Babysitter Boss S1E7: Babysitting Bad Behavior Hacks

[@lenyahemin7563]

That one boy that I’m babysitting is so noisy and he is screaming whenever something gets wrong. He is so loud and even once the neighbors called the boy’s parents while I was babysitting him, he was screaming like a maniac just because I told him no TV. (He was watching it for 2 hours!)

[@BabysitterBoss]

You DEFINITELY need to memorize the behavior management tips when babysitting this child. (Here they are for easy access safesitter.org/behavior-tips/). And if his behavior continues to be more than you can handle - or want to handle - it's okay to turn down the job. Tell the employer that you either are not available or that the child's behavior is more than you can handle in a babysitting job and that you don't feel comfortable taking on that responsibility. You don't have to say yes to every babysitting request!

[@lucyjanebk8824]

I give you my sympathy

[@narnia1233]

Maybe you can take the kid to a playground? (If that’s okay with parents.) Maybe a change in scenery could help.

[@hannahduerksen9858]

I have a kid I babysit just like that he screams and yells when he doesn’t get what he wants I tell him no all the time.

[@stephy4missy]

I am a behavioral therapist for children, and in my training- the most effective way is to not give a positive (comfort/give in) OR negative ( “NO! *not happy face* That’s not okay you can’t have candy before dinner your mom said”) reaction or response. The best way to ignore the bad behavior & follow through calmly with what you are asking of the child with no expression & say I understand that makes you feel upset but after you finish your dinner I’ll be so excited to give you a piece of candy! 😊 - I know it sounds harsh but it’s effective. Kids don’t care what attention they get, bad or good- they just want a reaction. Acting unphased and then praising any little behavior or step they are making to try to comply… PRAISE THAT CHILD socially with a high five or statements like “oh my gosh! You are so awesome & so fast at cleaning up!! Give me a high five!!” Then quickly proceed to transition them to the “demand” or instruction you gave them earlier like “ahh I’m so silly!! I totally forgot to tell you your food is on the table!😅 Let me know when you’re finished so I can give you this yummy candy 😍”

[@kaylag5043]

I'm 13 and I had to babysit two little kids while also teaching a girl my age maths. I let them sit in the room and I told them to play the quiet game. Worked perfectly.

[@lola.gs1]

This doesn't work for all children, and might not end well.

[@iisxflowerplays]

@JOEL D funni??

[@dhsisidjsisj2633]

Teaching a 13 year old math..? lol

[@_aasshhee]

I started babysitting this little 7 year old girl a week ago, and I'm going over tomorrow but she is so sweet, I'm sure these tips will come in handy one day!!

[@BabysitterBoss]

Good luck!!

[@cailynallebasi]

Tomorrow I’m babysitting for around 5 hours, 3 kids and I’ve babysat them before and the little boy just runs around everywhere (they’re so adorable tho)

[@BabysitterBoss]

Sorry I'm late to comment! I hope you had fun babysitting over the weekend!

[@princesslilyfromtheisleoft2649]

If I was an older kid getting babysat my babysitter would hear a LONG conversation about Once Upon A Time. It's my favorite tv show. Thumbs up if you agree.

[@LuisGomez-rw6gg]

Rily its you mal

[@Ellie-fq6xe]

Of course 🎉

[@KaraStevens-ii4qq]

Thank u for this video. I had to babysit for a family who had 3 kids and these tips were very helpful and now I babysit for them frequently

[@lordpun7779]

Theses are so helpful

[@BabysitterBoss]

Lord of the pun thank you! Let me know what other topics you want to hear about!

[@lordpun7779]

Well one I would like to know about is house safety If you don’t feel safe in a house for whatever reason Like weapons, people that won’t leave, etc.

[@BabysitterBoss]

Great question! If you EVER don’t feel safe at all, use a Safety Signal. A Safety Signal is a code message between you and your parents that tells them that you need to be picked up now - no questions asked! I like to use, “I’m ready to be picked up now.” My parents know if I call or text them that sentence to drop everything and come get me because I don’t feel safe.

[@lordpun7779]

I was also told to say that in safe sitter! Thanks for the advice

[@BabysitterBoss]

Lord of the pun everything I learned about babysitting I learned from Safe Sitter!

[@lucianacaceres7041]

Today I’ll start my first babysitting job 😳 I’ve been watching all your videos and it really helped me to calm down ❤️

[@BabysitterBoss]

How did it go?

[@lucianacaceres7041]

@@BabysitterBoss it went really good! The little boy was an angel...most of the time hahah

[@GracelynKluksdahl-g5b]

Thank you for these tips! Sometimes, I struggle when I have to watch over my younger siblings. Most of the time I do well when I watch over them, but there are times where I am overwhelmed and start to get impatient. It's very important to know how to treat a younger child when you're watching them! 😅

[@fionaskagen1785]

This helps so much since I am going to start babing sitting!! :)

[@onlylae7790]

Same

[@willowkent8718]

i’m babysitting 3 kids today and this helps a lot thanks!

[@libbydatema2105]

I’m going to be babysitting two little girls in a month or two and this helped a lot! It’s my first time officially babysitting for people I don’t know to well, and it’s a little nerve racking 😅

[@ws2024]

i’m babysitting a 4 year old little boy with down syndrome. i love him so much, but he has a hard time explaining things to me like telling me what he wants and he gets mad and throws a fit. i try to comfort him, and i distract him with his other toys or i tell him to point to what he wants. you just need patience with kids

[@akira3428]

your videos help me so much. its just like babysitting classes/courses but free!

[@leahgracefecteau]

Good job it’s not easy when kids don’t listen or behave

[@brittanywilcken2223]

your videos help a lot im hoping on having my own babysitting bussness this year please make more

[@kate-wg9hd]

I hope to start babysitting soon so I hope this helps!

[@thatdumbhobo9629]

I’m gonna be babysitting a 7 yr old and MAYBE a 2 yr old. I mostly watch this for the 2 year old because they’re really noisy and they tend to hit and scream. Some even bite I’m not really worried about the 7 yr old. I just want to know Incase so I can take action!

[@BabysitterBoss]

Here is some additional information to keep handy! safesitter.org/behavior-tips/ Remember to stay in control of yourself and stay in control of the kiddos! Toddlers can be tough so be ready!

[@breesuselessvlogs5820]

this is gonna be helpful! i can’t wait to start babysitting!:) ❤️

[@firefly_ace]

I’m moving soon and want to start babysitting for money, this knowledge will help.

[@rockknowledge2348]

7 videos left and I’m done binge watching all your vids

[@juliamiller6389]

Thank you Babysitter Boss S1E7: Babysitting Bad Behavior Hacks episode is helpful especially before pesach.

[@livin-in-the-south]

I didn't think for me it would be that hard because its only one kid and she is 5 so easy to entertain but thanks I can always use more tips👍

[@avabromley7716]

I babysit my cousin sometimes, and when I put her in timeout, she gets right up.What should I do?

[@BabysitterBoss]

Hi Ava! You need to be strict when you enforce the rules. When you put her in timeout, tell her that it’s time to take a break for (whatever time you set) and when that time is up, she can return to playing. Use a timer so she knows that the break will eventually end. You may even need to stand right next to her in timeout to keep her in place. If that doesn’t work, call her parents to let them know you need help. It’s okay to ask for help!

[@avabromley7716]

Thank you babysitter boss

[@avabromley7716]

Possibly will be babysitting in a few weeks so I'll give it a try

[@marclabrie6027]

@Rachel is My Angel that don't work too much

[@alexshane5713]

@Nikki Bentley Is My Angel You just comment crap in every one of these videos. Oh and forcing them to say sorry actually just makes them resent you and I would fire you if you treated my child like that. Kids are people and they deserve respect

[@benfratrik9675]

I’m not babysitting yet but I really want to when I’m 9 or 12 I want her to do a how to babysit when you young

[@makenaplay919]

Here is a tip do time out it works and if you don’t want to then just take away something or make them say sorry after

[@hannahduerksen9858]

Me and my sister have a babysitting job and we make good money it is extremely exhausting 2 young kids under 3 years old 8 days in a row and 10 hours a day it can be rough and one of the kids is really disobedient this will help slog thanks 🙏

[@BabysitterBoss]

That's a lot of work! You must be a great babysitter!

[@elizabethjameson3395]

I love your videos!!!!!🥰😍🤩

[@hiyam2love]

I'm 27 and I'm about to babysit my old boss's 5 kids in two days for a week. They're between the ages of 14 and 1 1/2 years old. I'm so nervous because I've never changed a diaper in my life and I'll be watching them for for 7 1/2 hours. I'm watching so many babysitting videos and taking notes. I hope they don't hate me and I'll do a good job

[@BabysitterBoss]

How did it go?

[@gabrieldeschenes607]

Good god do they listen with my manly deep teen voice!!

[@tegly2426]

I'm babysitting two-three little kids the age of THREE AND UNDER. a little boy, 1, little girl, 2, little girl, 3. these will really help

[@ray6327]

This helps when I babysit my lil sister she has autism so lots of tantrums

[@anitasolo7690]

I'm going to start it tomorrow thank you so much I'm pretty sure my little brother will learn more thanks 😀❤️👍👍😀

[@RoxAnnePlayss]

Great now I can babysit my siblings and also I'm learning how to cook yay!

[@CelebEdits_1]

4k like!!! Got to change it from 3.9k to 4k! I’m so late to this but these tips I hope will help me! I’m a Highschool student looking for a few bucks to get a car and to start off my job money before working at a grocery store or something but I hope these kids aren’t as bad as they seem in my neighborhood

[@makenaplay919]

This are my tips make sure you give them a nap time I personally only watch kids 5 too 8

[@marygordon9131]

I just started babysitting and this really helps me

[@noragreene5811]

Thank you very much ♥️

[@naikavanel179]

Thank you

[@Namutebibrendah1]

Right now I'm at my lowest 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ my heart feels so heavy and I'm fading away I babysit 4 kids with no manners

[@dixieingles2716]

BABY..what if none of this works? I need super nanny at this point. 😭

[@BabysitterBoss]

Then it's time to call a back-up adult for help!

[@theshaniyaexperience3176]

I'm having my first babysitting job soon any tips and activities

[@BabysitterBoss]

Binge this channel. All my best advice is here!

[@livelovestopmotion9630]

Ya

[@Foxzi_Moto]

I start my job of babysitting a 3 year old and a 1 year old tomorrow and I’m watching all of these because I’m so nervous even though I’ve babysat before-

[@BabysitterBoss]

I’m sure you’ll do great! Just remember you are the child’s bodyguard and it’s your job to keep them safe. Watch the kids and watch out for danger. And most of all, have fun! Toddlers are a lot of work, but also really funny and so much fun to be around.

[@BabysitterBoss]

I’m sure you’ll do great! Just remember you are the child’s bodyguard and it’s your job to keep them safe. Watch the kids and watch out for danger. And most of all, have fun! Toddlers are a lot of work, but also really funny and so much fun to be around.

[@ΧριστίναΠαπά-ν3ι]

Not me watching this while Im babysitting tomorrow🤣

[@itzbobloxbella7115]

I am also babysitting this helped tysm

[@TaraKraft-r1u]

Ty for teaching me, im a little young but in a couple years im going to be a baby sitter! By the way i subbed

[@BabysitterBoss]

That is awesome! Thank you so much! I can't wait to hear about you being your own Babysitter Boss in a couple years

[@ka0tic-f0x]

She needs to do one how to deal with acedents because whet do I do when I find a yellow puddle on the floor?

[@jessicascarborough1703]

A girl I babysit disagrees with me a lot one time she said that was the worst babysitter ever. What should I do if she says that again.

[@devss4982]

Question, in the episode the puking child, is there any real or fake vomit shown? I want to watch it but am scared of seeing vomit

[@avery8088]

Today I’m probably going to babysit a three year old a five year old and six yr old. I’m only eleven so I don’t get payed. Nonetheless, the kids are adorable and I know how to take care of them pretty well. The parents just think I’m there to “have fun” with their kids. Don’t get me wrong I love baby’s and kids but it’s annoying bc I’m only eleven and I’m picking up and feeding and looking after 3-5 kids in my neighborhood. I just wanna get paid bc I’ve been watching them since the ending of quarantine in June almost everyday, I think I’m going to talk to my mom today about it. Also, babysitting makes a lot of money which I could use rn😂

[@BabysitterBoss]

If you feel like they are taking advantage of you, you definitely need to tell you parent.

[@Christian_Addi]

I took the safe sitter class it was fun❤

[@artvision2175]

Awesome thks!!!!

[@nathanmatthews2123]

How do u deal with young children that ... push, poke u, bite, rustle, bad tempered and much more? I’ve tried all of ur advice, and I really don’t want to cancel on the parents! Can u PLEASE HELP ME?

[@BabysitterBoss]

You need to let the parents know what problems you have with the children and that you are aren't sure if you can continue to babysit for them. They may need to talk to the kids and reinforce rules.

[@Sloane.Banaszynski]

What ages do you recommend for a new 11 year old babysitter. I really want to babysit I just don’t know what ages, if you could tell me that would be awesome

[@Sloane.Banaszynski]

@@1776Blue yes I have two younger brothers

[@Sloane.Banaszynski]

@@1776Blue ok!

[@maniacmichelle7289]

I’m babysitting kids and animals for a whole week and now I’m scared

[@BabysitterBoss]

Have a back-up adult that you can call and can be there in 5 minutes to help (and don't be afraid to call that person for help)!

[@maniacmichelle7289]

Babysitter Boss the mom is going to be there but she is pregnant and that’s why she needs help because her husband has a work thing tho, I’m still scared

[@chickynugget459]

These help a lot

[@Veronicaamodern]

Yeah , im not a babysitter but im babysitting my little brother😅

[@chasitypv245]

I have question!what do you do when kids throw stuff?

[@BabysitterBoss]

I mean, if it is toys and nothing is getting broken and no one is getting hurt, it's probably just the kid playing. If things are getting broken or people are getting hurt, you need to take away whatever the object is that the child is throwing.

[@tiffanykursave1338]

I'm babysitting today and the parents never pay me.

[@chaoscasey123]

what age did you start babysitting?

[@BabysitterBoss]

Around 12

[@Kennylabelle1981]

Im a kid but I’m weird-ish-.y and find this intresting lol

[@alixandrastandish3199]

not bossy when babysitting right now, it's only a job

[@rebeccarandall1440]

where was the third

[@leyahm.3613]

When will new episodes come? 😞

[@BabysitterBoss]

Not sure - everything is on hold right now with the COVID-19 pandemic.

[@AislinHerstad]

Im 12 so i know stuff about minecraft and roblox & games like that so i could literally relate to the kids 😅 😂

[@benfratrik9675]

Can you make a video of how to handle a playful one year old baby boy

[@BabysitterBoss]

Maybe in the future. Here are some ideas for now: safesitter.org/toddlers/

[@sadiesmith4396]

I don't babysit but watch some kids (with the mom around) and the older one will always talk about minecraft. lol. Also, question: How old should we be to start babysitting?

[@BabysitterBoss]

Usually around 11 or 12 is a good age if you've taken a babysitting course like Safe Sitter. You'd be surprised how much you'll learn in the class!

[@rose6946]

What about if a kid gets so angry that they grab a knife and threatens u it's happened to me before so scary that I had to give in but then I took all the knifes away and took the donuts away again because his mum said that he can't have any

[@BabysitterBoss]

If a child is threatening to hurt themselves or others with a weapon, you need to call 9-1-1.

[@addisonvlogs123]

I babysit my to cousins but there’s a third kid on the way what i do if my little cousin freaks out

[@BabysitterBoss]

Freaks out from what?

[@addisonvlogs123]

Babysitter Boss is older brother hitting him or takeing things

[@jasonvanrossum9468]

Me : ok ok yes yes yes mm hm ok I get I agree

[@lola.gs1]

My first job is for these 3 boys (2yrs, 6yrs, 9yrs) and they can be extremely annoying-

[@Silasthefishstick]

When I’m 14 and legally allowed to become a babysitter in my state I’ll bring some paper toy moths in I’ll put them on a stick and say catch the moth this is going to happen in the playroom or a spaced out area so nobody gets hurt this hack is to let kids let out their energy without being distructive and simply crazy and hyper then if they are really good they will have their favorite moth toy at the end if they were good but if they were really bad and if they were kids 5 and up then they wouldn’t get 5e moth or butterfly toy bc they simply need to know you don’t get rewarded for bad behavior and maybe next time they’ll get it:3

[@santank4]

cant believe im watching this

[@kaneandkasynsgamingchannel7561]

What do we need to bring to your babysitting job??

[@Isla694]

Im babysitting a 6year old and 3 mounth old fyi my cousins

[@Skippy-Balls]

I can’t even put the kid in timeout

[@juanisalmaraz3533]

What is the kid having seizure

[@janaworld9857]

I am a kid my mom yells at me when I do some bad things I need my mom to watch this video now

[@melissagilbert3237]

I need help I’m starting babysitting I need help

[@LucysLifeInTheBabyAliveWorld]

I would obviously never do this to a child that is not my own, but what's your stance on physical discipline?

[@ayalewdessieabebe]

What's the name of this girl 😍

[@elantra3166]

Although I'm only 10 I'm planning to become a babysitter when I turn 11 I'm planning to take a babysitting course and in my state which is Kansas it is legal to start babysitting thing at 11 so I'm planning to do only the weekends maybe Tuesdays if my mom has them off and since you have to have a license to babysit 20 or more hours to a non-related child I plan to do 18 hours a week which is a handful since each day I'm going to be doing 6 or 12 hours which is going to be a lot since I only be 11 but I'm planning to start my own Facebook or have my mom post it on hers and say that I'm open I'm only going to charge $8 an hour and just like you with only cash or checks or see if there's any other way to get paid I'm only going to charge $8 an hour because I'm not a professional babysitter and I won't be but today at the park this little girl who apparently when the mom was talking with my mom barely came up to strangers just followed me I guess I just have a look at my eyes or something because kids love me and one of my friends who I was being babysitted by their mom had a baby cousin it whenever I went around that baby cousin would Adore me he was so sweet and then I found out he was saying the f-word which is really weird but still I'm super excited to become a babysitter and your videos have carried me along way even though I've only been watching them for 1 today I've already learned how to change a baby's diaper and how to handle bad behavior and I'm going to have to be careful because I do have a tiny bit of a potty mouth but I'm going to be as patient as I can be thank you for teaching me so much!😁😁💖💖❤️❤️❤️⭐⭐😻😻😻👏👏🙏🙏🙏😊😊😊

[@kenazu5916]

I DO BABY SIT MY SIBLINGS AND THEY ARE STUBBORN

[@sozoii]

God loves y’all Jesus Christ saves Give Him a chance

[@lemoncolor7853]

I wanna be a babysitter😁💁‍♀️

[@anna_grace_]

I’m babysitting 3 kids under 6 A 6 year old A 4 year old A 3 month year old Yikes

[@anna_grace_]

Well my and my friend are

[@BabysitterBoss]

That's a lot of work! I'm glad you have a friend helping you!

[@clare2540]

y'all here's a quick tip for after everything in this video has not worked (it finally happened to me 😭)..... cocomelon. idk what it is but kids aged about 1-4 LOVE cocomelon, try it out!!