This is beautiful work. To see men inquiring and regaining their teu power. This is the compassion that changes worlds. The bravery of these men is truly inspiring.
@leeboriack805410 ай бұрын
Expectations are a premeditated resentment. My dad cared about me, but he didn’t do it the way I wanted.
@nhhek11100994 ай бұрын
This person is a treasure.
@beautitudes4 жыл бұрын
The mind fights hard to hang on to it’s suffering. She’s great
@lenas56135 жыл бұрын
Katie is a hero for doing this worknwithbtgese guys. They are so often neglected. Thank you Katie.
@lexqbeanable5 жыл бұрын
Next to Jesus, she is my favorite teacher!
@helenlauer95455 жыл бұрын
I'll be honest, at first it's hard to understand what she is actually talking about, except for two points stated hyperbolically which are obvious to everyone, and all of us share. Very few people are full of compassion except for brief moments or short periods of time. To turn growth into a formula for dialogue seems to me a reduction that is not particularly useful. But then watching her dialogue with each person gives a pattern to follow for self exploration and growing. Nice exercise. Seriously.
@MegaHealer5 жыл бұрын
Wray Rae Mooji was cool until his sexual misconduct came out. Mooji still has a lot of human things to process. Very few mature and clean teachers out there.
@MommaElin5 жыл бұрын
@@davidyatesmckay not even close to J
@MommaElin5 жыл бұрын
@@MegaHealer indeed true. Be your own teacher, all others are mere reflections and never the real one. For the only real one can only be found in the most quiet, empty space that abides in you....
@srso46605 жыл бұрын
@@waiataaroha 1. Is that true? 2. Can you absolutely know it's true? 3. How do react when you think that thought? 4. Who would you be without that thought? Turn it around...😊
@stefanotonnini10 ай бұрын
This was Amazing, thank you for sharing
@kippapao3 жыл бұрын
need to teach this to children!!!!!!!!!!
@maribrunnsteiner96213 жыл бұрын
She shared how she did her self-healing process. Thanks Katie. I thank God you were born brave and kind
@LK-vf9uc5 жыл бұрын
The turnarounds get me every time. I am in tears again.
@wayneschlegel13405 жыл бұрын
That´s wonderful!
@ShareTheMystery5 жыл бұрын
Lena K same here!
@iambobpeck3 жыл бұрын
“My father was abusive to me... I was abusive to my father.. wow that’s true” 🥲
@walkervreelandproductions78667 ай бұрын
When Scott and Katie hugged and she kissed him on the cheek it took my breath away. Beautiful.
@m4nif3stor2 ай бұрын
She is amazing
@vivianaarose5 жыл бұрын
How I LOVE her. Thank God for her in the world today.
@tiaturnbullchampionscoachi95874 жыл бұрын
She needs to teach the guards, the police and the soldiers.
@taramickeymickeranno87253 жыл бұрын
Is that true? 😜
@zray42103 жыл бұрын
@@taramickeymickeranno8725 lol
@gwenr12138 ай бұрын
sounds controlling
@cristinacoble22911 күн бұрын
Turn that around.... you need to learn what?@@taramickeymickeranno8725
@rogerthompson52504 жыл бұрын
I first met Byron Katie while in school to become a Certified Hypnotherapist. One of our instructors Diane Bradshaw had us all go see her to learn "The Work". It is such a simple but powerful technique. I utilized this in my hypnotherapy practice with amazing results. Thank you Byron, much love.
@2ndhandanxiety7194 жыл бұрын
I’ve been interested in doing hypnotherapy. May I ask what school you attended?
@movieman65884 жыл бұрын
I like this video because she provides examples based on her experience. The work was flushed out really well, which I think is very helpful for people new to the work. Thanks for posting this!
@jrlaz00013 жыл бұрын
You truly are doing gods work. Your approach is mind numbing in its brilliant simplicity. Thank you.
@redroseforyou42094 жыл бұрын
I respect that she was interested in reaching out to help those in prison. Or should I say an actual physical prison bc in some way we can all be prisoners of our minds.
@alexanderesparra83284 жыл бұрын
tp
@sherryashcroftify5 жыл бұрын
I love how simple Byron puts this. And I am in aw of the work that she is doing these beautiful human beings. 🙏🏻🥰. These four questions bring me out of my darkness and in to peace ✌️
@rp2chil4 жыл бұрын
I love this video. I don't know how she got through this without sobbing.. It's beautiful interaction. Those men who shared were very brave.
@crackheadvibez53182 жыл бұрын
For her, I would imagine for myself that she would have seen it so many time that it isn't new. She's grieved for these things already. There are plenty of videos where the whole audience and her cry. It's a true experience and has changed my life.
@mtm004 жыл бұрын
I love 'The Work' for it's ability to allow me to see other people's sweetness. Thank you, Byron Katie. (Thanks for sharing this, Guy.)
@allisonbaxter64392 жыл бұрын
❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥 "We get really confused when love begins to replace hate and resentment." Truth haha
@marianneellman11398 ай бұрын
Pure gold!😃
@candicemariebeadco4 жыл бұрын
Love her! Such an amazing, beautiful soul!
@clearhorizons4 жыл бұрын
Nearly 20 years since the video was made. The Work still valid.. makes me ponder how no matter the diatance, or time lapsed or personal circumstances, we experience the same pain and same solution works its magic.
@adrianahuitron68095 жыл бұрын
Everyone would forget about the past if they could we can’t but we can question it and have a better now 🤯👍🏻
@Sambasue4 жыл бұрын
One does not have to forget about thoughts of past and future. They will arise. It is a matter of non-identification and realization of Awareness.
@piapenny3 жыл бұрын
These beautiful souls.
@RainFall-wz2ypАй бұрын
7TH LINE: I desperately despair for true love, I long for it so deeply, I suppress it so much, I could literally faint from the desire
@DanceDaily2 ай бұрын
2:39 " I was connected, it was amazing " "when i believed my thoughts, and so did my family, but when I questioned my thoughts I would not suffer and I was free of these thoughts and these crazy crazy thoughts "
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434Ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤😊
@clearhorizons4 жыл бұрын
Profound exercise and Work. Just beautiful.. jaw dropoing wisdom... and on a lighter note, I love that the one guy's problem being in prison is that his family home is painted blue and he doesn't like it.
@rp2chil5 жыл бұрын
I'm on awe of Byron Katie's brilliance. Guy Madison, thank you for sharing this. Happy new year.
@katalinpinter97495 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this video. I wish Byron Katie could visit every prison and every school and hospitals and families and workplaces!
@marianneellman11398 ай бұрын
Now turn that around?😀
@kimberlyherrmann63245 жыл бұрын
Our Own Negative Energy Created Our Own World / Mind Of Hell. Our Own Negative Beliefs Created Dark Relationships, Troubles Everywhere In Our Own World. This Is The Ego Which ALWAYS Blames/ Projects/ Looks "Outside" When The Only Way Out Is The Way In. 💜 Deeply Watch Our Beliefs, Thoughts and If We Look Deep Enough... We Will See How It Manifests In Our World. We Must Forgive As Christ Did... For They Know Not... We Must Also Know That The Story Of Christ Is About Us. We Are All The Light Of God. ☀ God Awaken All and Keep All In Our Open Heart. 💜🙏💛
@truthseeker41118 ай бұрын
Incredible.
@Medietos4 жыл бұрын
I need HER to do work with me that warmly. Her compassion and acceptance is so right,
@phonemail13673 жыл бұрын
Going to sound corny but when I see these prisoners share their personal stories.. I just fall in love with all of them!!! I just want to lift them up and heal their wounds and show them that they are so capable of love and being the love they are. Humans are so amazing and heartbreaking and adorable. Watching them taste just a little drop of what truly matters and how how starving they are to know love, just makes we want to do what she does. If only there was a place for humans to get a quick and through dose of self-understanding and love... That technology may come someday? Self destruction is such a painful path especially if we have been taught it from the beginning.. Yet each of them has their unique path... I could see how it might be difficult for some of them to hit this work when the cycle of victimhood has been such a part of every day existence. Yet the beautiful thing about Katie is she knows exactly how far she can take each one of them towards meeting their personal truth. Her work is embedded into my daily existence and watching these beautiful men tell their stories quickly opens my heart wide open. Give her work a chance if you are a hardcore resistant-to-life person... like I often can be... Wanting the world to be different than it is.. I would likely have left the planet years ago if it were not for finding her and her work, and so glad to be here. The beauty and depth of "the work" discovered ***her*** and she now shares this unconditional tough-love with the world selflessly. I will forever cherish all the ways this process has touched my life and always fascinated by how beautiful people are at their core. 1000% responsibility is never easy and takes willingness, courage and strength, but the payoff is priceless beyond words. I can't help but fall in love with all of them such beautiful humans.. Her work is way ahead of it's time, yet needed more than ever these days. : ) Perhaps someday humans will finally get it? PEACE on earth, goodwill be done... towards all life, someday, somehow, someway...amen
@sherrysunshinefreeman3434Ай бұрын
Amen ❤😊
@Ishana_Intuitive4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this wonderful work with Byron Katie. Its very precious.
@peterbrennan3935 жыл бұрын
some people are unaware of just how much their parents hurt them. it gets denied and hidden.
@marygp34994 жыл бұрын
Yes, no one’s parents were perfect
@tiaturnbullchampionscoachi95874 жыл бұрын
I think people abused more and past the abuse on when they don't question their own thoughts. This is a lesson in taking responsibility for our own thoughts. It doesn't mean that we were not abused, it just means we are looking at how we make thoughts up that Hold Us in a prison. When we begin to do the turn around and find reasons to not be stuck in the prison then we can find reasons to make our own life better and not pass that abuse on.
@VoxMachina82 жыл бұрын
This is absolutely incredible work.
@jacquiejoseph21324 жыл бұрын
This is amazing work .. so glad I found it ♥️
@helenlauer95455 жыл бұрын
Fantastic lady. Wow.
@johnkristjanson94174 жыл бұрын
Pure Beauty..................WOW
@dottywhite22954 жыл бұрын
An amazing lady with talent to give hope
@heatherhall34525 жыл бұрын
What a beautiful human 💖💜💗 Fantastic work 🙌🏽🕉✝️💟
@sandibroad40994 жыл бұрын
Thank you for posting this one. ❤️🥰❤️
@wonderwoman79693 жыл бұрын
Amazing human being
@sayusayme77294 жыл бұрын
Awesome spiritual guidance 💗🙏🏻🦋
@TheGranti7a4 жыл бұрын
Anger is an indication that something needs attention.
@sarhasarhan35585 жыл бұрын
what a pretty lady.
@deborahmccann24862 жыл бұрын
That was incredible
@malcolmnicoll11653 жыл бұрын
“To stand up for truth is nothing. For truth, you must sit in jail.” -Alexander Solzhenitsyn
@andrearoy46582 жыл бұрын
thanks Guy M. needed to go back to this is for growth and found it here
@howard1beale5 жыл бұрын
4 questions Belief- eg people are not compassionate 1. Is it true?YES! 2. Can you absolutely know its true? No... 3. How do you feel about that thought? 4. Who would you be without that thought? The turnaround: I am not compassionate at the moment that I'm judging others People Are compassionate
@504_kaybeaulieu65 жыл бұрын
This really helped me.
@KarinaStaalArt4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for showing me this as a reminder for things I already know, but sometimes forget again.
@jamesburns78634 жыл бұрын
Such a SWEET and LOVELY lady!!!
@miguelangeloliva7722 Жыл бұрын
Gracias por compartir !
@TomBell5 жыл бұрын
Byron, remembering a GREAT chat we had about 12 years ago in Prague (at a Tony Robbins event)
@ow41484 жыл бұрын
this video has let me know how many resentments in my life i have. how it is me and my thinking that has made me fucked up, amazing!!! turn it all around!!
@alec_oliver68645 жыл бұрын
I loved that you posted this again. Thank you!
@kathisyoga53244 жыл бұрын
This is one of my favorite earlier videos and I am grateful to Guy Madison for uploading it, for the guys who volunteered to share their worksheets, and obviously for Katie! I wonder how many of the gentlemen were long-term well-affected by Katie's visit? So great!
@tnt014 жыл бұрын
a follow up with these men would be amazing.
@peayen50084 жыл бұрын
This is beautiful.
@LaurinaDream244 жыл бұрын
Beautiful. Powerful.
@einsteindarwin87563 жыл бұрын
Thanks Byron Katie. I just saw a story on the news about a prison system that had a book club that inspired men to donate funds to a young student whose parents had lost their jobs do to illness. I don't know if my phone is trolling me or not but I think that is an example of how people like you are giving hope.
@AnanyaChattopadhyay093 жыл бұрын
This is d first tym I am hearing her. She has an inner light "We are Stuck in a concept we never question" Yes we imagine things, both positiveor negative, n we believe it like robots 'Loving father, not the judging father'
@icsfreedom20075 жыл бұрын
Brilliant teaching Thank you
@plumedeloup63184 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS VIDEO. Thank you 😘
@Mjaukski4 жыл бұрын
"You introduced yourself to heroin. He didn't hold you down and shoot you up" haha she's great 🙌🏽
@ckelley6235 жыл бұрын
Resentment chapter and seeing our part..its all in the AA big book
@Sambasue3 жыл бұрын
AA yes another inspired Work.
@Freyablogja4 жыл бұрын
This lovely woman is a genius!
@lenahammargren69514 жыл бұрын
Beautiful❤
@leac822Ай бұрын
amazing
@clairejoseph93984 жыл бұрын
27:34 to argue with reality is to argue with god
@tnt014 жыл бұрын
acceptance.
@AnaraDamenova2 жыл бұрын
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?
@notanotherjamesmurphy55745 жыл бұрын
“For me, to argue with reality is to argue with god.”
11 ай бұрын
Which year is this?
@_maxt5 жыл бұрын
"I am what I call you"
@helenlauer95455 жыл бұрын
ain't that the truth capital T.
@pixieseyz4 жыл бұрын
this is everything.
@michelleveloni13293 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@Jsmithyy5 жыл бұрын
Noted. Everything will turn out exactly how you decide? The choice is yours? Is it True?
@AurelienCarnoy4 жыл бұрын
My situation is unfair so i feel angry and blame my wife. I m blaming myself and I'm feeling angry at myself, the situation is fair.
@GM19884 жыл бұрын
Let's do the work😉
@dariodrz5 жыл бұрын
Wait, was this held in an actual prison?
@VajraYogini935 жыл бұрын
YEP she is in a actual prison
@hariharry39110 ай бұрын
🙏
@rooish5743 жыл бұрын
Not sure how much she helped the second guy by getting him to think he had been nothing but abusive to his father. He just seemed hurt and confused
@corrinaamato88054 жыл бұрын
But a friend pointed out when she says "this heart mind, there is a heart and a mind"... she basically is describing a SOUL
@loejewis4 жыл бұрын
Amazing
@evenstar99464 ай бұрын
49:00 no one can leave me. I have the power ♥️
@gregvisioninfosoft4 жыл бұрын
at around 17:22 this is a massive paradigm shift - that in this particular case the subject seems to agree with. and in this case alot of insights and revelations come forth. can anyone who has a good grasp of her techniques please comment on a different scenario? say the person who was traumatized by an older person who had authority over them, such as someone held captive and then abused by their mean-spirited captives. is there any value in this type of therapy for a situation such as that? where the victim truly had no influence one way or another as to what horrible things that were inflicted to them... or is there a better, or different, paradigm that a victim can use here to help heal from such a wound. if the victims statement was 'i resent my abusive tormentors for the pain they inflicted to me', how could that ever be turned around to any other type of a statement that could ever give such a victim a different more healthy perspective on such a traumatic situation? Any insights would be very welcome, as I am trying to learn more about how to help heal the pains of victims. Not professionally but in the role of being a good friend.
@mattescooking4 жыл бұрын
Byron Katie is not saying that abuse didn't happen. The questions just help us to explore our beliefs and judgements so that we can find peace. It is a way to think about more than our fixed beliefs as we become aware that 1) we only see our one-sided perspective, 2) our imaginations mostly don't reflect reality, 3) abusers are dealing with their own problems and beliefs, and 4) mentally we often are our own tormentors.
@flaquita6084 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤❤👏👏👏👏👏👏😳😳😳😳
@superlady29603 жыл бұрын
What year is this from? Who are these guys? I love this but I have so many questions
@Rnue8 ай бұрын
That's hard.
@foobar123-f2y5 ай бұрын
And yet, so necessary.
@pacospete42993 жыл бұрын
The Genie Within ........................
@SuperMCRrocker3 жыл бұрын
There are 83 sad people who are still stuck in their own prisons.
@noemiramirez31568 ай бұрын
I didnt get it..
@akivaragen5 жыл бұрын
I like pepole. I can't understand how a nice guy like scoot can end up in prison. That's sad.
@user-we6wi3rn1l4 жыл бұрын
"an experience that I cannot describe to you....." that she goes on to actually describe in the very next sentence as being "connected."
@amanitamuscaria75004 жыл бұрын
Perhaps the qualifier "adequately " should be used. We can attempt description of things that we know lie beyond language. Anyone who has had a NDE, a lucid or vivid dream, or a trip will experience things that they just can't English. But we try. It's a shame to condemn a person for their (necessarily inadequate) efforts.
@GM19882 жыл бұрын
After watching the Dahmer series, I wonder what it would be like to watch Katie doing the work with Jeffrey. I'm sure he would've be fascinated to meet someone like her, and doing the inquiry in order to understand his mind.
@AnaraDamenova2 жыл бұрын
@GuyMadison, can I upload and translate this video to russian?