BFF Broke My Trust By Getting Pregnant With My Husband While he Cheated...

BFF Broke My Trust By Getting Pregnant With My Husband While he Cheated... And Then My Own Mother Tried to Convince Me To Give Them Full Custody of My Kids!
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[@DarkEinherjar]

Dev proved that OP was right in hiding her wealthy background... dude went full gold digger mode the moment he found out.

[@XaraK1]

I believe she read that in him and knew and pretended hiding it was to protect herself and him. I'm always shocked by how much women will actively dismiss their sixth sense and their intuition the second a male is interested

[@_juju_jojo_]

Yet it flew over her head like a X-43🤦‍♀️

[@Shyhalu]

Dude is paying all the ***** bills, of course he would get upset.

[@_juju_jojo_]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@Shyhaluwhat are you talking about? He had no right to her money at all, they weren't even living together when she revealed her generational wealth, she had her own job, and she wanted to split the bills 50/50 but he refused, it took OP’s dad to threaten him to start paying bills. He ended up being a pos husband and deadbeat so why are you trying to defend him?

[@oonachestnut509]

​@@ShyhaluNo he wasn't.

[@SYLVESTER-6782]

Bruh OP's Dad and Kayla's Mom are the only one in this story that aren't dumb or an asshole.

[@dokuganryu1565]

And OP

[@krazykrazy8513]

@@dokuganryu1565 ye

[@SYLVESTER-6782]

@@dokuganryu1565 I kinda disagree because OP chose to marry Dev who is a lazy bum before marriage even though he said he was hardworking. She paid for most of not all of the bills before and after marriage. I believe, if she never knew about the cheating, she would've stayed with him until the truth was revealed since Kayla was pregnant. I'm glad she divorced his loser ass and got custody but then again, she should've seen these red flags. I also hope she goes NC with her mom since she's a delusional woman.

[@SYLVESTER-6782]

@@dokuganryu1565 I disagree because OP should've seen all those red flags. Dev was a lazy bum before and after the marriage. If OP didn't find out about the cheating, she most likely would've stayed with Dev until Kayla would reveal the truth. It's good she left his loser ass but I feel like she should never have been with this scumbag.

[@_juju_jojo_]

@@dokuganryu1565did you not read or hear the dumbass decisions OP made? I somehow doubt your neither blind nor death

[@ZedBeiFeng]

Is he sleeping with the mom too why the hell is the mom loyal to him for?

[@albertgongora6944]

It's probably possible because the mom cheated on op dad and she has that whole entire mentality to have sympathy for another cheater which would be the ex husband and the ex best friend

[@Gabbz737NEW]

​@@albertgongora6944 That was my thought exactly

[@wednesdayschildfullofwoe]

​@@albertgongora6944 No. It's call internalized misogyny. She strikes me as a woman who cares a lot about appearances whether they're real or not. And she didn't want the "shame" of having a daughter who couldn't keep a man. So she made excuses for this man by blaming her. All to keep the look of a perfect family.

[@michellemurry2180]

Exactly, my thoughts. She must've been a terrible mother throughout the years. Thus, the reason the op is almost a doormat.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

This and this i dig

[@leocarnage1116]

So dev and kylie ruin not 1 but 2 marriages and broke up 3 families all due to their selfishness

[@_juju_jojo_]

Don’t forget OPs mother. If it weren’t for her it’d only be 2 families

[@Olimar92]

That's a record for the stories I see. Now if Kylie was Married, than it would be 3 for 3.

[@Digetwizard]

The second Dev raised his voice about OP paying his bills and rent should be the moment OP says "There's the door. Fuck off"

[@jkrenee]

Exactly!

[@lanrelara9481]

This man was a walking red flag when they were just dating, why the hell did she say yes?

[@Arcane_Route_66]

Some folks think that marriage will change a person for the better. But marriage can also twist someone into something ugly.

[@yeyosilver7067]

Because she probably thought she could fix him

[@stucktrick5757]

Women ☕️

[@alltheframes9015]

He was probably extremely hot and had some good qualities that made her blind to the imminent red flags in their relationship

[@blessedcutie8983]

She stupidly thought love would conquer all.

[@mygingerbreadheart4037]

Yeah DEV is a walking red flag but OP is surrounded by snakes so it makes sense that her judgement is off. Her whole social circle is ass and it obviously destroyed her self worth.

[@Ullabulladulla]

I feel so sad for op, she has no support and is being exploited. Why would she ever be with Dev?? He is awful and bad.

[@gtdc4685]

She still has her dad 🐐

[@LODintheshadows]

Would say jot whole, maybe inner, but seems that all their mutual friends at least turned on dev and Kylie

[@madambutterfly1997]

It is not the wife's job to keep her man from cheating it's the man's job to acknowledge that he has a good thing and shouldn't be destroying it for something as pathetic as short-term satisfaction

[@c.b.h1151]

Amen.

[@MrMacHnus]

And vice versa

[@phiIphil]

facts ----> ​@@MrMacHnus(truther)

[@Shyhalu]

If you are marrying the top 20% of men, yes it is your job to keep him from cheating. You can't expect to keep a guy drowning in pssy.

[@SNEAKEE_P]

​@@MrMacHnusfully aware of that, but is this story about a cheating female spouse?

[@vishwajitk3699]

OP's mom too definitely cheated

[@christinahosey9746]

Probably with Dev

[@karenmariewalker143]

Kylie being cut from her mom's, and being replaced by her former best friend has REALLY got to hurt!😮😮😮😮

[@LODintheshadows]

That's the tastiest part of revenege there. Op may have lost a mother, but at least seemed to get a better one

[@TOBCYT]

2:52 The *MINUTE* I heard the words “Prove my love for him” it was an immediate no. That sounded like a textbook manipulation tactic.

[@Hearts444Shaniaa]

Thank goodness her dad made her sign a prenup because without it her husband would’ve got half

[@Cthulus_left_tentacle]

11:30 Even the baby knows his dad’s a deadbeat and is getting a job

[@TheUltimateIdiot69]

I think the OOP meant Dev is “getting a job” and not the toddler.

[@izzywolflover]

I noticed that too and thought it was pretty funny

[@nep6483]

Yes 😂

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I can never imagine supporting my daughter's abusive husband. And the fact that she only believed her daughter's suffering when it was convenient for her to use it against her own daughter??? Is that mother jealous? Or is this a fake story because that mom is cartoonishly vile.

[@LODintheshadows]

Oh what a surprise for Kylie, the dead beat dad she stole from her best friend turned out to be a dead beat dad 😱 love to hear more on her reactions, begging anyone for help. Realising how she ruined all her relationships for a guy that was clearly just using her

[@HikariSings]

OP's dad is tbh a dope dude

[@pamlew338]

IS YOUR MOTHER SLEEPING WITH DEV?

[@hannahpinson4361]

There were clear red flags, but I think she was looking at him with rose-colored glasses. I remember this saying from a show I haven't watched in a long time, don't even remember what it's called. A guy said, "When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags."

[@highonmoss]

I believe this is a quote from BoJack HorseMan on Netflix, though I don't remember which character

[@Ullabulladulla]

And she clearly has low self-esteem and desperately lacks therapy.

[@tiffanychill8219]

Yes and I'm sure her mother raised her to be a doormat and until you get over your childhood you will be a doormat!!

[@kalcibone]

Talk to Kylie's mother and offer her a place as your kids grandparent. she seems better then your mother. let mother find out the true karma of her betrayal by disowning her and making Kylie's mother new grandma.

[@yunoisreal757]

Her mother saying that SINGLE MOTHERS are like that is bs.... She is not a single mother...she is marry

[@yeahyeahyeah3724]

The ex-bestfriend is so dvmb. Out of ALLLLLL PEOPLE, it's not just that she fell in love with her best friend's husband. She knows almost first hand about how of a bum that guy is. He has no job and leeches of his wife. And she wanted to start a family with... THAT??? WHAT A CLOWNNN 🤡

[@CatValentine1995]

Probably thought to herself she was the better choice & she'd be able to change him🤣🤣🤣🤡

[@bryn1063]

You know she's going to be a single mom too. Congratulations Kylie! You ruined your life for an unemployed bum. And you definitely don't got the money to fund his lifestyle. 🤡

[@NadiaGirl1]

That’s what I said

[@theartalli]

Yall this is why it’s so important to focus on yourselves, have standards and boundaries and have the knowledge to know when people are abusing you in any way. Know your rights.

[@theartalli]

Also THANK GOD for Ops dad 😭😭😭

[@angel.404]

why the hell does the story keep on messing dev and james up, its pissing me off

[@MistressOP]

For half a second I'm like is dev effing the mom LMAO cos she was so crazy towards the end. What pandoras box mental break was her mother having?

[@CriticalRP]

your dad is the real hero... seeing through bullshit, planning ahead... being there for you in all your times of need. glad u divorced him!

[@jason-gf8dg]

It makes me so angry that she put up with all this.

[@morganleanderblake678]

okay, the way a sane person reacts to finding out their bf/gf is independently wealthy is to say, "Hm, good for you" and move on with your day. This was so many red flags it could be a bl--dbath and no one would notice.

[@mercuriallily]

"I feel like i have noone and everyone will betray me" Uhhh your dad had your back from day one and hes fought to keep you going, and even broke up with your AH mom... what do you mean you have noone, you have an awesome father

[@agus_mimi]

he was a walking RED FLAG, nothing about him before marrige seemed nice or lovely... and after it? just straight up cruel and awful... edit: also the mother is horrible person.

[@tipr.999]

Now we kind of understand how OP was okay with her Ex's treatment for so long. Thanks to her egg donor. This probably isn't the first time OP's egg donor has been horrible to her.

[@_juju_jojo_]

You would think being a single parent you would try your damn hardest to make sure your son was a hard working honorable man your Partner be proud of.

[@notting2640]

AI got the names mixed up 😂

[@faeriegraver]

I know it was so jarring 😬

[@XaraK1]

Yo OP only has opps in her life, except her saint of a dad and her ex bestie's mom 😮

[@keyradewinasari6646]

Man, I really feel her. I was born in a rich family. I'm working as a teacher. When my friend visit me because I sick, they just realize how big my house. After that, some of them would tease me if I have wear new cloth, having something new. Like "It's nice to be you huh? Always have a new stuff" Bro, I buy it myself, I'm never begging my parents to buy me something expensive or pay for me. I pay for myself

[@Da.Shanks.]

Dev had more red flags than a Soviet parade on Victory Day. As much as I like to suspend my disbelief for these kinds of stories, the stench of bull on this is just too strong

[@Silver_Phoenix999]

This story reminded me of a another one with similar circumstances. The wife who just gave birth was suffering from PPD and the husband cheated. She wanted a divorce but the husband used her PPD against her in court and got full custody. Her Family even helped the cheating husband by saying she's mentally unstable. In the post she said she didn't see her children for 20 years.

[@NadiaGirl1]

Wow can you tell the rest of the story please

[@chrissy6822]

DEv is the husband. James is the son. Get it right.

[@DarkEinherjar]

Of all the karma in this story, Kylie being replaced by OP in her mother's will and Dev abandoning her with the baby is the most delicious. The only possible cherry on top of this karmic cake would be if that manchild cheats on her, which will probably happen in the near future.

[@ritaerror7829]

Well, it would be nice if Dev got more consequences...

[@Crystal-uz1fi]

Considering he didn’t want to marry her and want nothing to do with the baby, I’d say they aren’t together and he ditched her. Honestly, I don’t know what she was expecting sleeping with the guy and thinking he’d actually leave his marriage for her when she knew the sort of guy he was.

[@bryn1063]

​@@ritaerror7829yeah but he's broke. For a gold digger that's the worst punishment of them all 🤣

[@austinowens1324]

Dad leaves the mother to stand in solidarity with his daughter, his daughter "I feel like there's nobody on my side"😂😂😂😂

[@totopablo9482]

Wow..... just.... wow. I've no words for op's mother.

[@user-zj3ij3rc6p]

I totally agree with everyone, this guy was a walking red flag 🚩. You had no backbone . He is a gold digger and a mooch

[@trashotaku]

Op is one of the most textbook examples of a married single mother I have ever heard

[@deadsouljaguar7041]

The more I listened to this story, the more I remembered hearing this story before awhile back and it always makes me wonder why the hell people still cheat these days while still being with their partner.

[@lmaocopter101]

Man these fake stories become real funny when the author mixes up the names. Like why does the baby have to get a job? or why does the baby need to worry about if he is getting custody of the "kids"

[@Adwiti_Mishra]

Ikr. My mind would automatically correct "James" to "Dev" 😂😂

[@benstrubel4259]

Glad I'm not the only person to notice this

[@SNEAKEE_P]

I just thought she's been calling him Dev the entire time, but his name was really James. 😅

[@kiaowens2856]

She should have left at that first red flag. Because he showed exactly who he is.

[@misaandcoart]

I feel like he already knew and feigned not knowing to keep her from leaving. This guy singlehandedly ruined 2 relationships, her friendship, and fathered 2 unwanted (by him) children. What a waste of oxygen he is.

[@cerityplayz682]

OP's dad is a real one

[@Shy-_-Guy123]

21:13 21:15 she should be grateful (Not for her Situation or dev) but for her Dad that helps her the Whole Time

[@bryn1063]

And she is. I don't think anything about this post says she's ungrateful. Especially since her mom left.

[@sanddagger36]

The moment she revealed her wealth he stopped seeing her as a person and as an ATM

[@sayantanidebnath2633]

This is literally the plot of Marry my Husband i cant- Especially when she said "shes taking my trash from me" gurl i feel for sorry for her 😢

[@jkrenee]

He wasn't a red flag, he was an entire red parade. It sounds like she was love deprived from her evil mother and became codependent and unable to see him for who he really is.

[@adolfojuangarcia1906]

The OP sounds like an amazing woman!

[@OtakuFalcon]

Yo Great Respect to the OP's DAD brah ❤❤

[@enchanting.clouds]

Heard this on another channel and yea its messed up on many ways. Its just overall destruction.

[@ordomachinum4016]

That first arguement is the biggest red flag anyone could ever see in their life low key because it gives self accountability and effort towards togetherness not only op’sness

[@MariaEduarda-ln2ep]

Idk who's dumber, OP for marrying that bum or Kylie for having an affair and a kid with him after seeing how he treated his wife

[@CatValentine1995]

She probably thought, "He actually loves me, & will change for me" lolol🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@icysh4d0w51]

Bro that judge would never give full custody to dev even if OP wanted dev only used OP’s money never actually parented and the fact that your own kids didn’t even notice you being gone means you were never a father along with no job not knowing how to take care of a child and cheating the judge would laugh and say I would rather give the custody to OP’s parents than to dev

[@Albert_Wesker-oroboros]

I can’t count how many people just cave on so many important things bc they are blinded by love and ignore all the red flags in a relationship

[@Trini0408]

OPs mom had a purely 1950’s mindset, what a nut job

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Ok soo…Op’s dad and Kayla’s mom are the only decent adults in Op’s life but…i just don’t get WHY Op even gave him a chance in the first place. Literally no a single thing he did in this story made him even a REMOTELY decent person, he from the start was an abusive gold digging loser. I just don’t get what Op even saw in him

[@Kevbing9825]

I don’t why she didn’t divorce her husband sooner.

[@baratilegaffane9677]

The moment OP said "These red flags are clearly visible" at 11:00 I said 'no sh**'. I counted at least 15 red flags 🙄

[@smorphous8928]

The fact that the mother is siding with the same man who cheated on Op and Ops x best friend because she’s pregnant is beyond ridiculous.

[@hin0]

" men are sometimes lost on the path and it's our responsibility as women to guide them back " what are we a fucking compass ???

[@blitzvalentine363]

I've heard of mothers choosing their partners over their own children, but a mom choosing her child's partner over her own child? What the actual hell. Glad the dad was on his daughter's side

[@kusumsingh3754]

Complete Marry my husband story it is .. That's great u have your father on your side

[@David-cz9ej]

The mother... Omg... This mother....

[@hin0]

all three of them are horrible absolutely horrible but the mother baffles me the most. How can your own biological mother act and think that way. I know mother's can be terrible but not even my mom would go that far ( I think )

[@joannacarpenter6438]

Not even 2 minutes into the video, and I already know who th AH is.🙄

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

6:20 i feel that the reason Op Is doormat is because of her mother. I agree it's quite frustrating how low esteem people let people walk all over them. No matter how well u r doing in life, inner work is must, 🎉🎉

[@shuaibahammed7293]

You know its real when James achild decide to go to work even when his father Dev is not going 11:30

[@prettyinpinky5937]

How can any of this be real? Why let him even move in after that outburst?🙄

[@vexxama]

“Give me your money or you’re selfish!”

[@cjtimel]

Anyone gonna talk about how the op keeps calling her ex husband her child’s name???

[@UNDEMM]

Red flags were everywhere but she was colourblind

[@user-qz7rf4qt6g]

Mother is the real villain of this story. Husband is just a weak, pathetic man. But the mom is pure evil

[@dugowf766]

Can the AI not get the name consistent at least? Or is his full name Dev James?

[@gigistar5542]

OMG, UNBELIEVABLE. Are people stupid. People need to think before getting married.

[@handlesaredumb9]

This seems too wild to be real.

[@C9316]

OP should've known better, Dev was a loser even before they got married.

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

Thank God for op's dad. or else this would be another frustrating pitiful story and a ragebait

[@Hmmmm23459]

Amen ❤ Her faith in God has kept her

[@aaroncalvillo9473]

Welp, we now we know Dev's real name.

[@reginafarley1325]

The reason dev's friend was encouraging him to cheat is because the friend wants to break them up so he can try his luck with op. He wants to be the deadbeat that gets to use op for $$$. And I think op's mom has been having an affair with Dev too. She's probably being blackmailed by Dev. "If you don't take my side & make op take me back I'm going to tell your family what we've been up to."

[@flamingodahlia3703]

I would insist my father divorce my mother if he wanted to be in mine and my kids lives

[@kayleighdriessen]

If there's one thing worse than evil is people who enable or turn a blind eye to other people's blatant evil.

[@lynngrant533]

OP.’s mother didn’t FORCE her to give up the kids, she was TRYING to force her…!! I don’t think I’ve seen a more misused word than “force” in these stories.

[@disasterhamuaku]

The infant is getting a job before the dad is apparently.

[@DiorNdiaye]

💀right

[@JimBeamFiend53]

I don't think of myself as a violent man, but I don't think I would be able to stop myself in the case of OPs mom. Absolutely worthless excuse of a mother right their.

[@user-bf5vw8cu1n]

Dad is ways the world 🌎 and I can’t believe that the mother help the enmities instead of her own child

[@vyse6789]

Honestly its your fault for not leaving someone who didn’t respect you.

[@merix2741]

This is probably the most insane shit Ive heard.

[@emilyelizabeth2718]

The AI can’t keep the names straight… is James her son or her husband????

[@badwifi422]

I dunno what i was expecting from this video, but it definitely wasn't that! 🙊😭 Plus the amout of misogyny is CRAZY!!😱🤯

[@YRAT-mr8jq]

Skiped to 15 and didn't need the context. Bad husband, doormat wife and drama. Skipped to final update, I'm good.

[@KateTheCrocheter]

How the fuck she gonna have a baby with her best friends man after seeing how he acts? Like bruh 🤣

[@myMelody4life]

I think it's interesting how the misogynistic divorced friend of Dev who hates women likely because his ex cheated on him, ends up pushing his married guy friend to cheat

[@lorealsp.o.v.4607]

Though what happened to the OP is fucked up. Dev showed who he was when they moved in together. Too completely not want to pay bills showed exactly who he is. & him quitting his job because his PREGNANT WIFE was having a hard time doing her pregnancy was icing on the cake.

[@erikacabreja6186]

OP's mother is the worst.

[@ladyweasellou3367]

Yeah, the husband's spewed nothing but Red flag warnings but she jumped all over this.

[@premiumfruits3528]

The AI isn't even attempting to make them believable anymore. How many cliches and stereotypes can you fit into one story?

[@michellemurry2180]

THANK YOU! 🎉❤ I thought I was the only one to see this absolute nonsense. Everything was too convenient and predictable in a way.

[@vishwajitk3699]

Well even if this an AI story there indeed are tons of real life incidents super similar to this.

[@faeriegraver]

It kept on messing up the name of the husband. The husband was called Dev, and their son was called James. But on multiple occasions - I noticed at least three - Dev would be called James. I sometimes Google these to see if I can find an actual thread, or evidence of one (like it being deleted but reposted elsewhere) and often there's just nothing that matches.

[@kamaijou4791]

I always take these stories as a guessing game to what will happen next.

[@michellemurry2180]

@@faeriegraver Exactly 💯 👏