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Hey ya'll! Today on my channel we are reacting to some people who were caught red handed.
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Hi, I'm Charlotte Dobre. I'm an actor, reactor, singer and sometimes (not really) comedian. On this channel I do reactions, commentary and occasionally I make a joke or two. I love poking fun at social media, weddings, entitled people, tiktok and OF COURSE petty people. I upload daily, usually 7 days a week, unless life gets crazy or I get lazy. Come hang out, it's a good time.
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[@BakedKoala95]

As I've gotten older I've learned violence solves nothing. But as a woman whose been gas lighted to think it's all in my head and cheated on, that woman throwing that TV like a Frisbee had me dying!😂I've never destroyed property but I'd be lying if I said I haven't had those thoughts.😭🤣

[@roll3886]

Fr "You want your TV? Here's your TV" lol

[@FireLlama550]

We've all thought it at some point in our lives lets be honest

[@natureboygolfer]

That sh was hilarious Koala

[@FireLlama550]

My ex cheated on me after I went through all his surgeries to have his leg amputated. All the physio all the prosthesis fittings I missed major exams to be by his side. To say I wanted to smash up his prized motorbike was an understatement. I didn't but I wish damn well I did

[@unicornvixen7018]

I still had a few valuable items after my ex cheated, including an xBox360 and his grandfather's watch. I put everything in a bag, with some of his left-over clothes that I found and delivered them to his house. I so desperately wanted to drop that bag from up high in front of him, that I could taste it, but then the Karma angel (my moral compass) said that something of mine would probably get broken somehow so I simply handed him the bag and drove away.

[@13Wolfie13]

I dunno... the girl who went out with friends while she was visiting her Aunt and saying she didn't tell him because he's always mad if she does tell him kind of reminds me of an old boyfriend I had. I had to slip away to see friends or family if I wanted to do it without him calling me every 5 minutes to ask what I was doing, or keep him from just showing up. I didn't recognize it at the time, but I sort of reconnected with him recently over the death of a mutual friend and he got really weird, really fast. I recognized it now as narcissism. Not just traits, but the true cluster B disorder. This girl might need to run.

[@shiramarie6770]

See that's why I hate these videos because they don't actually give you the full story because honestly I've been gaslit with "I didn't tell you because I thought you'd be mad" when I've been cheated on way too many times and I understand that that just says something terrible about me for picking cheaters but at the same time if you're lying to your partner about something either you need to leave them because they're too controlling or you need to leave them because you're cheating on them.

[@HollyBerry0255]

This is exactly what I thought! Aunt girl and the girl at the pool, there boyfriends are giving me HUGE controlling and abusive vibes. I don't think either of them are cheaters.

[@13Wolfie13]

@@shiramarie6770 Right?! In her particular case it literally could be either one of those things. It’s super hard to tell which of them is the victim. Prima facie, it looks like he is, but it just gave me the willies because that creepy guy I dated would follow me secretly and then grill me on what I did and who I was with (even though he knew because he was watching in the shadows. (We didn’t have smartphones to video discretely) Once, I went and got my little brother for the weekend and the guy kept calling over and over. I decided to just disappear, so I took my brother to a hotel, but told him we were going up to my mom’s. I checked in and asked the staff to register me under a false name and if anyone called, I wasn’t there. I also had them put me in the back of the hotel so my car wasn’t visible. We were there about 30 minutes before he was knocking on the door. We broke up shortly after that.

[@shiramarie6770]

@@13Wolfie13 oh yeah see I've seen both sides of it from my own relationships and from my friends and it's like we need more context to these videos to actually decide how we feel but clearly one of them is in the wrong.

[@13Wolfie13]

@@shiramarie6770 Honestly, I don’t even know which one to root for because one of them is totally gaslighting the other, so regardless of which one it is, the relationship is toxic.

[@taylorwalker7417]

The one with the guy yelling at his girlfriend for going out while she was away feels weird to me. First off, there was nothing in his "receipts" that looked like she was cheating, just that she felt the need to hide her having fun without him. Also, I think it's really telling that she didn't get defensive *once* which is what people usually do when they're caught in a bad lie - she scrambled a little; sure, she was hiding something, but that's not usually how people react when they've been caught cheating. I hope she finds herself a more trustworthy relationship.

[@laurac3154]

This! It sounds to me like he is controlling and she’s just trying to be young and have friends.

[@gabrielladaniels483]

That sounds like you be doing the same stuff

[@byeolbitch]

Literally I don't see a problem w hanging out w your friends and partying when you know your boyfriend is weird about it that's on him!

[@ivymarie346]

@@gabrielladaniels483 people are allowed to go out and have fun WITHOUT their partner. Period.

[@jamesdsmith1217]

The issue he is having is that she literally lied to his face multiple times. On top of that she also made sure he personally wasn't able to see what she was doing by taking him off her close friends. We don't know the context so just as you can speculate that he is controlling its equally acceptable to assume she wasn't being faithful. She also came home with ALOT of expensive things and the man even sais she doesn't make that much money. Majority of relationships the partners know roughly how much they bring in each month. This has nothing to do with her wanting to go party with friends. If that was all she wanted she would have just said straight up that she went out and partied with friends and if she knew it was something that he was not comfortable with then she should have either broken up with him or respected the boundaries he had set. Everyone is entitled to their own personal boundaries and those need to be respected in a relationship, so if she went out knowing how much it would upset him purposely went out of her way to hide it from him then she is the issue here and HE needs to find himself a more faithful woman who can look him in the eye and tell the truth.

[@krisdiane]

The man that caught his woman "cheating" on vacation was scary as fuck. If he acts like that in public he's probably a lot worse behind closed doors. And that was over her just talking to a man at the pool. I hope she got out of that relationship safely. 😔

[@satsujin4027]

I agree, it didnt look like ahe was doing anything wrong. And the way he behaved the whole "imma male alpha man andnu have to obey me hurr durr", kinda makes me feel like she didnt cheated at all and this dudes thinks talking to another guy about the weather constitutes cheating. I mean we dont know the whole story, but I wouldnt be aurprised if that dude is just crazy jealous type.

[@satsujin4027]

I also felt a bit the same about the girl that went to see her aunt. I dont think what she did is wrong, but its not hard to believe that maybe the dude is one of those controlling ones that dont want their gf going out to parties with friends becauae they are insecure and assume they will cheat if they do. Idk Im 50/50 on that one

[@krisdiane]

@@satsujin4027 yeah I was wondering if I was missing something in that one cause it just looked like he'd seen that she had been in a Ferrari and got mad.

[@dustinriley8059]

@@satsujin4027 We don't really have enough info on that situation, but no matter if he's a controlling douche that doesn't want her to go out with her friends or she's a conniving b*tch that sneaks around behind his back, she's still in the wrong. There's never an acceptable reason for lying about that sort of thing and going behind your significant other's back. The latter is self explanatory, but if it's the first one then she's wrong for not getting out of that sort of relationship in the first place.

[@i.love.kingvon]

@@dustinriley8059 she never lied, she said she kicked it with some friends and she was kicking it with some friends in that video. also he isn't her father so she doesn't have to tell him anything unless she wants to, especially if she didn't cheat.

[@Littlereddevil94]

I love that woman. "Whatchu running from? Whatchu running from?" Yes queen, I'm here for it.

[@carmelcutie1991]

Yas abuse is lit!!!!!!!!! 🙄

[@AmberKelly82]

I was cheated on a long time ago by my oldest son's father and I was so offended by how sloppy he was. I was like, WOW, he really thinks I'm an absolute moron. That hurt my feelings worse than the actual cheating did 😂😂😂

[@Kayenne54]

Sometimes they've been cheating for longer than you realize. That's how they arrive at the "she's a moron" decision. Also they KNOW we are morons for ever being with them. Sadly. Cheaters just have incredibly poor self esteem, and hate it when they realize a partner kicking them out means she has better self esteem than them lol.

[@itsmek3]

Same with an ex.... I was more angry and hurt that he thinks I'm too stupid to find out than the cheating.

[@akiluckyakilucky7524]

@@Kayenne54 i dont agree with that. You're not a moron ❤

[@shahana_style]

LMFAO SAME. Like sir do you think I'm stupid? Romantically gullible maybe, but not stupid -- nor deaf, dumb, and blind as well

[@ramachandra776]

It is not the cheating that angers me the most , though that is reprehensible enough on its own . It is the constant gaslighting to cover up their crimes . "Once a cheater , always a cheater" , as Charlotte repeatedly says . Must never forget this .

[@shiramarie6770]

It's actually not true though. It's most likely but as a person using both their father and grandfather as an example you can cheat once realize you fucked up and be together for well one is at 32 years now and the other 17 both cheated once in the first 10 years.

[@sailorsallyrockinrarity2130]

@@shiramarie6770 yeah, not a fan of the phrase because it implies people can never change or grow. However, if a person has not demonstrated that they have changed and grown, then the saying is accurate for that person. I was also a cheater and hope I never am one ever again. I know that will take work and open communication and other changes, but I would rather put in the work than cheat ever again.

[@crazycatlady4551]

My ex constantly accused me of cheating with no basis. Come to find out, he was cheating on me the whole time. Every time we had a baby, he stepped out.His mother is still pissed at him, 35 years later.

[@franhunne8929]

Have a colleague who got a divorce because he cheated - and now he is married for a long time with his second wife - and certainly loves and respects her enough to not cheat on her.

[@Glittery-Defect]

I agree with this phrase in regards to my own experience. My sons dad cheated once when we were dating for 2 weeks, we got over it bc ya know high school. At 2 years we split for a month (still in HS) and he dated another girl. When we got back together they were still messaging pics back and forth. At 7 years together we split for 8 months bc he cheated. We got back together for the last 3.5 years (10.5 total) and he continuously cheated from the second we got back together. So glad I’ve been out of that situation for 1.5 years now! My moms case though, she cheated in every marriage she had and since being with her 3rd husband (17 years now) she has not cheated 1x. It’s a “depends on the situation” type phrase for sure!

[@HollyBerry0255]

Honestly the pool guy and the girl who went to see her aunt, they aren't giving me cheating vibes. The men however are giving me scary and controlling vibes, not only in the way the men are reacting but how the women are reacting back. Pool guy was terrifying and if he can act like that in public, he's going to be a lot worse behind closed doors.

[@TheHestya]

Exactly, he was making himself look bigger with his stance, flexing, walking towards her, physically got her up by the arm... and she was walking back because he was clearly intimidating. If a man acts like that in front of people, I have zero doubt he's worse in private.

[@annabaker4150]

Imagine someone having the nerve to get angry by someone betraying them... 🤦 And I've been in abusive relationships and cheated on so don't try to say I don't know what I'm talking about.

[@HollyBerry0255]

@@annabaker4150 Both of those examples were beyond anger. There is a difference between being upset and angry that you were betrayed, expressing it in a healthy way and then leaving and what these two guys did. Threatening and intimidation just because your angry isn't alright either. And both of these examples the way both parties are reacting tells me that this is a regular occurrence and regular behavior for those men. It's not okay.

[@youknownothingjohnsnow7475]

@@HollyBerry0255 sure, they were angry seemed controlled, but even if it wasnt, so what. big surprise, considering the situation. the cheating witches didn't control themselves either. i find it ridiculous how people always make it a man's responsibility to be calm and controlled in face of anything. not to mention - pretty funny that you consider slight intimidation unacceptable from the men, but conveniently overlook straight up assault from a woman. I bet you would be here screaming at the "toxic, abusive man" who threw a tv at his girlfriend. sexism much?

[@youknownothingjohnsnow7475]

sure, they were angry seemed controlled, but even if it wasnt, so what. big surprise, considering the situation. the cheating witches didn't control themselves either. i find it ridiculous how people always make it a man's responsibility to be calm and controlled in face of anything. not to mention - pretty funny that you consider slight intimidation unacceptable from the men, but conveniently overlook straight up assault from a woman. I bet you would be here screaming at the "toxic, abusive man" who threw a tv at his girlfriend. sexism much?

[@Loki_is_my_name]

Cheating on the vacation he took her on…the way he manhandled her, suggests to me that he’s quite comfortable with being overly physical when he doesn’t like what he sees. She shouldn’t cheat…(nobody should), but there was no evidence of cheating…just chatting next to a pool. The way he reacted though…HUGE RED FLAGS.

[@Bloodpix]

I love when the girls/guys meet the other person and instead of throwing hands or getting emotional they both get the instant of clarity and just dip out together. That always feels the best.

[@melaniereese5226]

You have to love when they think you're stupid. My bf of 15 years just tried to convince me that the 287 x-rated pictures in his phone gallery were put there by someone else while telling me no one used his phone. Have an amazing day everyone! ❤️ Update: He had me check his phone to prove it wasn't him looking up the pictures. What I found was a history of searches on over 1,500 videos in 9 months and that's when he finally admitted it.

[@Divine1767]

The way they lie makes me laugh because of how dumb it is....Do they think girls are idiots

[@melaniereese5226]

@@Divine1767 I believe they think we're the dumbest thing to walk the Earth. The lies wouldn't be so hysterically ridiculous if they thought otherwise. 😉

[@bodhiswayze1892]

Wow. HE is the absolute idiot in this situation. Good for you for knowing your worth! ❤️

[@Divine1767]

@@melaniereese5226 exactly...We aren't as stupid or dumb as they think

[@samhayet4286]

After 15 years, omg... Are you still with him?

[@DemonCatDaphne]

My ex once accused me of cheating because I took a random t-shirt out of the washing machine with my laundry. He swore it wasn't his so I figured one of my 12 housemates had left it in the washing machine (he insisted I was cheating for a bit, but since I wasn't he had nothing to go by except that random t-shirt). I left it on the line outside and a few weeks later he's over again and asked me why his shirt is outside on the line. Turned out he was the one cheating and gaslighting and manipulating me :)))

[@TuhinaSaysHi]

Cheaters always seem to think the other is cheating

[@Lissa2355]

Wait holy shit, that's an (toxic) advice I saw on tiktok! A girl suggests we get a piece of clothing that we don't use all that often and accuse our SO of cheating, claiming thats not ours. Depending on their reaction, we would magically know if they're cheating or not. I think he tried to test you there

[@judywright4241]

That’s EXACTLY what my idiot father would do, no matter how the argument started, it always ended with mom being ‘ a f--ing who’re’ Yep, he was the cheater but how stupid is it, they had SIX KIDS, she was a stay-at-Home wife who COULDN’t drive, when could SHE cheat? Man! They were miserable and made all of us miserable too.

[@itsmek3]

He's projecting 😆 why cheaters always project their cheating to the loyal ones

[@teresahaymon8211]

Sound about right

[@mrsrich4991]

Every night I wait for this lady to make me laugh and she never fails to deliver

[@beccawiley6684]

Lol! I love Charlotte, but she's no lady!🤣😂

[@Jjjjjjj00294]

Charlotte, the laugh lady! 😂 this is so cute

[@TinyJem101]

mines every morning at like 10am hahaha but same shes like my main tv show

[@ratedrachel3670]

These are like Saturday morning cartoons for me but everyday and only 10-15 minutes. Yay adult hood! 🤣

[@ellenasaldana3931]

My kids steal my phone all day. But they know, you can't take my phone until I watch Charlotte dobre

[@jadeinthewoods]

To be fair, that girl that was being grilled by her boyfriend because she went out and partied with her friends, did nothing wrong. If there was any wrongdoing, it was not being honest about it. Judging by the way he acted in the video, I’m not surprised that she kept it from him. He seems very insecure and controlling. She even came home with gifts for him and he was grilling her about that too. Girl, get out of that relationship.

[@NotLaura-Baka22]

Yeah I felt weird about that one I didn't see anything in the pictures that looked like cheating I felt bad for her 😔

[@melima_]

My thoughts exactly ^^

[@help_me_get_a_play_button]

It's not a relationship, it's a dictatorship

[@mustangGTO20]

Agreed

[@Bone_MLP0]

agreed but tbh if it was me... id be pissed off aswell like if ur hanging with friends just say so dont damn lie about it if ur gf/bf lies about just hanging with friends how can u not be mad or insecure that they may lie about something eles-

[@ilsehattingh1976]

And every confrontation HAS to be recorded. If I walk into a house and someone WHIPS out a telephone to record me, I'll just turn around. Imagine trying to have a conversation and the other person just stands with his phone recording you, trying to get you to say something for your tiktok. It's insane.

[@teleportingpotatoe]

what is your cornered in the car 6:50 just leave the car i guess but you might be stranded

[@kayleighandhercat1351]

I would wanna know if my man was cheating, especially if he's going to a spicy club to cheat once a week! I'd go and get tested too. That poor woman deserves better

[@LazyIRanch]

I assume Spicy Club is a swinger club, or something similar? I'm asexual and clueless. I want to know, because if I saw a "spicy club" I might assume they sell various kinds of salsa and pepper sauce, and I'd want to be part of that club!

[@BeckBeckGo]

Right? I’d want to know because I want to have control over my own sexual health.

[@jgw5491]

@@BeckBeckGo Totally. She needs to have the whole battery of std tests plus two six month tests for HIV. Even if they have an open relationship, him doing it with so many women endangers both of them.

[@kayleighandhercat1351]

@@LazyIRanch 🤣🤣🤣

[@meghanodonoghue9066]

Strip club folks, that chick telling the wife is a stripper and shows her puss for money.

[@melodybragdon8795]

It's the "Whatcha runnin for?" while she ominously approaches him with the TV for me 🤣

[@sammorpls]

HAHAHA best part

[@gregf4416]

His life. She's on the edge, he better stay clear. Seeing the way she was man handling the TV, he's in for a row if she gets ahold of him.

[@roll3886]

Cheating is something you always want to know about. Of course it's going to hurt because you love the person but it's better to be hurt a little by the honesty than to be hurt a lot by the dishonesty, lying, stringing you along, etc until you inevitably find out (which is usually a more shocking, more painful experience).

[@BeckBeckGo]

Imagine. You go for blood work and find out you have an STI. I’d rather find out before that happened.

[@mammadingo9165]

Agreed

[@shiramarie6770]

It's also better to know so you can proceed making educated decisions.

[@laurielaurie8280]

Yes, its good to find out asap so you don't get a venereal disease.

[@pascaleelliott63]

Sorry thumbs down was a typo ^^' Exactly, wrip the bandade off and tell me if you know my SO is being unfaithful with me before I waist any more of my life with him/her

[@AutisticEthics]

HAHHAAH THE LAST CLIP - I adore that the guy is just like “oh shit” and the gurl is like “turn it off”

[@barbi.mcbride]

I found out 12 days ago that my bf has been cheating on me for over 6 months. We had been together 10 years. I know I need to leave him. I want to leave him… but ask me again in 30 seconds and I don’t know what I’ll say. This whole damn situation has me questioning literally everything I thought I knew. I just can’t understand how anyone could knowingly put someone through all of this pain & confusion. And I feel so incredibly weak and pathetic because I can’t pull my shit together. I have never truly hated someone that I honestly still love before. I didn’t even know that it was possible. Sorry, this was very scattered & random, I know, but it’s all I’ve got right now.

[@Layoorah]

Leave! Get out as soon as you can!! Run like the wind!!

[@lauraroeleveld4053]

Take your time and do whats right for you darling. There's nothing wrong with feeling hurt and confused about what he did and right now, all that matters is your wellbeing. If you want to leave but you don't want to confront him or deal with the drama, just pack your bags and get out. Tell someone you trust and find your support system of people that will be there for you in whatever way you need them. I'm a firm believer that how people treat us says more about them than it does about us. He's the bastard and major idiot for cheating on you, and you have done nothing wrong. Feelings don't just change overnight, especially when you've loved someone for so long, so just take your time to process it all and heal. Also, while watching cheaters getting their karmic justice can be satisfying, at the end of the day, your happiness and wellbeing is more important than his well-deserved punishment. Just know that whatever happens, you deserve better and you are not alone. You have people that care about you and you can depend on, both online and offline. All our love, a fellow Dobrevian 😘(or does Dobreman sound better?)

[@meganwilliams4981]

I'm so sorry you have to go through that 😔 my best friend is in the same situation right now they've been together for like 6 yrs..I know it's tough but now after a few weeks later she's so glad she left him and is in a way better state of mind than she was, which everyone heals different.. she was so blinded by his narcissist ways that she thought noone cared about her she now realizes how many ppl do really care & is there for her to get through this. No one should have to constantly be paranoid that their partner is cheating on them & it's tough to hear but if he did it once he can to do it again & u don't wanna go through that pain again it hits even harder the second time..I hope all Is well & u can get through this & be you again babe ❤️

[@meganlowder9648]

I feel like the girl that went on the trip to Atlanta is in an abusive relationship. The way he is acting towards her and the way she is hiding super innocent things just screams abuse flags. She also looks terrified of him. Or maybe I’m just projecting from my own experience.

[@Pufflers]

No definitely I got the same vibes it made me have anxiety for her :S

[@NightmareVixen12art]

She needs to get out and needs help

[@kissit012]

Nope. He’s possessive and a creep. She needs to leave

[@deszi6936]

So you think she is in an abusive relationship based on a small vidoe clip in which the woman lied and was with another man lol If the roles were switched y’all would be trashing the guy . Women are funny .

[@youknownothingjohnsnow7475]

sure, the poor little abused girl.... an obedient plaything for lambo dudes on weekends, but hey, totally abused by her toxic, controlling boyfriend :(

[@bridgetlove1884]

Idk, maybe there is more to the story, but just talking to a guy next to you at the pool doesn't equal cheating. I like to engage in chit chat with people while on vacation, have no romantic aspirations just curious about people. The boyfriend gave me "controlling and jealous" vibes.

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

Ambuser right here 😊

[@mikeoxmaul932]

Yeah i talk to strangers everyday not flirting just learning whats going on in the world.

[@kelciemiller4921]

Same I agree. I feel like the fact of them being in swimsuits was irrelevant because they're by a pool. I don't think she was cheating she probably isn't allowed to even talk to other men lol

[@victoriatunney6971]

Came to the comments to see if anyone else got a red flag from that dude too. If you get that upset simply because your SO talks to another person, you need help.

[@alexiswilliamsinc]

All of the above. Guy likely sat next to her while she was minding her business. That specific scene gave me flashbacks to some times I’m glad are “Where? Back there.” ❤️‍🩹🤦🏽‍♀️

[@VampiraVonGhoulscout]

I love when both the girls come together and walk out on the guy and then they end up best friends. Always a great story.

[@SoLuVaBle299]

For the one with the fancy shoes: Whether she cheated or not a relationship where the boyfriend “gets mad when she goes out with friends” and the girlfriend hides going out with friends thus feeding back into the boyfriend’s sense of discomfort sounds like a difficult relationship. I know that line may sound bad, but there’s not enough details for people to say this is a controlling relationship. This is just a snapshot of a moment in a (possibly) years long relationship without any context (including their emotional baggage). All I can say is it’s hard to get back the comfort and stability of a relationship after an accusation like this, especially when made so publicly, accurate or not.

[@StefSoleil]

I dated a guy for three months and found out he was married. I told his wife, and she was super nice about it. Apparently it wasn't the first time he'd cheated. It also wasn't the last - I recently saw him on a dating app. They're still together. 🤷‍♀️

[@angelichobi__18]

Dude WHY WOULD SHE STAY WITH HIM????? That’s a disaster waiting to happen 😫😫😫

[@i_am_bisexual_or_something3132]

​@@angelichobi__18health insurance maybe?

[@justhearmeout3959]

I caught my ex husband cheating when I was 5 months pregnant with his daughter - over EMAIL. And he got angry with me for "invading his privacy." Screw cheaters man Edit: Pregnant WITH HIS daughter. Like while I was pregnant, his daughter was in my belly 😅 I'm so sorry for the misunderstanding, really I am

[@Mama_Bear524]

Wow. I’m so sorry

[@Nyraksi]

Um... that's incest and it's illegal. You should report him for the safety of the daughter.

[@taniatala5430]

With his..... daughter??? 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢

[@ida6950]

@@taniatala5430 I think they meant that they were pregnant with his daughter. Not that the husband was cheating with his daughter XD (at least I hope so)

[@llamamama2910]

They are always like PRIVaCY-after they’ve destroyed a sacred trust😊

[@raghav_kalra]

Charlotte, I love your consistency and drive to post every day. your work ethic is so commendable especially given the fact that KZbin isn't all you do and you have other things in the works. Go hustle queen

[@CharlotteDobre]

Thanks bestie! Appreciate you!!

[@LeeLee-ud2cp]

@@CharlotteDobre PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE DO A REACTION TO ( TOM MACDONALD ) PICK A SONG ANY SONG ,,, LISTEN TO HIS LYRICS ..... LUV YA GIRL

[@eveningstar8581]

@@LeeLee-ud2cp he is the best!

[@tyleresch4584]

​@@CharlotteDobre I know this comment is late but I saw the need to comment about this. At around 7:45 you made the comment about destroying the cheaters property for them being cheaters. I wouldn't advise doing this. While it will give you ( or anyone) emotional satisfaction it will very likely result in you losing out financially. Courts aren't going to care if the other person cheated or not, they're going to care that property was damaged or destroyed. So if the cheater sued the cheated on for the damage to their property, they would likely win.

[@Nyraksi]

The one running away from his angry girlfriend waving the TV around is pure gold. She's my spirit animal!!

[@HollyAnneThePaganChaosWitch]

Charlotte saying "if you want to cheat, at least be good at it" has the same vibes as the Christopher Titus joke "if you're going to hate, _steam_ " and I'm living for it.

[@almondy1]

The Atlanta guy didn't catch her cheating. He caught her having fun. RUN GIRL 🏃‍♀️

[@ubeuonly]

With other men in cars and lying about it I guess is ok??

[@angelichobi__18]

@@ubeuonly how do we know she doesn’t have male friends? If she does have male friends why does her boyfriend feel the need to be a huge baby about it, and like the girl said “If I tell you I am you get mad anyways” so either way whether she says the men were friends or not her bf will still get mad at her. From what I see it’s a controlling relationship by the bf getting so uptight over his gf getting into a lambo and providing ZERO solid evidence of her cheating he just “trusts the homies”. He’s also talking over her and not letting her explain, even if she is guilty of cheating let her talk at least dude. Also the videos and photos he showed has no evidence of a man, he only knows that based off of “what one of the Homies” said

[@ubeuonly]

@@angelichobi__18 if your boyfriend's got homies you don't need him, and if the girls out in the car with other guys, if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck it's probably a duck

[@alybot2.059]

Was the chick who went to Atlanta even cheating? All I saw was her getting in cars and dancing. How is that cheating?

[@LeilaleilaZ]

I know! If thats not staged (as most tiktoks are) she probs lied bc he seems to be a controling freak lol

[@theriveroftruth]

as soon as i heard “you always get upset when i go out with my friends” i started questioning it

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

Because if the guy who’s letting these attractive groups of women into his cars , enticing them with money and gifts, what are the boyfriends supposed to assume is going down or going through that man’s mind when thinking about how those women will “compensate “ him… 😒

[@Gna_d54]

@@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh Yeah... people are giving way to much benefit of the doubt to her. That was absolutely a sugar baby arrangement playing out in those videos and people are either defending that lifestyle (when in a relationship!) or being really dense to it.

[@claire4234]

Seems staged to me. Not once did she tell him to stop filming.

[@davidguidry657]

Cheating gives me heartburn and nausea. I appreciate Miss Charlotte’s perspective (although I don’t necessarily agree with the “soft cheating” classification because cheating has no qualifier) and her reactions.

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

I don't agree with the "soft cheating" I don't consider that cheating unless they were actually talking to somebody. In an inappropriate way...I talk to a couple guys on Instagram but we never talk inappropriately. I'm in the reptile community. Specifically hognose snakes and we only talk about stuff related to reptiles. I mean sometimes we talk about normal stuff that is going on in our lives. We are friends. Like we talk about his new baby girl and I told him about my new car. We talk about our partners and I tell my fiance about stuff we talk about. I'm not hiding anything.

[@laurielaurie8280]

Soft cheating is a prelude to hard cheating.

[@davidguidry657]

@@Upper_echelon_exotics that may very well be something that needs to be discussed early in the relationship then. Bad things happen when expectations aren’t communicated and people have a different understanding of “what” they are to each other. It’s what gave rise to the stereotype of women wanting to have “the talk” to define the relationship; smart move btw. This is just my opinion but if he didn’t think he was doing something wrong (ie cheating) then we wouldn’t have tried to hide it and then lie about it.

[@davidguidry657]

@@laurielaurie8280 it do be a slippery slope!

[@Upper_echelon_exotics]

@@davidguidry657 I mean I guess it just depends on the relationship. Obviously communication is important in any relationship. I also am not totally sure what she was calling soft cheating.

[@Bora_Eternal]

so.. i am from India and Charlotte, your videos drop at 10:30 pm so THAT makes for a perfect video for my bedtime browsing and I feel all my day's stress melting away!!! So *THANK YOU for your VIDEOS and for your sass and just... for being an AMAZING PERSON!!!!*

[@Quantari]

I love how you can SEE the instant the cheaters start lying. It's on their faces. They're not good liars.

[@vanessamedina6242]

NGL, I'm super grateful my husband forgets about the snacks in the cupboard almost instantly. MORE FOR ME!

[@LazyIRanch]

I have secret stashes of chocolate I keep for myself for emergency "medical" reasons (they are my anti-bitchy treatment). I found a bag of dark chocolate Hershey's kisses recently at the back of my top shelf of my spice rack. I think I bought them for a cookie recipe a couple years ago, but now I changed my mind! They're MINE!!

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

I was hoping she didn’t in fact eat any guacamole 🥑 because she hates it and instead it comes out that her lover ate his guac 😅 So not only did he get with his girl, he also stole his guac 🤣

[@vanessamedina6242]

@@LazyIRanch my dad used to steal my baking chocolate when I was at home and I would be all set to make cookies, go into the cupboard and find my bins empty. I actually left a Post-It in the cupboard when I moved away for school that said "Keep your hands off my chocolate, DAD!" 😂

[@LazyIRanch]

@@vanessamedina6242 Daddy's a chocoholic! Well, there are worse things. Glad there aren't meetings where one has to admit they are chocoholics, and "haven't had a chocolate for ___ days" 😆 They can take my chocolate when they can pry it from my cold, dead hands! If I ever die from an OD of chocolate, at least I'll die happy and smiling! 🤤🍫

[@sarahtaavetti]

The “cheating at the pool” one; i got super weird vibes from both of them. He is way too agressive.

[@azrinzaki7298]

Yeah, I felt the same.

[@mo.6346]

Ya, same here. And no one around them seemed to react/notice. I know it's a short clip, but if I saw a guy put his hand on her like that, I feel like something like "WTF? Let go of her!" would come screaming out if my mouth. I'm about the same size as her, so not a physical threat to this guy but I sure as sh** can attract attention.

[@cathipalmer8217]

That guy who "took his girlfriend on vacation" and then got all handsy-grabby confrontational because she was talking to someone at the pool gives me a bad vibe. Likewise the one who confronted his girlfriend on her return from Atlanta. That could easily be read two different ways.

[@violetsnotviolence]

I was thinking that too. The guy who was yelling at his gf when she came home seemed super controlling. He was even giving her the third degree about how she spends her own money.

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

Yes Believe all women We learned nothing from Amber Turd 💩 😅

[@Gna_d54]

I disagree about the second one. I think she was caught living the sugar baby life. Unless she's making mid-6 figures at her job which seems very unlikely if a pair of shoes would be two whole paychecks then she and her friends did not pay for that trip. Sex work is still cheating if your partner doesn't consent to it.

[@WillowT442]

I agree Charlette, not being transparent leads to actual cheating. Anyone that says :"You don't trust me?" so 2 things, break up with them and do not let them make it about you. I learned this the hard way. When my ex husband was just my boyfriend - I felt all of these bad vibes about him. He ended up cheating on me and my kids with a female coworker. I say he cheated on my kids because when he was spending time with her, it was time taken away from my children. Just leave people if you don't feel as if you can trust them.

[@raindancemaggie1290]

as someone who was cheated on and everyone just watched like it was a soap opera and i was literally the last to know, i would have given ANYTHING for literally one person to be honest with me, even a perfect stranger because the humiliation is indescribable and i cant trust ANYONE now, friends/family or otherwise 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@TheMrsEmpty]

That dude interrogating his girl after her atlanta trip is trippin. Shes clearly a party girl, but I didn't see cheating. She may even be a dancer or something. He's got issues. She might not be innocent, but seems he wants a different type of girl, and she aint it.

[@angelichobi__18]

She’s clearly very very pretty and is definitely a dancer or exotic dancer if she can afford really nice things as I heard dancers/exotic dancers make a lot of money if they’re pretty enough and have the sex appeal, it’s also pretty obvious she’s a party girl based on the video and photo, the only “proof” he has “is from the homies” with no evidence of any men, if there were any how would he or us know they weren’t her friends? Just because she’s getting in a lambo with her friends and maybe other men doesn’t mean one of them isn’t her friend’s boyfriend and her male friends, men like this guy really be making a huge deal out of everything

[@gm-xc5hl]

I don’t understand cheating. Want a relationship, have one. Want to date around, do it. But not at the same time. Every cheater gets caught eventually.

[@satsujin4027]

Tbh cheating is like one of those things that cannot be forgiven. No one just cheat in the hit of the moment. To me, cheating is the end. No second chances, thats it. I rly believe the "once a cheater, always a cheater". And I dont say this about me, I have a friend whose girlfriend cheated on her. I completely cut that girl out. She tried sending me friend requests on social media and a blocked her. Even if my friend forgave her, even if my friend is ok now and can be friendly with that girl, I just cant. Because to me that so so disrespectful that I lose any respect for the person. It disgust me to no end.

[@lilblkrose]

@@satsujin4027 Try looking at stories of some cheaters and you'll feel some short of pity for a few. Unforgivable but not undeserving of 2nd chances, or at least not with the person they cheated on in some cases. You were in the right to cut off the girlfriend who cheated on your friend though.

[@HappysMomo]

@@satsujin4027 before I became a Christian I had cheated on every boyfriend I had either physically or emotionally.. and while I’m tempted to say once a cheater always a cheater isn’t true… it is to some degree. Let me explain… now I’m married and have never cheated on my husband… having said that I know my own tendencies and what causes me to look away from my husband and at other men. So I have strict boundaries for myself and I share my feelings with my husband. He’s really chill and would prefer I didn’t share sometimes but it’s more for me because I never want to cheat and hurt someone again.

[@heenamangnani4516]

I just love how Charlotte's videos align with my break time at work so I am looking forward to seeing them everyday. I don't miss them even on weekends! Love the consistency and the content! and not to forget the "pettiness"! LOL

[@krystleculbertson3731]

Very reliable uploads

[@brittbratt101123]

Me too! I’m in the same boat. There’s been a lot of ice cream, crying, and charlotte videos

[@honeydip927brown8]

You are so hilarious I enjoy you! 😂😂😂Side note your hair looks Amazing Luv! 💁🏻‍♀️

[@ginafinnemann6656]

The one with the close friends actually makes me worried about the girl, I used to be in a relationship with a very controlling boyfriend and I had to hide literally talking to male friends at school because he forbid for me to do that (I was 15-17 then, so I didn’t exactly party like the girl in the video). I’m not saying it’s definitely that, she might as well just be cheating, just feel like there’s just one side of the story

[@erikarussell1142]

It's not cheating to look at thirsttraps. It's knowing your partner isn't into it and then lying about it anyways. THAT is what makes it cheating.

[@bluehairedvixen]

Facts 👏🏽

[@pascaleelliott63]

I rolled my eyes when he immediately said "What, you don't trust me?". Like this is the oldest gaslight in the cheaters book, that it's practically worn down and fallen apart from being used and thrown around by them all.

[@erikarussell1142]

@@pascaleelliott63 okay tho!!! You 100000% on it.

[@ida6950]

Yeah, I wouldn’t mind if my SO looked a thirsttraps or porn, just share them with me lol. Lying about it is annoying

[@jiggy2207]

This! Hell, my husband and I are both bi and follow all the same thirst traps 🤣 we're always sending them to eachother

[@keileeriggin5239]

I personally believe if you are tempted to cheat on someone you owe it to them to let them go to it seems you don’t truly love them so let them find someone else who does love them and wouldn’t hurt them. Finding out someone is cheating then braking up is worse than just braking up

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

You can cheat while still loving someone 😔 That’s why love is not the only thing you need in a healthy relationship

[@keileeriggin5239]

@@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh if you truly love someone both emotionally and physically and respect them you won’t cheat I think you should just let them go

[@ugaladh]

That's why its called "monkey-branching". they can't let go of one branch until they have ahold of the next one.

[@Liquessen]

I wonder if the pool-lady was actually cheating or just having a chat with a dude. I really dislike the way her bf grabbed her by the neck... looks very controlling.

[@angelichobi__18]

From what I can tell she’s just chit chatting with a man who clearly isn’t attracted to her. I chit chat with people all the time when im on vacation if they strike up a conversation first, it’s usually very easy to see when someone is interested in you. Mannerisms and the way they talk changes instantly

[@cheeling794]

Me and my husband are in a constant war of changing snack hiding spots bc we always find them🤣

[@aithynzandt]

The guy who filmed his partner 'lying' is controlling. The partner mentioned that he always gets mad when they hangs out with friends, so that's a tell tale sign that there was many conflict beforehand of the guy being upset for her having her own life separate from his own. Like just say you feel left out without berating your partner for having fun with friends, they did nothing wrong.

[@deszi6936]

If he is controlling then why did he let her go to Atalanta to see her aunt a controlling guy would never do that knowing that she could be cheating . Women can’t take any accountability if the roles were switched . And he was in a car with an another woman yall women would be trashing the man.

[@aithynzandt]

@@deszi6936 First of all: Men can hold other men accountable for their shitty behavior deemed unsafe or controlling to others around them, be it children or their partners or their friends, etc. Myself being no exception. :) Second: Gender of partner does not matter. In context, I was referring to the assumed genders of the couple clip in the video. But I digress. **TL;DR: Does not matter the gender, the reaction of the person filming was still irrational.** Side note: I hope your relationship with your mother is better than the way you treat others on the internet, regardless of their gender. :)

[@ShantiRedwine]

Charlotte, So... I used to be a cheater. I've been redeemed... I addressed the insecurities and issues and spiritual deficits through counseling and a 12-step program that made me crave ego boosts and s*x. Took a few years but I finally got right after being a cheater on and off for about 16 years. Also, was blessed with the most amazing husband that fulfills all the areas the other 2 husbands didn't. This combined with my choice to change has made me a new person. My 2nd husband destroyed my house after finding out. Not enough for me to prosecute (honestly surprised he didn't set fire to everything! I was in another state for a job. So yes, they destroy your shit. On one hand I definitely deserved it. On the other, I thought he was more mature. There's a lot more to the story, but that's the gist. These vids always remind me how horrible I was and how I never want to be that way again. Plus I'm just too old now. : ) Love your videos and your humor! (And your hair!)

[@shiramarie6770]

Actually I wanted to say something about that myself as somebody who has witnessed both their father and grandfather cheat on the respective partners and bounce back to a more than 20 year relationship and are still going strong I can tell you that once a cheater always a cheater is not true.

[@CharlotteDobre]

Good for you!! Proud of you!

[@truthseeker9249]

You know what? I'm proud of you. I'm actually very impressed.

[@HappysMomo]

I’m glad you commented because I have a similar story and I wasn’t sure how to articulate it. I was a cheater too. It’s definitely what you said… knowing why you do it and trying to correct that behavior. Getting help etc. now I’m happily married… and I have boundaries in place for myself so that never happens again. Communication was my problem. I didn’t have healthy communication modeled for me so I had a hard time expressing my true emotions and so I would cheat because I couldn’t break up. But my husband now is wonderful and has helped me grow in communication and I can’t thank him and God enough. Blessed but I don’t deserve it 🙏

[@zuzukris4952]

We always find out. Always!!! Sometimes we play ignorant so that they’ll believe they’re getting away with something. Get comfortable, trip themselves up, and get caught. It’s the long con. 😁 Also, that girl who went to see her Auntie, I don’t think she did anything. I think her man sounds controlling, and paranoid. Sitting in a Lambo and looking good, and hanging out, ain’t cheating. If she got a guy friend from school or whatever, who cares? It sounds like he is often paranoid and jealous and that’s why she didn’t tell him. This relationship seems super controlling and toxic.

[@wildstarsful]

I agree, it is possible it is cheating, but it sounds more like he is controlling and gets mad when she does fun things with friends.

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

Then why “buy” him a freaking expensive pair of shoes?!?! There’s no need 2 paychecks worth?!?! Unless it’s his bday or anniversary, what women you know gonna buy him that on a whim?!?!?!!??? 🙄 🙄

[@Gna_d54]

Lol sitting in a lambo and looking good. Sure. It's called sex work. If a pair of $800.00 shoes was going to be 2 paychecks for her no way in hell she has 'friends' with lambos.

[@Ashspill87]

@@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh There's no need? She thought he would like them. My husband and I buy each things "on a whim" doesn't mean either of us are cheating.

[@Ashspill87]

I agree, it didn't sound like the girl going out with friends was cheating. The guy sounded controlling.

[@jw42uk]

I love watching these videos right before my night shift! They seem to give me a little jump in my stride knowing that my life isn't as dramatic as other people's 🤣 thank you for the laughs Charlotte! 🇬🇧 ❤️

[@dubblebubbletoilandtrouble6646]

LOL we take our wins where we can get them

[@Booklover9257]

My husband will show me the thirst traps that they show him on TikTok (usually scrolls away then scrolls back to show it to me). Then he’ll make comments about why he doesn’t know why he gets them. I always laugh at him and tell him it’s probably because he keeps showing me so the algorithm thinks he likes them, cause he goes back.

[@missmeganmoments2341]

10:29 What exactly did she do wrong? Like she said… she got together with some friends. She had a fun girls night at the club. She didn’t look like she was cheating… she looked like she was having a good time. Maybe she didn’t want to tell him because he has a history of jealousy and she didn’t want to upset him. She had the stories to her close friends list… she didn’t post those pics publicly for everyone to see. She posted it to her “close friends.” Maybe some of those close friends were other girls who lived in the area. He’s angry that she didn’t feel comfortable telling him about her girls night out with her friends. If it were the other way around and she saw him posting to his close friends list of him partying with the bros and she flipped out everyone would be laughing at her.

[@thrgost]

Love women standing with other women! ❤️

[@riakendall8610]

Anything that you won't do right in front of your partner, is cheating, if you msg, chat, look at pictures of whomever... if you won't do it with you partner sat by your side, them able to view also, that's cheating in my eyes. And I'm absoloutly fine with everyone else's point of view, because this is exactly mine and my partners relationship. Honest and total trust.

[@melissafields3376]

My husband and I had one stipulation/rule whenever we went out solo...... NEVER BEHAVE/DO ANYTHING THAT YOU WOULDN'T DO INFRONT OF EACH OTHER!

[@shay0912]

A hard truth is better than a pretty lie. Thanks for the content💚

[@Boutys_mom]

07:20 Whatchu runnin fo?!

[@siobhantomilson4364]

Been sitting here just waiting for the notification. Definitely need my daily dose of Charlotte!! ❤️

[@genevieverose42]

Charlotte, you are the Jacqueline of all trades. Master of all! Singer, KZbin star, actress, script-writer, entrepreneur.. you are a true starlet 🌟 “Another Planet’s Air” is bomb by the way. Love from South Africa ☺️🇿🇦❤️

[@VeronicaGrafstein]

I love that guy who was all tough talk but ran when she came down the stairs lmfao

[@jadedviper1028]

Come January I've been with my husband 12 years... We share everything except the zip lock bag we both have on our side of the bed🤣 usually stuff the other doesn't like but it's our own special stuff lol

[@Rabinaster]

As painful as it is I would want to be told and shown proof of my husband cheating. I wouldn't want to keep committing to a relationship when he can't even do the same. People who go off at people for notifying the person who is being cheated on saying that they ruined their relationship and crap... it's like nope the person who couldn't be faithful is the one who ruined everything.

[@reginak8043]

This is just like when my ex tried to gaslight me and kept on saying that I’m a psycho and crazy and I had trust issues when I didn’t believe why he was out so often then turned out he was cheating on me for over a year…. WITH MY BEST FRIEND!!! 😂

[@saramarilee7177]

Thank you so much for all you do to make a smile and laugh through the craziness of this world! I seriously watch your videos or listen to them while I'm doing chores and errands and it always just makes it go by so much smoother than just listening to music or angrily completing task lol. Thank you again. I hope you have a blessed day, super proud of you!

[@annikakl6822]

Yay! A video from Charlotte is what I needed today!

[@shaylajade9937]

4:40 I love that girl power energy! Either one of them could have said/did anything, in that moment! "We might want to leave" is the best response, EVER! ❤

[@kirikakirikakirika]

The Lamborghini one seemed really fake. She didn't even ask him why he was recording her. She just came home, he already had his phone out, he started interrogating her, and she didn't even act like that was weird.

[@draconicfeline6177]

It's either staged or he's done this before.

[@alyshiakroll15]

I'd definitely want to know. If my husband was stepping out, I'd be gone for good. I'd never be able to trust him again and refuse to live that way. After everything we've been through together there's no way we could come back from that.

[@rogersmith3295]

The guy getting mad at the girl for going out is low key sad. I 100% believe she hid it from him cause he's controlling and doesn't let her go have a girls night out.

[@deszi6936]

Lmao so he don’t let her have girls night out but he let her go to Atlanta to see her aunt. A controlling guy wouldn’t do that . If the roles were switched and the woman had video evidence that he was in a car with another woman . All the women would be trashing the guy in fact the whole controlling would be thrown out the window

[@jamesdsmith1217]

So your telling me that you would be happy to see your partner with another person you don't know getting drunk and partying when they told you that they were going to visit family. AND THEN coming home with thousands of dollars worth of stuff that they couldn't afford? If you think that's acceptable in any way i feel sorry for anyone you are ever involved with.

[@rogersmith3295]

@@jamesdsmith1217 oh stfu you don't know a thing about me.

[@angelichobi__18]

@@jamesdsmith1217would you want your partner get pissed at you whether you tell them or not? How do we know they can’t afford nice things? Their apartment looks hella nice which definitely isn’t cheap if they live in any big cities, so they can most likely afford nice ass items if they can afford a nice ass apartment in a city

[@jamesdsmith1217]

@@angelichobi__18 Has nothing to do with whether they can afford it? The entire point i made is that she went out without him and partied and had other men buy her expensive things and then came home and acted like she did nothing wrong. When he has proof to back it up.

[@jessicajurasinski1267]

Part of my daily routine is watching a Charlotte video ❤. Love watching the tea!! Thanks for making my day. Every day.

[@zeilahobson2050]

The bf who confronted the girl when she came home gives me bad vibes. I bet he freaks out about dumb shit so she feels the need to lie by omission to avoid abuse and harassment when she gets home. He seems controlling. She could def be cheating but idk, something about it feels off

[@jessn.3851]

That's what I thought too. Even if she was doing something suspicious, why be so aggressive? I had a roommate in college. The whole first semester, she was arguing with her boyfriend on the phone almost every night. She went home every weekend to see him. He always wanted to know where she was and what she was doing, and accused her of messing with other guys. She was tired of it but it took her a long time to break up with him.

[@JuanRodriguez-tf7fh]

Sooo Why bring him expensive 👞 shoes?! Not buy him… BRING him shoes. 2 paychecks worth? Nah fam…

[@sleeplessinscotland2578]

Flashbacks to my ex husband in that clip - it was exhausting

[@shiramarie6770]

I feel like I can't make a judgment on that because I've been in the exact opposite where I had somebody swear up and down they weren't cheating on me try to buy me off with presents and kindness and tell me oh well you just don't trust me and I don't tell you because you get mad when in all actuality they were cheating on me every other day.

[@LionessQueen912]

It’s a skit

[@ginnyeacho7570]

I’m in middle school and I must say, it is hilarious when a couple is sharing a locker and they break up, and the girl throws all the boy’s stuff into the hallway😂😂😂

[@jessicamarino7448]

Charlotte, you are my new favorite human. You bring me so much joy and laughter and I thank you for that. I just can't sometimes!!! Keep being you, you're fabulous!!!!

[@ILoveFountainPensCdn]

LOL, posted 6 seconds ago. Safe to say I love your videos. 😂

[@Lacerated1DJ3]

yay LOVE your videos and look forward to them every single day

[@violentvalentine5678]

I had an ex who failed a loyalty test done by a friend, then had the audacity to say “I didn’t cheat. I was talking to this chick as a friend.” Because we all send wiener pics to friends

[@sukritirai3101]

I can relate to some videos... One of my ex (3yr relationship) was sooo abusive that he wouldn't let me go out with my friends... I was 18 at the time and blindly in love.... Didn't even realise that I was in a toxic relationship.... So everytime I wanted to go out with my friends.. I would lie to him and remove him and his friends from my 'close friends'.. that's just because I didn't want him to get angry at me... Cause he used to break up with me as a punishment.... So NO... If you have to lie to go out with your FRIENDS (not cheating)... That doesn't make you the bad person automatically.... You gotta hear stories from both the sides....

[@TheRangersarah]

I caught my husband cheating and calmly packed all his belongings in boxes with labels and set them outside. An older, wiser male friend of mine said, "Well, you're through with him. A woman who rages and throws your shrt has some emotion left. When your woman calmly packs your shrt she is through with you." 😆

[@rheverend]

“If you’re going to cheat at least be good at it.” I totally get that. If they are sloppy about it, it’s worse cuz it means, besides the cheating, they think you’re that much dumber that you can’t figure out something so obvious One more thing. I know they’re rare, but find you a man that’s not on social media. It will help you avoid soooo much heartache. I thank God that my husband and I don’t have to worry about all that.

[@shiramarie6770]

That would require breaking up with the boyfriend she has and I think it would be incredibly petty, in the bad way, and fake to break up with him simply because he has a social media presence.

[@moonyfruit]

@@shiramarie6770 I have a feeling OP wasn't referring to Charlotte, but the lot of us that are generally into men that are single. Unless I'm not understanding you. You can also be a plural word referring to a collection of people. 😶‍🌫

[@shiramarie6770]

@@moonyfruit yeah probably but I've noticed a lot of people still think she is single so I was just saying.

[@kissit012]

Social media can just make cheating harder to find

[@TsukiKageTora]

Showing underwear that isn’t even hers and the guy, to save his own skin, tries to gaslight her and say they were hers. She ain’t stupid for manipulation bro

[@kristanricketts5028]

I love that real ladies stick together when it's like the girl who's boyfriend didn't check she was still there. That should terrify men everywhere, we plot better in teams 😉

[@christenafromnovascotia]

I watch Charlotte's videos when I'm doing my most hated chores (dishes and laundry)....she brings happiness to even the crappiest of chores. Xoxo

[@rhic6309]

I love how the first one had me thinking that she had someone over that got into the guacamole instead and it was really just her. 😂

[@PirateLotusBoutique]

Looking at someone else (in clothes) is not cheating. Looking at someone walking down the beach in barely anything is also NOT cheating. It also does NOT mean you want to or are thinking about cheating. If you are that insecure in your relationship I think there is a whole lot of other issues there than someone looking at someone else.

[@reidsusan4]

Yes I would want to know. Married on and off for 16 years and constantly being accused of cheating. After divorce I find out that at least 4 of my friends slept with my husband. Not to mention dozens of strangers. Needless to say those friends are off my Christmas card list!!

[@elainepavek1011]

I've been married for 28 years and our rule is you can look all you want, just don't touch. YOU'RE DAMN RIGHT I'D WANT TO KNOW IF HE WAS CHEATING!!!🤣 Love your videos Charlotte🥰

[@happyvocal]

7:07 I absolutely died laughing when she threw the tv "You want the TV too???" 🤣🤣🤣

[@michelleblacklock]

Queen tossed that crap right at him ... He probably should have stated that part a little bit differently ... " Where my TV at ?? " .. ( Insert creepy laugh here ) " Oh you want that too ?? " love when she casually started walking towards him and he literally runs for his life haha .....

[@perfect12386]

My Mam found out her ex was cheating in style. She is very accident prone and is always falling over things. Seriously, the woman can fall over air. This time her foot found a pair of knickers on the floor which she somehow managed to trip over. As she was unwrapping them from around her ankle, she discovered that they were several sizes too small for her, and most definitely not her knickers she had just managed to trip over.

[@pokeydex]

Soft cheating is cheating. It’s the fact that he quickly tried to cover up what he was doing and tried to turn it around on her like “you don’t trust me?” 😂

[@avienda771]

The dude who said his friend told him about her cheating, sounds just like my ex who was extremely abusive and jealous of anyone. Same thing happened when I went to visit family. It was horrible!

[@indirafranque4123]

Him: Where my TV at? Her: Oh you want the TV? Here you go 😂

[@Mrmaxsulaiman]

Love seein Charlotte say " hello everyone, welocme back", every morning.

[@reginamachamer821]

I think what's considered "cheating" varies from person to person. Different people are okay/not okay with different things. Personally I don't think looking at pictures online is cheating.. it's the lying about it part that would be a problem for me lol

[@courtneyr6645]

Right. It’s “unfaithfulness” more than cheating outright. Telling lies is being unfaithful to the relationship in the sense that the trust is fractured or completely gone, and one party is not fulfilling their responsibility of being forthright (or feels they can’t) with the other. It’s a problem either way

[@Mewse1203]

The two types of cheaters I hate the most are those who are cheating on a pregnant partner or those who are cheating on the deployed military partner. You have a lot of audacity to be cheating on the woman that is carrying your baby or the person that is putting their life at risk for your freedom

[@eveningstar8581]

Same! Worst of the fcking worst!

[@cryssyyxx]

Most of the people who get deployed are out cheating. Not everyone in the military are saints even though they want everyone to think that. Most join straight out of high school so u have people getting married young and fooling around with people on and off base.

[@eveningstar8581]

@@cryssyyxx that doesn't make it worse or better. It's all terrible

[@cryssyyxx]

@Evening Star you are correct it's terrible all around. But it just kind of rubs me the wrong way when ppl seem to think that the spouse that's not military or stuck at home is always the cheater when most times the people on deployment be doing really messed up things. When I was in, we had a scandal in the unit because the females n males that was deployed was sleeping around n I think one of the ppl involved was a captain so yea it was a mess.

[@eveningstar8581]

@@cryssyyxx I absolutely hear what you're saying. It's all sad. I can't imagine seeing what you saw!

[@boblearns4492]

That woman throwing the telly is my hero! 😂😂😂

[@TheOGPokemonGirl]

"WATCHU' RUNNIN' FOR?" (Aggressively chases after him with TV.) 😂

[@cijmo]

I'd want to know if my partner was cheating but ... maybe in the case of the one at the club - maybe they have an open relationship. She sent her the one message, that's sufficient. The fact that the lady never answered/showed up could mean she didn't care.

[@lifewuzonceezr]

So much of this video today is SO Judgemental! Emphasise the Mental!!