How to forgive someone who hurt you | Buddhism In English

[@abcx377]

FORGIVE THEM not because they deserve forgiveness but because you deserve peace ❤

[@RASHME20]

But how many times do you forgive them if hurt happens repeatedly?

[@Roveneimi]

❤

[@ladybonezz8017]

@@RASHME20That is a situation I am currently in as well. Having trouble forgiving because it keeps happening by the same family member. And unfortunately I do not have the resources to pull myself away yet, and it is a family member so not someone you can easily let go of. What I am learning is the best thing I think to do is firstly accept that things are the way they are. You cannot cannot control them anymore than they can control you. We can Try to create as much distance as we can from those people and when we do have to confront them, to do our best to create boundaries and stick to your true values, and work on empowering ourselves and living in unconditional love. Try to have some empathy. It is extremely hard and will require a lot of effort on our part but there’s not much else we can do when stuck in that situation. There are people like this in the world and we can’t always avoid them but we can learn to deal with them and exercise self control.

[@janetownley]

@@RASHME20 I think in that case it’s your responsibility to do your best to protect yourself from their continued abuse. I believe you have a right to not be abused. Jesus talked about letting the person strike you on the other cheek as well, but I don’t think he meant that you should be beaten in the face constantly for the rest of your life

[@KhaoticDeterminism]

we aim forgiveness at ourselves in our culture but it’s a grieving process… and you have to first accept the past which is also a grieving process nobody is ever gonna change how they feel for you you can still self affirm and grieve out how shitty how they feel makes you feel as you get it out of you how they feel bothers you less and less once the resentment you harbour towards yourself for finding yourself in that situation to begin with is gone so is that person from your mind it’s nice when they no longer control you emotionally #2Spirit #indigenous #spirituality #philosophy

[@Thunderwaves-tr8pt]

You have a very big heart if you are watching this video

[@WordWorksByShelica]

Thank you for leaving this comment. 😭 I beat myself up for not being able to let go of my anger so I sought the help of videos such as this and found your comment here. Just the affirmation that I needed... I'm still a good person after all. 😭

[@Yashi-x5h]

😭

[@cjnp58]

🥺

[@ImaandeepKaur-ey9xb]

Aww tysm It's the first time someone said this to me😊❤

[@pratibhabhushan]

Forgiveness is hard when you have close relations hurt you over and over

[@sifromwales5452]

Yes it really is hard.

[@rl453]

I am finding myself feeling so much more charitable since going NC. Even wishing people their own healing from WAY over there. I understand that for some people it’s more difficult to go NC than for others. But it was impossible to forgive and also impossible for me to heal while being continually (& purposely) hurt.

[@neelk18]

So TRUE,,, It's really Hard ,,,,💔💔

[@chickadeeacres3864]

@@neelk18only if you say it’s s hard. Once you say it, you create it.

[@6sfia]

Got that right

[@radiorebel1015]

Sometimes I think I forgive someone but then when I see them, I get angry all over again. Forgiveness is hard. It's especially hard to let go of anger and resentment that you've built towards them. But you don't want to continue to hold grudges for years because then it will start to affect you. At some point you have to let go. I'm trying my best to not only understand this but live it.

[@KrisannaMarie]

Totally. I'll think I'm healed and have moved on but it creeps back up and flares up again. My therapist told me sometimes it's cycles and each time it releases till it's gone. Hope so

[@grod2695]

Seek and ye shall find

[@DYoungmusic]

I feel the same way… so how do you truly forgive that person.? do you just tell them you forgive them but also tell them you are choosing to no longer associate yourself with them ? Or what

[@manu8098]

How to forgive people who bully you

[@lndperera4189]

@@manu8098 Bullies are weak. They have low self-esteem. They expect a reaction so they can satisfy themselves. The last thing you want to do is, making them happy. Therefore the best revenge you can take is, move on with your life and forgive yourself. In the end YOU are the WINNER.

[@kathleenwharton2139]

Forgiveness is the Hardest and most Challenging thing I have ever had to Do! It is definetely Not for Weak people! 😊❤

[@jayakumardivakaran537]

True❤❤

[@joebutta7539]

💜 very true, once one releases the hot coal, true healing begins.

[@joebutta7539]

If they can drop it that is (many can't due to pride, conviction...ego.& external "support")

[@kathleenwharton2139]

@@joebutta7539 You are Right! I am familar with all those reasons. I have found the best way for me..is to just Ask God to Bless EveryOne and kind of lump them and try to overlook the specifics. I married a man who treated me with disrespect and some of the children too. We are old now and his second wife died..I did pretty good when he was married to someone else..but my son built a house and has put us back together and now all the old feelings flood back as he continues to treat me with disrespect and expects me to honor him. This is tough! I am really praying for Gods Help. I don’t want bad for him but I don’t want to be treated like that either. I feel bad for my son. He meant well..but I don’t think he realizes the damage that was done to me. I Need to be Saved!

[@julbro8451]

People who knowingly and willingly harm others for their own personal gain believe that forgiveness is a weakness. They are wrong. If you forgive, you get the last laugh, because when you forgive them, and even praise them in spite of their evil deceits and manipulations, your act of compassion heaps Karma upon them. They really hate it when they screw you, and you thank them for it. That is not the reaction they were hoping for! People who cause harm want to provoke their victims to anger and revenge so they may profit by it, but instead, "pour hot coals over their heads" with a benign response, as Jesus taught. Jesus said, "love your enemies, forgive your enemies." When they exhibit no remorse or repentance and continue their malevolent behaviors, the Karmic backlash catches up with them. It boomerangs on them when we respond with compassion instead of anger. Never seek justice in anger because that is the true weakness, and bad people know it. Buddhist teachings are the best kept secrets! And as the Hindus say, forgive, and let Karma do its work.

[@Peace-12230]

today i choose to forgive, not because they deserve it but i wanna move on.

[@スカイハイ-q9e]

One of best thing I've heard

[@sovereignprime4683]

If forgiveness means letting go of the past completely, then I'm into it.

[@sovereignprime4683]

Too late... You should have liked this comment when I posted it!

[@thatsmellsdelicious5146]

I forgive by forgiving myself, I don’t want to hold on to this anger and resentment because I love myself, I don’t want to hurt myself : That sentence made me cry ❤

[@CarrieannStirton]

It's Easy to say you should forgive. Forgiveness comes naturally you can force it. When it does happen though you don't even realise until you see that person and say to your self ''I don't hate u any more I feel sorry for you '' I have experienced this once in my life and I'm so grateful I have forgiven as it would mess with my head hating. To forget is a different story that's impossible xx

[@aditi14209]

Follow Buddha's Eightfold Path 1)Right Understanding 2)Right Resolve 3)Right Speech 4)Right Action 5)Right Living 6)Right Effort 7)Right Thought 8)Right Self-Concentration. Namo Buddhay 🙏

[@mitalpatel3088]

This is called astang marg ( octagonal path)🙂

[@aditi14209]

@@mitalpatel3088 It is also called Eightfold Path. Namo Buddhay 🙏

[@edwardlee5412]

Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🐅🐅🐅

[@savitagrover6941]

Forgiveness is not so easy. We are all creatures of habit, things , methods, thinking methods of living , Growing up again environment around us we do not really understand what is driving or motivation others to behave differently, Ignorance is extremely difficult to eradicate. Same peoples same response appears so auto mathematically. Any easy remedy to begin with……..

[@zhamiladamn2975]

May Tripal Gem Bless you 🙏.

[@กล้วยไม้-ฐ1ฮ]

I always forgive them who hurts me but I can't forget Amen

[@DYoungmusic]

Do you forgive and still associate with that person u do you tell them you have to let them go

[@StudyyyBunnyy]

Whenever I'm hurt or lazy or having a negative mindset, this yt channel and Buddhism help me so much to restart my life again 🙏

[@JOKER_007-7dx]

I am forgiving myself by letting go of resentment ,anger, bitterness, jealousy,envy. Filling each day and moment of my life with love , happiness, joy ,wisdom,kindness, listening to others, health ,wealth ,abundance , gratitude,prosperity. Namoh Buddhaye ❤.

[@johnfretz1938]

I had an epiphany on the thought that forgiveness is being weak, or a weakness. It suddenly occurred to me that it's very easy to not forgive someone. It's easy to allow the gravity of anger to pull you along this way and that. What's harder, clearly, is to forgive. It takes effort if someone is not accustomed to it. So to forgive someone is to show strength, and as with most feats of strength, the more you do it, the easier it becomes. But it is always a strength. Never a weakness. Thank you for your talk.

[@Iguana2289]

Exactly forgiveness is treated as weakness . People start taking undue advantage of forgiveness.

[@glenoneill3950]

ALL PAIN IS SELF CREATED. YOU ARE NOT FORGIVING OTHERS, YOU ARE FORGIVING YOURSELF. EVERYONE IS A REFLECTION OF YOU. BLESSINGS TO ALL

[@nathantrujillo471]

Meh maybe

[@iqbalkazi4707]

Would any women forgive a Rapist

[@iqbalkazi4707]

The answer is no

[@darkfeather6857]

Nope. All pain is NOT self created.

[@glenoneill3950]

@@darkfeather6857 ALL EXPERIENCES ARE SELF CREATED. THE WORD "SELF" IS NOT REFERING TO THE HUMAN IDENTITY, IT IS REFERING TO THE HIGHER SELF, ONE'S TRUE ESSENCE.

[@cherrybacon3319]

I carry so much hurt and anger around with me over how I've been treated, and how I've not been strong enough to resist toxicity in certain people. Listening to this video made me cry, and I had to pause before I typed this because I couldn't see for the tears. I've often felt that holding 9n to my pain and anger stopped me from living my life, and I believe in being a better person, so before I continued typing, I forgave my Ex for his treatment of me, but informed him I wouldn't forget this time. 🍒

[@danieltenebrion9413]

This is so true. I found out the hard way that even a loving and forgiving person will still cheat and be hurtful to you while acting like they still love you. Through only trying to forgive others and not gaining any wisdom, they learn to seperate feelings from actions and will do the same hurtful things to you that have been done to them.

[@kyokitty1]

Yes. Hurt people, hurt people

[@crbarnes001]

It's so true. A friend once couldn't forgive someone that hurt her badly. She kept reliving it and getting angry. I simply asked her how many times are you going to allow you to keep hurting you. By holding onto the anger she is continually hurt. The other person either doesn't care or is enjoying seeing them hurt over and over. At what point will she let go snd stop hurting herself? Forgiveness is a must. It help to move forward.

[@GRALOW_SHORTS]

We can't change which happen in past . When we think nostalgicaly it gives the same feeling that we feeled in past . BUT accepting our past and let it go is best way to live a happy life. Namo buddhay🙏

[@vesnavesna978]

I am orthodox christian and I enjoy to listen to these words ...I have found many common aspects of life topics which are same and it serves to makes us better persons if we choose to apply in our lives. Blessings to all people of good will.❤❤❤

[@KumarS-ls1wy]

Hi mam can you

[@zhamiladamn2975]

Study Buddhism ☸ 💖.

[@NgawangTashi-s3e]

We lost own country ,thousand of monks n nuns were killed.sprituial leaders were forces to kill each other.our hightest spiritual leaders force to leave own nation.n refugee in others land...we still forgive them because we have faith in buddhas teaching...but sad is Non of buddhist nation or buddhist try to raise voice against devil's china...infect sharing what they looted from us...and helped them to change the history..

[@Starforme-xr6sb]

Jesus was buddhist monk.we have an archaeological evidence for that

[@jonathantan3690]

Forgiveness is not acceptance.Forgiving the people who betrayed you is actually loving yourself. Forgive but use your wisdom to get away from such people. Namo Buddhaya.

[@netizencapet]

but how do you do this while preserving the amount of inner trust to unrelated others? once burned 2x shy until shell shocked

[@rekhaverma1383]

I M NOT BUDDHIST , BUT I DONOT WHY THESE VIDEOS PUSHES ME TO FOLLOW THE RIGHT PATH AND I LOVE LISTENING TO EACH AND EVERY VIDEOS VERY VERY CAREFULLY , BECAUSE IT DONOT TEACH US FIGHTING ...AND OTHER MISBEHAVIOURS WITH OTHERS BUT IT IS ALL ABOUT LIVING A PEACEFUL ND A HAPPY LIFE IGNORING EVERY BAD THINGS HAPPENING IN LIFE ........ NAMOH BUDDHAY🙏🙏

[@drl495]

❤❤❤

[@mahe4102]

So happy to hear and so true. :) May it continue to help you!! Namo Buddhaya!

[@rekhaverma1383]

@@mahe4102 NAMO BUDDHAY🙏

[@mahe4102]

If I can recommend you something, that is 'Mahamevnawa Toronot Buddhist Monastery' which is the same organisation this monk is from. I suggest you see some videos there too, as it has helped me so much. Hope it helps you too! Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏼

[@rekhaverma1383]

@@mahe4102 IT IS THERE IN SOME OTHER LANGUAGE WHICH IS NOT UNDERSTANDABLE , and THERE IS NO ANY MONK TO EXPLAIN SUCH BEAUTIFUL WORDS LIKE THIS MONK DO ...🥲

[@chandrakanthidesilva2216]

Forgiveness is good quality of a human.if someone think forgiveness is a weakness he is not a wise person

[@chrisfield1952]

Amen and thank you 🙏❤️ I didn't realize that once I forgive someone that I am really forgiving myself 👍🏼😊

[@deepikavishwakarma7806]

Dear thero, I always remember your teaching. Forgive with wisdom😊. Thanks for valuable teachings. Forgiveness is symbol of strong person. Thanks my teacher.

[@Call_Upon_YAH]

Be it known: Through the Holy Spirit, God has put it on me to preach to those lost in the devil's deceit! I tell ye, truly, Jesus of Nazareth is the propitiation for the whole world's sins. He is the anointed one, for he is, Jesus Christ. God the Father has raised him from the dead; who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God! Angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life: no one comes to the Father, but by him. They who believe and are baptized with the Holy Spirit shall be saved; but they who believe not shall be damned. For they who believe not on him, shall die in their sins! I tell ye now to repent of your sins, accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, and you'll receive the gift of the Holy Spirit upon asking the Father! There are *NO* sub-divisions of Christianity. You're either a disciple of Christ or not. A Christian is someone who follows God's word, not a religion. Who obey the Father and follow his will; not man's nor their own heart's. Unless you keep Jesus' commandments, think not the Holy Spirit will dwell within you! They who heed this message and did what was stated with an open heart to God... Read the Holy Bible (KJV) daily and every time before you read, pray to the Father and ask: "Lord I ask that you give me understanding of your word, that I interpret it the way you want me to, and none of my own. I ask you in Jesus' name, amen." 1 John 2:2 KJV 2 And he is the propitiation for our sins: and not for ours only, but also for the sins of the whole world. Acts 13:26-33 KJV 26 Men and brethren, children of the stock of Abraham, *and whosoever among you feareth God, to you is the word of this salvation sent.* 27 *For they that dwell at Jerusalem, and their rulers, because they knew him not, nor yet the voices of the prophets which are read every sabbath day, they have fulfilled them in condemning him.* 28 And though they found no cause of death in him, yet desired they Pilate that he should be slain. 29 *And when they had fulfilled all that was written of him, they took him down from the tree, and laid him in a sepulchre.* 30 *But God raised him from the dead:* 31 And he was seen many days of them which came up with him from Galilee to Jerusalem, who are his witnesses unto the people. 32 *And we declare unto you glad tidings, how that the promise which was made unto the fathers,* 33 God hath fulfilled the same unto us their children, in that he hath raised up Jesus again; as it is also written in the second psalm, Thou art my Son, this day have I begotten thee. 1 Peter 3:22 KJV 22 Who is gone into heaven, and is on the right hand of God; angels and authorities and powers being made subject unto him. John 14:6 KJV 6 Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. Mark 16:16 KJV 16 He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved; but he that believeth not shall be damned. John 8:24 KJV 24 I said therefore unto you, that ye shall die in your sins: for if ye believe not that I am he, ye shall die in your sins. Acts 2:38 KJV 38 Then Peter said unto them, Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins, and ye shall receive the gift of the Holy Ghost. Luke 11:13 KJV 13 If ye then, being evil, know how to give good gifts unto your children: how much more shall your heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to them that ask him? John 14:21-24 KJV 21 *He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me: and he that loveth me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him.* 22 Judas saith unto him, not Iscariot, Lord, how is it that thou wilt manifest thyself unto us, and not unto the world? 23 Jesus answered and said unto him, *If a man love me, he will keep my words: and my Father will love him, and we will come unto him, and make our abode with him.* 24 He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings: and *the word which ye hear is not mine, but the Father's which sent me.*

[@janetownley]

BUT forgiving doesn’t mean you subject yourself to more abuse by the person, or that you need to suddenly have a close and trusting relationship.

[@xinalorreen2031]

I agree. Forgiveness is not the same as reconciliation. Forgiveness doesn't need any action on the part of the offender, tho an apology can make things easier.

[@dec66.18]

Forgive, but with wisdom.Wise words.Thank you ven. Bhante. 🙏

[@flowergirl7260]

I'm really glad to hear your teaching on the wisdom of detaching and staying away so you don't fall into the same trap. Distance does help soften things. THank you.

[@mithunsarkar7002]

I love Lord Buddha and his lesson.But it’s very hard to forgive enemies but i shall try.

[@limchea]

🙏🙏🙏Forgive someone is like we liberate ourself from bad matter such as ill will, hatred, jealousy by doing good thing, what you think…

[@maryannfroa4698]

Thank you for giving me strength to forgive someone 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Simo_Wolfclaws]

So forgiving is something good that I do to myself, not to others. Thank you for this beautiful message. ❤️🙏

[@henrytang2203]

Forgive, but remember the lesson. It's a very powerful message, thank you.

[@common9]

Truly agree. However, the challenge arises when we see that person physically and being strong enough to make a change.

[@blackcat2628zd]

It took me years of hard work to forgive my mum. The relief was huge and I am very proud of myself, It was VERY hard. My brother did the most horrible thing and was hurting me many many times. I was always forgiving him because despite it all I loved him. I can´t and don´t want to forgive him for the last thing he did. I can´t let him hurt me again and again. I am not a negative person, I am not eaten with anger or hate. I am just protecting myself. Finally.

[@Klurpaderp]

I really needed this today. Thank you so much. I have been hurt a lot by people close to me and it's easy to get angry and resentful. I'm trying so hard to let go of the anger but it's tough.

[@Daisy-oi2jy]

Write a letter to whoever has hurt you. Call them all the names under the sun. BUT the last line is I AM WILLING TO FORGIVE YOU. Sign it. Then tear in to small pieces and throw away.

[@shreenjandutta]

​@@Daisy-oi2jywhat a good meaningful exercise Thank you u know Thank u so much 💞💞

[@Daisy-oi2jy]

You are so welcome. By writing a letter it brings bad feelings into physical reality. By destroying letter it clears things. It has the same effect as shouting at someone, you feel better briefly but then you may feel bad/guilty . By writing the letter has the same effect but the other person doesn't know. It works for me every time. 💖

[@ChlariePeace]

It is finished The past as gone cannot be changed SO PLEASE FOR GIVE EVERYONE ❤🙏🏻🕊🕊🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@sharonallison9922]

LET'S NOT BE NAIVE....ALL THING'S ARE'NT FORGIVABLE MY DARLING 🙏😇💖

[@BlitzenSpeaks]

Hokding on to hate, anger, resentment, etc. is like drinking poison several times a day, and expecting that other person to die. Forgive for YOUR sake, let go, and move on with your life. Live for you! Not the toxic people who hurt you.

[@Rai0013.]

When you forgive someone not only better for that person, also better for your mind health.our mind can't bear burden.

[@chandramoulimm2703]

Yess it's true

[@carolinehaythornthwaite2965]

Forgiveness may be difficult when the abuse comes from close relatives, but you can learn to let go.

[@holylandgaya1457]

I listen attentively and try to act like the teaching of the Supreme Buddha. Namo budday

[@Butterflygyal97]

I love how you incorporated forgiveness + wisdom. The wisdom part is a huge aspect of forgiveness & being able to move on. If there is no wisdom gained at all, then a person is more likely to unnecessarily stick around.

[@bmCommando0]

I relate to this the most When I sit alone

[@reginaballensiefen7473]

What a beautiful man !

[@WasanaSathsarani-dj2rt]

Don't let yesterday take up too much of today. For inner peace best way is giveup, forgive with wisdomly.

[@robertwilliams3527]

It’s my favorite how he throws in “right” here and there It’s like a period at the end of his sentence

[@Christynmaine]

Such good advice. Thank you. Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, then share with others.

[@gamunushantha7877]

නමෝ බුද්ධාය 🙏🙏 ගරු ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස, සච්ච විභංග සූත්‍රය ඉංග්‍රීසි භාෂාවෙන් විස්තර කරල දෙන්ඩ . බොහොම පින් . තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏🙏🙏

[@JulieBlossoms]

I love you and this channel so much, I swear this feels like one of the only stable things in my life. I wish I had an inner voice that knew all the things that you knew. That buddishm knew. I struggle with mental health and struggle with many different aspects of mental health I feel like my mind will never shut up and I’ll never make it out of the hole that is my heart, my brain and my life. But when I’m here and watch these videos I feel closer to peace than I ever have, not entirely because I’m afraid a couple of videos won’t completely heal me. But I’m able to take a clean fresh and cold breath through my system and just for a minute I’m ok. And I’m grateful that you’ve given me this even if it’s just a couple of breaths out of the billions I’ll take in the lifetime.

[@sarahraja4069]

I always pray that GOD forgive my sin because I have forgiven those who have hurts me over and over again.

[@grannyblaylock623]

THANK YOU FOR BEING SO KIND.. YOU BRING PEACE🌹

[@vijayapurdairy7786]

It's hard to forgive but any other change we can make .

[@punkyb3713]

This video has help me forgive those who have truly hurt me in life. I have learned many lessons ❤

[@minicraftylady]

I loved to hear from you host..your words are very helpful...for me, i feel better if i forgive those people whu hurt me..my life becomes easy and free because i also forgive myself too

[@audrey04021]

Finally, the right answer where things come together in a logical way! Thank you for providing the "wisdom" component to this dilemma. I feel good about walking away and never returning, still feel the love I once felt but know that it is impossible to interact, and needed to know that once I have learned this time I will not need to repeat--here and in the future. 🙏🏼

[@sangeetanair3643]

I have Forgiven and let go all those people who have hurted me although they never realised their mistakes as they are always keen in finding faults in others than themselves ...But I am blessed with a large sensible heart but I don't want them back ever again in my life because their reactions depends on their mood and circumstances ..today good tomorrow they will end up behaving the same..if they are angry they feel they have the right to degrade any person....... And as we age emotionally we are unable to digest such craps ..We have to learn to protect our heart that is so emotional and vulnerable..it's always better to stay away...Let them be happy always..God bless them

[@rtytrtyrfdgdfgf]

I came to know Christ in jail in 2013 by reading a book, "Overcoming spiritual blindness" by James P. Gills MD. The veil was taken off my eyes. Heaven came through for me in my finances too, getting $25,000 monthly. I can support God's work and give back to my community. God is absolutely more than enough!

[@NatashaMurphy-zf5rj]

Hello how do you make such monthly ? I'm a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down of myself because of low finance but I still believe in God...

[@dennisbattye]

Isaiah 45:3 speaks of a transfer of riches from the heathen to the righteous... I will give you the treasures of darkness and the riches hidden in secret... I received this for my household in Jesus' name. Amen!.

[@simonedennis695]

What a testimony!!! 🙏🙏🙏 I'm genuinely curious to know how you earn that much monthly?

[@SAndrABull0ck-t7p]

Can I also do it?? My life is facing lots of challenges lately.

[@SAndrABull0ck-t7p]

I work at a restaurant here in Houston Texas, things have been really difficult as I'm a single mom and trying my best to pay bills and take care of my daughters. This is a life-changing opportunity for me...

[@Just_the_dog]

True forgiveness is a powerful thing.

[@sandip_kanzariya8476]

I had done same thing with some one but, I have little bit regret for that but I had done it with forgiveness + wisdom so, I have regret now after listening this. Thank you !

[@ksy4747]

I find thar understanding those who may have hurt me naturally resolves the dense energy within me. You cant have true compassion without deeper understanding of the other person, and the understanding of what causes people to hurt one another. You can forgive when you feel compassion.

[@darkfeather6857]

Yes! This the only way I have found myself able to forgive, understanding why the person did what they did.

[@aybigetek]

when we forgive people we choose love and understanding.. we love life.. block lists are hate..

[@KumarS-ls1wy]

Hi mam can we talk 🦜

[@Manickayee]

YES SIR thank you very much for your beautiful lovely blessings message words Yes we for give the people who always hurt us thank you very much SIR GOD bless you and your family and everyone in the world thank you very much for helping us with your beautiful lovely blessings message words SIR 🥰🥰🌹🥰🥰🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@Chinna502]

I'm waiting for you're video sir why because your words are so inspiring to me .so many people faced problem to forgiveness

[@InGodITrust-u2c]

All I know is I've been forgiven so I forgive...it's more peaceful...easier than holding a grudge...only a handful of people I just won't be around, but not because I don't miss them 🙏

[@rajum8624]

Actually I had a negative mindset always Whenever I start doing something I feel like I can't do it well But many of you wisdom have helped me to over come it thank u monk Nammoh Buddha

[@kathvichaudhary]

This is my biggest achievement to realise that i often hold onto resentment. I forgive it to an extent but never did it to a point that i actually let go of it. Self-reflection is one true blessing❤

[@Vikings_06]

Namo buddhaya..!❤️🇳🇵

[@rishbahbanerjee5223]

Forgiveness with wisdom- forgive people let go of anger and also forget what have they done.You can still stay away from their negativity and their life Forgiving them is actually forgiving yourself that you will be no longer involved on their lives you will no longer hold on anger and resentments anymore you will no longer hold thier negativity anymore as you love yourself and dont want to hurt yourself You always care about yourself,your spirituality and your thoughts You will only focussed on your life good qualities personal growth and will not hold this negativity that will ultimately hurt you SUMMARY: FORGIVING BY NO LONGER HOLDING ON GRUDGES AND NEGATIVITY THAT THEY EMIT BUT BY COMPLETELY IMMERSED ON YOUR OWN LIFE OWN WELAFARE AND OWN DEVELOPMENT

[@rejanisreevalsom8818]

Love from India 🇮🇳 💖 🙏 🌹

[@BuddhistBalance-68]

"Grateful for the insights on how to find inner peace in daily life."

[@mdmurshidalam1337]

Namo Bhudhaya sir i watch your all video because I want to learn in English as well as motives ourselves

[@CoudyCanvas]

Yes I agree forgive for yourself but remember when and how the person hurt you! You will understand a person’s character by the way he treated you when you were vulnerable!

[@pnb4266]

Thank you so much Guruji for this wonderful teaching.. I just would like to know from Guruji... how to deal with family members and closest friends in such situation..? Because we can forgive them but how to detach from them as they are the closest one.. ? How to deal in such difficult situations?

[@indayboding7735]

I'm not a Buddhism, but I love listening him.

[@adrienne3334]

I've already forgiven everyone whom has trespassed against me ever. But what these people need to do is 'Forgive themselves' Forgiveness always begins with self..namaste 🙏

[@KumarS-ls1wy]

Hi 👋👋

[@reneestevez7193]

I personally can possibly forgive but definetely NEVER forget...... 😢

[@idance0001]

“Forgive one another, just as God forgave you because of what Christ has done.” - Ephesians 4:32

[@poojakakraina6893]

Gratitude 🙏🏻 I was so hurt... Your guidance is what changed my life and helped me strongly for focusing on my true feelings, path.... All dark clouds faded..... My blessings..... respect and gratitude 🙏🏻

[@dlittlejohn6177]

🤔Very interesting. I've never thought of forgiveness in this manner. It's brilliant! So much of the time, I am in my own head that the only thing driving my anger was what I looked at as things being done to me. It's amazing how much of our lives is negatively effected by our thoughts and feelings about ourselves. I really like the way you worded this. Thank you.

[@gurubhaikhalsa9337]

Yes, it's like not forgiving them is signing up for perpetual victimhood.

[@Q10FORU]

FORGIVE YOURSELF for holding the anger, pain, grudges, and sadness. I have done it and I now FEEL RELIEVED. IM STRONGER AND BETTER. MY MENTAL AND PHYSICAL HEALTH IMPROVED and I'm HAPPY. ❤

[@bmCommando0]

Namo buddhay sir How are you I hope you're doing good Thank you for these learnings

[@kravenmoorehead7927]

To forgive is necessary for spiritual growth. ALL of US are here trying to figure things out. NONE of US are perfect.

[@MayMay-od5wv]

😊 Thank you. Your message really lifted me today.

[@marciadesouza3314]

There is a PHRASE which say. EACH ONE FOR THEMSELVES AND GOD FOR ALL. Very, Very TRUE 👍

[@laxmiroy1921]

Who obey Buddhism 🙏

[@abdulmajithg]

Buddha is one of prophets who are sent by God..

[@hsu5219]

🙋‍♀️ I do🙏 !

[@animewings2787]

@@abdulmajithg 😊 we all are made by God

[@SrinathLahiru]

​@@animewings2787 who told you that? How did you realise that? The concept of God is created by people! It's all about belief. Buddhism is not about belief. It's all about reality!

[@SrinathLahiru]

​@@abdulmajithg said by other prophets, because they have to protect their religions! That's the easiest way to justify the concept of God!

[@gordonfernandes6873]

The greatest Pain experienced by ordinary Humans while doing... Forgiveness & Charity ... But these 2 most important things are what God expects one to do the most ...To get real peace 🙏

[@DIMALRANDIKA]

Thank you! It just helps me to forgive myself

[@teresiamarangu8732]

True. Forgiveness throws out the pain and replaces it with peace and strength to move on. I forgive all....

[@ribz747]

Thank you. I needed to see this today ❤

[@aasthashrivastava4351]

Forgiveness is necessary in life for your soul and heart 💕❤️.

[@rainarahman635]

Thanks Buddhism, again.Thank you❤❤

[@KumarS-ls1wy]

Hi 😊😊

[@danaicastillo6472]

Thank you Bante, as I see it it's a gentle strengths approach towards persons around us who manipulate. I have kept from another teaching, 'anger will never, ever help you in anything with your life'. Next step is forgiveness. Letting go of toxic' safety', and moving on to what life delivers. It's usually better. Bante, many blessings and everyday merits, may you be well and happy🙏🕯️Namo Buddhaya

[@elviejodelmar2795]

As the Buddha did with the angry man, he refused to accept the anger offered to him and left it with the other person. I have found it useful to consider the negative karma the person is accumulating and feel compassion for the inevitable and inexorable consequences that karma will have.

[@armiebarr725]

Its very had for me to forgive. I will try, because i want peace of mind! I just dont think about it, i relax and pray to God to relished it. I will think a happy words and be thankful that i have a big heart to accept it, im more mature to understand the situation. Bisides i more knowledge able thsn her. Because im a professional cosmetologist, a license since 1972 to present.

[@kalpasri3654]

We want more videos and motivation from u 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

[@PraveenSrJ01]

Thank you so much 😊. I need to forgive my elderly parents who ruined my whole life. I rather not share my story of what they did since I don’t think it is necessary or relevant to share.

[@evieserrano1497]

Do not Waste the pain and go through it again. Every moment of adversity brings 2 things: A blessing and a lesson. Pain always leaves a Gift. I am learning this myself and it’s tough.

[@quin923]

I love this teaching "forgive with wisdom 🙏🏻 although some take advantage of the person who is forgiving repeatedly, never mind better forgive again anyway until they realise & repent. Who forgives has inner peace.