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The Basement with Tim Ross

The Basement with Tim Ross

Күн бұрын

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@zoelife7272
@zoelife7272 2 жыл бұрын
'NOT by power, NOT by might, BUT by MY Spirit, says the Lord.'
@eugeniedean8458
@eugeniedean8458 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏾
@godschosen414
@godschosen414 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly! I prayed and asked the Lord to deliver me from smoking weed and He took that desire away from me. I didn’t do nothing but submit it to Him, so the devil could flee. Straight deliverance!
@zoelife7272
@zoelife7272 2 жыл бұрын
@@godschosen414 Glory be to Hs Name
@venomlily1651
@venomlily1651 2 жыл бұрын
@Zoe Life Well said .
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
How is that even relevant
@kbg12ila
@kbg12ila 2 жыл бұрын
As some who struggles with homosexuality this is an extremely important message! For so long I wanted to believe and wanted my flesh to change so it was pure, but this flesh is corrupted because of the fall of man. My flesh doesn't have to be healed of it's attractions, I just need to choose the spirit over the flesh!
@tashajones5765
@tashajones5765 2 жыл бұрын
Perfectly stated!!👍 Question- have you given up the belief or desire that God can totally remove the desire?🤷‍♀️ I ask because I have a family member that was molested at 4. He is attracted to men only and is trying to walk out his salvation. From his conversation, he said he has done all the prayer lines, fasted, prayed, cried-- did it all to be free. Now, he chose to have a boyfriend to meet that need. He said that he knows what he likes😳 He believes that it is not right but he has tried everything. So he believes that that part will be covered under Gods grace. My question to him was that, Im 47 and have been saved since 22 and celebate. I was not a virgin when I got saved. My constant struggle was fleshly as well. Why do he get a pass and I dont? If the Bible is.clear for us both, because his is with a man and a greater thorn, does God excuse the penalty? And for him, it is an acceptance of the sin and a repeated lifestyle of it IN the church🤔
@Chasi385
@Chasi385 2 жыл бұрын
I pray you have continued success in your fight against the flesh. Always remember that God has tender mercy for those who even attempt to align themselves with his standards.
@s.freeman4701
@s.freeman4701 2 жыл бұрын
@@tashajones5765 please take my two cents with a grain of salt as I'm just starting to learn about God by reading the bible and listening to Godly content. I think God don't excuse sin ever! But he is a loving God who is slow to anger and also gave us a choice. Your cousin is choosing his flesh and lack self control. Also he seem to be twisting God's word to suit his desires. He say he "know what he like" clearly he like it more than the love of God. We are all human and remember God gave us dominion over Satan and his demons so Satan have to try hard to prove God wrong. Also I believe giving your life to Christ doesn't mean we automatically are shielded from temptation, matter of fact temptation becomes worst. Remember Satan tried to tempt even Jesus who is the son of God, so who are we? We need to live by God's word...period, but if we falter he will forgive. We may pay for our fall but through his grace he will forgive. And the same way you exercise self control and chose to be celibate because that's according to God is the same way he can control himself but he just chooses not to. Hope I at least said something that helps. God bless 🙏🏽
@allforyouii2
@allforyouii2 2 жыл бұрын
I’m the same boat. I am annoyed by Christians that think that it’s a magic formula from the bible and your fixed. It’s so misguided I know from experience that God needs us all to use his grace to rise above temptations no matter what your sexuality really. If you are gay and accept that the bible is true then you are already on the right road. What you need is to keep walking relying on God unfathomable divine mercy to get you to where you need to get to. Don’t listen to arrogant Christians who think they know everything without walking an inch in our shoes. Just remember to pray always to get the strength to resist the devil no matter what passions are raging.
@conordf7705
@conordf7705 2 жыл бұрын
there’s nothing wrong with being gay / bisexual etc. ❤️
@Proudchristian1975
@Proudchristian1975 Жыл бұрын
" The reason why I am faithful to my wife is not because everything on the inside of me is good, it's because I keep myself on a very short leash" This is such a great perspective, good, good word.
@hotgirl3900
@hotgirl3900 Жыл бұрын
Not so good just an opinion…. The Bible says something to the effect… if you thinketh you may as well doeth…. So I’m confused
@susanparker9877
@susanparker9877 Жыл бұрын
@@hotgirl3900 He's saying "I'm not even going there,...not considering that thing." He's not tempted by something that he doesn't spend his days lusting over.
@RearviewWisdom
@RearviewWisdom Жыл бұрын
Been married now for almost a decade and I approve this message. As believers we CANNOT rely solely on our “goodness” to endure this journey of life. We must also be proactive , wise and strategic in establishing BOUNDARIES for how we live. Couples that go into marriage thinking Jesus is going do all the work are setting themselves up for failure and disappointment. You do the work of faithfulness. God supplies the strength and grace .
@o0o-jd-o0o95
@o0o-jd-o0o95 Жыл бұрын
@@susanparker9877 you mean surpressing his natural , biological and evolutionary urge to reproduce which is what got us to this point in time in the first place? lol wow ... ignorance is bliss
@persephoneharrison3439
@persephoneharrison3439 Жыл бұрын
If a man lies with a male as with a woman, both of them have committed an abomination; they shall surely be put to death; their blood is upon them.
@Shavier777
@Shavier777 2 жыл бұрын
Resist the devil and he will flee. It’s a spiritual warfare. 🙏🏾💕
@denisebredell-hill1827
@denisebredell-hill1827 2 жыл бұрын
Submit to God…. Resist the Devil and he will flee
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
What is the devil
@Shavier777
@Shavier777 2 жыл бұрын
@@yagradio8655 If you know the difference between good and bad- you already know the answer.
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
@@Shavier777 knowing the difference between good and evil doesn't tell you who the devil is
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
@@denisebredell-hill1827 how do you submit to God?
@teeciewalk
@teeciewalk 2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Great message. I’m A straight female and hadn’t dated in a while. I’m celibate and I keep myself out of certain situations to stay that way.
@AmazingNyree
@AmazingNyree 2 жыл бұрын
Well said!!
@bensmith5581
@bensmith5581 2 жыл бұрын
Jesus dated a prostitute, i do not think god cares if you sleep with men and when you sleep with men.
@kemberlynn696
@kemberlynn696 2 жыл бұрын
you are not celibate because you are not a nun. But you are abstinence. that's something i Learn because before i was saying im celibate but that was not the case because im not a nun. I want a marriage in my life. (this is not a attack to you my sis, im coming from a save place to tell you this)❤️
@normanedwards6684
@normanedwards6684 2 жыл бұрын
Wise
@teeciewalk
@teeciewalk 2 жыл бұрын
@@kemberlynn696 oh ok thank you for the correction 💕
@childofgod269
@childofgod269 Жыл бұрын
As a heterosexual I have always empathized with children of God who are homosexual. At least we can get married and have that type of intimacy with a partner that we are attracted to. They cannot. They can get married and have sexual intimacy, but it may not feel right to them. I don’t know, but I do know that they have a huge struggle.
@Thrashmetal77
@Thrashmetal77 Жыл бұрын
Why should they struggle, when the found someone that they really love?
@loria287
@loria287 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for being able to look outside of yourself and see how difficult this is for us. That’s so beautiful of you and shows your heart and depth. I’m 28 and came from a Christian household but have always had homosexual tendencies. After dealing with women for almost 10 years I gave my life to Christ last year August. Ended my relationship with the woman I planned to marry and now have been following Jesus. Seldom am I able to discuss what life is like because my gay friends don’t want to hear about it and my straight friends and family don’t want to hear about it. Now I have a counselor (who just so happens to be a devout Christian) who gives support by saying that everything can be altered with conditioning and being intentional so I still don’t fully express myself to her. It’s a pretty lonely journey but I don’t feel alone luckily because I formed a relationship with God. But it’s hard, it truly is difficult. People talk about how heterosexuals abstaining from sex is tough and use this as a way to compare an ex lesbian now changing their life and it’s not nearly the same. With heterosexuals they are able to eventually receive what they desire sexually and romantically, but with me a homosexual I’ll never be able to have that while walking with Christ. Every day is intentional. I didn’t go from homosexual to now being straight. I went from homosexual to God. My dream has always been to get married and have kids along with a PhD. But only God can provide that for me. It may or may not be in God’s plans. So now I’m abstaining from sex, not engaging with women, and learning and growing in Christianity. Thank you for understanding us
@f58534
@f58534 11 ай бұрын
​@loria287 God bless you and keep you.
@awesomeness7543
@awesomeness7543 11 ай бұрын
And why would God make something that isn’t right? Why would he make you live a torturous lifestyle? Why would he then punish you for being the way that HE made you to be? You have this much understanding yet you still think that this God is worth worshipping? Lol.
@carolabdayem9150
@carolabdayem9150 11 ай бұрын
@@awesomeness7543 God did not make us sinners. We are sinners as a result of our own wrongdoings. We were sinful from the moment we were conceived because of Adam and Eve’s fall to sin. In the same way that homosexual desires comes to some and can’t be helped INITIALLY, is the same with other illnesses or sinful desires. It is not really separate
@auntymom
@auntymom 2 жыл бұрын
It's just like us heterosexuals- who are single- we desire sex, but we avoid it until it is within the right container- marriage. Very interesting perspective and practical
@karenyoungronzonees2658
@karenyoungronzonees2658 2 жыл бұрын
It’s like he is saying we are on a short leash for me that means guarding my heart, ears, and eyes. We daily struggle with something we use tools of the Bible
@lawandagibbs7715
@lawandagibbs7715 2 жыл бұрын
Amen!
@chrissyshay8539
@chrissyshay8539 2 жыл бұрын
It's the essence of 'God is not a respecter of men....He reigns on the just and the unjust' Sin is sin no matter what, who, or how
@sk8nchill52
@sk8nchill52 2 жыл бұрын
No…. If you’re a heterosexual, It would be like if you were a heterosexual, did not have sex until marriage, and then got married and became a homosexual and had homosexual sex.
@eugeniedean8458
@eugeniedean8458 2 жыл бұрын
💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾
@prettysimplemusic
@prettysimplemusic 2 жыл бұрын
Bro this is EVERYTHING!!! Creating Self-Imposed BOUNDARIES!!! 🔥🔥🔥
@NotForNowNo
@NotForNowNo 2 жыл бұрын
Huh..... as someone who dealt with a homosexual lifestyle for 27 years, what he's said in the video is the first parts of the sanctification of the process, but we do most certainly breakthrough by continuing to work our own salvation with fear an dtrembling of God and then that desire has no hold any longer, it's the same as anything else I'm fully free from, I can allow it to be a very distant lie that if I feed it grows or I ignore it and stay focused on Christ and I don't focus on sin or darkness but light, I use to be a drinker and druggie but I don't desire it at all anymore, same goes with EVERYTHING that's a work of the flesh. I don't carnalize it by making it weird, I walk according to The Word by power and love and a sound mind. Hope this makes sense and helps someone realize strength is a gift from God ONLY attainable FROM God. We are weak the flesh is weak but the Spirit is willing. Our Spirit becomes one Spirit with God's Spirit as we submit in intimacy and obedience and especially love. GOD BLESS JESUS LOVES YOU.
@cadenceblackburn9205
@cadenceblackburn9205 2 жыл бұрын
@@NotForNowNo i’m the same as you, God bless ❤️
@vicadegboye684
@vicadegboye684 Жыл бұрын
@PrettySimpleMusic: it feels good to see you here! I've watched some of your piano lessons on your channel and they are great! Thanks for giving to the Lord!
@SkinCareLuver
@SkinCareLuver Жыл бұрын
as a young man in his 30s who has never asked for this, I don't blame God or am angry and I am starting to accept myself and love me because God do. I am also glad God is truly with me even more now and his spirit. I have self control not to do homosexual acts but it's very hard but our walk eith Christ will never be as perfect as we think because we will always make mistakes as humsjd. God knows we will fall over and over as his children but the power,love,and a sound mind from his spirit gives us self controlled. I still have people like in my family who try telling me I am gay and do not carem I don't want the lifestyle anymore and by God's power which is greater than all, I will be okay.
@Vann20F
@Vann20F 2 ай бұрын
Dude there is no blame to be put upon you
@beautifulsight4145
@beautifulsight4145 2 жыл бұрын
I been bisexual always been feminine dominant as in i was more into women (my same sex). I did try to be in a relationship but it was definitely not for me because I kept feeling guilty even though i loved my partner of the time but felt so guilty for it. Well i got to the point where I realized the Holy spirit was tugging at me n telling me there is more than flesh and earthly love. Now im married and have my kids . I found a man that helped me through this by getting me closer to God through understanding and showing me unconditional love . I still am physically attracted still to women but i fight it n ask God all the time to help reduce my wants n desires. To help me be strong in him n remember that the rebellion of my homosexual desires in me is not the Godly part but the earthly for me.I looove sugar but dont want to be diabetic so I avoid sugar for the most part. Just cuz i love someone or thing it doesn't mean its good for me or my health. My spiritual health is very important even more than physical
@jimboslice149
@jimboslice149 2 жыл бұрын
yes!! that is the Christian walk in this life. beating our bodies into submission out of love for God. this is you storing treasures in heaven. obedience brings about blessing as well!! I'm sure you've reaped a lot by pursing discipline and self control. God is good to his children and when he says "dont" to doing something he's also saying "don't get hurt".
@NikWill3
@NikWill3 Жыл бұрын
@jazskystar7110
@jazskystar7110 Жыл бұрын
Tf
@preciousmcfarland5265
@preciousmcfarland5265 Жыл бұрын
Congrats on your life in Christ, I have struggled with this too. Transparency keeps us humble🙏🏿🙏🏿💯💯💯Praise our Lord Jesus❤️
@childofgod269
@childofgod269 Жыл бұрын
Amen! I love hearing from Christians that have the struggle. We always hear way too much about what heterosexual Christians think. I like hearing the true testimonies of how God has helped people with those struggles.
@charmabrown4964
@charmabrown4964 2 жыл бұрын
Yes!!!! Even Paul had a “thorn in the flesh” that God did not remove from him. His grace is sufficient for us!!!
@jlblake84
@jlblake84 2 жыл бұрын
I was looking for someone to say it !!! Thank you cuz this is the one 🙌🏽
@heathermiller5413
@heathermiller5413 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@kbs8586
@kbs8586 2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt like Paul was gay. Especially with his “I die daily” scripture.
@Cheese_crackers
@Cheese_crackers 2 жыл бұрын
@@kbs8586 I believe he was referring to when Jesus said “deny yourself and pick up your cross and follow me” I think waking up day to day and choosing Jesus consistently instead of the world is a dying to yourself (flesh) situation. Because life becomes moment to moment like breathing with The Lord as your with Him (giving Him your attention) throughout the day and not in these increments like Sunday service and just praying in mornings before you leave and night time while your just doing you throughout the day… That’s why spending genuine time with Him in the Scriptures 📖 is essential. He is a Person Who reveals Himself through His Word so as your receiving revelation it changes your eyes and the way you see. Your relationship with Him grows organically and naturally and His grace and Love becomes so powerful because your awareness of Him is growing that you personally desire to walk in purity and holiness, being unspotted from the world and so you willingly deny yourself and pick up your cross and follow Love (God) *daily
@bianchinichester5896
@bianchinichester5896 2 жыл бұрын
@@Cheese_crackers powerful 🔥 therefore causing those desires to change eventually. More of Jesus means less of one's self. 🙏🏿 I've been there before so I know what more of Jesus can CHANGE n those desires aren't short of the list.
@reggiebyrd22
@reggiebyrd22 Жыл бұрын
I needed this. As a man of God whose trying to break free of the same spirit. It’s a tough road buh nothing is too hard for God 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
@zamanto660
@zamanto660 Жыл бұрын
Breaking free with the same spirit is self control. ☄️
@ASh-zf9pd
@ASh-zf9pd Жыл бұрын
Struggling with this too man😔 I want freedom from this so bad😩
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
@@ASh-zf9pd praying for you and that’s a promise 🙏🏿
@kivannylara6493
@kivannylara6493 8 ай бұрын
I❤YOU & SO DOES HE
@Nn.65juk
@Nn.65juk 8 ай бұрын
​@@ASh-zf9pd Man we are gay hahahaha do not deny. Accept it you do not have to be in parties all days. No man.... I am gay i meet my boyfriend and we live happily n
@catt99mahal8
@catt99mahal8 2 жыл бұрын
If a part of your body causes you to sin, cut it off. I was promiscuous for the time i was 14 to mid 30s (i’m currently 45). God gave me the strength to completely be abstinence from that lifestyle. However I still struggle with master bation. The fight is never over. But I love Jesus more then I love myself. Continuing to be a warrior for God is also fighting the demons within.
@EmbracingElevation
@EmbracingElevation 2 жыл бұрын
You are amazing for sharing your testimony. I'm not the only one. We serve an Awesome God. Praying with you.
@Ms.Jamieh297
@Ms.Jamieh297 2 жыл бұрын
Amen☝️🙌🙌🙌🛐
@justiceadams6623
@justiceadams6623 2 жыл бұрын
I struggle with masturbstion I know that bro thanks for the testimony
@TheRecordedOnes
@TheRecordedOnes 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this 💚
@memefaison6007
@memefaison6007 2 жыл бұрын
I pray that I am delivered from this sin as well.
@godsgirl7201
@godsgirl7201 2 жыл бұрын
I'm seeing a lot of y'all in the comments acting like self control is easy it's the hardest sin aka Adam and Eve
@raneanubis
@raneanubis 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Scary amount of compassionless Christian’s in the comments saying “all you have to do is choose God”, it’s like, ok, how about we imagine our heterosexuality was a sin and that we had to cut that off to pursue God. We don’t understand the struggles they have and may God bless 1000x those who choose to fight against their flesh and live according to His will.
@Elegantchoco-lit
@Elegantchoco-lit 2 жыл бұрын
Everyone here knows following Christ isn’t easy period. When you get tired of being hurt misused disrespected you do way way better with it. Based off both of these remarks I’m guessing you both are young. Keep on living and you’ll come to understand clearer.
@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859
@whoneedslovewhenyouhaves..859 2 жыл бұрын
@@raneanubis that's why Jesus said pick up our cross and follow him. No one said it was easy. Hello? It's the narrow road that leads to heaven and the wide road that leads to hell.
@reneefaison5738
@reneefaison5738 2 жыл бұрын
But it's NOT impossible! The fruit that Holy Spirit produces is self control! Daily working out our own soul salvation!
@keirakirby5201
@keirakirby5201 2 жыл бұрын
Of course its not easy, however, all things can be done by means of Gods holy spirit...he knows its not easy but he wants us to try...everything worthwhile takes sacrifice....
@sweettreatsoverload4296
@sweettreatsoverload4296 2 жыл бұрын
Yes that's how i stayed faithful to God when i was single. I kept my flesh under by not doing certain things. I didn't listen to love songs nor did i look at live making in movies. I never had male company in my place. You avoid things that will cause you to sin. This is so good we all have our own cross to bear that includes dealing with our sexual urges. Im grateful that i learned this at an early age
@corashepherd8696
@corashepherd8696 2 жыл бұрын
Amen! I don't utilize social media because I know it will cause me to fall into temptation of addiction, speaking foolishly in anger, self righteousness, and pride to name a few.. I wish more people understood this principle.
@69mwagner
@69mwagner 2 жыл бұрын
Same. I had to get rid of all social media because it was turning me into a person I hated to see. I only have KZbin, and even then I still need to control my thoughts
@flo.A1
@flo.A1 2 жыл бұрын
Same! People are allowing social media to influence them in strange ways; change their lifestyles, mindsets, actions, it ridiculous. It’s liberating to not have that entanglement in my life. Now I’m not going against social media, use it! I just wish more people would stop using that as a space to puff up their esteem and use it for its original intent…. But then again what is it🤷🏾‍♀️😬
@audreypatton8074
@audreypatton8074 2 жыл бұрын
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
@atm382
@atm382 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for what you posted. Um, that one about speaking in foolishly in anger hit the target for me. I got off fb and cut down on other social media because there are some ignorant hearts in the world with some unruly mouths.
@atm382
@atm382 2 жыл бұрын
@@69mwagner exactly
@blackberry4life482
@blackberry4life482 2 жыл бұрын
The scripture says to flee from temptation. Avoiding temptation is equal to that. It is choosing one’s battles wisely. That practice works across the board in many area of life like finances.Denying the flesh for God’s glory will be exalted.
@guatemala03
@guatemala03 2 жыл бұрын
God Bless you my sister. This was very helpful for me to read about many things.
@blackberry4life482
@blackberry4life482 2 жыл бұрын
@@guatemala03 Amen 😊
@highlyfavoredMG
@highlyfavoredMG 2 жыл бұрын
Amen sister!
@blackberry4life482
@blackberry4life482 Жыл бұрын
@Disagree in peace It’s not living a lie to set boundaries or limits for oneself. No one is perfect but in our efforts to present ourselves as a living sacrifice to God it is incumbent upon us to put forth every effort against the enemy that come to steal, kill and destroy our lives. That individual obviously has conviction in his own heart and what he needs to stop himself. God is a free will God. He could very well not hold on to his convictions and give in to temptations but that is his desire for his life to please God! Why would you cause someone of faith to stumble in doing their best to avoid pitfalls of this world?
@KieSuper
@KieSuper 4 ай бұрын
Wow super powerful!
@agape101969
@agape101969 Жыл бұрын
This is so very true! Whether your heterosexual or homesexual. We must resist all temptation. 🙏🏽
@footballguy6418
@footballguy6418 Жыл бұрын
This man told the truth. Been married 23yrs. When I tell people that I'm more concerned about what God thinks, more than my wife and kids. People look confused. A real relationship with God will help you override the sinful desires. I truly understand 1.God 2. Wife 3. Family. If your relationship with God is raggedy. Every relationship after that is raggedy.
@o0o-jd-o0o95
@o0o-jd-o0o95 Жыл бұрын
i feel sorry for your wife and kids. what kind of a moral loving GOD requires that you love him more than anything else and to bow down and worship him constantly? that is what a psychopath would require of his kidnap victim that he is torturing everyday while they remain tied up
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
@@o0o-jd-o0o95 You don’t know the UNFATHOMABLE Love of The One True Living God. God comes first before All things. So much to explain but i suggest reading the Bible. NT - Mark , Matthew , Luke, John
@teamoutdoable750
@teamoutdoable750 Жыл бұрын
Fun fact homophobic, the bible was mistranslated, it was never supposed to condemn homosexuality. Try lying your way put of these facts
@footballguy6418
@footballguy6418 Жыл бұрын
@teamoutdoable750 Just be forthcoming and say you don't believe in the bible. No miss translation! Stop lying to yourself.
@teamoutdoable750
@teamoutdoable750 Жыл бұрын
@@footballguy6418 lol, imagine trying to warp reality just to fit your own delusions
@roseannerichardson3478
@roseannerichardson3478 2 жыл бұрын
That's the truth, keep yourself on a short leash. We all know out weakness, overpower it with scripture!!
@PrincessAfrica3
@PrincessAfrica3 2 жыл бұрын
Amen praise Jesus Christ
@alej97
@alej97 2 жыл бұрын
Amen and proclaim it over yourself
@alexfenstermacher2714
@alexfenstermacher2714 2 жыл бұрын
That’s saying we have the power when in reality, we are weak, and what we need is God and Jesus for strength. “I can do all things through Him who strengthens me” Philippians 4:13
@mosquito3651
@mosquito3651 2 жыл бұрын
Really is that the truth? On a short leash hm? Short leash what you mean SHORT leash like slipping 1 time or 2 times? Is that SHORT???? DONT YOU PEOPLE CHANGE THE WORD OF GOD!
@Ikeepit-fj4ns
@Ikeepit-fj4ns 2 жыл бұрын
@@mosquito3651 no they mean dont put urself in tempting situations just cause u can. “Walk by the spirit so u dont gratify ur flesh”. Going to a club is not walking by the spirit of God and saying “keep urself on a short leash” means don’t put urself in bad situations thinking u can handle it. Sorry if the vid wasn’t clear enough
@murielfletcher6511
@murielfletcher6511 2 жыл бұрын
Do not put yourself in situations where if given the chance you will fail.
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
My grandmother told me that and it stuck with me every since. Even if it means declining hanging with a girl I’ve always like, I can’t fall into that trap.💯✝️👏🏿
@agapelove8155
@agapelove8155 2 жыл бұрын
Those who have never had the thoughts or desires will never understand this thing... God is good and His mercy endures forever and I will always live a life acceptable to Him but for those who feel like they have the answer for this...you don't have a clue what we go through.
@va2phx
@va2phx 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for you. You're right 🙏
@pablorivera7185
@pablorivera7185 2 жыл бұрын
Ty
@KeilyShhh
@KeilyShhh Жыл бұрын
How we love is ordained by god... he doesn't reject the most special part of us... and it shatters me when Christians say that we're sinning by being with someone we treasure :(
@Derekshorts234
@Derekshorts234 Жыл бұрын
@@KeilyShhhthe rules for loving intimately are very clear
@KeilyShhh
@KeilyShhh Жыл бұрын
@@Derekshorts234 lol... okay...? What are those rules? Are they that you need to separate out whatever love is convenient given the words of the bible (making you fracture off some of the best parts of who you are) or can we just say that love is love and it's as simple as that?
@joyconnery7481
@joyconnery7481 Жыл бұрын
The best words I have heard on this subject!! As one who came from that lifestyle I am one who knows so well...denial of self to follow Him is the way. I love that 'short leash'!
@madelineormaza5119
@madelineormaza5119 2 жыл бұрын
This is so good! I’ve struggled with this specifically in the last few years and found that God has shifted my mindset about sin as a whole to understand that the urges won’t go away and that they are common for my flesh and for others however, I get to chose if I act on them or not! 🙌🏽
@bestcasescenario0804
@bestcasescenario0804 2 жыл бұрын
To be in relationship with God is to be in full surrender, no matter what sin we all struggle with. All He wants is our surrender, He will take care of the rest. That’s how awesome He is!💖
@derekduncan264
@derekduncan264 11 ай бұрын
As a Christian who is only same-sex attracted and has prayed the same prayer many times in my life, I instantly followed after seeing this video. THIS is the Truth. I get so discouraged and hurt hearing the many different takes on this subject from Christians, and this is the one ☝️ This is REAL. If one day God decides to take this thorn in my flesh, Praise God and I will be here to proclaim the good news. Until then, or if it never comes, Praise God anyways and keep pushing towards Christ.
@DinnyFree
@DinnyFree 10 ай бұрын
🤍
@laylascott6096
@laylascott6096 9 ай бұрын
@Aambr094
@Aambr094 5 ай бұрын
If god is a good god he won't punish you for living the life you want to live, he won't care if you like man or woman. A god that prohibits you to be happy is not worth worshipping imo, i respect religion for the good it does but I don't respect these rules that make my fellow humans worse
@fbbWaddell
@fbbWaddell Жыл бұрын
This is something I have noticed about some of my friends husbands. I, personally, can be around an attractive man and completely ignore him if I know he is unavailable. I can be friends with him and never hope or expect anything else to happen. So, I'm fine with being alone in the room with them or sitting next to them on the couch. However, because they are attracted to me, they immediately move when I sit next to them on the couch. If I'm sitting on the couch with my friend between me and her husband and she gets up to go to the bathroom, he gets up and moves to the other chair while she's gone. These guys are not playing. They will not only refuse to be set up for temptation, they refuse to even have the appearance of evil. I have the utmost respect for both of my friends husbands because of this.
@o0o-jd-o0o95
@o0o-jd-o0o95 Жыл бұрын
it is not easy to suppress a mans #1 natural biological evolutionary instinct to reproduce to further the species. how do you think humans got to this point in time in the first place? magic?? supernatural forces?? you people are beyond ignorant. it boggles my mind that your education is so pathetically poor , that you believe everything was magically created
@querlinestsurin
@querlinestsurin Жыл бұрын
They might not be attracted to you. The bible states to stay away from all appearances of evil and also be blameless. It does matter what you look like. It matters how things even appear
@tinac1015
@tinac1015 10 ай бұрын
wow.....I gotta stay in deep deep prayer for you guys....Satan is getting mad but we win at the end
@brada8631
@brada8631 2 жыл бұрын
I don't want to sin against my heavenly father so please pray for me I need this really bad in Jesus christ name 🙏
@SheilaTrueLove
@SheilaTrueLove 2 жыл бұрын
I just PRAYED for you Brad. I Love you and so does Jehovah and Jesus Christ.
@chettierene918
@chettierene918 2 жыл бұрын
I prayed for you right as I was reading your comment. I believe JESUS will heal you because you asked, now just believe...... IN JESUS NAME, AMEN!!!!!! 💜💜💜💜💜💜
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
Please stop listen to these people you have a guilty conscious listening to people who can't read the Bible I have proof on my channel
@ofonimebassey8804
@ofonimebassey8804 2 жыл бұрын
Hello Brad. So first thing, I'd like you to see Hebrews 4:16. It says 'Therefore let us come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in the time of need'. I'd like you to understand that even though you fall into sin, God does not cast you away. The blood of Jesus is forever present. All you need to do is confess your sins (one to another). Confessing your sins to another actual human is accountability on your part. It does not mean that the person has the power to forgive your sins. When you make yourself accountable to someone, before you do anything foolish, you ask yourself what the person would say and how the person would react. If you've fallen to something a few times and you've had to confess it, something in you would want to stop being a wimp, and start being a warrior. How did I know this? I'm accountable to someone, and that has been my greatest blessing. I've been celibate for years now, and trust me, you also can be celibate. May God help you die more to your flesh.
@meadowlove822
@meadowlove822 2 жыл бұрын
Hi Brad, I pray that you feel God’s unfailing compassion and insurmountable love around you. Amen. He cares for you and is with you each step of the way, patient, kind, and unashamed
@IOeste80
@IOeste80 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. People who don’t struggle with this don’t get it, but they think they have all the answers. This is probably the most compassionate way I’ve heard this addressed. Some Christians love to brow beat people, but they offer no practical solutions for how to deal with life.
@KeilyShhh
@KeilyShhh Жыл бұрын
My heart breaks (it's shattered) when I hear Christian calling how we love an abomination... something disgusting to be put to death. I came to a place where I had to reject the bible in order to KNOW that god loves me. If I hadn't, I would have killed myself. Now, I have a beautiful wife and I know that god ordained me to love her 💕 I'm sorry but bible is wrong when it says that god rejects the most special part of who we are.
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
That’s why I ask God to let me have a understanding of what they mean. And He put it in a way with my Lustful Desire for Women. It’s hard for me to concentrate because of women and I fall easily prey to them. I’m learning to lean on God and keeping myself on a short leash. I know it’s hard, but I have to hold on.
@Thetenacityofkassidy
@Thetenacityofkassidy Жыл бұрын
@@KeilyShhhI’m glad that you are happy I hope your marriage lasts long 😊
@zoegrei
@zoegrei 2 жыл бұрын
I love how Pastor Tim always addresses the right things. “The Short Leash” ❤
@MR-re2nn
@MR-re2nn 2 жыл бұрын
"For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world." 1 John 2 verse 16
@yagradio8655
@yagradio8655 2 жыл бұрын
But Jesus said John 8:15 “Ye judge after the flesh; I judge no man.”
@malcolmhayes9201
@malcolmhayes9201 2 жыл бұрын
This story really touched my day. Sometimes you feel bad for feeling reluctant towards homosexual relations until you realize it isn’t gods plan for that relationship to exist. It’s the father of lies idea 💡
@jg1238
@jg1238 Жыл бұрын
Yes! Facts! I’m married and I love my wife. I do not put myself in certain situations that would facilitate breaking that relationship. We both agree that we do not spend time with someone of the opposite sex alone.
@onesyphorus
@onesyphorus 11 ай бұрын
yeah some ppl dont understand boundaries n establish them enough youre on the right track tho
@shaneleonard7218
@shaneleonard7218 2 жыл бұрын
There will not be a "situation" if you keep yourself out of "situations", Avoid temptations. Praise God
@sakuraqueen1734
@sakuraqueen1734 2 жыл бұрын
Yes I agree, I say this all the time! Keep yourself away from places that will put you in a situations or cause (inappropriate) desires/temptation. We should respect ourselves (and God) not to do that to ourselves.
@veronicahayes4635
@veronicahayes4635 2 жыл бұрын
Everything in life is a choice. Change happens through choice.
@deloresjones8172
@deloresjones8172 2 жыл бұрын
Smart man! The bible says: "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Phillipines 4:13. "No temptation has seized you except what is common to man. And God is faithful, He will not let you be tempted beyond what you can bear. BUT WHEN YOU ARE TEMPTED, HE WILL PROVIDE A WAY OUT SO YOU CAN STAND UP UNDER IT." 1 Corinthians 10:13 "Our life here is a vapor/mist." James 4:14. Continue to stand firm. Our time is short.
@sarahbalcerak6754
@sarahbalcerak6754 2 жыл бұрын
Resist the devil and he will flee from you. Crucifying the flesh is the only way to do it. That doesn’t mean we won’t have sinful desires, but part of being spiritually mature is knowing how to recognize the tools of the enemy, RESIST the devil and the sinful desires he places in our hearts and minds and practice self control. He makes an amazing point and I have never heard it described like this
@sarahhaines9007
@sarahhaines9007 2 жыл бұрын
When give the choice , choice will be demanded from you. You have to choose what is right, even when you are broken you have to make the right choice. Not alright in the eyes of others, but in the eyes of God. Then healing begins. Go with it an be delivered.
@paylopayne9357
@paylopayne9357 2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes change just happens through nature we are a victim to our own flesh and sometimes we can't even help that
@BreezeWithAfrica
@BreezeWithAfrica 2 жыл бұрын
Amen
@migzy4704
@migzy4704 Жыл бұрын
Facts! People just think sin is spiritual, but no. Sin can also sometimes be so powerful it affects us physically.
@_FearNoEvil
@_FearNoEvil Жыл бұрын
AMEN. I needed to hear this. I’m two years saved and not living in homosexual sin anymore but still struggle with same sex attraction. But I know my salvation is still real and the fact that I see my old life as sin I can’t live in shows the Holy Spirit at work in my life. God loves us all and just wants us to live naturally in alignment with how He made us, in His image. Don’t give up to anyone out there struggling with same sex attraction and salvation. You are saved and not defective. Just ask God for help
@lovejones1897
@lovejones1897 Жыл бұрын
God only made sex and attraction for husband and wife to procreate.
@KeilyShhh
@KeilyShhh Жыл бұрын
I just hope at the end of the day, you find peace. But my heart does break (it's shattered) when I hear Christians calling how we love an abomination... something disgusting to be put to death. I came to a place where I had to reject the bible in order to KNOW that god loves me. If I hadn't, I would have killed myself. Now, I have a beautiful wife and I know that god ordained me to be with her 💕 I am not capable of loving a man how I love her and to try and force myself would be against the beautiful nature god instilled in me. I do know it's a hard road though so I do hope you're doing well.
@siervodedios5952
@siervodedios5952 Жыл бұрын
​@@KeilyShhhMatthew 16:24-26 "24 Then said Jesus unto his disciples, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me. 25 For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: and whosoever will lose his life for my sake shall find it. 26 For what is a man profited, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul? or what shall a man give in exchange for his soul?" I wanna pay particular attention to verses 24 and 26. It doesn't matter what we feel we deserve, that we feel we should have the right to do. If something is contrary to God's Word, I abhor it. And the fact that you actively reject God's Word, His Holy, infallible Word, is very concerning. If we can just reject whatever He spoke then that must mean I can worship other gods right? Or mess with someone who is married? Perhaps commit murder? See what I mean? That nonsense is a slippery slope you don't wanna go down.
@KeilyShhh
@KeilyShhh Жыл бұрын
@@siervodedios5952 It's simple: I knew that the bible said that how I love is sin. I also knew that my ability to love is who I am (and it's the most special part of who I am). So that would mean I AM sin. But god loved me too much to let me believe something so hurtful. I joyfully gave up Christianity (and the bible) and embraced the fact that god loves me as I am!
@crazydragy4233
@crazydragy4233 Жыл бұрын
If your God is real then he isn't dumb, and he knows you can't change your nature nor would not being a breeder is a sin xd
@yahdz8188
@yahdz8188 2 жыл бұрын
Self control is good but his mind needs to be renewed and his heart replaced so that his desires change
@marathonbleu
@marathonbleu 2 жыл бұрын
Has your mind ever been renewed to change your sexuality?
@yahdz8188
@yahdz8188 2 жыл бұрын
@@marathonbleu no I don’t have that problem
@odinson902
@odinson902 2 жыл бұрын
You sound crazy as hell.
@arielfarra7979
@arielfarra7979 2 жыл бұрын
I personally feel his internal battle is actually growing his faith, and helping his heart be replaced from wanting his desires to wanting to please God. With him being aware of his struggle he’s able to create boundaries for himself based off of him wanting to please God. He knows his desire isn’t righteous and therefore he’s limiting his flesh- I believe his mind is being renewed, and his heart replaced.
@elliebellie648
@elliebellie648 2 жыл бұрын
But he was made in god's image.
@rachaelfreeindeed2603
@rachaelfreeindeed2603 Жыл бұрын
Currently struggling with this, prayers would be so greatly appreciated
@jessjames133
@jessjames133 2 жыл бұрын
“Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭6:9-10‬ ‭KJV‬‬. A short leash isn’t Deliverance.
@Jonnycuttcorners
@Jonnycuttcorners 2 жыл бұрын
It’s part of our wLk
@denisebredell-hill1827
@denisebredell-hill1827 2 жыл бұрын
With God all things are possible! Maybe all these people will inherit the kingdom of God despite our sins which have been forgiven if we believe in Jesus!
@jessjames133
@jessjames133 2 жыл бұрын
@@denisebredell-hill1827 what Paul is talking about here is people too lost in their sin or not born again. Quite frankly, if someone is a true born again believer with the in dwelling of the Holy Spirit, then they are saved by believing on the blood atonement of Christ. Only then are our sins forgiven and we have eternal life.
@Nina-yb1zq
@Nina-yb1zq 2 жыл бұрын
Right it’s either Broad or narrow path
@truth2powermillions400
@truth2powermillions400 2 жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter if you are a Christian or not, self-control is important. If you have unnatural desires, control it by submitting to NATURE. Men + women = life
@angelmd43
@angelmd43 Жыл бұрын
Wonderful! This is exactly what I told my son. You have to fight it like any temptation. It's called the good fight of faith because it's a fight to the end. God bless you!!
@twistedlime1975
@twistedlime1975 Жыл бұрын
Ok, but is it really temptation, though?
@angelmd43
@angelmd43 Жыл бұрын
@@twistedlime1975 Yes it's adultery.
@twistedlime1975
@twistedlime1975 Жыл бұрын
@angelmd43 as in just finding random partners? And not finding one person and staying with that one for the rest of their life? Or that they can not marry their for anything you do will be adultry? Because two of the same sec can not marry
@angelmd43
@angelmd43 Жыл бұрын
@@twistedlime1975 As in having sex outside of marriage and marriage to God is between a man and a woman.
@carolynr529
@carolynr529 2 жыл бұрын
That's how we overcome by the blood of the Lamb and the word of our testimony. Your testimony that you keep yourself on a very short leash is the devil fleeing from you. You know the appetite of your flesh. Thank you for that empowering testimony.
@drawntosweet
@drawntosweet 2 жыл бұрын
I’m not a Christian or gay but I’m already knowing I’m about to read all these comments cause it’s 4am
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
I’m reading at 12:00am. Maybe this wasn’t a coincidence. God can call anyone. He was calling you through this video. Maybe not the Gay topic, but the “short leash” in self control of your wrongdoings. God is Able and He loves you man🙏🏿
@bobpletcher5232
@bobpletcher5232 10 ай бұрын
❤ just a Christian grandmother.. married for 35 years…5 grown children… I rarely comment…. YOUR Communication in this short video is so crystal clear amazing! I believe it has and will continue to minister too many struggling in that area…….” for all fallen short of God’s glory.” “ God’s grace is sufficient(God’s grace is enough.). In our weakness …HE will be our Strength 💪💯🙌
@kendalld.5026
@kendalld.5026 Жыл бұрын
This is the calmest I’ve ever heard anyone express hate towards themselves. My God didn’t bring me here to struggle with loving the person he made me. Nor did he want me to punish a woman by giving her a man that’s not really attracted to her but sees her as Gods leash.
@CatGee
@CatGee Жыл бұрын
But He did bring us here to die unto our flesh nature that directly opposes His instruction and most Holy design for us before the fall. He does this because He knows that this practice has been deemed an abomination and He loves us too much to see us under that delusion. He also gives us grace once we submit. Also the Bible reiterates that we do not belong to ourselves and our bodies are a sacred temple. I don't know your god, but if Jesus ain't the gateway to Him, then he ain't it.#gaygirlgoneGod#thiswasmytestimonysodon'ttellmeJesuscannotgivegracetoliveinspiritualtruth#lovecoversamultitudeofsins😊
@katefuentes4938
@katefuentes4938 10 ай бұрын
Religion is subjective. Honor and love thyself and partner it's not rocket science. I highly doubt God would make people who are different and scold them for that difference. People just need to let it go. Religious people dictating how people love is ridiculous they aren't God, they are devout to their interpretation of God.
@alixjulieemusic
@alixjulieemusic Жыл бұрын
this comment section is toxic af 😂
@Papiamor888
@Papiamor888 Жыл бұрын
Respect to your gift my man so many of these topics have so much knowledge and I appreciate you for that 🙏❤
@heathermiller5413
@heathermiller5413 2 жыл бұрын
That's beautiful. Thank you for sharing that. I pray this helps many people.
@bruhh9176
@bruhh9176 2 жыл бұрын
being religious seems so stressful
@CalebSingsxD09
@CalebSingsxD09 2 жыл бұрын
That’s bc we’re not meant to be religious anything church folks gon realize it too late
@xoxogurl1570
@xoxogurl1570 Жыл бұрын
it’s not religious it’s a relationship with God
@babydxll.x
@babydxll.x Жыл бұрын
Yes it is as a christan I hate my life
@Thetenacityofkassidy
@Thetenacityofkassidy Жыл бұрын
@@xoxogurl1570it is religious Christianity is a religion and you are in that religion
@JillianSmall_ChildofGod
@JillianSmall_ChildofGod 7 ай бұрын
Love the honesty. Makes me wanna face stuff and set up measures to avoid with them. Thank you Tim.
@magi144
@magi144 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. We can never escape temptation. We can, however, choose to act or not.
@ForeverSongMinistries
@ForeverSongMinistries 2 жыл бұрын
That's a fruit of the spirit! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@SD-hs2pk
@SD-hs2pk 2 жыл бұрын
yes self-control
@brunoglorvis1710
@brunoglorvis1710 2 жыл бұрын
More like fruity
@Bre_Creatively
@Bre_Creatively 2 жыл бұрын
Yes it is!!!
@alannesbitt9216
@alannesbitt9216 2 жыл бұрын
Just recognized you, Tim. I remember showing your “I Am Second” video to my bible class several years ago, and praying that you stay faithful. I am so glad you have this platform to spread the truth who is Jesus! May the Lord bless you and keep you.
@shadowninja2622
@shadowninja2622 Жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with homosexuality and my relationship with God for years... i've tried to hurt myself on multiple occationd because the feminin way i talk or walk i hated so much yet i was comfertable like that. Whenever a guy would flirt i would feel like im on cloud 9 until afterwards when the dark thoughts comes out. This message is just pure facts, it speaks to me in so many ways❤ Sorry for the long comment😭
@ntz7358
@ntz7358 Жыл бұрын
Please don’t hurt yourself, it’s okay to be attracted to the same gender, don’t change yourself, you did nothing wrong.
@Livelife95ify
@Livelife95ify Жыл бұрын
God loves you and you are amazing...
@Crewsi3
@Crewsi3 Жыл бұрын
It's ok to be gay, i love femboys and i embrace the love God gave me.
@Thetenacityofkassidy
@Thetenacityofkassidy Жыл бұрын
Please don’t hurt yourself dude it’s fine if you are attracted to the same gender don’t blame yourself for something you can’t control and don’t harm yourself either just be happy and try to live life
@istoleyourtv7823
@istoleyourtv7823 9 ай бұрын
Dont hurt yourself and don't listen to what these people are saying. Rather than fighting against your homosexuality with your own will power, you have to let go and you let go by embracing Jesus and letting him come into you and fight your battles.
@stephensloan4933
@stephensloan4933 2 жыл бұрын
I’m learning to keep myself on a short leash to stay away from pornography.
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
That’s why I’m going to do now. 🙏🙏🏿Praying for you brother
@Jess-uq2dm
@Jess-uq2dm 2 ай бұрын
I’m a bisexual and aChristisn, I have accepted who I am and that I can’t change myself although I’ve tried. I love the Lord and am sorry for my son but it’s not an option for me ❤❤
@NickGagnon-u1v
@NickGagnon-u1v Ай бұрын
Thats cool.
@missnurseeri
@missnurseeri 2 жыл бұрын
Self-control... Fruit of the Spirit. It is a lifestyle _choice._ "Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His righteousness"... Seeking is the lifestyle _choice._ "But resist him, firm in your faith, knowing that the same experiences of suffering are being accomplished by your brethren who are in the world"... Resisting is the lifestyle _choice._ Btw, notice that last scripture says every Christian is resisting SOMETHING. If you meet one who says they aren't, they're a *LIAR* and a *HYPOCRITE.* Temptation is always there. Temptation isn't the sin. Jesus was tempted. Giving-in is the sin. "For since He Himself was tempted in that which He has suffered, He is able to come to the aid of those who are tempted."
@Grokford
@Grokford 2 жыл бұрын
Love is also a fruit of the spirit, against which there is no law. Queer love is no different
@SB-ln2dj
@SB-ln2dj Жыл бұрын
Great message that will help many people struggling with strong sinful desires.
@mamacass8970
@mamacass8970 Жыл бұрын
It’s the same with a lot of sin knowing you have the urge but to stand up against it and that is when His faithfulness shines through helping you to stand strong.
@rubee497
@rubee497 2 жыл бұрын
I pray this person at some point get beyond man's practice of staying away from sin and choose to seek the Lord on what the root issue is to why there is an attraction to a lifestyle that God did not create.
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
Praying 🙏🏿.
@Cander509
@Cander509 2 жыл бұрын
Within the last two years I’ve gone from being a life long libertine to a man who rejects and renounces past wickedness. A man with a new sense of self and a strange unfamiliar confidence, and the person I was two years ago would get a good laugh out of this comment. The power of God is real.
@omayrag4
@omayrag4 Жыл бұрын
Deliverance is a process with the ultimate goal of breaking that “short leash” And the more of our part we give to sanctifying ourselves the better off we will be. It’s like any song we break ties with.
@komododragon4242
@komododragon4242 2 жыл бұрын
Paul asked God to take this thorn from his side. Remember Paul was Greek, Educated, and single. God told him, " My grace is sufficient for you." Walk away from sin. Don't let seeds of lust inter through your eyes. Folks it's a tough walk to live righteous in this flesh on this planet. Be strong. Rejoice in the lord always.
@riseupministries6391
@riseupministries6391 2 жыл бұрын
We all deserve hell, but because of God's unfailing love for us He sacrificed the life of the ONLY one who was without sin to redeem us back to Him. So therefor whoever believes on the one that died for them may he saved.
@hortencekeitatcs
@hortencekeitatcs 2 жыл бұрын
Underrated Gift of the Spirit: Self Control! ✝️
@CakesDontLie
@CakesDontLie Жыл бұрын
Yep. I heard it this way. Temptation is not the sin, it is when you act on it. I used to have a lot of homosexual temptations but by the grace of God, I am able to overcome this with the shield of faith to put those fiery darts to shame🙌🙌🙌✝️
@Realrap2727
@Realrap2727 2 жыл бұрын
This is REAL. We have to put up fight to die to our flesh Daily. It’s a part of what picking up our Cross and walking after Him looks like. I THANK GOD for His overwhelming Saving Grace which proves How much He Loves Us 🙏🏾💙🙏🏾💙🙏🏾
@girlwithguala4794
@girlwithguala4794 2 жыл бұрын
I guess I'm the only believer here that doesn't approve of this message 🤷🏾‍♀️ We all fall short and none of us can do what God can do. Keeping yourself “on a short leash” while being married to a woman is not only deceitful but it will never work because you’re relying on your own strength to be delivered from what you consider a sin. God has always helped me when I recognize that I can’t meet the mark and that I won’t ever be able to do it on my own. I struggle with sin and it’s all the same. I do not believe that God would allow me to suffer because I struggle living up to a perfect image. That’s what He’s for. He is our savior and He already knew we would do sinful things, yet he still Loves us. He still saved me. He’s still working on me. I don’t have to be on a leash living in bondage, I don’t have to do anything but be still and know that HE is GOD. His grace is sufficient for me! There’s a lot of freedom in knowing that, imo. Not saying sin is right, but trying to deliver yourself is not possible.
@Cassandra-250
@Cassandra-250 Жыл бұрын
I totally see where you are coming from. He was molested at a young age by a teenage boy so that is really traumatic to deal with. It takes extensive time for some wounds to be healed so let us have some grace for things we don't completely understand
@khadijahtoutou9106
@khadijahtoutou9106 Жыл бұрын
Short leash = discipline from what I’m hearing. I love this! Thank you for your insight
@ladytonga2424
@ladytonga2424 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very good message! We have to have self control! 🙏🏾💜
@mariegaffney7170
@mariegaffney7170 2 жыл бұрын
Praying for your strength! I am so proud of you!
@mauriceb4348
@mauriceb4348 2 жыл бұрын
I'll never forget the sermon this man gave at transformation. It had me crying and looking at myself like I never have before.
@HOPEJOYHEALING
@HOPEJOYHEALING Жыл бұрын
In response to "If you love God, truly, you will not want to sin against Him." True. So if you truly want to lose weight would you surround yourself with all the temptation you possibly could and then tell yourself "if I truly want to lose weight I won't eat any of this"... No. You would be INTENTIONAL about reducing the amount of temptation, you would plan meals ahead so you wouldn't be hungry and fall into temptation ect ect. But to think your physical body won't experience desires just because you want to lose weight .. or just because you love the Lord genuinely is foolish. For the spirit is willing but the flesh is WEAK! Don't be fooled my dear sister. We all have moments of weakness and the wise path is to be prepared for those moments. And that's what this man is saying. He keeps himself on a short leash OUT OF LOVE for God so that he is able to keep his commandments. Recognizing that sinful desires still exist is not a contradiction to loving God... It's scripture. May God bless you and draw you closer to Him ❤️
@niquetta1170
@niquetta1170 2 жыл бұрын
This is a very real practical and amazing testimony
@lionelwashington8448
@lionelwashington8448 Жыл бұрын
Your point is solid! If Jesus was tempted in every way known to man, we cannot think that we will not be tempted. Remove sex from the discussion… and look at thy-self. If we lie to ourselves, we can never be held accountable on any level, it will always be, I did it because. Really 🤔. This is a great topic, a real topic that involves humans.
@Pro-j4q
@Pro-j4q Жыл бұрын
A question: Some Christians say homosexuality or living your homosexuality is a sin. Sin is a disobey to a "divine rule". Where in the Bible is God saying that he is putting a rule against homosexuality or homosexual life? In Leviticus the Hebrews made up their rules to be different to the Canaans in Canaan while expanding in the land, and to give their human made rules more impact in difficult times they called them “divine rules”, but they are not divine. Or in the Corinthian or Roman letters of Paulus, he declares in a very confused way his rules to his communities to keep them together as they where about to break apart in the else wise cultural Corinth. Also he declared his rules to “divine rules” to give them more political impact, but they are not. So where?
@a.ragguette4855
@a.ragguette4855 Жыл бұрын
Every rule that the Hebrews made was acknowledge by God, and its why he punishes them when they break them, the hell you saying...
@twistedlime1975
@twistedlime1975 Жыл бұрын
Well, from my understanding, from the very little that I know and I'm simple-minded, I guess, is that it contradicts marriage and only sleeping with the one you're married. Personally, I don't believe man and man or woman and woman can marry. It's not designed that way or for that. So it just strictly contradicts that, and it ends life or a bloodline. But we have science now, so you can actually extend bloodlines now without intercourse with a woman now. It's not natural, but it can be done now. That being said. Humans are humans, and they just don't know when to stop. So they will end up pushing too far, and then corruption expands and blah blah blah
@Pro-j4q
@Pro-j4q Жыл бұрын
@@twistedlime1975 Well since humans exist (300,000 years) exist homosexuals and always with a 4-10% share, so actual around 320million -800million people. Humanity expanded quite good with those 10% aty their side and extremly good in culture with mainly those 10% active in it. Neither do the homosexuals want to life in permanent promiscuituy nor in celibacy. Most of them want to life in monogamous relationships. As everybody marries they also want to marry if no one would marry they also wouldnt care to. Its an integration thing.
@twistedlime1975
@twistedlime1975 Жыл бұрын
@user-vm5yk2js6w are we talking religious ppl or non religious? Idk numbers but I think most people do marriage for government reasons and such. Not really for God. I'm also not a fan of two of the same sex marrying for God. Rather I cannot understand how that works.
@bnkn8431
@bnkn8431 2 жыл бұрын
I had same sex attraction for years but it was like God blocked me at every pass to entertain a woman. I got to the point where I thought I would just never be in a relationship and that this would be my thorn for life but God has restored me. I’ve been married to my wonderful hubby for 3 years.
@k_235
@k_235 Жыл бұрын
Wow, praise God 😢🙌🏾 He is truly a Deliverer, and a Redeemer.
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
Amen 🙏🏿 . I used to be uncomfortable around girls who were gay and such and honesly I looked down on them. But God humbled me and thought me to Love them where they at and He will do the rest. Also that there people and I was once like that. (Not same sex, Just lusting after girls)
@olivest509
@olivest509 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this. There are some desires that I struggle with, too. Maybe one day the Lord will heal me, but for now I just need His grace. I remember one time when I went to a party in college and a person walked in the door, and God told me to get up right now and leave. It was extremely rude and I offended several of my friends, but I think that if I had not obeyed Him, I would be lost. I thank God that He protected me there and pray that His mercy will go with me always.
@theafricaninus2929
@theafricaninus2929 2 жыл бұрын
I love honesty!🖤
@MegaMommaUlman
@MegaMommaUlman 2 жыл бұрын
Sin is always attractive by design...
@jaypremium9605
@jaypremium9605 2 жыл бұрын
Then give me sin!!!! Yeahhhh!
@orangemoon9634
@orangemoon9634 2 жыл бұрын
And who designed it? 🤔👀
@keluvnme
@keluvnme 2 жыл бұрын
@@orangemoon9634 the enemy did of course. Everything God has, the enemy created a counterfeit. Why? To emulate God and his very existence
@kimtaehyungismyoppa531
@kimtaehyungismyoppa531 Жыл бұрын
That's what I did as well. I am what the lgbtq would refer to as "pansexual" or something along those lines. I am attracted to things that I should not be and I am fortunately also attracted to men (as a woman) which gives me more hope for my marital future but it was kinda difficult changing because I would see women and I would have to control myself. God is Good ❤️❤️‼️
@cheetotruckinwithjesus6013
@cheetotruckinwithjesus6013 2 жыл бұрын
Cuz you don't understand the fact that it's a demon coercing him with these feelings
@arianadonis4099
@arianadonis4099 2 жыл бұрын
I'm not a woman but I couldn't imagine marrying a gay dude if I was.
@chFRESCO
@chFRESCO 2 жыл бұрын
Is this a non binary moment.
@BellaBoo85
@BellaBoo85 2 жыл бұрын
@ArianAdonis 🤔 IKR! As a woman, this is exactly what I was just thinking and saying to myself too. Its seems extremely unfair to the woman and kind of selfish if you ask me. Js 🤨
@FarieSag
@FarieSag 2 жыл бұрын
Cause at this point it just seems as if he is pretending to interested in her. She and him knows he desires men. Therefore he is wasting her time, of finding someone who actually desires her. He very much selfish on his part to pretend to love and desire her, for his own beliefs of feeling like he's in favor with God cause he pretending to like a woman.
@cebrinachandler1708
@cebrinachandler1708 2 жыл бұрын
So is Tim referring to himself 😮
@kaylawaye
@kaylawaye 2 жыл бұрын
A man who experiences homosexual temptations is not a “gay dude”. Homosexual temptations do no define a person, their relationship with Christ and how they choose to conduct themselves defines them. Plenty of men and women who have experienced homosexual temptations go on to have healthy marriages and families.
@cynthiasoler2826
@cynthiasoler2826 Жыл бұрын
Aww this was the very beginning! I can tell because he’s fidgeting with the cable l. So proud of you Tim !! Thank you for stepping out on faith !
@sabir1208
@sabir1208 Жыл бұрын
More men need to hear this. They talk about women but never resist the temptation and then complain later, "oh there's no good women. Oh no women are virgins. Oh I can't get a traditional housewife." But they aren't doing anything traditional themselves. They're not practicing abstinence or sexual discipline in any form. How can you complain as you contribute to the problem tho? And this is why I don't feel an ounce of sympathy for lonely modern men. Because they made this society. So dwell in it, un-peacefully🤷🏾‍♀️
@devionewilkins8903
@devionewilkins8903 Жыл бұрын
Not all men. The Good will outweigh the bad. Also, we all fall short. But the greatest thing is we don’t give up and continue to strive for God’s everlasting grace and glory and His Love.
@ashleylovesjesuskitties1906
@ashleylovesjesuskitties1906 2 жыл бұрын
Amen 💛 Beautiful spoken my brother in Christ! .." Know thy self "🙏
@Tillycreatescontent
@Tillycreatescontent Жыл бұрын
I think part of deliverance is also recognizing that there is also spiritual warfare one must deal with and strongholds one must break through prayer and sometimes fervent consistent prayer. The more we spend time in the Word and allow the Holy Spirit to lead in our lives, the more the fleshly desires fall away for he who the son sets free is free indeed!
@twistedlime1975
@twistedlime1975 Жыл бұрын
Ok, but how can you measure the difference between the Holy Spirit and gut feeling? Or intuition or something?
@JuanMarquez-op4vw
@JuanMarquez-op4vw 2 жыл бұрын
I've been struggling with this too. I know deep in my heart and soul that as a man having relations with another man is wrong and I end up feeling worthless and ashamed but i kept going back to it. I want to heal and deepen my relationship with god but I'm ashamed of myself and the things i did. I truly feel like no matter what i do there will be no redemption for me, i want to live life like how a man should, but every time I try to date another women I just think that I'm not worthy of it and end up dwelling on my past mistakes, how could a women love me if she knew what kind of person I was and how could i fulfill my duty as a man when i spent a lot of my life trying to live as a woman. I need help, and I want to change, but my inner turmoil holds me back. I've failed my parents, my friends, and myself. Please god give me your guidance and lead me out of this dark place I am in.
@theafricangirl5125
@theafricangirl5125 2 жыл бұрын
Cling unto Him who is Mightier than all you have been through. Ask Jesus for strength and please approach Him knowing He loves you so much and can do anything for you. Ask Jesus to wipe out the guilt and shame. Repent and tell Him everything. I know that feeling of unworthiness and selfhate, unfortunately, too well it is a tactic by demons to cause you to withdraw from the Lord I'm going through the similar feelings also of same sex attraction. How about for now instead of you trying to date women and me men , we try being with God . To find out who we are in Christ. It doesn't matter what we have done. His great sacrifice has done it all. Let's not believe in ourselves but believe in God and what He can do for us Perhaps if you have a few trusted friends in your church who understand and can fortify you with prayers My point is don't feel low God is with you and all His promises are true. God bless you
@TaxTheChurches.
@TaxTheChurches. 9 ай бұрын
That's good for you. Now please don't try to force everyone to do what you do. They have rights to be themselves just as you have the right to attach a leash to yourself.
@sweetetta
@sweetetta 2 жыл бұрын
And that goes for any form of ungodly desires or weakness, we should hold ourselves accountable! 👌🏽❤️
@keyanicks8682
@keyanicks8682 2 жыл бұрын
Same! My flesh screams sexual perversions my soul hollas refrain and so I refrain from the act Hallelujah
@wendygramajo
@wendygramajo Жыл бұрын
If you get deliverance, true deliverance you no longer have the desire. Homosexuality is a spirit, so is lust, cast them out, get delivered. You were not meant to be suffering in your flesh wanting those things and having to tame it continuously. Deliverance means to me set free, not chained and tamed. GET DELIVERANCE. It works. Otherwise you’re saying God is a liar, no sir. God delivers people fully. Fast and pray bc some only come out by fasting and praying. And don’t be doing half fast, stop eating and drinking and get on your face. It works.
@samuelflores9873
@samuelflores9873 7 ай бұрын
This is true sister some people like to keep sin as a pet so they put it on a leash.
@thesoundofpeace9984
@thesoundofpeace9984 Жыл бұрын
Amen, self control and accountability is such a wonderful thing to hear coming from a young person 😀
@YeRaRebreed
@YeRaRebreed 2 жыл бұрын
Why I feel like his talking about himself 🤔😳😒
@spazarellapoet8735
@spazarellapoet8735 2 жыл бұрын
I think he is too... Cause he said the man was attracted to him (says it low so it sounds like the he said he was attracted to men..as if he was referring to someone else) but the man didn't indulge in the fornication cause he didn't want to disappoint god. He then goes into deliverance ramblings uses his relationship with his wife as a example yet stumbles through talking about his relationship with his "wife" (beard for congregations gratification ) cause we all know he wouldn't have his position or collect them tides if he was openly gay ... Long story short yup he gives off the vibes he gay but won't admit it.
@DelicueMusic
@DelicueMusic 2 жыл бұрын
@@spazarellapoet8735 Bad faith argument there
@rachelrentas-baker5809
@rachelrentas-baker5809 2 жыл бұрын
Does it matter if he is?
@spazarellapoet8735
@spazarellapoet8735 2 жыл бұрын
@@rachelrentas-baker5809 wouldn't u want to know if your partner was using u for appearances or genuinely with u?... U wouldn't care if your husband liked men?
@AliciaRobinson.
@AliciaRobinson. Жыл бұрын
@@rachelrentas-baker5809 absolutely
@Siah4219
@Siah4219 2 жыл бұрын
I feel like this was a story about himself 🤣 look at the way he playin with that chord. He nervous as hell lol
@HOPEJOYHEALING
@HOPEJOYHEALING Жыл бұрын
We overcome by the words of our testimony. And there is no shame in Christ Jesus. No shame. Our sins are forgiven and covered by the blood when we come to Him! God bless you! ❤️
@kerenkares4473
@kerenkares4473 Жыл бұрын
Ooooo YEAH because of his nervousness I thought he was talking about his self 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@mariaddis9341
@mariaddis9341 8 ай бұрын
I was thinking THE SAME EXACT THING!😮‍💨
@samapple490
@samapple490 Жыл бұрын
To go your entire life without knowing true love is one of the most painful ideas I could think of but to do it because of fairytales is so sad.
@mytoesarecold5555
@mytoesarecold5555 Жыл бұрын
It’s horrifying.
@missysemien1241
@missysemien1241 2 жыл бұрын
Wow!!! This right here 🔥🔥🔥
@Christine123-v5q
@Christine123-v5q 2 жыл бұрын
🙌 Glory to GOD ALMIGHTY
@jodywheeler6899
@jodywheeler6899 Жыл бұрын
God bless everyone and this message is so powerful and important as well as respectful.
@secretthegreat
@secretthegreat 2 жыл бұрын
This is so sad and scary. I encourage everyone to be who you are. God created us to love. Period. Doesn't matter who. ❤️ Just love yourself and others.
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