Charisma versus Stage Fright | Deborah Frances-White | TEDxCambridgeUniversity

What is the one decision that separates charisma from stage fright? In this talk, Deborah gives a masterclass on how to convert those nerves into a magnetic stage presence with her characteristic wit, humour, and of course, charisma.
Deborah Frances-White is a stand up comedian who has performed across the world and has had a two year residency in the West End. She is currently recording a series for BBC Radio 4 called Deborah Frances-White Rolls the Dice. As a screenwriter she has received commissions from Fox Searchlight, the BBC and Channel 4. She regularly delivers corporate seminars on charisma, leadership, diversity, and inclusion.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

[@willsketchesmusic]

“Most people spend most of their lives, letting rooms tell them how to feel” oh my god, she hit the nail right on the head there

[@nickprocter7090]

This is one of the most influential training sessions I've ever been in. A phrase that got edited out of this clip that I still remember was "Powerpoint is your backing singers."

[@JonquilCoy]

What an excellent talk! I have seen Deborah Frances-White speak several times now - she does loads on diversity and inclusion and the content and delivery is always exceptional. This is powerful stuff indeed and essential viewing for all presenters.

[@healthfuldave5207]

Remarkable, funny, and great advice! On top of that it was immensely enjoyable. What a gifted speaker and comedian.

[@notefarm2023]

absolutely fantastic. It's perfect for musicians that suffer with stage freight too.

[@mareeslatter8008]

I'm bookmarking this to listen again, so very powerful, thank you for sharing your secrets.

[@bonniedavies6748]

Oof, well delivered, useful and funny. She's bloody brilliant. I'll end up watching this more than once no doubt.

[@mrali4654]

One of the best Ted Talks I've heard!

[@innerpeaceproject]

One of the best presentations I've ever seen and awesome information!

[@johnhalbert3575]

Yeah that's awesome 👍

[@violetaveleva6143]

The best TED tolk ever! So inspiring

[@Marcus-ux3cm]

What an amazing advice. Thank you so much Deborah. Looking forward to put them into practice changing some rooms ❤

[@camerenbirch-ghose6523]

This has helped me so much just in day to day situations, Deborah Francis-White is an excellent speaker and this is incredibly helpful advice!!

[@quentonwillis3846]

By far one of the best presentations I've seen on Ted!

[@gaelledevriendt3560]

Wow, did not stop watching for a second, absolutely amazing!

[@Kimchiboy08]

Amongst the best TEDx talks , thank you for sharing

[@corgipants3840]

I really do appreciate this. She makes this so fun to watch. :)

[@moragmcgill]

Brilliant! She embodies the mind set and practices she suggests to develop charisma: assume the world is a good place; ask yourself how do I want to change the room? How do I want people to feel after listening to me? Neither "lion" nor "gazelle" (great metaphor by the way) but a very human, engaging, entertaining speaker.

[@johnhalbert3575]

😊 I'm very pls to know I'm not the only one that loves😍 👆 this talk but when last did you play it 💖

[@moragmcgill]

@@johnhalbert3575 a year ago I think!

[@nowhouse2008]

There's a certain Victoria Wood-ness about Deborah's delivery. Love it!

[@stuarthough8040]

Brilliant talk, thought provoking content. As Shakespeare said "To be or not to be that is the question."

[@TheRadiantDanceTeacher]

Thank you so much for this well thought out and truly helpful talk! A great blend of humour and insight. I will never forget the messages.

[@jakehahn2457]

Love this.

[@persalba]

Brilliant! Thanks!

[@Lamarr168]

That was GREAT!!!

[@Ryfencja]

WOW, this woman is fantastic, what a great play and golden advice she gave. Thank you, this was an amazing experience :)

[@bdhjbazekduve]

What a great comedian! She is stunning.

[@haSHAH1]

this us GOLD! THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!

[@profdavidevansobentf8903]

TOTALLY, totally stunning! Thanks!

[@jeandistefano5486]

Thank you gor this talk thank u very much. Gina in Lights

[@reuvengershon6625]

Loved that.

[@baoboumusic]

That was bloody amazing. Thank you!

[@oribiaaa]

ugh i love her

[@wadiahal-filfil1598]

Amazing

[@dmisso42]

Brilliant!

[@romantchick]

Deborah! Just wonderful! I enjoyed your talk tremendously, and learned a lot that I will intentionally apply! Congrats1

[@johnhalbert3575]

😊 I'm very pls to know I'm not the only one that loves😍 👆 this talk but when last did you play it 💖

[@cjallison8362]

Excellent talk! I loved it!

[@johnhalbert3575]

😊 I'm very pls to know I'm not the only one that loves😍 👆 this talk but when last did you play it 💖

[@alexbormanbou]

brilliant

[@JojoHoman]

What a talent! Genius!

[@shanavasm5815]

Superb

[@thisisjemimag]

She's awesome!

[@chelbylu87]

Brilliant, and hilarious :)

[@haSHAH1]

I LOVE THIS LION

[@BxNERD]

The woman is brilliant.

[@lazymonsta2007]

so good. :)))))

[@matthewscott1091]

I’m at a bit of a disadvantage when it comes to body language. I have Essential Tremor & it causes my hands especially but also often my neck & head to shake. And guess what agitates the condition? Stress! Also caffeine ha. So say someone starts to get argumentative with me, I’ll literally have to stick my hands in my pockets or behind my back or I’ll be shaking uncontrollably! I’ve been pulled over in routine traffic stops & have to explain to the police officer that I have a medical condition because otherwise they think I’m suspicious & hiding something. I’ve literally been asked by police, “Why’re you so nervous?” And both my parents were & are cops! Lol PS I adore Deborah she’s a comedy genius & queen! 😉

[@matteglossy8372]

I am so excited with the idea of being able to enjoy performing, that I cried at the end of the video. Is it only me?

[@maggiedennis4076]

That's how you do it! :o)

[@Lilly-iv4rk]

Came here for her accent but this actually helps me haha

[@marianjones9106]

Excellent

[@johnhalbert3575]

😊 I'm very pls to know I'm not the only one that loves😍 👆 this talk but when last did you play it 💖

[@ensormagic]

This is possibly the best talk I've heard on this subject. And some of the worst camera work.

[@aliradmard8990]

While the time of discipline has been hard , it is proven Hebrews 12:11 true to me. I have experienced the world and I have found a new level of respect for Jehovah and his laws and his organisation. I have come to a realization that if I love Jehovah then I have to adore and respect his figurative wife and work in harmony with it. I have realized that as Hebrews 12:6 says, Jehovah disciplines those who he loves.This is a major help and confort for me. When I was child in the truth I acted like a child. I deeply regret what I done to myself, to our congregation and to Jehovah and I feel great sorrow for this. With the changed attitude I began to truly change my life in more ways than one. So now I confidently ask to be reinstated into the Christian congregation so I can experience Jehovah's love and forgiveness openly with my brothers and sisters.

[@isabellacarrozza6873]

doing my first stand up set on monday confident with what ive written but scared to hear my voice over a microphone watching this on repeat

[@bung_chow]

how did it go?

[@exibero]

The secret 14:44

[@AndrewSchlussel]

What's with the camera from behind? That is such a weird shot.

[@celesteklose4903]

That’s it! Fear of public speaking is the fear of being eaten. Light bulb moment! 💡

[@aliradmard8990]

“What profit is there in my death, in my going down to the pit? Will the dust praise you? Will it tell of your faithfulness?” (Ps. 30:9) David may have written those words toward the end of his life. But he was determined to stay alive and well as long as possible so that he could praise Jehovah

[@aliradmard8990]

Jehovah Please turn our eyes away from *worthless* things. We ask our prayers through our *high priest* and *king* of God's kingdom . 🙏🙏🙏 Amin

[@matthewscott1091]

Wow, she has lost so much weight today compared to 2015. Good for her. I almost didn’t recognize her when she first walked out here she’s so much thinner in more recent interviews. She’s such a hilarious woman I wish it was easier to find her stand up. 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@kldc2156]

Hiya, I saw her live at the begging of the month. She looked so slender, so beautiful! She was poorly and still delivered 100% x

[@aliradmard8990]

Satan would like us to focus on what those who are travelling on the spacious road are doing, on the good time they seem to be having.

[@aliradmard8990]

On the time of inauguration ceremony the selected king " jesus christ" sits on the throne of Jehovah in the midst of his enemies to proclaim the good news of God's kingdom. This government will bring the sanctification upon Jehovah name and vindicate the holiness of his great name.

[@aliradmard8990]

My God Jehovah! I beg you please! As long as I am alive, use my existence to announce your name to the world. 🙏🙏🙏 Otherwise, the day I fell into the *sleep of death* and turned into the *soil*; At that time, how can my *soil* be capable of bringing *glory, greatness, majesty, and dignity* to your name *Jehovah*?! 🤔🤔🤔 I make my request through the only savior of the world of mankind *Jesus Christ*. Amen

[@PIckledeggilkley]

No offence but I think Deborah speaks too fast at times. Slow down so we can hear you !

[@lookheremyman2546]

I can't take my eyes off of her eyebrows.

[@ryaryano]

So, so irrelevent

[@georgebornyek711]

The delivery is too harsh. On one level - a constant push. First thing she did on stage was fiddle with her hair. The delivery is too aggressive for me. Amen. Hallelujah. Sorry, I cannot watch this.

[@poofiepoofie]

This is sexism in broad daylight. She doesn't know much about male comedians if she honestly believes this. No one would tolerate it if she said the same thing about female comedians.

[@lingwang3714]

She is not Funny at all with those shoulder pads