blonde men and my issue with them

[@Emma-tz2nf]

Aisha going from “how to build a better boy” to the loss of a spouse and back to how to build a better boy in less than 10 minutes is peak aisha Rae sleepover energy

[@Exinova]

Back in the day you had to pay $5 to hear mediocre boy whimper, these days days you just have to google "Leon Kennedy dead by daylight sounds" to get the cream of the crop. We are truly in a golden age.

[@dearsol.]

NOT THE LEON S KENNEDY DEAD BY DAYLIGHT SOUNDS

[@zoopzii]

LEON 😍😍😍😍

[@angel127_]

NO FR

[@konfettii9088]

"simon henriksson low health sounds"

[@nooneasked6379]

pls ik exactly the video ur talking about

[@oliviaknowstrivia]

“They did not build a better boy they built hitler’s favorite child” 😭 IM CRYING

[@Protoman00]

“This could be getting me a check.” I respect it and appreciate it Aisha

[@idilmedia]

i love that aisha devolves into insanity halfway through the video, as if the prospect of blond men is just so maddening.

[@Sapphire864]

You put the right blond im so happy

[@Jellystainedpants]

I love how she opens her mouth and lets life happen in these videos

[@dearsol.]

you explain it so well

[@chuuamor]

lmfaoo that does sum it up pretty well

[@mossyay]

as a blonde man, i agree with this message completely

[@commercialturtle9833]

Ong we can do better

[@trashtrash2169]

I'm not blond :)

[@remuslupiin]

do better❤❤

[@pifworld_]

@@commercialturtle9833yes you can dye it

[@SunWarrior155]

You reek of white guilt

[@jile_art]

haven’t even watched the video and I already agree with you

[@someoneshappyness]

THATS actually never gonna fix anything

[@jile_art]

@@someoneshappyness sorry wdym? I don’t really get your point. do you mean, like, not watching the video but already agreeing with her not gonna fix anything? if so, I’m still confused. do you mean that if I do that repeatedly that it’s not gonna fix anything? because that makes more sense. if that’s what you mean, that’s not what I do as a habit on any “opinion videos,” this is just a comment that I just randomly put, I didn’t really put anything thought to it. if that’s not the case, then please explain. (I’m genuinely confused lol)

[@mrce420.7]

​@@jile_arti can see how frantic this was haha and i also don't understand..i reread like four times and i don't get what they would've meant by that, so you're probably good

[@cornbone]

i was literally JUST talking about this yesterday. blonde men make me feel nothing. i feel nothing looking at them except sometimes fear

[@sergsputnik8568]

yeah, fear the supreme race.

[@ganondork7561]

@@sergsputnik8568 ur not helping dude

[@flamingaish]

​@@sergsputnik8568you wish lil bro

[@kyopium3676]

this sentence sounds like a blonde man wrote it@@sergsputnik8568

[@Rubywraith]

fear bc they look like lizards dude@@sergsputnik8568

[@theodoretwombly]

Ur so real about the part with the nsfw audios and youre brave for speaking up about it

[@ii-dh7lq]

THIS OMG

[@mookiess]

Omg this- i started getting second hand embrassment being both horrified but also nodding along because it’s such a mood.😭😭when she first mentioned downloading the "sounds" I was so red and then she went talking abt patreon audios and I just wanted to crawl in a hole. She isn’t even wrong. People will pay $10+ for that stuff regardless of it being only 5 min of content, and regardless of the uploads being inconsistent. We’re just that downbad and desperate and it shows.

[@dumpie4162]

@@mookiessi don’t appreciate this callout 😓

[@quazarstars637]

Im always impressed how you tow the line between comedy and supervillain monologue

[@sisiyacallate16]

Fr🤣🤣🤣

[@lizpernardstreet]

THE TURNING AWAY TO ADMIT YOUR SINS IS HILARIOUS

[@JasperHahnAnimation]

As a blonde man I agree with everything said here. Nothing to dispute.

[@turg9958]

Im sorry :(

[@JasperHahnAnimation]

@@turg9958 it's tough out here :(

[@turg9958]

@@JasperHahnAnimation at least you’re aware of your sins

[@Sapphire864]

Oh blond men. Just so blond.

[@northshoredr]

lol Aisha got dumped by a blonde guy and now she's trying to cope

[@tulip135]

off topic kinda but blonde men are the biggest enigma to me because you will not catch me looking in their general direction irl but the second they're howl loid tamaki armin arlert or just fictional in general, i turn into a slut

[@imnwithnols]

THIS!! there's just something about fictional blond men that "real" men don't have

[@brcsephina]

this is so real, i would like to add dimitri alexandre blaiddyd to the list

[@utatanepikoV5]

fictional blond men are so much better

[@bmona7550]

Only a few IRL blond men can give this feeling but so rare. I guess the lighter the hair color and how short it is the higher the need for a really good face structure to balance out the washed out look (due to the lighter hair color)? That’s my theory of this. Also they either have to be really feminine looking or really masculine looking, no in between.

[@_Lumiere_]

It's called having brainrot from unrealistic expectations caused by fiction. It's something men get shamed for, but I guess women get praised for it, or at least encouraged to perpetuate that attitude. Since it's totally OK to say that real men suck and that fictional ones are perfect, but not acceptable to say the same about real women. Like, just look at these demeaning comments about men's looks here. I'm getting serious whiplash from it because I'm so used to seeing stuff like this demonized when men do it.

[@ThatGuyKh1]

As a blonde man I agree (I’m black)

[@x7embosserbeats]

Real

[@mrfakepotato1]

As a blonde Australian male with blue eyes, I can infact imagine myself moaning at a gym sesh trying to hit pr; Nice outro and may your delusions and crazed conversations be your strength and guide you to fame and wealth.

[@Octobris]

The fact blonde or ginger men are my weakness... Well, ginger people in general, but this is not about that lol Also FINALLY someone is saying the truth about how Robert Irwin is being held hostage by his father's image. This guy can't ever be his own person and it pisses me off so much when the comments prove it time and time again

[@Alan_the_Red]

Thanks for the love, if I was single I'd chat you up lol

[@oscarthagrouch]

oh.

[@aidandoesntknow]

As someone who is blonde I can indeed say that people shiver and look away from me cringe and runaway runaway like a lil running person running away sponsored by a running shoe type running like without an umbrella run through the rain

[@KyeColymore]

as a blonde man who’s not a cuck, i cannot say the same. i’m wishing you the best on your journeys affordable whiskey, as self degradation doesn’t have to be eternal * vanishes into the shadows *

[@zeltzamer4010]

@@KyeColymoreI have not finished the video, please tell me this is just a reference to something that happens.

[@charthesmile]

i call everyone a white woman ngl it was awkward when i said “GET AWAY FROM ME WHITE WOMAN” to my black, 100% kenyan friend *not that this is related to the video, i just wanted to comment something to feel included

[@remuslupiin]

LMAOOO

[@ifredbenson]

I CALL EVERYONE WHITEY AND WHITE WOMAN BC OF WESTON

[@emmanuelsimwanza8675]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@icyjules]

So many of these comments are so hateful. Hating a group of people because of their physical appearance, you should all be ashamed of yourselves.

[@boazhardy621]

I agree. I guess body shaming men is A-okay.

[@Billiamwoods]

​@@boazhardy621where's the shaming lol

[@DJFreeway-DJExit-DJClaritin]

@@boazhardy621No body shaming light skinned men, because pale skin is almost never called handsome or sexy by any woman or man. I am mixed race with orange brown and dark hair naturally, so I am automatically considered ugly (face) because my hair is not black. I will possibly never be someones physical type (race, face, features on the face), and possibly never have a hot face all because of my hair.

[@billysanchez-eh6nn]

​@@Billiamwoodsliterally the whole video and the title

[@billysanchez-eh6nn]

​@@DJFreeway-DJExit-DJClaritinnah majority of the population on earth prefer pale men especially asia and obviously europe and a lot of north america trying to cope and hide their love for them

[@maria1036]

how to build a better boy was such a fever dream ESPECIALLY when the guy started singing love you like a love song ON THE UKULELE…

[@cherry8298]

Me clicking on this like I'm not dating a blonde hair blue eyed man

[@platypusparasol9825]

you are stronger than any us marine

[@SilverBlaze1]

Real !!

[@michaelZL]

weston is shaking after seeing the title

[@420sushitrashu4]

frrrr

[@pinapplegaming5781]

as a girl who likes a blue eyed blonde guy i feel personally attacked. I can't help it, he's a pretty boy.

[@billysanchez-eh6nn]

She's just coping cuz she was dumped by one

[@moonlance3496]

@@billysanchez-eh6nnshe was?

[@livelaughlily13]

aisha’s videos feel like it’s 3am and you are talking with your friend but the conversation starts to get more unhinged the later it gets but all the conversation jumps makes sense

[@gracie_222]

as a blonde man i agree (i'm a brunette woman)

[@mikezilla3100]

as a blonde dude with blueish green eyes, if you dye your hair blonde, you're weak. I have spoken.

[@DumplingDoodle]

goes both ways. if you dye your hair brown, it's on sight.

[@mikezilla3100]

​@@DumplingDoodleI've never seen a blonde dye brown, but I'd have to agree with your statement

[@MBCC-S-706]

@@mikezilla3100 I've seen various. Though usually dark hair to blonde looks way more off than blonde to dark hair

[@miahconnell23]

Do you have kinda translucent, difficult-to-see, eyelashes & eyebrows ? (Red-headed dude here.) Eyebrows are expressive: think “Ernie & Bert,” or “Dwayne-the-Rock-Johnson.” I’m lacking melanin: all albinos and some blonde ppl are in this with me. I don’t know how to deal with this situation. 🤷‍♀️ Mascara ? Tinting ? “Guy-liner ?”

[@mikezilla3100]

@@miahconnell23 I am primarily Italian and have pretty bushy eyebrows. They're actually brown, but my hair is naturally blonde. I do burn easy, but not easily enough to not care if I don't wear sunscreen and burn a bit

[@daram2672]

Asian women try not to make dating white guys a personality trait challenge (IMPOSSIBLE)

[@mahirahmed6523]

how does she make it her whole personality its literally one video that barely involves her bf 😭

[@yashsamuel]

​@@mahirahmed6523bro she has been making these comment frim atleast 5 videos

[@mollysalvo8360]

Hey Aisha! I would highly recommend watching the Steve Irwin story documentary it has been my favorite movie since I was 7 and it’s just such a great way to show the legacy of Steve and how he came to be and what Australia zoo was like when first devolving. It also tells of Terri and Steve’s love story started and just is so heartwarming to watch so I would definitely recommend it if your interested in the Steve Irwin story! ❤❤

[@genepozniak]

I gotta wonder if this comment was purposefully ironic or accidentally ironic. 🤣

[@groetjesuitdehel]

naaaaah that robert irwin story is too painful. I lost my dad waaaaaaaay later than him (I was 20, that robert fellah was 2 or 3) but I also got compared to my dad a lot when he lived and it’s really painful to be like a dead person because there’s a lot of pressure to be like him although you’re not. (I handle it quite well, I know I’m my own person, don’t worry about a random goober traumadimping on the interwebz)

[@sinjinhomo]

the fact weston was blonde as a kid💀

[@afterhourscinema782]

Aisha's got *"chaotic aunt"* vibes even tho she's barely in her 20s 😂

[@dressin.8.9]

aisha is filling the void that joana ceddia left when she quit youtube

[@CaritinaivyTatianaCacere-eg3ok]

I prefer blonde men 👱🏻‍♂️ because they are handsome to me 😘

[@MetrosCorner]

yet another banger from my favorite niche micro-celebrity

[@fairieiz]

realest title ever never clicked faster

[@wholetmeonhere]

the ONLY part i remember of this film is that part where albert asked that one girl out by singing love you like a love song by selena gomez and the scene. it is burned into my subconscious.

[@samwhich2707]

I’m a blonde guy and yeah we’re all existential cosmic entities with no hairlines. Theory confirmed

[@xtralbs7384]

BAHAHA I love your videos they feel like an extension of me and my friend groups' conversations. Especially the oversharing part. But we share our "secrets" in public and out loud bcs it makes it even funnier LMAOOOO 💀💀💀

[@qianyue.c]

weston: 😥😥

[@imapersonthatlives8415]

this video was so chaotic i love it 😭😭

[@HatuYT]

As a blonde man I…. Still don’t quite know what her problem with me is 😭 just busy crying about the Irwins

[@tabasomabdi551]

Omg no your lovely be relax man. ❤🙌🏻

[@RiyaWaghela-xn1ud]

which blonde guy hurt my girl 😭

[@KrucialKenn-]

I really liked your little doodle intro 😌✨ The boys had weird science and the girls got this super soldier 😂 he might not be your super soldier but he’s definitely somebody’s. 5:45 She REALLY hit that boyband pose ⭐️ I can really see you finding a place on the more nostalgic side of KZbin. Lol your room and energy are really refreshing and niche in a comfy lofi way. You could totally be a modern, Lofi inspired CC who focuses of 80’s, 90’s, and early 2000’s nostalgia from time to time. I’m no psychologist 😂but I like your interchanging personality styles. 7:19 Yeah she was a strong woman to not let it all get to her. A grieving window, especially children can get shaken beyond self repair let alone with looming paparazzi. I remember all the shock and disbelief people had back then but it was understandable disbelief. He was the man, myth and legend. I’m happy it wasn’t more like today culture back then. I’m sure children from around the world sent her letters like I’m thinking I should’ve now. Thank God she and they’re children got through it all strong people in the end. 8:46 😌✨ That you should be. You should be his Heaven on Earth and only second to God at the best point. I dig that mentality…wait am I getting gas lit?!🤣 AHHH Oof. Lol yeah tears sound too real to think about 😂 those are those painful “I can’t breathe and can’t stop” tears. if I lost piece of Heaven on Earth and love of my life 😭😅 I’d be hurt obviously but our connection would be so dope and real we’d always be one. We’d always be United✨😌 10:48 honestly at this point that’s not being religious. Religious acts are more dogmatic, repetitive and indoctrinating. Some of those acts you see aren’t really even about God, it’s about that person lacking spiritual guidance and strength. Common and causal spirituality is how it should be. “IYKYK🤷🏾‍♂️ God is great and pretty dope.” Lol no I didn’t mean for that to rhyme. 11:46 What the turning press?🤨😂 13:35 Men have made way worst financial decisions than that👍🏾 lol I say you’re in the good. 13:51 That was a cute laugh and it had me gushing in the face 😂🥰 I don’t even use the word especially like that but that’s the best way to put it lol Thanks for the vibes tonight✨🌙

[@angelicdevilwoman]

I appreciate the time stamps for this video’s commentary 😭😂 looking forward to see your comments on future uploads

[@speciosae]

You are magnetic, just going on the internet and saying shit. Keep up the good work.

[@eviIfem]

we need a podcast immediately

[@hoshiko_333]

my years of disdain to blonde men feels so seen rn😌

[@rickymartin4457]

Woha, "disdain"? That's a bit much no? I get having preferences, but what did blonde men do to you that they deserve disdain?

[@madina404]

​@@rickymartin4457they're scawy

[@user-nm9qd6bo6h]

@@rickymartin4457 It's her inferiority complex talking, pay it no mind.

[@WintaAssefa]

ahh, I love China Mclain. I started following her after I saw a video of her talking about her faith and what she had learned. She's so fun, close to her sisters and doesn't seem to care what folks think of her :)

[@jaelyngc]

perfect vid to end the night

[@annjay2581]

For any single ladies: theres a ton of free boyfriend audios on youtube, you dont have to pay for this guilty pleasure.

[@fawnwhisker]

hi aisha please tell me why there were two blonde men in your “need him so bad it makes me look stupid” catergory on the fictional men tierlist!! 😊❤!!

[@Sapphire864]

As a grammar nerd, the title made me cry 😭 The masculine term for “blonde” would be “blond” “Blonde” is the feminine version. Just a fun fact.

[@purinore]

BRO ME TOO

[@cvtisdz]

umm what if people don't believe in your iddoctic gender roles stop projecting that onto people wtf.....

[@miahconnell23]

I did not know that. 😳. Thank you ❤️

[@gunterdurden]

Asiancel seething over blondchads as always

[@baefunk]

a guy shouldnt be blonde thats for girls only

[@emmlua]

good evening aisha Rae and fans!!

[@nooneasked6379]

I love how most of this video was not about blonde men

[@tegah]

I just slept randomly for 2 hours because I felt sick and (am procrastinating massive homework that’s due tomorrow) .I just opened this video and it’s highly comforting and idk why

[@austinfrfx]

you would be a really good hr person for a small town insurance company

[@aliyahdavis4022]

you are sooo real for that whimpering reveal

[@HLDavey-Harper31]

And people with darker skin say they are the targeted minority.

[@_Mortalha_]

About the audios.... you're not alone girl...

[@drskelebone]

Is this just genderswapped Weird Science? I mean, it's probably like 90% less sexist and 1980s wonky, but that's kind of the same theme.

[@jules5153]

girl isn't your boyfriend blond

[@gloomybear.420]

weston has brown hair

[@8pija22]

Im here very early as a blonde man lets see how this goes

[@8pija22]

im chillin

[@the_meower]

swagger

[@sunsetclub4132]

Isn't your boyfriend a blond white guy

[@ella33308]

no, he's brunette

[@sunsetclub4132]

@@ella33308 Lol

[@whosebuilderandmakerisgod]

This is the part where I would always interject “I would take a blond man!” But the truth is every guy I’ve ever liked has dark hair, whether it be light brown or black. But I think it’s because I’m blond and I like the complementary phenomenon of dark hair and light hair.

[@Alan_the_Red]

I'm with a blonde/light brown chick as a ginger and she claims she had no preference lol. The idea of that is a worry of mine but at least I'm hotter than her ex 😅

[@boazhardy621]

Statistically, blond hair isn't common, so it's not surprising that the guys you like happen to have dark hair. Don't participate in the hate.

[@_kumacy_]

aren’t u dating that one white guy i forget his name u look familiar

[@jaidenp11]

weston koury

[@yashsamuel]

Yea but he ain't blond

[@getcrepuscular9755]

The irony of reigan being in the background

[@upscaleavenue]

I am a woman who is madly, madly attracted to naturally blond men with blue eyes. I think they are absolutely gorgeous. You can make your point without belittling other people and their preferences.

[@buboniccraig896]

Question What if Im kinda blonde And kinda brunette Like, somewhere in-between Like, its very lighting dependent

[@CloudStrifeFF7]

The tier list was definitely foreshadowing to this video

[@filipeferreira5085]

You did a really good job of grabbing my attention with the title. But it seems like your problem with blond men is that "women don't want blond men", that it's hard to distinguish their hair from their skin and that somehow blond men are not allowed to struggle when doing physical exercise, which is a bold claim coming from someone who looks like they can't benchpress the bar. It's okay if your preference isn't blond, I actually think it's great that you have a preference and you know what traits to look for in a man, but generalizing and saying that women don't want blond men or don't like them seems not only misogynistic, but also racist. On the other hand, the writer and director are both white, so the choice for a blond man as the perfect boy was most likely biased, although it seems like the only requirement was for the man to be handsome, which Marshall Williams is, so I don't see much of a problem there

[@tilly_lamprell]

If how to build a better boy was written by a women the boyfriend would look like Henry Cavill.

[@haydenrandomantes4580]

Culturally what people have deemed attractive has vastly varied from points of history. Even back in the late 90s which was barely 30 years ago, our beauty and fashion standards today have changed dramatically from then. Even though this movie was, according to google, made in 2014, think about how life was in 2014 vs how it is now. Idk about you but I was 11 years old in 2014. What I found attractive at 11 vs what I find attractive now is COMPLETELY different. The point I'm trying to make is that this movie is basically a historical document of American culture, and that what people saw attractive back then is likely what is was, even if it's different today.

[@roflcopter_launchpad1116]

Blonde guys are just as cute as brunette or ginger guys. It's just that the ones that get the most media coverage tend to be YIKES. Anyway, Himbo supremacy.

[@lighting7508]

jesus christ so racist wtf lmaoooooooo?

[@carmeluchi1505]

I have never agreed with something SO STRONGLY. You explained the words I couldnt say

[@edgirl3115]

Watching this getting ready to go on a date with a blonde, Swedish man feelin real self conscious right about now

[@franka2819]

Omg how did it goooo?

[@edgirl3115]

@@franka2819 Bestie he was an Andrew Tate defender haha need I say more

[@heyhi7415]

Yep this one’s going into my cringe compilation

[@addisonthedaydreamer]

"they did not build a better boy, they built hitler's child" may be the coldest, hardest line I've ever heard.

[@hawtsauce2982]

As a blonde man, this kinda hurt my feelings :/

[@itaintobeezy]

Dude embrace it, they hate us cause they ain’t us

[@tabasomabdi551]

Oh no there is no problem with your eye or hair color . you are lovely.❤🙌🏻

[@Beanys728]

literally what was the point of this video except that you don't find the guy attractive?

[@user-pw6ft1ie9l]

for a giggle

[@MP-kx7kq]

Aisha we need a podcast please and thank you 👀

[@ii-dh7lq]

Aisha you don’t know how much I love watching your videos I literally get so excited every time I get a notification from your channel because you make my days better

[@Wintyyyy_]

12:43 Naw oh no girl not the boyfriend asmr 😩 ....same

[@drunkenswordsman3373]

What if I'm blonde, but balding so it basically just looks like I'm bald at 21

[@drunkenswordsman3373]

Also, would you say that the Australian Zoo is like a... some kinda... Zootopia?

[@kingj6677]

“Where’s my white man?” -Aisha 2023

[@maria1036]

wonderful time to watch this video while i do my skincare routine!!!

[@פוליטיקטינסקיקליינר]

Is this a joke? Am i missing something? Or is this video litrally just shaming blonde man?

[@aquaruisangel]

i love adhd rant time

[@overlyanxious5692]

ok how the hell did she just spend that long talking about the irwin lore

[@yukikanegawa7470]

I'm a light skinned Latina. I can assimilate with the white brunettes if i feel like but i still feel so like in 'Get Out' when I'm alone with a blonde man. I feel like they're usually either super nice in like a 'raised in a church' kinda way or they're super rude and dismissive. Rarely have i met a middle of the road yt man. Cultural difference maybe but idk. Blondes are a lot.

[@professional.commentator]

I'm white myself, well Eastern European, and I've noticed this too. White people for the most part are either super nice or super mean. No in between.

[@bmona7550]

@@professional.commentatorWhite people to me mostly feel like cats to be honest. Less likely to warm up to a stranger but when they do you know they want to hang out with you type of vibe. You also have to act/look more proper or a certain way

[@chi___ra07]

You can make a whole video talking about those whimpering audios ngl LMAO

[@steve19811]

The jealousy and envy is off the charts.... maybe this girl should lean into her Southern European genetics and go with her blonde boy attraction.....

[@tabasomabdi551]

What do you mean exactly by this?🤔

[@glanty]

​@@tabasomabdi551 weirdo 💀

[@glanty]

Not you him

[@charliec9728]

watching this at 11:48pm with my phone at 12% to get the full experience

[@paddy2019]

As insulting as it was to be likened to another species, it felt like the pot calling the kettle black when Aisha reached out to the camera with her terrifying skeletal hand.

[@T.F.Thimble]

i read the title and was really mad until i put my glasses on (i thought it said blind)

[@somethangwong1810]

as a blond man, hope this pays your bills

[@literarydialect]

say what you want i have a thing for a guy who's blond

[@syndae]

i live in finland. blonde blue eyed people are very common here. as a certified blond man hater im struggling

[@tabasomabdi551]

Oh really?why do you hate them?