'Bachelor' Matt James Puts Victoria On Blast For Dismissing Bullying

[@heytheredelilah16]

We all need to thank him for being such a gentleman. Like for real, thank you for taking this seriously

[@reneetrotter4214]

Victoria wasn't serious about Matt...she was role playing it was obvious.

[@SoccerStar348]

She made the show interesting LOL

[@Dreamlillie_95]

Or she's just that narcissistic 🤔

[@Marajeats]

Naw that’s her! I asked someone that knows her.

[@Marajeats]

Sway K her best friend

[@laurad4945]

She just wanted to gain an influencer career but she is really playing out this rude, bully vibe. Her and the mean girls from this season have disabled and limited their comments. I dont know what they expected after being so heartless to the other girls.

[@michaelwheeler3782]

Victoria needs professional help. She needs to look at herself in the mirror

[@isabelzamora8152]

Nope she has confidence in herself witch is good ...

[@yomobog3289]

Confidence is not the same as feeling better about one's self by belittling others. No one wants to strip away her confidence,they would just prefer that everyone around her is also not stripped of theirs.

[@catrozzelle]

I think she has narcissistic personality disorder

[@Alejandra13]

She needs Bennett’s book on emotional intelligence because she’s deficient in ALL of them

[@Dania.q]

@@isabelzamora8152 there is a huge difference between confidence and being egotistical... true confidence is a deep trust within yourself, which means you don’t have a need to put others down just to raise yourself up. Victoria’s behaviour and actions are actually signs of a deeply troubled and insecure person.

[@nillyramgnik7076]

I don’t know who this woman is doing the interview, but SHE was trying to get Matt to to say negative things about Victoria and Anna (as she smiled in a conniving manner). I’m glad Matt took the high road instead.

[@harlightspodcast4585]

Agreed! noticed that too. Cant speak on bullying and then bully as well, it just does not make sense. This is talked about on a Spotify podcast called Harlights: open.spotify.com/show/0W1R7yuBWNtdDqaiQ6L3zW

[@brianjerry9831]

Could this guy be any more awesome? Matt is the man, a very standup dude. Loving this season.

[@cjmac2766]

AMEN, Matt!!! Thank you for being a gentleman and protecting those who are victims of bullying. It's always right to do the right thing!

[@sarahhorton631]

Isn't ironic that people in the comments are bullying Matt about his beard...

[@g.a.mendoza1064]

People are just dumb. It’s a manly feature.

[@latoyafarrell8135]

Hammer on the nail! Matt is a very attractive guy w/ or without a beard☺️

[@candyxox]

We don't have to like the beard

[@angelsmusic2560]

@@candyxox You don't have to comment on it either.

[@sarahhorton631]

@@candyxox opinions are like butt holes; everyone has one but it's best if you keep it to yourself.

[@JWVideos22]

In a video condemning bullying, you all really decided to open the comment section and bully him for his beard? Telling someone to change their appearance is not your place.

[@biblicalgodisonlytruegod]

Telling someone that the beard is ugly is not “bullying”. He’s made himself a public figure and opened himself to the opinions of people.

[@harlightspodcast4585]

Yes combating bullying with bullying is not the answer. This is talked about on a Spotify podcast called Harlights: open.spotify.com/show/0W1R7yuBWNtdDqaiQ6L3zW

[@candyxox]

Its not like his reading the comments

[@billynilly9068]

Your comment is the only comment I've seen about his beard

[@JWVideos22]

@@billynilly9068 lol i think I was just early and all I saw was comments telling him to shave his beard.

[@thefamouseugenekrabs]

At least he admits to being on both sides of bullying.

[@soledadvalencia2641]

There is no possible way Matt was actually interested in Victoria.. Im convinced the producers made Victoria stay or something

[@harryskittyz]

of course, duh! The last couple of episodes she was here they didn't even kiss on the lips lol. There was an obvious divide

[@nichalalaramy701]

No. She gone. Bye Phylicia.

[@NovaDrakers]

Matt was making out with her more than once, he is yet to hold the African Queen Magi's hands. Matt feels like he owes the White communities something or he is looking for something from them. Man live your truth, Black and White, kept it colorful, Thank God you are here a product of both, Barack Obama, please speak to this young man.

[@hereforit2347]

Of course.

[@hereforit2347]

@@NovaDrakers: Barack Obama???? 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣😂

[@anonymousanonymous-qx7mv]

Hes very nice...talking around it in neutral terms....good character

[@neerasinha-frazer2094]

I know. She’s trying to get him to say something bad

[@sandraortiz9447]

The Bachelor Nation for the first time had chosen a Gentleman and what a stand up guy ..,. Blessings Matt and ur Lady?? So excited to see who it is

[@Faithtasticness]

APOLOGIZE TO MARILYNN

[@chachid1600]

It gives me faith in humanity to see people standing up to bullying.

[@harlightspodcast4585]

Yes agreed especially on tv the bullies are finally being sent home. This is talked about on a Spotify podcast called Harlights: open.spotify.com/show/0W1R7yuBWNtdDqaiQ6L3zW

[@melanatedqueen]

Sis the reporter is soooo excited abt all the tea. Reminds me of when my sister and I meet after a while.

[@annafed2419]

I didn’t expect Matt to be so… Classy It’s a good look

[@llyg4848]

Did they bring her in as a joke because I’m surprised she was able to even get on the show

[@clrr8400]

Lol!! I thought so too. She is such a dumpy looking woman. Bad personality and deranged.

[@NachelleKayy]

I’m 100% sure they did. Literally on every bachelor season. There’s always that one girl like Victoria, to start up shit , Only for the ratings for TV. Like the producers need the drama and etc, to keep Us people watching the show. Now I’m not saying everything Vitoria was doing was fake. Cause she is human. But I feel like the producers told her to act a fool 😂 or maybe that’s how she really is and the producers left her on the show for awhile , for the ratings. Cause literally the producers basically run most of it.

[@clrr8400]

@@NachelleKayy lol! I agree. She was so gross and what disgusting behaviour. She was very dumpy looking and didn't fit in with rest of the girls.

[@NachelleKayy]

@@clrr8400 exactly lol .& she was always looking sick lol. Or like just not kept together. Like the other girls. And she was just doing the most. It couldn’t have been me on the show. She would’ve got cussed out and then I would’ve just left the show my damn self lol. Cause I’m pretty sure Matt would have let me go , seeing that side of me 😂 so I would let my own self go

[@Goldenfantasy91]

Matt is such a cool guy. Def someone I would love as a chill friend. Want to chill with Matt on a Friday night, yup! Bored Sunday morning, yup call Matt for brunch. Wednesday work troubles, yup hit up Matt.

[@deemichelle]

Victoria was looking for attention and 15 minutes of fame. What woman comes on The Bachelor acting the way she did and thinks she will be picked?! 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@fseedat4128]

She knows she will get picked for paradise

[@Sherri-uj1oy]

I just thought she was a serious lunatic

[@moodsofkiwi9285]

I thought production must hire a villain/mole every season 😂

[@harlightspodcast4585]

Great point! This is talked about on a Spotify podcast called Harlights: open.spotify.com/show/0W1R7yuBWNtdDqaiQ6L3zW

[@jizzle4snizzle]

why did y’all choose that thumbnail? Y’all did him so dirty😂

[@acaciasterling5756]

They did😂😭

[@rolo8950]

Why do I feel like Matt is single?

[@cassandrachestnut4839]

oh wow! i was feeling same.

[@rolo8950]

Yeah Ive seen several interviews recently where he just doesn't seem to be with anyone at all. It's like I can sense it or something.

[@scovyaporsha777]

Lmao😂😂😂😂He looks single. You're right 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@tehya3367]

Yeah he doesn’t seem to have the “love light” in his eyes, we don’t have much to go off of so that is a reach but yeah, kind of feels like he’s single

[@rolo8950]

Exactly. I'm calling it now that he is single forsure.

[@patriciaketchum]

This is what truth and honor looks like.

[@kathy-t5q]

Unlike t rump

[@carolinep.852]

Victoria’s eye-bags speaks it all! She needs Psyche Consult!

[@angelawilliams8494]

I don’t understand why they do not address the real problem will bullying. Those other women the OG stood there and let those bullies treat the other girls that way and said and did nothing. They did not say girl that is not necessary. You need to quit or shut up. They laughed or looked shocked but did not get involved. Bullying would stop if people would band together and stand up against it.

[@cozettem8226]

Katie did stop it

[@angelawilliams8494]

@@cozettem8226 I should have said other than katie.

[@jaydecampbell3499]

That’s why none of them deserve him because I’d hope they’d stick up for the bullied and not be like, not my business

[@mariahfedosov1516]

I called out my now husband of almost a year for kissing with his eyes open 😆 he didn't take it more serious until we were having engagement photos and the photographer asked him if he could close his eyes for the kissing photos 😂😂

[@elevatetogrow6710]

I am so happy that the wicked and evil Queen Bully Victoria has been sent on her way. She was horrible to those ladies from day one. She had no love for no one. She has strong symptoms of having Cluster B personality disorders. I hope that someone would be able to guide her to get mental health care treatment.

[@harlightspodcast4585]

Agreed those women did not come into that house to be abused verbally they came for love and it was shame Victoria displayed such a toxic energy. This is talked about on a Spotify podcast called Harlights: open.spotify.com/show/0W1R7yuBWNtdDqaiQ6L3zW

[@ionidhunedoara1491]

She was a cluster something.

[@violetjane7152]

I blame the producers for allowing the bullying to have so much air time. Also all the promos about an escort being part of the cast. Brittney should sue production for defamation. They should have edited that part out, because it isn’t true. Rather then role with it for ratings.

[@PursuingCompatibilityCo]

Good Job Matt!!! I'm glad he addressed it!!! : )

[@katyducharme1346]

Anybody else ready for Matt to start hosting his own "how to be a gentleman" class?

[@SydneyKong]

"you got heather pulling up in the minivan" LMAOOOOO AHAHAHAHAAHAH

[@HanaBelle__]

Matt James is hilarious!! Thoroughly enjoyed watching this interview! haha

[@alexism7468]

“I thought all people did that!” Oh sweet Matt 🤦🏼‍♀️.

[@jdwrcc]

You live and you learn, I’m glad I’ve never bullied anyone, but I have been bullied and it just doesn’t feel good, so I’m glad he comforted those mean girls

[@TN-kz2ox]

He definitely makes that beard look good.

[@biblicalgodisonlytruegod]

Anna was “crying” so hard .... UNTIL the moment the car door closed! The immaturity of those girls! Matt’s comments have been very good. My question is did the producers “use” Victoria? Her emotional state is obviously so very unhealthy. Surely they KNEW in advance! Don’t they interview the girls first? Come on! I actually feel sorry for her because unless she uses this to get help, she will remain be emotionally sick. HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN TO A GIRL? TO SUCH AN EXTREME?! What “personality disorder(s)” would a psychiatrist say she has? Wonder what her parents say after seeing their daughter behave like that?

[@biblicalgodisonlytruegod]

I meant Rachael, the blond, not Anna.

[@samjamz02]

I think she just has some major insecurities she's trying to outshine

[@biblicalgodisonlytruegod]

@@samjamz02 Yes, perhaps, but man, I’ve never seen anything like her, in real life! Its level 10 narcissism!

[@elainedelbuono2394]

one of the best bachelor love this season.

[@brookemorris2599]

Victoria was definitely paid to act like this

[@nichalalaramy701]

Oh lord. Your opinion. She is like that a bully. She ain't pretending to be no bully. She is and a thief. If she stayed she will probably steal from the mansion. Lol

[@andreavice6664]

@@nichalalaramy701 and you're any better than her because...? You're not. You are *bullying* her with your degrading and accusing words. Grow up.

[@CJMacN1990]

Victoria was a mess

[@tsis-k-koj]

Victoria = Average at best and with a personality like that.... Run!

[@emilyc5625]

Moment of silence for his parents in raising a gentleman .This man is very mature for his age

[@kathyl5610]

His Mother raised him, Dad was not in the picture.

[@theanswersisinsideu]

I think he’s turned off by all the woman

[@theanswersisinsideu]

Some of these woman appear to be on drugs Rx or illegal and some need to be on Rx regimens

[@rays.3242]

Lol I think they're all turned off about him too like you can be a nice guy and still be direct. His sugarcoating makes him look whack and wimpy eww

[@trinabby7210]

he's turned off by women in general. he is gay

[@theanswersisinsideu]

@@trinabby7210 no

[@jaydecampbell3499]

I would be too cuz they were all a part of the bullying whether they were actively a part of it or just sitting by watching it happen. That’s why Katie will always be my favourite

[@Itskarlieann]

Great interview!

[@tat4540]

He's giving cover for Rachael with the past bullying comments. It's been revealed that she was a bully and racist in high school.

[@ambur89]

Just because they didn’t go to the same school doesn’t mean she wasn’t a bully.

[@sarahjustice526]

Hearsay

[@annahayden]

@M J ...there were at least 5 girls who stepped forward about her bullying. I think more have come forward since but I haven’t kept up with it. She also is apparently a known trump supporter with a history of liking racist comments, making racist comments, and cultural appropriation (she frequently appropriated Native American culture). According to at least two people from her high school she was highly racist then as well. Her racist comments and posts were confirmed, regardless of whether or not all the people that came forward about her bullying them are telling the truth or not. Don’t sweep bad behavior under the rug or try to excuse it because of something insignificant. It’s no one’s place to pass judgement and use her past as an excuse to then bully her, but to defend her confirmed racism for no reason makes you look equally as bad as those other people.

[@JennnSaidWhat]

It’s true. Others vouched for the girl’s account of the racist bullying, plus her liking racist posts can’t be defended so matter how hard you try to “fake news” it away.

[@mumbichisha8461]

@@ambur89 there is no prove that she was a bully so dead ur agenda

[@lenapauline8634]

what a sweet interview!

[@epicavon]

I like this interviewer lol

[@gayecawley2068]

Shedding all the negative energy. Yes.

[@elizabethgracee]

Now this is a real man.

[@mfyu2709]

You are very right. People saying you are like that on the the TV or internet and is not true has greater accountability. Why do the same thing to them so they learn their lesson. Even it's true you dont have say anything . Focus on making others better not putting them down.

[@Lashboss77]

What a class-act Matt is. Sharp guy!

[@kirstinwebb2477]

The interviewer did a great job!

[@aveclasse17]

Love the beard!

[@pixiestxNyomouf]

I actually like the beard 😔 y'all acting like its on yall faces or something. Personal preference clearly SOMEBODY like it so y'all insults dont matter 😂

[@jimangii8980]

I like it too! Lol

[@patriciajones6771]

Ok, its what we in the Caribbean call a WOMB BROOM,😩😩

[@alicia-marieeflowers6033]

She's a great interviewer!!

[@alirae3663]

Idk if it’s me but I expected her to know more of the history of the bachelor (like where Heather is from) in prep for the interview. But she does well in having Matt answer nicely framed questions!

[@alicia-marieeflowers6033]

@@alirae3663 that does make sense but then again I don't even know the full history so I guess it's ok for people that are coming back to the show as watchers. Also it might be good she isn't as well versed I think a interview goes different if you know to much vs just enough

[@MrAlvarogottagetit]

Of course Tyler and Matt did not talk about the women in the house. They are men.

[@organicallyhannah]

Who is this interviewer? Does she really not know who Heather is?

[@staceyk2274]

She also said he had a lot of great women on the show....hahaha. It's like she's never watched or done any research!

[@chideraannugwu8570]

Victoria should expect positive and negative comments ❤️❤️👍

[@mindy9348]

Love how he kept it classy! Idk if the girls were truly bullies or if this was just for ABC. I can’t imagine girls actually doing that to one another. They’re all beautiful and special in their own way. Each person has their own story, their own stresses, and their own opinions and they should have felt way more free & safe to express that. The rumor about Britney was super uncalled for. Idk if Anna was truly sorry or sorry she got caught! I think she has a bit of growing up to do. As adults, we need to save the childish behavior for the kids and try to teach them not to be that way. Not act worse than a gossipy tween. I hope Victoria was just acting. Idk why but I feel like she was supposed to be that way and she got paid for acting that way. I refuse to believe someone could be that mean to other people. They’re all special in their own way and they need to have more confidence in themselves. With that being said...... GO MICHELLE. Hope you win, girly! ☺️

[@dmix2263]

Matt it’s what narcissists do. They poke and joke and it’s abuse. You did the right thing.

[@joannereiss3997]

Love Matt and Rachel

[@markuhlman963]

How did Victoria get on this show?

[@preciouspayne723]

I don't like her

[@patgrant8881]

You are someone all men should model!!!

[@kimhouchins8653]

Who IS Kit's mother? I must have missed that. I hope someone replies to this for me...please????

[@nichellec.1752]

Cynthia Rowley

[@karenquinton7232]

Cynthia Rowley, Fashion Designer & frequent judge on Project Runway!👗

[@WithJazzyx]

What's going on with my man yo.. he looks like he came out of a retreat 😂😂😂

[@husnaavhora6485]

I prefer this than his shaved face 🤣 but it definitely looks odd!

[@tomatobanks5036]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@isabelzamora8152]

@@husnaavhora6485 he looks ugly

[@aishwaryachaudhary2933]

The season is already recorded ??? Becaus he has a beard now and I cant see that on tv

[@mariecullen5955]

Excuse me, but didn't matts friend body shame Victoria and then Matt and his other friends laughed about it

[@deemichelle]

You must have missed it. Matt spoke about reprimanding his friend all over social media and news networks.

[@normaashwood9094]

Classy guy. Love it.

[@Dem0nD0ll]

Bullies seriously suck. Words can literally kill.

[@teresaelizabethdurham8776]

So kit she didn't reach the hometown 😢

[@stephpham3507]

I genuinely think he picks Rachael at the end

[@tima.478]

@ *7:10* "you're doing it well." Well....we know she can't kiss either, lol. This dude's kissing game is atrocious!!!

[@carolinadienesch]

I think it should be interesting to see how Victoria is going to act to all the comments begin said about her on social media.....some are pretty harsh, it’s a form of bullying let’s see how she likes it.

[@jdwrcc]

When Tom Brady finally retire, he’s going to feel all those aches and pains

[@carolinec4289]

I don’t think Anna’s a bad person, yes she f*cked up so bad and what she said was absolutely terrible but I think she realized that and then she realized Matt deserves someone better than me and I did a horrible thing but ya there is absolutely no proof on how Victoria isn’t just a terrible person

[@bellantonioabraham6920]

Matt James talks with Access Hollywood's Kit Hoover about dramatic season. After last night's rose ceremony when he sent Anna Redmann & Victoria Lawson home.

[@JennnSaidWhat]

Kitt, I can tell you who he chooses...

[@susaneng3002]

Does anyone think Victoria was planted and was asked to overact that way. For sure she was not for real!

[@greenlimabean]

Reality Steve says they don't n we to hire plans. Regular mean girls they can encourage to be meaner are easy to cast.

[@Payne_Inc.]

Kit Hoover is so fine 😇

[@mikak1765]

matt has to be single w that beard 😭🤚

[@-Lily7415]

mika k 🤣🤣🤣

[@alf3494]

mika k Its interesting you say that bc I was thinking the same thing. Doesnt look like he might be engaged

[@-Lily7415]

Sway K Or his, I am sick of my bachelor chosen girl ,so I am trying to repel her ,and maybe she will break up with me .

[@bobbiebiggerstaff1892]

Time to send MJ home

[@susanlovendahl9803]

Love winter beard!

[@kathleengadarowski2149]

Matt...you are a handsome dude but I am not a fan of your new look. You handled yourself very well with mean girls Anna and V last night! A Queen would never present herself like V

[@sarenawiebe8690]

The interviewer acts all excited yet doesn't know who Heather is???

[@idi.h5460]

I love the beard y’all some haters

[@kathysmith4986]

Matt’s beard got to go

[@alf3494]

I totally agree it doesnt look good on him. Hes pulling a James Harden

[@rileyhun3710]

It it safe to say that he is the best Bachelor in the franchise? All the others are immature, immoral playboys.

[@IreneCi]

The first two episodes of this season of The bachelor I thought that Matt was the most eligible respectful bachelor that they had but in true form of bachelor nation he turned out to be just as fake and even worse than Victoria Yes Victoria was abrasive but Victoria said a lot of what most people thought and I felt that the women in the show they themselves were just as catty and as condescending the only difference is the camera was on Victoria more than them Victoria wasn't bad she didn't say things that were racist or anything she was a typical girl I find Matt to be very shallow I think he's weird I think he's a wannabe and this season is stupid you got five new girls coming in then you got some ex-friend coming in I used to watch the show to see the beauty of a relationship forming and girls falling in love with this guy if you notice Matt is not even paying attention to those women that are what we would consider to be the perfect match for him the deaf girl or Abigail or anyone else he's interested in the hoochies but yet he said Victoria home it's such a contradiction get out of here now that Victoria is gone there's nothing to watch the show fork it's now boring

[@guiselaramos8698]

Who’s kits mom?

[@miarosie2387]

Fashion designer

[@crysa4942]

Cynthia Rowley

[@chrissystewart6268]

Freestyle songs about My crush Black Coffee No sugar no cream Matt is the only one for me... I've got nuttin' but love for ya Matt, I got nuttin' but love for ya Matt, got nuttin' but love for ya Matt 🎶 They call me L-A-D-Y- I'm the 🌎's greatest Matt is the one for me can't get my eyes off of sexy his name Matt & still got it made 🎶

[@umama5531]

I think his beard looks cute on him.

[@mariewaters9572]

You are so handsome and nice the beard doesn’t suit you

[@live4sunsets808]

Nothing wrong with a playoff beard 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@rachbeech2730]

Did he ask......

[@marievandermerwe4421]

Matt please cut back the beard, you're not as handsome with it.

[@rachbeech2730]

Did he ask you for your opinion? He said it’s for playoffs. Let him do what he wants.

[@ludwinnalexis1100]

Who tf asked you? As if he’ll see your comment and as if he would care 🙄 you’re on some real Victoria sht, bye girl.

[@francessavella2279]

That beard has to go!

[@nichalalaramy701]

Go shave it.

[@seeleygirl6178]

She was the worst, but a lot of them were awful sheep. Not Sara.

[@candyxox]

That beard is horrible! He needs to shave that.

[@daniellem578]

Why the beard Matt?

[@ifka8123]

He and his friends bullied vik also

[@KingJericho]

not only is he dull but also a hypocrite

[@Hallelujur]

He did not. His friends did. And afterwards he spoke out against it.

[@tomatobanks5036]

Does he have a personality? 🥱🥱😴

[@isabelzamora8152]

@@KingJericho facts

[@isabelzamora8152]

@@Hallelujur no he did it

[@businessman3197]

Does anyone else feel like Matt is just a big nothing burger😬

[@kristenwhite102]

Good riddance!!!

[@mariangarcia706]

Not fan of his beard.

[@cg.iverson1097]

Ok???

[@jacquianderson7504]

SSHHHHAAAAAAAVVVVVVVVVEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!

[@bethbryant3840]

Matt James looks horrible with that beard. Did he end up with anyone? Idc about spoilers lol

[@ambur89]

Rumor has it he chose Rachel

[@bethbryant3840]

@@ambur89 Thanks

[@TheDgbin69]

He really needs to shave