3 Things: "Women are menz' happiness machines", GF tells the Truth, Update on the Woman Author

[@UnrealDreamer3598]

If women's labor is devalued and considered easy, why do men get so mad when we withdraw from them?

[@J0knows]

Because they know they will have to step up and men don't work they have a slave I mean a wife for that work 🤔🤨 Men really only want to be worshipped and pleasured that's it. Seriously men get mad that women now don't care if they have a man or not. The idea of a man or marriage is not appealing anymore. So the old game isn't working and the Menz are afraid the facade is shattering and they will be stuck with the mess they made. The men will have to deal with not having a magical wife/woman appliance coming this time to help them fix their 💩

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Everything men say out their clown holes is BS😹😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾

[@blkberrymolasses]

Because they are basically lazy and refuse to do things for themselves

[@seabreeze4559]

because men charge even more than women charge and they feel entitled to have it free because they are Special Broflake who 'deserves' it

[@aprilmay1061]

Because they know they're nothing without it.

[@passionliving]

Frankly, this is the very reason that the 4B movement has gained such momentum. Being the "everything" to another GROWN human is completely EXHAUSTING!

[@SilkyDanielle-]

The hell with that bs!! My kids are grown and they’re already enough!

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

4B WORLD💪🏾💯🥰

[@seabreeze4559]

Stepford Housewives was a dystopia, not a documentary. They act like it actually happened.

[@seabreeze4559]

@@SilkyDanielle- We're meant to support his dreams by stamping on ours.

[@jayogee913]

Not only exhausting, but thoroughly unrewarding, even dangerous. I spend DECADES of my life (!!!) putting myself and my goals on hold to please men. It's hard for me to even think about it. But I learned, and all I can do now is move forward with the life I have left. I would just caution other younger women to be very careful about getting involved with men, especially under current circumstances.

[@hardcandy71287]

"men cannot be alone." "women are a man's help meet." the bible was definitely written by men for men.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Exactly! They come to Steal, Kill and Destroy💯👹🤛🏾

[@gitslover9834]

If men cannot be alone why not just live with other men?

[@seabreeze4559]

a helpmate is not a slave though, they just lie? more akin to a manager

[@daniellemitchell3118]

I saw a sermon about that. Adam needed a help meet, but Eve came alone.

[@daniellemitchell3118]

​@@gitslover9834 Yeah, in the Mojo Dojo Casa House.😅

[@KompassOhneNadel]

Men dislike it if women age. What’s the alternative to aging? Dying. Just saying.

[@AIBot929]

Death or being completely subserviant is what they want

[@hardcandy71287]

i was just watching this other video. and in the comments, this 40+ yo woman was saying that even her own male family members think women over the age of 30 should die if she's not married or had kids. she did not reproduce so she's useless and needs to go because she's using up resources.

[@HmmmReally]

Yeah pretty much…if we can’t serve them, then we are good as dead 💀 anyway.

[@BlackRaven000]

I never thought of it like that! That makes so much sense 😳😳😳

[@BlackRaven000]

​@@AIBot929They hate their wives when they get older. They literally see us as a toy they played too much with and are now bored. Kompass' comment makes perfect sense: what do you do with old toys you're bored of? Shelve them and get new ones or get rid of them then get new ones.

[@TheRacqgrl769]

I always laugh at the males who cannot take a woman breaking up with them after they've done everything in their power to ensure that she does. Adding to the way that they attempt to insult you as a reason for you to stay with them, it's jokes writing themselves. The author must get a restraining order against this nutjob, too.

[@TheRacqgrl769]

@@Tranquilityviewpoint your comment is a statement rather than a question, because they do believe this to be so.

[@seabreeze4559]

They view us as appliances, in HG Tudor speak. We don't get to complain or question them, as objects in their universe.

[@missinterpretation4984]

They don’t appreciate anything about us but are miserable without us. 🙄

[@sistersforever0]

That just means their ungrateful.

[@RamenNoodle1985]

And it's somehow our responsibility to "fix" that for them

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

They don't like happy women. It serves their ego and ideals to see women loaded down and suffering

[@nonononononono000]

@@RamenNoodle1985w

[@seabreeze4559]

We just exist and cheerlead them. Like a muse from mythology.

[@Diana734]

Chris is a jealous hater! He wants to be the main attraction and success in the relationship...what a loser.🙄

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I agree💯

[@Orb-w3aver]

Exactly super jealous insecure king diaper baby throwing a fit

[@kellyroyds5040]

She might have to file a harassment report with the police.. She should arm herself and go for firearms training.

[@chinaking918]

Yes. He wanted her to dim her light for him to shine brighter.

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

To add to this he has a great job already! Why can't they both be successful together!?

[@Egg_Apron]

"You can't just break up with me" is beyond a red flag and entering the territory of thr3at.

[@thelastshallbefirst6036]

She died staying very red flag, he wasn't maid and punching bag when things don't go his way.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

I Agree💯

[@kreyolLA84]

And, "You can't make that decision for me!" WTH?? Like she has no say in the matter. Sounds abusive.

[@ecclairmayo4153]

​@@kreyolLA84- That's why he kept harassing her afterwards coming to her house

[@ShalomDove]

Chris wanted her to fall to her knees, mascara running down her face and beg “noooo! Please don’t go!” Thank GOD she replied with “boy, bye.” 💜👍🏻

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Exactly, 🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾💯

[@seabreeze4559]

He wants her to shrink so he can feel big.

[@aprilmay1061]

Exactly. 🤣🤣

[@fortyshorty2459]

Yep 🥳 boy byeeee ✌🏾

[@j.munday7913]

His whole plan was to make her give up all her other dreams and be his personality-free bangmaid, and boy did it blow up in his face. :D

[@IbhadeArabome]

The lady with the snarky and insecure boyfriend needs to know that he's punishing her for not giving him a chance earlier. Men are very vindictive, petty and unforgiving. They want what they want, when they want it and they apply it to all things. When they can't get a woman the first time they want her, they'll make her pay for rejecting them if they eventually get her. They do this all the time.

[@Southern.Nappiness]

They go all the way back to high school. Recently, a military friend ran into a guy she knew from high school while visiting her parents. That fool asked her, "Why are you trying to talk to me now?? When you wouldn't give me chance in high school." She and her father laughed at him. High school!!?? She was just saying hello to him. He looked so surprised and embarrassed at the same time.😂😂😂 She didn't even live in the area, just visiting. Who remembers bs from high school, but men??😂😂

[@seabreeze4559]

sadism is strong in ones like that

[@IbhadeArabome]

@@Southern.Nappiness You're right. It can be years and a man will still hate a woman for rejecting. This clown is pathetic. Imagine still being bothered because the same woman is just saying hello? Men are pathetic.

[@rebekkagasmi9451]

And even if they manage to get them in the first place they'll punish them later on for "being so easy to get"... 🙄🙄🙈🙈 Make it make sense!

[@IbhadeArabome]

@@rebekkagasmi9451 you’re so spot on! This is what they do. They’re crazy!

[@UseYourVoices]

Re: "You can't just break up with me" Did he actually say he'd let her have her fun? Who is he, her father? These men must be kidding. You ain't letting me do nothing, son. I will do what I want because I'm a grown-a$$ woman and that is my prerogative.

[@seabreeze4559]

he was banking on sunk cost fallacy, hence the acting up

[@aprilmay1061]

That part. 👏🏼👏🏼

[@FunkyLittlePoptart]

And her dad gets a say in who she breaks up with? Hell no!

[@silververnallbells191]

@@FunkyLittlePoptart lol @ your name "Funky Little Poptart" - I like it! :)

[@UseYourVoices]

@@FunkyLittlePoptart LOL 😆

[@MayTheOddsBeInYourFavor]

I hate guys that spend their entire time with you making you small. 😅like sir, why are you even here then?

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Right! They come just to try and bring women down a few pegs if she's vibrant, happy and a go getter before he met her🤡🤛🏾👹🤛🏾

[@seabreeze4559]

she was meant to pour that magical energy into HIM like a Manic Pixie Dreamgirl when it doesn't work that way

[@chinaking918]

He’s there because she’s probably the best he could get so he wanted to beat her down to make sure she didn’t leave. It’s what abusers do to keep their victims with them. 😮‍💨

[@emjohnson7207]

Ladies, be careful of the time you give, because you can never get it back.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

very true 💯

[@fortyshorty2459]

Factssss 💯🎯🎯🎯

[@rosevan7845]

Which is why it is important to learn your lesson the first time. A good education is a wonderful, valuable thing because it saves you more time and money than not having one (or used to). If she learned her lesson, the time was not wasted.

[@emjohnson7207]

@@rosevan7845 💯 I always told my kids and younger people, learn from your mistakes so you can recognize the signs and not repeat. Now if you keep doing the same stuff, something's wrong with you.

[@seabreeze4559]

They want a Manic Pixie Dreamgirl to fix their sad sad life. No such woman has ever existed, she is a Muse, an impossible creature from mythology.

[@BlackRaven000]

That delusion would shatter as soon as she opened her mouth.

[@silververnallbells191]

@@BlackRaven000 One reason why they don't like women speaking their mind...

[@Iquey]

They need a cat girl robot.

[@sarahcox1197]

That last girl has the best mom. We need more moms like THAT

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Yes we do💯

[@aprilmay1061]

I'm that kind of mom 🙎🏽‍♀️🤜🏼🤛🏼👊🏼🦵🏼🦶🏼🧹🪠🤣🤣

[@sarahcox1197]

@@aprilmay1061 AWESOME 😊 I mostly say that we need more moms like that because my mother was horrible and riddled with internalized misogyny.

[@BlackRaven000]

Jealous guy story: He was literally telling her he wanted better than her. He insinuated that he wanted to leave her first. Why's he so mad she's okay with it? 😂😂😂

[@seabreeze4559]

reduce the risk of revenge if he pulls the you can't fire me I quit?

[@garnetbabe2.0godschild40]

He knows he can't do better that's why

[@AnneSaluppo-t2p]

She called his bluff 😂

[@brandy4530]

I hope the author will be okay. Her ex is giving off stalker vibes. He is a complete lunatic.

[@seabreeze4559]

he might sabotage online reviews

[@daniellemitchell3118]

I was thinking that, too. I would document each time he tries to make contact, so it can be evidence when/if she goes to the police.

[@TheGhostofAbigailMills]

"I've never seen him act this way before" really jumped out at me. Because that definitely wasn't the first time in 2 years that that man put her down, I knew that for certain. And I'm glad her mother was there to clarify that by pointing out how much that man was beating her down and inflicting his ego on her. She should be proud to be published author!

[@emjohnson7207]

Maya Angelou: "Never make someone a priority when all you are to them is an option" I had this put on a bumper sticker. People would stop in parking lot to read it. My sister said, they think it's about you... I said nope my use me up days have long passed.

[@Golden-Lady]

You don't know how many people saw that bumper sticker and got a word that changed their lives. Keep doing God's work. 😂

[@LovesGaming37]

And magazines, for men and women, talk about what the woman can do to make the man happy. No one ever talks about what men can do to make the woman happy

[@archiecook55]

The man in the last story just proved the point of the first post. That man didn't want his woman to have hobbies of her own, he just wanted her to live entirely in service of him.

[@DianaPrinceitiswhatitis]

All three store use are why 4B is an entire global movement and why men will continue being single and lonely.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

4B WORLD💪🏾🥰💯

[@KT-zd2fj]

And this is one of the main reasons a lot of men are considered weaker than women. They expect some outside person (women), place, or thing to make and cultivate their happiness, fulfillment, peace, and stability... and whatever else they would need to become healthy functional human beings. And by weaker: I mean a lack of development, maturity, self- awareness, empowered empathy, understanding, consideration, and accountability.

[@joybecca]

"And the Mom of the year award goes to...." 🏆Broom wielding and cocktail pouring are her super powers! 👏🏾

[@aprilmay1061]

🥃🧹🍹🧹👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@elipotter369]

And giving her a reality check- he's often been saying put downs!

[@SaltationIgnite]

The last dude. Well, all of them 🤦🏾‍♀️🤡. What do they f**king expect when they talk to womzn this way? Shooting down dreams, insulting them calling them mediocre, even saying he can do better…. Then do better sir , BYE. Now, maybe there could have been a TINY bit of wiggle room if he first showed up with flowers and profuse apologies, but no. The audacity. He showed up at her door with ENTITLEMENT. Just 💩💩💩🤡🤡🤡

[@seabreeze4559]

the man of your dreams won't shoot them down

[@aprilmay1061]

That part.

[@BlackRaven000]

​@@seabreeze4559the men of our dreams are, sadly, only in our dreams.

[@MayDay-yn3bw]

​@@BlackRaven000 ooof ....

[@BB-gd7ez]

NO. He was horrible before she broke up with him. She just didn't recognize it. There was no way this would have gotten better she dodged a bullet.

[@madalice5134]

One of the reasons I've given when people ask me why I'm not in the dating game is that I don't want to take care of another person and be responsible for another person's emotions. I don't want to be someone's "everything." Been there, done that, not going to play Atlas for someone again. Unless I meet someone who's independent, emotionally mature and is seeking a companion and not a mommy/maid/accountant/bed warmer. Eta: OP'S mom is an absolute bad@$$. I hope her book does well and gets picked up for wide distribution. A few of the major bookstore chains have their own publishing arms now and quite a few new authors have been able to get more attention to the their works by contributing them to those to get them placed in mainstream bookstores.

[@nicolem2877]

Atlas 😂😂😂 Y’all hv women laughing while crying. Ty! ❤. Hope more of us take action vs add bandaids that only make it feel better temporarily.

[@amyyaku5022]

S3: Its funny how this guy literally wanted her to be his happiness machine and got so animated over being dumped. Typical narcissistic behavior 😂

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

Right! They can leave you, but how dare you leave them😳😹😹😹🤡🤛🏾

[@seabreeze4559]

"I pushed her away, why is she leaving?" literally

[@soulshadoww55]

Girl, breathe a sigh of relief, block his number, then take yourself to Paris.

[@AskDarlingNikki]

OMG THAT LINE about “can I get my girlfriend back” was so triggering. When I lost my baby from D Is For Donkey hey kept telling me to get over it so that “he can get his girlfriend back” wow they are all the same

[@silververnallbells191]

I don't know what "D is for Donkey" means... I'm sorry you lost your baby. You don't need anyone telling you how long you can grieve. Take as much time as you need.

[@nicolem2877]

Triggered me too. He said that to me when my kids were finally old enough for child care and I cld get a break. All they think abt is themselves and their needs while women crawl to their “never wld hv made it” finish lines!

[@AskDarlingNikki]

@@nicolem2877 they are def selfish and self seeking… so ma y show over and over that they don’t kids not even their own ones they just tolerate them in order to get what they want and also use them for their own narc supply and appearances while the mom does all the LABOUR

[@starbucksgirl6715]

True happiness comes from within, so men do themselves a disservice, by filling up on things that will never feed their souls because society has told them what they Should want and they don't get their own needs met.

[@seabreeze4559]

they have an external locus of control

[@Franciscaharrison1978]

You can't break up with me, then the thing about expiry date for kids. She should stay away from guys that don't think a woman's career and sucess means anything to them like this guy. Glad she has a supportive mum too, as this guy was bad news!! I was watching the trailer for a tv series set in I am assuming times before women had rights in American high society and this elderly lady is telling a bride how to she should please her husband and the the young lady asks,' how about my dreams, desires, ambitions etc? ' to which she is told, ' women don't have dreams and ambitions , they have husbands'. All I could think of was whow am I glad i wasnt around then!!

[@user-te5po4bu8o]

“Compromising for your relationship” means getting a different color rug than you might have picked alone because it’s one you both like. It doesn’t mean squashing your feelings out of existence and being small just to be agreeable.

[@islandgirl8067]

2nd story, the OP was an ahole to herself for wasting her time on such a loser. What did she see in him? He had NOTHING going for himself. He was putting her down because he knew she shouldn't have even given him the time of day. 3rd story, Her ex was an insecure bully. He wanted her to pour into him & not have any accomplishments of her own. She should be careful; I can see him getting violent.

[@llechatton]

Happiness Machine makes so much sense. Thanks. So many XY influencers preach , if you do A you get B. As if you put in the right token you will get laid.

[@kayshawnsimmons5585]

The XY's are miserable and want women to be miserable too.

[@seabreeze4559]

it seems like codependent personality disorder they act helpless without a woman

[@YellowTXRose1]

It’s like a strange thing for a man to resent your educational prowl-ness & accolades but be along for the ride so he could benefit from it. There’s plenty of women with much less but they manage to overlook them.

[@silververnallbells191]

*prowess :)

[@dfya3294]

The 1st post-she hit all of the points👏🏾. These men want to control & be the center of everything but can't control their own life by themselves. The last 2 story- I'm happy that both women were able to see their worth & was able to get away especially w/o any kids. Last story-ok mama👏🏾...mama is a G😆!

[@artofaries1113]

We are pacifiers to men.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Shock absorbers.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

Man that last one got my crying because my mom is the antithesis of that mom. I tried to talk to her about the abuse just today and she shouted at me and told me not to take out my anger on her…which was a reference to the last time I was honest with her. So not only did she refuse to support me, or even listen to me, but she also made sure to let me know that she thinks what I said last time was BS. It hit me like a rocket that my mom and my husband are the same person. She rewrote my entire life of abuse at her hands to me lying and being mad at her instead of my husband. And this week my husband started rewriting 12 years of abuse I suffered from him as me being a martyr for one mistake. They are insane. I emailed my church and everyone I could think of to get the hell out of here.

[@silververnallbells191]

This will free you up to find your own tribe.. a group or even a single person who will support you & have your back. Good luck!

[@Hollyberrystreats]

Dont willingly be with anyone who isnt happy for your successes and doesn't at least try to comfort you in tragedy!

[@ejiroghene20]

As weird as it sounds, men can actually see your potential. That’s only her first book and he makes more but he can see that if she keeps going, that will no longer be the case and they think that we’ll start smiling when they mention babies without a ring or babies with a ring, it doesn’t matter. They think we’d all throw it all away just to be with them. They don’t like the idea of being left behind so they try to stop us in our tracks before we can make headway and tell the lie that men have always been more innovative

[@BlackRaven000]

💯

[@elisavh7]

And yet, they're never happy.

[@mikochild2]

Then they try to compare. *They'll say, but we protect* ! How often are you fighting in the streets to keep me safe? *But we provide* ! You either contribute money to a household where a woman has sacrificed her earning potential to do the work required in a home or she is contributing money and domestic labor. *I keep up the car and mow the grass* ! How often do you do that sir? *But i did that nice thing for you or bought you that gift* ! Do you really want to sit here and compare what i do for you and buy you versus what you do for me? *But we built society and fight in wars* ! Don't you also benefit from society, and aren't the men fighting in wars also keeping you and your children safe? Also, we were talking about what we do for one another, not what outside people do for us. Do i need to talk about all the community work that women do that make all of our lives more comfortable?

[@seabreeze4559]

I have a relative who avoided child support then tried to claim the parent title and we all laughed at them. A sire is not a parent. I fix my own technology, even! They literally do nothing! "But I'm your parent!" but parenting is an active verb?

[@synthiamiller5990]

@mikochild2 This!!🎯🎯🎯🎯

[@UnexpectedSpanishInquisition]

Who started all those wars throughout history? Who still starts those wars today?

[@SonjaElizabethTeal]

Salaam. Happy Thursday, Beloveds! It's extremely suffocating to make someone else responsible for one's own happiness!

[@seabreeze4559]

it's codependent personality disorder, seriously

[@hmmmbrilee]

I would love to know the title of her book so that I can buy it for my niece. 👏

[@aprilmay1061]

Me too

[@lacheregriffin-denton9946]

If I was the last lady with the stalkerish type of ex-boyfriend I would definitely make sure that I keep track of all the emails that he is sending just in case he tries to escalate because he sounds like he's going to become a stalker especially since he told her she wasn't able to leave him she wasn't able to break up the relationship

[@len452000]

Is it me or did these stories have RED PILL written all over them?

[@cocoace7587]

Typical . It wasn't enough for him to make more money . He wanted to break her will to succeed. # drizzle drizzle 😂

[@laurah2831]

The Second Lady is what Melanie would call the red riding hood puppet. She did a great video explaining the dynamic between codependent super-achieving women and narcissistic king babies. It’s dormant for the most part for her but still a bit to unpack

[@raichutoyou]

The finale to story #3 is awesome. It was worth the read. Her mom was a badass.

[@toscadonna]

If a male can’t afford an American woman, most of whom work, how’s he gonna afford a wife from a foreign country that cannot work? The foreign wife magically changes the cost of living in America?

[@Delilah513]

They assume foreign women will be grateful for the absolute bare minimum

[@shaolinqueen3684]

One thing I noticed about dating your friends is that you can be great friends for many years to a man and then you'll see a different side of him when you become his woman. People say to be friends before dating, but it's evident men show their true colors when you're his woman.

[@zadarasimoleons1019]

Nooo!!! It got cut off!!

[@jaeshasway]

19:15 Serious red flags with this one. Idk why people open doors when partners come to their homes unhinged. Watch, listen and take action to protect yourself, your space and your children.

[@ClassicRuby]

3:41 we are never gonna get anywhere until we realize that the machine, which has nothing to do with the cogs within it (aka the 90% of men and women living in society) absolutely does tell US WOMEN THIS about women's role, women's use, men's desire for us etc. We get the message that this is what men are being told and conditioned and that we are, in essence, "catching on" to the programming. If you think this it means you're still several steps behind. What men are being programed with is an entirely different message. One that revolves around the "happy wife, happy life" messaging, and that tells them that they can NEVER be a REAL man or achieve self actualization until they are validated by said "happy wife's happy life". And all the details within. Of course, just as the messaging to women about women is not only dehumanizing but impossible, so too is the messaging to men about men dehumanizing and impossible to achieve. Its only those who can recognize these facts as facts and have equal understanding and empathy for the cog being relentlessly hammered by these impossibilities, regardless of gender, that can escape from the assured mutual misery, loneliness and failure. You don't have to of course. You can continue to recognize and care only for the plight of one, being willfully obstinate of the other. But the denying the veracity and existence of the pain and damage the effect of these messages is having, the horrific and tragic experiences being foisted on an often innocent party over these effects.... All it'll cause is more destruction, more push back, more fighting, more hurt and anger and righteous indignation. It's not the pain and blame Olympic Games. If we admit the other side are victims in this machine, it doesn't somehow eliminate our own victimhood validity. We won't though. That's not how society at large works. And that's exactly why the 1% will continue to perpetuate the race wars and the class wars and the gender wars. As long as we are super busy blaming and hating all the wrong people and fighting for all the wrong things, we will never turn our 99% into a collective so we can ACTUALLY fight the ACTUAL battle that ACTUALLY oppresses and victimizes us all.

[@malindarayallen]

So refreshing to see someone supported by her family instead of being pressured to stay in a toxic suffocating relationship. Kudos to her for taking the powerful step of following her dreams and seeing what her 💩 ex was really like. I'm so proud of both of them.

[@florindagonzalez5700]

3rd story Anyone peep how he showed up unnannounced, then tries to FORCE himself in while screaming? I am so glad the lock was there. My goodness..

[@thekameru6058]

I think there is a joke somewhere in a 6ft woman being told she hit her 5ft 9 bf who was insecure about his height 'below the belt' But seriously, tall woman are hot, and that one is smart too. A deadly combination.

[@foreveralchemy3193]

Story #2. Her boyfriend was a narcissist

[@LuvsTruth-fs5nd]

All of these stories take me to a question men never ask. And, that is why do men want the love and adoration of women they clearly don’t like enough to treat like human beings? And, how do men want everything exactly as they want it without compromise or reciprocity? We all generally understand that if you nice to someone they will be nice back. But, somehow that changes to a one sided situation when a woman is romantically linked to a man? Misogyny makes no sense.

[@gee_emm]

Have you heard that song 'Labour' by Paris Paloma?

[@Ourown311]

I have, I love it

[@Shaytan.666]

6:53 you know what's funny and sad, men don't stop with women opting out of being the primary caregiver I'm active in the LGBTQ scene and I know several gay men who've done that to their husbands and date a young college boy.

[@rn2787]

I believe in second and even third chances at life, but those are earned. You have to actually learn something from it. This guy doesn't realize that he needs to do something with his life. He is incredibly lucky to have any chance at a successful life. His failures are not her problem. She should focus on the people and things that give her joy and peace.

[@christiangirl3584]

Lipstick is popping today Burb. Love seeing our women wearing bright shades. 😍

[@BurbNBougie]

I need to get back to that

[@SM-fx6yo]

issue #2 Anyone wondering why she dated him...she used him as a placeholder...she never intended on a serious relationship and dating someone she can have fun with and never see a future with made sure that she would continue this trajectory path. Sometimes bored people experiment 🤷‍♀

[@seabreeze4559]

men assume a woman is never benching him, the way he benches her for later too they also tend to assume sunk cost fallacy will make us desperate, when really we get bored of them

[@kreyolLA84]

I mean, she had nothing nice to say about him at all.

[@SM-fx6yo]

@@kreyolLA84 right. Just like men who date women they hate lol 😆 some ppl just wired different 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@SM-fx6yo]

@@seabreeze4559 facts

[@ServingSass]

The thing is, not all men, but any man.

[@nattykadifa2856]

At 18:30 sounds like he been listening to Kevin Samuels or similar

[@thesecretshade]

Did you get cut off at the end? I dont think you were finish with reading the post. What happened with Chris at the door??

[@Dhunt118]

For some reason, yt keeps automatically unsubscribing me from this channel! Anybody else having this problem?? Great video Burb, as usual!

[@seabreeze4559]

@BookYork I heard tons of mgtow work for u tube

[@synthiamiller5990]

Yes!!! I’m having the exact same problem! This channel, and a few others similar to this one!! I have to agree that there must be a bunch of mgtow working for KZbin!

[@janetwalenta641]

What's wrong with illustrated poetry? I guess if thats not what you're aiming for, fair enough, but illustrated poetry can be wonderful.

[@maam-yj8ph]

Dr. Seuss sure did well with illustrated poetry.

[@gabyszabo9615]

“This is one of the reasons why a lot of [men] have too much energy and can cheat: bc women do too much of the foundational and typically unseen and unappreciated things. So stop doing these things.” I never thought of that, but it is true! Good insight: thank u!

[@queenshelaine5539]

I think "an dfpcus" is supposed to be "and focus".

[@BurbNBougie]

Ohhhh. Thanks. That makes sense

[@IsThisRealLif]

She didn't even call him mediocre..... That clap back was simply to say that the only attention she craved was HIS..... So since he was saying she craves mediocre attention, it was as if he was calling HIMSELF mediocre... Even in the argument she was being nice cuz she was still stating that she only wanted his attention in a way

[@sylvieroche9364]

"You can't just break up with me !" ...."I just did".

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

20:05 I love her mom❤

[@synthiamiller5990]

20:05 her mom reminds me a lot of mine!!!

[@kylaarmstrong-benjamin8066]

@@synthiamiller5990 mine too! Only my mom's not shy or quiet about her feelings. When she sees something, she says something! She would've called him out to his face, the first time she ever thought he was acting up! She has before!

[@mariposaflame4194]

I'm hooked! But Where's the rest?? 😁😬😁

[@JadaCarlton]

The first story makes me think of that old film "The Stepford Wives"

[@Gwen_Beautiful_Smile]

It seems the last story was cut off? How did it end?

[@DJRenee]

0:25 ❤ agreed 💯

[@lalalovengun]

Story of gf with book accomplishment: It was a typo; she meant to say “he was upset that she wouldn’t drop the book *and focus* on their lives and their future. But had to ruin it by taking on hobbies and the therapist poisoned her mind against him…🙄😂 In other words, he wanted a wife appliance bang maid.

[@DaughterofDiogenes]

I need to go find that Reddit post and clip that disclaimer. I can use it on everything I post. Lol

[@lavonnewr]

Fpcus was to be focus

[@teresaw9668]

The female appliance.😢

[@milphoenix91]

The second guy is very narcissistic.

[@cageybee1154]

These AITAH posts are WILD. Like:"my rude husband steals my money, disrespects me, tries to get me fired, can't do squat, destroys my things and I'm exhausted from taking care of him. AITAH for complaining to him about it and asking him to start wiping his butt?". No! NTAH. That lady sounds like a highly intelligent person, and yet her dummy bf is making her second guess sharing her true thoughts.

[@dezinechic]

not sure why the second story shed be friends with him for that long and much less date him!

[@min_tea_]

❤❤

[@RummanaMoledina]

Horror stories

[@Orb-w3aver]

💎🎯💛

[@Interference11]

1st comment!

[@BurbNBougie]

🎉🎉😊😊

[@Lokian_Mermaid]

Yayy! 😊

[@Interference11]

@@BurbNBougie❤

[@Interference11]

@@Lokian_Mermaid😊

[@onycagayle4485]

❤

[@AutumnAprodithe]

4B should remain for women only. Trans women are not women.

[@Indyawillis85]

We can respectfully admit there are differences between cis women and trans women without using transphobic language 😕🙄

[@jonquiljones]

​@@Indyawillis85Don't you dare call us "cis". That is a slur, which you have repeatedly been told. And stay away from lesbians. #LGBDropTheT

[@lucindabreeding]

Cisgender men can be dangerous to transwomen, too.

[@thelastshallbefirst6036]

​@@Indyawillis85Some of them have "male" tendencies and have a habit to take over everything.

[@haruk2312]

They have a tendency to invade women's space just cause they're trans​@@thelastshallbefirst6036

[@aon10003]

Why are you even in the game. (Didn't listen to the end)