Can a marriage survive an affair?

A wife who discovered her husband's infidelity on Facebook asks: can their marriage be saved? Steve helps them find out how to rebuild after trust and infidelity issues.

[@mdooms76]

An affair is not a mistake as he put it...it's a choice. The wife's body language is speaking volumes! She is furious and hurt!!

[@dmason5249]

mdooms76 Exactly!!

[@tiberiusedwards3968]

mdooms76 back is turned all the way on him

[@tfr8s44]

I don't buy it one bit...she is hurt to the core and knows he's just saying whatever for TV's sake! I'm curious if it ever worked out?? Anyone know?

[@nonnyvundhla4715]

Im sure she's like," waite and see what im gonna do to you"😡

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[@nmurray8533]

She's got her back turned to him. Clear sign she thinks he's a liar.

[@soulstrength]

She's hurt and she doesn't trust him. I wouldn't want to sit next to him either. Body language is everything.

[@ladygore8848]

Right!

[@shanelknight8730]

She's so beautiful. you can see how hurt she is .. so sad

[@veeoby3364]

He looks like a LIAR and she wasn't convinced one bit by his apology. She just had to say yes for the TV

[@earlibee]

+Vee Oby you cant just look at him and call him a liar

[@NephritduGrey]

+earlibee well there's something called body language. Not saying he is or isn't a liar though.

[@selenejohn-baptiste4545]

Sure right....

[@pinklady4772]

he licked his lips way to much to be telling the truth

[@bajifarhat]

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[@gr8teagazr122]

He seems to be quite insincere. Body language and that sorry ass apology. . . The man is a snake, and I think she deserves better.

[@scoobydoo7346]

Gr8 Teagazr he's a snake and I don't think he's attracted to his wife

[@aliwest2954]

Chiara TV then why do you think he wants her back?

[@noway-kn1ow]

@@aliwest2954, expectations & obligation.

[@likeitmatters6046]

So true. I didn't once feel like he really owned up for what he did He wasn't saying "I'm sorry " It's more like he was saying "can we just go back and act like this never hapenned"

[@serious7179]

@@aliwest2954 he's the one who broke the marriage bond... Why are you asking that question?

[@brandyhunter932]

Once the trust is gone, it's a wrap! Her body language said it all..None of the begging and pleading on t.v. won't fix a damn thing...nope.

[@hannahlopez3411]

Exactly

[@ramoshabaramoshaba9561]

Brandice Hunter. when a womans fed up #R Kelly

[@soulstrength]

Absolutely! She may not have said many words, but she spoke VOLUMES with that body language! You know all her trust is completely diminished when she would rather sit facing Steve than have any type of closeness to her own man. What a sleazeball of a man! I hope he has learned his lesson and truly has amended his ways. I would like an update on them.

[@amandaalexander5769]

Also he was holding her hand, if you look carefully his fingers are clasped around her hand and her own were still open like she did not want to hold his hand

[@Roni-Ron]

I’d leave I would never trust him again

[@vsanders5]

Her body language is saying alot!!!!

[@PennyParkerTV]

Anyone else think she is STUNNING? 😍

[@Knkollection]

Penny Parker Thank you Penny

[@PennyParkerTV]

Keenysha Burrell hope all is well with you ❤️😍

[@WildBison74]

Penny Parker I was seriously thinking the same thing! I was like wow what a beautiful strong black woman!

[@sangegxumisa]

She is gorgeous!

[@bennetttrevor3]

Disagree

[@brianphilips1092]

Sadly, FB has destroyed more couples than it has brought together

[@lobecosc]

Funny. When MySpace was hot, did we hear the same thing MySpace? Back then, everyone to the slap-happy grand-pappy had a MySpace page and I don't recall people getting divorced over it.

[@dawnrivera6158]

brian philips You're right, but it is what people post on Facebook. People post naked or half naked photos of themselves and on top of that. They post all of their business about affairs, a bad marriage ect.. People should use discretion when posting on social media.

[@montgal53]

Actually, FB is less than 20 years old. Cheating has been going on for more than 2,000 years. FB is simply another conduit to cheat - not the cause of cheating.

[@Abena_Goddess87]

Nope, fb has helped people reveal their secrets.

[@Angie-nb4pg]

Facebook is not to blame...the people who cheat are smh 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@chelblr]

She has really beautiful eyes!

[@jmay9691]

+pako pako Then you a sorry excuse for a human being. Don't make a commitment and not follow through. Vows say better or worse.

[@deepsoul3256]

wait! you need her to help you with what you messed up??? boy bye! liar liar pants on fire

[@soulstrength]

I'm trying to figure out what he needs help with. People kill me...marrying folks with no intention of fidelity. See that body language? She'd rather sit next to Steve than her own man. Trust just gone!

[@deepsoul3256]

Exactly! This is sad on every level

[@alisonlake7119]

Girl please run away far far awsy..

[@kadoman0]

man even if he was lying you can clearly see she either isn't ready or does not want to forgive him look at her body language

[@frankkessy1420]

nnn. ffeb. z

[@theresamischeski71]

She's seething 😠

[@jmay9691]

She ain't having none of it.

[@doshinall]

That's the 1st thing I noticed. She is not open to forgiveness...can't even face him. One of the worst things that can happen is she takes him back, yet does not forgive him. Their lives together will be a living hell.

[@kadoman0]

She should be straightforward about how she feels

[@lowdrop7349]

What a beautiful woman she is. She's so gorgeous

[@olaibrahim5876]

+LowDrop Not true, she is very overweight

[@lowdrop7349]

so being overweight takes the beauty off of her? That's not really right..

[@VincentTownes]

I always ask myself "HOW DO YOU CHEAT ON A WOMAN THAT FINE"????

[@PeggyRabbit32]

has nothing to do with looks. SMH. has everything to do with him being weak and a damned fool.

[@CognitiveDiscussion]

It has nothing to do with looks and she isn’t that fine. Below average due to the weight. At the end of the day looks don’t save someone from a cheater, a woman’s value ages with time.

[@Squaddy1963]

This same mess happen to me and it was devastating !!!! Needless to say my marriage did not survive I never even got a " I'm sorry " but I forgave him and moved on I'm at peace

[@DianaMillan]

Beverly Jackson Good for you, Queen! 👍🏿

[@lyric2439]

Good for you! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453]

Wow. You’re a strong woman. I met a crazy lady today who told stay with my lying husband because that’s what she is doing. She is staying knowing her is unfaithful and says she is ok with it but cussing up a storm at the same time. I am suppose to ok because he comes home at night and stop complaining she suggested. What are our standards for ourselves?

[@sky-od8cq]

@@webuysellhousesaptscashoff9453 she probably has a twisted fetish of knowing her husband is sleeping with someone else, it turns her on. 😂😂😂 man i really dont know why else she would stay i dont understand where is these women's self respect 🤷‍♀️🤦‍♀️

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

Same

[@handyntelameno3095]

she's very pretty

[@robertabenson621]

Agreed, she's gorgeous!

[@RAIKOVITCH]

jesuslove 45 are you blind? xD

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

RAIKOVITCH ?

[@RAIKOVITCH]

crazymusicgrl ?

[@barbielee8861]

I'm still waiting for a "Kenisha I'm sorry, I failed you."

[@harpermadden88]

kennysha

[@ndombologique]

He's a chump.. only sorry he got caught.

[@ndombologique]

hdhdhc Aiight bruuhhh.. whatever you say. ;-)

[@LegendInTheEndzzz]

Michelle Tshimanga luh u lol

[@nannymcphee222]

TRUE THAT!!!! Sorry he got caught with his UGLY SELF!!!!!!

[@user-sj2sd3ei1n]

Don't be fooled...she's still mad homie

[@dianereynolds3878]

Facts cheating is one of the worse thimgs men can do period

[@reinajenkins2185]

My heart goes out to her. She's such a beauty too. Her eyes are so pretty and has so much pain. Unfortunately she's married to a grown man who still thinking like an adolescent.

[@gracfulgrace]

I loved when all the woman yelled "KNEES!" Damn right. I don't know if my marriage would survive if my husband cheated. That is like the ultimate betrayal and ya there is a reason someone cheats, but ultimately the person who cheated is to blame. You can be tempted, but that don't mean you need to let yourself crumble into temptation. Just my thoughts.

[@this_mfr]

+Grace B I hear you, absolutely the cheater is at fault. However, people make mistakes. And that's what it is - the mother of all mistakes. My ex-wife cheated on me when I was in the military. I was the one who wanted it to work and get past it, but not once did she apologize or even act like she did anything wrong. I was the one who suggested counseling. I was the one who wanted to go on a two week vacation to reconnect. I was the one trying to fix the wrong that she did, and that was the mistake I made. Bottom line is that if she would have owned up to her mistake, begged for forgiveness, and then spent every day proving to me her love and sorrow until the wounds were healed, it would have been OK. We stayed together for a couple more years and she eventually left me anyways, blaming me for our marriage falling apart. Forgiveness can work miracles, but the offender has to want to be forgiven. Otherwise, it's nothing but resentment for both parties.

[@TheGotham84]

Agree. I don't know if I could move on from infidelity. Betrayal is huge to me...

[@this_mfr]

TheGotham84 Most likely you would if the other person really showed their sorrow and worked at fixing it.

[@TheGotham84]

+It's Me if that's what YOU would do that's ok. I don't knock it. But the relationship wouldn't be the same. In order to truly move on you have to let that go. And that's not something IM able to do. Again im speaking for myself. I salute those who have the ability to forgive and move on

[@haitiangal1361]

I'll forgive you but I won't ever forget. Also, I'll have to leave you. I can't stay with cheaters I just can't. I'm not going to live a miserable life because I love you. I can love you from a distance, then I'll eventually heal. Most of the time, staying with a cheater is bad anyways.

[@oliviahobson9536]

I wouldn't take him back, he cheated, and he made those same promises at their wedding however many years before and look where they ended up. Way to go Tenisha for the forgiveness. I hope it works out

[@Michellemybell739]

Beautiful sista! Wow! Men gone cheat no matter what we look like. A hot mess. Girl go find your prince charming!

[@cherylvaughn2215]

kl If there's a prince charming out there, don't you think there's 20 other women fighting for him??

[@wycliffenyariki6877]

Prince charming gone cheat too. so wats ur point?

[@NalaAmari]

That's really sad. I see the pain in her face.

[@84legit]

Cenique it won’t be the same . No matter how ya patch things up

[@shantitaylorap]

he licked his lips to lubricate his lies ...

[@corrinezyleahczeesquad2855]

Her facial expression reads mad as hell

[@peacheskong2245]

Hurt, she looks so hurt and disheartened.

[@sexualreminisceskeepthefir4701]

Talk is cheap without coherent action.

[@brettsohtz9574]

talk is cheap and you are beautiful women

[@sexualreminisceskeepthefir4701]

Brett Sohtz Thank you my friend.

[@brettsohtz9574]

How are you tonight

[@brettsohtz9574]

I live in Florida and the weather is good and happy summer.😘😍

[@sexualreminisceskeepthefir4701]

Brett Sohtz I'm in the U.K at the moment and we are enjoying the hot sun too. Have a good day.

[@hairoinaddict]

He wont changed... he knows how good of a woman she is which is why he wont let her go. A dog is a dog

[@Smartass8504]

I hear you. Being cheated on can really screw up your self-esteem and give you some major trust issues. It's just like you said. You can forgive, but it seems like every little tiny thing can remind you of it. You start to get really suspicious of everything...

[@WildBison74]

Has he actually seen his wife? She is beautiful! I hope they were able to genuinely work their marriage out.

[@tida9804]

she wasn't even half convinced

[@nazaninb8383]

Right lol

[@ngoziemichael6311]

There is nothing about this guy that is believable. Get rid of him.

[@datguy2148]

In marriage you have to love your wife like God loves the church and gave His life for HER !!!!! There no other options

[@ELody136]

The body language tells all.

[@kat24seven]

sometimes second chances embolden liars and cheaters. they may change for a while but once they forget the pain of the separation...right back at it. maybe if I was married it would be worth I-t but while Im dating or even in a serious relationship...I NEVER rewind.

[@ccinstlouis]

Why do these people come on national tv and tell all of their business. They should have went to a marriage counselor in private. How much were they paid to come on the show?

[@m2jb5]

OMG cheating is not a mistake!!

[@chrisc3162]

I compare infidelity with violence. What I dont get is why is it when someone is VIOLENT we send them to anger management classes, but when someone CHEATS all we do is advocate forgiveness? I say send this guy's ass to promiscuous management classes. I think a LOT Of people need to go there. This guy can't even get his ass off facebook and ditch the trespasser and he expects to be forgiven? WTF?

[@Lolita10]

soooo true

[@chrisc3162]

I don't think promiscuous management classes exist, but this guy should get in line to enroll asap. lol

[@Lolita10]

+Steve D very funny, but it's true. maybe Steve should think about opening a school like that

[@chrisc3162]

I am serious. If this guy gets forgiven he's just going to do it again. What does he know now that he didn't before? He's still friends with OW He's still got his old phone number He thinks promises fix his bad behavior People change their behavior when they learn. He's no different than he was before. I don't know if I should run the class, but it would be good to see them actually have one.

[@bunnycheeks4590]

Right on +Steve D

[@jasmineapplewhite9521]

This is why I'm not sure will ever trust a guy...

[@averyross6533]

Married women cheat FAR MORE then married men do so you should be fine.

[@haitiangal1361]

Jasmine Applewhite Exacty. Specially when they normalize and justify cheating. My mom justified it, my aunt did, and now my older sister. Don't understand how you can stay with a cheater. Just hoping back on their STD infested penis, just nasty. I'll never cheat on someone I'm in love with, specially if they treat me like a princess.

[@cfreemful]

Social Media, FB and cell phones, items that cheaters should never use, own or have. Now, she's going to have to play cop and detective all during their marriage. Is it worth it?

[@dmason5249]

Cheating is not a"Mistake" 🙄

[@acacius001]

No, stop that! Where I am from, he would lose his head for doing that. She really don't deserve this. I would say get hem lose and go get yourself a better and loving husband. Go and sport very hard and work on yourself because you are a gorgeous woman and you need to stay healthy. You can get who ever you want with a sincere heart and believe in God. I feel really sorry for her. She don't need therapy or what so ever. She needs a real man!

[@AdvocateSpirit]

+acacius001 Maybe so but she can't go through life (and husbands) dodging forgiveness. Ain't nothing wrong with forgiving and trusting

[@nicollewashington5013]

+acacius001 I agree. It's very painful thing.

[@olaibrahim5876]

+acacius001 Maybe the next man would be way worse than this, you talk like there is an abundant supply of real man but she was blind when she got with him. smh for you, u dont know anything obviously

[@simistop3964]

I know this is very archaic of me but if someone steps out on me , I could never allow myself to be with them, only because I could never trust them again.

[@SuperFlanders007]

That's not old fashioned at all. They're your standards

[@RealTakerslady]

Shamed her on Facebook, what! She's too juicy to put up with that, bye!

[@soulstrength]

I can't believe he humiliated her like that. Then talking about HE needs help??? He certainly does, but she looks done to me. If they're going to work it out, he has some HEAVY making up to do. He has to be able to heal the hurt that he caused in the first place. I don't know if he's up for the challenge.

[@halimamangi641]

This woman is strong. I like her.

[@MzLetty101]

She is so hurt he has took away her voice and her fight. Affairs are not worth what they destroy. Her voice and fight is needed to add value back to restore that relationship. He took away the tools he needs from her. God help and heal.

[@WaaDoku]

I have a question: Do women usually forgive cheating more easily than men? Because if my girl would cheat, that's the end of it. Period. No matter how much time that relationship lasted, no matter how compatible we were, if someone I gave all my trust to breaks it, it's never going to get repaired again. I only give away my trust for free once. When you throw it away, it's gone. I don't say that I wouldn't forgive minor lies but this is a HUGE life changing event and it burns deep. Too deep imo. What do you guys and girls think? Edit 2022: It's been 6 years since I posted this comment. My views have changed and they will probably change again in the future. Life is complicated and having one clear cut solution for every problem doesn't always work out. I think with a broader perspective on life, one can tell if it would work to forgive or if the person would never change. It really depends. I don't see this - or any issue - that black and white anymore.

[@HelloWorld1947]

Yes, often women tend to forgive more than men. This is why most women, if you ask them, have been cheated on multiple times. While most men have only been cheated on once or twice. Because of our quickness to forgive, the betrayal keeps happening repeatedly! Also a lot of women tend to think with their hearts and not their heads. Which gets them into so much trouble when it comes to relationships, unfortunately.

[@teetee823]

Well don't cheat

[@legoshisluvr]

fr if my boyfriend ever cheated its done. over with.

[@TheGotham84]

I think generally speaking yes women are more inclined to forgive. Especially since most have concluded that all men cheat anyway. However, personally speaking..I couldn't forgive someone who betrayed me in such a way. I don't trust easily..so for me to give you my trust and betray me it would never be the same. Better off letting go

[@nigamosglasgow2162]

On the money! Come on Steve! Some relationships are not meant to be fixed, they have expiry dates too. To say any can be fixed is not a reality. it's hopeful wishing. . For some situations, when it is done it is done. No TV show fixes deep matters of the heart and spirit.

[@3912James]

The husband don't appear as if he's 100% committed to saving the marriage.

[@joshuamcdowell5782]

Neither does the wife. She looks like she wanted to spit on him.

[@jdstep97]

From the start you can tell she's mad as h*ll. But I don't blame her.

[@brenale_heartsJesus]

A marriage can survive infidelity if both husband and wife work it out, but this woman looked so angry and hurt :( She has the right to leave him. Hopefully their marriage did get better, but I wouldn't blame her for leaving him too

[@CamayCannon]

She can't even look at him..

[@ladygore8848]

Philly Mama 215 hell she's mad!!

[@liliw3977]

Philly Mama 215 Because she’s so pissed off! I’m sure she’d like to slap the s*it out of him!

[@MzBrandy303]

She needs to divorce him and move on with her life.

[@ladygore8848]

Brandy Williams right!

[@citrustaco]

Listen to his words... "I really wanna change", not "I'm going to change" or "I have changed". Also, he's lying about still being FB friends with her. He still is and he won't change his FB status to say he's married or include his wife. Then he says, "I'm willing to do anything". Yeah, but he won't do that. And did he say, "I can be a stubborn man and I can be a liar" in trying to win her back? Lots of things missing here, but they need to be said. I don't care if it's rude or hurtful. The truth must be spoken. 1. WHY did he cheat? This was never talked about. I'm sure he didn't wake up one day and say, "I feel like cheating today". He most likely cheated because of an emotional or physical disconnect at home. Ask a woman why women cheat and the first thing out of her mouth would be him. "He took me for granted. He's not romantic enough. He doesn't treat me right. He's not attentive to my needs". And what's good for the goose is good for the gander. And he's probably cheating because of something she's not doing. Discuss this and work on it. She is not 100% without fault. And begging her back without fixing the fault is simply going to open the door for him to cheat again. Especially, if she doesn't give it up again. 2. She needs to lose some weight to make herself look attractive again. Again, it needs to be said, because if she were in shape, and he's all fat and out of shape and she cheated, we'd know why and we'd understand. She needs to make adjustments so that he has something nice to come home to. 3. He needs to say what he wants. OK, he was cheating and smashing with another person. But, he continued to cheat. Why? Because this mistress was providing something for him that he wasn't getting with his wife. What was it that she was giving you and has he communicated that with his wife? The mistress might have been buck wild in bed and the wife is not. Well guess what? If things stay the same, he's likely to cheat again. He needs to speak up and say what he wants and she needs to listen to him and provide it to him. Because if neither side makes changes, then the cheating is far more likely to happen again. Especially with the same chick. 4. Why is he out of state in Texas? Did the cheating start when he moved out of state? And why isn't the wife with him? Is the mistress out of state and did the husband actually know the mistress beforehand and move out of state to be closer to her? These things need to be discussed. If that's the case, then maybe the relationship is beyond being saved.

[@laurasalvatore9433]

What he said ^

[@melliemel32]

How do we know he didn't marry her when she was bigger? There are men who like thick women, you know. We always say it was something she wasn't doing. What happened to being able to deny yourself & work on the problem w/out cheating? Also, if he was fat & she cheated, I wouldn't feel it was alright & understand. It would be just as wrong.

[@crazymusicgrlcheesecake]

Brian Odom Everybody do not bother reading, points 1-3 are all blaming the wife.

[@Knkollection]

Brian Odom I am the women from this video. I was never small. He married me while I was a plus size. I did everything for him. There's was no real reason for him cheating.

[@citrustaco]

Keenysha Burrell Thanks so much for your reply. My intent was never to attack you personally, but rather to put out everything on the table for possible motives. A relationship involves two people. And he still never gave any motive to why.

[@outfromtheshadows]

I really hope that this beautiful woman has found her self esteem and has been able to build herself up and have the life that she deserves.

[@2436golden]

Steve, why did you put this women on the spot like that. Could you not tell by her body language that she is not ready to trust or forgive him yet. On national TV is not the place to make such a decision under pressure.

[@chloe6969]

Poor lady :(

[@ctemptationh9968]

I do agree, their mouths are saying one thing, however, their body language shows something entirely different, for the time being, I. glad I'm by myself!

[@cassietesolin8917]

Actions speak louder than words; and in this case, her body language says everything, I hate to say it, but the way that she has her back turned to him, and the way that she remains stiff even when she acknowledges his plea makes me think that this isn't going to work out because she can't move past it. I don't blame her at all for that. Regardless of what happens with this couple, I hope that whatever does occur happens because it is what is truly best for both of them.

[@jojopagot]

That woman has a sweet soul as soon as he went on one knee she turned herself towards him she just needs him to follow through with his promise

[@ccinstlouis]

Cheater interviewing a cheater.

[@aaronchiwaala5726]

Lol

[@Abena_Goddess87]

Lol

[@Abena_Goddess87]

That's Probably y he brings in an expert.

[@XxChocomintsxX]

he is not sorry for cheating... or atleast he doesnt grasp how HUGE it is.. this isnt a small slip you did something alot of ppl consider unforgivable... if he really felt the weight of the mistake he did the first thing he would do is CUT ALL CONTACT with that women and even shut down his social media or atleast make his wife able to see all the comments... thats an honest man trying to win his wife's trust again. so ye he isnt sorry and maybe he is still cheating or planning to...

[@hannahlopez3411]

Exactly! He's not even cute to be cheating! He should be glad someone married his ugly assets

[@laurasalvatore9433]

I don't think Tanesha trusts him

[@harpermadden88]

it's kennyesha

[@xicheung7867]

I'm a guy, and I don't buy his apology one bit... (It would be great tho if his actions later on proved me wrong)

[@615BlackBarbie]

he said: I can be a stubborn man a lair.. but I really want to change... girl send him back to Texas

[@tushae88]

She's feed up☝. He could be a repeated offender. Time will tell still he needs to let social media go but then again the signs are there...Being married why is SHE not on his FB page?

[@seedysaidy3405]

"It sounds good"... Exactly.

[@StubbornSweetiePie]

You don't need help. You need to just not do it.

[@atumhotep833]

Once you step out on your wife it is a done. You have no fear or guilty consciousness of losing her and you left the marriage emotionally way before you had sex with another woman. She has to be your best friend that you would never hurt. Once there is doubt in the mind it never goes away. Get a divorce before you go in circles that cost you years rather than days.

[@judyjetson7634]

Oh, wow this woman is soo beautiful!

[@memyselfandi2102]

How could you ask your wife to help you bail out on your cheating habits when your the one who got yourself into the mess

[@anthonyword6914]

I can see the hurt all over her. She's wearing the pain. In MY OPINION social media can be a distraction to your marriage. At some point a ex is gonna try to CONTACT you. If and when I get remarried. No social media and my phone number will change. It's hard to repair a marriage after infidelity.

[@Precious18Love]

He is sooo full of you know what I could die right now. And I don't even curse! I will keep praying for her. She needs to at least separate and figure out what's best because unless he truly grasps the concept of what he did and truly decides to change, this will continue to happen and she will continue to be unhappy. This woman is a real woman who is married to a little man and deserves so much better. I believe she wants to stay for her vows to GOD, but sometimes even GOD understands.

[@truthmatters592]

When I met my wife I was him until I engage her and took down my FB page completely. Now we’re happily married and everybody is out of my dark playboy days. He will have to let FB go and so many others distractions if he truly wants to be married. It was hard for me, but I did it to be happy and stop the creeping

[@123simplydelicious]

well said dude looks and seems like he has the personality of a door knob. The fact that he moved to Houston and still keeps in contact with his mistress should be grounds for divorce all by itself.

[@Solja88]

He doesn't look sorry to me, she very beautiful, she should just pay him back with the same coin (discreetly muahhhh).

[@TheKrishan108]

Damn, that's a whole lot of woman!

[@barringtonpennycooke335]

He has a beautiful wife and she has a beaufiful heart he has second chance dont blow it

[@RAIKOVITCH]

Barrington Pennycooke a beautiful whale*

[@mermaidbeige]

Fake apology and just empty words!

[@original_9734]

Once you cheat that's it! You've betrayed someone's sacred trust and you'll have to live with it, never take a cheater back because if you do your more or less condoning their actions

[@cartersmom0629]

Her body language says everything. She's sitting so far away from him and she almost has her back to him. She don't trust him

[@rdprince]

Been there done that... Easy to forgive, but hard as hell to forget! It's always in the back of your mind. The tiniest thing will trigger the painful memory. But all the luck to you girl!

[@mrsfarrington16]

see i pay attention to words and how they are used. he was lying to her

[@Classy_Lady23]

Steve man looking sharp as ever ! Lol nice

[@mattjacob5234]

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[@ming590]

Please a cheater is always a cheater i would have walked OUT even if i had 20 kids with the man No i gotta do it for my kids self respect im not wasting my Money a therapist im finding a Good divorce lawyer BYE FELICIA !

[@Tay0003]

shes not having it 😂😂😂😂💀💀👏👏👏👏

[@samanthasalnave4909]

KNEEEEEEEEEEEES!!!!! That part for me! 😭😭😭

[@davidrobinson621]

You can tell by her demeanor that's a good woman.

[@andrejohnson1028]

+David Robinson Shhiyyyyddd

[@davidrobinson621]

She's reserved in public. That speaks volumes given the current situation.

[@chinyereokoli1838]

i dont trust him

[@jeanrose5542]

Get rid of him sis! He is sorry that he got caught. He still has a FB and still friends with the mistress. Sis, he is not going to change. Don’t chase him; Replace him!

[@tommoog97]

I don't think that this marriage is going to be saved. He asks for her trust. That must be earned. He has crushed her and completely ruined the feelings she has for him. Yes, a marriage can be saved after an affair, but I have my doubts that this guy has what it takes to truly make it happen. He is still friends with his mistress on facebook. If he was sincerely sorry, he wouldn't have to be told to cut his ties with her. He wants to put the affair into "The past" and move forward. Of course he does! He doesn't want to take responsibility for his infidelity. You cannot move forward without repentance. This guy clearly expects his betrayed wife to just forget about the affair and move along as if noting ever happened. It doesn't work that way. This marriage will fail.

[@NephritduGrey]

+Tom Moog In the end of the day it's all about actions not sweet words which fixes such things. Though it depends on the individuals too and if both want it to be fixed. The "bad" person had to first rearn the basic trust back before one can work on fixing the relationship part too. Trust is the basis of any relationship with someone.

[@silviakhan1073]

Why in the world do these cheaters cheat? Remain single and do go in broken marriages, families, your kids trust. Is over! Forget it!

[@liliw3977]

Tom Moog Well said Mr. Moog. I hope your thorough reflection isn’t due to experience in the subject...

[@VellaBella4]

yeah, I'm not buying his act. He seems unsure about her, like people have to tell him what he gotta do. thats your wife dude, you should try harder than this

[@Boethius121]

For real? Its that easy? I didn't believe a word he said.

[@melissaa4168]

To me tooooo late once his ass failed to take her off his Facebook...failed when he didn't close his account down allllll without me having to ask him!

[@chiwawwaw]

Those things make me wonder if i still want to get married or even find a partner..

[@soulstrength]

I hear you!

[@gowstudio79]

first to view i luv u steve all d way from ukraine.....good job.

[@MiZShortiiE]

If he talks about doing all of that, why hasn’t he done it yet.. smh 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@whome704]

because she took him back so easily make me think that it is not real, my question would be why did he cheat in the beginning what makes it different now to the point that he will not cheat again if he had not gotten caught cheating would the relationship with the other woman still be going on?

[@somini100]

Hmmm...you truly saw it like i did too.

[@whome704]

KEEP IT 100! IT IS NOT THAT EASY TO SMILE AND SAY YES AFTER YOU HUSBAND OR WIFE HAS CHEATED! nOT REAL STEVE!

[@kiminseattle3476]

An "affair"? He!l no! How anyone having affair and want keep marriage same time. One had to make decision at the moment.

[@___.209]

I don't believe a word of that apology. Not a single syllable and I don't think she does either.

[@montgal53]

Getting on his knees is not even the first step. It will take years, if that, to get over his affair. Personally, I would simply leave the trust _dies_ when your mate cheats. And when something dies, it is dead --- for life.

[@mandem010]

😂😂😂😂😂😂"knees"