The shocking ways how Japanese girls change once you dating them

[@evilbankai5166]

OHHHHHH MYYYY GOOOOD!?!?!?! SHE GOT UNDRESSED AND IT TURNED OUT SHE WAS A BOY ??!?!? oh lord the horror in his face at that time... oof!!!

[@karepanman2770]

@RetardedWeeb that's the bad ending!

[@borrico1965]

That’s one gets when dating just for PMS.

[@roderickreed491]

Evil BanKai home boi said he was traumatized lol

[@namename-ph7bg]

@nerd Surfer imagine having this much time on your hands

[@cindilouwho8681]

There is actually a debate in the US regarding when a trans person should disclose their biological sex when starting a relationship. Bitch, that should be the first word coming out of your mouth…that crap had to be traumatizing, poor boy.

[@hwangmiyeon1001]

Damn this 3D guy fell for the Trap LMAOOOO

[@WadcaWymiaru]

4D, 3D is empty inside...like a shell. Like a daki...

[@roblobsta9633]

He started off 3D but got into a relationship that had 2D’s

[@ZeldaKid5000]

They were almost definitely trans, so can you not use that slur please? Thanks

[@ZeldaKid5000]

@@nanashi3991 Literally this is why trans people were pissed off at the anime memes fiasco all those months back, because it's blatently obvious people use this term to refer to trans women. Of course it's a big deal. It implies that trans people can't have any sort of phsyical interaction with someone without disclosing their medical history. Now, if their genitals don't match what you'd expect, then yes they should tell you if you're going to have sex, as genital preferences are valid. But regardless suggesting that someone's existence is in some way a "trap" is absoloutely vile. You can say it's not a big deal, but trans people obviously don't think that's the case. You're welcome to ignore them ofc, but then don't take issue with being labeled as transphobic because of it

[@ZeldaKid5000]

@@nanashi3991 Not really? There's plenty of transphobic trans people out there. One look at Buck Angel would confirm that

[@echidnatsukiremuru7217]

eh i think this is a universal thing... when you started going out with someone you started being comfortable showing your other side.If they stay by your side despite all of your flaws then you are lucky for being accepted.

[@user-hd3ls6gg8p]

And then turns out there a dude

[@odizzido]

I don't think it's universal. Some people are just how they are all the time whether it's out in public, with a new partner, or at home. I like it when people are who they are, I am not a fan of masks.

[@senaya]

I say go all in and act natural all the time. That way the person that falls for you won't get disappointed later down the road :D

[@jlindsey1991]

​@@senaya 👏 👏 👏 thank you

[@Dark_-Psychology]

Really like carlos part on the video 😊 he gave me joy with his laughter 😂😂

[@macaronivirus5913]

Tomoye Saad :p he must have his own channel

[@josephskiles]

I will never really understand people that hide their true gender, I mean I can understand falling for someone and not wanting to be rejected but most of the time this isn't going to end well. Wouldn't it be better just to be honest right off the bat and maybe you will find someone that is actually into you instead of hoping that it will just work out?

[@itsjuank]

Plus, If we look at the evidence, maybe not in Japan, but in the us hidding your gender to trick a man is a good way to get yourself killed.

[@josephskiles]

@@itsjuank Back in the late 90's early 2000's I was building a expansion onto a gym away from home, we often spent months out on the road and being young men working around a college town of course we went looking for girls at night. I worked with a guy who was a little older than the rest of us and he kinda had a problem with alcohol to put it mildly. Anyhow we all hit a bar one night and this guy starts hitting on this extremely homely looking girl, the bar was dark inside but even with this I could tell something was not right. It starts to get late and I start getting everyone collected to go back to the motel so that no one is too hungover for work the next day, of course my friend doesn't want to leave. I keep telling him something is not right here but he doesn't care, so screw it the bar was only a couple blocks from the motel he can find his own way home. The next day he's nowhere to be seen, screw it this happens now and then so no one worries. The next day he's still not back. So my father ( who owned the company and was the acting foreman on this trip) starts to call the local jail ( sadly this was also not a totally uncommon occurance for someone to get a PI or something out of town). Sure enough the guy is in jail ………… on assault charges and theft. Dad goes and bails the guy out and we get the rest of the story. After we left " the girl" takes him back to "her" place, while sitting in the car making out he went for a feel between " Her" legs, and sure enough it wasn't a her after all. He immediately started beating the person up stole her/his wallet and took the keys out of the ignition tossing them down a storm drain. What he did I don't condone but I can understand why he was upset. Sorry for the long story but just had to write it after reading your comment. Now adays a person would get a hate crime charged against them not just assualt

[@itsjuank]

@@josephskiles well, "she" was lucky that your friend wasn't a complete maniac, cause people will 99% of the time react negatively if being played like that. As you said I done condone it either, but I ain't surprised when it happens. People should be upfront about shit like that, but some people get off on doing that kinda shit.

[@barbievale]

@@josephskiles Hmmm. The violence that comes after being "played" like that isn't normal. You can get angry, rightfully, but you shouldn't express your anger with violence or murder.

[@josephskiles]

@@barbievale like I said I didn't condone what he did, and he paid for his actions . I can't say how I would handle the situation since I never have been in anything similar I would hope I would not be violent but you never know how your going to act until you are put in a situation like this

[@CocoKiki456]

5:55 “I wish they had told me before getting undressed” Me, an intellectual: *They had you at the first half, not gonna lie.*

[@kinggoke4404]

bruhhh loool

[@fizasohailkhan5380]

?? I dont get it

[@f6cks]

Lol

[@AbsolutelyNerdy]

First half? Maybe top half.

[@RobertoBaca]

Carlos has a great radio voice.

[@ViolosD2I]

Yes his voice is a lot easier on the ears.

[@peaceonearth8693]

It seems pointless to interview Japanese people when they are in a group. At those times, they just tell you the answer that aligns with the group's socially correct answer.

[@gregp9350]

More independant questioning away (or to each individual) from the group would be more accurate demographic. I agree.

[@Tnatsagdorj8691]

I agree too... specially Japanese 👍

[@audgepodge381]

thissss

[@snooks5607]

you guys are being ironically harmonic

[@asnierkishcowboy]

Next episode: The shocking ways girls change once you MARRY them.

[@kevingonzalez3673]

They fart.

[@kevingonzalez3673]

@@Pretisy yep

[@acmelbourne]

They stop putting out

[@kevingonzalez3673]

@@acmelbourne They wrinkle

[@barbievale]

@@kevingonzalez3673 They human

[@aaa2470]

Really love the segments with Carlos

[@vivaldesque]

Great topic but it's a bit silly to ask 19 year olds this question. It would be more interesting to ask people in their 30s, 40s and above. It was lucky that Carlos was there to save the day!

[@7Hellzz]

2:11 This guy broke out of the friend zone and won. Respect.

[@JohnLee-bn3bo]

"He fell for a trap."

[@-whackd]

Great translator :D

[@jeremiahjohns5258]

I love the sagely knowledge at the end there from ser Carlos the wise

[@kkyulmin]

The first guy in a white shirt was so cute! Happy he likes both sides of his girlfriend personality 💜

[@xiaorishu]

LOL New half xD

[@Hamza-qu3yp]

sorry for the last boy it must be a bad memory

[@kevingonzalez3673]

He is currently going through therapy.

[@kevingonzalez3673]

@nerd Surfer These guys are manginaa.

[@namuh5799]

@nerd Surfer you again. Kind of rude of you to assume how "petty" one is to need therapy because of the amount of distress you think is worthy of having therapy. Double Standards. And by now I think you are just as an snowflake

[@xXDESTINYMBXx]

@nerd Surfer duck off sjw

[@Sannypowa]

What Carlos said was very interesting. It's amazing how much energy Japanese girls invest into looking and behaving nicely outside and then feeling tired at home. I am the opposite, I prefer to be myself all the time and I am naturally a good man. It's when I come back home that I feel more energetic because my relationship is my top priority, that's the Italian in me with strong family values. Maybe people should stop giving priority only to their job and focus on their social life a bit more? It's going to be beneficial for them as well to reach a balance.

[@j.l.theseagull4822]

you know I find that very interesting about Japanese culture. the public persona and then your true self i like being myself all the time. lol.... maybe thats why people sometimes get irritated with me, cause they can't fool me lol

[@lastword8783]

"turned out she was a boy" well that escalated quickly

[@jocelynortega8243]

Turned out she was a boy. *Top 10 anime betrayals*

[@brianc21324]

My Japanese exes did the ghosting thing too. Their personalities changed as well from being kind, to being rude. Also you never really know if you did anything wrong to make them upset. At first I thought it wad me, but, then I started hearing of other people's similar experiences and now this video shows that even some Japanese guys have the same problem. I can't say every girl there does this, but, from experience, it seems like it's culturally ingrained and could be surprising for people from western societies that aren't used to it.

[@TheRiotPunkGirl]

Man it's disappointing to kinda accept the fact that it's a common thing, a norm, and it's viewed as normal. Hell no!

[@brianc21324]

@@TheRiotPunkGirl It has its good and its bad sides. I do however like how generally calm relationships are there in Japan compared to US relationships.

[@bigschnozer576]

Well that’s not fun

[@lunatic_3521]

I really liked the atmosphere of the last interview

[@kevingonzalez3673]

Like it was sucked vacuum style

[@Vjamesx13]

That last dude has genuine experience as well as understanding of the chicks he has dated and what he has learned from them. He gives both sides in a semi detailed way as well as somewhat jokes about the shittier things he has gone through.

[@Directgamez28]

Actually any person you start dating change the way the use to act around you .

[@GaryAa56]

Carlos really is informative about Japanese girls, cool!

[@Kurayamiblack]

I got uncomfortable when Carlos made a joke about being killed by his partner and Cathy said "oh, this is getting scary" jokingly but Carlos' face suddenly got all serious Does anyone know if this man is still okay?

[@soullessandpained]

Yes. I feel afraid and anxious for him. I hope he's alright.

[@katelyn3369]

Who wants Cathy to speak in German -->

[@zaayd]

I was hoping "hehehehehe" would = "fufufufufu" like in anime/manga but it turned out to be 6:27....

[@SASTREMAN]

I love how Carlos talks! So funny

[@ev.09]

Can I just say, that I love Carlos😁such a mood and it´s nice to hear from people, that are a little older.

[@bigchungus914]

With the very little Japanese I know, reading the subtitles is kinda funny when I can pick out a word or two because what I hear is totally different from the subtitles but still makes sense. Also, when I say very little, I mean very little. Prob less than kindergarten level 😂 I’m trying to learn tho

[@cutsceneenjoyerzz]

5:31 man of culture

[@xxwallzxx4509]

Holy cow. If the female starts to throw punches like Carlos said. I have to get my game on in dodging and parrying. 😂

[@Sidicas]

3:15 That's so rough! I've been through that also. It made me feel very sad actually. Because I felt she didn't enjoy spending time with me. Even if it's not true, that is the feeling I would get. Couldn't get past that so I ended the relationship I realized then that I prefer more loyal/clingy girls.

[@Kiirochung]

7.16 plays with Cathy then 😆 🤣 cmu 🤍❤🤍 love it. Carlos🤘, more colabs wit Carlos plz

[@ageguyera]

I hope Carlos doesn’t get beaten up too badly 😰

[@YunelKuroya]

why would he get beaten up?

[@ageguyera]

@@YunelKuroya I have no idea. That comment was posted almost 2 years ago so I don’t even remember who Carlos is. But there are 54 likes so there must be SOME reason I said that 😂

[@kimeromakinoha]

Cathy wears a cat-ish cap/beanie Nekokaburi Wearing a facate Awesome So some japanese girls have their kunoichi tradition still in tact after all since long time ago, but only shown by them before getting into a dating relationship..well boys like that too, so when both opens up their real sides, both will overcome it together for sure, just try to listen more and understand each other, wish all of you a longtime relationship full of happiness and wonderful times

[@jeremiahjohns5258]

They go from playful slapping to full out "Hajime no Ippo" style dempsy rolling you.

[@SuperFlanders123]

Carlos knows what he's talking about!

[@thepoolhustlerman]

It's a trap

[@MochaxMatcha]

Yo please bring Carlos back, he's great! 😂

[@CheztaAhmad]

At first she was nice, but after dating she changes. She becomes just another dream of mine. Pepehands.

[@MrChoke666]

Where did she buy that black corset belt thing at 7:09 - that looks so cool I want one!!!! I love Cathy Cat's fashion!!!

[@pablosanchez5294]

5:34 damn didn’t see that coming

[@jicoamistad8644]

"Turned out she was a boy" He got you in the first half, not gonna lie

[@vkm9156]

6:00 Man i felt that

[@alisahassan4205]

5:16 in Malaysia we call it "bluetick" 😅😅

[@AnthonySouls]

That guy that wasn’t told the girl was a transsexual was on another video, wasn’t he? He had the same weird farewell like he wanted to say more, lol. Not sure if I believe him, but he could be telling the truth. The host is really comfortable with Carlos; if she were to find more discussions with people like him, it might produce better quality videos. While it’s nice to see various people’s responses, it feels like she needs to expand to other demographics than the ones she’s currently interviewing. Take Care, With Love Through and Jesus and The Holy Ghost,

So.. Where is Carlos from? Something-not-obvious-at-all tells me he isn't from Japan.

[@13kev]

I would say he's brazilian.There is a large community of half japanese/brazilian in Japan and the biggest community of japanese people outside of Japan is in Brazil due to immigration

[@Froggability]

What? Humour or Size?

[@maapaa2010]

I dated a Japanese girl once, her change was like being ; anakin skywalker - to darth vader in all of 3 days, by the end of the 3 days. It was over ! Korean girls can be the same too from my experience.

[@TheOnlyInformant]

The guy before Carlos, feelsbadman...

[@danika9411]

@nerd Surfer No need to be rude. I think it is about not telling before. I mean he even said it would have been good to know before. I f.e. would like to have children. So I wouldn't date someone who can't get me pregnant 🤷‍♀️ I'm not going to give up on having a family. If you're really madly in love though and the partner would be okay with adoption, that is generally an option too. But I would like to be able to experience pregancy.

[@Rokudaimedono]

I'm quite liking this Carlos guy. Does he have his own youtube channel?

[@Koyuki55]

Very informative topic ; とても勉強になりました ! 😅

[@miaalmeida4787]

When you see a message and don't answer we call it "vácuo" in Brazil, its sooo common 😂😂

[@13kev]

foda né kkkgkk

[@chunkalunkin2000]

If I was the last guy I'd never tell a soul. Gotta take the L and keep it moving

[@roderickreed491]

😂 Carlos at the end said 🎤 drop

[@maryjanewesterlund9958]

Interesting observations, most especially from Carlos.

[@NyuAkiyama]

Now one for JP boys changing after dating! Plz!

[@CineGui]

I started watching these videos know more about japanese girls and now km falling for cathy

[@nin10do97]

I might just have missed a video, but who is the Carlos guy?

[@steffahn]

I think I first saw him in the video "What SUCKS about Japanese girls?"

[@amauritaniannomad6533]

It’s not necessarily change. It’s just that you got to see more of her and got to know her more. When you spend much more time with someone it is obviously different when you only know them superficially. This isn’t specific to Japanese girls or even girls in general, it is just normal for you to know more about the person- some people might see that as change but it is really them getting to know the person more.

[@ThePsychoguy]

6:00 - You can tell she's like "Okay, this is a bit weird, time to end it."

[@upahtv]

This channel help me a lot. Now i am more relax. Thanks

[@theespecificocean]

lmao that monotone "heyyy Carlos"

[@jbao3851]

I know I shouldn’t be laughing, especially because that guy actually had to go through that, but the gender bender actually got me weak 😂

[@wtftolate3782]

My Japanese fiancee try's to shame me when I wont agree with her. I also noticed she will not let things go so easily now.

[@primecreator5257]

So how did it go? Did you marry her?

[@veronicaelsegood5175]

You should have just interviewed Carlos. He was fun and sounded like someone who had more than afew tales to tell.😂

[@_cherrychi_]

0:08 OKAY THAT ESCALATED FAST

[@HeliNoir]

Aww I just feel so bad for the guy who fell for a trap. The girl-boy must've really looked like a girl though for him to not be able to tell...

[@kao_wolf]

When I’m with new people I try to have more energy, but when I go home I’m just lazy😂 Also most people’s voice changes when they speak a different language

[@hizee5515]

Those first two were too cute!!!

[@lukastreuer8121]

More Carlos, please :)

[@shinotenshi5192]

Felt bad for the guy who got deceived by the trap 😐 he looks uncomfortable talking about it.

[@Raphanne]

I did notice your voice change as well, Cathy. Both in English and in Japanese, your voice has changed. It's a lot more high pitched now.

[@melco7294]

5:24 THAT WAS ADORABLE LOL

[@robertryan3571]

I thought this was a very good topic!

[@kevingonzalez3673]

Did your lady change?

[@rushaligurung173]

Japanese people are really open and down to earth.!!!

[@いちごメロンパン-g3s]

1人目イケメンやな。 彼女だけを大事にするのではなく、しっかり友情や約束を守る。

[@Beefstraganoff]

Luv ya videoss

[@xtam]

Omfl I thought TRAP is jst a myth

[@_bhp]

8:08 that mmmmmm kills me

[@ajax7590]

Is Carlos a native speaker of Japanese , he seems to have a different accent then I'm used to

He seems to be Brazilian. I might be wrong but it is a good guess since there is a second Japan inside Brazil and his name is common. The accent helps as well. He could be from somewhere else in LA though.

[@Leguinan]

He seems Brazilian, the accent, the name and the way he talks about relationships, so easily, sounds Brazilian, but... Well, there is a large number of Japanese descendants who returned to Japan.

[@Decreate]

How about doing a video on differences between German girls and Japanese girls before and after they start dating? 😁

[@uzmal7602]

U should do a vlog about how Japanese boys think about girls with hijaab, coz i have just been to Japan and to me it seems like that they were like scared? lol or maybe shy/careful ? becoz i think Japanese boys are nice and saw that they treated their girlfriends/wife very nice... i dont mind have Japanese husband lol

[@audgepodge381]

big fan of carlos! he is sooooo animatic!

[@theskeletonwith21subscribe59]

can someone tell me what kandi...? means 2:11, i hear it all the time but i can`t find a accurate translation given the context.

[@kevingonzalez3673]

That one dude said she started burping and farting.

[@decorachan4680]

HE FELL FOR A TRAP! 😱

[@vitorh3568]

8:09 hhauuhahuauwwww5555 replaying endless xD

[@studiohq]

Carlos was Awesome

[@chimtam1952]

introvert women are more hyper at home with their love ones☺️

[@thandooliphant3710]

Where are the subtitles ??

[@annealcantara6952]

That first guy's so romantic. 💞

[@Buzzramjet]

Welcome to the world of women. "But I thought you said you liked..." "Well I don't anymore" "oh okay' Two days later. "But you said you don't like that anymore". WOW Cathy you have such beautiful hair and looking natural. Gorgeous. Lucky person that gets to date you.

[@Kibouo]

6:06 it looked like he had more to say

[@RoninDays]

Wait until you hear the angry wife voice lmfao! IN BOTH LANGUAGES for me....pray for me

[@ritalun_naulak]

The guy 3:06 was kinda cute. Btw CATHY HOW DO YOU FIND CUTE GUYS TO HE IN YOUR INTERVIEW

[@MadIIMike]

5:33 Koi ga umareru kimi no naka de ...

[@sarahabdel7345]

カルロスさんが優しくて、フレンドリーな人みたいですね！ 友達になりたいな〜