What she's saying is use your brain. This applies to everwhere in the world. And for both men and women.If dating interacially or interculturally then you must use your brain 100 times more as the risk is higher..
@jiminswriter42093 ай бұрын
The risk is not higher unless you think other cultures have more bad people.
@m.m.71833 ай бұрын
@@jiminswriter4209it depends. I think Asian women should be careful for Western men looking for a meek Asian woman in Asian countries. I have seen abuse to these women who were brought to Europe.
@Waridi233 ай бұрын
@@jiminswriter4209 the risk is higher because you're more vulnerable hence easier to be tricked by the bad people in those other cultures. Hence why you need to use your brain 100 more times
@willfungusman86663 ай бұрын
That's not what she's saying
@shelbyw61353 ай бұрын
Race has nothing to do with it 🥴
@almeidareisАй бұрын
That is a smart suggestion...to have arguments to see how they react
@MrYega-zq7rzАй бұрын
I agree. I met a lot of women gaslighting and not knowing how to handle arguments. They just ignore, never say sorry and become cold. It's like the worst. If you cant love even when angry then it's pointless to be with them.
@hemantmarmath6689Ай бұрын
Yeah that's what i thought 😄
@B1LLBILLАй бұрын
Don’t women do that anyway?🤨🤨
@lspence6810Ай бұрын
NOT ON PURPOSE. That’s childish.
@PolineChanАй бұрын
You have to keep this mentality when arguing with women "Either she's right or she's right"
@malachitestorm3 ай бұрын
What an intelligent person, and stunning too!
@bi.fruitsalad3 ай бұрын
Exactly ❤❤
@woodmanmorning12343 ай бұрын
That’s beyond stunning that’s charming, gorgeous
@sara.cbc922 ай бұрын
she was dumped by her bf lol
@sara.cbc922 ай бұрын
you may need to check ur eyes
@TheFoofoo862 ай бұрын
It smells like jealousy 😂😂@@sara.cbc92
@Burn1433 ай бұрын
Her name is Anna Lee btw and she has a KZbin channel. She gives good advice.💯
@ramsaycobbler84993 ай бұрын
This was a random encounter?
@Burn1433 ай бұрын
@@ramsaycobbler8499 Honestly idk. It could be possible he just randomly saw her on the street, or he called her up for a video since many of these interviews are planned. Either way, she gives pretty good advice usually haha.💯😁
@user-ns2dt3le1e3 ай бұрын
Ok
@user-m__2 ай бұрын
@@ramsaycobbler8499 I think he always brings one sort of celebrity, and others are random people passing by
@aaawwweeee2 ай бұрын
Yeah her channel is very good and she is really levelheaded. highly recommend.
@toxiknao88263 ай бұрын
Idk why people are saying "she's so wise" this is common sense most people should think this way.
@user-cp1co5vl7m3 ай бұрын
A lot of people don't though
@Raven744083 ай бұрын
Compared to some of the brain dead advice we've heard in this series like "don't date people who are friends with the opposite sex" this is much more intelligent. 😂
@ventaliq2 ай бұрын
fr
@sofiya6941Ай бұрын
It is but people tend to ignore the common sense
@user-jo7kf2bj9sАй бұрын
Exactly! Most people shrug off the " weird instict,or gut feeling" the first sense that pops up when you meet someone. They re-think it and convince themselves that the " feeling or sense" is wrong.
@mkay0630Ай бұрын
What she's saying about seeing how they react to arguments makes so much sense. It's better to fake an argument early on just to see their reaction (for safety reasons) rather than potentially wait however long, when you're already invested and the relationship gets serious, because by that point you're probably less likely to drop the person. I don't know if there's a term for this, but the more familiar a person is to you, the less likely you are to call them out when they say/do something toxic in order to "keep the peace." I'm talking about situations without a power imbalance (which you're obviously much less likely to leave the relationship for a myriad of reasons.)
@clockeat13003 ай бұрын
its anna lee giving smart advice
@Burn1433 ай бұрын
Per usual😌
@james_l4337Ай бұрын
Make sure no marriage
@stevegfromnc34823 ай бұрын
If you haven't had some disagreements about something, you probably haven't spent enough time together. Or someone is totally letting the other make all the decisions and totally refusing to say what they think when they don't agree.
@TheDreamFairy439Ай бұрын
Pretty common in the beginning of a relationship (agreeing with everything) and then later, we regret it lol. She's right. It is better to voice your opinion and argue it out.
@lisab18543 ай бұрын
"Before you get married, at least have a couple of arguments with them to see how they are when they get angry and how you resolve conflicts together..." 🤔 Wow. I'm in UK. I've dated a few people but it never lasted long at all. So I don't consider myself experienced in relationships. We never argued (maybe that was the problem?) - except one guy who argued with me... 🤔 Come to think of it now, I'd add: be smart enough to recognise a bad situation, strong enough to walk away, and have the confidence enough to break it off when it's not right. I was shy and timid then. He was cruel and I should've left then and there. He left me shortly afterwards so it worked out. Thank you to this pretty lady! Her advice is gold ✨
@jasonlee02903 ай бұрын
Thats right! Not every guy you meet in Korea do those extreme things. Lots of good people to know both Korean guys and girls.
@yoyaserdx3 ай бұрын
그냥 맘대로 생각하게 내비두셈 ㅋㅋ
@Kai-gom883 ай бұрын
Whooa..😮 she's so smart and a well spoken pretty girl😊
@zzzmisun3 ай бұрын
ANNA LEE, you are the BEST 😊👍
@samleigh34953 ай бұрын
I need this girl as my life coach lol
@fisherprice60123 ай бұрын
I love ppl from other countries.. you can learn so much from a simple conversation
@yogyal2923 ай бұрын
Finally someone who can speak 😢 tired of small minded ones ❤
@nicolejones3686Ай бұрын
See, this is why is you don't marry people straight way instead of knowing them first 😒 Arguments help you see what type of person your with, they could only hide that for so long 😊😏
@chinadjunior3 ай бұрын
She's wise. WISE!!!!!!!!!
@bi.fruitsalad3 ай бұрын
She’s stating facts
@Kitana20203 ай бұрын
She's absolutely right. For me personally, I would like to see videos of Korean people speaking about how foreigners behave in their country.
@Feministt3 ай бұрын
Obviously, she is correct!
@HonestThoughts-bq8fs3 ай бұрын
That’s too funny since Anna is both arrogant and stubborn amongst shady 😂
@jojojoan63102 ай бұрын
She looks gorgeous
@LordTitus73 ай бұрын
She totally didn’t answer the second question at all
@RedThunderSP3 ай бұрын
Surprised you ran into Anna Lee on the street! Her story is very interesting. Great video!
@michelleprestegard72843 ай бұрын
They are friends
@dr.sunflower63363 ай бұрын
Yes she's totally right. You said have at least a couple of arguements and fights to see if that person is willing to resolve things with you.
@mitsubachihachi964311 күн бұрын
This is actually pretty insightul advice, sometimes a person's true colors shhow when theyre angry with you!
@walimarimjhim11 күн бұрын
i like her sm. she is soo fluent and she said the wise things which make sense!!
@makeupbyashley8283 ай бұрын
First of all I love her! Second, your hair looks amazing in every video!
@derrickcarwardine45169 күн бұрын
Wise woman. The good times are easy. A person really shows who they are when they are upset or angry.
@heididay63643 ай бұрын
I can tell she have a smart good personality. I am from Australia and live Aussie life but I definitely agree with every word she said and it makes me feel less alone in this world thank you girl and high five 🙌🏼
@vikramdutta555722 күн бұрын
She's a good example of "Beauty with brain" ✨️
@sergioianni534922 сағат бұрын
Basically the type of older men's culture that we see in k drama is a chauvinist one
@nisansalabandara75693 ай бұрын
👍🏼👏🏼 I Should Listen To This Every Day 😊
@nirikshab2006Ай бұрын
Honestly...this is only one korean woman,I have seen who is actually confident 😊😂❤
@user-jo7kf2bj9sАй бұрын
Always, always use your gut. Instinct is spot on, and if you feel something or someone isn't what they seem, then generally, thats correct.
@SupremeMaster-he4rc3 ай бұрын
This lady is Anna Lee. She has a successful channel on KZbin. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@jiminswriter42093 ай бұрын
He's really digging for stereotypes about Korean men after she said all that. There are no "certain traits to watch out for" in Korean men compared to other men.
@Eli-pt9ft3 ай бұрын
Well it is mainly because people think Korean men are from a kdrama when in fact they are just like any other dude in the world.
@mystictraveler86423 ай бұрын
@Eli-pt9ft korean heart and romance is better than the tv shows in kdrama. But kdrama is a reflection of korean society.
@mystictraveler86423 ай бұрын
@user-dk9xr4ry3w What you speak of is true, but it's very superficial With what you are talking about, because it's on social media. But you don't really no. The deeper underlying fabric of korean society. There's nothing to keep up with the rapid changes. Korean drama's been around forever. Even after the war in the nineteen fifties. And bullying has been around in korean schools forever. The internet and social media has changed not only in korea but the whole world. Each country has their own version of change. The korean people and their heart is still so centered. The american entertainment capitalist do try to pollute Korea with a lot of cunning P. R devices.
@slee26953 ай бұрын
@Eli-pt9ft do most people think US men are like Hollywood?
@user-sm1jp4en9u2 ай бұрын
@@Eli-pt9ftisn't it those women's fault then ?
@marialanagoldsworthy86703 ай бұрын
She’s 100% correct about how you should at least have a couple arguments with your s/o before taking them very seriously or moving in, and of course do these things and move in together before marriage.
@chilledjuice2 күн бұрын
If only I had argued with my husband before marriage.. makes so much sense
@itachiuchiha-bl5wv15 күн бұрын
Having an argument to see how they handle them is really a golden advice...because when your emotions run high you can't keep up a facade so all the masks come off....off course barring sociopaths/psychopath..
@ThePeasentMonarchАй бұрын
Her accent is throwing me off, sounds Korean and British. Pretty dope
@sshhxxu18 күн бұрын
very wise and spot-on relationship advice!!
@oceanstar122016 күн бұрын
SHE'S SMART
@jamesmckeon9139Ай бұрын
Chick seems like she argues to argue
@MrSouleater7778 күн бұрын
Men want peace in a relationship. Not arguments made out of the blue to test us.....
@WolffBlurr28 күн бұрын
Oh, wasn’t expecting to stumble across the KPC here 🇰🇷🍕
@tambourinedmb18 күн бұрын
have a couple arguments to see if he’s the type of guy you can push around
@caleb038818 күн бұрын
My bros hair is on point though
@SAGEEDITZ243 ай бұрын
She just provided some really great information for people when they’re courting.
@M1SS1ONARY6 күн бұрын
She’s so amazing
@michellemckinney46783 ай бұрын
Awe Anna and Jerry! Friends in my head!
@daveondiekaaron2204Ай бұрын
SHE IS VERY SWEET AND HONEST ❤️💯
@mojoeherb32803 ай бұрын
I can hear an English accent but I would date her, she's beautiful 😊
@rhera23 күн бұрын
Ooohh she ia so right about argument part 😮!
@wcdirect92177 күн бұрын
Good idea, I will start an argument with my girl and see how she handles it.
@KennethPriceRainfordIII3 ай бұрын
I am a military brat so i missed out on going to China but there's so many little china's nowadays.i love steamed pork bun steamed veggie bun steammed sweet bun. Now a days I'll settle for link in Illinois i feel ruined by mindy but cultural difference are the children that grew up with samurai pizza cats.
@keithprice892317 күн бұрын
Best comment I’ve heard in years that actually makes sense hopefully everyone will get it.
@ozzieovb17 күн бұрын
You need to avoid her😂
@tornadocrossfire544Ай бұрын
I swear I'ma say something that will make you think I'm dangerous even though I'm not LOL
@tommothedog18 күн бұрын
We know what she means by compromise dont we boys! Haha 😂
@Lyxs4s3 ай бұрын
People are treated the way they allow others to.
@kdramaluvr9916Ай бұрын
I love her! ❤
@ChrisBartleyLeo19 күн бұрын
That’s great advice.
@wengo442 ай бұрын
to fight fair is not easy so having an argument with a partner to see how they behave sounds like a good plan.
@milindvrs495423 күн бұрын
She is lot more Indian than Korean.
@Actlikemjsmith8 күн бұрын
Future cat lady here... lol
@mrs.4414Ай бұрын
He said, "I am heaven and you are land"it means he is higher and i am lower which literally means slave
@Xinkgs2 ай бұрын
She is on point with it
@GIJoe-zm3yp22 күн бұрын
Her English vocabulary tho
@ugonneeugenes91823 ай бұрын
She spoke wonderfully❤
@winonna6133 ай бұрын
She’s definitely right.❤
@bellastyles456_Ай бұрын
Smart smart women 💘
@user-qm2qv2gi8hАй бұрын
By whose standards should we judge a man whether he's arrogant or stubborn? Women!
@CyranoForever1012 ай бұрын
I get her point, but she used the wrong verbiage. No, you should NOT argue with someone to see how they resolve conflict. Arguing is toxic. What you SHOULD do is merely have a civil, calm conversation about your disagreements
@jimbogipson19929 күн бұрын
What a wise soul bless you love
@gingerslush63013 ай бұрын
I agree...those who are arrogant and stubborn wouldn't make a good partner
@Precious685Ай бұрын
Yes i love how she stated it clear, bad pesons exists everywhere.
@njskyline9763 ай бұрын
OMG, love her answer, very smart and realistic
@Miraken813 ай бұрын
I agree 100%. She's totally right from my opinion.
@chcc39343 ай бұрын
such a great advise
@anudamodaran19Ай бұрын
Very well said
@StayMinaaАй бұрын
She looks a bit like Suzy Bae ❤😊
@gabriellep98663 ай бұрын
She offers good advice!👏👏👏
@1Techdrawer3 ай бұрын
The beautiful woman said it best. Make them angry on purpose and see what they do.😊
@FedorSTR3 ай бұрын
This is very wise! The only thing which I`d add to it is- listen very carefully what a person is telling about former boyfriend/ girlfriend becouse, probably, the next his/ her botfriend/ girlfriend will hear the same about you. Some people are not able to keep themselves within the bounds of decency and after disputing with them you will not be able to communicate with them anymore. So the earlier you find it out the better.
@Meley072 ай бұрын
Couple arguments sounds about right
@ruebenaguilera771Күн бұрын
She's great
@limitlesssky305028 күн бұрын
But women love arguing with men that they are dating, and when they lose the argument, they resort to name calling. When the man lost, they wouldn't let it go even after apologizing. And it's a very huge red flag if you try to fake argue out of nowhere, that's a drama queen. You don't need to actually fake it, you will be in conflict sooner or later anyway.
@morgannavel4552Ай бұрын
I'm kind of stubborn and she is too ㅋㅋㅋㅋ. When we have conflicts usually it's not big ones, but when it does happen it gets better over time cause at the end we love each other. I know it seams too easy to be true, but I assure you that sometimes you just need to wait until it resolve it. This kind of experience reenforced our love because she confessed to me her fear and her pov so I could understand. Understand the why before figuring out the how.
@ekaterini29573 ай бұрын
Anna Lee! The voice of reason! :)))
@BIGALEX_DRDOOMАй бұрын
I Always put people to the test and ringer. Sometimes be an a hole to see how they react. 🙏🏾🤷🏾🤣
@kanhaiyabankebihari43412 күн бұрын
Wise lady❤
@priyanshu-jais3 ай бұрын
She is so pretty 😻
@acexae241117 күн бұрын
Very true and fair
@EmeKaGirl12 күн бұрын
I agree. A lot of my friends and family dated Korean men and they ended up toxic like physical and emotional abuse.