(S2E5) BIBLICAL WOMANHOOD & Self Control | Christian • Women • Black • Homemaker

[@ChasteintheLatter-Days]

I had a thought in church the idea. My seven year old was struggling to stay quiet and still and I thought, " The task of childhood is self control over your body. The task of adulthood is self control over the mind."

[@kilodeltawhisky1504]

Even as adults, control our body is a challenge.

[@Mosh-p5f]

@@kilodeltawhisky1504 control your mind first and the body will follow

[@J_a_s_o_n]

@@kilodeltawhisky1504 done by FASTING ! Killing addictions as we seek GOD

[@J_a_s_o_n]

@@Mosh-p5f by FASTING !

[@angelagregory2810]

My husband and I trained our daughters to be still in church by practicing in 20 minute increments at home. We also appealed to their hearts by explaining people come to church to worship God and be fed by the word of God and we don’t want to disrupt or distract that ❤️

[@lizbave5426]

I struggle with controlling my eating, de-cluttering, making & sticking to schedule.

[@Bindi_Marc]

I recommend reading the book "Atomic Habits" (shoot, I may do a video series on it). It can help unpack the basic principles that run most human beings with habit setting and ultimately self-control. I would also recommend you pray to God and ask Him to give control over yourself. Ask Him to gift you with resolve, know-how, and skill. Ask Him to help you to better understand how YOU tick. I'm an early bird and have discovered that if I really need something done, I need to make it happen before noon, because after 12p my energy starts slowing down. Others are the opposite in that they get major portions of their load done at night. It helps to know how He designed you so you can with your general tendencies as opposed to against them.

[@justmeandHim]

Same

[@hisbeautifultruth5931]

Wow. This☝️☝️

[@dee4174]

Me too.

[@breannaphillips5761]

I hear ya sis. I am starting my weight loss journey over. I gained 14 pounds since June 5th. So now I am eating 1 meal a day of chicken, no added salt. We got this sis💕.

[@fearlizz_wandress]

I’m struggling with everything that has to do with self mastery. Over eating, laziness with prayers, homemaking and responsibilities, sticking to a schedule, being distracted by my phone or spending time with friends. I needed to hear all of this and thank you for this video! You’re inspiring me to be better!

[@EarzOnTunz]

I would caution you not to say it's laziness but dig more deeply. It may be a lack of self-confidence, a lack of feeling worthy of achieving what you can, deep self-doubt from social or family conditioning or simply exhaustion or burnout. Ask the Lord to help you find the cause. I'm struggling with the same things and I KNOW for a fact I'm not lazy but disheartened. That is likely still a condition with spiritual roots but I don't want you to feel you're lazy when you're really suffering. Find the cause of the suffering and you can start healing.

[@NeverAloneNeverAfraid]

Have you asked God if there’s something you need to obey in the Gospel? God showed me that I didn’t understand baptism and that it’s more than a symbol. When I saw it as a death and a new start, I got baptized (the other times were just a ritual). I went under one way, and came out another. A dead man, theoretically, can’t sin, meaning that the sin nature is no longer our first nature. We put on Christ. Then we walk by faith remembering that He’s washed away our sin through the waters of baptism and put away the sinful flesh. And then we need to be filled with His Holy Spirit with evidence (speaking in tongues, prophecy). Baptism of the Holy Spirit is a game changer, He helps to be holy and He changes is as we continue in the Word and prayer. Then He commissions us to tell others and disciple them - but it all starts with repentance (turning from sin and turning to God, crying out for Him to give us soft hearts again so we’re convicted by sin). Let us not treat these foundational things as casual, I often find that skipping these foundational things can cause a lot of lack of victory and faith in who the Lord is as well as striving and eventually falling away. A lot of these things are talked about in Romans, Galatians, and other verses in the New Testament. The book of acts helps us understand what our foremost role is as priests and messengers for Christ and gives us this amazing foundation. Hebrews 2:3 - how shall we escape if we ignore so great a salvation? This salvation, which was first announced by the Lord, was confirmed to us by those who heard him.

[@BLJackson]

Don't be so hard on yourself love. Take one day at a time and breathe through it.

[@EbonyJon]

Same!!

[@Shasta31487]

What I find helps a TON is doing something, anything, one little thing towards the right direction. Something is better than nothing. It's okay to wash one dish. It is okay to text one friend to let them you know care. It is okay to make one meal. Then do it again.

[@RonishaTV]

I really just had to sit here and ask the Holy Spirit why in the world am I JUST discovering this channel ? Literally love this content !! 🥰

[@ericacaines2529]

His timing is perfect. I just found it too. Been going through the old videos, and what a blessing. Been doing some serious prayer and reflecting in the last few days.

[@lesegontsoele6678]

Me too

[@Sulantheboujetbrand]

Same sis, same

[@ForYourInformation2]

@TestimonyTalk SAME 💜 💙

[@phillipsk100]

OMGoodness- I just turned 72 and found this channel and SUBSCRIBED! I was a stay at home mom when my 3 children were young then used my teaching degree when they were in school. I retired to care for my grandchild(ren) and since they have been in school I am "Grammy on call". We had some extensive interior renovations done and I can't seem to get a handle on returning the house to "normal" and my eating habits, well, I've already learned about that from Bindi, so I am encouraged! Bless you, Bindi, for being a blessing to other women who seek the Lord in our life!

[@amberhanzy6576]

Dang these videos are tough. I’m binging these videos because I recognize the truth in them. I’m not married and I don’t have children, but the principles are spot on. I have had such a hard time mastering my belly. Food has been a source of entertainment and comfort for me. I gained 13lbs since the pandemic and I just recently started exercising. Pray for me to adapt self control.

[@kenieshanixon5198]

SAAAAAAAMMMMEEEE

[@christine_marie_sings]

Your videos are so motivating! Your content is far better than any average “clean with me” or “how to be an it girl” or “how to exude femininity”. Every video of yours is how to carry yourself in a way that is pleasing to God in accordance to His word. To me that is how to be an “it girl”. Love this! Thank you for serving God’s people🙏🏽

[@dominiquefelder1809]

Awe! Amen!

[@JMarie-th8xe]

I agree.

[@lisebaricako474]

You are absolutely right ! 🙂

[@marilynnfrazier1960]

I appreciate you and your channel so much!! God bless you for everything you've helped me do!!I'm a right brain dominant woman, a former elementary teacher, a wife of 49 yrs., a mother. I have problems organizing but God will help me. My home is cluttered. I like what you said about cluttered mind,cluttered house. I pray I can improve and truly live the life God wants me to live.

[@SoulfulRose]

14:00 "I had the memory of them but the effects were gone." Alleluia🙌🏿

[@jamesntui]

As a man who was brought up in a traditional home but was exposed to a more liberal, Western style, and now a Christian, embracing and solidifying my traditional, conservative, Christian values, a love your videos and just subscribe. More women especially Christian ones should base their lives on the Word. Same for men.

[@deirdremorris9234]

Agree. And men, especially young men, need so much more support!!

[@justinnequintos1521]

That part about; you can leave a long lasting legacy when you’re successful in the realm of your home, really got me bc i get discouraged in the mundane everyday tasks. Thank you 🙏🏼

[@BriLoveMusic]

I want to thank you for correcting our fleshy habits without arrogance or being condescending at all. Your humility and obedience truly blesses me. God bless your beautiful family ❤️

[@EricaLasan]

This video was great! The 5:30 AM wakeup time is something I'm really trying to get under control so I can spend time hearing from the Lord in silence. And so I can worship and pray and do devotions without the noise of my kids in the background. I've really been loving this faith-based content! :)

[@jennjc800]

This is one of my main chains: sleep and waking up early to workout out and spend time with the Lord.

[@LorensJ]

Same here. Please share if you have helpful tips on how to accomplish those goals. I just want to dedicate quality time to our Father before the kids take up my time.

[@netchix7840]

Don't feel too bad if you can't. I couldn't do this until I had a baby. I love waking up at 5:30AM now. If you can't wake up early, then go to bed late.

[@goviralgo6418]

Have you ever tried praying WITH your kids? I started doing that and the kids learned a lot they stay quiet ? And get in agreement. We pray as I family and let me tell you I have felt the presence of the lord just as I do alone . And the best part my kids also. Don’t seek to separate prayer time. Include them. Later at night I have my alone time with God too

[@LorensJ]

@@goviralgo6418 I love your reply. Can you give me an idea on how you make it work for your family? We’re praying for the Lord to help us get organized at home so that we can spend more time with Him but you’re right the kids need the exposure/experience as well. Thank you!

[@sincerelykayyy]

Bindi, you have no ideal how much your channel means to me. Although I don't know you, I really look up to you. A lot of attributes that I decided I wanted to develop in myself and in my relationship with Christ (before I become a wife and a mother) I see in you. Even down to having microlocs. I'm thankful to God that you have created a KZbin channel and are obedient to Him with what you post. Representation really does matter. May God continue to bless you and your beautiful family 🥹❤️

[@Bindi_Marc]

Thank you 😊❤️

[@throughfaithandgrace2970]

She’s right! I look up to you too! So wise! And so beautiful

[@mistyjordan7147]

It's been a year and four months of celibacy since God removed my husband from out the household; due to domestic violence of narcissistic abuse. My daughter and I seek counseling now from the trauma of mental abuse. Now, I need to get things done. Thank God I ran into your video, maybe I can get some order back into my life again. I use to be so organized, but when your mind is cluttered it shows outwardly. My son pointed that out to me. Time to get on the grind and declutter. 🙏💯🤗🥰

[@cherylwebb8340]

God bless you. I hope you have a good church home to love and support you ✝️🙏❤️

[@dolphinshark3202]

God recently delivered me and my children from narcissistic and domestic violence father. I understand the pain, stress, and torture. God is so good though❤️

[@Sunnyforlife1234]

God bless you .It will be well with you .You are on your way to a greater love and self rediscovered.I thank God he saved you and your son.🙏

[@mistyjordan7147]

@@cherylwebb8340 unfortunately, I thought I did. Apparently, I've been Ostrichsized by church members of narcissism.

[@zandymartin4751]

Praying for your strength!

[@just.marysew]

I tell you this in complete honesty and sincerity, this video is one of the most uncomfortable videos I have watched that has ever pointed the finger at my flaws and shortcomings. However, thankfully I love the nature given to me by Our Heavenly Father that once I see the truth I cannot ignore it. So thank you very much for sharing this video, I believe this was a major wake-up call for me, as well as others, and I thank you for being the vehicle for that.

[@missmaedeut3210]

Thank you sister for being so obedient to our God. I was crying out to Him last night after I had sinned (self-pleasure). Something I have been tied to for a very long time. And I want to be done with this. And you have helped me by saying start with having control over my belly. Hallelujah. God is good. I will start there. "My life is not my own, to you father I belong, I give myself, I give myself to you." Hallelujah ❤️

[@englandrose2366]

I literally prayed the other day about Self-Control and how I need it especially when it comes to caffeine, sugar and a particular person in my life. I have also learnt to fast more and to not put something off that can be done today because who knows if I will see tomorrow, only God knows that 💯

[@MrsMeganDyer]

This content is so contrary to what our culture preachers right now. That just shows you how far gone our society is! More women need to hear these teachings and be empowered to embrace them. How life changing! How free are truly when we're ruled by our emotions, negative self talk, and things that offend us? We aren't! This is so so so good! Thank you so much for sharing this ❤️

[@cspann33]

I’m single and don’t have children; a late bloomer, but I have a strong desire to learn to be a godly, feminine woman. I came across your channel seeking knowledge on KZbin to grow and develop into that woman. Thank you for sharing. I’m gaining wisdom, knowledge and understanding. I now need to implement what I’m learning. I’m still struggling with self control (eating & exercising), and consistency Blessings.

[@jesussprichtmitderlieblich7168]

Seek after the kingdom of god, you’re not a late bloomer

[@CarolLovesJesus]

A great channel to learn about God's wisdom & truth.... Smyrna Christian Church, Kokomo Indiana. They got a bad rap when they stated about God's truth in the both 6th & 8th day creation. This is a place of God's truth and worship. I promise.

[@Christina4JesusChrist]

you are the first Christian woman I have seen who talks about Christian femininity. I have had to resort to going to groups that enjoy 50's living so I can ask about modest dress but they clearly do it as a personal interest and not for modesty and christian morality (so things slip). But thank you so much for this I will be listen to all your videos

[@melodiemusic9956]

There are actually a ton of KZbin channels about Christian Femininity you should explore those too!

[@cherylwiemann5863]

Thank you for this video. I gained 50 lbs after my oldest son died. I’m currently trying to lose it but I struggle w exercise.I’m praying for energy and motivation to start. I have lupus and feel quite sick and fatigued most days. So it is a struggle although I have lost 15lbs by watching my diet.

[@hard2getitrightagain314]

The comments on appetite are super spot on in my life right now. I am actively practicing going without food and maintaining a cheerful attitude. I'm a man. I'm trying to be a good one.

[@hard2getitrightagain314]

And now she's talking directly to me on fasting...

[@LISLOVESTRUTH]

This is a deep one. I loved it. It was extremely convicting. Ironically, I'm a designer and I work in a Project Management firm, so your example from your corporate days was targeted directly to me. I have made other people's houses dreamy and yet my house is a mess. You are right about it being a reflection of the internal climate of the soul. I will apply myself to addressing this area of my life. Blessings to you.

[@JMarie-th8xe]

💖

[@Kyndal-Kyn]

This was a really great video. I LOVED how you talked about doing something unpleasant and difficult. My pattern is to quit ot be lazy and at 35, I'm tired of living my life like this. Since rededicating my life to CHRIST he has been guiding me to videos and women like yourself to help me be ALL that he purposed me to be. Thank You For Sharing. 🙏🏾

[@jilliandavis4495]

Hi! I’m interested, what other channels have you been watching that are similar to Bindi’s? I am interested in discovering other women who echo these convictions.

[@Kyndal-Kyn]

@@jilliandavis4495 You can check our Elisabeth Elliot also

[@omoyeleR]

It is relaxing to see your videos. Just to see a woman with discipline and feminine ways is amazing. It is not something I see at all on a regular basis. I wish you the best. And thank you

[@sashanoel167]

I am proof that you're never too old to learn. I can't wait to pass your channel on to my daughter and granddaughter. May God bless you and your ministry!!!

[@Lynaelary]

Yes, please pass this on to the next generations💯%

[@almetrabriggs6377]

I love this: order, structure and discipline guided through Holy Spirit. This welcomes the peace of God into our homes and it begins with us as we yield ourselves to the will of God. We must be able to manage ourselves first!🙏🏽

[@tonij6688]

Oh, I am 54 years of age, grown children with grandchildren, retired and on a new Journey and this is helping me with the new responsibilities of self employment/Author and etc. I am still learning and Thank you again.

[@Shasta31487]

I am morbidly obese as well and have found that water fasting is amazing! I feel so good when I don't eat for periods of time and it is really shocking.

[@kookiekae14]

I struggle with self worth. I want to be better for other more than myself. I care too much about others. I’m upset with my mistakes and past and I believe I don’t deserve things I currently have. I also beat myself down & it causes me to not take care of responsibility. I’m glad I’m aware of it I just need to work on it. Thank you for this message 😢❤. On a journey to self love & worth!✨

[@laurynfrancis3161]

I needed this reminder. Fasting is transformative. I will need to re-watch and write down those scripture references

[@Heart_LikeChrist]

I’m currently facing a challenge of practicing Healthier stress management , rather than turning to addictive behaviors of eating

[@nunuallen4327]

Smart, and blessed. I listened to this whole thing and I'm an older woman. This is something that my daughter does, manage her house, and head project manager, and always looking out for husband and children.

[@AccordingToLeah]

You have inspired me! I am not Christian, but I am a young wife soon to be a first time mother. My biggest struggle so far is with homemaking especially experiencing a difficult pregnancy. According to my spirituality prayer is also quite important and just last night my husband and I started praying together - I have to admit that the work of asking for help and being honest with myself has done a difference in how I feel and how I view my responsibility as a woman and a wife.

[@sabinasoto5151]

When I am tired from all the mom things I ask myself How do athletes do it? How do they work so hard and end up stronger after? Yet as I mom I tell myself that I am wearing myself out. That is what I found it’s what I was telling myself about my work. I started setting goals around housework, measuring my progress, and believing that I am getting stronger from this job.

[@anyamuenchgrieser8686]

I hadn't thought of it this way before.

[@asiak1334]

I love this thank you sis! I’ve recently over a month now have picked a day in the week to fast and pray. I’ve also picked a day when I do self care and spend time journaling and spending extra time with God. I wakes up in the morning at 3am to study for my career which is hard for me as a single mom, Plus im not a morning person lol. I struggle with cooking home cooked meals though I love to cook, I’m currently de cluttering my home and praying God helps me to keep up with it🙏🏼💖

[@heather8311984]

I am so convicted by what you shared in the video sister! I also have a genetic tendency towards obesity and I am currently obese. I feel so confused in my mind and heart as to how to get healthy and I realize after listening to what you shared that I have not relied on the Lord to strengthen me in this area. It has very much impacted my marriage and confidence. Thank you so much for taking the time and effort to share your heart. The Lord is speaking through you. 💜

[@aubreybryan5332]

Drink more water, avoid all soda pops and fizzy drinks. No good. Move more. Sit less. Lift weights while sitting. Do gardening if you have space on windows or patio ✅

[@SolaScriptura-n-cats]

Bindi, you are so wholesome in sharing the truth with us. I crave this knowledge. You remind me of my baby sister so much. She’s a mother of nine, home-schooler, household manager. Purely Biblical wife and mother, and I admire her so very much. As I do you. I, myself, am 54yo and divorced. Can you tell me, please, how can I best apply your teachings to my own life, being that I don’t have a husband and my kiddos are grown. I just work full-time as a nurse now, and have cats. 😹 Thanks. Love your ministry, sister. 💗😻

[@hawleygirl]

So good Bindi! Your message on self control is spot on. I love playing your videos during my morning routine of cooking and cleaning. ❤️

[@kaysmall1]

Not sure how I came across your channel but I’m so glad I did. I’ve been struggling with finding balance and disciplining myself in certain areas and aspects of my life. Thank you for sharing and being sensitive to the things of God. This definitely puts things into perspective for me and how I will grow as a whole

[@Kaymaxwelldevelops]

Bindi, thank you so much for your faithfulness and encouragement. I am a new SAHM with 3 children (16/10/3) formerly a corporate paralegal. I have struggled in the weeks that I’ve been at home to get my household back in order as well as my eating and homeschooling my 3 year old. Thank you for sharing and any advice for getting on track. God bless you and your challenge

[@Bindi_Marc]

I'm so glad it helped. Something I like to do is when I find gaps in what I feel like I need to do is first and foremost, I take it to God to in prayer (literally). I ask for wisdom, discernment, and skill. He does actually answer. Also, KZbin channels and articles written across the internet can help provide practical guidance on how to manage a diet, or a homeschooling regimen. For me it comes down to planning, actually scheduling things in my calendar, and then determining to get what I have assigned to myself for the day done. No matter what. May the Lord strengthen you.

[@phoeniciacloud1515]

Your 3 year old May even find it fun to help and seer your timer ⏲ for cleaning 🧹 my daughter loves to help clean with. If I start cleaning or cooking she comes to help like my little mini. This page is great inspiration so for real! Enjoy your new life and Happy Mother’s Day!

[@Kaymaxwelldevelops]

@@phoeniciacloud1515 thank you so much! I will definitely start including my little in my daily activities! He is an activity all in himself ❤️ Pray my strength in the Lord Ladies🙏🏾❤️

[@phoeniciacloud1515]

@@Kaymaxwelldevelops oh yeah little boys tend to enjoy air sweeping 🧹 because it gets out a lot of energy. At Walmart and target they have a cute little kit so they have the things that you have.

[@thestarinhereyes2]

What’s SAHM?

[@traceydumase]

I'm on a journey of healing and all I had been asking God was to lead me to people and content that will help me on my journey. When I tell you that God is doing THE MOST!!!! The words "healing" and "boundaries" have been reoccurring this year. They just stand out for me. And being a Christian, I recognized eventually that it was God speaking. It was the Holy Spirit telling me what I needed in order to transform my life. This entire video speaks mostly towards having boundaries for me. And boundaries begin with myself. If I can't respect my own boundaries (self-control) then I won't be strict with the boundaries I set for people. I love how you've articulated the concept of self-discipline and control. These are the two specific things I need to master in my life. May God continue to help me🥺❤️🙏🏾

[@victoriabutanu5400]

Great words! My thoughts on this video: *Indeed - we can put as much dedication into becoming a better housemaker and mother as we did (or do) in our careers. *Having a well thought out plan is really helpful. I personally discovered Fly lady system - the woman behind it is christian - it is a daily and weekly routine of upkeeping your home and there is an app that lists tasks grouped for areas of your house. It is so much easier having this list in front of me since some of these tasks I almost never did before on a regular basis (more detailed cleaning). *building character and will power is directly linked to self confidence. The more you accomplish, the stronger you feel. This is what I I working on. Thank you for the video

[@deec3561]

This channel is a blessing

[@JuliaJordanT]

I am Muslim but I love how spiritual some Christians are, it really strengthens my faith and helps me! I would love to see your prayer book! Maybe your could do a video about your prayer routine or what you ask God (Allah)?☺️❤️ Edit: I’m an ex-Christian! I‘m happy with my decision thank you.

[@ristonalaimo5048]

Just wait until you hear more about Jesus! Look up the Hidden Code in Genesis 1:1. Also the Berisheet Pass Over Prophecy. NDEs. And I like this guy: "Give Light", on this platform.

[@nb1393]

@@ristonalaimo5048 we do believe in Jesus too in Islam, he is really important in our religion. He is the Messiah 😊

[@indriadrayton1132]

Emaan Jordan Blessings to you!

[@shadiaesen9218]

@@nb1393 I'm X Muslim and I used to believe that but once I became a Christian I realised it's not the same JESUS CHRIST of the bible whom Muslim bielive in.

[@LivingMyBestAlways]

@@shadiaesen9218 Christians believe the MessiYAH is God but He is the son of the MessiYAH/Messenger of God/YAHUAH. “He that believeth on the Son of God hath the witness in himself: he that believeth not God hath made him a liar; because he believeth not the record that God gave of his Son.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭5:10‬ ‭KJV‬‬ “Who is he that overcometh the world, but he that believeth that Jesus is the Son of God?” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭5:5‬ ‭KJV “the eyes of your understanding being enlightened; that ye may know what is the hope of his calling, and what the riches of the glory of his inheritance in the saints, and what is the exceeding greatness of his power to us-ward who believe, according to the working of his mighty power, which he wrought in Christ, when he raised him from the dead, and set him at his own right hand in the heavenly places,” ‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭1:18-20‬ ‭KJV‬‬

[@bridgettefiphaza]

Man oh man did I need to hear this! I used to be so good at being on top of things then I had my 7 month old son and since then I've just been all over the place. I gave myself grace in the beginning because ofcourse I needed to heal and recover. It's been 7 months now though and I'm still in a slump that has affected my housekeeping and work. Dishes stay in the sink for far too long. Sometimes my husband comes home to a dirty house and no supper. I've been wanting to change but no motivation and even prayed to God to help me change. This is JUST what I needed to hear!!! God is so so good all the time. The conviction is real and I pray that God helps me to follow through and be a better wife and mom. Thanks so much Bindi!!!

[@rrina5354]

This is channel that was supposed to be recomended to every woman immediately!

[@HeyItsSheilaJ]

I’m not going to lie girlfriend you got my life all together with this video! Glad I found you, bless you!

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

I'm a single mother with two jobs. I struggle very much with keeping up with the housekeeping and staying in my word 😭 I often have the audio Bible while I'm driving or on my break at work and sometimes when I'm winding down for bed but sometimes that's not enough. The way my life is right now, it's very easy to just plop down on the couch after getting off of work, getting my child from daycare and maybe making dinner and deciding that I'm done for the day. Praying that the Lord helps me to not be lazy when it's very easy because I do want to be a homemaker/housewife and want my child(ren) and husband comfortable and happy. Thank you for your content. Give me a lot to think and pray about.

[@sabinasoto5151]

I struggle a lot with clocking out at the end of the day too. I had to get over the mindset that more work or service is depleting. I changed my mindset to I am training and when I have more to accomplish i am getting stronger. Like when I push myself during a workout. Another thing I think about often is that my actions have infinite meaning and everything matters. I get to serve 100% of my kids needs and I get 100% of the hugs, and love too. It’s important to set those intentions and create a space in your home that reminds you of that. Maybe Holy art or an altar that is set up with those intentions in mind.

[@prodigaldaughter5978]

@@sabinasoto5151 that's a really good idea! Thank you for that. I've been thinking that when I move out (hopefully within the year) that maybe I can look for a place with an extra bedroom and make that room or making a small closet and turn into a prayer closet. And yes Changing our mindset is so important because our babies are sponges and see everything. Especially our responses to our issues/circumstances. It's important to point our kids to Christ intentionally through not only our words but our actions too.

[@kbere4142]

Your video showed up as I was thinking about how hard food addiction has been for me. I’ve had my third baby this year, and every time I have a baby it’s so hard to lose all the weight. I stress eat, and that compounds the issue. I’m praying for strength to drop the addiction and find another way to comfort myself during stress. I resent how hard my work is and that we can’t afford for me to focus solely on the children, and I use it as a cop out to overeat. Thank you for your video. It’s encouraging me to keep trying.

[@mingonoel]

This is something that the LORD has been opening my eye up to, in this season of my life I’m definitely being refined. He has brought me to Galatians and the fruit of the spirit. I will say the area I struggle the most with is motivation and doing the uncomfortable things . I’ve never really had a successful fast. Thank you for posting this . It was conformation for me.

[@tonij6688]

This is so good with clarity. "Training my Will and self mastery" are actions I wanted to execute, but hadn't yet knew the terminology of. Thank you.

[@mrsboskovic]

You have been such a blessing in my life as a Christian, Wife, mother and homemaker. I appreciate you and thank you for sharing your insight, motivation and authenticity with us through KZbin. Bless you & your family

[@rachelselby8786]

I have been struggling with food for years. I overeat and I have food FOMO. I decided to do intermittent fasting as a diet instead of restricting certain foods or forcing myself to workout for hours a day. So far, IF has started to heal my addiction to food and allowed me to be in more control over my hunger. I have also found that now that I am becoming more disciplined with my food, I have voluntarily started working out because I had the energy and the motivation. Since it isn’t forced, it doesn’t feel like a chore to make time for. I have found a lot of success with IF and I would recommend it to anyone who struggles with food discipline.

[@Listentomusicist]

I’m blessed to see your discipline and spiritual maturity to connect the word of God to your skill set into home making.

[@philileseme5485]

Its my first time coming across your chanel, I love it, I love your gentle spirit.

[@kether316]

This video is reminding me of God's overwhelming and magnificent love for me and for His children and I just want to say thank you. Thank you for your ministry and reminding me of His love and inspiring me to want to minister to others ;)

[@amouressence7931]

Hello ! I am a young single lady, still living at my parent house. And I m so glad I found out your videos, cause I really need to be teach on how to become a successful godly woman. For my marriage tomorrow, but in general periodt. I feel like I have so much lack on self disciplined, organization, bulding a healthy routine and get stick to It.. could you make a video on what would be your advises to your single self now that you re married (If it s not done yet) ? That would be great. 🤗 thank you, love your content. God bless you 💋

[@lilyflower5576]

I really love Her promotion of modest feminine clothing 💖

[@pamholbrook4516]

I just found this channel this morning as I’m sitting outside needing to be with nature because I’m struggling with some things that have upset me with work. I’ve always been a scheduled person. I’ve always been able to find a way to balance my life keep my home clean, make great meals. But I struggle with eating. I go up and down with it. I have periods where I lose weight I keep the weight down for a while and then I gain weight back. And all these years I forgot that not controlling what I eat is glutinous. I needed that message as I struggle right now with losing weight. Thank you for the channel.

[@RosaMysticaMantilla]

On training the will: we can't do it--or at least I can't--do it without persevering in prayer. I know Our Lord is the one providing all the graces I need to accomplish my goals.

[@nataliewaters5238]

Recently I have been spiritually attacked. I went to church and was so convicted by the sermon! I thought about my sexual immorality and modesty and want to change it so i prayed about it. Then, i started feeling anxious and scared and angry and i took everything out on my boyfriend! You came at just the perfect time into my life! I want to be a good Christian mother and wife someday ... but now i just want to obey Him. and this video helps me know where to start! thank you for being obedient to your calling because you are helping so many other Christian women do the same thing. thank you!

[@bravemac8612]

These are soooo good! Thanks so much for sharing. Sometimes it’s good to hear other perspectives so you can learn and grow!❤️

[@callistoglitter450]

My biggest struggle is simply "forgetting" my reasons. Whenever I attempt to fast I'm so overwhelmed by my hunger that I either forget why I'm fasting in the first place or somehow convince myself that I should eat.

[@theabundantlifehomestead9948]

I love that these are hard teachings that cause me to examine myself. There is so much out there telling me I’m either not enough or that I’m perfect exactly as I am. The truth is I am not sufficient but I am complete in Christ but that requires being in Christ. These videos have hard teachings and cause me to examine the motives of my heart and to learn how to be in Christ.

[@ABBAFATHER3333]

Omgoodness how can you even focus with ALLLL THISSSS NOISE IN THE BACKGROUND 😳😩

[@GA-fd5ei]

Thank you sis. I’ve completely lost everyone I’ve ever loved because I have no control over my emotions. For years this is a problem I tried to avoid and blame others. I’m in my early 30s but I’m late to recognize that I have bad character as a woman entirely. This video nailed it for me in many ways. Please pray for me in Jesus Christ mighty name. Thank you

[@blesimo]

Praying for you Sis 🙏🏽❤️. You still have Jesus for sure! Keep learning and growing.

[@JMarie-th8xe]

Wow, I needed this! Thanks for sharing! Definitely need to work on being determined in my homemaking and also I've been working on moderation in eating. Gluttony is a sin that we often forget.

[@hnsmith11]

I am so glad the Lord led me to you, this is such an encouragement for things i have been working on. Self discipline and sticking with it. Also self love and self image. Thank you for doing what you do. I already am looking forward to other videos. God bless you sister in Christ.

[@Sharie.]

The Holy Spirit is all in this video. Thank you for this. For this has blessed me!!

[@roseb.5367]

Just landed on your video, felt at peace and dozed off for a few minutes while listening. The back ground sounds of nature are what I have yearned to hear for years. The your voice is caressing and firm- nurturing, felt convicted 😊 without being screamed at.

[@ailene_e]

I just started watching you and subscribed. I love these homemaker videos because I’m an aspiring homemaker and wife. God willing, if and when he blesses me with a husband, I want to be ready and prepared for the work that entails. Your videos are so practical and biblically solid, I’m feeling really edified and grateful I found them. I recently just bought the original print of Fascinating Womanhood as well, so I gotta get on that and read it. Thank you!

[@anniedrosham7299]

I really struggle with food intake and self control in that area. I eat until im sick every night, for the last 2 years. Wishing I could stop, dreaming of breakthrough everyday. Ive put on so much weight that nothing even fits me and I see how its affecting every area of self control in my life.

[@butchwiltshire6686]

You are the kind of woman that inspired men to carve out civilization. Simple, perfect, elegant beauty.

[@MMM-du4qg]

I’m really enjoying your videos. I appreciate the time you’ve taken to prepare them and bless you for your diligence in answering this call. ❤

[@tajayatomlinson5298]

Definitely something I’m still working on lol everything actually - even down to prayer and fasting. I’m currently on a journey to be a student of prayer of fasting ++ fast and pray more so I can understand it more and become better at mastering it! Thank you for the video!!

[@SashaHali]

“ I had a memory of them, but the effect was gone. “ Powerful 🔥🔥🔥

[@lucynjuguna9653]

I have had a constant battle to lose my weight and I felt overwhelmed coz nothing was working until I tried cutting out most of the carbs and sugar I was putting in.i must say it's working out well.slow but sure

[@elainadixon3012]

I am almost a senior in college and truly desire to be a Proverbs 31 wife and mother someday. I currently struggle with my self worth/identity, controlling my eating and sticking to a set schedule. My heart desires to do these things, but it fails in these areas at the moment.

[@porshasmith6710]

God bless you Elaina and may He lead you with His Holy Spirit down the right path. You are fearfully and wonderfully made according to His word. Do your best to walk by faith and watch God work. All the best to you.

[@rhondesign9239]

I have really struggled with discipline and ultimately, self-mastery for a long time. Funny thing is, I have known that my lack in this area has prevented me from both moving forward and receiving blessings that I’ve asked for. I don’t want to make excuses, so I’ll say I need to really seek God’s face about feeling overwhelmed and not knowing what to prioritize. Thanks for your solid discussion of this topic, which has given me some practical direction about how to begin to frame self-mastery.

[@victoriashafombabi6729]

After praying for God to give the wisdom that I need, I landed myself safely here. As He said, “call unto me and I will answer you and show you great and might things you don’t know.” God is ever loving and faithful. Thank you Bindi for being the vessel.

[@elliemichel7560]

So good. I’m not a mother or a wife, however this was a beautiful biblical perspective

[@latoyacunningham6940]

Self-control is so important. If we can control the tongue, we can control the whole body.

[@opocoyo]

I find this so interesting! I’m a Muslim and there is a narration that mentions fasting being “castration”… Abdallah b. Mas'ud reported God’s Messenger as saying, “Young man, those of you who can support a wife should marry, for it keeps you from looking at strange women and preserves you from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting, for it is a means of suppressing sexual desire.”* (Bukhari and Muslim.) * Waja' has been translated freely above. It means castration.

[@opocoyo]

@Miss Ma'am wa alaykum salam wa rahmatuLlaahi wa barakatuhu ❤️☺️

[@lucynjuguna9653]

Am glad I discovered that fasting suppresses sexual urge a few years ago

[@janicerenderos7677]

You are a blessing! Yes have thoroughly enjoyed this video. I am on the path to self mastery. As someone who has struggled with being messy and over indulging in all things this has spoken Volumes to me.

[@sherriholcombe5428]

I struggle with self control where food is concerned,ungodly thoughts,fasting,homemaking responsibilities(I work outside the home and have two adolescent daughters),making timefor God. This video is very helpful. Thanks for sharing,.

[@kelebohilemganga483]

Dear Bindi, i am on a journey of learning how to because a biblical woman, and I would like to say you have been the older woman that is teaching me as the book of Titus chapter 2 instructs. thank you my lady.

[@eristotle2380]

this is *very, very good* content, bindi! i applaud your courage for speaking on and authentically living the biblical wisdom so unrecognized by many women today. however, the sound of the wind chimes was competing with your voice. i used to love the sound of wind chimes, but when i researched their origins and true function as conductors/attractors of spiritual entities, i ceased to be 'charmed' by them, however 'beautiful' their sound. i think, because you believe in God and honor His Word, that you can understand and appreciate 1 Cor. 3:19 that says, 'for the wisdom of God is foolishness to men...' on the surface, many things that seem harmless to us connect directly with the unseen spiritual world. God *can* see, and that's why He points us away from them. crystals, manifesting, tarot, yoga and other such things are part of a self-reliant philosophy that undermines faith and obedience. i do hope that you receive this in the spirit in which it is given, and i thank you for sharing.

[@ohkay1976]

Wow sis the love covers a multitude of sins part sent me CHILLS. thank Abba for your channel. I've been working on this lately as well & this was confirmed. Thank you for being so vulnerable & trusting in YAH mwah 😽

[@carakerr4081]

I love your videos Bindi! I was scared at first to be obedient to God and quit my job to stay home but God promised he would provide. Just a little testimony through our trust in Him he recently blessed my husband with a nice raise and we are putting more money into savings now than when I was working! Gods ways are always the best ways God bless you! ❤

[@OshunErzulieHetHeru]

Sexual mastery hasn't been an issue for me. Food, however has been a substitute. Sometimes food acts as a comfort from anxiety and the effects of trauma.

[@somitom7813]

Just what I needed to hear. Having self control over my eating habits. 🙏🏽

[@WhitDough]

Very blessed by your channels topics. Been watching you since your 1st set of locs. Thank you for sharing and challenging us.

[@katejohnson5083]

Tip: it’s easier to clean crumbs off the table by wiping them into your hand or onto a portable surface instead of onto your chairs that you will then have to wipe off again ❤️

[@williamthompson7020]

I'm a Black male who has an intimate relationship with Jeshua the Christ. I found your channel today, and I must say your content is refreshingly needed. Like water. May I also add that you are very easy on the eyes. I look forward to viewing the rest of your content.

[@RahsRant]

You shouldn't support anyone or anything that helps destroy the black community.This lady supports interracial relationships/procreating which destroys the Black community.This is the equivalent to support crack dealers in our communitys.

[@Neidytrozeski]

Lol, omG!

[@Neidytrozeski]

She is married. You shouldn’t talk to married women like that!

[@williamthompson7020]

@@Neidytrozeski You are so right, and I sincerely apologize. I didn't know she was married, but that's no excuse. I viewed her channel for the first time because the KZbin system recommended her channel to me. I only listened to her for a few minutes before her physical beauty and wisdom prompted me compliment her on her beauty. And let me be very clear, I'm glad I spoke of her attractiveness. It pleased me to do so; and I'm sure she understands.

[@BlvckshadeMarle2265]

Thank you Bindi for sharing your thoughts and discussions about self-mastery. My need to straighten is in mental and emotional discipline in practice. Too often I let the ball drop. And it's usually because I get physically tired. But it's good to pick up and push yourself to read your Bible chapters and when you do, the holy spirit helps you to feel eventually better in time as you read. But it's good to remember mastery when self practicing. God prevails all trouble. It does get better with time.

[@teenah2494]

God led me here, I will put these words to practice. Amen. I have been junking unhealthily the past couple of months and this has affected my emotion, mood and even my weight/appearance.

[@lennart2303]

Being a man, I can just say that I am amazed at what the Holy Spirit has revealed to you. Sometimes, I get the impression that women cannot understand these things, but evidently they can, by the help of the Holy Spirit. Probably every woman is born with a natural ability to understand, but in this age this part of their brain has to be touched by heaven. I hope many, many of your sisters will take your words and your experience seriously.

[@elizabethzacharias1757]

How condescending…

[@ohkay1976]

@@elizabethzacharias1757 well sis it's mirrored with men of Christ too, they also aren't doing their part which is very evident. so it's both ways. & As women we can agree with bert for sure.

[@eitan1166]

wow.

[@icomeinpeace3756]

Why don't you focus on being a God fearing stand up man...because I assure you there are more examples of her walking around then there are of good black men that can actually take care of a wife and kids

[@flowerpower3618]

Well bless your heart …

[@abigailmendez8999]

you inspire me. I'm 20 years old. I pray for the wisdom you imparted. Thank you may God continue to use you.

[@melissadonis1790]

Wow.. I love this. When you said being hangry is a pathetic excuse to be sharp tongued with my children.. that hit me. these are things we need to be speaking about more! Thank you for articulating things so nicely!

[@leahg3364]

Thank you so much for this video I am literally in tears crying out to the Lord!! I am so overwhelmed by Christ’s love for me and the Father’s thoughts of me. This video has humbled me and at the same time given me an overwhelming sense of gratitude ❤