Cheating Ex Wife Destroys Her Life. #redditrelationship #reddit #redditupdate
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@crowfather02497 ай бұрын
This story is confusing. So the guy literally acknowledges that she's cheating, yet he still just carries on with her while she's still seeing the other dude. What is up with these dudes in these stories?
@nr1fan4all7 ай бұрын
kids, he has kids and from the looks of it in the middle of the updates he kind of decided to leave them as well, the retire abroad thing once his youngest get to collage, sounds like the tipical american mentality of you are now 18 so you are an adult not saying he will change numbers and disappear but distancing himself as far away as possible from his kids and in the future his kids families... also, the thai GF thing, so cliche, such a red flag, man is ready to get heart broken again
@SB04187 ай бұрын
I’m starting to believe that a lot of these guys have a secret cuck fetish ngl. No sane individual would stay with someone like that. He would probably use the excuse of “oh well it’s for the kids”. Honestly a bs excuse, I’d rather have a woman like that, not be influencing my kids 😂. She can fuck off out of the equation lmao. She is lying to them which can trickle down to their way of going about things in life, basically implying lying all the time is okay. And you can’t even class someone like her who does those things to her own kids a mother, so he’s essentially raising them on his own even if he stays with her. Edit: tbf, custody is a thing, so if she took them then he wouldn’t be able to raise them the right way. So staying means he can be with them. That might be a reason but I still believe it’s called being a cowardly cuck.
@mauberni7 ай бұрын
@@nr1fan4all Yeah, Thai girlfriend sounds like a scam, and considering he said nothing in the last updates it probably didn't pan out. Also I know how he feels but if she doesn't have a job isn't he gonna have to pay more child support and shit? He should probably tell her about the other job.
@drjonesey57 ай бұрын
Not sure what you mean "What's up with these dudes" These are normal responses in bad relationships most of the time. I got stories myself. Never been cheating on but went through stuff, got stories from friends, families and associates too. I dated a girl who was in an 8 year abusive relationship. Why'd she stay? he also cheated on her. I think that's worst than this, yet that's common for many women. They didn't even have kids together. And matter of fact, she left me, no issues in the relationship at all, we were friends for 3 years to get back with him and told me I deserved better than her. My mother stayed with my dad for 14 years and they fought each other for like 12 of the 14 years. My dad refused to work, he got on crack, he was a petty thief in and out of jail for theft. My mom wanted to keep a 2 parent household but he refused to change and do right so she kicked him out, but it took 14 years, long time. He was physically abusive but she didn't just allow it, she hit him back, she cut him, she broke his nose once with a punch. I've heard of and know of way more dysfunctional relationships than healthy good ones. For me, it took 4 gf's, and like 8 dates until I found my wife and I didn't marry her in hopes she was good, I told her Day 1 what I wanted, boundaries and all that and she accepted them and still solid 7 years later. I got family going through far worst than this right now. Both men and women do dumb things and don't do what they should when they are supposed to with the people they date. Many women I dated in the past I would not have dated at all with my mindset now. Only my wife passes the test in full of what I should have went for.
@crowfather02497 ай бұрын
@@drjonesey5 Yeah, sorry to say dude, but that's not normal at all. Literally praying for a cheater to love and respect you WHILE they're in the process of cheating? That's not normal behavior.
@Jinmeiko7 ай бұрын
Damn even 19 years ain’t enough to escape the cheats 😂
@AleV696927 ай бұрын
There's one case of an Italian man who found out his wife cheated at the age of 90. Love can hurt bro
@ItsMe-lq5ns7 ай бұрын
@AleV69692 wow 😳. She was probably a thot before they married and cheated throughout the marriage. 90 years old and still getting them dusty cheeks clapped?! Wow lmao
@Jinmeiko7 ай бұрын
@@AleV69692 wooow that’s just….
@stopcensoringmen50447 ай бұрын
"so extra butter it is then" That was cold 🥶❄🥶❄
@Daimah7 ай бұрын
16:44 "the children 13 meters, 14 meters..." Wow, those are some big children... About 42 and 45 feet😂
@HippieInHeart6 ай бұрын
Yeah, I'm pretty sure it's some sort of text-to-speech AI thing that's doing the reading and that's why such weird things often come up in their videos. I'm still enjoying the stories though, despite the obviously very low-effort production. I guess the vids are kinda like fast food. It's cheap and everyone knows that absolutely not a single high-quality ingredient was ever used, but it's still nice to eat occasionally. ^_^
@Jerseybytes24 ай бұрын
lol, I had to pause the video cause I actually said the same thing out loud when I heard it.
@ladyweasellou33674 ай бұрын
Reminds me of when the GPS maps and devices started out... SR = State Road... Nope! Turn Left on: "in 100 yds turn Left on to SR Cattail Rd" Not to the GPS: "In 100 years turn Left on Senior Cattail Read" 🤦🏼♀️
@Jerseybytes24 ай бұрын
@@ladyweasellou3367 My husband had what has to be a drunk GPS in his car. out of all the stupid directions it kept giving us the funniest was when we had to go to the VA. told us to, make a right turn to the street, followed by 2 more right turns. at that point we were back to our house. THEN make a left turn and continue. Another time we were on route 80 going west. GPS told us to make a bunch of turns, go into small roads. 1 hour into this we bumped into a local cemetery. at that point we were told to, "in 1 mile make a legal U-turn". after that it sent us to the same stupid highway we had been in. I wanted to grab a baseball bat and break the stupid GPS. but hubby said if I did that I'd break the radio too
@realxeltos3 ай бұрын
Came here to say this.
@LoudAngryJerk7 ай бұрын
It's worth noting that yes, liars will keep things vague when confronted, but they have also generated lies with startling specificity in the moment. So the fact that they can't remember is not really reliable
@Shmeages7 ай бұрын
19 years and OP wanted to try and save the marriage crazy how forgiving people are.
@nicky-su4uo7 ай бұрын
It's almost like this man had a f****** family with this woman and she was genuinely in love with him at one point in time so yeah I could definitely imagine that he would want to try to salvage that
@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona7 ай бұрын
Its kinda likes subconscious sunk cost fallacy
@Mizuladin6 күн бұрын
@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmona Nothing subconscious about it. o.0
@crimecartelshorts7 ай бұрын
I can't imagine the feeling of betrayal after all these years.. If you're unhappy with the relationship you're in just leave!
@Theyreallyfooledyou7 ай бұрын
I'm frustrated and confused. He jumped all over the place telling this story. What about a 23 yo son sharing as roomies? What happened the girl on tinder?
@madisondean1074Ай бұрын
The way the autistic kid figured out their mom was lying just goes to prove the people who have mental health issues aren't stupid. They sometimes even pick up on other things that most people tend to ignore. I love this kid already. I can even relate because I myself have Autism. Also the dad: *casually plays Gangsta's Paradise in the background*
@jestosebno6667 ай бұрын
This guy is so weak, that it hurts..
@exemplary127 ай бұрын
"Cheating ex wife destroys her life" This shit rhyms
@SteveMichael4 ай бұрын
Did anyone else wonder why their children are so tall. I mean two boys, one is 13 METERS tall and the other is 14 METERS tall! My god that family must be giants!
@stopcensoringmen50447 ай бұрын
It's like these women have a book of excuses they all pass around.
@Osamathegamer7 ай бұрын
Not really, it's just the slop that comes naturally to anyone whose cheating man or woman.
@albertszilveszter67187 ай бұрын
@@Osamathegamerstatistically, men cheat more than women(20% and 13%) but on reddit, 10/1 men cheats and almost confesses instantly, and yet women use the book of excuses to its fullest
@mr-shadi7 ай бұрын
from the style of writing and the decisions made i honestly think this man is quite intelligent and the fact that i actually learned something from this story is very intriguing. If there are any more stories like this, that are informative and the advice i would definitely watch them. They give insight on relationships and also some fun facts, for example in this story there were police interrogation tactics. Some things were confusing sure but i think he just left out a couple of keyish facts or moments.
@dre34257 ай бұрын
Karma is real and a bitch when it comes knocking.
@blaqstar7 ай бұрын
every cheaters got the same behaviour. they think they're different but they all follow the same script. one thing i learned is never, not once do you all considering the big R. just start the ball rolling, gray rocking to oblivion, just be indifferent. all of it is for the sake of you sanity, never ask the why, who, when, where none of it matter. when all is done, get a long vacation and just KEEP MOVING FORWARD
@austinflores21397 ай бұрын
The big R?
@blaqstar7 ай бұрын
@@austinflores2139 reconciliation
@nomirakuru9 күн бұрын
@@austinflores2139 Probably reconciliation
@jerfle77877 ай бұрын
The different work shifts causes distancing. No relationship can survive that.
@sababaratashvili86297 ай бұрын
Why do these western dudes always blame themselves...it's like nobody teaches them to have some expectations from a woman and having self-respect.
@RepellentJeff7 ай бұрын
Well, let’s see…Decades of society all but stating outright that men’s emotions and feelings are meaningless. That’s one reason. The current wave of feminism constantly jamming the narrative of “women are never at fault and all men are evil, and if you’re a man, all the problems of the world are _your_ fault” down everyone’s throats. That’s another one. I could go on, but that’s the gist of it.
@igotmyapplejuice70947 ай бұрын
We don't, alot of us are raised in single parent households, one of the first lessons we have becoming men is that "men are evil so don't become another burden". Edit: spelling
@OfChoiceАй бұрын
a Thai girl is his new girl, hilarious how this guy avoids the fire to end up in the frying pan
@fabianafagundezmuniz81197 ай бұрын
I really like the fact that this story is human and sad, I really understand OP, having anger issues isn't easy specially when you realize you are hurting people you love. I think OP needs to gain self confidence again and move on, that's the right thing to do. We will never know why she decided to cheat instead of guetting a divorce, but OP is rught, neither of them tried it knowing their marriage was unhappy lr tried to work on the relationship, anyways, her lies not only hurtwd OP but her kids and they are old enough to understand how bad the situation is, I hope they can manage to have a healthy co-parent relationship for the kids.
@pizza80507 ай бұрын
Nope i hope the kids disown her. She’s not worthy of being their mother.
@needs_more_dakka57747 ай бұрын
Behold l, my child *a 14 meter behemoth comes forth*
@juanvilas53418 күн бұрын
HAH! My kids are 21 meters and 20 meters.
@Vikashar7 ай бұрын
16:42 Dude's got some tall offspring
@soloknife52417 ай бұрын
Dude is an idiot for still hoping love from a cheater
@sam-ey7qk2 ай бұрын
I don't condone cheating but he openly admits that he has walked out on her and the kids multiple times
@NemNess1125Ай бұрын
This story just made me imagine one of those “self help” vids, breaking the fourth wall for a lengthy explanation
@kilianfirebolt7 ай бұрын
his 13 meters and 14 meters children are really tall
@RikkityАй бұрын
No. G-d did answer. She just didn't comply. Then G-d stacked the odds in your favor.
@thelittlelady16797 ай бұрын
That’s some tall children. 15 meters!
@drjonesey57 ай бұрын
1-Nothing wrong with building since young with someone and that's ideal, issue is, when young, since parents are not teaching us, vetting a partner is much harder at 17-18 than 25-30 years old for example. Both men and women go into adulthood failing to vet, screen, sit, wait, watch, place boundaries and see if the person violates them. Example: "Wife been hanging out a lot with the girls often coming home late or not at all" And there's no boundary on that? you just let her do it? One time is enough for a talk. Wives are quick to tell their men they need time and he's hanging with the boys a little too much, yet Men, the leaders of the relationship, say nothing UNTIL a major issue occurs. No no, before marriage, while dating, let her know the boundaries involved with that and see if she accepts it, if she does not, move on to next woman. I personally never dated late night, party girls, drunks, and people too invested in friends. Having friends is fine, but there's a no male friends boundary in my dating and there will be no late night or overnight business and partying. And if the friends are bad influences, well, it's obvious she's either no longer going out with them, or getting dumped well before marriage is a thing. Simple. OP says he's not highly concerned after multiple late night outings, some overnight drunk spree's where she stayed with friends until morning and she's acting out of character. At this point, Op is dumb and he's 40+, ridiculous. "My brain works a bit different" Nah judging by this story and others I've heard online and in real life, it's the typical male brain not yet ready to demand things and establish rules for women you date. 2-Having an anger issue is not the same as being abusive. Also also, sometimes people call "Anger issues" that because they don't like the response of a partner who does not tolerate bs. Many times people have a right to be upset and the other person thinks they have a right to tailor how upset or how it's expressed in full. Walking out on her and the kids before is wrong, yes, but as OP said, he's been making progress and the both of you took vows to work through issues for better OR worst, not just for better, so both of them need to stop being bad spouses here, Op is just way less wrong because OP didn't cheat. 3-Don't ever use God as an excuse for your wrong doing. God gave us free will, Op ex wife cannot be forced to love OP and care. OP ex wife would have to care herself and maybe wish to get things right too even though she was committing adultery, something that use to be illegal and in the days of Biblical times you'd get capital punishment for. Also also, God would not give you another woman to fool around with while you're still married folks. God is not pro divorce, again, OP and ex wife sat there and promised to not leave each other till death to each other and God, and goofball Op thinks it's ok to go Tinder search and kiss another woman just because he's hurting while still with his wife. Work on yourself and be the best man you can be and grow from there and then choose the best woman to marry that you vetted. She must share your core values, MUST.
@SketchbookGuitar2 ай бұрын
13~14 meters kids. Man the kids are tall
@danacarter914729 күн бұрын
My heart seriously hurts for OP's kids, especially, the oldest; I predict that when the oldest son hits 16, he'll disappear on his mother and her boyfriend/AP to couch-surf at friends' houses, next, at 18, he'll stay with a girl who's being used as a free babysitter for her younger siblings from different fathers, have a kid with her, and end up caring for their kid alone, after his baby mama self-deletes, then, move with his kid to another state to keep her away from his mother and her AP, stay temporarily with roommates, find a cheaper apartment in a safe neighborhood, take online college courses to pursue a career in medical billing/coding, work one or two jobs to provide for his one-parent household, rely on neighbors as his support system, because he won't have OP or other relatives in his new state to help out; all the oldest son and his kid will have is each other, and instead of ever making plans to find new love, just like OP's doing, he'll need to stay away from the dating scene, concentrate on raising his kid, and creating a stable home environment for her, as a single father.⚠️
@user-de3yb5vu6m2 ай бұрын
I keep saying these guys in these stories are getting more and more spineless.
@Killahbee1687 ай бұрын
I really have no sympathy for both parties but but she shot herself in the foot moving a marry man in her house and secondly doesn't anybody ever understand sleeping with married people will end badly
@VibesMentally7 ай бұрын
i watch so many of these that the music messes me up
@lifeisamess81007 ай бұрын
Tellates are u ok? Lately u are not uploading regularly as u used to, U good my guy? Feel free to share😊
@crowfather02497 ай бұрын
? He just uploaded 3 videos yesterday like he does everyday.
@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibus7 ай бұрын
stop gaslighting
@lifeisamess81007 ай бұрын
@@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibus Who? Me?
@lifeisamess81007 ай бұрын
@@crowfather0249He used to upload more frequently
@zomilkyz59637 ай бұрын
@@Omaygot_Yugonmakmibusgaslighting isn't real, you're just crazy!!!!!!!!!
@k.a.89Ай бұрын
Let's get something straight. Unless you're cheating, or forcing somebody to stay in a relationship with you, you are never asking to be cheated on. Because they can leave anytime they want. They don't have to sneak around behind your back. And if they don't want to leave, then they have to make a choice.
@skeetskeet70417 ай бұрын
Yeah no at this point there really isn’t much sympathy to spare since he acknowledges he’s walked out on all of them and has severe anger issues as well and while he’s getting better, it’s too late for a lot of people after ALL that. His wife is also really pretty shitty for cheating flagrantly and being manipulative instead of leaving when she got the chance to but she stooped. Kids are the only victims here
@jdavis76135 ай бұрын
When does it say severe anger issues? Pushed to cheat? Anger issues after finding out your partner cheating? Understandable. You can't be pushed to cheat; ask for a divorce. Left the home. Went to a hotel or family member or friends house. Thats what you do when you don't want to fight or go to a bar.
@hottanqueray7 ай бұрын
I know these things happen for real in real life but this does not even feel like a real story. It feels like an excerpt from a Danielle Steele novel.
@Chuckakhan4 ай бұрын
Ngl OP seems like a passport bro which is absolutely horrific.
@saulohm9114 ай бұрын
You’re a fooI
@blast_processing65777 ай бұрын
...13 meters, 14 meters... 😂
@KaitenKenbu7 ай бұрын
"She's" a diesel mechanic? This is how you know it's a fake story.
@graemebass23916 ай бұрын
Do people not realize that most texting/messaging apps have a trash that no one thinks to empty?
@menosscott4 ай бұрын
Wait.. Wasn't he moving in with this 23yo son after the divorce? And that they have an adult daughter? And a highly functioning autistic child? And now 12m and 13m and married for 19 years? I'm lost
@danieldehoop61887 ай бұрын
ik as soon as he started rambling about the cop and how that related its a fake story
@JBrandonMercer1237 ай бұрын
Anybody else watch these videos for the sick gameplay?
@moocow4u27 ай бұрын
Daaaaaaang you have some tall kids. 13 meters and 14 meters.
@juanhaines72957 ай бұрын
Good day to everyone
@wiresculptor59517 ай бұрын
Anger issues?? Um no! Cheating is cheating is cheating and cheating is for sub human garbage😂
@moustafaabousalem14117 ай бұрын
This feels fake. The reason I think this is because not a lot of guys and girls who have been cheated on would write with emotion and say how badly they hurt them and how much it hurts. This feels too detailed and too by the number to feel real. It could be real but most of the time if someone goes way into details about something and explain every little thing, it is most likely fail. That's also a good way to catch liars. They would usually go into too many details and explain every little thing to make theirs story believable. But hey it could be real
@Top-G357 ай бұрын
He is on the spectrum it’s highly likely it’s real
@nitebreak7 ай бұрын
@@Top-G35i’m also autistic and have forgave people who have betrayed me like tons of times. We get attached
@Ohsnhapitsdenus6 ай бұрын
It cuts off at the end
@charliegone16526 ай бұрын
Stop believing in the disney romantic garbage. That will get you nowhere but more heartache. If he does decide to get into another relationship, he should do his due diligence and get to know his partner better, get to know their parents, what she is like in public, her credit history, if she has kids (I don't suggest you get with a woman with kids..but whatever) how is she with them, with their father, etc..too many people nowadays especially men jump into marriage and get screwed over by women who just marry for superficial reasons.
@_orangutan7 ай бұрын
This is not real but a drama with too many cliches. Do people really gobble this story up?
@lemonz08807 ай бұрын
exactly all that yapping
@Alwindar17 ай бұрын
part 2 please
@Kalaforlife77 ай бұрын
13 meters, 14 meters💀
@samw6930Ай бұрын
Op is a great simp 😂😂
@BeholdMyStrength7 ай бұрын
"I've constantly walked out on her and the kids". I'm presently at 9:50 in the video. Ya'know. No excuse to his wife for cheating, but that raises a BIG ass red flag for me. Walk out on her if she's pulling some nonsense sure. But to walk out on your children? That's pretty messed up dude. If something comes to light later in the video that clarifies this in an understandable way, I'll edit and update this comment, but as it stands now, that's a pretty shitty thing to do to the children. Feel sorry for them.
@davidmccollum4477 ай бұрын
God answered you hoss, it was the best answer but not the one you wanted 😊
@ladyweasellou33674 ай бұрын
I'll be honest.... ...I'm incredibly curious what this woman looks like, him too kinda. I also work in a male dominated environment. I'm the Medical Officer for multiple teams (12 ppl per team working in pairs) specializing in Rough Terrain/inhospitable climate Search and Rescue/Recovery and Rapid Disaster Response, occasionally we help Wildland Fire or as well. I'm the only female working in the field (in any capacity outside of answering phones and filling) in the entire agency. I'm also the youngest person on those teams by a pretty decent range. While i do have a preference for older men (my husband and i have a significant age difference but happily married for a long time now) i could never imagine having an affair with any of them. These men have been mentors, uncles, to me for a long while now. They all get along with my husband and father both. It always grossed me out when women have affairs with much younger men.... Seriously?! Who wants a bit when you can have a man!? WTF ladies?!
@susiefarah7 ай бұрын
why are so many of the videos you make about cheating wives?
@mattiac91677 ай бұрын
Reddit is owned by man l, and maiby even hes viewers
@eskil53067 ай бұрын
cuz most consumers of youtube videos are men. as women usually stick to tiktok. and based on what sells(presumably the viewer count telltales has) i presume the stats are 97% male to 3% female ratio
@Telltales.7 ай бұрын
Directly copy pasted here - Female 22.6% Male 75.6% User-specified 1.8%
@Telltales.7 ай бұрын
Not necessarily i do all the cheating stories but most are from men as far as i can find!
@Ueiwbwowheoeho7 ай бұрын
Men relate more to men.
@ChristinaQueenHeart6 ай бұрын
Her cheating is bad but we are not going to pass over him saying he has anger issues and has left her and the kids multiple times. I have a feeling he wasn't a great husband for a long time and she got pushed to cheat. Doesn't make it right but it does add clarity to the scenario. Him going to Thailand likely won't end well either. Passport bro vibes. If he thinks his wife was using him, I'm interested to see what Ms. Thailand expects of him financially. Going to be interestinnnnng.
@ebiitek5 ай бұрын
Not full clarity but it has some sense to it. Yes it isn’t right and it definitely isn’t justified because there must be reasons he’s walked out on her, she could be triggering him and not trying to communicate about any solutions. Idk
@TheGamingShogun4 ай бұрын
cheating is never the answer no matter what. its a disgusting act and immoral in every way possible. at that point get a divorce but cheating is never justified
@JannyPwns7 ай бұрын
Protip: skip this one.
@M1ch43l337 ай бұрын
Lil bro is coping so hard 😅
@lemonz08807 ай бұрын
all that yapping.
@travisbeale14247 ай бұрын
There is no way she destroyed her life...as a matter of fact the title is a sham
@Vinn_Tree7 ай бұрын
Sound like jaka pinkett she had an entanglement.
@dexdarapper42077 ай бұрын
This story went on way too long. He should have been left
@decazuliekajuen7579Ай бұрын
This is what happens when the OP is lazy to write. Instead the narrator reading it as "male", it wss read as "meters". 🤦🤦🤦
@noodlecompany81237 ай бұрын
The moral of the story is for all of you young man out there. There is not a woman on this planet worth taking this risk for. I'm not some incel that hates women. I am an older man with lots of experience with women, I've been the betrayer, the betrayed and the other man a number of times what I say comes from experience and observation. NEVER give a woman all of your love or trust NEVER prioritize her happiness or desires over your own and NEVER NEVER NEVER ALLOW HER TO MOVE IN AND NEVER NEVER NEVER GET MARRIED . This is not red pill s***, this is an experienced man that don't want to see younger man continue to make this mistake. Trust me it's not worth it
@Seypenni7 ай бұрын
I am suddenly more grateful to the OPs that try to be balanced. This guy was one red flag after another. Anger issues. Walked out on family. Could have told Ex about a job. He has very little care for his kids. They were living with her in the house, and now she's losing that. On top of the entire marriage imploding, their world is going to get so fucked up over and over. If you hate your Ex, that's reasonable. You still should act like a parent and make sure that their situation is okay. The whole thing comes off as entitled and gross af. Going to Thailand for a month to meet a girl. Cheating is never acceptable, but this guy sounds like a piece of work. They were already on the rocks too.
@Mike.Erman.Trout.7 ай бұрын
Bro thinks he's writing a movie
@putent96237 ай бұрын
😞
@J.smith19901Ай бұрын
It’s always when women start working.
@morijin844322 күн бұрын
Eww brother eww
@allieisms2 ай бұрын
Yo I was totally with this dude and his sweet, satisfying restart, but at the end when he found out about ex’s breast lumps and says SHE DESERVES IT FOR LETTING SOMEONE ELSE FONDLE THEM. like bro the actual fuck????