Can You Change Your Chronic Illness?

[@GoldenDelicious55]

This resonates with me a lot! Regards, from a 45 year old lady that has been diagnosed with MS and burn out one year ago. This happens when you had a traumatic and chaotic childhood. When you’re living a life of not being authentic, totally ignoring your needs and prioritize everyone else. Not having the ability to enjoy life but just struggling through it like a living dead. Sooner or later your body will let you pay for it.

[@insideserene]

Sending my Love ❤

[@NaStashaLeBlanc]

You just explained the way I feel and live since childhood I am living dead in autopilot serving everyone or they treat me like I’m worthless I’m tired now I’m getting older I’m feeling sick I’m a living dead ❤

[@dbruce5760]

@@NaStashaLeBlanc I understand as well. Living it.

[@AileenFranyo]

😢

[@GoldenDelicious55]

⁠@@NaStashaLeBlanc i know what you mean. I have gotten many insights since I was diagnosed and I realised that it’s crucial that we change our attitude towards our selves. We have been programmed as children, and we learned to behave in a certain way as a coping mechanism to survive as children. This doesn’t serve us anymore. We must dig back our real, true selves from the mud that has been covering us. We must value and care for ourselves. We too deserve to be happy and have balance in our life. We too deserve a life that doesn’t feel like torture. We can only be ourselves. What we want and need matters. We matter. At least I understand this intellectually but the hard thing is to rewire your brain. Not easy, but we must remember that it takes time and to never give up.

[@anjknelson9013]

I wish Dr Mate's talk was recorded straight without interruptions.

[@dianacudby7290]

@@anjknelson9013 I agree, it is distracting. His material is repeated in many other podcast interviews though. I've listened to 250+ podcasts featuring Dr Gabor

[@wendyrussell978]

@@anjknelson9013 I agree. The added explanation isn't helpful since Dr. Mate does a great job of explaining. I can't listen to this. Thankfully, I have seen this before without the extra.

[@dianacudby7290]

@@wendyrussell978 you've seen this exact same podcast of Gabor without the interruptions? 😀 cool 😎 I believe I have too

[@liavanson8687]

@@anjknelson9013 same here.

[@deedee9312]

Forever grateful for Dr.Gabors knowledgeable ❤heart ! His empathy outwardly shows what a fabulous Doctor he is! I have learned so much! His book is amazing ! My daughter suffers from fibromyalgia, dysautonimia, pancreatic cancer survivor, and so much more and she is brilliant! She is successful, educated, funny, and beautiful, and she is suffering! I feel helpless, though I too have a healthy background medically and we are never giving up! One thing I clearly acknowledged and still do, is her stress ! He is correct, in that our emotions show up on our physical being ! I am now working on physically getting closer to her so that we can emotionally be in a state of happiness. I will never give up! Dr.G! Ty for giving me hope and heart to help my baby girl! Are you ever in California speaking ? I just bought your book for my daughter! 🎉❤😊 much respect!

[@ts3858]

At least she's successful...CPTSD leaves a lot of sufferers disabled...and unable to achieve anything....😓😓🙏

[@deedee9312]

@@ts3858 I’m very sorry 😢 pls never give up as there is always a silver lining 🙏🏼✌️

[@hannahhackett1890]

Yep 😢 🫂 🫂 ​@@ts3858

[@invisiblyinsane9125]

Your daughter is lucky to have such a supportive mother.

[@robinrosenkranz1792]

Devor, you are stressing me right now! I have issues and I have pain. Thank you for sunshine. Thank you for rain. Thank you for joy. Thank you for pain. It’s the beautiful day! Love you, Dr. Mate. Love relentlessly Take the pain and flip it upside down

[@cheryl8493]

You’ve explained me, my mind and body. I’m in recovery 35 years, have had bad chronic pain after accidents, emotional upheaval, have had ace’s growing up, trauma in my adult life, constant stresses over the years. Now, I have Sjögren’s, thyroid, Fibromyalgia, horrible spine pain, anxiety, depression . Nothing I have tried over the years has helped any of my suffering. It’s amazing that I’m still here in this life. It’s like I can’t do a damn thing about what all has happened and the ramifications of my childhood, adult life and accidents. It’s a shame really that the only answer is to make pain my friend. Back to therapy again. Thanks Dr Gabor..really enjoy your talks!

[@clarissamonaghan7218]

I admire your courage xx

[@insideserene]

Recognising your pain is the start of your journey to healing and I admire people like you who step up to get well. Hats off to you ❤️

[@calista1280]

​@SaRaHSaLiX Don't let your past ruin your FUTURE, which is full of possibilities! Only you can turn this around! Do it, today!🎉 🏃🏻‍♀️😊 You can LIVE a FULL HAPPY LIFE!!! 😅❤🎉 I turned my Life of pain from Fibromyalgia etc around. y eliminating carbs, .mostly because GLUTEN causes inflammation! I stopped needing anti-inflammatories and only take Tylenol occasionally, like when the barometer pressure drops due to rain. It's a MIRACLE AT HOW MUCH BETTER I FEEL! So much ENERGY & HAPPINESS! qatch Dr chaffee and De Ken Berry on the Carnivore Diet. It works ! ☆ Get up and do something good for yourself! Pamper & LOVE yourself like someone you care about!!! 🌹 🛁 ❤️ ⛱️ 🌴 Sit outside in Nature and just breathe deeply, telling yourself how much you love and care a out yourself... If you don't like or love yourself, how can anyone else? Give yourself a BIG HUG🤗🥰 Buy yourself a nice bouquet of flowers, watch a funny movie and laugh heartily, have a picnic. in the park, take a nice walk in Nature, cook you favorite meal, eat healthy foods because you DESERVE IT!🥰😅 PS listen to Eckhart Tolle videos on Yt. He overcome deep depression. His interview series on his book, The Power of Now, with OPRAH are a great way to start. He teaches us to BE PRESENT, APPRECIATE THE NOW, JJST 'BE' IN THIS MOMENT, LIVE RIGHT NOW. ENJOY EVERY MOMENT. LIFE IS A GIFT TO VE LIVED FULLY! 🎁 💝 ❤🎉

[@m7m850]

Thank you for this video, you are saving people’s lives 🙏

[@insideserene]

welcome sending my love ❤❤❤

[@rhythmandblues_alibi]

Is there a version of this talk without the AI voice-over sections? They are very distracting.

[@iselamartinez3182]

I would love to find out the original video too!

[@mariaharto2]

It appears as though the voice in between is attempting to downplay Gabor Mate’s messages..

[@marygibbons2263]

@mariaharto2 yes, the interruptions are so annoying that I can't listen anymore

[@JMoolah79]

Dr. Gabor Mate is highly knowledgeable. Ive studied gentype science a bit and I love how he ties this emerging science in with other medical, psych disciplines and areas of thought.

[@robynhope219]

Big effin deal he's knowledgeable...so am I, and so are you!!

[@Ren-1979]

Thank you for sharing your knowledge with us, Mr. Maté. Greetings from Spain. 🙂

[@janetklumper6048]

I am from Spain also, but originally from the. Netherlands

[@TenguXx]

Is there a place to watch the original talk without interruptions?

[@akai.christo]

Thank you so much for loading up this material. Personally it helps a lot on my healing journey. May those in their way to personal healing get peace and positive vibes of this video in despite of the triggers that may arise. Everybody wants change, but nobody wants to change... Is perhaps through changing that we flow with life, that us we all know at this point, nothing remains the same, life is constant change, an in order to survive and live healthy, respectfully and civilized way, we must adapt, observe and try to understand life's changes. Time is what we lack. Even though, we must not stop going forward. It doesn't matter how slow you go, the thing is to keep moving. May the world slowly awakes into the new way of living that is coming, awakes peacefully and be part of a big family, only thing, we must learn to observe and control calmly out own animality. Thanks again!! Wish you all a great week!! 🌏NE W🌎RLD 🌍NE L❤️VE ✌️😺✌️

[@zovalentine7305]

Change is THE one constant in life.

[@insideserene]

Wishing you well on your journey to healing I had the same experience and now I achieved my complete healing In God's time❤❤❤

[@roslyntchakedjian927]

Thank you Dr Gabor Mate 🙏🇦🇺

[@bethpage6696]

I'm 50. Stomach ache/bowel problems for as long as I can remember. Diagnosed with migraines (19) panic attack disorder, major depressive episode (21) Cervical cancer (23) IBS (25) Gastroparesis (45)

[@rachelcoisnacoillte]

@@bethpage6696 Similar for me. I wish for healing for us🙏💞

[@paulasweeney7713]

Thank you more than ever!!!!! Through Jesus. be blessed 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

[@paulasweeney7713]

Gabor. Mate. Thank. You. This session has opened my eyes to my own. Self. Healing after. An awakening of a. Wrong decision I made in my. life 42-44. Years.ago … First., to forgive myself. ….next, move forward with an active plan for new beginnings & visualization towards Success through. My God. Relationship. Daily which I’ve cultivated. Richly. . God bless you &. all. associated with your. Lectures . You are very much appreciated. Hugs. Hugs. Hugs. To you🥰

[@insideserene]

God Bless you too ❤

[@tearthangel373]

Thank you for this valuable information 💜☮️🙏

[@Cameron-qm6yp]

I was on 60mgs of prednisone a day for 3 weeks from my asthma exacerbations and bronchitis and pneumonia in march and it gave me a nervous breakdown. It forced me to open up to my doctor and he put me on 8 medications for 3 months now and a psychologist and it's starting to help.

[@sharonsmith7917]

@@Cameron-qm6yp Prednisone affects your nervous system. 60mg a day of prednisone is a lot!

[@christineconabeare1084]

An opera singer expresses the emotional recognition I can no longer have in my life.

[@valeriekaye3354]

I'd like to hear this information directly from Dr Mate. I don't want to hear an interpretation from AI. why are you cutting him off and giving what you think we want to hear? Do you not think that we are all capable of understanding information from the original source? Stop this. !!!! I want thus information from Dr Mate!!!!!

[@karmensita274]

Good bles you ❤

[@johnlordzafra3634]

Is there a straight version for this without criticism? Hays.

[@shirleykilbride4555]

I'd love to know. How arthritis is manifested in the body as well ..like cancer prioritising others needs over the self afraid to say no etc...❤

[@melissazwieg2988]

🌄🌅Thank you🦋

[@KristinBauerStuff]

Why is the dude coming in to interrupt Gabor and explain Gabor?

[@A10011]

Awful, isn't it?

[@kathienail2455]

Excellent question

[@johnlordzafra3634]

Right

[@JR764.._]

👏 well said thank you

[@insideserene]

Thanks for watching! ❤️

[@JR764.._]

@@insideserene ❤️🌸🙏

[@laurie7686]

The added comments were not there when this was 1st released. Does the recording-without the added voice- still exist ?

[@deedee9312]

Stress kills! Laughter extends your life ! ❤🎉😂

[@robynhope219]

@@deedee9312 problem is not much to laugh about these days.

[@deedee9312]

@@robynhope219 find your own simple things to lol with ! Mine,watching friends on tv 📺 😂

[@robynhope219]

@@deedee9312 Good idea...I Love Lucy.

[@Julie-iw3mh]

I am 61 and had childhood trauma and many losses through my life. I dont know where to look for help as in trauma help. I am in the uk and there doesnt seem to be much help in this area. Can anyone point me where to look? Thank you.

[@insideserene]

email Dr Gabor Mate here is website drgabormate.com/

[@AileenFranyo]

❤​@@insideserene

[@JulietCrowson]

Dr Frank Anderson, MD psychiatrist, trauma specialist. Dr Scott Eilers. Most of all: God 🙏✝️

[@colleencondon1991]

Mind change method has helped me know how to transform my traumas and struggles and not live in a state of stress. You can connect to them from the UK or anywhere- they do zoom sessions and they are just as effective as in-person (I've done both). After exploring so many different types of therapy and practices, I find it to be most complete with no need to become dependent on therapy or medication or a specific thing. It is one way to true empowerment and self- healing. I've also gained a lot from somatic therapy.

[@mariansullivan7702]

NHS IAPT services have a variety of therapy approaches. Your GP can refer you; &/or contact your local Healthcare Trust to enquire about their free IAPT services.

[@robynhope219]

What i got is not considered "illness", but raises risk for diseases😢 I have hpa axis dysregulation and chronic fatigue due to lifelong, severe stress from early trauma. Sadly, there is no cure. It gets better, then worse, then better, etc...

[@aprileliana]

Your AI narrative is extremely distracting and takes away from Gabor Mate’s videos. Thanks for ruining the video….

[@Freedomtoascend]

You are right. This constant interruption just convinced me not to register for it. I wish Gabor Matte would realize his amazing speeches are being screwed up by this AI 😬

[@tearthangel373]

I was injecting for almost 10 years of cortisol injection my spine for chronic pain from several car accidents

[@denamenagias1462]

Hey there how are you doing today? I been thru still going thru back pain and issues all I can do is get injections and therapy I don’t trust surgery much yet

[@denamenagias1462]

I’m still going thru pain with the injections too

[@JRudd]

Wow, 6:55 is truth

[@anachico4922]

I don't recommend this video, the interpretation of Dr Mate stories are misleading and in some cases totally off point. I recommend listening directly to Dr Mate without the interpretation.

[@robynhope219]

INDEED...he has never been evidence based.

[@mariaharto2]

They downplay his points

[@marshmallow9527]

I agree - best to listen to him directly

[@robynhope219]

I am sure i have short telomeres..can be lengthened when young, but at my age? Seriously doubt it! But I can slow the progress.

[@annelbeab8124]

When was this recorded ?

[@robynhope219]

Makes no difference...he doesn't change!

[@jillscheintal4600]

The voice over, for the most part, does not reflect Mate's message, and is an elementary-level interpretation stuck in the mainstream, unevolved paradigm. While he is emphasizing the link between unresolved emotional trauma in childhood to habitual adaptations which are the genesis of physical breakdown and disease, while the voice over keeps repeating the "split" between the "unconscious" mind and the body. His entire point is that they are NOT separate and don't "impact" each other as if it is possible to separate the person from the environment. It's a very poor interpretation that fails to articulate his seminal message of emotion/body integration.

[@LorenEllisArt]

The Tao is the Way. We are one with nature. Thank you 🐦 💙✨️

[@Yengi-cw2ox]

@@LorenEllisArt if you are promoting the Tao then it is not the true Tao. The Tao needs no introduction

[@suzymorris-ch6vc]

The interruptions take away from what Gabor was trying to say

[@maevey3]

He deserves to have his name pronounced properly.

[@Itsmekrisss]

Please stop the AI scripted commentary. Just upload the interview, don’t add all the pointless extra comments that does not even make sense and isn’t accurate.

[@zovalentine7305]

Gabor Mate MD PhD CM ❤

[@kateking3953]

What on earth is the interpretation about! We're intelligent enough to understand what Gabor is saying without it being explained.

[@thomaskluth2111]

The commentary interspersed was really annoying.

[@valeriekaye3354]

You are spoiling this session from Dr Mate. I cannot listen to this. Perhaps I can find the original information. Elsewhere. How do I turn AI off so that I can hear the original information

[@Rina.J89]

These videos get on my Telemeres 😅Ok we got the picture. Trauma and stress messes up our bodies, and the tele-meres become like frayed shoe laces and we get sick with cancer etc. I would like a doctor to actually DO more and talk less. I would like dr. Mate and others to spend more time treating and heeling people. Or researching and experimenting with new treatments.. You’ve been saying that trauma makes people sick for ages… This message could be said in one breath so say it once and get to work please. Real work. We respect the doctors who do the hard work. Even when they fail us we respect them knowing that they put in the long hours and the sweat and did their best.

[@robynhope219]

Luv u for that comment...he is NOT a healer...just talks around it. If you want more, go to Dr. Bessel van der Kolk and read The Body Keeps the Score.

[@succumbtosucculents8545]

I couldn't agree MORE with the above posts. In other words I totally agree. This is for clarification .

[@robynhope219]

@@Rina.J89 yep, anyone can talk...blah, blah, blah!!! But that's what they all do on here. If u need help, find a good therapist or go to the self-help section of a bookstore. I recommend The Body Keeps the Score.

[@robynhope219]

@@Rina.J89 true, he's been blah, blahing about this for decades...he's 80 now, so can't expect him to do the hard work at this point, but there are docs who will, just not on KZbin.

[@andreaslunden7636]

I think - also recognizing- this is our human experience; that dr mate:s analasys is genius- especially these first videos. I can relate - and really; who has not have a stressad mother these days..? In my case a dad ”Signes off” - how does that affect? I just know.., started talking to god at the age of four: still alive though at 45.. I think neurological responsen are built in early.. I work with children, teens - disability.., socially I very much disagree this is not helpful- because trauma is an ”unexperience” for some of us.., but not all of us If u havent exp; d it.., u r not qualified… This is the human xp We are - not just products- but we have to acknowledge (love that Word) =not to over - trust the valutslaget of our knowledge.. We dont know shit; xcuse us.., and we are left here.. But we can heal.. we can overcome.., with the help Of other people understanding Thats how we heal

[@DoroWolke]

What helps??? Therapy for years did not help. Description of the reasons doesn’t help. What can really help being abused as little child?

[@AileenFranyo]

We've got be there and reassure that little child 😢

[@q7zjdwomfvkbj74]

Be in nature. Write. Solitude in forest. forest bathe. Eastern medicine. Chinese Med

[@DoroWolke]

@@AileenFranyo yes, thank you, Aileen, this I am doing (Louise Hey method). This helps for one moment, - healing is different, they always describe the reasons, but not what to do for healing. Being with the feeling and then left alone with this - re- traumatised me quite often.

[@colleencondon1991]

Mind change method has transformed my trauma and physical and emotional and behavioral systems. Somatic therapy has also been so helpful but mind change method has addressed things on all levels for me. Power and love to you!!!!

[@anneboyle2240]

After all the therapy etc the only person who's healing me finally is Jesus - the healer of my soul ❤ ask Him to help and heal you ❤

[@lila.yogaprema]

The voice constantly interrupting is so annoying... I can't listen anymore!

[@baronblitzvonregensburg4932]

If you take two year old babies from their mothers, all cry. Not only the Jewish ones.

[@annt.1692]

Nope. I don't like the narration. This Dr. Is great. I will hunt for other videos. I need to express myself. Yes healing, no longer a pleaser. CUT THE NARRATIVE.

[@gaila2489]

What about a lot of little sick kids

[@mariettamedina2481]

I have fibromyalgia

[@aprileliana]

Your AI narrative is extremely distracting and takes away from Gabor Mate’s videos. You are not appreciated. Stop it.✋🏼😠

[@francinehorner2792]

Gabor is brilliant The voice over is NOT! In attempt to offer more conventionally accepted scientific views it repetitively highlights stock phrases to contradict his conclusions or undermine them Poor effort! Low strategy Dishonourable cowardly statements, intentionally over authoritarian and suspiciously simplistic and limited like a show and tell infomercial for 10 year olds Tut tut !!

[@patrycjasmietana]

And I thought I was the only one who found the voice-over extremely irritating!

[@Straight_from_the_heart]

so unnecessary

[@theDIDn0t]

Is this like stolen valor? You aren't Gabor Mate. If you have something to offer then offer it but regurgitating other people's good work making out like you are colleagues when you are just riding on his back is weak. Try being great yourself you sound educated this sounds like university paper coat tail riding.

[@ukaszwojtalik8198]

Reset your government😅

[@MamaTeaTree]

Btw this is an old lecture

[@larkinkevin71]

Can't listen to this any longer. The infuriating interruptions with nonsensical "explanations" every few minutes are distorting Gabor's message and totally unnecessary.

[@sarahmurphy-nf4yl]

I 100% DISLIKE this channel because of the voice over. Goodbye.

[@penelopekostick743]

Hah! Try asking for help on the nhs! The worst joke!

[@JadedHunter]

So annoying all the stopping and starting, going to look elsewhere for the video.

[@NotSponsoredByEA]

Why are you guys using AI generated voices. Goddamn slop.

[@haydenfowler3964]

Stole Gabor Mates talk, mispronounced his name, and interrupt his talk by mansplaining over it..

[@andreaslunden7636]

I think - also recognizing- this is our human experience; that dr mate:s analasys is genius- especially these first videos. I can relate - and really; who has not have a stressad mother these days..? In my case a dad ”Signes off” - how does that affect? I just know.., started talking to god at the age of four; still alive though at 45 - now I think neurological responsen are built in earls.. I work with children, teens - disability.., socially I very much disagree this is not helpful- because trauma is an ”unexperience” for some of us.., but not all of us If u havent exp; d it.., u r not qualified… This is the human xp We are - not just products- but we have to acknowledge (love that Word) =not to over - trust the valutslaget of our knowledge.. We dont know shit; xcuse us.., and we are left here.. But we can heal.. we can overcome.., with the help Of other people understanding Thats how we heal