Chatting with an Expert on Conversation

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Chris Miller is a conversation coach/expert on loneliness who is "passionate about social connection". Chris has a masters in communication and professional experience in public speaking. Andrew and Chris discuss the benefits of social interaction, modern day relationships, loneliness, effective communication, and even no fap. Thank you for watching and please punch that like button.
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[@talktochrismiller]

Thanks for having me on, Andrew! If we could all do our own "chatting with" then I think the world would be a much better place. OTAY OTAY!!

[@natisperspective3406]

I don’t think I’ve fully paid attention and finished a podcast before this one. Great listen!

[@findmyself4980]

Why don’t you jet back to his place and pop out another podcast on this topic?!

[@natisperspective3406]

@@findmyself4980 Otay 👍🏾

[@KN93_]

Dude, you’re fucking killing it recently.

[@SuperSaiyanScandinavian]

This is genuinely one of your best interviews. The topic is very interesting and this guy explains things really well that don't necessarily immediately come to mind.

[@DaneMarshall56377]

I usually approach a conversation by starting with “oOoOo big group of friends!”

[@JW-pu1uk]

Big gulps, huh?

[@citygirljace]

classic but can someone link the video or drop the title, forgot which one it is

[@DaneMarshall56377]

@@citygirljace I’m not even sure either. It’s a line he’s just randomly dropped in a couple prank videos lol

[@IIIlIl]

@@citygirljace it's called Mocking People

[@malalalalalala]

i usually say ot4y ot4y go hard af stomping the yard

[@Othmaun]

This guy is so relaxing when he speaks

[@mitch8973]

What a great episode. You guys tapped into a lot of topics that I think about often, but struggle to articulate in conversation with others. Chris seems like such an interesting dude, and Andrew provides the perfect format for people to speak openly with each other. Looking forward to the future updates!

[@RoryAbcoe]

This was awesome Andrew & Chris! The topic of constant stimulation/distraction is a huge one, I see it cropping up more and more in conversation

[@squid3piece]

I really enjoyed this conversation. I found what Chris said about feeling awkward embarrassed or weird when trying to talk to people relatable

[@deathstr1ker6666]

my go-to conversation stater is "Check out these sick moves" & give them a little otay otay

[@widen_inhorizons]

Oh shit this is basically a podcast

[@steeLhh]

I could easily watch/listen to you two talk for another hour, this was really great.

[@bsnf-5]

He gives me Noam Chomsky vibes. He is definitely great in comunication, has all the theory down, and he seems to keep it real. Good looking, healthy and inspiring guy. Thanks for sharing!

[@SttudDioPierrot]

Dont ask if they wanna pop in a blu ray, explain WHY they should pop in the blu ray

[@SilverLumberjack]

Guest was such a chill dude. I enjoyed listening to you guys chat it up.

[@Hayden-bq5gx]

This is such a valuable conversation. Thanks.

[@jonmilly]

FIRST, DO THE OOGIE WOOGIE DANCE

[@bradford_shaun_murray]

17:39 🌪️

[@justinducusin2528]

loved this Chatting With👍 I was so intrigued with everything the dude had to say, super informative

[@Luckyshawn7]

Lets go!! I love this video - Chris is an expert indeed!

[@ahmedtb051]

i was in lonelness mode for while, but i found lately that it is very easily to exit it. just find a way any way to start conversation, with any body even in manilpuative way. anywhere try to start conversations and that is it. you will open subjects to continue conversations and you will get acuantances everywhere...

[@pacoTHE1ANDONLY]

love both of these people!! great convo

[@offday3523]

really enjoyed this, thanks Andrew :)

[@fraser1237]

environment is the key! go to places where are people, social places.

[@wusisniper]

This is a great one Andrew!

[@zVortex-]

What a chatting with! Loved every minute of this.

[@JackSather]

dude the referee shirt debate show is actually really great

[@saslumpff]

Hey, I think you should put your stuff on Spotify or similar if you can. I liked a lot of your early content from college days. Keep this up and use other platforms. I think you'll do quite well. Best of luck to you, Steve

[@datura_preworkout]

daddy hair lookin WAVY

[@eb282]

Here’s an idea: chatting with AI. Sometimes the responses i get from Chat-GPT and Gemini are interesting and uncanny. Could be interesting

[@swagdonor2357]

I’m so glad Andrew is doing these again, kinda wish he could do them in his house sgain

[@bigspicydad8970]

The message i took was that if your spending the whole conversation thinking about your anxieties or any “noise”, you’re not giving the conversation your full attention. If you spent all that time thinking about what the person is saying you would find better things to say

[@matthewmcculloch9320]

LAHWF i really love you and your work, i hope for the absolute best for you and your loved ones Otay otay!

[@ZeeshanAli-dp2ld]

well good to see another expert i am expert in drinking water. loved to be on the show

[@bradg2400]

Thanks for this one. Will check out more of this guy’s stuff

[@bencr5062]

"What should I ask you?" Never change Andrew

[@westphillyscotty]

This rules. Thank you so much for posting :)

[@HomeboyEdwin]

This was a great listen!

[@gmoney12stacks]

dude, what a great video!

[@domjoseph2007]

Let’s go bro these chatting withs always make me click because they are average people 😊otay otay

[@alexbielovich]

I am SO much more conversational and outgoing after coffee (since I only have 1-2 cups/week). Exercise helps to an extent, but usually I feel burnt out from that.

[@sug15]

This was a really good one!

[@kevinfager.]

I started watching this, became curious about the skull sized kingdom quote. Looked up David Foster Wallace. A “suddenly vocal cockatiel” is a character in one of his books and then wrote a not bad short story taking that a starting point. I love my morning coffee high brain activity times.

[@stev5293]

Awesome episode

[@DJ-ov2it]

what is PMO?

[@GoatTeriyaki]

Your hair looks dope Andrew 👌

[@red2deuce2]

great vid!

[@kossboss]

What a wholesome ass interview

[@callum7081]

The best way to talk better in conversations is to approach a group of strangers going “haha what are you guys talking about?”

[@alechats5184]

amazing video

[@JeekLife]

Stomping the yard - the GOAT

[@NinetyFourBaby]

Great video

[@KillTheLamb1]

I think what affects me the most is the bad experiences I had rather than the good ones. Like trying to start a conversation with a stranger and just being completely ignored. I can't get that out of my head and I don't want that to happen again ever.

[@olfrud]

maybe reflect on what actually was so bad about it? you got your ego bruised a little bit, but why is this so traumatic for you? I once had to sing in front of a couple of 14 year old teenagers as an adult (solo) and they started laughing at me. That was also really bad, but I just got over it lol

[@seansalo5117]

​@@olfrud That's exactly it. The actual thing wasn't that bad - a bit awkward and embarrassing in the moment, but that emotion passes quickly. How we respond to and hang on to those negative feelings is the thing that we have the power to change. It starts with reframing - tell ourselves, in the face of that pain of embarrassment, that the experience wasn't painful at all, and was an exciting opportunity to challenge ourselves. Obviously this will feel patently untrue the first time or the first ten times, but after enough exposure, we start to believe and internalize this new message and start to replace our old truth (awkward) with our new one. The second part is just exposure therapy. Do this enough times and those experiences will cease being very painful or difficult, and may even turn into things we look forward to. I love making an ass of myself in front of people. It's good practice showing myself that I will continue to survive embarrassment, and I find that most people live vicariously through me, and my vulnerability makes them more comfortable and willing to be vulnerable themselves, so it actually encourages and catalyzes new relationships.

[@tannercarley]

Yeah, I hate that too. Don’t let that hold you back though. Keep trying.

[@willd6215]

Interview an IFS therapist. (Internal family systems)

[@tcuisix]

How do you go out and talk to people?

[@mokkaveli]

I'm only 15 minutes in but it seems like this guy is more knowledgeable about Socialising than 'Conversation'

[@chrisinthecar5689]

Haven’t finished the video yet, commenting for the algo

[@FaunoDufaux]

I would have liked to hear how to deal with people who are passive aggressive or insulting but you want to continue the conversation because they are generally nice.

[@milee105]

chatting with elon musk when?

[@juanduran4307]

Andrew! You need to get Graham Stephan! you podcast with him on his channel was hilarious!

[@rondorocket4604]

Very nice 👍

[@SergieRachmaninoff]

74/80 on the UCLA scale. Nearly full marks! 🥳

[@AdamEgret]

☝️🤓 Actually. AAA batteries are actually smaller than AA. I better get some extra marks for pointing this out.

[@NoYoutubeName1]

Please do a Chatting With AS Mr Personality (but surprise your guest.. that way I guess it starts as a prank too.. 3-in-1 baby!)

[@SuperJcoleFan]

never knew you moved to Nashville, love me some nashville hot chicken

[@wkurwwkurwoski1307]

felt like 15 minutes

[@thefirstavenger14]

yeah

[@Brocode2042]

Andrew hales is the GOAT

[@josieschroder7568]

Andrew is so bad at talking to people and yet he has this show lol

[@Gumbo_Calm]

I miss the production value of the in person couch chatting with

[@nadanmarenkovic3740]

I'm really tired of those self proclaimed experts

[@cvbncvbncvbn2]

liking this video so you pay rent!

[@MartyD]

his voice puts me to sleep tho 😅😢😂

[@Kerupt]

algorhythm👍

[@40yearoldvirgil15]

I wonder if chris ever experiences awkward silences? 😂 because i hate those.

[@seltzerferaly2701]

😊😊😊😊

[@rionizeman]

SO SHREK WAS RIGHT!!??

[@mikeystir3333]

this is so meta

[@brendanhannum5904]

Nice ass episode

[@thomasyaxley2741]

This started well but fell off pretty hard towards the second half

[@lifeliked]

That is a good haircut. I just want to comb down the sides a little bit and it would be perfect.

[@PrinceBilliamTheFourth]

Bro u needa bring on a deodorant expert for Chris

[@thosetimes6625]

Chat with the Muslim Lantern.

[@etuc123]

So you are an conversation expert? Name every conversation then

[@BlitzEvade]

He’s playing you

[@E.Doza_M.D.]

Ot4y

[@TheGreatestOfAllLostArts]

Great talk, but I kinda lost my credibility in him when he said "I go to church every Sunday". It's like, when you're that gullible, you are also more likely to be less critical about other things. Which is kinda scary when he calls himself an "expert" or "mentor" in something. Good chatting with though

[@thatsriiiiight4170]

you should be critical about your worldview as you are of his

[@TheGreatestOfAllLostArts]

@@thatsriiiiight4170 Who said I wasn't

[@thatsriiiiight4170]

@@TheGreatestOfAllLostArts maybe you are the one whos gullible :)

[@TheGreatestOfAllLostArts]

@@thatsriiiiight4170 Who said duped? Keep going. I see you trying hard here haha

[@thatsriiiiight4170]

@@TheGreatestOfAllLostArts I didnt say duped?

[@NiblaTheCosmic]

snooze fest...

[@Bob-kt6bi]

go back to amazon

[@terryjones3072]

ooo chat with me i’m an accountant