BFF Broke My Trust By Getting Pregnant With My Husband While he Cheated...

[@DarkEinherjar]

Dev proved that OP was right in hiding her wealthy background... dude went full gold digger mode the moment he found out.

[@XaraK1]

I believe she read that in him and knew and pretended hiding it was to protect herself and him. I'm always shocked by how much women will actively dismiss their sixth sense and their intuition the second a male is interested

[@_juju_jojo_]

Yet it flew over her head like a X-43🤦‍♀️

[@Shyhalu]

Dude is paying all the ***** bills, of course he would get upset.

[@_juju_jojo_]

⁠​⁠​⁠@@Shyhaluwhat are you talking about? He had no right to her money at all, they weren't even living together when she revealed her generational wealth, she had her own job, and she wanted to split the bills 50/50 but he refused, it took OP’s dad to threaten him to start paying bills. He ended up being a pos husband and deadbeat so why are you trying to defend him?

[@oonachestnut509]

​@@ShyhaluNo he wasn't.

[@Digetwizard]

The second Dev raised his voice about OP paying his bills and rent should be the moment OP says "There's the door. Fuck off"

[@jkrenee]

Exactly!

[@nightmarefanatic1819]

Yup. "You can either pay rent and no bills with me, or you can pay rent AND bills wherever you are when you get the fuck out of my house."

[@leocarnage1116]

So dev and kylie ruin not 1 but 2 marriages and broke up 3 families all due to their selfishness

[@_juju_jojo_]

Don’t forget OPs mother. If it weren’t for her it’d only be 2 families

[@Olimar92]

That's a record for the stories I see. Now if Kylie was Married, than it would be 3 for 3.

[@CriticalRP]

your dad is the real hero... seeing through bullshit, planning ahead... being there for you in all your times of need. glad u divorced him!

[@mygingerbreadheart4037]

Yeah DEV is a walking red flag but OP is surrounded by snakes so it makes sense that her judgement is off. Her whole social circle is ass and it obviously destroyed her self worth.

[@Ullabulladulla]

I feel so sad for op, she has no support and is being exploited. Why would she ever be with Dev?? He is awful and bad.

[@gtdc4685]

She still has her dad 🐐

[@LODintheshadows]

Would say jot whole, maybe inner, but seems that all their mutual friends at least turned on dev and Kylie

[@ZedBeiFeng]

Is he sleeping with the mom too why the hell is the mom loyal to him for?

[@albertgongora6944]

It's probably possible because the mom cheated on op dad and she has that whole entire mentality to have sympathy for another cheater which would be the ex husband and the ex best friend

[@Gabbz737NEW]

​@@albertgongora6944 That was my thought exactly

[@wednesdayschildfullofwoe]

​@@albertgongora6944 No. It's call internalized misogyny. She strikes me as a woman who cares a lot about appearances whether they're real or not. And she didn't want the "shame" of having a daughter who couldn't keep a man. So she made excuses for this man by blaming her. All to keep the look of a perfect family.

[@michellemurry2180]

Exactly, my thoughts. She must've been a terrible mother throughout the years. Thus, the reason the op is almost a doormat.

[@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona]

This and this i dig

[@karenmariewalker143]

Kylie being cut from her mom's, and being replaced by her former best friend has REALLY got to hurt!😮😮😮😮

[@LODintheshadows]

That's the tastiest part of revenege there. Op may have lost a mother, but at least seemed to get a better one

[@madambutterfly1997]

It is not the wife's job to keep her man from cheating it's the man's job to acknowledge that he has a good thing and shouldn't be destroying it for something as pathetic as short-term satisfaction

[@c.b.h1151]

Amen.

[@MrMacHnus]

And vice versa

[@philpko]

facts ----> ​@@MrMacHnus(truther)

[@Shyhalu]

If you are marrying the top 20% of men, yes it is your job to keep him from cheating. You can't expect to keep a guy drowning in pssy.

[@SNEAKEE_P]

​@@MrMacHnusfully aware of that, but is this story about a cheating female spouse?

[@LODintheshadows]

Oh what a surprise for Kylie, the dead beat dad she stole from her best friend turned out to be a dead beat dad 😱 love to hear more on her reactions, begging anyone for help. Realising how she ruined all her relationships for a guy that was clearly just using her

[@Chonts]

Lmao I haven't finished listening the story but I'm up to part where Dev was complaining to Kylie about how his wife wants him to step up and be a husband mad he doesn't want to do that. And sis really thought that he would be perfect for her 😂lmao you can't make this shit up

[@lanrelara9481]

This man was a walking red flag when they were just dating, why the hell did she say yes?

[@Arcane_Route_66]

Some folks think that marriage will change a person for the better. But marriage can also twist someone into something ugly.

[@yeyosilver7067]

Because she probably thought she could fix him

[@stucktrick5757]

Women ☕️

[@alltheframes9015]

He was probably extremely hot and had some good qualities that made her blind to the imminent red flags in their relationship

[@blessedcutie8983]

She stupidly thought love would conquer all.

[@VonnieT403]

2:52 The *MINUTE* I heard the words “Prove my love for him” it was an immediate no. That sounded like a textbook manipulation tactic.

[@Hearts444Shaniaa]

Thank goodness her dad made her sign a prenup because without it her husband would’ve got half

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

I can never imagine supporting my daughter's abusive husband. And the fact that she only believed her daughter's suffering when it was convenient for her to use it against her own daughter??? Is that mother jealous? Or is this a fake story because that mom is cartoonishly vile.

[@yunoisreal757]

Her mother saying that SINGLE MOTHERS are like that is bs.... She is not a single mother...she is marry

[@HikariSings]

OP's dad is tbh a dope dude

[@Cthulus_left_tentacle]

11:30 Even the baby knows his dad’s a deadbeat and is getting a job

[@TheUltimateIdiot69]

I think the OOP meant Dev is “getting a job” and not the toddler.

[@izzywolflover]

I noticed that too and thought it was pretty funny

[@nep6483]

Yes 😂

[@hannahpinson4361]

There were clear red flags, but I think she was looking at him with rose-colored glasses. I remember this saying from a show I haven't watched in a long time, don't even remember what it's called. A guy said, "When you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags."

[@highonmoss]

I believe this is a quote from BoJack HorseMan on Netflix, though I don't remember which character

[@Ullabulladulla]

And she clearly has low self-esteem and desperately lacks therapy.

[@tiffanychill8219]

Yes and I'm sure her mother raised her to be a doormat and until you get over your childhood you will be a doormat!!

[@jason-gf8dg]

It makes me so angry that she put up with all this.

[@yeahyeahyeah3724]

The ex-bestfriend is so dvmb. Out of ALLLLLL PEOPLE, it's not just that she fell in love with her best friend's husband. She knows almost first hand about how of a bum that guy is. He has no job and leeches of his wife. And she wanted to start a family with... THAT??? WHAT A CLOWNNN 🤡

[@CatValentine1995]

Probably thought to herself she was the better choice & she'd be able to change him🤣🤣🤣🤡

[@bryn1063]

You know she's going to be a single mom too. Congratulations Kylie! You ruined your life for an unemployed bum. And you definitely don't got the money to fund his lifestyle. 🤡

[@NadiaGirl1]

That’s what I said

[@agus_mimi]

he was a walking RED FLAG, nothing about him before marrige seemed nice or lovely... and after it? just straight up cruel and awful... edit: also the mother is horrible person.

[@tipr.999]

Now we kind of understand how OP was okay with her Ex's treatment for so long. Thanks to her egg donor. This probably isn't the first time OP's egg donor has been horrible to her.

[@Silver_Phoenix999]

This story reminded me of a another one with similar circumstances. The wife who just gave birth was suffering from PPD and the husband cheated. She wanted a divorce but the husband used her PPD against her in court and got full custody. Her Family even helped the cheating husband by saying she's mentally unstable. In the post she said she didn't see her children for 20 years.

[@NadiaGirl1]

Wow can you tell the rest of the story please

[@morganleanderblake678]

okay, the way a sane person reacts to finding out their bf/gf is independently wealthy is to say, "Hm, good for you" and move on with your day. This was so many red flags it could be a bl--dbath and no one would notice.

[@XaraK1]

Yo OP only has opps in her life, except her saint of a dad and her ex bestie's mom 😮

[@MistressOP]

For half a second I'm like is dev effing the mom LMAO cos she was so crazy towards the end. What pandoras box mental break was her mother having?

[@vishwajitk3699]

OP's mom too definitely cheated

[@christinahosey7-4-72]

Probably with Dev

[@_juju_jojo_]

You would think being a single parent you would try your damn hardest to make sure your son was a hard working honorable man your Partner be proud of.

[@Da.Shanks.]

Dev had more red flags than a Soviet parade on Victory Day. As much as I like to suspend my disbelief for these kinds of stories, the stench of bull on this is just too strong

[@DarkEinherjar]

Of all the karma in this story, Kylie being replaced by OP in her mother's will and Dev abandoning her with the baby is the most delicious. The only possible cherry on top of this karmic cake would be if that manchild cheats on her, which will probably happen in the near future.

[@ritaerror7829]

Well, it would be nice if Dev got more consequences...

[@Crystallina18]

Considering he didn’t want to marry her and want nothing to do with the baby, I’d say they aren’t together and he ditched her. Honestly, I don’t know what she was expecting sleeping with the guy and thinking he’d actually leave his marriage for her when she knew the sort of guy he was.

[@bryn1063]

​@@ritaerror7829yeah but he's broke. For a gold digger that's the worst punishment of them all 🤣

[@mercuriallily]

"I feel like i have noone and everyone will betray me" Uhhh your dad had your back from day one and hes fought to keep you going, and even broke up with your AH mom... what do you mean you have noone, you have an awesome father

[@trashotaku]

Op is one of the most textbook examples of a married single mother I have ever heard

[@keyradewinasari6646]

Man, I really feel her. I was born in a rich family. I'm working as a teacher. When my friend visit me because I sick, they just realize how big my house. After that, some of them would tease me if I have wear new cloth, having something new. Like "It's nice to be you huh? Always have a new stuff" Bro, I buy it myself, I'm never begging my parents to buy me something expensive or pay for me. I pay for myself

[@cerityplayz682]

OP's dad is a real one

[@kalcibone]

Talk to Kylie's mother and offer her a place as your kids grandparent. she seems better then your mother. let mother find out the true karma of her betrayal by disowning her and making Kylie's mother new grandma.

[@Read1love]

IS YOUR MOTHER SLEEPING WITH DEV?

[@notting2640]

AI got the names mixed up 😂

[@faeriegraver]

I know it was so jarring 😬

[@totopablo9482]

Wow..... just.... wow. I've no words for op's mother.

[@angel.404]

why the hell does the story keep on messing dev and james up, its pissing me off

[@misaandcoart]

I feel like he already knew and feigned not knowing to keep her from leaving. This guy singlehandedly ruined 2 relationships, her friendship, and fathered 2 unwanted (by him) children. What a waste of oxygen he is.

[@baratilegaffane9677]

The moment OP said "These red flags are clearly visible" at 11:00 I said 'no sh**'. I counted at least 15 red flags 🙄

[@lmaocopter101]

Man these fake stories become real funny when the author mixes up the names. Like why does the baby have to get a job? or why does the baby need to worry about if he is getting custody of the "kids"

[@Adwiti_Mishra]

Ikr. My mind would automatically correct "James" to "Dev" 😂😂

[@benstrubel4259]

Glad I'm not the only person to notice this

[@SNEAKEE_P]

I just thought she's been calling him Dev the entire time, but his name was really James. 😅

[@OtakuFalcon]

Yo Great Respect to the OP's DAD brah ❤❤

[@austinowens1324]

Dad leaves the mother to stand in solidarity with his daughter, his daughter "I feel like there's nobody on my side"😂😂😂😂

[@kiaowens2856]

She should have left at that first red flag. Because he showed exactly who he is.

[@Francina-g5o]

I totally agree with everyone, this guy was a walking red flag 🚩. You had no backbone . He is a gold digger and a mooch

[@chrissy6822]

DEv is the husband. James is the son. Get it right.

[@deadsouljaguar7041]

The more I listened to this story, the more I remembered hearing this story before awhile back and it always makes me wonder why the hell people still cheat these days while still being with their partner.

[@sanddagger36]

The moment she revealed her wealth he stopped seeing her as a person and as an ATM

[@Bibo_boo]

He's lazy, doesn't want to raise his OWN kids, doesn't want to work, is mama's boy, rude, misogynistic, gold digger, have bad friends, he's a cheater and many more red flags.... Kylie: I want that!

[@sayantanidebnath2633]

This is literally the plot of Marry my Husband i cant- Especially when she said "shes taking my trash from me" gurl i feel for sorry for her 😢

[@jkrenee]

He wasn't a red flag, he was an entire red parade. It sounds like she was love deprived from her evil mother and became codependent and unable to see him for who he really is.

[@Trini0408]

OPs mom had a purely 1950’s mindset, what a nut job

[@ShyGHGuy]

21:13 21:15 she should be grateful (Not for her Situation or dev) but for her Dad that helps her the Whole Time

[@bryn1063]

And she is. I don't think anything about this post says she's ungrateful. Especially since her mom left.

[@Rj-ij6ko]

Ok soo…Op’s dad and Kayla’s mom are the only decent adults in Op’s life but…i just don’t get WHY Op even gave him a chance in the first place. Literally no a single thing he did in this story made him even a REMOTELY decent person, he from the start was an abusive gold digging loser. I just don’t get what Op even saw in him

[@adolfojuangarcia1906]

The OP sounds like an amazing woman!

[@smorphous8928]

The fact that the mother is siding with the same man who cheated on Op and Ops x best friend because she’s pregnant is beyond ridiculous.

[@Kevbing9825]

I don’t why she didn’t divorce her husband sooner.

[@shafiasimone]

Imagine being mentally distressed because your wife requires you to help take care of your family.

[@prettyinpinky5937]

How can any of this be real? Why let him even move in after that outburst?🙄

[@DiorNdiaye]

I thought James was the kid😭

[@disasterhamuaku]

The infant is getting a job before the dad is apparently.

[@DiorNdiaye]

💀right

[@David-cz9ej]

The mother... Omg... This mother....

[@enchanting.clouds]

Heard this on another channel and yea its messed up on many ways. Its just overall destruction.

[@MariaEduarda-ln2ep]

Idk who's dumber, OP for marrying that bum or Kylie for having an affair and a kid with him after seeing how he treated his wife

[@CatValentine1995]

She probably thought, "He actually loves me, & will change for me" lolol🤡🤡🤡🤡

[@kusumsingh3754]

Complete Marry my husband story it is .. That's great u have your father on your side

[@vexxama]

“Give me your money or you’re selfish!”

[@lorealsp.o.v.4607]

Though what happened to the OP is fucked up. Dev showed who he was when they moved in together. Too completely not want to pay bills showed exactly who he is. & him quitting his job because his PREGNANT WIFE was having a hard time doing her pregnancy was icing on the cake.

[@weniTeklzgi]

Dad is ways the world 🌎 and I can’t believe that the mother help the enmities instead of her own child

[@hin0]

all three of them are horrible absolutely horrible but the mother baffles me the most. How can your own biological mother act and think that way. I know mother's can be terrible but not even my mom would go that far ( I think )

[@shuaibahammed7293]

You know its real when James achild decide to go to work even when his father Dev is not going 11:30

[@erikacabreja6186]

OP's mother is the worst.

[@ordomachinum4016]

That first arguement is the biggest red flag anyone could ever see in their life low key because it gives self accountability and effort towards togetherness not only op’sness

[@MikeSVZ]

Mother is the real villain of this story. Husband is just a weak, pathetic man. But the mom is pure evil

[@UNDEMM]

Red flags were everywhere but she was colourblind

[@T-103-X]

I can’t count how many people just cave on so many important things bc they are blinded by love and ignore all the red flags in a relationship

[@Jivi_Galaxy]

6:20 i feel that the reason Op Is doormat is because of her mother. I agree it's quite frustrating how low esteem people let people walk all over them. No matter how well u r doing in life, inner work is must, 🎉🎉

[@reginafarley1325]

The reason dev's friend was encouraging him to cheat is because the friend wants to break them up so he can try his luck with op. He wants to be the deadbeat that gets to use op for $$$. And I think op's mom has been having an affair with Dev too. She's probably being blackmailed by Dev. "If you don't take my side & make op take me back I'm going to tell your family what we've been up to."

[@icysh4d0w51]

Bro that judge would never give full custody to dev even if OP wanted dev only used OP’s money never actually parented and the fact that your own kids didn’t even notice you being gone means you were never a father along with no job not knowing how to take care of a child and cheating the judge would laugh and say I would rather give the custody to OP’s parents than to dev

[@Hmmmm23459]

Amen ❤ Her faith in God has kept her

[@carrieonregardless1656]

Why is she packing her things when its her house? TF is the mums problem? I wouldnt speak to her ever again. Im glad op is doing better.

[@FlipTheBard]

So far, this story had the best revenge.

[@Hhhhhhhhhhehhzhsbdbfj]

Anyone gonna talk about how the op keeps calling her ex husband her child’s name???

[@thousandyardgavri2785]

Thank God for op's dad. or else this would be another frustrating pitiful story and a ragebait

[@aaroncalvillo9473]

Welp, we now we know Dev's real name.

[@blitzvalentine363]

I've heard of mothers choosing their partners over their own children, but a mom choosing her child's partner over her own child? What the actual hell. Glad the dad was on his daughter's side

[@javiermanzano7792]

Dad is a king!

[@kayleighdriessen]

If there's one thing worse than evil is people who enable or turn a blind eye to other people's blatant evil.

[@joannacarpenter6438]

Not even 2 minutes into the video, and I already know who th AH is.🙄

[@PhilipJFry58598]

I don’t know what either woman saw in this “man”

[@minus606]

I think the most intresting part was that male video game friends The ''misogynist'', OP explained how he became the way he is bc he himself was cheated on. I heared many people who can become ''bitter'' and project there own grieve! In both ways! Many cheated woman who call ''all men pigs'' it not just ''misogyni'' its kinda a form of trauma. Ofc that explains it, doesn't excuse his behavior and views!!! Just to clarify. Not an excuse!!! BUT he quite confused/suprised me. While he developed a hate for woman....shouldn't he have seen his own wife in OP's ex-friend?? Or the dead-beat father?? Since they are cheaters? Like if it all comes from his own hurt? Why is he hating OP, not the cheaters?!??!

[@MaleighkaSaskatchewan]

You and your kids deserve better 😊

[@munchie3909]

OP’s dad is the only one in OP’s life who didn’t fail her. Her mom, husband, mil, best friend, all garbage.

[@itsjustme7487]

RUN OP. RUN FAST! Dev is waving red flags all over the place.

[@hin0]

" men are sometimes lost on the path and it's our responsibility as women to guide them back " what are we a fucking compass ???

[@LinkPizza]

OP let it go in way longer than I would have. As soon as the bill thing came up, I’d be done. We split the bills, or split up. Then, she should have left as soon as he refused to look after her and the baby. And again, leaving would be the best choice after he made her do all the mommy duties, and wouldn’t look after the kid or change a diaper. He says he doesn’t know how to, but neither do new parents of any gender (unless they help willed with younger siblings). But new parents can learn how to do all this stuff together. He’s just a sack of crap that should have been dropped longer before… When Dev said he wanted a break from work, she should have said, “When you get pregnant, you can take a break.”

[@Neyfufu00]

11:03 here's the real question if he's not contributing anything to the first kid and outright didn't want anything to do with the kid and probably isn't paying for anything towards the kid or you why the hell did you get a second child with him. That really just sounds like ignorance or blatant stupidity. That's not blind love either that's just stupidity

[@KateTheCrocheter]

How the fuck she gonna have a baby with her best friends man after seeing how he acts? Like bruh 🤣

[@badwifi422]

I dunno what i was expecting from this video, but it definitely wasn't that! 🙊😭 Plus the amout of misogyny is CRAZY!!😱🤯

[@wildbeautyunderneath4735]

red flags shouldn't have been happy about engagement

[@C9316]

OP should've known better, Dev was a loser even before they got married.

[@gigistar5542]

OMG, UNBELIEVABLE. Are people stupid. People need to think before getting married.