Best Friends Get Brutally Honest About Their Bodies | Iris

[@SadeWatkins]

the pregnant comment hit me right in the heart :(

[@sadej.2697]

sade watkins Hey we have the same name. that's awesome a lot of people don't have our name

[@KimmiePie1]

BabySADE 05 how do you pronounce it

[@infinitehype]

kimmie pie Say-Da

[@sadej.2697]

•Infinite Hype• you are 250% wrong

[@akittynamedcat]

shaw-day

[@kalylakickrocks]

Wtf, they're both extremely beautiful!!!! Ugh this hurt to watch 😢

[@kandijones1421]

agreed. total #cringe I stopped about a minute in... 😣😯😔😞

[@laurensuty2760]

It hurt to watch only because I'm going through the same thoughts they are, and it hard to know that other people go through that too.

[@kelseyo7734]

Just because in your opinion someone is beautiful, doesn't mean that they feel beautiful. It hurt me to see them so hurt with themselves, but I honestly understood where it came from. I think almost everyone has had these thoughts, but these girls are considered "prettier", so their self-doubt is less worthy??? I don't think that's true at all. No hate meant at all, I just think they SHOULDN'T think these about themselves, but they do, and we need to accept that and change it from there.

[@wewewewewewewewwewe]

Kelsey Osteen Wow....it isn’t that deep

[@qumu872]

That’s not true.They are quite ugly. That’s just the truth.

[@daydreamer7745]

I wouldn't last 5 seconds before I would have to go and comfort my friend and tell her she is beautiful and that she doesn't need to change for anyone.

[@browniediamond5975]

Day Dreamer77 SAME THO

[@daydreamer7745]

I know my best friend struggles with her body and whenever she critiques herself or puts herself down I have to fight back tears because she is gorgeous her body is perfect and more importantly she is intelligent, funny and unbelievably kind to everyone and she deserves to see how wonderful she is outside and in.

[@amirah5044]

I wish I had a friend like you ❤️

[@anchi8760]

I wish i had a bestfriend like you 💔. My "bestfriend" always called me a "fat joke" until she moved to another country without a goodbye or an explanation or a simple message. She just left.

[@caitlinschilbe7753]

Day Dreamer77 I wish I had a best friend like you. Then again that means I have to actually have friends.

[@madeleinefridenmaker9139]

They are both beautiful girls. It's so sad they feel that way.

[@yelezi7950]

that's a lie, the truth hurts. lol

[@yelezi7950]

the bigger one definitely isn't beautiful unless, we have different definitions of beautiful

[@Alex-sw1oy]

@@yelezi7950 ur so negative and for what??

[@witchplease9695]

@@Alex-sw1oy He’s a troll ignore him

[@georgiak9600]

I cried an insane amount. An insane amount. Everything they said has run through my mind so many times

[@ItsLaurenTime]

that makes me so sad to hear. it's sad: i think all women, whether they struggle with eating disorders or not, can relate to this. i certainly can.

[@none4530]

Lauren Lumsden I agree. We all go through these feelings, whether they are only for a few seconds or if they last a life time. Insecurities suck, but everyone has them. I myself am a man, and I greatly relate to your comment, and I thank you for helping people realize that they aren't alone in feeling this way about themselves.

[@anamira2908]

Lol

[@ningadanny1135]

itsjustme crying is just a chemical reaction so yea

[@vengeancegq6ro]

Dont be a bitch

[@NiaMSnow]

the scene is SO much better than BuzzFeed!!!

[@crackasscrackle]

agreed.

[@arib2042]

Everyone is better than Buzzfeed

[@infinitehype]

SunKissNicole hell yeah!

[@dragonsfightergirl]

SunKissNicole yep

[@dominique480]

I've only watched maybe two of the scene's videos so far but I think you might be right. also, you're so pretty 😊

[@alxxla3211]

I feel like if dudes were to do this it would end up in a naked fist fight in the middle of time square

[@flan2421]

Or a lot of laughter

[@nasraawad33]

Yah😂😂

[@duvetbyboaa]

Edgar Urrutia IM LAUGHING SO HARD

[@vgkallday1096]

Edgar Urrutia or a dick size argument lol

[@Kollii111]

The tears started to fall until I read this comment. Thanks for making me laugh!

[@hilhianahgarces]

I'm female and I find both girls beautiful. I can't believe that they feel this way about themselves. They live with such torture everyday, and I can't even imagine how that feels like.

[@yelezi7950]

just because you have a negative opinion about yourself doesn't make it torture lol

[@unknownperson3947]

damn she is double crossing her legs. i honestly thought i was the only one that could do that 1:54

[@blaze.eliana]

Animal Girl lol I do it too

[@kingstonb8130]

Animal Girl everyone does that

[@Ashley-qk6xz]

I'm doing that rn lol

[@ms.mittenz]

i do it

[@malakkhaled2804]

Animal Girl I can’t do it lmao

[@randomdude4628]

Oh my God I didn't read the beginning and thought they were saying what they thought about each other I was petrified.

[@bellarich8857]

Random Dude me too i was like wtf

[@emnettesfaye4510]

I'm not trying to make them feel better but they r really beautiful!!!

[@yelezi7950]

stop lyin

[@Alex-sw1oy]

@@yelezi7950 no lies detected bae :)

[@macyrose9767]

The girl on the left is like me in almost every way.

[@Megalodanman1029]

Macy Rose yup I can see that😂

[@macyrose9767]

Megalodanman1029 But shes really pretty so i'm good. XD

[@kbeng.8274]

Macy Rose LUCKY

[@zyzzzane185]

Macy Rose lmao not that hard to lose weight

[@mawniez]

Zyzz Zane it's different for everyone losing weight may be easy for you but not for others🙄

[@pikablu4046]

This just sounds like a chill ass roast session.

[@kanieraliapeng724]

go eat a seed ugly HAHA😂😂

[@tylersstolencarradio5483]

Honestly

[@nickydiaz5055]

go eat a seed ugly they are talking about them self

[@DarknessQueenish]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@taylortwister5212]

go eat a seed ugly ikr

[@josermtz]

lmao i thought they were talking to each other

[@marcelchalobah7946]

Different

[@immel3534]

SAME OMG 💀💀💀

[@stephaniewood5640]

Me too dude. I was like, "Is this for real? How are they not strangling eachother?"

[@Warde04]

Same, I thought they were gonna throw hands

[@aisteguobuzaite]

Same😂

[@ella_7275]

Ohhhhh they're talking about their own bodies

[@jai-ln9im]

No, they are saying that to eachother lol

[@CraftingWithTopaz]

Jai B about their own bodies

[@muacici]

This video actually made me tear up because I can relate to Alyssa SO much. It hurts not loving the way you look but sometimes you just can't help it, especially if you suffer from body dysmorphia or anything similar.

[@twentynechemicaldiscs4210]

Jøshua Dun same...but cliquee

[@eln5106]

ii_Itz_ Wøoshiëz Yeah I suffer from body dysmorphia. Haven’t been able to look in the mirror without a very covering headscarf on for almost two years. I’ve suffered from it for over two years and it’s so different from just insecurities.

[@lavendar-skies]

bruh if my and my friend did this we would not only cry but i think we would cry our eyes out

[@hellnaw7921]

Baka -chan I would beat my friend's ass.

[@kyrastewart5922]

they are talking about their own bodies, not one another's.

[@guitargeek5584]

It should have been kept secret until the end that these things were actually about themselves

[@jaejoongkim4926]

That doesn't even make sense, how would they keep it a secret when they are both participating. Obviously they would both know...

[@guitargeek5584]

Sorry, I should have been more specific - I meant kept secret from us as the audience so throughout the video we think they're insulting each other then at the end the truth is revealed to us

[@jaejoongkim4926]

guitar geek oh, yeah that could have been a good idea actually

[@Energypoints23]

guitar geek you missed the first 18 seconds, or you never read what it said

[@jograi4728]

guitar geek yh and then loads of ignorant people would start raging in the comments writing shit before they even watch the whole vid.

[@mariastafu1139]

this fucked me up so much.

[@kittikat2345]

"Why don't you look like her". That hurts. How I feel about myself

[@chamek5141]

oh my lord, i'm crying over this. this is so touching and beautiful

[@gabriellelee4558]

Two years later and this still impacts me. I made a commitment to treat myself the way my best friend would treat me when I first saw this video, but since that time I've forgotten my commitment to myself. I'm renewing this commitment now, and I expect I'll renew it later, too.

[@youtubeguy1adiy590]

I respect them for that it takes courage. #truefreinds

[@Emilia-zz7sc]

I watched this video with the thought that they are saying these things about each other and I imagined how I would have felt so disappointed when my best friend would say that. Then I found out in the comment section that they actually said these things about themselves, I started to cry immediately. It's so sad how they make themselves down and worse. I wish they could see the beautiful things that other people see in them. Dear myself, please follow your own advice too and don't be so harsh to yourself, so that it will hopefully affect other people in your life and change your and their way of living in a much more happy way.

[@keelykatmarie4470]

Because you are your own person and they're someone else. And you care for them. That's why.

[@dizzycherry6475]

Just imagine hearing about how your best friend feels about her body... I'd be so sad. I live their friendship though! The way they keep holding their hands and comforting themselves. The way the smiled and laughed at the end so sweet.

[@shuga9658]

me and my best friend are always supportive of each other. we both have a past in depression and eating disorders and though we put ourselves down a lot we are always there to pick the other one up, encourage the other to eat more when we don't feel hungry or haven't eaten in a few hours (though we didnt know each other in those times), we joke around a lot, and its just honestly the best. I'm so grateful to have her in my life because I don't know where I would be without her. She's made me more confident as a person and helped me in so many ways. This video, I think would be a great thing for anyone to do as I can see how it helps. we all have flaws. And I think practically everyone has cellulite, It makes us who we are

[@JustThatGirI]

Honestly a best friend is a gift from God. I love how open these two are with each other & how they seem to have each other's backs. Hope they can find some inner peace and see what I see--two very stylish women with a lot of inner and outer positive attributes.

[@yasmina8348]

aw I like that quote, be a bestfriend to yourself!!

[@hm.ok.798]

Fuck, that's so sweet.

[@llamberdallama6965]

I can't take this comment seriously because of the profile picture YEEE

[@butterflygirl9346]

+Llamber DaLlama me too XF

[@hm.ok.798]

Llamber DaLlama yee

[@MoonSun00]

Ugh this hurts to watch! You both are beautiful inside and out, beautiful skin, body shape, face, hair, etc. Do you know how many girls everyday try to make their butt's bigger, bigger lips, hips, breast, and so on, just to have the same things that you have? People who say that are actually haters of themselves!

[@masterturtle-duck]

Yeah I hate literally every dimension and detail of my body, including my smile and voice so it sucks a ton to feel this way about yourself. I can relate to where they're coming from.

[@blisspowers9314]

omg they are literally 2 of the most genuinely beautiful girls I've ever seen this is so sad to watch

[@FrankieSee]

I'm literally crying... this was pretty powerful

[@ruqaiyahkhan8145]

Regardless of what society tells you, you both are beautiful and strong women!

[@Janet2684]

This duo! Hope to see more videos from them. You can just tell they have a great, supportive friendship. AND they are beautiful inside and out!

[@annao3212]

Honestly when I look at them both, I can't understand how they dont love how the look. I know that sounds completely cheese but they're both so beautiful. The brown girls lips are amazing, I love the way her eyes look when she smiles, I admire how she can pull of everything, including her nose. And the white girls is honestly really lovely, shes so perfect looking, her skin is clear, her hair is healthy and shes such a perfect weight. I cant believe how they dont like how they look, but i think everyone experiences this, we always want to be someone else, and when we realise that we cant, then we start to absolutely despise ourselves. But the thing is, even the people we want to look like want to look like someone else, its this never ending cycle of wanting to change. I think that the only way that we can be truely happy about ourselves is realising that we are who we are, sure we can get nose jobs and drasically change the way our face looks, but in the end its never going to be enough. when we realise that theres no hope, that Im going to look like adrianna lima or that youre never going to look like johnny depp i think that thats just the start of self love is accepting that you are who you are and that theres no one exactly like you. There may not be any reason as to why we're here on earth but Id rather go out everyday loving myself and not caring if others love how i look or not than staying in bed and not wanting to go anywhere because Im scared that someones going to judge me on how I look. life is short and it shouldnt be wasted on things that dont make you happy

[@Heeroneko]

Ya'll shoulda done more than just one pair of friends.

[@camilleduquet]

why do people hate themselves that much

[@lostinmyheadx3671]

Camille Duquet noome tought us we were all artworks. all they told us wat that healty was pretty. curvy was healty, so that makes fat ugly right? and it doesnt help that they dont teach us about bodytypes so we see eachother as to fat or to thin while in fact alot off us are healty. so we atomaticaly classify 1.unhealty people 2. people with "bad" fashion 3.people that we see as umhealty 4. girls that "dont have ass" 5. boys that dont look buff and so much more as not perfect enough. not realising that the only person that is perfect enough in each and every way is barby. and when a human being looks like her she is considered creapy. its hard to love yourself if you have all the reasons to consider yourself not perfect enough and noone teaches you any to love yourself anyway.

[@RaizanMedia]

lost in my head X but healthy is pretty. being healthy should be top priority. also, babies can be ugly as shit

[@RaizanMedia]

just to add. we are not all artworks.

[@dannapasos4724]

Societies ideals about a woman’s body is awful. Society is what causes woman to be insecure and unhappy. But, we must learn to love ourselves no matter what people say. It’s hard, but in a perfect world society would accept any body shape and i hope that starts now.

[@ClayMastah344]

Kitten Lyric the inside definitely doesn’t matter much to the world.

[@dapunkdapunk7072]

That's incredible how much people have insecurities about their body and yet you find a lot of beauty in them. We should all, in an utopian best world, openly talks about our insecurities without fearing anyone judgment. Really, because insecurities like that could destroy someone's life or confidence in the long term :(

[@zoe.cato.]

before i had watched this video i had finished watching the video with them talking about race and the whole time i kept thinking that they were both so pretty and then i watched this one and now I'm so sad they feel this way about themselves but i completely relate

[@michelle5254]

This truly made me cry to know that each woman goes through their insecurities and we know it, yet we can still manage to find a way to judge each other, compete with one another, and not work together. You are ALL beautiful. There is nothing wrong with you, because we are all made special - different.

[@shyshyshy6788]

They're both beautiful. Wtf.

[@sadiehart8321]

they are both beautiful, how can they think this of themselves?! i’m so shocked i can’t even get over how pretty they both are!!

[@saraj8843]

Me and my best friend would 100% laugh if we were in there place for no reason

[@adia1568]

These are honestly the best best friends on the internet. Fight me but it's true. This is such a wholesome video.

[@green_ball_monster8142]

I hate this, but I love this as well.

[@Kpop_Metalhead]

Those two made me cry. I always think of that everyone has insecurities. it's just important not to be controlled by them. Easier said than done sometimes.

[@lungilethompson5288]

PSA: When you compliment someones insecurities , it doesn't ease it.

[@goldentea6318]

They are literally friendship goals

[@deleteaman]

Two men and this is a roast competition.

[@anewloveofficial9137]

They are both beautiful and young but sometimes we have to admit that we really need that someone who would tell us honestly what are the good and bad things about us.

[@sia.offline]

i would never think or say that to my friends..

[@pandalover1238]

Assia El Bahja it wasn't for them in the first place...it's how they feel about themselves

[@sia.offline]

pandalover1238 Ohhhh okok thank u for explaining omg how dumb lol

[@briggstondade4986]

Assia El Bahja it was written about them directed toward their Best friend

[@pandalover1238]

In order to show that the words that they direct towards themselves..would they say that to their buddies?? It gives them an insight that if they can't save it to their loved ones they shouldn't direct it to themselves like that.

[@Rosieeeee]

Assia El Bahja you're dumb

[@aashnarana8642]

what the heck they're both so sooo beautiful. how can they do this to themselves. they are so perfect

[@Tigerheiress]

Why was this so mean they got more aggressive the more insults were said.

[@jaejoongkim4926]

They're not insulting each other... they're reading the insults they say about themselves to each other, it makes you think about how we don't want to hurt others but have no problem doing it to ourselves. It's not mean..

[@amandaontheroad478]

This was very eye opening. I hate the way i look. But i look at those ladies and i think "wow! They r both STUNNING! why would they feel this way? It makes me want to raise up the people in my life, cause u never know how much they are tearing themselves down. A simple "u look beautiful today" can really make a difference

[@SabRina-em9jv]

they both look very pretty

[@briannacaylen2372]

This video is so important.

[@kassidydunnigan1998]

I really like the quote that we should not say things about ourselves that we wouldn't say to our best friends. We need to be our own best friends too. My best friend is one of the most beautiful people I know and everything about her is just amazing and I would never say anything different to her because it would be untrue. I like that message and hope to think more positively like that. Maybe when I look in the mirror now I will learn to be more kind to myself.

[@dreikron5807]

DAYUM SON THAT COLD

[@claudiaw5632]

These woman are incredibly brave. I couldn't imagine vocalising the thoughts I have about myself, especially to someone close to me

[@brianoneal6484]

at first i thought they were calling eachother that becuz i cant read lmao

[@billierichardson6844]

THEY ARE BOTH SO GORGEOUS. It's so sad that women and men both think they have to look a certain way to be loved and appreciated.

[@haleypeal3395]

oh this hurts...

[@melalien333]

This is common in a lot of people everyone has their struggles and no matter how much you tell someone their beautiful it never works it'll put a smile on their face but when it comes to eat or to dress or to take photos...its gone. That smile is no longer there and neither are the words "you're beautiful". Some people can call someone else beautiful but not themselves and thats not true because you are beautiful..yeah YOU! Not your friend your mom your sister (them too but this is about you) but YOU your 1 in a million smile 1 in a million voice and 1 in a million body. YOU are beautiful.

[@Alexis-tv1yx]

Goddamn... this is powerful. ❤️❤️

[@anat6395]

I love their friendship! I wish they knew just how beautiful inside and out they both are.

[@mirandan]

01:06 Look at that slight change in her facial expression :(

[@jroc2k]

Regardless of what these women say about their bodies, they are still beautiful! God bless them.

[@ssgwithvans2618]

if your pregnant your nose spreads?!

[@crissyk.1602]

SSG With Vans Its pregnancy hormones so your nose gets broader and your lips get bigger ect.

[@daehnihc]

damn i dont want my nose to get bigger than it already is im literally never getting pregnant bye

[@rensbrand5176]

@@crissyk.1602 Pressumably so a baby can recognize a face better or smth along those lines?

[@youngcuba12]

Fuuuuuck, this made me cry. It was like they were talking about me instead, lol. I cry sometimes because my body isn't like all the other boys. Flat or toned. I kinda don't like being thick, but it's in my genes and I have to accept that.

[@TastyPancakes]

great video

[@clementine4133]

Friendship is one of the most beautiful things ever. It is a place of love, of support, of allowed vulnerability. To all good friends in the world: love and peace and congrats. To all who are seeking a friendship like "that": be a good friend and let it come to you. Love and peace.

[@coluthouse8519]

Well Damn Can They At Less Say One Nice Thing To Each Other

[@Animuse94]

Well it's really difficult sometimes to feel good about your own body

[@mp-po3go]

They're talking about themselves

[@Rosieeeee]

Dead In Side you're a dumbass

[@risingstars3478]

omg your profile picture

[@nickydiaz5055]

*COLUT HOUSE* they were talking about them self(:

[@lucilel6206]

I'm crying so bad they deserve so much better they're both strong and beautiful women

[@k4ylaaaaa]

i’m gonna cry

[@kierrashavers4579]

Almost all of these hit me in the heart.

[@mom4144]

This was way too far wtf.

[@nothanks3946]

Mo Maniaa how

[@pepper387]

Mo Maniaa They were saying things about THEIR OWN bodies, and telling their friend how they feel about THEIR OWN body. They weren't being rude to their friend.

[@joefather2463]

it was actually a roast session

[@Staeebrate]

That's the way they feel and it's sad

[@MinMin-qw5gn]

Mo M if anything this is really good. You wouldn't be so harsh to your best friend so you gotta be less harsh to yourself too and through this maybe they are kinder to themselves seeing how they affected their best friend with their opinions

[@deniseelias-wu4973]

They are both so brave and beautiful. I feel very inspired by their courage and vulnerability.

[@sinclate]

Damn

[@lilayyy422]

I don't know if they'll ever read this, but they are some of the most beautiful people I have ever seen. Not only are they beautiful on the outside, but you can tell that they are amazing, kind, strong, smart, and open minded on the inside as well.

[@traveldiaries6864]

Wait are they judging each other or themselves

[@amypurnell6026]

Keisha Oboh themselves

[@shaniwhelan3949]

😂😂

[@HaleyShay]

if my best friend ever said anything bad about her self i would lose it. she's so stunning inside and out i love her so much

[@ashaganaga3229]

Omg this was hard to watch wtf

[@Asdfgqedfglo]

I am a brutally blunt person. Not on purpose. I was just born with out a filter. With that being said, these two women are so beautiful. Not just on the outside either. I hope one day they can see what I see when I look at them. They’re both gorgeous in their own ways. Beauty comes in all shapes, sizes and colors! That’s what beautiful is, it’s being different, looking different. Anyway just my opinion lol

[@helena4973]

why would they do that ?

[@jaejoongkim4926]

To make you think about what you're saying to yourself. You would never say those mean things to your friend or someone you care about, but we often have no problem saying them about ourselves. If we don't want to hurt others, why do we hurt ourselves?

[@maggygranja]

this really made me cry a lot.... they really look just great, they have no idea... This is just so sad it hurts.

[@sarag.1152]

wait, your nose gets bigger when you get pregnant?

[@chanyeolssebootycrack6378]

I didn't even know about that..

[@rensbrand5176]

Duh thats where the fetus is growing

[@DemiB922]

I love these two women. Their friendship is beautiful.

[@keithsim2914]

Be happy with yourself. Macdonalds is just round the corner.

[@luliscott2513]

Keith Sim *McDonalds

[@madison-vx2uv]

When she said “he wouldn’t have cheated if I was skinnier” really made me wanna cry😭😭

[@PURPL3D3ADM0US3]

I feel like this would ruin my friendship Tf??

[@picadegallochujr.6901]

It's how they feel about their own bodies not each other's. It says it in the beginning of the video.

[@amyd2277]

😂😂

[@222taylormarie]

This broke my heart, I feel a lot of this pain and I tell myself a lot of this everyday. This is so beautiful they are both such beautiful women and I couldn’t imagine taking my insecurities and aiming them at my bestfriend just so I could see how badly I am hurting myself.

[@flippityfloppitytheschools8018]

i would start laughing lmao

[@kaylafrederic1137]

Elizabeth ......why?

[@katherinescully6646]

You, ladies, are full of strength and courage! .... And you have absolutely GORGEOUS LAUGHS, you two! ... ❤❤👑👑

[@horatiocaine5803]

woow

[@yoko8668]

they’re both so gorgeous and beautiful. It makes me feel so sad people can think these things about their body.

[@SkepticalSpectacle]

Okay am i the only one that sees that neither of them are ugly?

[@RaizanMedia]

Xavier Smith they are average

[@joyjoyforever]

RaizanMedia *beautiful

[@goldmind9399]

RaizanMedia average is good tho

[@itsbeautifulamyah2767]

The way they looked at each other

[@TutorialsbyJule]

is this serious ? idgi

[@FrezzerFred]

Yes it's a dead serious reality for a lot of people.