I guess this is why people get addicted to games, and play them for hours a day. it's to constantly break them out of the cycle of ruminative thought.
@mack-attack-4203 жыл бұрын
I've noticed myself binging KZbin to get away from my own thoughts. Anything to distract yourself
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@mack-attack-420 Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@mack-attack-4203 жыл бұрын
@@shyaaammeneen63 funny you should mention this now, just today I've been noticing my breath more and allowing it to calm me down. Its helped me become happier and calmer. I'll give the video you mentioned a try, thanks. Have a good day
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@mack-attack-420 The affirmations at night before sleep will also help you a lot because the subconscious mind is reprogrammed for relaxation. I listen to them every night for 10 minutes. Take up challenges in life. God is there with you. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir-Counsellor.
@asafc52503 жыл бұрын
story of my life
@rowenabisschoff4 жыл бұрын
Found this in the middle of the night while ruminating. I use immersive games and worried that I was trying to escape from my problems. 🤣 Thanks for a lot of validation!!
@lalinera82792 жыл бұрын
Omg yes, I just found this and I feel soooo validated. I thought I was waiting time by playing a games for few mins. I got the green card from this video 😁
@katieduffy36343 жыл бұрын
I ruminate a lot and it ruins my life. I’m very interested in this, thank you for studying it snd sharing your findings. ❤️
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
Ka tie, Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. You can heal yourself. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын
Someone could say something in such a harsh and cruel manner and it just goes around and round in my head for so long, I have some of them in my head right now and I don’t even think they’ll go away..it’s terrifying
@PaddyIrishman3 жыл бұрын
I have been ruminating incessantly since I got involved in drugs in my twenties. That combined with a violent household and having almost gone to prison, seemed to set something off in my brain. I could ruminate for every single hour of every day while awake, for the best part of a decade. Less so now, but it's still there and ruins my days. In the past, I did find the only time I did not ruminate was when I was deep in a task, physical work or video gaming. it's ruined most of my relationships and had me in and out of a few psychologists and CBT nurses.
@ivanfugazi5779 Жыл бұрын
I feel you bro going through something similar rn 😢
@PaddyIrishman Жыл бұрын
@@ivanfugazi5779 Man, definitely seek some help. here are therapists who specifically help and also a thing I discovered is my gut had been destroyed by stress, which has led to a good portion of my depression, anxiety and paranoia. I would advise you to find out if you have issues with your gut/intestine. I had to go for a colonoscopy, and endoscopy and they found I have a chronic issue. There's so much info coming to now about the link between your gut and your brain. Remember the old sayings, trust your gut, or I have a gut feeling. It's literally all connected. I hope this helps 🙏
@chrispeers4111 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been ruminating severely for the past 2 years now. It’s taken everything from me, I don’t know what I’m ruminating about though that’s the thing…I think im ruminating about ruminating. But I’m constantly negative and I can’t enjoy anything as I feel as though I have to focus on this thing. I’m never fully present
@Halogalandwanderer2 жыл бұрын
I’m 34 and I just realized that I have add. Thought loops, anxiety, focus issues, but also something I can’t describe well. I’d be interested in hearing if anyone feels the same- it’s almost like a very intense claustrophobia feeling but in regards to the place I am. I’ve been moving around my entire adult life. I’ll fell fine for a few weeks then I’ll get the claustrophobia anxiety feeling and only feel alright when I’m in transition again. I can’t describe it too well but it’s honestly a worse feeling than any depression or sadness I’ve ever had. Because the feeling is so frantic and pressing like it’s an emergency that I have to leave. My worst fear is being a wanderer for life but I struggle so badly with this. Any insights would be greatly appreciated
@Dawghome2 жыл бұрын
Having been a single parent since 21 years old, for me & this is just how my story goes, but I experienced very similar feelings for a good few years. At 23, I found myself in dire straights so entered a therapeutic center to beg for help! I knew I couldn't cure myself in a vacuum! So, as a kid growing up, I was moved around frequently, so... having a kid I was in charge of I felt it might be just as damaging to him if he too was frequently uprooted. If I could do that to him, what was I running from? There may be several things at play within your experiences, & I think you did a pretty good job describing how you experience your cycles. In my now 64 years, I've gotten myself diagnosed D.I.D. twice in my adult life and doing all I can to improve things in my life and recovery. I've been extremely unhappy in recent years & reverted to some old behaviours & being self destructive, or habitual with KZbin and internet. Now? I'm choosing to learn better self-love actions, meditation/s, going for walks, but I referred to meditation because with those I'm attracted to, are where I've to focus, sit with me and how I feel, focussing on trying to relax beginning with 10 minuets to begin with & as time goes by, for longer periods of time. I wish you well on your journey of discovery. (Edit), just reread your post. My nickname with my work colleagues when I was 17 years old was, 'the wanderer'!!
@Halogalandwanderer2 жыл бұрын
@Dawg Home I appreciate your comment. I’ll start with ten minutes today. I think part of my problem is the knowledge that there are thousands of different lives I could live in thousands of different places. So when I find myself in one of them, I feel I’m missing out and I want to experience the others. Also maybe I’m addicted to the feeling of being in transition or maybe I am just running from things. Hoping some day I’ll figure it out
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
@@Dawghome In life there are 2 main problems--mind and the body. . For overthinking problem be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath sensations at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You can sit or lay down on the bed--eyes closed--No deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Never meditate with expectations but with self-awareness. Observe your breath anywhere -anytime-- before sleep, when travelling, taking a walk, etc with eyes open or closed. Like me make breath observing a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
@@Halogalandwanderer In life there are 2 main problems--mind and the body. . For overthinking problem be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath sensations at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You can sit or lay down on the bed--eyes closed--No deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Never meditate with expectations but with self-awareness. Observe your breath anywhere -anytime-- before sleep, when travelling, taking a walk, etc with eyes open or closed. Like me make breath observing a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@JesusSaves77799 Жыл бұрын
@@Dawghome I am a follower of Jesus Christ. I would recommend giving your life over to God and asking the Holy Spirit to enter your heart and accepting Jesus Christ as God and God’s Son. Then ask God to guide you with how you can best serve Him. I found this is best found in helping others. Ask God to lead you and then the focus will be off of you and put in His Hands. Also look for some great Christian pastors and speakers online to help guide you, and find a good Church as well. I think in living without a purpose is where we get to aimlessly wandering. God created us in His Image to Glorify Him. I pray for God to help you and help lead you in Jesus’s Holy Name, Amen! 🙏💖
@veryconfused97682 жыл бұрын
that clock thingy giving me massive panic attack. my worrry is not having enough time and lord this thing scared me
@BlueFlyer834 жыл бұрын
VERY intriguing. I've been having regular issues with rumination and the only thing I could find that helps is a distraction of some sort. Problem is I can't find one distraction that works regularly. Guess I'll have to try Tetris.
@randomnessanimation68314 жыл бұрын
I been ruminating my whole life, I always end up crying and blaming myself for all the bad memories I’ve had. Any suggestions?
@edmondlonergan99153 жыл бұрын
pray the rosary..
@dukeanddauphindonald88493 жыл бұрын
@Sobnom Mostari Good idea
@five-forty34313 жыл бұрын
@Sobnom Mostari Excellent! Thank you
@FerventlyUnderstanding3 жыл бұрын
Try journaling, and continue watching helpful videos on youtube about self therapy, I’m struggling with this too and it’s helping me to do this. Mainly I think it is a bad mental habit! And you must work to be more aware and to break the habit of negative overthinking. Goodluck! 🤍
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@FerventlyUnderstanding Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@amandaconnell6532 жыл бұрын
I play chess or draughts on my phone & it breaks the anxiety loop. I also say to myself, " it's just a thought, it's not real, doesn't mean that the anxiety predictions will happen. Have to practice daily.
@zurizoraya86723 жыл бұрын
This is awesome. . I can really try this method to keep me from obsessing about the negative things that have happen in my life and reprogram my brain in a way :) Its crazy that I came across this video because I just decided the other day I need to refocus my thoughts.
@makaylabratz9694 жыл бұрын
My ruminating has gotten worse in the last 2 years. This sounds like a great idea, except my ruminating is at its worst when I'm driving. I'm open to learning more.
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
Ma kayla, Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. You can heal yourself. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@aryanchauhan5242 жыл бұрын
What type of thoughts you have while you are in ruminating phase
@pan29904 жыл бұрын
Tetris is fantastic for breaking negative ruminations.
@shashwatpriyadarshi9723 жыл бұрын
Tetris?
@pan29903 жыл бұрын
@@shashwatpriyadarshi972 yep, short burst of task oriented problem solving. Breaks the cycle.
@shashwatpriyadarshi9723 жыл бұрын
@@pan2990 examples?
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@shashwatpriyadarshi972 Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. You can heal yourself. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-negative thoughts. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
@@pan2990 Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. You can heal yourself. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-negative thoughts. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
Very useful video. For overthinking problem be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath sensations at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You can sit or lay down on the bed--eyes closed--No deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Never meditate with expectations but with self-awareness. Observe your breath anywhere -anytime-- before sleep, at work, when travelling, taking a walk, etc with eyes open or closed. Like me make breath observing a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@ronmossman8136 Жыл бұрын
Your comments are more helpful than the video.
@user-rh3ox6tt1t2 жыл бұрын
So once your ruminating thoughts get distracted by playing the game and then when you stop what happens? How can the effect be continuously effective even after stopping playing? Wonder how it works. If the impacts of it are too short the person is gonna be addicted to the game I reckon. Then it’s like hiding the problem behind another problem.
@MrSzoSs10 ай бұрын
I’d argue against this as im now ruminating and it’s very crippling to be constantly overanalyzing everything that has just happened. Im basically a gaming addict and play games much more immersive and stimulating than Tetris and it might work to help escape these thoughts for sometime but they come back even when im gaming. Compulsive escapism will only bring much larger consequences.
@jaybenjamin56494 жыл бұрын
Anyone know what app it is as I would love to get back tomy
@nancybelli4 жыл бұрын
I love this, thank you!
@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын
Why do I have this and barely anyone else does :(( ughhh
@pawlogates Жыл бұрын
Literally me 😩
@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын
@@pawlogates im mentally ill as all hell , it really sucks
@pawlogates Жыл бұрын
@@musicandpoetry_8 yeah and its just so painfull when its both that and being mostly alone in college maybe even partly due to that :c
@musicandpoetry_8 Жыл бұрын
@@pawlogates yeah I’m alone too :((
@hsedo21264 жыл бұрын
I'm finding myself becoming anxious and down a bit lately and just being in my head most of the time. How do I break from this?
@jackjones96113 жыл бұрын
I understand completely. I’ve tried medication and got some relief but what he is saying distract yourself as soon as it starts. I’ve told myself “stop” aloud. It’s all easier said than done but it takes time. I hope you are doing better. I’m with you in spirit.
@shyaaammeneen633 жыл бұрын
Sedo, Only if thought rumination becomes too much consulting a psychologist may be needed. You can heal yourself. Your breath is directly related to your mind [brain] causing anxiety-stress. For a relaxed life without anxiety-negative thoughts sit on a chair, back erect, hands on lap with palms upwards, eyes closed, be still and observe your natural incoming--outgoing breath for around 10-15 minutes. Be as still as possible. Many thoughts will come which is ok--slowly negative thoughts will reduce and your mind will relax. During your daily activity keep observing your breath consciously. Best part is mood swings also reduce. Do the above meditation daily to feel relaxed. For more relaxation enter the following on google search and listen before sleep repeating the affirmations in your mind. -“52Hz affirmations for health and healing you tube”. Find peace of mind. Best wishes. Shyaaam Sir. -Counsellor.
@silvianosanchez81662 жыл бұрын
I have a really odd ruminating thought(s), that ruin my life and I fall into the worse of depressions. Every time I am in a relationship, the first 2-3 months are great. After that, I start ruminating about my girlfriend's past. I start thinking about why they stayed in relationships that according to them, they were miserable in. My mind starts judging this person that when I started the relationship with them, I thought they were smart and strong women. Now I see them as weak and stupid women. I don't want to, but it happens. I do have to admit, that this rumination starts as soon as I start fighting and arguing with my girlfriend. Maybe it's a way of my brain telling me that I'm in an unhealthy relationship or that this person I am dating, has a lot of emotional trauma...which has always been the case. I seem to attract women that look fine at first, but once I get intimate with them, and the arguments start, the ruminations start and I fall into a deep depression in which I just want to die. The pain is real and unbearable. I'm going through this right now, again. And I'm really ready to throw in the towel on this living thing. Someone out there that has conquered or greatly improved, please help me. Again, I think by rumination is unique, but if you have the exact ruminations, please help me.
@xsuburbanxheartx2 жыл бұрын
i’m not an expert by any means, but look into relationship ocd maybe? i hope it gets better for you
@cherishburke45982 жыл бұрын
Sounds like Narcissism
@ShannicanSkywalker3 жыл бұрын
See I’ll be playing those games and still ruminating those anxious thoughts. Then any time I play that particular game I think about what I was thinking about at the time of rumination. It’s a sickness I’m trying to heal
@nimimerkillinen3 жыл бұрын
Maybe a game you haven habituated too much but its not too hard or easy either?
@user-zi3qs8fh5l2 жыл бұрын
Same if i try to distract myself i find myself ruminating on my rumination💀how are you now?
@coryacker38093 жыл бұрын
what's the app name??
@maxhalliwell3 жыл бұрын
Very good presentation young man 👍
@nimimerkillinen3 жыл бұрын
Thanks, been doing blitz or bullet chess instead
@christinagreaves79325 жыл бұрын
This sounds so interesting
@prosperouseye2 жыл бұрын
Before I listen to all this does he mention a food we can eat, a supplement to take, medicine to ingest or process that can help those of us who ruminate so much we can't even sleep...get a hold on this?
@ashtynpendley69422 жыл бұрын
I had a mental breakdown in 2021 due to rumination and now it’s happening again. I’m terrified and I do not know what to do
@drsirwilliamthethirdjr2 жыл бұрын
Same here. I got caught in a nasty rumination cycle a couple years ago. It is starting to come back and I don't know what I am going to do.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
@@drsirwilliamthethirdjr . For overthinking problem be careful what you feed your mind. Avoid comparing yourself with others, reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. For a relaxed mind observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath sensations at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You can sit or lay down on the bed--eyes closed--No deep breathing. Don’t fight your thoughts. With practice the mind will relax. Never meditate with expectations but with self-awareness. Observe your breath anywhere -anytime-- before sleep, at work, when travelling, taking a walk, etc with eyes open or closed. Like me make breath observing a lifetime habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@IrishMexican Жыл бұрын
So in summary: Tetris has cured anxiety
@ayushansh73842 жыл бұрын
My problem was very different from most of the people it's actually is rumination about ghost existence or exorcism like things pls someone give me positive answer regarding it...
@someguy752 Жыл бұрын
What's the app his talking about?
@Lori_g70Ай бұрын
Which app? Do you mean Tetris?
@Dwelleronthethreshold893 жыл бұрын
Great, more dependency.
@Patrick-qp5ov3 жыл бұрын
Does this app exist if so what is it called please
@tvpssskchukai2 жыл бұрын
It works,thanks..😀
@vikasgupta18282 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@tumsenbasar14432 жыл бұрын
Iam ruminating over my iq I can't stop thinking about it.
@SonOfManMusic Жыл бұрын
nice
@right..5651 Жыл бұрын
"I can do all things through CHRIST who strengthens me". ❤✝️🙏