Cherry Tomato Rich (A word on haters, vision and sparkle) | VLOG

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[@iwanttobelieve5970]

You already know we need a T-shirt and stickers with "I'm Tomato Rich" on it now.

[@meganmackenzie5993]

And I will wear it everyday in August, as that is how long I wait for my riches to blush.

[@chrissy9876]

CAN WE PLEASE!!

[@mochaKB]

I would buy one.

[@pixlmemory8919]

yeah and *i'll keep on sparkling* one too lol

[@helenahudon7527]

I Love that!! :)

[@luckydarcy6818]

Jess you inspired this 61 year old grandmother to get out of a rocking chair and do an amazing garden. I check KZbin every day for your videos. Don’t let anyone tear you down. I’m eating fresh food everyday because of you. I am looking forward to watching your journey to South Carolina.

[@sandraolsen8353]

As a fulltime lifetime successfull artist, I've learned a lot of sayings and stories that inspired my creativity... some of my favorites... "A critic is like a man who knows 100 ways to make love to a woman but never had a girlfriend!" "Think big or go home!" and "It only takes a little bit more to go first class"! and finally, "Follow your BLISS and doors unopened to others will be opened to you!". Joseph Campbell. Creativity in any endeavor is a gift from the angels and Jess is exemplary with her visions and a lighted 4th of July sparkler for sure!!! Without a vision the people perish. Thank you Jess for your incredible courage of expression ! It helped me in so many valuable ways. As Winston Churchill said at an Oxford Graduation, "NEVER, NEVER, NEVER GIVE UP!" It was his entire speech to the graduation class after he stood up and looked out at the graduation class silent for several minutes! ...Sweet!

[@gracebe235]

64 here…..and she’s done the same for me! Her helpful tips have made gardening less daunting for me.

[@susanpohl1122]

66 here, growing carrots & beets & peas and 9 kinds of tomatoes for the first time, loving every minute of it! I so look forward to your videos!

[@jenniferandrews6487]

Everything about this thread warms my heart! You ladies ROCK 🤘🏻

[@SuperFlaGal]

Me too! Just love her spirit.

[@petpawteek8776]

One of the saddest things I’ve ever heard… I liked you better when you were poor. Why we want to keep the people that we love downtrodden is beyond me. You sparkle on girl!

[@sandijammes7761]

@ Pet Pawteek - just a guess, just my theory... it comes from jealousy, insecurity & a total lack of vision for their own lives... which I think is the saddest possibility of all. Hard to picture a person's life without the ability to see God's plan for them, which is caused by a severe lack of faith. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@BeautifulUnschoolLife]

I was initially drawn to Roots and Refuge because I liked how they made do with what they had, and didn't let being poor keep them from building what they needed. I will admit, as they get more and more nice stuff, I don't get as many useful ideas, but there are plenty of channels for that. Some people just don't know how to think before they speak, I guess.

[@LODesigns]

@@BeautifulUnschoolLife you could also go back and watch her older videos.... Her story is a journey, Jessica flows through life with God's purpose. She isn't going to stay the same because then SHE wouldnt be growing.

[@lady00303]

@@BeautifulUnschoolLife I recommend Bealtaine Cottage on KZbin, run by a lady in Ireland. She's a frugal gardener and has many interesting ideas on growing a garden on a low budget... you just have to be creative. I enjoy her content and soothing voice.

[@alisonnelson1473]

I snort-laughed when she said that, sad as it was. The whole idea of someone following a content creator, and then being upset when they become successful- because they were watching their content- is so ridiculous that I couldn’t help but laugh at the self-ignorance of it all. Like, you are part of the reason they became successful. On the flip side, that reason is a part of why most of us are so happy for them, bc they’re literally living their dreams and we were able to witness and help them with that.

[@beckysbackyardgarden]

“I’m gonna sparkle the whole way there.” That sounds like a great way to live your life!

[@melodychristy448]

Becky I was coming to say the exact same thing!!! That is my new motto!!!

[@melissabutts6694]

Amen!

[@hugstoyou7]

My first thought was "Is her sparkle anything like glitter? Cuz my vacuum is broken, how ever if her sparkle is anything like pixy dust, bring that sh%$ ON! :P

[@growjoyfullyhomestead]

Next shirt!

[@marciedes]

We need a shirt with this quote on it!!!

[@sharitswilson]

My mom always told us “Blowing out someone else’s candle will not make yours shine brighter” Congratulations on your success due to all of your hard work. The best is yet to come. Praying for your dad and for you all.

[@AnnieandCC]

I’m putting that one in my back pocket. THanks for sharing that.

[@kathybrown8497]

Love that!!!

[@danagibbs5664]

Oh I need a “I’m sparkly” T-shirt with fireflies!!

[@katieboyd5568]

Yes, Yes Please! I would so love one too!

[@KawaHato]

Love it!

[@jodypaine7074]

Wonderful idea

[@Cherryparfait41]

Perfect! YES!

[@ajg9758]

Yes!!

[@ruthbarrett8907]

Every time my hubby sees you, he will say, “That girl can’t do wrong, in my eyes!” This is because you touched us both so greatly at HOA in 2019, when you dropped to your knees, laid hands on my legs and prayed for them and us. I could barely stand there.i have since had a hip replacement and can finally stand straight again. Jessica, you are a great blessing to so many! You are a great blessing to us. We are cheering you on, knowing God. has you! We love you and your family!

[@diannamc367]

💞💖💞💖💞💖💞💖💞💖 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kjopalmer]

This touched me, to the point of tears!

[@sophiebarnes3711]

I'm currently recovering from surgery, her words and imagery are definitely those of healing.

[@rainfalls2964]

My eyes are leaking 🤗 you are proof of the sparkle 💚 BlessedBe

[@trinahume773]

Ugh this gave me goosebumps 💜💜💜 just amazing 🙏🙏🙏

[@livingwellanyway3279]

"I don't have to be responsible for someone else's discomfort for where my life is right now." This stopped me dead in my tracks. We have folks in our life who judge us hard but we know we are where we're supposed to be, doing what we are supposed to do.

[@melissabutts6694]

Exactly!

[@spottedsparrowgardens9999]

Amen!

[@annieheath986]

I picked up on that one too!

[@kristiecorn5067]

“I don’t have to take responsibility for their discomfort.” #lifelesson

[@bonniejohnston2570]

My mother always told me: “when they are talking smack about you, they are giving some other poor soul a rest”. Sparkle on!!

[@carrieraupp757]

I love that perspective from your mom 🤓

[@melissagannon5711]

Wisdom and truth in vernacular.

[@stacylee5240]

My Dad always said that too. ❤️❤️

[@ToriLeahPlunkett]

Aww.

[@claireisacamel]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 “I’m dreaming of something big, and not planning to rob any banks to make it happen” 🙌🙌🙌🙌 What a perfect way to say that hahah

[@andreamortimer2610]

“The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat, known suffering, known struggle, known loss, and have found their way out of the depths. These persons have an appreciation, a sensitivity, and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness, and a deep loving concern. Beautiful people do not just happen.” Dr. Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

[@smokymountaingirl]

This is so true my friend .... so very true.

[@KrystalKonnectSG]

wow beautiful....Thanks for sharing that

[@robynfletcher0801]

People can’t expect you to do all this for nothing! It has to be profitable because it takes away from your precious time! Keep teaching people about raising food.. You have the light .. The spirit is in you.. I see it .. much love .. I want everyone here to know their worth in the Lord.. #knowyourworth

[@aloras405]

Exactly! They have to be able to feed their family at the end of day. I make costumes and such for my friends and a lady asked if I could make one for her. She about flipped when I told her what I would charge for it. But I know what my time and skills are worth and if I’m going to spend 100 hours making something, plus materials cost, I’m going to charge what it’s worth.

[@jessicarivera5587]

I agree!!! You doing what you need to do while teaching. Good for you!!! forget and keep going ignore people's negativity.

[@mio.giardino]

@@aloras405 I 100% agree! I also sew and when I’m asked to hem or alter something, ppl from my church mostly (sadly), I tell them the costs and they are offended as if I’m taking from them but they don’t see that they want to take my time and use my skills for nothing. Even when I make linens for the alter, I only charge them for the material but my time and skills are what I consider my offering to the Lord as thanks for the talent He has blessed me with.

[@jujube2407]

@@aloras405 thats the difference between paying a liveable wage... and sweatshop labor :/

[@aloras405]

@@mio.giardino your time and skill as an offering is a great tithe. Using skills He gave us is something I think He enjoys the most. Thankfully most of my friends and family know what my time is worth and the quality of my work and are willing to work with me. The costume that inspired the gal to come up to me was made for a friend who payed for both her costume materials and materials for me to make a costume from the same series. Plus some of the work time was a birthday present. Because she’s a close friend, I’m happy to spend my time that way. I simply tell others that my work is at a professional level and I know what that is worth.

[@antonianovoa6416]

Any Girl that picks up a tomatoe horn worm with her HANDS, is in control of her life. Thank you for sharing...

[@rose77778888]

Right!?!!!

[@diannamc367]

I'm not so sure about that. I can do it and my life is a mess! 😂🤣😂😃😂

[@stormienotstormy]

Stupid question… but do they bite? I’m so scared of them

[@maydaygarden]

@@stormienotstormy No. They're just "dressed" that way.

[@lindasuerussell4398]

I use tongs to pick off those wicked looking worms.

[@CurlyProverbz]

Jess .... Keep building, keep shining. "Let your light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your father in heaven." Before I even saw a video of you speaking of the LORD I could see his light in you, his warmth in you and his love in you. My prayer is that the LORD takes you to the heights that are beyond your imagining and that he will give you the Character to remain in him at those heights. Much Love from UK fam

[@TheFamilyFarmstead]

“I’m going to sparkle the whole way there.........”. I want that on my t-shirt!

[@nldias5234]

And "Sprinkle some Sparkle all over your garden" 😊✨😊🎆

[@amywithay]

Same!

[@Azaria7026]

Yes!!!!!

[@jenniferpulskamp5592]

YES!!!

[@cwuerp]

I’ll order one too!! Sparkle on!!

[@christineclark]

“I’m really just not that bothered by negative opinions.” Say it again for those in the back! 📢

[@melissabutts6694]

Amen!

[@abbottlight5678]

I've never thought about it like that.

[@ernestgoff3144]

Do not under any circumstances let people bring you down.. My wife got me hooked on this channel. If people don't want to buy your merchandise that is fine but you should know you are inspiring people daily. Your "spark" is evident.

[@xraiders]

This little light of mine, I’m gonna let it shine ✨🥰

[@diannamc367]

Amen!🕯🕯🕯✨

[@lucainthedale]

Came here to say this very thing...that song was running through my head during the entire sparkling conversation. Keep in mind, it's always darkest and coldest before dawn, and you Jess, have enough light and warmth to make it through to the dawn of your new season. Hang in there, the sun is peeking over the horizon. 😊

[@trinahume773]

Yes 🙌

[@lifebymelanie]

🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@MynewTennesseeHome]

💕💖💕 Amen!

[@nicoleolson1347]

“I do not have to take responsibility for their discomfort for where my life is” 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻💯💯💯

[@pixiebeen]

You don't just have light inside of you- you have a burning fire!! And boy does it shine! Keep lighting the way. Your wisdom is an inspiration. Thank you!

[@kburkes4245]

And there's absolutely nothing wrong with running a business and supporting your family. You are providing a service, teaching us about gardening and the rest. You are blessed with a great personality and lots of knowledge, and you deserve to be compensated for your work!

[@bethanyfields4706]

"Admittedly, the housekeeping side of things is not my strong suit. I'd rather just grow tomatoes."😂 ♥️ Amen! Yasss!😂😂😂🤪 🍅🥒🫑🍉🧅🧄

[@gabbygertie8709]

I'm 69 years old, disabled, and have 8 raised garden beds and can my harvests. I can't be outside playing in the dirt Gardening and cleaning my house . There's only one of me. I only have do much energy to use. I choose to enjoy my garden time, I can clean in the winter!

[@gia777gia]

You are the cutest sparkle ever kiddo! My Gramma always said, "Everyone has a Godspark, some turn theirs on some don't!" Keep on being true to yourself, don't feed the trolls!

[@ashleyburgamy]

I felt like you were talking to me personally when you were talking about knowing your sparkle. Made me cry. I guess I needed to hear that. Thank you

[@SageandStoneHomestead]

I felt it too.

[@SageandStoneHomestead]

💖

[@journeyoflovelight]

Me too.

[@Turtsiepie727]

Same! Tears came to my eyes so quickly. That was an extremely heartfelt video.

[@meganmackenzie5993]

🌟💖

[@KatherineRoseArt]

Are you talking about that weirdly obsessed person who made a huge long novel of a post telling you how you should live your life? :P i saw that. they seemed a tad unhinged. I really hope they get some help. Just keep being you. You're a breath of fresh air... esp when it comes to a Christian. I am not Christian and I don't get on with a lot of Christians because they can sometimes be so judgemental and downright ... well... mean... to anyone different than they are. I don't get that vibe from you at all. You seem like just such a sweet and genuine soul. I love your channel... its helped me a lot on getting into gardening. I've only been gardening since last spring. I now have 4 raised beds, a no dig in ground bed and just expanded to grow a bunch of melons as well! Never thought i could garden in this freaking hot Texas weather but I'm doing it now!

[@Meg_Davis]

Bravo Katherine!

[@isobelmunoffilm5694]

Agree

[@HookedOnTXMusic]

This year is awful in central Texas. So hot 🔥

[@fredia2118]

Hey TX neighbor! I'm not a typical Christian either. I tend to shy away from Christian channels. This channel though, has been a picture of my path to worship. I appreciate the help and even more, the true intent here to just lend a hand. To me, that's true Christianity and I'm glad to see them get all the good stuff that the universe sends their way.

[@bravelily2581]

I love this response. Thank you for reminding me to let my “light so shine before men that they may see your good works and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” Sparkle on sweet sister!

[@christineengland3168]

Haters are always going to cause hate. When you have faith God will always provide. We were a poor family that lived in a trailer park, and because of my faith and listening to what my hearts calling was, we now own a 5 acre homestead and grow the majority of our own food. I never in a million years thought I would be where I am in my life, but here we are. Thank you for all your guidance in the garden and life.

[@lindastrandquist2429]

Christine congrats in reach for something g yiy thought was beyond your reach and catching it.

[@mio.giardino]

See, this is what a modern day miracle looks like. Blessings to you and your family.

[@divinelotus19]

🙏🏼

[@stellablue7435]

Christine your story brings me joy and encouragement 💖 My story is nearly the same except I'm still in the trailer park (no joke). We are actively shopping for our 5+ acre homestead. Last year our garden was all in pots. We built a small greenhouse to overwinter and start seedlings. This year we put in 5 raised beds and started all our own plants. We also noticed 4 new gardens popped up in our park! Sparkle; right 💖 Plus my hubby was approached by a neighbor recently asking him if he would build a greenhouse for them. Sparkle💖Sparkle! Oh my goodness, Roots&Refuge needs a Sparkle Club 😄 Congratulations Christine to you and your family. I know you all our so happy. Thanks for sharing 💖

[@mollyofthefolly7732]

Amen! One day, baby, one day I'll travel across the world to learn at your garden, to drink coffee and eat at your restaurant and to thank you in person. Because I can not put into words how grateful I am for your work,for your guidance, for your encouragement and for your words that allow me to be myself,to not dim my sparkle, to not believe it when people call me naive or unrealistic. Until then I will harvest the fruit my balcony garden gives me, I will tend to my pots and little raised bed and I will thank the lord for giving me this classroom. Bless you! May the lord keep his smile on you as he obviously does.

[@KindWords1624]

"If you can't see where the seeds are, it's not time yet"💜 My heart is holding on to this statement tightly right now💜

[@chelseahartweg2938]

Same. YEARS of dreaming and false starts and grief and questioning whether I'm on the right path... maybe I am and the trail just isn't yet ready... good lord I needed that.

[@jenniferbrooks-rieck8797]

Amen

[@beckymartinez9926]

I know this is an old video but I love that you wanted your garden to look it’s best before you moved. ❤

[@09echols]

I'm sitting here thinking this is a great sermon. I'm Amen ing all over the place. I love it. God says His desire for us is to prosper and be in good health. When I see God move for you I know He's moving for me. I love you and don't let the high steppers step on your dreams.

[@journeyoflovelight]

AMEN! 🦋

[@scatteredseedsofhappiness3285]

Yes! Me too, when I see God move for her I know He will move for me too! 🙌❤️

[@bettypierce5323]

Amen!

[@workinprogress3609]

And she really isn't focused on the prosperity as much as the means to spread her passion. There is a big difference. Prosperity seekers are more like Joel Olsteen and his wife and their "church". They seek money to for bling bling and big jets and don't give back to the community. Roots and Refuge are all about the community.

[@susanreese2641]

You are so right, my friend. When God blesses one we are all the richer and we know that He is blessing us too.. His ABUNDANCE is without end. When we cheer for each other it doesn’t take away from us it INCREASES us.

[@TheNakidGardeners]

I loved your channel when you were "poor". Still love you channel now while your cherry tomato rich. I love were your channel is to help correct the broken food chain system. Ma Dukes use to tell me "when you have haters you're doing something right." Love you guys and continue to shine. You have blessed us on ways to be self sustainable and plan on doing that with others. Thanks for being you. Stay blessed.

[@RootsandRefugeFarm]

I’m thinking about you guys everyday and praying for y’all!!!!

[@TheNakidGardeners]

@@RootsandRefugeFarm thanks you so much.

[@cheriebrinker3301]

Jess and Miah are the definition of integrity... doing the right thing even when no one is looking. I'm very grateful for your channel and encouragement. Many blessings to you and yours 💜💜

[@iamcrazyfaith]

I just saw this meme and it said “Light doesn’t need permission to shine.” Sparkle away Jess. You and Miah are so precious and I believe in you. My husband and I are also teachers and carry big dreams in our hearts as well. I get you. Dream big and never stop dreaming. 🙏🏻💝

[@TheBourneHomestead]

Homesteading is being self-sufficient in ways that matter to each individual, from home to business to travel... it's a whole life experience. 💛💚 Thank you for sharing your honest experience about having a channel, your goals, and putting yourself out there. ALSO, I just got my new shirt from you and it's made so well, and SO SOFT!!!! 🤗

[@melissasullivan1658]

Yep, I got my plum colored shirt the other week and I can’t stop wearing it because of the softness. Good choice, Jess!

[@amywert8088]

Awe, this was definitely worth the watch! What a blessing you are with your words of encouragement!

[@sweetpea6144]

Maybe a tee shirt that says “I see your sparkle” - would love to give them to my granddaughters❣️ (God meant it for good)

[@theurbanthirdhomestead]

Ethically-sourced, of course 😉

[@AmyReneMerchant]

To be honest, that group was so toxic when I was in it and it had nothing to do with the moderators or your family. And everything to do with the entitled members. And I don’t know why people would trust you enough with what to do with their garden but not trust you to make decisions for your own life. You all have worked so hard for much. I’ll continue to support! 🌟✨💥

[@heathermacdonald6404]

Your true internet pals want you to live your dream and succeed in big, wonderful ways. It's fun to be along for the ride! We take inspiration from you as we build our own careers. Your success spreads succes to others. You're a blessing. xo

[@MelSr8]

“And I’m gonna sparkle the whole way there…” Atta girl! Proud of you.

[@annie.a.]

this needs to be on a tshirt!

[@kathyweber2089]

@@annie.a. Definitely!

[@reneebanks4639]

"This little light of mine, I'm gonna let it shine..." Good people will always see your light🙂

[@sandijammes7761]

Ok... how many of us just READ @Renee Banks comment, but did so by singing it, just like we did in Sunday school & summer Bible camp??🤣❤🤭 I CAN'T be the only one!!😁😁

[@reneebanks4639]

I was singing it as I was writing it!😁

[@jeanmetzner8764]

Me too! Singing it as soon as I read it. LOL

[@shirleygreer8479]

It’s because of you and your channel, that this 74 year old is gardening. I’ve so enjoyed the process and enjoying the fruits of my labor. Thank you dear girl for your encouragements. I’m so sorry about the mean and crude people of this world. You are so right about the negative people…..they will always be negative. I love you and your family.

[@erinhall8294]

Oh .... Jess ... we are going to be needing a “sparkle” sweatshirt 😉

[@JessJelley]

🥂 i second that!

[@cindyschenk6824]

Yes...or " I'm going to sparkle the whole way there"

[@5feralkidsandafarm]

"Someone else's opinion of you is none of your business" my forever favorite quote. Well, aside from "tomatoes are better than dinner" lol little Ben. Anyway, social media kinda stinks in that way as far as people pushing their opinions on other people. Sweet Jess, Sweet Miah, & those Well raised babies are nothing below solid gold! Shine on girlfriend!

[@user-rd5cw1ts9t]

You are a blessing to my entire family! I’ve never felt the amount of joy my garden gives me and I thank you for that! You helped make my vision a reality. 💚

[@WiniWalbaum]

Jess you are pure light. It's hard sometimes. I know as a KZbinr, that sometimes it's really heartbreaking to read negative comments towards you or your family. But you've inspired so many people!! (myself included) you've done soo much good!! I love that you took the time to share all of this with us, but you don't need to explain this! ❤️ We all know how the world works and we all know you are such a hardworking, inspiring and generous family! You deserve every good thing that it's happening right now. You are pure light! More wonderful things are going to happen because every good thing that you've learned, you've shared with us. You multiply that light! So yessss sparkle!!! ❤️ ✨

[@ijustwannascrap]

AMEN!!!

[@marytymoshuk7176]

True.

[@JesiDavisBuildingaSimplerLife]

yes this!

[@GailM11]

Wini, I agree. You sort of took the words out of my mouth. I believe in her; I believe her dreams will come true. She's part of the New Earth as some call it. It's going to be all about communities (I believe). I have similar dreams and I'm far older than she; she helps keep me inspired.

[@bernieshomestead6416]

Amen yes she has she is a beautiful soul

[@sandradelvecchio6894]

Married 39 years and I still feel that excitement of seeing my husband if we’ve been apart a bit. He’s in the other room working and he makes my heart flip. Going to go give a hug now!

[@bethanymoberley911]

Marriage goals 💖

[@marilynpeppers1356]

I love this!

[@trenacoleman9592]

This is my goal in marriage 5 years down constantly preparing for the rest of our lives.

[@tomstepp6945]

How you support yourself, your family, and your dreams is NONE of my business. The knowledge, insight, and experiences you share that revolve around your garden and family will keep me tuning in.

[@OnlineCourseExpert]

YES JESS! YES!! You’ve have created hundreds of hours of FREE content that WE have all enjoyed tremendously. And I know, from running my own business and KZbin channel, that for every hour of published free content you’ve spent at least 3 x that filming, editing, etc. YOU gave me such huge encouragement to pursue my gardening dreams and sooo many of us will support you financially through your endeavours. Keep doing what your doing and growing in your life and business. Thank you for sharing yourself, your garden, and your life with all of us. ♥️

[@milliway2010]

Yes 100X I look forward to your morning and evening walks in the garden so much. As author and professor Joseph Campbell famously wrote "follow your bliss" for a happy and fulfilled life and you've give us the gift of watching your joy unfold and a lot of good practical gardening and family advice to boot! I can't wait for the next chapter in your story.

[@mindypereda9660]

I agree with this! Jess you and Miah continue to let your sparkle shine. Love and prayers ❤🙏🙏

[@egyptvalleyhomestead752]

If I didn’t start watching you over the last year… I wouldn’t have had sparkle! Sparkle to have the guts to homeschool my kids, grow so many different colored tomatoes and sparkle to believe in things I thought were lost. And sparkle to know I am not alone in having this dream that includes dirty nails and filled bellies. So thank you from the bottom of my heart!

[@ineedmickey5170]

For all that you have taught and given us.... you deserve every bit of happiness, you deserve this new farm, this continuation of your journey to start this new HOME! God bless!

[@mabrgs59]

"All the darkness in the world cannot extinguish the light of a single candle." - St. Francis of Assisi Jess....you are that candle :) you do sparkle

[@revmcl1]

Once when I was smarting over comments made by someone who totally miss read my intentions, God told me they weren't talking about me, they were giving me insight into how they would behave in the same circumstances. All that hate and negativities, has nothing to do with you Jess, it's all about them. I bless you.

[@aflanagan13]

Jess…I’m positive god sent me this video today. This is what I needed to hear about my light, and someone trying to tell me I don’t have one. From the bottom of my heart, thank you thank you thank you. You have no idea how badly I needed this talk. ❤️

[@ontariogardening]

sparkle on girl!! Every one has a light, and a reason for it. Spread that kindness all over until the haters are gone :)

[@kassideephillips8635]

Darkness can not exist where there is light ✨

[@Mrsamandabaity]

For The Feta Pasta Recipe: I use half feta half cream cheese, olive oil and tomatoes with crushed red pepper. Bake and then reserve some of the pasta water to mix in. It can get incredibly dry. I use rotini pasta bc it holds the sauce wonderfully and then add lettuce leaf basil and fresh garlic at the end. Just my version on the TiKTok video bc I tried it and it got dry fast! My recipe also heats up better!!! 😁

[@suziew5447]

I made this for the first time tonight. Rotini pasta, feta no cream cheese and I used tomatoes, red pepper flakes, black pepper, garlic crushed, and olive oil and pasta water. It was not a sauce but it was delish. I had fresh cherry tomatoes from in-laws I needed to use up. I decided to try it and it was so easy. Fresh basil is a must with this pasta :)

[@chrisazar7950]

Jess, your sparkle, and that of your family, is a full blown beacon of light. You shine. You sparkle. You glow. Heck, you are sometimes like a disco ball even. Keep doing you. You're a gratious rock star.

[@jend3457]

I can’t for the life of me figure out why people would spend their time watching your channel, learning from you and watching you grow (yes food, but also as a person, and as a family) and would root against you taking more hard earned steps toward your goals and dreams. Your successes (however someone chooses to measure them) are something to celebrate and to admire. They are certainly inspiring to watch unfold for those of us who don’t begrudge you for dreaming your big dreams out loud and busting your butt to turn them into a reality. Your successes aren’t accidents. They are hard work. They are determination. They are skill. They are growth. - a grateful gardener

[@sandrawadkins5529]

Oh my goodness, you just preached a powerful sermon ❤️

[@yeevita]

So amazing. I have thought a few times before that she would make a great sermonizer. In her beautiful garden, of course!

[@jenniferespinosa3996]

Jess you owe no explanation to the haters. To see you succeed in your dreams whether it’s growing food, raising kids, building businesses and supporting others is just pure magic. You fill others with love, joy and hope. And sparkle x 1000 ❤️

[@Caleb_Evans32]

I've got a saying "A light in the night attracts both moths and spiders." You know you've built this beautiful thing and yes it's a job. There's a monetary value attached to it. That hasn't changed who you are. You have the success that you do because of who you are.

[@vickijent5704]

You always say " I bless you". Well I for one want to say , You truly bless us!!

[@trinahume773]

Yes 🙌

[@Wentworth1987]

Dear Jess, Yes you sparkle but most importantly YOU SHINE and your SHINE is so contagious and beautiful! Every video I'm so thankful for you and your family and for letting us in to your beautiful life and journey ❤

[@Mallikkah]

Know that you’re doing something right when you have haters.

[@pinklemonade1300]

Dave Ramsey says when you make a decision to change your life you will be tested. Murphy will move in your spare bedroom and create havoc. Stay strong. This will all be worth it

[@melissabutts6694]

Amen! Preach!

[@es1442]

People would rather spend time being salty than spend time building their own lives. Love your channels, I’ve learned lots of great garden pointers.

[@SadisticChemicals]

I'll take "never huff someone else's Basil" t-shirt.

[@stellablue7435]

Yes please!!!

[@margaretdale7186]

I was offering huffs of my cinnamon and lemon basil to my neighbor yesterday. I don't think she understood what that was about... I was handing her handfuls after pulling the tops off - she probably though I was saying "Here have some basil" and didn't get the word "huff"

[@Chet_Thornbushel]

I remember once hearing a quote that was something like “don’t take criticism from someone who you wouldn’t take advice from.” And I apply that often in my life. People have different goals and experiences and skills and paths and there are very few people who align precisely with MY goals, experiences, skills, and paths. If they’re not a person I would go to to help me along my path then I have absolute peace with the fact that my choices will differ from theirs. And quite frankly, if they’re the type of person who would cruelly cast judgement on someone else, then I wouldn’t want them to be happy with my choices anyway. Keep your path! I’m so happy to see you give an example of confidence in the face of scrutiny. Bending over backwards to please everyone is no way to live and that can be a tough lesson for some folks to put into practice because it makes them feel mean or guilty. You’re setting a great example ❤️

[@augustagootee6254]

Amen well said!!!

[@tibbs4000]

YES to this advice. I can understand Jess saying she wants to be open, even if some of the feedback is negative. Because viewers are the source of much of their income. The messages on Facebook were mean an opportunistic- because they knew Jess and her family are going through a lot right now. I suggest the moderators shut of comments once the discussion turns mean.

[@augustagootee6254]

Idk hadnt seen fb comments but the sounds to the comments were awful so sad she going thru alot with her dad it's so hard see ur parents suffer like that and then it lot of change all at once to adjust to.

[@diananazaroff5266]

Child, you have given this 63 year old woman hope for the future, not for just this country, but for this world. I'm teary with pride for you, your courage and your sparkle. We see it shining, my dear, and I SO look forward to seeing you and Jeremiah develop and achieve your dreams and goals. Love you, girl...

[@joedarcy9948]

"and I'm gunna sparkle the whole way there!" haha love it. Well done Jess. With huge amounts of free knowledge you've given me I'm starting up my own growing business and you've been such an inspiration for me!! I wouldn't have had the courage to fail and rise again without your wise words so thank you. I'm finding my sparkle thanks to you

[@mollyofthefolly7732]

Amen! One day, baby, one day I'll travel across the world to learn at your garden, to drink coffee and eat at your restaurant and to thank you in person. Because I can not put into words how grateful I am for your work,for your guidance, for your encouragement and for your words that allow me to be myself,to not dim my sparkle, to not believe it when people call me naive or unrealistic. Until then I will harvest the fruit my balcony garden gives me, I will tend to my pots and little raised bed and I will thank the lord for giving me this classroom. Bless you! May the lord keep his smile on you as he obviously does.

[@jessicajordan680]

Because of Jess, I am going to be tomato rich for the first time ever. Also because of Jess, my soul is soothed and my worries about "not getting there" are assuaged. She's so right. Everything in its own perfect time. It is our job to co-create our reality and harbor those seeds of hope while Spirit makes the ground ready for us 💝☺️

[@jdwhiskey8436]

Damn, let the lady have her dream! Got find one for yourself!

[@janemosherpage5488]

"I know Who we're walking with..." Amen.

[@vjd431]

That line really got me.

[@Chris-op7yt]

self delusion is a blessing, amen ;)

[@joannedonovan9489]

Good Job, Jess! WE love you, and want you to keep on Sparkling!! Thank you for being you!

[@diannemiller4754]

God has so blessed you with a heart that sees and dreams His vision. You are a sparkle that lights up Roots and Refuge to each of us....thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and heart. Praying for you all! FYI loving your hair today, beautiful as always.

[@brendadillon7783]

Beautifully said Diane😘

[@mochaKB]

I love how you deal with negativity. Also your hair is cute!

[@missmollycollie911]

I am a 69 yr old widow who lives in the suburbs with a large yard and relatively small garden, but I love your vision and your heart! I love to grow things and try to instill all that in my grandchildren. I hope your vision come to fruition in time.

[@marybrown6128]

"I am not responsible for your discomfort with where my life is". Gurl, that needs to be my next tattoo!! I'm going to be quoting you and your sparkle on that one! Love all your positive comments and so glad you got past the stress that the negative people were causing you during that emotional downpour. The people who love you will continue to love you and those who can't see your sparkle, well lets pray they find a way to their own sparkle soon.

[@tylernoyes9694]

I love how in love you and Miah are and that y’all share that love so freely. Normalize happy marriages! Keep sparkling Jess & Miah. You are an inspiration.

[@heatherk8931]

Truly, one of the most beautiful things is a vision of lovely tomatoes, all different sizes and colors😊❣

[@deborahwilson5149]

Good on you girlfriend! 💕 I am so glad you did choose to stand up for yourself on your vlog. Everyone needs these reminders to not only check their hearts but also live a more freeing life. I am looking forward to seeing you and your family thrive in your new home and cheering as your dreams come true!

[@ericcawith2cs11]

🙌🏻 Yas girl! 🙌🏻 Preach it!🙌🏻 some channels get to big for their britches and lose the ability to be relatable. Your family is so genuine and so honestly pure in your intent that it shows. I am amazed that anyone could think they see anything negative. Follow the voice of The Creater, girl. We love you.

[@kellyalogna5251]

I think you and your family are doing a great service to those of us who are pretending to be gardeners while learning everyday from you. Dream B.I.G. and DON'T apologize. Love to you all.

[@moirapastre1234]

Another quick cherry tomato recipe: lay them all on a cookie sheet with a drizzle of olive oil and bake until blistered. In the meantime smear a couple dollops of Greek yogurt on a plate. When the tomatoes are ready, pile them on the yogurt. Add additional olive oil and sea salt. Serve with crunchy bread or toasted pita bread. Delicious!

[@midsouthhomestead7527]

Yes! I will be giving that a try!

[@alysiagregg133]

Praying for your daddy and his doctors and treatment. God’s presence is strongest when the waves are high and the storms are raging....whether they are uncontrollable circumstances or changes due to your own decisions! Enjoy the Journey with your eyes on Jesus!

[@catm7629]

Shine on beautiful soul,the world needs more sparkle 💜

[@lux3226]

People sometimes have a tendency to blur the line between reality TV, and watching videos like these. It's ok to expect reality TV to maintain roles, personas, characters, with the same goals and intentions from beginning to end. But in videos like this, families uploading glimpses into their lives, it's not about the votes, or asking for permission, or even asking for validations/advice on how they are to live their lives. It's simply them, sharing their lives, with those that may be interested in seeing how they travel their paths. But they are still real humans, not characters on a screen, who dream, change their minds, alter their lives, and can pivot as often as they want, as much as they need. Like every other human on the planet. Watching these videos don't give viewers license to complain, to try to tell someone how to live their lives, or to force someone to remain on a certain path in life. If they decide they want to change directions, or make slight course corrections, or add new and different things into their lives, then it's THEIR choice to do so. If that direction is something the viewer no longer is interested in, or wants to see, then there is nothing forcing that viewer to stay and watch. They can stop watching, with a simple click of the button, and move on to other videos where the focus is exactly how they would want them to be. "Fans" of a channel don't get to dictate how the people uploading those videos are to live their lives. We're here to watch, to support, or to lose interest and leave. I've said this many times before, but it needs to be said again - you are free to have an opinion. Everyone is. But your opinion should only affect you, as it only matters to you, so if it is negative, you do NOT have the right to try to negatively impact someone else just because you happen to disagree with them. It's not YOUR life, it's theirs, and they have the right to live it how THEY wish. Unless your opinion is asked for, feel free to keep it to yourself. Do people change? Absolutely. That is the point of life, growth. If you go through life and NEVER change, then you've learned nothing. And that is sad.

[@JaysNest]

Beautifully said 💕

[@nicoleseay9085]

Well said 👏

[@christinaanthony7531]

There are so many more of us that love and appreciate all your effort, and want to see you prosper.

[@EchoatTheOakAnchor]

I think a lot of people get bitter when they can't see the path. You can not provide these resources and this content if you're working multiple jobs to afford your farm. Your farm HAS to support itself, and with that, you need to sell and promote. This is a huge step, and I appreciate that you've put your heart and soul into this.

[@carolynprivette721]

Jess just wanted you to know how Elyn talked about loving your new place and how much fun she had with Ben.

[@RootsandRefugeFarm]

Oh we are SO appreciative of them. Now I’m just ready for them to come when I’m actually there so I can get a hug from that precious girl!!!!

[@katfromdenver]

An inspiration as always. Can you imagine what the world would be like if everyone were more like Jess?

[@augustagootee6254]

Amen

[@DanceswithDustBunnies]

If half of the people had a quarter of your sparkle, vision, energy, and faith, oh, what things could be accomplished. They say 'haters gonna hate,' but really haters are just projecting their own misery. What you have achieved is amazing, what you're going to achieve will be spectacular.

[@aaronvillegas768]

"This Little Light of Mine I'm Going to Let it Shine "...Haters Going to Hate!

[@vjd431]

That's what popped into my head! 🤣👍

[@amandag1329]

Your willingness to share vulnerable conversation is one of the most valuable lessons you demonstrate for your community, Jess. Thank you for showing up for your community over and over. You have been doing remarkable work all along. ❤️

[@micheleparsons4525]

You reap what you sow and you sow goodness, faith and hard work. Sparkle on Sparkle bright

[@randibarton335]

Jess, thank you for all of your thoughts on dreaming and sparkling. It's exactly what I needed to hear. I love how you share your life, dreams, and sparkles!

[@lisaelliott1149]

I can't imagine feeling the need to defend your personal dreams and hard work coming true. Please know you and your family inspire me personally each and every day. Sparkle on girl, your light is guiding us too.

[@motherknowsbest8529]

Some people like to think that the have the right to gain from your hard work but that you shouldn’t earn any gain from it. You have to provide for your babies and animals. You do a beautiful job and nothing and nobody can take that away from you.

[@WickedAwesomeGardening]

I'm jelly. My tomatoes went in late and I am weeks away from tomatoes still :( Enjoy them while I live vicariously through you!

[@avelsgard78]

Ours went in late too. It was so hot and I didn't want to lose my 'mato babies. I do feel your pain! I'm knee deep in green beans though...so no time to cry about it 😁

[@WickedAwesomeGardening]

@@avelsgard78 Rabbits ate ALL my green beans down to the ground. Planting new ones today and fencing materials arrive tomorrow lol

[@WickedAwesomeGardening]

At least I have peas still to tide me over

[@avelsgard78]

@@WickedAwesomeGardening NO!!! I wishI could share with you....if perchance you live in Sw Minnesota...I will share with you!! It's a wonderful thing green beans are fast! I have attack cats patrolling my property. It would have to be a very brave bunny getting into mine. we have deer pulling up my onions though.

[@carlaprice413]

I was late planting all our flowers & veggies due to heart problems. I finally was able to plant in flower pots on my front porch rather than in ground. This growing season doesn't look "normal" but I'm ok just having these pots to grown in. I have 1 green tomato about the size of a fifty cent piece & lots of blossoms. I still have plants not in large pots but I'll get there. One of my cayenne pepper plants has a 2 1/2 inch long pepper on it & it's still in the 4 cell tray. Blessings to all ❤