What SUCKS about Japanese girls? Boys from Japan give their honest opinions

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@xiaorishu
@xiaorishu 5 жыл бұрын
3:06 That guy in the middle looked like he had a lot on his mind and wanted to say more but is holding himself back lmao.
@notmeeehehe
@notmeeehehe 5 жыл бұрын
xiaorishu oh wow you're still relevant?
@_cherrychi_
@_cherrychi_ 5 жыл бұрын
xiaorishu I thought that too hahha
@anxx5233
@anxx5233 5 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO YESSS the poor dude gotta hold the rest of his opinion for himself
@danicogaming9918
@danicogaming9918 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah he was cut off xD feel dissapointed
@gobeyond9930
@gobeyond9930 5 жыл бұрын
@@notmeeehehe as someone who's known by no one, I dont think you have the right to say that.
@anxx5233
@anxx5233 5 жыл бұрын
"why girls smoke?" Okay before anybody answer this I'd like to know first why guys smoke according to his thoughts.
@DarkPa1adin
@DarkPa1adin 5 жыл бұрын
pleasure. I have friends who are smoking addicts. the simple reason they gave is they receive pleasure when smoking... I was floored...
@ilicia_08
@ilicia_08 5 жыл бұрын
Remember that this is Japan, so it’s probably different over there. Perhaps more woman than men smoke.
@anxx5233
@anxx5233 5 жыл бұрын
@@ilicia_08 yeah that's why I said I want to hear from him about the smoking men. I mean, what's the situation there? His question left us with a lot of questions.
@anxx5233
@anxx5233 5 жыл бұрын
@@DarkPa1adin wait... Are you the guy in the video?
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly men and women alike who are non smokers are disgusted by smoking. Many smokers simply have no idea how disgusting they appear to non smokers
@TheAquaelle
@TheAquaelle 5 жыл бұрын
I think I would end up splitting the bill too or pay the next time, because I feel really bad when someone pays for me, haha.
@fifi7367
@fifi7367 5 жыл бұрын
I never let anyone pay for me tho. If they insist they have to tell me first. 😂 because i order as i like. It feels great to pay for someone rather than being paid for 😂
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
@Moon Jar I've had some dates were my date was honest with me that she couldn't pay and would really appreciate it if I could pick up the tab so she could make it up to me by cooking next time (cheap option, but the thought counts). I happily paid for her because she was considerate and courteous. It costs NOTHING to be considerate or say thank you, and the fact that certain women refuse to reciprocate in any fashion whatsoever is very telling about the true motives behind why they won't pay.
@cl03cl
@cl03cl 5 жыл бұрын
Same
@cl03cl
@cl03cl 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve had so many fights with family over the bill, it started to get dangerous.
@miaalmeida4787
@miaalmeida4787 5 жыл бұрын
I feel bad but I love it
@Cuteemogirl94
@Cuteemogirl94 5 жыл бұрын
In Germany it's normal to splitt the bill. A lot of woman are even demanding to pay on their own or they would feel bad.
@Someone-hj2mn
@Someone-hj2mn 5 жыл бұрын
That's it. I'm starting to date German girls
@_cherrychi_
@_cherrychi_ 5 жыл бұрын
Cemil PCMR 😂
@princessthyemis
@princessthyemis 5 жыл бұрын
wow
@FiveOClockTea
@FiveOClockTea 5 жыл бұрын
I actually like it, when a guy offers to pay on a first date, but I'll still ask if we should split it. And if he pays, I'll invite him on the next date 😉
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict 5 жыл бұрын
That is actually kinda hot
@carstensing
@carstensing 5 жыл бұрын
Who needs Japanese girls when you can befriend these fine gentlemen.
@IdiotPerspective
@IdiotPerspective 5 жыл бұрын
Bros before Hoes
@Apetitegirly
@Apetitegirly 5 жыл бұрын
ur rude
@Gaga-lm4ll
@Gaga-lm4ll 3 жыл бұрын
@@IdiotPerspective u are fucking rude
@nini8205
@nini8205 5 жыл бұрын
The only answer to all their questions is "BECAUSE THEY WANT TO"
@Rizolianapaula
@Rizolianapaula 5 жыл бұрын
Yess
@Janiella89
@Janiella89 5 жыл бұрын
Except the splitting bill one
@raphlebonnet9703
@raphlebonnet9703 3 жыл бұрын
They reach good point, like Instagram,split the bill or smoking
@haticegul5452
@haticegul5452 3 жыл бұрын
@@raphlebonnet9703 smoking is a problem for both sides imo it'd be wrong to just shame one gender
@raphlebonnet9703
@raphlebonnet9703 3 жыл бұрын
@@haticegul5452 there is no shame, on only one gender
@LadyMea
@LadyMea 5 жыл бұрын
i dated a Japanese before and both of us is well-earned. he ended our relationship after I paid for our lunch (because it was end of month and i saw his savings from both his cards). i feel bad if i am not helping and he dislike the feeling of being depended.... i drove for our dates because he worked in my country and he does not have driving license. so he feel like he need to contribute his part. he bought me stuffs, he paid for most of our dinners and lunches, he would do anything to keep me happy but just one slight thing i did, he think i was disrespecting him. somehow i wonder if Japanese guys cannot accept independent or helpful women.
@myenamjonie124
@myenamjonie124 5 жыл бұрын
It's they culture old fasionate like man provide everyting for they women, it's like they pride. Independent women hurt they pride that cannot be controlled by them as a man, that might think that they useless.
@monicapetitebonita218
@monicapetitebonita218 5 жыл бұрын
@@myenamjonie124 basically patriarchy
@リバイルぜヒダイア
@リバイルぜヒダイア 5 жыл бұрын
😔😔
@futurelane3377
@futurelane3377 5 жыл бұрын
It has nothing to do with accepting independency. You Wording it like that makes it seems bad. Its just want defined them as a man... Cuz thats what men had to do.... N it makes them happy... Giving to a woman and feeling needed is something a man likes... If they dont feel needed.. Theyre not gonna stay... In like 99% of race/culture in the world did this... Theres nothing wrong wit being independent... But that money u make... Spend it on u n ur wants. Or better yet... Save it. .. The money he makes goes to yall needs and support and wants.... If u did see his savings not going too well... Dont try to pay for it for the things yall do together... But keep it in mind for whatever yall do... Like suggest a inexpensive place to eat... Or decided to just have a game night... At home.... Etc... Its mostly bout how he feel as a man... N in a relationship ... Its about how the other feel... Does he feel like a man when i do this or does she feel like a woman when i do this?
@mk-wp9xl
@mk-wp9xl 4 жыл бұрын
@@futurelane3377 he literally broke up with her because she was always helping him, wth is men like to feel needed what are you kids? That kind of thinking is toxic and makes both women and men feel bad about themselves and it need to change
@mikehunt132
@mikehunt132 5 жыл бұрын
Am I trippin or was that a Japanese dude named Carlos?
5 жыл бұрын
He has latin blood for sure.
@monicatorres1582
@monicatorres1582 5 жыл бұрын
José Francisco Candido Filho lmao you aren’t for sure tf😂 just cause it’s Carlos doesn’t mean anything 🙄
@materialgirl1585
@materialgirl1585 5 жыл бұрын
FRANKU!!!
@usoda6974
@usoda6974 5 жыл бұрын
'Carosu'
@lmahu6627
@lmahu6627 5 жыл бұрын
**confused screaming**
@jsimpson4858
@jsimpson4858 5 жыл бұрын
That’s so weird. When I go out to dinner, they invite me. They pay the bills. But when I invite them, I pay the bills. Sometimes we do split the bills. My male friends are old fashion and they want to pay the bills.
@_cherrychi_
@_cherrychi_ 5 жыл бұрын
Batty Alien Yeah Same here. Usually depends who is the guest
@boargod4511
@boargod4511 5 жыл бұрын
I think they only want you to see them pay the bill. I may be wrong but is what happens when someone tries to impress
@nobuna2114
@nobuna2114 5 жыл бұрын
@@boargod4511 Some might want to impress with that but when I invite a girl or even get invited by the girl to a date then I will pay the bill but I say that I need to go to the toilet but instead I sneak up to the waiter and pay everything without her noticing. So I am not trying to impress with that but in that regard I am old-fashioned too and for me it is just common sense to pay for her
@deviousvox99
@deviousvox99 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah same happened to me a few times where they end up paying the bill and refuse to let me pay. Maybe just depends on the person.
@sammyso4940
@sammyso4940 5 жыл бұрын
Asian girls often bait the invite or even if they invite you, they presume that the men will pay. It's a bit different than the situation you described for yourself.
@zarinsolkar6918
@zarinsolkar6918 5 жыл бұрын
Mens :we don’t care about girls lipstick. Girls: we don’t care about your opinion.
@elfielaurie6588
@elfielaurie6588 5 жыл бұрын
Zarin Solkar I think that was sweet. He probably means that she looks beautiful either way. You might be interpreting it wrong 🙃
@zarinsolkar6918
@zarinsolkar6918 5 жыл бұрын
Esme Paris no I mean in general, Boys always say that . Yeah he cute though
@elfielaurie6588
@elfielaurie6588 5 жыл бұрын
Zarin Solkar I see what you’re saying
@swl6786
@swl6786 5 жыл бұрын
They r being asked for their opinion here though.
@zarinsolkar6918
@zarinsolkar6918 5 жыл бұрын
Claudia Linn yeah I know . But what I mean was in general. Boys always complain about lipstick.
@reinanaggi
@reinanaggi 5 жыл бұрын
that man on the beginning complained the fact he just relaxed while his girlfriend does the laundry wth
@bryan0197
@bryan0197 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe too loud?😂
@uwotm8
@uwotm8 5 жыл бұрын
I think it was more that he wanted to have sex but she instead starts doing chores which I find hilarious.
@modaaxm
@modaaxm 5 жыл бұрын
First name last name what’s attractive about that you’re just sick
@uwotm8
@uwotm8 5 жыл бұрын
luna well he's not wrong. East-Asian men find submission attractive as have all cultures in the past. I'm British so actually find it unattractive if a woman is unwilling to say stand up for herself. Having a wife who can cook and clean is a bonus but not a necessity for me personally. Especially the cooking part because I love a good meal but am a crap cook myself.
@uwotm8
@uwotm8 5 жыл бұрын
First name last name I don't see a problem with a woman having ambition. The thing about a woman being too independent results in you as a man not being needed as the woman will try to do everything herself to prove she's a strong independent woman. However, men with our primal subconscious love it when a woman needs our help, even if they are pretending.
@andrewcoronado947
@andrewcoronado947 5 жыл бұрын
The boi Carlos coming with the facts lmao he seemed very poised and direct about his observations.
@jpg6296
@jpg6296 5 жыл бұрын
Experience comes with age.
@robertosoto9922
@robertosoto9922 5 жыл бұрын
the best of all = carlos
@alika331
@alika331 5 жыл бұрын
02:45 The guy in the middle seems like a really fun person
@jimmycarter1259
@jimmycarter1259 5 жыл бұрын
The last guy Carlos was very friendly.
@sushiyezen6767
@sushiyezen6767 5 жыл бұрын
that guy in the orange overcoat, *he fine* edit: if y’all know his ig hmu in the reply section
@sarahajili3777
@sarahajili3777 5 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking 😂😂
@annamess6463
@annamess6463 5 жыл бұрын
@@sarahajili3777 EXACTLY
@sleepyhuevo780
@sleepyhuevo780 5 жыл бұрын
FR😩
@stanme4619
@stanme4619 5 жыл бұрын
I read this right when his scene came in
@shuv770
@shuv770 5 жыл бұрын
U RIGHT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@aileenchriscelia
@aileenchriscelia 5 жыл бұрын
3:22 whoa, that man's english was good 😳 (even though only for a moment)
@paulinecontact7050
@paulinecontact7050 5 жыл бұрын
Chriswinter he sounded so natural 💀 maybe it's because he actually knows English? He mentioned having foreigner friends so 🤷🏻‍♀️
@crimejia468
@crimejia468 3 жыл бұрын
2:23 Mr. Carlos your English was so natural ! while saying " Why Japanese Girls " but when you were transitioning from English back to Nihongo it sounded as of you were southern . I think
@Gpurezza
@Gpurezza 5 жыл бұрын
Wow i like this episode especially since some of the interviewees had the courage to ask some questions as well. Ty Ask Japanese :)
@ShibaCat
@ShibaCat 5 жыл бұрын
About split the bill, I thought this is culture, on my city , Hong Kong , man paid the bill on first or 2nd date is gentle reaction. But actually some girls never expected they have to paid any money when date. I thoughts this also apply to most Chinese culture like Taiwan , China.
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict 5 жыл бұрын
Leo Cheung nope it’s going global bro
@nigelinoooo
@nigelinoooo 5 жыл бұрын
Yea I guess some girls. My girlfriend who is from China actually didn't want me to pay and said she can pay for her part but I insisted on paying. She actually likes to buy things with her hard earned money rather than letting someone else pay for her.
@ILOVESAMULNORI
@ILOVESAMULNORI 5 жыл бұрын
More Carlos😂😂 he's funny LOL
@AmuroGermany
@AmuroGermany 5 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or is half of the english subs is missing?😅
@saara1344
@saara1344 5 жыл бұрын
The lighting in this video was so beautiful and It reminded me of so many different things hahaah, very good job!!
@Pyka4
@Pyka4 5 жыл бұрын
What if a man takes you to a very expensive restaurant for a date and then expects you to pay for your meal! Maybe you need to sip to mineral water wile he eats his food:/ are you supposed to ask where are you going to for the date ? It's a wierd question
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
This is like one of those rare dating horror stories. It happens, sure. But honestly, if he is too cheap to pay for himself he probably isn't going to expensive restaurants anyway.
@shiwanginaithani9759
@shiwanginaithani9759 5 жыл бұрын
That's why I tend to not go in crazy expensive places coz I can't assume he's going to pay
@auraluna7679
@auraluna7679 5 жыл бұрын
How should that happen? I mean, you need to know the name and adress of the Restaurant to go there, and then of course you look it up. Same with planning beforehand. You exchange Restaurants possibiltys, look them up and then decide on one together. If both situations didn't happen like that I would say straight away at entering the Restaurant that it looks like I can't afford it, or at least when I look at the menu. I would then ask if we should go to another place or if it's important for him to eat here. If yes he has to pay if no, we leave.
@anastasiar.2096
@anastasiar.2096 5 жыл бұрын
actually, I surprised that foreign men are expecting Japanese women to split the bills Japan is a real patriarchate country with high expectations for women's appearance and much lower salaries for them It sucks but doesn't really depend on them
@ああ-p2e2i
@ああ-p2e2i 5 жыл бұрын
These days a lot of girls in japan can work so they are not poor actually. Japanese girls sometimes want men to pay for the bill even if they are friends, not boyfriends
@TJay96
@TJay96 5 жыл бұрын
@@ああ-p2e2i Wow. Theres no way I would pay for a friends food because shes a girl
@MandarimTupiniquim
@MandarimTupiniquim 5 жыл бұрын
I´d love if your videos had japanese subtitles. It would be very useful for us who study japanese.
@pocketcat6326
@pocketcat6326 5 жыл бұрын
I just clicked on the video,and i know already that it will be very entertaining !💗
@ageguyera
@ageguyera 5 жыл бұрын
3:20 The purple rain boots!! Exciting to see them again. So useful. So stylish.
@fwuuton
@fwuuton 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos is like that one cool uncle who you barely see but always tells the best stories and spills all the wisdom at family gatherings
@RiRiSmi
@RiRiSmi 5 жыл бұрын
I think the whole bill paying situation with the foreign friend. If he asked her out... He should foot the whole bill anyway. Why should she pay for something she was invited to? If it were the other way around... She foot it. It seems like he asked her out so why should she pay or split the bill?
@brenda6094
@brenda6094 5 жыл бұрын
“I also don’t get girls with bright red hair” Me: oh well, Thank you.
@gera.w
@gera.w 5 жыл бұрын
it’s actually an asian thing, not just a japanese girls thing that women expect men to pay for the meal on a date. women teach other women that, and post date review? It’s a bad date if you had to split the bill or were asked to go dutch. I’m asian and I would go dutch on a date if I can’t wait to ditch him or have no intention of ever having a second date but still want things to end amicably enough. It’s sort of like you won’t want to be treated by people whom you aren’t friends with or expect to be friends with. You can pick up the bill for friends at times and also graciously accept being treated. But your enemy?? Never! I will never let my enemy pay my meal, and to come up on top, I will insist on it race to be the one who foots the bill.
@nigelinoooo
@nigelinoooo 5 жыл бұрын
That's like 5 steps ahead of thinking.. I'm not sure if it's an asian thing or not cause I went for dinner with a Japanese, Chinese and a Mongolian. All were quite different with this matter and most of the time I offered to pay most or everything, but they thought differently. Like the Japanese girl insisted to pay but my guess was because she was older than me. The Mongolian asked if we could split the bill so I agreed. The chinese let me pay but she also paid in return for other things to eat. I think every girl is different on this subject but there are still a lot of people like me that think old fashioned and think that the guy should pay. On the other hand it's a good thing that women offer to pay too, most guys really do appreciate it if they at least offer to do so.
@hauxani
@hauxani 5 жыл бұрын
I’ve been drinking boba since I was little. No sns at the time lmao, I just like boba. But yeah I noticed it becoming popular in the past few yrs for some reason. Guess ppl just made it trend and now they want to have at least one post showing they got boba lmaoo.
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
I've been on dates with maybe two dozen Japanese girls in my time in Japan. In my experience I find Japanese girls are prone to becoming passive non-persons: there is one girl I have met 5 times and if I'm really honest, couldn't tell you what her personality is beyond "interested". They have nothing going on in their lives, no real passions or interests... they just sort of exist. And this is amplified in a dating scenario where she loses all proactivity on top of having little going on with her (making the dating a dead end). Conversely, I find Japanese girls are interested in guys with "serious" traits like being studious, doing things by the book, or thorough about cleanliness -- things that wouldn't get consideration elsewhere. They are also, by virtue of being more passive, more malleable (open to following and new experiences) and spent relatively less time playing a perfect female character. Their willingness to play conversation catch ball makes them easy to tease, as well. Lastly, they seem to have less conflict within themselves about whether to appear tough or act feminine, which means their needs are communicated more clearly, and thus easier to satisfy. A man can't satisfy a woman who doesn't know what she wants. Edit: One thing I forgot. Japanese women thank you for taking them out after the fact. It seems like a small detail, but to be thanked, even if they aren't interested in a second date is a really thoughtful and respectful thing to do.
@ia7072
@ia7072 5 жыл бұрын
It must be boring to be with a girl who haven't a real passion or interest ... 🙁 Also not only Japanese women thanks after taking them out and aren't in conflicts with themselves.
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict 5 жыл бұрын
That is culture. Men don’t hook up with women they hook up with the culture attached to the women via the women.
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
I A Well, I was making a statement on Japanese women only (as opposed to British women).
@merlinemrys9082
@merlinemrys9082 5 жыл бұрын
Paying for the bill thing: 1) I'm American for context and 2) this is two different instances with different guy friends 1. Asked for a ride in exchange for paying for lunch (it was out of his way) and he wouldn't let me pay or pay him back. 2. Went out with two guy friends and to make things easier, one paid while myself and the other paid him back later. I think it depends on the person, but I feel like the guy paying for the bill is common in many cultures because of cultural history of men being the breadwinners and providers.
@eujihan3455
@eujihan3455 5 жыл бұрын
Personally, I believe it is common courtesy for anyone (girls or guys) who asks someone out for dinner or lunch or anything to pay the bills since it was THAT person who interrupted the other person's schedule and budget at the first place. For example, if someone you barely knew of suddenly ask you out or almost pushing you into agreeing to go for dinner with him/her (in order to get to know you), wouldn't it be a common courtesy for him/her to pay for the unplanned dinner? (And I even know some girls who asked guys to eat with them, chose the most expensive thing there and then said that they dont have enough money and then made dumb face and just waited for the guys to pay for everything. Disgusting). And I personally believe that splitting the bills is a common courtesy if both individuals agreed/decided to have dinner/lunch or any event together. (And most girls I knew in real life here around me don't even have such courtesy smh).
@becks5198
@becks5198 5 жыл бұрын
You rearranged your schedule to go out on the date. No one is interrupting anything.
@ginger942
@ginger942 2 жыл бұрын
THIS!
@ginger942
@ginger942 2 жыл бұрын
@@becks5198 Who invites, pays. That's the rule. Common sense.
@nigelinoooo
@nigelinoooo 5 жыл бұрын
I once went out for drinking and dinner with a japanese girl in Japan and she insisted to pay so this kind of confuses me. My guess is because she was 3 or 4 years older and maybe when they're older they try harder.
@jeremiahjohns5258
@jeremiahjohns5258 5 жыл бұрын
The guy at the end has a great point. Not even offering to split the bill is just plain rude. Also if I was in a situation where they just hid when the bill arrived I would find that just plain insulting, regardless of whether I was planning on paying or not.
@oumaymashili4898
@oumaymashili4898 5 жыл бұрын
Any english subtitle?????
@mamambooo3876
@mamambooo3876 5 жыл бұрын
2:10 girls with bright red hair huh... i have red hair naturally so is that bad?😂
@nctdreamdnyl4300
@nctdreamdnyl4300 5 жыл бұрын
I’m an ARMY no he said if you dye it like red or something
@kitebabe05
@kitebabe05 5 жыл бұрын
I like the last guy in the video!👍👍
@hernandodavidarnaizchipoco329
@hernandodavidarnaizchipoco329 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos was great!
@swl6786
@swl6786 5 жыл бұрын
Why are some girls getting offended in the cmts?They answered just bcuz they were asked for their opinion.None of them were saying women should change herself to be accepted by men.Moreover most of their opinions were just harmless and funny.
@gwaynebrouwn844
@gwaynebrouwn844 5 жыл бұрын
In the Netherlands they also don't split bills. Yeah guys! Going Dutch doesn't happen very often in the Netherlands. I know. MIND BLOW!
@MisterTLion5921
@MisterTLion5921 5 жыл бұрын
A lot of women here in The Netherlands scream "Female empowerment!" And "equality and equal wages!" But then they still want the benefits from inequality like the man paying and holding the door open for you..
@gwaynebrouwn844
@gwaynebrouwn844 5 жыл бұрын
@@MisterTLion5921 Ja kut feminisme
@enilehcodramramlised8716
@enilehcodramramlised8716 5 жыл бұрын
How are you OK with them having to hear blonde but you have a problem with them with their hair being red, those are bright colors.🤦🏾‍♀️🙄😒
@feely1853
@feely1853 5 жыл бұрын
who should pay for first date... its depends of culture i guess... im malaysia normally guy will pay for everything for 1st date. i guess nature of guy -he is provider. but girl.. there other thing u can do to hit win win situation. which is u the one who pay movie ticket. buy the popcorn.. or coffee treat. pay parking ticket. guy will appreciate you more..😬😬
@Makkaru112
@Makkaru112 5 жыл бұрын
❤ That last guy was just so charming and fully of good-will. Endearing and brightens others hearts around him. Even virtually. ❤
@ああ-p2e2i
@ああ-p2e2i 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos?
@stephonlouis7003
@stephonlouis7003 4 жыл бұрын
I feel like when it comes to going on dates communicating is truly important. Ask the person where are we going? Explain to them your financial issues so they can get a sense of what to do and what not to do..
@minikuikowaidesu7642
@minikuikowaidesu7642 5 жыл бұрын
2:05 I don't like smoking either but not just when girls smoke I don't get whoever smokes and 2:10 I love red hair does that count for foreigners too lol?
@evilbankai5166
@evilbankai5166 5 жыл бұрын
The bills thing is kinda complicated. From what i know its because men in Japan get paid more and work more tend to earn higher wages, that's the number one reason, now there are also cultural reasons like playing the nice guy card. In Europe men and women are paid the same for that same job so there isn't much of a discrepancy in income so most women are able to pay their bills and be independent regardless if their date can afford to pay for both. Personally, I prefer to volunteer to pay the bills but i also leave the option for my date to split the bill if she wants. Because some women get offended if men insist on paying the bill too strongly.
@yoi9297
@yoi9297 5 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but that’s wrong: in Europe women are payed less than men too... Btw the bill thing is reasonable if we are speaking about adult that have a job, the biggest problem is when student girls want that the man pays (because we both have the same money kinda) To be honest my idea is that the person who has more money (no matter if the man or the woman) pays, simply because he/she can afford it (it’s not a rule though, you do it only if it’s a pleasure for you)
@user-pe2yx9kt4e
@user-pe2yx9kt4e 5 жыл бұрын
Yeah but if a girl has to foot the bill, it’s like she’s cheating in the dating game (trying to earn extra brownie points). It means she’s not good enough or worth the guy’s time for him to pay for her. Time is more important for women bc they have a biological clock, so theoretically each date should count more for her than for a man. (obviously this doesn’t apply to everyone and there are plenty of exceptions, but I just mean in general)
@Buzzramjet
@Buzzramjet 5 жыл бұрын
I could never ask a girl to split a bill and never have in my life. Heck even when I was married I always paid. And at one of her jobs she made twice as much as me. It wasn't a macho thing, it was the way I was raised which by the way included two Air Force bases in Japan. Itazuke (No longer an American base and YAKOTA where you have been Cathy. My father was an officer and a gentleman and a fighter pilot.And he expected no less from us growing up.
@anar2955
@anar2955 5 жыл бұрын
That's very lovely of your dad. Taught you manners much respect but this day and age i think at least offering is cool for a female to do also just random but I want to join the Air Force unfortunately I spoke with this superior and said I had to wait two years to talk to them LMAO anyways how cool it must've been for you (:
@TJay96
@TJay96 5 жыл бұрын
Whats hers is hers and whats your is hers is such a pathetic way to think in this day and age. Not macho at all, just a beta provider
@monkeyking3161
@monkeyking3161 5 жыл бұрын
I would live it if we were still able to feel comfortable doing stuff like that... but sadly times have changed
@emtee1188
@emtee1188 5 жыл бұрын
2:02, just saying the guy on the left is really cute 😮
@VitorGamesPlayy
@VitorGamesPlayy 5 жыл бұрын
In Brazil, if you invite a girl to a restaurant for example, it is explicit that you will pay. Some men may find it rude if the woman offers to pay.
5 жыл бұрын
Well, if we offer to pay, we will be offended if she insists on paying. BUT if we say or agree to split, that's OK. But since Brazil is big, we can't set the law here.
@PaulinaGnecco
@PaulinaGnecco 5 жыл бұрын
Hmmmm, about the lipstick thing, more like lip balm, I have a thing to say, I apply it every once in a while because my lips become really really chapped and dry because of the medication I take and it's become sort of a need, it may be the case for some, idk
@angel309
@angel309 5 жыл бұрын
Paulina Gnecco me too i have to wear lip balm every hour my lips are super dry even tho i drink lots of water
@juanalvarez3507
@juanalvarez3507 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos, you are awesome.
@elynjeffs729
@elynjeffs729 5 жыл бұрын
Split bills? Yeah that's me..kinda used to it because my mom said do not get any free food/things from others because nothing is free in this world😂
@NetAndyCz
@NetAndyCz 5 жыл бұрын
Do they have a good Bubble tea in Japan? The one I tasted was very meh.... I prefer normal Sencha or something more traditional as a tea:)
@willpower8061
@willpower8061 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe im old fashion but if I ask the girl out then i should be paying, now if we're both just hanging out then splitting a bill is reasonable. Personally id rather a girl have reddish hair, blonde on them never fits imo.
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
TBH, I don't think anyone cares about the actual bill, so much as the attitude around it. A girl can make a guy feel like a hero for covering the cost of the date, or she act entitled too it as if the guy "should be so lucky" to have her time. In the case of the latter, yeah, I'd pay, but I am immediately blocking her on LINE, too.
@kawaiiology
@kawaiiology 5 жыл бұрын
2:05 - 彼女もストレスするから… 🤣 translation: he asked “why do girls smoke?? why????” and I said “because sometimes girls get stressed too” 😂😂 *note a lot of japanese people don’t give a shit if you smoke or not, but it’s better to vape 💨
@adrii5497
@adrii5497 5 жыл бұрын
1:26 this dude is hella handsome
@iwantyourmoney4788
@iwantyourmoney4788 5 жыл бұрын
Great content as always
@josephskiles
@josephskiles 5 жыл бұрын
I don't understand why any guy that takes a girl on a date would ever think a girl should split the bill, if you ask a girl out you are offering to take her out which means your paying. Now if the gal asks you out it may be a little different, but I still pay the bill unless someone is taking me out for my birthday or something similar.
@Fuu_Sho
@Fuu_Sho 5 жыл бұрын
Like you said it depens on who ask who or if both kinda agreed to go out together. Me personally will pay the bill only if the girl atleast offered to pay her share. If she offered it to me I will gladly pay for the food, if she doesnt I wont pay for her.
@Halo3ninja28
@Halo3ninja28 5 жыл бұрын
Asking "do you want to spend time together?" isn't the same as "would you like me to pamper you and pay for your meals?" Do you pay for all your friends when you say let's hang out at such and such a place? Your comment is devoid of logic and consistency.
@ああ-p2e2i
@ああ-p2e2i 5 жыл бұрын
josephskiles No both men and women have to pay equally if you want gender equality
@josephskiles
@josephskiles 5 жыл бұрын
@@ああ-p2e2i I don't see it as an equality issue I see it more as just another way of showing a person how important they are to me, hell if I ask one of my male friends to dinner I offer to pay as well. Basically I ask them I'm paying, if they ask me they pay or at least offer
@ああ-p2e2i
@ああ-p2e2i 5 жыл бұрын
josephskiles I think men and women have to split the bill each time whether or not he asks her first because she accepted the dating offer.
@TheTishbite
@TheTishbite 5 жыл бұрын
I grew up (In the Southern US) with the fact that it is good manners to pay for the girls meal. I always did unless the girl insisted and grasiously complied. If you liked the girl then you should want to; if not, do it out of manners.
@ambya6431
@ambya6431 5 жыл бұрын
" I don't Understand why Japnese girls smoke" WHY JAPANESE MAN SMOKE? WHAT GENDER HAS TO DO WITH THE REASON YOU SMOKE? IT'S THE SAME LAAAA Literally.
@qjtvaddict
@qjtvaddict 5 жыл бұрын
Listen smoking is disgusting it’s not men who smoke that are complaining it’s non smokers who hate women who smoke. Smoking makes you stink badly and ages you non smoking men and women hate dealing with smokers put down the smokes they are gross
@KI-fd2co
@KI-fd2co 5 жыл бұрын
2:02 ok wow this dude kinda S U C K E D, so I was very surprised by his friends nice opinions.
@InfernalHY
@InfernalHY 5 жыл бұрын
I wish I could understand what they were saying ,I dont understand much Japanese and the subs are incomplete
@aliceglavinova8853
@aliceglavinova8853 5 жыл бұрын
Why there are not English subtitles please make them because I cannot understand 😩😩 I’m so sad
@fuego09esmeralda
@fuego09esmeralda 5 жыл бұрын
Click on the CC button on the control area of the video window... They usually upload videos with English closed captions... 🙂
@koyama_shiho
@koyama_shiho 5 жыл бұрын
5:40 I'm screaming... for some reason.
@karimm2
@karimm2 5 жыл бұрын
Dont complain and just marry Japanese girls. The birth rate is to low.
@anubis-vibes2476
@anubis-vibes2476 3 жыл бұрын
I always thought ita common manners to pay for who you invite especially women 🤔
@AYLYUN
@AYLYUN 5 жыл бұрын
So how if the girl only student and the one who has income is the guy.
@xxwallzxx4509
@xxwallzxx4509 5 жыл бұрын
Great vid Ask Japanese! 😋
@あいしゃ-k4i
@あいしゃ-k4i 5 жыл бұрын
guy in white tshirt with brown coat on got some fashion sense yo
@godmarzpopy362
@godmarzpopy362 5 жыл бұрын
Haha....totally agree with Carlos !
@Medstartv
@Medstartv 5 жыл бұрын
Hello I want to know a girl from Japan but I do not know how so I wish I had a friend from Japan
@apulalovee
@apulalovee 5 жыл бұрын
ok but i want his name 😔 1:26
@spacecoasttactical
@spacecoasttactical 3 жыл бұрын
Call me old fashioned, but I would never expect a girl to pay
@dragondad7733
@dragondad7733 5 жыл бұрын
I dont go out on dates with women anymore. My wife put a stop to that. She has some really weird rules.
@mintea5596
@mintea5596 5 жыл бұрын
The captions show on some parts and doesn't on the most .-. It's annoying
@cocobanana1545
@cocobanana1545 5 жыл бұрын
Idk why but i dont really get it when some japanese girls enlarge their eyes on sns. Like you do you but they enlarge it really big. ik you have pretty eyes but i just dont ehhhhh and ik the stereotype lol
@nandu.m03
@nandu.m03 5 жыл бұрын
English caption is not working.
@dollydork9187
@dollydork9187 5 жыл бұрын
I am broke, I never pay the bill. I talked to my boyfriend about it and he doesn't mind, because I'm constantly getting him little presents, or his birthday presents are usually expensive. Sometimes I pay for our groceries, or I pay for a small coffee bill, but the finances are mostly all on him. Not because I'm a woman, but because I'm broke lol
@sampada.07
@sampada.07 5 жыл бұрын
Tf with subtitles?
@green9554
@green9554 5 жыл бұрын
Carlos is best grown up boi, please find him and bring him back
@Mytea1
@Mytea1 5 жыл бұрын
Mhh..das video war bestimmt interessant, aber die untertitel gingen rein gar nicht. also musste ich manuell auf deutsch umstellen und da kam ja mal ein totaler kaudawelsch raus. was zum teufel ist verkehrt mit der deutschen übersetzung? ein beispiel "wenn es dir gut geht, geht es dir gut. wie oft berechnen sie für das south excellence hole 7 minuten." was zum teufel soll das bedeuten?!
@xYonowaaru
@xYonowaaru 5 жыл бұрын
Weil es keine deutschen Untertitel gibt und das gesprochene Wort von einer Software durch einen Übersetzer gehauen wurde. Die Software muss also erstens das gesprochene Wort interpretieren und da fangen dann schon die Probleme an und es dann übersetzen, was bekanntlich bei korrekten Ausgangstexten meist nicht fehlerfrei geschieht, nun ist der Ausgangstext jedoch bereits Kauderwelsch, weil die Software gesprochenes Wort nicht immer richtig interpretiert. Wenn du die Video schauen möchtest, dann geht das nur mit englischen Untertiteln, außer du verstehst Japanisch.
@Mytea1
@Mytea1 5 жыл бұрын
@@xYonowaaru ja ist mir klar. das wusste ich auch schon, aber wie ich bereits sagte gingen die untertitel rein gar nicht...auch nicht auf englisch. auf englisch wurde nämlich gar nichts angezeigt.
@xYonowaaru
@xYonowaaru 5 жыл бұрын
@@Mytea1 Vermutlich warst du einfach zu früh.
@Mytea1
@Mytea1 5 жыл бұрын
@@xYonowaaru "zu früh"?
@pauloicaro
@pauloicaro 5 жыл бұрын
What tapioca is?
@707bear3
@707bear3 5 жыл бұрын
Lol I think girls are cute when they are trying to retouch their makeup. But I want them to be more confident because insecure girls are not attractive for me.
@saosaqii5807
@saosaqii5807 5 жыл бұрын
très bien 日本 what u talking bout? The more insecure the better
@ieh2845
@ieh2845 5 жыл бұрын
@@saosaqii5807 lol incel
@noname-qh4nr
@noname-qh4nr 5 жыл бұрын
Uh who told you wearing makeup means insecurity. People can wear makeup just because they like it lmao
@LimingLyn
@LimingLyn 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe having CC would work.
@frezara.k8706
@frezara.k8706 5 жыл бұрын
Am I the only one who really need subtitles..?
@saadabdulrhman2927
@saadabdulrhman2927 5 жыл бұрын
There’s subtitle
@frezara.k8706
@frezara.k8706 5 жыл бұрын
Just trolling..
@Jamie-mb2id
@Jamie-mb2id 5 жыл бұрын
Lmao it should depend on who asks who out. If the guy asked the girl out he should pay but if the girl asks the guy out she should pay. Unless one of them is extremely rich..........the rich person should pay😂😂😂😂
@friedonion833
@friedonion833 5 жыл бұрын
nani i dun understand where the full sub at
@megaredkentadate9834
@megaredkentadate9834 5 жыл бұрын
I've always find Japanese girls very friendly and interesting. They are always very appreciative of the little things that guys do for them. Some things may not be a very big deal in reality but being appreciated is alwaya welcome. How I wished that our local Singaporean ladies can be like them. I be flying over in Sept (assuming that my tour package does not get screwed up). So really looking forward to seeing the country. Love Japan so much! Ryan from Singapore.
@pouihurmen
@pouihurmen 5 жыл бұрын
That part is pleasant indeed but so many Japanese girls are basically the exact same character. After a while you’ll grow really tired of that dependent child-like behavior
@EmmaNguyen-mg5xq
@EmmaNguyen-mg5xq 5 жыл бұрын
Japanese girls are boring
@misy5174
@misy5174 5 жыл бұрын
In malaysia if a female friend greet you and your gf will ask who is she 3x a day... 😂 i even memorize it all of her question
@theshadowman1398
@theshadowman1398 5 жыл бұрын
1. Severe drinking 2. Lying their arse off 3. Demanding VIP treatment and then friend-zoning you 4. Trying to use you as a free personal therapist
@rangielimson1648
@rangielimson1648 5 жыл бұрын
Theres no subtitle
@Hasenpfote01
@Hasenpfote01 5 жыл бұрын
is there a video where cathy cat is introducing herself?
@fuego09esmeralda
@fuego09esmeralda 5 жыл бұрын
Maybe this one...? kzbin.info/www/bejne/e57KlGN-rr-NnpY
@fuego09esmeralda
@fuego09esmeralda 5 жыл бұрын
Or this one...? kzbin.info/www/bejne/m4Gxo2aqert1ec0
@fuego09esmeralda
@fuego09esmeralda 5 жыл бұрын
How about this one...? kzbin.info/www/bejne/oqqbiZtna8l3qtE
@kanojoph
@kanojoph 5 жыл бұрын
Won’t date a guy who’ll expect me to pay or split the bill. In the first place .. man invites, second it’s first date tho... no need to impress but wtf cant imagine being with a man that isn’t gentleman at all. No way !
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
It's never just about the bill though. Women who get hung up on the bill have an entire icky attitude of entitlement that tinges the entire dating experience. You can go far with that attitude in the west, but what you (and most western women) find is that it has no traction in Japan. Two months is how long you will last before all the positive feedback you are used to receiving dries up entirely and you change your ways. Happens every single time.
@annabrwk2059
@annabrwk2059 5 жыл бұрын
Director san laying on the wet floor? 🤣
@Whatshappening2024
@Whatshappening2024 5 жыл бұрын
Actually, this might sound bad but I have been on dates with about 15-20 Japanese girls and 90% offered to pay their part, one girl told me about ろく / 四 - 6 / 4 ratio so guy pays 60% girl pays 40% which I thought is good idea. I don't mind paying the first date but after that if she 'goes the toilet' I will find a different girl instantly , thats not someone who I want to spend time with (gold digger e.t.c.) If they do that im glad because I don't have to invest much more time finding out if they are the right girl. Usually first dates I do something cheap and easy like cafe anyways. p.s. im from UK and girls here are worse LOL
@shehzaanaabdulla3047
@shehzaanaabdulla3047 5 жыл бұрын
My experience in Japan has been pretty similar, with similar numbers, too (and also from the UK). I found some girls were not comfortable with me offering to pay. From talking to friends it seems they are concerned that they would feel I owed them something because I paid. Though, TBH, if I am paying for a girl it is because she earned it, not because I am hoping to get something out of it.
@ANabih-uo3zy
@ANabih-uo3zy 5 жыл бұрын
But why 15-20 didn't you find a girl you really liked among them?
@AnthonySouls
@AnthonySouls 5 жыл бұрын
I find it interesting that it's 6/4; why come up with that ratio? Lol, sounds random and arbitrary. Although, if the guy is asking the girl out, I can see it being fair. Take Care, With Love Through God and Jesus and The Holy Ghost,
@AnthonySouls
@AnthonySouls 5 жыл бұрын
well, I guess not really arbitrary since it's the next increment from an event split.
@Whatshappening2024
@Whatshappening2024 5 жыл бұрын
@@ANabih-uo3zy I did and she came to UK - see for yourself - instagram.com/jinzo2020/
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