Catching the Horse Herd of Life - One Horse at a Time

[@alannurse7453]

Young men, listen to this man. Real men and masculinity is becoming a threat to society, in some people's eyes, and I don't know why. I'm 47 and grateful to have grown up with men of this character.

[@TheNymanator]

Young men, don't listen to this person I'm responding to. "Real men" and "masculinity" aren't becoming a threat to society, and you are not a part of the problem if you don't believe in the narrative that people like them spin. However, you should absolutely listen to the guy in the video, and take what lessons you find useful in being as good a person as you can to yourself and others.

[@Relayzy1]

Destroy the family man, divide and conquer man...

[@alannurse7453]

@TheNymanator you can have your opinion but unfortunately in my liberal state of NY, people feel like men are too aggressive or intimidating if you have old school values and mannerisms. If u don't deal with that, then great for you.

[@alannurse7453]

@TheNymanator and if u don't think the "masculine" man is being looked down on, then I disagree. Look at the election. I don't want to get political but some news blamed the "manosphere" for the Harris loss. Really?

[@DryCreekWranglerSchool]

You are arguing with the original poster unnecessarily. He has a slight typo in his comment, but if you read the entire comment, he’s not disagreeing with masculinity. He’s saying that society is looking down on masculinity as a threat, and he doesn’t know why. You guys are on the same side.

[@valeries1473]

The timing of this is phenomenal!! Thank you, Dewayne, for being the voice of sanity!

[@cglendenning]

52 year old man, and I need reminding of micro-goals. Thank you Dewayne.

[@monicalifornia_]

breath of fresh air. encouragement and wisdom

[@penguins0003]

Thank you for being such a good friend Dewayne! From the bottom of my heart!

[@JorisGerritsen]

Brother, this video came in just the right time. Thankyou, god bless you sir 🙏🏼

[@dennym1172]

I'm 63 and I'm always the 1st in line to do the dishes on the holidays! Veterans know about KP!

[@AlleyCat-1]

My husband is a navy vet & he's first in the chow line, first to nap. Avoids kp. 😅

[@tyleralbers9531]

You're like the dad i never had. Appreciated Sir thank you.

[@compellingbutforgettable903]

Im a woman and this really helped me. Thank you.

[@Duvstep910]

This man is like if Arthur Morgan were real; you give amazing advice sir. 🇯🇲 Big up.

[@Relayzy1]

Makes you want 2 play Red dead right.

[@AyshRowland]

@@Relayzy1 No

[@smokescreenhassle1912]

Well.. Arthur's⌛ was cut short before he could Know.

[@tomdallas3690]

He talks a good game. I have watched almost all of these videos. What's funny is that he even admits that up until just a few years ago (like really, a few) he was not living what he preached. But he is helping people so that is all that matters.

[@AgentManic]

Arthur Morgan if he never got TB

[@juanschincariol4226]

there's so much truth inside every word you speak man, thank you so much for all these videos. You represent the real example of what is a good man.

[@willisbrindley]

Most underrated channel on KZbin

[@GOATPoets]

Agreed. DCWS typifies a practical philosophy unique to America. Experience is his wisdom so he speaks with authority. UNDERRATED.

[@buggs9950]

1.34m subscribers is pretty highly rated in my book. But yeah, he's good, very good.

[@Sacha_Delisle]

Hi Dwayne, I very much doubt you'll read this but it's important to me. I'm 23 years old and have been raised with internet. Through those couple of years I've struggled with many things (like we all do) like alcohol, relationships and my ability to do the right thing. A lot of so-called "coaches" or whatever people on the internet say a lot of things to sell their courses or subscription to their charisma seminar and they often times pretend to possess THE right answer. I've listened to your videos religiously for 1 year now. And its of the very rare ones that genuinely helped me find balance. Thank you very much Dwayne. Sincerely, Sincerely.

[@venomnag8603]

What a beautiful soul of a man. God bless you

[@ProCoach2373]

The cowboy methaphors always resonate with me strongly. Wise advice my friend!

[@VITAMIN-DEATH]

Almost anything can be broken up in more easy to deal with parts.Apply this to the hardships of life and we can overcome almost anything.Greetings from Greece to all the friends of Mr Dewayne

[@davelunaskitchen8355]

Heck of a message; wisdom everyone needs to hear.

[@L3BUH1999]

Keep up the good work, watching from the UK, huge inspiration!

[@L3BUH1999]

Further to my comment, your videos have kept me afloat this year. Some things i needed to hear and wisdom i will take on for life.

[@OneBrightLightTN]

I know your life is busy, but I miss your videos and I REALLY miss your Tackroom Bible Talk videos. Please please please do videos more often if at all possible 🙏🏼 Merry Christmas to you, momma and your family ❤

[@scoutinginthewoods233]

Thank you for making this post Dwayne. I needed to hear this today, God is good and He is using you for awesome and wonderful things. Have a blessed day brother.

[@albietzaesthetics1064]

Perfect timing Thank you Dewayne I doubt you’ll ever see this but I just wanna say thank you for being the father figure I need. I have a dad who’s a great dad but I’m going through the hardest time in my entire life and your videos have been immensely helpful beings that my grandpa stover is gone who was a horseman before he died all he did was sit outside our house and pet the neighbors horses that were in the field by our house. I never got to spend enough time with him with the right mindset for me to wanna pick his brain and now I wish I would’ve but thankful for GOD raising up men like yourself. Who haven’t misconstrued Jesus’s message into a passivism cult Sickness, back injury, changing employment after 6 1/2 years GOD got ahold of me about 2 years ago and the last year he turned my entire world upside down and I’m praying everyday all day without ceasing for GOD to please help me. Anyways I just wanted to say I know that GOD is raising up real men to guide men who still love TRUTH and THE TRUTH

[@raymondbradley6788]

Thank you, Dwayne👍👍👍

[@StefanHolmlund-i7m]

Your videos have helped me a lot, thanks for everything. Love from Finland

[@dalewilliams7652]

Just want to say thank you Dwayne for all you do for others grew on the ranch is most of my you totally fill the void from all the other figures God bless you and hope to meet 🤠

[@Sugarput1]

Love the wisdom thank you thank you!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🕊️🕊️🕊️

[@24hbreakdown]

The only thing you can control is you. That adive and also the bit about catching (and figuring out ) the main priority is just what I needed to hear today. Thank you for your videos, when i watch them I get feel like I'm hanging out with a grandpa. Best wishes from a queer young woman in Poland

[@Ghostrider19D]

I'm married to the same woman for 34 years now. Everything DeWayne says is true guys.

[@mzwandilemfundontombela9785]

Needed this after facing so much trials and tribulations

[@jamesweber9557]

Thanks Dewayne. God Bless

[@garyb4929]

Enjoyed, Have safe travels!.

[@peyton492]

Duwayne, thank you. I needed this message this morning when my 4x4 broke in the Colorado Rockies and it was just the last straw. That's not the horse I'm catching today 😅 but I appreciate this guidance so I can work on getting a handle on something in my life. God bless you and yours and thanks again.

[@J.M.Savage]

As a 29 year old man, getting married in 8 months. This man has been my entire playlist while I’m at work for the last several days. Walking breathing modern day book of proverbs.

[@CxMadeIt]

Wayne this is such a great lesson sir. This one makes perfect sense to me the way you break it down. Happy to have seen this today. I love the way you put things and the way you look and think about life in such a common sense but unique way. It has been a big help in becoming the man I want to be. Thank you sir.

[@frontiersman-j3g]

I like your channel and storys and teachings we need to bring the old ways back

[@rickhero2111]

I wanted to express my gratitude for your continued efforts to educate us and guide us. It has been extremely useful and it is greatly appreciated.

[@kevingoodnight6041]

Really appreciate you and your videos. Thank you for taking the time to make these!

[@nico_navarro_music]

Thank you Dwayne, you said what I needed to hear. Feeling like my life is out of control, especially with my job. I have an opportunity to win a contract today, but I've been focusing on not making enough money to have a kid with my wife. So I'm going to just focus on today and go for that contract. Appreciate your work. God bless.

[@DanielRamos-cm3ij]

Thank you sir for this piece of “CowBoy” wisdom I like to call it. Life experiences and lessons you learned . I appreciate it !

[@craigwilliams7746]

The way you explained the dysfunction in couples is what my uncle used to call a “Two headed Dragon” 🐉

[@markbosky]

Thanks Dwayne. I needed this today

[@erinmuetz8771]

Thank you God bless!

[@G8rquest]

Awesome talk Dewayne. Upon contemplation I'm seeing "my horses" as vehicles to my goals. Things like my will, my intentions, my desires...any internal asset that I can temper to team together to deliver me from, and to. God bless and have fun. Onward.

[@MrSurvivorBoy]

You nailed it, look at yourself first. That is the life long struggle I fight.

[@michaelnewman7841]

I hate to say this, but I just now found your channel, I love it! I don’t really look at as I found the channel, I look at it as the channel found me. So the channel found me about 2 weeks ago, and I’ve kinda let other channels fall to the waist side. I’m a music fan, and I’m a musician/songwriter, Probably over the last 15 years I learned to let music find me, and when it does, that’s when I need it in my life. So I look at your channel in same lens, I in joy it, and your most helpful. Thank you for what you do.

[@glentomkins8044]

Thanks Dwayne, great advice again.

[@sophie-pc8ed]

Learning to catch the herd, one horse at a time. Thank you, DeWayne.

[@EJ.Quarry.Dweller]

The first horse I catch is myself become calm and let that start to spread . If we are tense and frustrated in front of our family they will get spooked and be harder to help them . Let the wind and the rain calm for a second and in that moment deploy a umbrella next block the wind and in that calm pocket draw in the others . It's nice in here come rest not by force but by compassion . Thanks Dwayne

[@mehmeterenkose3018]

You have been very helpful to me, thank you very much, I am watching from Turkey, best regards.

[@SlayerRiley]

God bless you mister. Thanks for this advice. It sure helps.

[@BillLowenburg]

Good advice, thanks Dewayne. I was a schoolteacher for many years - everything from junior high to grad school. It was challenging sometimes (JHS especially🙉) to “catch the herd” at the beginning of the year, but by getting to know and understand where individuals in the class were coming from, it always improved. Empathy and calmness, not threats and power trips were what worked for me. It was just as you described in your example - once you establish a good relationship with key individuals in the “herd,” others start to respond and cooperate. I had to do that with six different “herds” a day for many years and that approach saved my sanity and the students - believe it or not - for the most part, enjoyed coming to class. I’ve heard this expressed another way, that there is no such thing as having a relationship with a “group” or a “family.” There is only a series of individual relationships - some work better than others and the only way to solve problems is one at a time, in those individual relationships. Some are best to be avoided as much as possible, others are worthwhile to cultivate. Thanks again for your perspective.

[@stephensnetwork]

New York City boy here thanks you!

[@Legion3000]

Thank you, Dewayne. With how this year has been for me and my girlfriend, these words were necessary for me to hear.

[@V4victory2025]

Great channel Dewayne great philosophy and wisdom, you’re about as opposite to me as two men could be, I’m a Brit no guns and no horses or a ranch/farm, I live in a large town which is close to a city but I love watching your videos anyway 👍🏼

[@jeffreylandreneau3236]

Man i pray for nothing but the best blessings God has to offer for you. This video brought an immense sense of calm over me. Time to start back at 0:00 ❤️

[@gryph82]

Thank you, Dwayne.

[@ryu2479]

Great words as always, thank you.

[@sharlenevowels4125]

Great metaphor of life's challenges. Thank you Sir!

[@loffu555]

Thanks for the message! Kudos!

[@openmind7418]

Would be nice to see you in Fla, Happy trails sir. Thank you.

[@stephan9413]

Amazing amazing advice❤ Thank you

[@mjheart94]

"Keep the important thing, the most important." The ONE, all else will follow

[@thypandrew3913]

I starting watching your videos about 2 years ago because I wanted to listen to your wisdom and mock it. I had a great dad, about your age and my prejudice told me you couldn’t say anything wiser than that of a boy because you wanted to have something to say which opposed my fathers life method of teaching through actions. Bit of a run on but maybe you get the point. Truth is my dad cant hardly write. I only learned that when he wrote me a letter while I was deployed. You said yourself quite wisely in another video about truth and understanding based on background. Well id say you embody truth for the western world and I genuinely appreciate what you do just flapping your gums. Your great at it and it shines some light for those who want wisdom in this media over reading and perhaps one leads to another i do not know.

[@lasis1867]

Im not saying Dewayne videos value has drooped, but lately they haven’t touched me. But this one did strike deeply in my heart. Thank you for such an advise!

[@Lisa8478]

Merry Christmas to you and Family and have a blessed trip.

[@Tobinator127]

Thanks Dewayne. Keep up the good work, brother

[@waynecap5960]

One day sweet Jesus...at a time. 😊

[@tylerleihsing4913]

Thank You for your wisdom, Cowboy

[@garysams8615]

My grand dad was much like DeWayne…I was lucky. And I remember telling one of my uncles that I wanted to be like my granddad. His response was quick and direct, “You will fail” I think I was in my late twenties. I was instantly discouraged. But since he had spent his entire life with my granddad, he knew why I would fail. He continued, and explained that my desire to be my granddad was exactly the opposite of what my granddad had hoped I would do. He wanted me to follow the example he followed…that of Jesus Christ.

[@scottthompson8018]

Do you have a list of recommended books/poems for men?

[@petrisallinen2123]

Marcus Aureliaus meditations

[@Michael_talks_]

Dewayne’s favorite book (second to the Bible) is complete poems by Henry Wadsworth Longfellow

[@kellyhope4065]

dewayne acts as the gutter gaurds on a bowling alley lane. he keeps our perspective on on the straight and narrow when we start moving sideways.. thanks Dewayne 👍

[@jeffryrichardson9105]

Thank you!👍🏽😊❤️🇺🇸

[@phillipstutte71]

Please man bring back your cigar Videos

[@jessecain1646]

I use this method it works pretty well, even for us single old guys . One thing at a time whatever that hores maybe like Mr Dewayne says. Took me a lot of years to figure this out.

[@kenuhrig7479]

That's a good looking hat.

[@TobyActon-g8z]

Thank you, sir

[@Lightandlovetoyou]

Thank you so so so much sir

[@gentlegiants1974]

4 years ago I bought 4 yearling Percherons, 3 fillies and a colt, from off the range in Alberta. They arrived here wild and woolly after a 3 day trailer ride, no halters, never been handled. I had to somehow get them haltered, broke to lead, handle their feet... Turned them out in a 5 acre paddock and began a 3 month process to join-up and it took 2 months and 3 weeks to get the first halter on, then within a week I had all 4 haltered leading, eating out of my hand, and playing with their feet. Training in harness was a breeze. I guess they figured I was ok, and they also realised I was the guy with the key to the oat bin..and they needed to get on the right side of history here! lol Once they know you are on their side they just accept you as their leader with the plan. I have never had any luck with people, lost pretty much everything getting hooked up with a woman in my 40's, that ended when her interest vanished and have no desire to be in a relationship again. Horses are honest...big difference between women and horses. No secrets.

[@FriedaFuzzypaws-f3h]

Always good to see a video

[@DigitalWitness77]

I could REALLY use prayers if anyone still cares. No food losing shelter among many needs my local churches don't care about.

[@claymaynard4207]

Thank you very much for hearing I really enjoyed the metaphor

[@AlleyCat-1]

It's funny you mentioned catching herd as a whole or go for 1. I had to catch & load some cow's a bit ago for a bangs vac, it was a nightmare because i just needed 4. Yesterday i sold 2 steers & planned for another nightmare, but brought the herds (goat & cow's) down & then separated down to the 2 i needed. Went smoother, since we we're trying for just 2. I wish my husband watched you, course he'd read more into it then what's there. We've never worked in tandem, except for when the kid's tried to play one against the other (dad said yes, when it was no or vica versa) the only one who get's finances under control or tightens their belt is me (my belt). It's hard, well that's not even the word for it.

[@TheTrailerBossleo]

Hey Dwayne, I’m glad you’re headed down to Florida. I’d be interested in going to that seminar and hear what you got to say. Please give us some more detail.

[@openmind7418]

Yes me too🤠

[@Shinedig]

Thank you sir

[@whygowegabusch120]

As usual, you got me pegged. I'm tryin.

[@LittleTalksWithMyles]

I thought that analogy might be fixing to get you in some trouble at home! ;-) But you pulled it off far better than I would have.

[@johnmac333]

Keep up the good work , pardner !

[@joosier2385]

Sometimes you have to baby step your way back. Kaizen-the Japanese philosophy of incremental improvements and growth. One percent better every day.

[@peanutbutter732]

Oh boy a new dry creek video and a 20 minuter!

[@andrescifrian4549]

From the bottom of my heart: thank you for everything you’ve taught us. RESPECT!!🫡🪶

[@Unimarc421]

Yep, spot on once again 🙏🏻😉

[@philosophyoftrucking]

I love this advice.

[@CJsJourney-1]

I'm 27 and I've made a lot of bad calls in life the most recent one was letting a good woman go instead of toughing it out. God is trying to teach me something I just wish I knew what it was.

[@user-jn6jm4bb6f]

In order to begin to understand, you must ask yourself: 'Why do I act the way I act?' 'Why do I act in a way that harms me?' At your young age, it is likely that this is something you learned from one or both of your parents regarding relationships and interactions between spouses. You must understand that you are not your father, and you are not your mother; you are a unique person, and there is no one else like you. Simply put, just because your mother is a tomato and your father is a pineapple does not mean that you are either a pineapple or a tomato or a combination of both. The same applies to your partner. If we say you are looking to open a certain lock, in order to narrow down the search for the right key, you will first check what type of lock it is and only then look for a suitable key. The same applies to yourself and your search for a partner. Once you understand who you really are-without all the faulty customs that were instilled in you during your childhood-only then can you truly start looking for a suitable partner. And once you do, you will see that your intended partner, the one God chose for you, has been there all along, waiting for you. So don't delay.

[@AyshRowland]

Communicate your expectations Love conquers Hate!!! I am Rich, I am Strong!!! Thy will be done! Believe in Jesus Christ for Salvation~!

[@epitomeman]

Thank you uncle Dewayne!

[@BrianUnderdahl-mq5wn]

"Herding Cats" is the universal motto for people. It's used by corporations, governments,religions,strange belief systems etc. If only we were more like a cavy of horses.

[@DensonFletch]

My lady that worked for me 30 yrs and was much older than me, said this almost daily, so true. Ty for reminding me

[@sgunnardpeterson]

Thank you.

[@ChristyStoerm]

Hi Dwayne, I have subscribed to your podcast and noticed the last 3 episodes are over 3 hours long. Some of them have multiple episodes in each podcast with large gaps of time in between. Previously they were just individual episodes that are similar to your youtube posts. I am not sure if that is what you wanted to happen, or if there is a glitch, but I thought I would let you know. Thank you for your words of encouragement and advice :o)

[@sammyochocinco63]

Thank you Dewayne

[@snake_boot]

“A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step”

[@franciskimere5949]

woow this topic got me on the right time.