get ready for a *SPICY* date with me | TEEN GIRL ADVICE ON BOYS

[@baileydedrick]

I JUST UPLOADED A NEW VERSION OF THIS VIDEO! kzbin.info/www/bejne/jJzQZq2mpcugZsk

[@addierichardson1579]

i cannot get over how sweet bailey is giving this advice on such personal things and going back to read quotes even like that just shows she cares what her fans are going through.

[@lm8281]

i need to keep this video in the back of my mind for when i go through a breakup haha, i'm gonna need het straight up ass advice telling me to cut all contact and go have fun :p

[@um.idekwhy]

“Don’t play games unless they’re playing games and then you can play them back” The best advice!!!!

[@theresaaavu]

can we just appreciate how realistic bailey is with us

[@chloeschannel1228]

Great advice! I’m only 14 and not in a relationship and I never have been but I agree with most of the stuff you said! It can really apply to friends too- I’ll def use it in the future!!

[@laurynsicard4685]

Same (:

[@chloeschannel1228]

@@laurynsicard4685 ❤️

[@tisforterror6076]

You don’t look 14.. 😂

[@chloeschannel1228]

@@tisforterror6076 people tell me that all the time, what makes me not look 14?

[@tisforterror6076]

@@chloeschannel1228 you look 24 😂

[@zeviv7313]

This is really good advice. I especially agree about "you can never change another person". People do change, occasionally, but only if it's their own decision, and never because somebody else was trying to change them. About overthinking, what helped me the most was realizing that not everything is about me. :) It sounds silly when you put it that way, but what I mean is that whenever I saw a person frowning, I used to worry what I did to annoy them. Now I realize that there are a million reasons somebody could be frowning, and most of them have nothing to do with me. Similarly, if a person sounds annoyed when they are talking to you, they might be annoyed at the previous person they talked to, or at something they saw on TV, or they might just be having a bad day. So as an exercise for less overthinking, if you think somebody is mad at you, try to immediately think of three other reasons they might have that facial expression. (Because if you are like me, chances are that 90% of the time you think people are mad at you, they actually aren't, and the remaining 10% of the time, they'll tell you exactly what you did wrong. Or at least something that you did wrong.) So you can try training your brain to think of other reasons, instead of immediately going down the "I am a terrible person" spiral. EDIT: Finally, there are some people who will find a reason to be angry at you no matter what you do. In that case, just remember that it's the problem with them, not you. If it's a boyfriend, dump that toxic (censored). If it's a parent, or someone else you can't avoid, just remember that they are the ones wrong, and try to ignore it. (See the part about being unable to change another person.)

[@mckenziewicker6907]

bailey backing up what she says not RECKLESS not DRUGS and then that little laugh was soo funny love this video it was so on point

[@katrinarose445]

Just about to say that 🤣

[@isabellamhaney]

11:02 i just wanted to leave this here for anyone who need to hear it. basically me and this one guy liked each other but for certain reasons we could not be together. the night everything happened i was sobbing on my bathroom floor texting my bestie. he said to her “i feel like ive always liked her” which hearing that made my heart shatter. i can say that i have NEVER cried over a boy more than this one. EVER. it honestly took me over a freaking year to get over him but i finally did a few months ago. during the whole year of still liking him after everything happened, we were friends. yep. i had to hide everything from him including my feelings. endless nights of crying, telling myself i wasnt good enough ( even though thats not the reason we could not be together ), and even hurting myself. when i finally realized i lost feelings for him, i was so unbelievably proud of myself. myself a year ago would have never thought i would be where i am now. ladies i hope this story of mine helps if youre going through something like this!!! either way, we are in a good spot now. we are friends and im comfy being friends with him. obviously this isnt the case for everyone, but i just wanted to add this

[@charlotterockwell1307]

The first thing Bailey said, goes for friendship too! if they aren’t giving you as much as you are giving them, they are worth that drain

[@rowan561]

the amount of effort and entertainment she puts into videos needs to be appreciated

[@gracecarey2244]

bailey: “I have this black dress from princess polly” I swear everything bailey owns is from princess polly andd i’m here for ittt

[@MasoumehRoseberry]

Seriously this sentence reminds me of Sadie aldis She was used to saying that when vlogging lol😄

[@itskk15]

Thank you Bailey for continuing to bring me joy and motivation! It’s helped so much this year and I’m so excited to see what you have in store for 2022! Take care❤️❤️❤️

[@krustycow9670]

I can tell that she is a perfectionist simply by how long she spent on her mascara. It looked amazing though. I could never😭 she is so pretty

[@sophiamedford9568]

her videos are always on point! im so glad she takes time out of her life to give us good content

[@jennifergarcia-griffin1637]

Watching her videos for some reason make me feel productive.

[@gracecarey2244]

can we all agree that the amount bailey has been posting has been great

[@shubhangi28]

thank you best friend.. this is exactly how I felt when this vid ended I absolutely love these ily imma go cry now, how you say things like don't do that, what I have been telling you no nope, their loss ahhh you are a gem and the outro

[@savannajaqueth7277]

you’re literally so gorgeous. remember you’re doing amazing and I’m so incredibly proud of you! you’re so strong. remember you’re so gorgeous, intelligent, caring, funny, sweet, outgoing, worth it, valid, loved, and so amazing! make sure you eat something and drink lots of water! we love you. we’re always here for you

[@Hockey2099]

Bailey you NEED to make a podcast because I would listen to that!!

[@bedoura9849]

YES

[@kailinelise8007]

I love how her advice is so great, like she's just honest and saying the truth. Alot of people, even friends don't give you that sometimes. I really like the quote she said :)

[@chloebarthle3211]

I love how Bailey is always editing in her bed at midnight ❤️🤣 and how she put on mascara for 5 minutes!! Love ya Bailey! Hope you don't take this offensive.

[@erinmckenzie1038]

shes literally so perfect! i love her

[@riley3800]

i have never enjoyed a video more than this one. bailey, you are so brutally honest and i love that about you. putting yourself before anyone else is such a good thing. watching your growth over the past couple of years has been incredible. congrats to you and leo for making it to one year! love you 💖💖

[@irenepetrutiu6977]

the “you and your friends boyfriend” thing had me giggling for a good minute

[@Lily-mb5yq]

Her videos are so nice and funny at the same time!

[@thai8182]

10:26 spontaneous… NOT RECKLESS, trying new things…. NOT DRUGS 😭😭

[@CMForever]

who else just loves when she posts?

[@bellaalves3612]

I am obsessed with your videos thank you for being so on top of uploading!!

[@tillypaulson9152]

I love both the dress and the final outfit, they are so pretty!

[@BaileyMae4eva]

this is such good advice and so real, the advice on getting over someone was so down to earth and helpful tbh

[@sydnierivera23]

she’s the bsf we all need 😭 lil therapist fr

[@lm8281]

Bailey is hilarious! you definetely seem like the friend that says it exactly like it is which can be so funny!

[@Honeycomb546]

please continue to give us advice on boys, i love this vibe

[@emilygrace6]

i swear bailey always gives the best advice

[@vivian8230]

I literally could not stop looking at your lashes like they are so pretty

[@aditikavi6018]

bailey is such a queen

[@addienguyen2854]

Bailey i’m obsessed with your videos so much! You put so much hard work into your videos and it shows! Wishing you a good 2022!

[@Duhnkk]

you truly have wisdom well beyond your years bailey.❤️

[@emilybernritter3462]

Bailey saying boys are completely clueless i couldn't agree more. Coming from experience

[@lukeellefson6929]

I love you Bailey . Going on a date is the best way to kick off the new year! . Happy new year love 💗.

[@caeliemartin7766]

I haven't seen her in so long,she has a boyfriend now wow,you have changed so much loving it

[@aleeza1431]

i feel like i havent seen u in ages. so happy to be here ❤❤

[@kaivaughn380]

bailey you sound so wise, your advice was super good

[@jaleigh_thompson]

you should do an in depth makeup routine/ skin care routine and do a review on Truly & Beach Bum bum products!! ❣️

[@sophiafey7744]

babe this helped my current situation sm

[@trinitywillis7929]

bailey 2022 "be reckless with your friends, not reckless. Try new things, not drugs." made me laugh so hard

[@oliviamarievlogs4825]

Who else thinks the comments are a better vibe than live chat?!

[@bedoura9849]

omg right its so hard to read

[@payton9378]

literally a comfort youtube rn i love u so much Bailey

[@hayleesao1851]

hey bailey! hope you're doing better from your sickness! thanks for all the good advice!

[@graceeaston5122]

the advice about boys really helped, because this boy just left me for another girl and I liked him for 4 months already, and I cant stop crying about it. He broke my heart without knowing he broke my heart. Ill try and follow this advice but idk if ill get through it..

[@riellybarrett7252]

girl you need a podcast

[@rachelgregory1854]

This is great advice Bailey!! And I love how honest u are with all of us

[@akeylasmith8978]

You don’t know how much I needed to see one of your videos today

[@bassantibrahim8469]

Those advice really hit the spot, I think I needed to hear that. Thank you so much for being my bestfriend through it all❤️

[@marybutler625]

Congratulations Bailey!!🤍🤍🤍 I’m so happy for you

[@caitlyn6123]

I really appreciate this because these are literally my thoughts that I can't put into words, you said it well

[@caitlin_yanks9488]

girl i literally needed this so much rn. i’m going through a horrible breakup so thank you literally so much.

[@janaaamariie]

Can you do a girl talk next 🤩

[@prosandcon]

Hey Bailey I literally love and look up to you so much you are like the bigger sister I never had. Thank you so much for being you❤️❤️❤️

[@laceytatum6125]

bailey your absolutely stunning i’ve never doubt that opinion

[@gymnasticslover6366]

Ummmm Bailey when are we going to meet this boy?

[@cheriepie5821]

okay but how is her skin so clear 😭

[@paytonbutcher2022]

YOU ARE THE QUEEN wow, PERIOD SIS great advice pop offfffff, ly gorgeousssssss

[@charityleannlamb6988]

I’m 19 and this advice is just perfect!!

[@janaaamariie]

Cam you pls do a workout routine or something that has to do with the gym or what you eat

[@kendallgarner802]

That quote she read helped me so so much. Love you Bailey thank you.

[@Lubnaii]

m obsessed with your videos helppp

[@BellaTealSings]

I love how mature your are!

[@leahwilson8982]

Early! I haven’t watched your videos in a while excited to watch this one ❤️

[@brooklyntucker8863]

Literal queen

[@garystarr9176]

Your boyfriend is a lucky guy! Not only are you beautiful, you are very smart as well. How/where did you two meet? Have fun on your date!! 💕

[@imoffduty6671]

i think they were childhood friends :)

[@ciannarenfrow4203]

no because this video is perfect timing

[@prajnasrikanth4508]

thank you so much for this. i think we all needed to hear the advice

[@sorayahjord2941]

just in 10 seconds we get the best advice .. being spontaneous, not RECKLESS! trying new things, not DRUGS!

[@stephaniesheline]

girl your skin is so good

[@alyssaromi287]

yayy you posted! Love watching your videos they've become apart of my schedule :)

[@hadleyhomes2782]

i love ur vids u r like the big sister i never had could u do a makeup and skin care tutorials with like info in description bc ur skin is FLAWLESS and ur makeup is always on point u r so sweet and happy new year wishing u the best of lucky this year

[@nenediallo4224]

ur actually so pretty

[@gracecarey2244]

the queen has posted!!!!!

[@sierramadison1106]

please do an everyday makeup tutorial with the products you use because i NEED to know what products you used for your base; bc chefs kiss

[@brontehaynes3155]

YAY SHE POSTED

[@kailinelise8007]

"Guy's are most of the time clueless" Love it so true

[@nadiaallen5938]

you give SUCH good advice. you’re really helping me going into my junior year

[@Lillyg177.]

HAPPY 1 YEAR BAY LOV YOUU 💕💕💕💕

[@halliebrennan9073]

but look at her so PRETTYYYYYYYYYYY

[@avabains6489]

This has really helped... me and this boy well he said he liked me and then he ignores me but then he like puts his arm around me and makes me feel great... and I have really seen mixed feeling and emotions but the one thing that has helped me with this person is my friends so i really agree with you! Love you!

[@charlottemalone5967]

Bailey gives such such good advice and I appreciate it so much.

[@emilyreyes8886]

i love this. every point you made made so much sense and was explained perfectly. this is the perfect video for relationship advice :) hope you had a great time on the date btw💝

[@lm8281]

what helps for me when i am overthinking is looking for answers because most of the times i overthink about uncertainties and worries. So for example i overthink a lot about if people even like me or if they are just being nice because they only like my best friend. So i ask some friends who know i struggle with overthinking what it is that makes people like me. For me it works really well with rationalising myself kind of and like telling my mind "stop being stupid you know it's all good" hahaha

[@lm8281]

and with like overanalysing i sadly do it to my boyfriend all the time but i have been open about it with him and he tries to make sure his messages arent like cryptic and he is always there to reassure me if i overanalyze and ask him what he meant exactly. (also i hope you can understand what i'm trying to say, English is not my first language sorry for any mistakes)

[@graceriley7]

her eyelash transformation omg- (bailey what mascara do u use??)

[@tangytwins2075]

I’ve been in a few relationships and idk how I feel about it love you Bailey ❤️

[@hallejacobson5708]

okay but why are her eyebrows so perfect?

[@qbear26]

Thanks Bailey!! Even though I’m older but your advice helps me!! Love ya girl ❤️❤️

[@dancerlayla]

Can u pls film another closet cleanout vid!!! It was the first vid of urs that I saw and to this day it is still my fav!!!

[@alexiscora1193]

Love these videos were you just like sit down and it feel like we are having a conversation hope you had a fun date

[@lindsey9094]

my comfort youtuber

[@makenzie9909]

she said trying new things.. “not drugs” HAHHAHAHAHA

[@peonypetal222]

14:07 the thing is- his friends- i hate them. except for one of em (stan u kyle

[@mochipanda5061]

I’m really loving the advice! 🤍

[@AddyMiller1]

ur hair is so pretty