Brian Dennehy on drinking

[@patriciagoh5]

I went out with him for 3 years. He was such a fine actor screen and stage, his first love was the stage. He didn't like making movies but did them for the money. He wasn't married when we dated in LA and my husband had passed away young. We had great times, same birthday July 9th, he was a fine movie star but never really believed it or liked it. He should have gotten an Academy Award for playing the role of Presser in the film Teamster Boss.

[@brooke8567]

Jackie Pressar

[@bradleyjjohnson]

He was one of the most charismatic actors - and scene stealers - of all time. I remember him vividly in the movie 10,Gorky Park, Cocoon, Silverado. He was exceptional.

[@ingleringlet-snipps3rd449]

Did he like the craft of acting, but perhaps not the politics? Thank you for sharing.

[@GeorgeBorrego]

The boxing film Gladiator. Underated gem as well. He killed it in that film

[@bennylane9701]

I dated all three of the Chipmunks.

[@flipperdale51]

That's a great, relatable, story. I drank heavily after the military for many years, until later in life, I started giving art lessons to kids. After looking at their bright eyed innocence and attentiveness, something told me to quit drinking and be more like them. I did, and at 63 I now have over 20 years of sobriety.... God bless you Brian Dennehy. R.I.P..

[@johnnyfreedom3437]

Coming up on 8 years of sobriety after years of failed treatments and half successful 12-step programs. Now I know it's not for everybody, but a very well-made cannabis extract became my savior. Eliminated all desire for drinking within 30 days!! #CannabisCures

[@rocknewtonfilsterwilly7364]

Good Job!

[@5Ring]

My Dad, a Vietnam Veteran with PTSD and multiple other issues drank himself half to death for forty years. He tortured my mother, my sister, and me with his nightly, angry drunken homecomings. Nothing physical, just rage. Then, ten years ago, my 8yr old niece looked at him and said, "Pop Pop, why are you always drunk"? He hasn't had a drink since (proud of him). So Brian was right. One child that you love. Wish I'd asked him forty years ago.

[@MrBlunt32]

Sounds similar to my dad. Guess thats a thing with ptsd.

[@iwritechecksatthegrocerystore]

Yep. That’s how it works. 😂😂 Just a little kid. Let me guess? And then everyone clapped? 😂😂

[@tr7b410]

If my dada Korean war veteran didn't drink about 4 beers a night, he couldn't sleep & would wake up with night terrors.

[@mr.l3785]

I am sorry you went through this, but also thankful you shared your story. By sharing, you helped people who needed to read this.

[@mr.l3785]

@@MrBlunt32 It is actually.

[@bghoody5665]

It takes more than a look of desperation from a child, it also requires a man of humility to know when to stop. I'm sure his son is very grateful for what he did. RIP Brian, you will be missed.

[@unbridledenthusiasm]

True words my friend

[@zeebest1004]

I’m certain that “look” happened many other times. Other stuff too. Sometimes just one event can trigger memories…

[@matthewmehegan3475]

Even in conversation, what a powerful stage presence. RIP.

[@amospizzey1]

Beautiful honest interview. This is a large part of why I got sober 13 years ago Same scenario with my then 6 year old daughter . Respect ❤️

[@Marcfj]

Brian Dennehy was one of the most underrated actors in the history of Hollywood.

[@worldsgreatestimpressionis6462]

Couldn't agree more

[@vonboldler5219]

I always thought that.

[@zegumazim6107]

🍑💨😵‍💫bull crap everybody loves to use the word : " underrated " on the net from actors songs or even comments ....turkey poo

[@larzgod]

@@worldsgreatestimpressionis6462 Indeed

[@michaelhogan4666]

I love everything he’s ever been in! Excellent actor…Tommy’s dad…❤️🍀

[@1952mrpdc]

Love BD. I was an alcoholic for many years due to my first wife passing away after having a liver transplant when she was just 24 years old. She dies at 28 years old. Drinking for 37 years nearly ruined and killed me. I became Type 2 Diabetic. One day it all stopped for me as I was watching a film on my computer wearing my headphones, I was drinking ice cold Guinness. I had about 4 cans. After a while I became very tired even though I was on medication for Type 2 but thought nothing of it. I went to bed for 2. 30 pm and woke up at 10 pm. A totally wasted day and night. So I thought, this is no good something must change. I opened my mobile fridge and literally took out all 13 cans of draught Guinness and threw them all down the drain. I decided as my waist was 48 inches I had to do something about my lifestyle... I decided to buy all the Diabetic books I could. But they all sounded similar or the authors were saying this is not right or we don't agree with that. In the end I decided to try something of my own. Going for walks every day. Eating chicken salad sandwiches and I started a weight loss notepad. From going 95.00 kg to 80. 90 kg I have lost well over the weight I was asked to. I was told I should lose 27 pounds in weight. I have actually lost about 30 pounds. I have had to change my clothing etc. But instead of sleeping during the day as I was, I now have more energy than I had before. This diet and excercise has worked for me but it may not work for every one. I am just past 70 years of age but actually look 50 years of age. PC. 19. 01. 2023. PS. I am saving money each day instead of drinking it !.

[@BBB-Schmuck]

People say you were more fun as a drunk, now you're a preachy bore.

[@colinbell8502]

I had a similar journey, but with help. The NHS paid for a diabetic remission programme, with soups and shakes and dropped 3 and 1/2 stone over 12 weeks. been trying to keep it off ever since

[@pete9124]

Good on you mate! Thanks for telling your story and hope you are still doing well. A victory!

[@1952mrpdc]

@@pete9124 This is an update for you. I am now past 72 years of age and have lost 63 pounds in weight. I am not type 2 diabetic anymore and feel much better. I am still not drinking and have not for 153 days. PC 28. 09. 2024.

[@BBB-Schmuck]

@@1952mrpdc TMI, Too long and nobody cares 5 minutes after reading this.

[@flashy5150]

Brian Dennehy was such an underrated actor, he was truly “incredible”.

[@Th3rdknight]

Just strolling by this clip and all I remember is Rambo and how he was in that. What a lovely sounding guy IRL. RIP.

[@tarakb7606]

Always liked watching him no matter what the movie was. RIP

[@PNL_King]

Gladiator blew

[@brunogastardi2927]

Tribute Brian Dennehy kzbin.info/www/bejne/lZ7Fn6Vre6-fkJo

[@michellerosebrown]

Now Christopher Plummer is gone. R.I.P to a Canadian legend! 🇨🇦

[@yankeeclipper28]

Always a dynamite performance

[@robertmehn7939]

He made every movie he was in better

[@theaustinpowers]

For Brian to be this honest and forthright, speaks volumes as to what a genuine and caring father he was.

[@econtrolable]

The second hardest thing in my life to quit was alcohol. Cigarettes did not even come close to alcohol. I quit drinking two years ago and my body is still trying to repair itself. My deepest respect to anyone battling any type of addiction. Love yourself.

[@Frank75288]

what was the hardest ?

[@econtrolable]

@@Frank75288 My willful self destruction. It is still an ongoing battle. Alcohol is a rare occasional battle and cigarettes almost never. Self destruction kicks my ass.

[@econtrolable]

@@Frank75288 My ongoing battle with my need for self destruction.

[@kennyronald1886]

My brother needs your strength. God bless

[@econtrolable]

@@kennyronald1886 We all have the strength. It is the desire that is needed. The hardest part of ending addiction is making the decision to do so. May the Universe heal you and your family!

[@elsuprimo0674]

Neither one of my parents recognized or acknowledged that look in my eye. God bless you Brian Dennehy. Rest in peace.

[@anitavirginillo]

I'm sorry they didn't recognize it in you.

[@johnnyrocker7495]

Same here. But we have prevailed, friend. Keep going and good luck.

[@bruceclark8333]

I had entered a 33 day in house program at a rehab. My wife and two year old son Chris came to visit a few weeks later. We celebrated his 2nd birthday there. When they were getting to leave he started to cry. He wanted me to go home with them. But I couldn’t I had to stay and start to rebuild my life. I cried when they pulled away and I said to myself never again! Today 39 years later I’m still clean and sober and Chris is a fine young man who’s happily married and he works for me. So you see there can be a happy ending for your life but not if drugs and alcohol are involved!

[@5thdimension954]

Congratulations on building a life worth living.

[@bruceclark8333]

@@5thdimension954 thank you 🙏

[@jazzysophie9943]

Brain Dennehy is one of my favorite actors. Brian and Gene Hackman are tops.

[@chriswoosley3883]

well said

[@kelvinlewis4065]

I agree ..I,m from Wales ..Loved seeing this guy and when you see him on camera .You know its going to be good ..He came over as a real nice bloke ...He was not a star and I think didnt want to be ..He just knew what he could do very well ..God bless .R.I.P.

[@cristianmicu]

gene hackman is at a whole another level when it comes to acting doesnt even compare yes is his yt video, but dont come putting him next to a legend like gene hackman

[@FourHorsemen-k2y]

Gene Hackman in the French Connection was brilliant, the most underrated movie and a classic...

[@MTknitter22]

jt these older generation actors were the BEST Nobody seems to be taking their place

[@cat-lw6kq]

His acting in First Blood is great I never get tired of watching that film.

[@txhansolo22]

Dennehy made that movie. for you Trek fans it's his daughter that played Cmdr. Shelby in the two part Borg episode.

[@tony7054]

My favourite film

[@quuhodjones8125]

Me neither

[@MaxRockatansky853]

The 4k is stunning.

[@curtbrackenrich7883]

A little more screen time and he would have stole the movie from Stallone. But he always went out of his way to talk up his fellow actors, including Sly. A class act, RIP.

[@JHallenbeck]

Had a similar moment with my own father once upon a time. Very moving confessional. RIP Brian.

[@CamanoRick]

I was the worlds biggest drunk for many years of my life. It was so hard to quit, and so easy to start again (but it always brought me back to where I was when I quit: once a pickle, can never be a cucumber again). In my latest streak of sobriety, in the early 2000's I took my son to the Sasquatch weekend show at the Gorge. The music, the atmosphere was great. Everyone was drinking but me. The yearning for a drink overcame me and I got up to go buy a large beer. My young son, who had seen how alcohol impacted my / our lives, walked with me towards the beer stand. He reasoned with me "please don't do it, please push it off - please don't start again". The love in his eyes, the hope in his eyes, the fear in his eyes - brought me pause. Something changed inside me. I didn't buy that beer (that would have set me off on another decade of drunk events). We walked past that beer stand. 20 years later I still haven't had a drink.

[@sherrymiller2302]

I loved his acting ... so professional and believable...will miss seeing him on the screen!

[@gutenbird]

He drank because of his guilt about John Rambo. He just had to push it.

[@marksowers7196]

🤣

[@keithblume5159]

This is the funniest thing I have heard all week

[@jp3492]

But then John gave him a war he wouldn't believe..Why didn't he let it go?

[@GymChess]

lol

[@r.williamcomm7693]

Dennehy was a repeated pathological stollen valor offender. www.google.com/amp/s/www.denverpost.com/2010/01/26/military-lies-are-harmful-to-actual-veterans/amp/

[@tikitavi7120]

That story about his kid shows a lot of class. Fine actor, fine person. Well done sir!

[@user3378e]

He saw fear in his kids face because he drinks so much that his children fear him. And he said he still drinks. This is so sad. I’m so tired of celebrities congratulating themselves for doing nothing. That should have been a wake up call and not a reason to put down your glass of wine. I guarantee he picked it up again that night and pounded it in the next room.

[@Bubbles99718]

Before that story he was slamming people who don't drink. He has the alcoholics brain

[@gerrydooley951]

kudos for your comment good sir

[@jtb1245]

Beautiful story ❤️... always proud to say the big man was Irish ☘️ American 🇺🇸❤️🇮🇪... love to all from Ireland 🇮🇪

[@marilynstewart2902]

I saw him in death of salesman he was just wonderful but he is good in what ever he did it was my birthday and my daughter knew how much I adored him so she made it possible for me to meet him in person it was like being in a movie I usually have no problem talking but I barely got out a hello rest in peace my Prince u shall always be in our hearts.

[@jtb1245]

Marilyn Stewart lovely story 😎👍... what part of the world are you from ?

[@edmundmcgrath213]

@@jtb1245 The Underworld.

[@sargy1916]

His grandfather was from Millstreet,Co.Cork...Brian bought a house in Ardgroom in the early 90's where all his family visited

[@gerrydooley951]

yeah , he was a typical , big mouth , Irish drunk

[@Luv2u01]

Top notch actor and great guy. Rest In Peace Brian. You will be missed.

[@christopherp.hitchens3902]

"Top notch actor"? Listen, we're all entitled to our opinion: IF WE HAVE CREDENTIALS. That was a lot like saying Keanu Reeves is a "Top notch actor". Are you crazy?

[@HMMELD]

I agree - top notch

[@DougWolfe]

Absolutely agree with you Crystal: he was a top notch actor. Almost as top notch as Keanu Reeves, come to think of it.

[@christopherp.hitchens3902]

@@DougWolfe - We already know that mediocrities like almost everything.

[@thebigpicture2032]

@@christopherp.hitchens3902 for someone who didn’t like acting, he sure was naturally talented. He had an immense screen presence.

[@evandegenfelder4554]

I always adored Brian Dennehy. Great actor and fine man. I wish my Mom had had a moment like he had with his little boy. .

[@CLASSICALFAN100]

A wimp and a blimp...lol

[@j.j.4228]

I met him in the lobby of a hotel once. He actually talked to me for almost 20 min. Very nice guy.

[@j.j.4228]

@Mike Hoskins All the movies he was in that I knew. He said he hadn't lived in Hollywood for awhile. Said he was in Chicago for some Plays he was in. I saw Scott Glenn the week before so we talked about him and the movie Silverado. I didn't have the guts to ask him about Bobby Knight stuff.

[@j.j.4228]

@Mike Hoskins I didn't ask enough good questions. Was surprised that he wasn't taller. Seemed right at 6 feet tall. In first blood he looks 6'3".

[@j.j.4228]

@Mike Hoskins lol. I met Matt Modine and towered over me. I'm 5'11.

[@Stunatra]

@@j.j.4228 People shrink as they age too. He may well have been 6'3 in those days.

[@robertsullivan4773]

Great actor. When I saw his name in a cast I knew it probably would be worth watching. Love his comment on drinking. I myself make myself stop all drinking for lent and for weeks at a time during the year. Just to show myself it doesn't control me.

[@ianlloyd6812]

Good conversation/interview! You let the man talk! Thank you.

[@domenickparris7650]

When he said that the look in his son's eyes got him to curtail his drinking, that was powerful.

[@ЕЛКОРДОБЭСТОРЕРО]

His performance on Silverado was fantastic. RIP!

[@johnotter870]

So appreciate your message, Bryan, wish my two sons to see your light. Rest well... Loved All of your acting.

[@taylorahern3755]

RIP Brian, as you were one of The Best, Last of The Mohicans...this true, indomitable, old school Irishman, & a real master of the stage, always bringing your characters to fearsome, vivid life. God Bless, & RIP My Great Man🙏🙏😞😞🇺🇸🇺🇸

[@SEALCOATINGISLIFE]

Well said

[@taylorahern3755]

@@SEALCOATINGISLIFE Thank You!

[@deanhennen5160]

Last of the mohicans?

[@taylorahern3755]

@@deanhennen5160 Those who put their love of stage before movies, even if that meant taking major pay cuts, making career sacrifices & honing their craft while performing live, stuff like that!

[@sandraressel2262]

@@deanhennen5160 One of the final great actors.

[@craigsmith2030]

Brilliant actor brian was. He had such a touch of class about him, big presence on screen. Gem of a man off screen and will be so sadly missed. R.I.P brian dennehy, your movies will always be watched. Your legacy is stamped in history. One of his best performances for me was in To Catch A killer. He was perfectly cast. My personal favorite of brian's movies.

[@91Kingscrib84]

Sad to lose Brian Dennehey, April 15, 2020. A fine actor who gave some iconic performances. R.I.P.

[@parsnipmcgee329]

I always felt a connection with this actor. Even when he was playing despicable bastards, there was an underlying charisma.

[@scottwilson5979]

John Wayne Gacy?

[@chitekwe]

@Alex He could make a guy shit himself with just a smile and that stare.

[@CLASSICALFAN100]

Lots of actors simply "play themselves" ,as the world's easiest job, like BD...

[@dutchy1176]

Remember In Broad Daylight? He was the perfect town bully.

[@MisterMitchMM]

Godspeed Brian. Thank you for many years of entertaining us. Rest in Peace

[@MartianTom]

One of my favourite actors. RIP Brian. And he's right.... 'Don't do this.'

[@chonconnor6144]

One of the most underrated actors, displayed such quiet aggressiveness perfectly in so many roles like First Blood, but could also play a friendly role like in Cocoon.

[@Ragtop_Jalopy]

I met Brian Dennehy couple times when he lived in Santa Fe, NM in the mid 1990's, just down the street from us...he was totally ''what you see is what you get''....interesting man, and pleasant to talk to. Really appreciated that about him! Talking about his drinking, helps the rest of us to keep it 'honest' with our own battles over the bottle...great actor, and I greatly admired him as a genuine person!

[@daleywhaley]

Great candid moment, I hope this helps others. RIP Brian.

[@neilouellette3004]

I lived in the same neighborhood as Brian Dennehy in Woodstock, Ct. Nicest guy who always said hello to you driving around town in his old Rolls Royce. He would do his grocery shopping late at night at the 24 hr. Price Chopper or Walmart. Only people in the stores late night were the stock boys & girls working. They didn't know who the heck he was and for that reason he loved shopping at that time. Always beep his horn and said hello driving by.

[@kelvinlewis4065]

Such a very underrated actor outside of America ..I,m from Wales and whenever I saw him on camera I knew that I felt comfortable and I,m watching quality...God Bless ..R.I.P.

[@skyindustries]

Always loved him as an actor. Even more now as a person and communicator, after watching this clip. Many thanks.

[@RodStiffinton]

Rest easy Mr. Dennehy, you were an amazing talent and good man.

[@gerrydooley951]

how do you know he was a good man, he might've been a prick

[@solomonkane1999]

RIP KING. Thank you for the amazing shows and movies. May god bless your soul.

[@robertgoulet7886]

I've noticed a lot of men around my age (late 40s and early 50s) have given it up. Not because they were getting hammered but for their health. If have just one drink before dinner, it messes up my sleep cycle.

[@plane7]

Dennenhy was a solid actor,and i enjoy watching him in movies.

[@crush42mash6]

I love the fact that he thought about his son over his own needs…

[@marshallkinjongun5333]

i got emotional as well,but happy for both of them.

[@spiltsoymilk]

Not enough people do that.

[@mkphotofilm]

As a good parent should. And it's not needs, it's desires.

[@MrRentgould]

I wish it were that easy ....I quit in 92 but have watched many people try and not be able to stay the course . It requires a life change

[@James1787Madison]

Studies show most replace within a year, and about 80% replace within 5 years. So, the odds are very much against those who try to quit.

[@murdoc6842]

True words

[@joeordinary209]

Its not. My co worker hang himself in July. He had a relapse( again), and could not cope with the disappointment, heartbreaking........Nicest guy You would ever imagine.. the incident came totally out of the blue.

[@freespeechisneverwrong9351]

You hit the nail on the head. It requires a life change.

[@steveconn]

He was great in Best Seller with James Woods. Wish they had done more films together. Had an intense Laurel & Hardy-like chemistry.

[@golfmaniac]

A great movie, and one, hardly anyone, knows anything about. I watched that movie, because he was in it, glad I did

[@popcur]

The execution in a photo booth. Pictures taken of it. Yikes!

[@st3720]

Wow that’s incredible - if only others could put their kids first like that -RIP to a true gent .

[@made008]

Rip Mr Brian Dennehy ❤❤

[@brutemegahunk3895]

Had a similar experience after being an active drinker for 43 years. I had a usual binge session and the next stopped cold. I just got tired of it.

[@simbeau]

One of my favorite actors. So glad to see he's doing ok.

[@wastfulmustangs3799]

Sadly Brian Dennehy has died today...

[@raymondparsley7442]

Brian Dennehy was one of a kind and really exciting to watch on screen; he is missed for sure.

[@darrin2053]

You have no idea how big of a man you are for stopping for your son. There are many of us who wish our fathers would’ve done the same.

[@chrisjuricichxl5]

hmm. when I was 14 my dad 'tried' to stop; he was debating whether he should go to get a sixpack of beer or not and he ASKED me what he should do. I said NO, of course...but I think he did end up going anyway. And while I never really had any real problem with alcohol, my daughter once told me that I got drunk every night I came home after work and it bothered her. I asked her what would make her feel better. We agreed that I would NOT DRINK for two weeks, and you know...it was effortless. Yah, I still drink but it's in moderation and I never had an incident like that ever again. I know...just because I managed it on my own, it's still a challenge for many.

[@tonyteunis1640]

@@chrisjuricichxl5 I appreciate people that can drink in moderation, I can’t. When I drank, I wasn’t happy until I was falling down. Haven’t had a drop in 22 years, and that’s the primary reason I’m still above ground.

[@adamwsaxe]

@@tonyteunis1640 Congrats.

[@hendriksmedia]

Such a powerful presence on screen. He was the real star of First Blood.

[@paleo704]

Yes he was

[@marksmith6890]

Himself and Sly were brilliant

[@appreciativeobserver4732]

He's SPOT ON about a kid giving a parent "The Look" and causing a life-changing event.

[@jeffcook3277]

Met Brian once, on a location where I was selling cars. What an unpretentious human being. He made it a point to make eye contact and say hello while shooting. And I had the same epiphany with a family member and never drank gain. RIP bro, you were a great actor and person!

[@RonnieColeman80]

I don't know why youtube recommended this to me, but I'm really glad they did

[@Lost_in_southern_california]

1987 “Best Seller” with a young James Woods. One of my favorites.

[@keithm.284]

That's one of my faves as well.

[@spaceghost8995]

Woods was forty years old in 1987 dude.

[@Lost_in_southern_california]

@@spaceghost8995your and my comments say a lot about our individual perspective. I am guessing you are a bit younger than 40. To me 40 is pretty far behind me. In any case, James Woods looked a lot younger in that movie than he does now. So did I ! Enjoy life.

[@jeffreyhhatcher3992]

Simple but a truism that must be said: there is absolutely NO down side to children never seeing their caregivers out of control. Thanks for sharing this and RIP, Mr. D.

[@randycushman1669]

Agreed. I was raised in utter bloody chaos and it certainly did not help me out.

[@richperkins5192]

My parents weren’t alcoholics but that seemed to always be what you do on weekends and when you socialize. I thought that’s what you do and how you have the most fun and eventually it spiraled me out of control. I’ve come to realize that we are all here to evolve the soul and that doesn’t happen with me when alcohol or hard drugs are involved

[@alexanderhagmanwilberg640]

I absolutely agree🙏

[@Sam-ch3fk]

He was great as the small town bully in In Broad Daylight. Magnificent actor!

[@cybergrail]

I miss him. He brought a special bit of magic that delighted my heart.

[@silversteele6624]

Brian Dennehy has done a lot of incredible stuff. A lot of major motion pictures. But Ill never forget, the one that stands out to me the most, and its a film a lot of people unfortunately havent even seen or heard of, was a made for tv series called To Catch a Killer. It was a 2 part series I believe back in the 90's, based on the serial killer John Wayne Gacy, and Dennehy obviously played the Gacy part. I remember watching that as a young kid and to this day his portrayal of him still creeps me out. I remember that terrifying me more than movies like Jaws and Aliens, simply because of Dennehy's ability to take on that role so well. His version of Gacy sent chills up my spine. He was a brilliant actor and may he RIP.

[@robertsquared2916]

Agreed the only thing that bothered me was it had a late 80’s feel to it.. the event took place during the mid to late 70’s

[@mpf5588]

Brian truly one of the all-time greats who doesn't appreciate his performances, just his inclusion of a script is enough reason to rent/buy a movie always, not all actors get the great accolades they deserve Brian is accomplished and does deserve more acknowledgement.

[@313-v9k]

That part about his son looking at him....brought back some bad memories. I wish my alcoholic father had as much sense as Brian Dennehy. GOD the shit he put us through and the toll it took. If you're a drunk, please get help. Admitting you have a problem is not a weakness, it's a strength.

[@splash5150izy]

Respect to your comment- I was a Drunk a long time go- I know it's an Ugly Sight for a kid to see their Drunk Parent/s being an Ass an ah Sum-a-Bitch at the same time- I Cleaned-up and My kids are all Growed-up- They Really Love their Old Man as I am today- And I Love my Kids Like Crazy ^^^@313

[@AmerQuin]

I know EXACTLY what he meant about seeing your kids eyes. Brian was tops in almost every regard. (After all, no one is perfect.) RiP Brian. God Bless.

[@burntbacon7995]

Not my father, he drank, gambled, smoked money while his children went without...

[@dexterbernard2701]

A very underrated actor. I thoroughly enjoyed his work.

[@hauntedhouses9248]

one of my late mothers favourite actors. R.I.P. Brian.

[@warrenbond32]

I just want to pay My respect's to Brian Dennehy He was allways there throughout My Life. His performance as John Wayne Gacy was chilling. He was definitely definitely underrated. I would have loved to see Him in a Marvel film as the Rhino one of Spiderman's enemies. Rest In Peace Brian

[@creepshowcrate]

Brian was great in "To Catch a Killer," as John Wayne Gacy, and as Will Teasle in "First Blood." Such a natural actor; I don't think he gets the credit he deserves today.

[@ronaldkirk9685]

That's right he is one of the greatest actors

[@mr.reality9741]

That Gacy thing, we was scary!!!

[@ninaneykova4879]

Great actor and I always loved to watch him! So charismatic and talented! He is the one of those old school actors who can't forget.

[@Nicksonian]

Ya, wouldn’t it have been lovely if my father had had that moment with me, or the time my older brother got so mad at his being drunk that he tried to punch dad. Good for Brian for at least recognizing the problem. My father died of drink and smoke when I was 22. That was 45 years ago, yet his neglectful disinterest will haunt me the rest of my days.

[@santamara]

😥Only, if 'you' let it. ❤‍🩹Memories may last forever.. But.. Your life, is what 'you' make it..🙏❤☮

[@clairmontlodgesurvivorsclu4521]

Wow, this was (in part) my same experience: seeing "that look" in my 6 year-old son's eyes. Never wanting to see that look again, I'm a GRA with 16-plus years in the club. Thanks for posting this.

[@garysisk3431]

A great actor, remember him most from Silverado, a great part he played, he will be missed, I enjoyed all his movies

[@ussexeter4601]

Love Silverado, maybe my favorite role of his.

[@KyokushinKichiKai]

Great illustration and lesson! Rest Well Brian Dennehy!

[@paulletchworth8127]

What a great actor , he will be missed RIP Brian !!!!!🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@ROGER2095]

This is where the expression "Child is father to the man" comes from.

[@scott1lori282]

Sad to hear the news. The man was in movies or tv all my life. Always great. I miss all those times now. RIP.

[@michaeljordan6008]

Saw him in Death of a Salesman, best performance I’ve ever seen.

[@abigailmckernwalkingwithpo4582]

michaeljordan6008 I was in that show. We all adored BD. He was a SUPERB stage actor - I was honoured to share the stage with him every night ( a small part) one of my favourite jobs!

[@gerrydooley951]

did you see Lee J Cobb in it?

[@abigailmckernwalkingwithpo4582]

@@gerrydooley951 No, I bet he was FAB!

[@jeffarmstrong1699]

"All you need is that one kid, the kid that you love, that look like 'please don't do this'... and that was enough for me."..... truer words were never spoken, I had the same experience with smoking.... that one look and I never smoked again. Love for your child is stronger than any addiction.

[@drjohnson98]

Congratulations on quitting. I'm glad it worked for you and for Brian D. Sadly, many addicts can't give it up for anything. My mom could never lay off the cigs no matter what I or anyone else said or did. This even though she was a nurse and had several dying cancer patients beg her to quit over the years. She was still craving cigs on her deathbed at 54 years of age. But that wasn't the point of this great interview. As you say, very emotional and revealing. Great that Brian Dennehy did get the message and was able to make the change for the sake of his family. Glad you did too - best thing you could have done.

[@kdlofty]

Not for my mum it wasn't.

[@Ericwvb2]

Growing up I had an aunt & uncle who I got along with great except the one thing I didn't like was that they were smokers. I was so happy the day they told me they had quit. They had also carefully kept track of how much money they had spent on their habit and had a special fund based on that which they would use to treat themselves.

[@lindahathaway3519]

I so much loved watching Brian Dennehy act. He was excellent.

[@joygrace7924]

People are laughing, but addiction is tragic. Drunks are not fun. It is slow suicide. RIP Brian.

[@jacquesjtheripper5922]

Sure is, a quiet slow one for many

[@firehorse_44alpha-omega]

100%

[@DAL201107]

Life in general is a slow suicide.

[@firehorse_44alpha-omega]

@@DAL201107 nihilistic outlook. There is another side to that coin.

[@MichaelLu8]

Amazing. You can tell from his eyes how much that kid means to him

[@annapee2367]

He was one of my favourite actors

[@frankraucci9110]

He’s a great example of how we can change at any age and change because we’re hurting someone we love. To me that’s the only reason you need.

[@Daniel-me1tw]

One of the best actors of his generation!!!

[@robmarchese]

Stoic and humble and real - not a trace of bullshit. What a terrific revelation to have shared about his own drinking.

[@vijaynair2403]

I’ve always liked Brian and love his acting. Heard be passed recently. Sucks to hear. RIP. As far as drinking stopping after you have a kid, I dunno about that. I’ve seen many parents keep going even after having a child. He’s lucky in that he had some resolve and self-reflection. I’ve known alcoholics destroy relationships with their children because of it. And they only realize it when it’s too late.

[@daakrolb]

Yeah you’re right. Drinking is bad- period. It’s a crutch and a drug. People need to be more disciplined and not go to substances for an easy way to feel good or have a fun/silly time.

[@quuhodjones8125]

@@daakrolb True

[@bradleyriddell4745]

You’re totally missing the point!! He saw fear in his sons face & read it for what it was. He realised it was his drinking that caused this fearful reaction because his son watched his dad change into someone he didn’t like & someone he felt afraid of. Dennehy resolved to stop scaring him. Huge respect & kudos for that 👏👍

[@bradleyriddell4745]

You’re a tit!

[@raginald7mars408]

As a German, I first saw him on German TV as J W Gacy - still haunts me today. And then as Sheriff Teasle. Can watch those performances every day. He is Immortal for me...

[@BobbNaef]

One of my favorite actors can’t believe he’s gone Check out Driveways his last film

[@henryybanez6868]

Great movie !.. watching it as I'm texting this..he cared and loved that little boy Cody as Cody did him... Great last film for Brian !!!..RIP ! 🙏🙏🙏

[@tomshiba51]

We are responsible for training our children, but I have found that my children were really in my wife's and my life to train us. Brian Dennehy was a man of honesty.

[@feellucky271]

My children taught me and showed me my self and taught me the true purpose of my life. Really liked Brian. I'm 58 and quit drinking 20 years ago R I P

[@wilrobles9824]

Quite open about his life. Refreshing interview.

[@AlexColberg]

I gave that look to my Dad plenty of times, and it made no difference.

[@randygravel2057]

😕

[@davidfasano7210]

Sorry to hear, but I'm sure he loved you anyway...

[@sterlingray5520]

Im so sorry you had to deal with that growing up.

[@AlexColberg]

@@sterlingray5520 I think what I went through is more the rule, and Dennehy's experience is more the exception.

[@JimmyJamm]

@@davidfasano7210 you have no idea. That kind of "love" is nothing but toxic.

[@krisscanlon4051]

RIP BD...very powerful story.

[@thomask4836]

This has been out for 12 years and I'm just seeing it. Brought a tear to my eye!

[@timcollins9242]

Brian Dennehy lived in Northeastern CT. When home, he would frequent a little movie theater, in a nearby town, that is no longer operational. When cleaning the theater after a movie he attended, empty booze bottles would often be found where he was sitting. The man definitely liked his drink.

[@TheMundusvultdecipi]

Here he claims he was (more of) a sneaky drinker. Leaving empty bottles in a theater is not only not very sneaky but also pretty antisocial. But yes a serious alcoholic doesn't give a shit.

[@muiresuilgorm3452]

Grass.

[@lourags4963]

I tried to give my drinking parents that "look". Didn't work. RIP BD.

[@blite13]

my dad was too drunk to see my eyes. he was avoided at all costs. as soon as he came home from work, the fridge opened and so did the vodka. by the time 8 pm came around, if you were home, you were hatin it. So i was never home, street kid.

[@stevenyurik2924]

GOD BLESS THEM MY FRIEND...

[@stevenyurik2924]

@@blite13 JUST BE BETTER...

[@MontrealMan1970]

you're not alone, same here

[@IPlayOneOnT.V.]

Brian Dennehy was an incredibly gifted, yet underappreciated, actor. His portrayal of serial killer John Wayne Gacy was creepy, chilling and frightening.

[@headshotsongs9465]

Rambo First Blood. Sheriff Will Teasle.

[@IPlayOneOnT.V.]

@@headshotsongs9465 Probably. I never saw any "Rambo" movies, even though I could've seen them all when they first came out in the theaters.

[@headshotsongs9465]

@@IPlayOneOnT.V. Then you missed it. Great actors play parts in strange films. Ever heard of Struther Martin?

[@IPlayOneOnT.V.]

@@headshotsongs9465 Yes.

[@sudacagamer]

@@IPlayOneOnT.V. The "original Rambo" (First Blood) is nothing like the rest of the "Rambo" movies though.

[@thomashardcastle7231]

He was an awesome actor. His screen presence was phenomenal. RIP.

[@jamiecrawford8133]

Did a fantastic job playing coach Bob Knight in the ESPN movie.