they cherry pick values that specifically benefit their own gender, but unwilling to reciprocate the opposite in a way the opposite gender feels benefit them. And no, that means what THEY feel benefits them, not what you tell yourself benefits them.

[@DarleneGabriel-ye5pd]

You need to do an episode on military men! And relationships! Are they honest, truth or trustworthy in relationships!!!!

[@irinaivanovic9792]

No! They aren’t! They have the most affairs out of most job professions! Don’t marry military men or cops!!

[@cherylrussell6602]

What if the man's comment is " marriage is overrated " but does not object to getting married? How do you view this?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I would ask him what he believes is overrated? I would also ask him is marriage something is truly wants vs what is expected of him?

[@joyricherson4570]

I wouldn't do it personally. The person who marries needs to value marriage and appreciate marriage. Like that one post I watched said, he needs to WANT to be married. Him saying it's overrated but I'll do it means he doesn't really care one way or another. The worst kind of person you can have as a person indifferent to something as important as marriage.

[@irinaivanovic9792]

@@joyricherson4570Truth! 💯

[@cherylrussell6602]

@MeetStephanSpeaks This gentleman stated if he is loving his woman in every way possible & in all the ways that he should, & she is doing likewise & makes him very happy;.. getting married is not going to make him love her any more than he already does! That's what he means about it being overrated! He Is very open to getting married. However, it would be mostly to appease his woman! Your thoughts now?

[@santasanchez6394]

great video.

[@Tina-ny8ff]

What if a man agrees with your perspective on things? But clearly his behavior and attitude towards you isn't that? How does that work with asking these questions if the men aren't genuinely honest?

[@JStig12]

@Tina-ny8ff If that is legitimately the case, then they have worked by showing you that his actions don't line up with his words and that you need to move on to a different guy.

[@h8h215]

I agree with jstig, move on. Men also act based on women women do rather then what they say, its the only way to spot deception.

[@KimaraTaylor-xh5ww]

😮 yes. 😊

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

I don't really care about a piece of paper, I just wanna wear a ring for someone 💍

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

But I'm also someone who has passed up a lot of money because they didn't share my same faith values

[@irinaivanovic9792]

You have a LOT to learn if you actually think marriage is “just a piece of paper.” 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Victoria_Loves_Jesus]

@@irinaivanovic9792 to me it's just about making a covenant in front of God and my family, but OK 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@joyricherson4570]

Did you dig deeper in yourself? Abandonment issues?

[@DevotionforNatasha]

I respect his accountability 11:00

[@_mrisha_]

When will you pivot your content, I’m burning out , lol ! The hues-color - spice things up ! I am a designer-content creator, let’s delve! I want to see some controversy, some guest speakers on your channel , perhaps grant me the access! It’s becoming monotonous, I love you 🤝🏾

[@melodiallen7832]

Do these questions apply to the 40+ group, or the under 40 age group.

[@JStig12]

@melodiallen I don't see why they would be limited to one group or the other, but, maybe there is something that I am not seeing clearly. Is there something about those questions that makes you suspect that they don't apply to one of those groups?

[@cherylhill8743]

What can be the issue when a woman has pattern being in relationship with cheaters?

[@h8h215]

Their picking guys most women have their eyes on.

[@SarahEg91]

Okay I found it🤭Are we still asking men these GREAT relationship questions instead of silently and secretly observing a man’s character through their actions towards us without interfering? Nah forreal though if yeeeen even showing up and out as a top tier experience of a man individually worthy of femininity what I gotta ask about marriage fo????????😂honest to God question.

[@h8h215]

You dont have to worry about any of that, you are far from feminine.

[@sallyr.6891]

Saw this before.

[@DNB7227]

Sounds like he needed to ask them questions. He's the one who keeps getting cheated on.

[@Afrikansweetee]

❤🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏

[@ayumii07]

1. What do you think is the role of a man and women in a relationship? 2. What are your pet peeves? 3. What is your view on marriage?

[@raquelt5342]

Have you ever watched Zak Roeddes videos on actual masculine men? They don’t need a prenup….

[@colleenvandam9928]

I’m not sure many men are actually capable of answering question one lol

[@JenaeDiamod]

Are yu single you very smart I like man very knowledgeable

[@joyricherson4570]

Yeah I don't think that she would have called even if you did say it was your pet peeve. She didn't call you because it wasn't in her to do it. If she was really distraught from the death, she wouldn't be able to process a pet peeve.

[@vallivieira6632]

I really believe a thoughtful person would have left a VM msg letting you know what happened.

[@gawaniaspigner]

Men take questions too personal 😂

[@h8h215]

You are asking personal questions...what do you mean? If they run off isnt that a good sign that he ddnt have values that aligned with your own?

[@Katarina-qm1ye]

y u mad

[@Katarina-qm1ye]

[@StephanieChatman]

EVERYTHING y'all DID IN THE DARK WILL BE EXPOSED IN THE LIGHT IT WILL NEVER WORK,😂😂😂 YALL SAD YALL DEFEATED YOURSELVES YOUR SCHEMES DON'T WORK ON ME STAY OUT MY,ENERGY

[@patriciajung9157]

Prenump no good. Because a gage a man really loves you he will give it up. In the Bible love your wife as your own body. If prenump not in love....doomed to fail. I would question his love...

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

Half of all marriages end in divorce. A prenuptial agreement is the only way to ensure both parties are protected.

[@h8h215]

And you ladies reap the benefits of divorce so i understand your complaint against prenup.

[@sallyjrwjrw6766]

@h8h215 not always. Plenty of sugar mamas marrying sugar babies and then losing in divorce

[@h8h215]

@@sallyjrwjrw6766 i didnt say always but your cases are statistically irrelevent when compared to me who lose out. You will always find the exceptions in any argument but we all know exceptions dont make the rule. My girlfriend and me would be that exception however i set out boundaries so if we did split i wouldnt get anything of hers.

[@reneefernandez1563]

Kind of miss the days of when the goal of dating was marriage 🥲

[@JStig12]

@reneefernandez1563 It still is for some, myself included. One positive way to look at it is, without being forced to date for the goal of marriage, you get to see who truly has the heart and vision for it.

[@reneefernandez1563]

@@JStig12 AMEN good point