Asking The 36 Questions That Make Strangers Fall In Love

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I think they’d have really cute kids together!

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they have so much chemistry! i hope they get together :)

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The internet needs more healthy and authentic relationship videos that aren't staged and show-y and clickbait-y and overdone. We don't see enough examples of actual REAL healthy relationships. I'm glad this video exists.

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Madison Bombardier I’m glad they exist lol

[@unlokia]

The internet appears to be a reflection of real society; 2% of sincere people, drowned out by 98% idiocy.

[@Nelle4ever]

Good comment. I think we need more of this just in real life. I know that all marriages aren't like this, but a lot are and it's an amazing thing.

[@laurenbi]

Maybe it’s bc I’m younger, but it seems like a lot more content is produced by young people. And young people are stupid, ESPECIALLY when it comes to romance. lol.

[@rickseiden1]

Craig, I'm being dead serious here, and not mushy at all. Your being here has improved the world. You bring humor and joy to hundreds of thousands of people on a regular basis. That's not something many of us can say. And it makes a difference. Someone was sad or upset, and sat down and watched one of your videos, and it put a smile on their face. And, beyond that, and this is a little mushy, but I'm a dad, too, you and China brought Ada into this world. That makes a big difference, too. So, yes, your being here has improved the world.

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You seem like a great guy, Rick

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"Doobly doo" Was enough to put you over that bar. Everything else is just icing on a cake that is at this point mostly composed of icing.

[@someguy7567]

Oops I fell in love with you both. Was that supposed to happen?

[@coleowl31]

thinking_about_figures 😂😂😂😂

[@marinaadi494]

oh my gawd same.

[@charityshumba6189]

I'm wondering too.

[@StudioRoseProductions]

LOL

[@davidbush9274]

How could you not?

[@kailamcd]

"Please make me a Dr's appointment" is fully relatable

[@HalkerVeil]

As much as I hate Alexa, she does do that at least. Until she puts me with the wrong doctor anyway.

[@mariannetfinches]

This is the only time I ask my wife to make a phone call for me. She hates calling people so much, she always sounds like she's panicking, resulting in my getting the earliest available appointment! Skills! I sound so calm on the phone I'm very often told there are no appointments. There's no way it's a coincidence. We've been together 10 years

[@megan2176]

Totally. I have a list of important "just be a grown up already" calls to make (re insurance, banking, investments, etc) that I'm procrasting on. I do need to refill a prescription too, but I'll do that after I type this (because it's automated!). :)

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Kaila McDonald “so it looks like Doctor Jackass will have some available time to see you sometime in December of 2020, does that work for you?”

[@matthewb9955]

Yeah I really need to get one of them wives I hear about. I’m never going to get to the doctor as a single man.

[@UKcuber]

I love that you two kept some answers just for yourself. It's really heart warming watching you invest in your marriage.

[@shelbys2750]

But I do still want to know what the last two questions were!

[@shelbys2750]

I found them 😁 35. What family members death would be most disturbing? Why? 36. Share a problem, let your partner offer a solution and then also tell you how they think you feel about your problem.

[@matthiashavrez]

"Okay I'll do a selfish answer" "I want to know if I did good to the world" "Selfish, you keep using that word. I don't think it mean what you think it mean."

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Here for any and all Inigo Montoya references.

[@xxxbroknglassrosexxx]

She is so relatable, jesus christ "I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up"

[@heyummrandommuch]

Wow I really like lovey, tipsy Chyna and Craig

[@rbplays]

COMPLETELY off topic... wouldn't Chyna make an AMAZING Velma in a Scooby Doo parody???

[@Shrooblord]

I'd watch it

[@markhilliard4037]

OMG! Yes!!

[@alasdairtrimmer4302]

You have made a positive impact on my world

[@PogieJoe]

Likewise.

[@Shrooblord]

+ for real

[@fionastout-horn8582]

Me too

[@Maleick]

Alasdair Trimmer I come hear when I’m sad because I want to laugh

[@Bizzee_Bee]

3 minutes in and I’m already crying “All the good things in my life are because of meeting you”

[@KelseyDrummer]

I've always wanted to do this!! Kinda one sided tho cause all I get back is "meow, meow!"

[@harrynac6017]

Keep going till you hear prrrth prrrrth.

[@HLB313]

But that means "I already love you, silly, now feed me!"

[@vigilantcosmicpenguin8721]

I think that's enough to make someone fall in love.

[@sealegslexi]

I really appreciate how genuine and real this video was! So many videos of couples answering questions about themselves/eachother on youtube feels exaggerated or scripted. This just felt like sitting in on a very real and vulnerable moment for you two. I also really admire that you kept some moments for yourselves. Thanks for being real people and thanks for sharing this!

[@CaptainKMorganx]

Oh hi friend!

[@jennabunnykins]

Make a movie in Italy! Two birds, one stone!

[@julieallen5212]

This was nice. Lovely to see people that genuinely like each other and are happily married.

[@BanjoSayWhat]

This is without a doubt the cutest thing I have seen in a long time.

[@thewhitezubia]

Thankyou for actually keeping important/personal things private. Not that it wouldn't be interesting to hear, but it shows where your values are. I like that. I like you guys. Genuine humans.

[@Duckofdoom91]

I'm really happy you were able to do this honestly and also keep out bits that are personal. Somehow it's refreshing to find a person on the internet that doesn't share every single detail of their lives. Good video as always.

[@Shrooblord]

And feels so openly genuine. It's great. It also felt more like they did this for each other than for us, per se. But we _were_ the incentive for them to do this for each other. It's awesome.

[@SealStepMusic]

My boyfriend and I did this after about two and a half weeks of dating. We've been together for 3 years now :) I can't say for sure I 100% fell in love right after that conversation was over, but I did know that I definitely would sometime soon and I was excited about that.

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These two are the true KZbin power couple

[@_Egitor]

Time to make an off-site backup for those hard drives and hard-to-replace documents ;) MOVING ON

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Yes, and get a fire/flood safe, please

[@ElmoSyr]

We had a saying in film school that unless you have 2 backups, you don't have any files.

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There are two types of people in this world. Those who backup their important data and those who will.

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Amen to this. 3-2-1 rule. 3 copies (including your primary one), two types of media, 1 copy offsite. The data on my home NAS is chooched off to Backblaze for a very low cost. Probably much more cheaply than storing a bunch of video, but still well worth it for you!

[@drumsofautumn]

When Chyna was like "just say ditto" I was like hahaha but then when Craig actually SAID IT, I thought it was such a strong moment and so much came across in that small word!

[@guinnessbradley5108]

It would be cool to see what your answers are like 5 years from now.

[@MyInterwebsBox]

I’m a simple woman. I see a thumbnail with Craig and Chyna together, I click.

[@memyselfandisaacmusic7819]

I a man, but otherwise ditto

[@Shrooblord]

Ah, I see you're a wo/man/person of culture, as well.

[@oasisbeyond]

I am a man but agree.

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Kay's Closet Yes girl!

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We might get lucky and find a non gender binary

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When my husband and I first talked on the phone before we started dating, he made a wheezy waiter reference that I finished and we both knew we had found a good weirdo. I'd say you made a positive difference.

[@fugithegreat]

There were so many "awwww 💜" moments here. You are truly a lovely couple!

[@piketubeman]

Quite possibly the most uplifting video I've watched in all my years on KZbin. Thanks.

[@Shrooblord]

It's on that list, for sure!

[@Savergn]

The last 2 questions they skipped: 35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why? 36. Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.

[@t.relles2249]

Savergn I wish I saw this before I clicked and wasted one of my free monthly articles 😂

[@lyssi2586]

Where is this list?

[@bluesira]

@@lyssi2586 If you search for the article they describe in the video, it contains the full list of 36 questions.

[@TheForestFamily]

Honestly I’ve given up on (for the time being) finding someone who’s going to be a good partner for me but seeing them together is really sweet

[@1MegArbo]

Same.

[@dmp1520]

@@1MegArbo yuuuuup.

[@TheHigherSpace]

I officially love drunk chyna :D she is much more open !

[@nvandermark3517]

You noob

[@Shrooblord]

I officially love chyna :D she is ftfy

[@xkristixx]

I really relate to the internet being the greatest thing ever. I met my husband years ago in a Halo 2 "clan" via multiplayer.

[@serg10x]

I met my wife playing Halo 3.

[@xkristixx]

@@serg10x that's awesome!

[@zain4019]

Awww:)

[@ericcollins6231]

You guys give me hope that true love still exists out there. Seriously. Love all your videos together, your chemistry, your jokes, your love for one another. It's inspiring.

[@cupfulofeathers]

Loved this! I really admire your authenticity and intimacy. And I'm glad you kept some answers just between you two; you have a good balance of honesty with your audience without oversharing.

[@Ebee2]

this is why I love you both so much and there’s so much I admire and respect about the dynamics of your relationship and you as individuals - you’re not trying to portray yourselves as perfect, and by doing so you’re kind of , well .....goals!

[@Shrooblord]

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[@KieraJo]

"We both think that isn't cheating." HAHA! Love the quick wit that you both have, and how much you love each other. :)

[@MewWolf5]

You two make partnership more appealing to me than it usually is.

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MewWolf5 Ace gang! 💜

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Ace gang! Have some cake :3

[@feltonlove13]

I've been watching you for years. Since the first time you were a guest for the vlogbrothers (I think at least a decade ago, but who knows time is weird). You have absolutely made a positive impact on my life. Thank you Craig. It's been amazing watching and learning from you, and Chyna same goes for you. ❤️

[@UselessGTAV]

I loved seeing you too talking on a more serious note. You have shown us what kind of people you really are and I feel blessed for having the opportunity to witness that. Thank you very much guys

[@paniclover4138]

Those last two questions got crazy deep. I’m glad you kept them to you. This was beautiful.

[@amys3168]

Chyna! Lean into your organizational skillz! I’m jealous! I can manage that stuff, but with no level of competence. And I could never volunteer those skills! When Ada goes to school they will need you!

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Agreed that is an awesome skill to have. Organized people get stuff done!

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I just re-found your videos, I hadn't last watched since 2010. They are different now but still as beautiful and uplifting. Glad they are still here! Your creations have definitely made my world better!

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Craig, youve never made a video that hasnt made me smile (: Your cheerful and optimistic charm and charisma never fails to lift my spirits, be it punching eagles, showing us the good stuff, shooting lightning from your hands, or playing those funky jams! Youve made my life better in so many ways, and i cant be the only one! This video was so wholesome and you two are just so adorable together its ridiculous~ Thank you for doing what you do

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I've just come back to KZbin. I just want to say, you're both an inspiration to me. Both KZbin-wise but also personally.

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You two are honestly like the most genuine people I think I've seen on the internet:D

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I really appreciate the details that you kept private. It's just so wonderful to see the respect you have for each other and your relationship like that in the public space. Thank you for sharing what you did you lovely people :)

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When you see a video by wheezywaiter and it’s not more than 2 years old!!!!

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Yea i had to look at it again

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I couldn’t believe it was so new

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He's done 24 videos in the last year.

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#13: You both changed my life! Thanks for sharing a part of your life with all of us!

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Your being here changed my world! I think you both have a positive impact! Thank you for all of your hard work!

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Please don’t wait until your child is older before becoming “husband and wife again”. Be husband and wife now. You seem like a great couple, and your baby only exists because of you two, so allocate some priority to celebrate being you two. And please make us a video from Italy - it’s a beautiful country, with good red wine.

[@zain4019]

FoxBox72 Wow this is so powerful. Thank-you:)

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I'm only halfway through and I've fallen in love with you both 😋

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you've been improving my world for ten years. And I have precious irreplaceable memories at Madison wheezy meet ups or DPC gigs, I know my Madison/Monona peeps agree, even in our small community you made a big impact. Definitely created and strengthened friendships through that

[@bookingforewordtoit]

This was so life affirming to watch. Thank you for sharing this wonderfully wholesome and tender aspect of your lives with us!

[@sapphic_sophie]

So cute!! I know that I for one feel as though I’ve fallen deeply in love with both of you. On a more serious note, however, I just wanted to say this: I don’t know if your actions have improved the world overall, but I know that they have improved my life personally. You’ve always been a huge inspiration and your creativity and tenacity is something that I have always admired. Thank you for improving the harder days and DFTYA! (Don’t forget that you’re awesome) :)

[@Tea_Tales_Travels]

_Bookleman I second this! Thank you Craig for all you have done and shared with for the past ten years or so! You’re awesome! 💕

[@TheGossenheimer]

that was sooo good! I loved watching it. It was the perfect combination of funny, emotional and of course, awkward!

[@magpie913]

So nice you did this video. It's a hard thing sharing personal thoughts and memories, and even harder when you know thousands of people will watch you. I wouldn't do this because of the fear of being judged but now, watching you I feal a very natural and human connection with you guys and this is what we need more in life. Thank you :)

[@armadillodude2992]

I really love this idea of asking these questions with your spouse! I loved seeing y’all compliment each other, there’s just something special about watching two humans telling each other things they like about the other. 10/10 would recommend this video.

[@CBGBBB]

This was really heartwarming to watch and it totally works, I'm in love with you guys.

[@jeniel93]

This video was so pleasant to watch. This was a beautiful look into your relationship! Kinda makes me want to do this with my partner.

[@7skygirl7]

So Sweet. I have a tear of how dear that was in my eye. You are a lovely family...thanks for posting this

[@melanie_bax333]

I never comment on videos, but this was a beautiful video to watch. Just pure, genuine communication. Thank you for sharing. P.S. I love all of your videos.

[@Chrisisplays]

Your beeing already improved the world.

[@AbdelrahmanMohamed383]

He was the one who actually got me into running, you're not just being nice.

[@nuclearmidget]

Love this. You’re both amazing, such a privilege.

[@mikaela7830]

You have already changed the world by helping so many to think and to laugh. I watch your videos when my depression is bad and it makes me feel infinitely better. Thank you.

[@eztravels9809]

I liked how natural you both were together. I see love while watching you two go through these questions together.

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[@T1J]

goals

[@madamedent]

You've made a difference in my life, Craig. A good one. You're the kind of person I'd want as a close friend if I could know you personally. Chyna, too. It's so warm and touching to hear you both talk the way you do about your daughter and each other and your family. I think my husband and I might try these questions tonight, for fun. And maybe even profit. Thanks for the idea :)

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You guys are my new favorite youtube people. Lovely and fun pair. My only regret is not finding your channel sooner. Keep it up! ❤️

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Lately I've been longing for some Wheezy Waiter videos.

[@rubenleal4821]

#33... So start recording a private mommy-to-daughter vlog for her to watch later, or together. Same for you, dad.

[@msmadasthehatter]

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[@aprillouise2950]

I want wheezy to know that him being here on this earth has made an impact in my life. His content motivates me. This video hit close to home, especially when they talk about how close they are, but taking the time to talk made them feel closer. My partner is away for work at the moment, it just reminded me that even though we are away from each other, we can still connect through conversation. Thanks guys for the great video.

[@Kravven]

The authenticity is beyond perfect . Thank you for that ! And yes ... You made a difference in the world !

[@kirmityou]

14:48 Oh god, please tell me you have some sort of offsite backup (cloud/hard drives somewhere else)? If not, get on it right now!

[@NancyHasLongHair]

Hey, this was great. Thanks for sharing.

[@Jojo12336]

You're totally an inspiration, Craig! You inspire me to work hard, to enjoy life more, to exercise even when i don't want to, and you bring joy to the everyday grind of it all. I loved watching your old daily vlogs. I continue to watch for your hilarious, thoughtful content and overall awesomeness. You definitely changed my life for the better and I'm so happy you and Chyna found each other. Yay Internet! haha

[@KennyThorson]

I don't comment on videos, like ever.... but had to say this is one of the most real videos I've seen on KZbin. You peeps are goals.

[@themripley]

Craig talking about the moment he fell in love with Chyna got me right in the feels.

[@isabellegarber8079]

I cried like 6 times watching this and had an absolute great time

[@maryschumacher7118]

Thanks so much for this. I am single and asked myself these questions. Tears, tears and laughter. Thank you.

[@20lazystarlight]

It's like, what, two days since I discovered your channel and I already effing love it to bits. You guys are amaaaaazing! Thanks for being out there

[@zincwell6503]

I really loved this video. I've done these questions with my spouse and it was really reaffirming

[@backyardwarrior7115]

I don't have the marriage you guys have. I love my husband but we are not this connected.

[@zincwell6503]

@@backyardwarrior7115 maybe it's something you can cultivate with your husband.

[@belindaweber7999]

Beautiful Guys, lovely, lovely content. Truely a breath of fresh air! 😁😍😎

[@joshbailey872]

Craig i can tell you with 100% confidence that your being here has helped the world, and i'm sure every other viewer of your channel would vouch for that too

[@LuxisAlukard]

Watching this after your "No drinking for a year" video - well, I think you made the right choise by doing that chalange. And you two are great, I just want to say that! Thank you for every great video!

[@TheEsborn]

This is so relatable... Also, go to Italy:) Also also, make backups of your hard drives...

[@merlinHPtwilight]

Please look up the channel called theskindeep! Their series "the and" is simply amazing. The most intimate thoughtful conversations arise. Anyway, you're an amazing couple and I loved hearing your answers to these questions! Thanks for sharing xx

[@entrcpy]

JustMe I did one of their live shows. Very fun.

[@jacob_dcdn]

You two are great people with sweet humor and you have brought joy into my life. You made a difference and I kind of look up to you in a way. I needed som optimism, thank you.

[@dreamheartnzable]

You've improved my world, for one. Saved my life about 5 years ago, tbh. I'd watch your videos for hours on end, for weeks watching your videos is all I did, some repeated, to keep me busy and keep my mind off the shit. Now I'm engaged and we have a cat and it's great. And you did that. Thank you.

[@HumansOfVR]

Aren't you already moderately youtube famous? I wonder if you ever get noticed on the street

[@PogieJoe]

I believe that was the joke! And he once said he gets recognized about once a month.

[@briandiehl9257]

"moderately" He has 800k subs

[@robertlazorko7350]

I think answering these questions while drinking makes the answers soooo much more truthful and interesting. Right Chyna?!?

[@TheyCallMeKatwin]

Really been loving getting back into your videos again. Quality content!

[@chester6343]

Hands down, the most authentic, honest, open couple on the internet, I literally daydream about having this, Happy New Year guys x

[@artistkateo]

Drunker and drunker... "you are.... I like you..." 😂

[@HumansOfVR]

*_Box Wine FTW!!_*

[@Iamvalcristvalentine]

yes a fine Cardboardeaux

[@ChynaGrove]

@@Iamvalcristvalentine this is the funniest thing I have ever read.

[@tk45440]

I was just looking for a new video last night. Glad this showed up. Thanks.

[@katiedetardo9178]

This was very touching to watch. As a kid growing up having parents that fight and don’t agree on much, I wish they would have done this questionnaire. It could maybe help them remember why they chose each other. I hope to do this when I am in that place with a special someone and later on as a reminder.