CHIT CHAT GRWM | WHAT I LEARNED IN MY 20'S! POST GRAD DEPRESSION + DATING + FINANCES ft Zeelool

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Ashley Devonna

Ashley Devonna

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@TomiwaRodia
@TomiwaRodia 3 жыл бұрын
The part about dedicating 3-6 months of your life to creating healthy routines/habits & changing the overall trajectory of your life is sooooooo crucial!! I’m 23 and currently in that season of my life and can’t wait to see where it takes me. You dropped so many gems! Such a great video, as always ❤️
@iiB3DAB3ST
@iiB3DAB3ST 3 жыл бұрын
Major thing I've learned in my big age of 33 is realizing that everyone's problems (specifically family) are not mine & it's not responsibility to help everyone. I'm figuring out life like everyone else & it's okay to be unapologetically selfish.
@allanacalhoun2834
@allanacalhoun2834 3 жыл бұрын
Yes mam this !!!!!
@denisemarie7979
@denisemarie7979 3 жыл бұрын
Yess!!!
@Rieka.Chanel
@Rieka.Chanel 3 жыл бұрын
Same sis!
@JustAprilT.
@JustAprilT. 3 жыл бұрын
Everything you said is exactly things I wished I would have known while in my 20's. I'm 35 now. If I had to add a few, I would probably say a job is a job. You go there just to make money to survive. Don't feel obligated to make friends with your co-workers. Don't be afraid to go to H.R. if you feel like you're being bullied or harassed. Another good one is, people will walk out of your life and blame it on mental health. If they do this without giving you the common courtesy, let them go. And don't look back. If they did it once, they will do it again. Last one... DO NOT TELL YOUR FRIEND'S EVERYTHING. 9 times out of 10 they don't share everything with you. Keep somethings to yourself.
@dryka147
@dryka147 3 жыл бұрын
At 29 I offer this: Your journey is yours and it won’t look like everyone else’s. Learn to be okay with God’s timing for certain things to unfold in your life AND be okay with walking away from people, places, and things that do not align with the life you desire for yourself.
@itschanelandrea1853
@itschanelandrea1853 3 жыл бұрын
Girl these videos could be 3 hours long and I’m watching every second of it. I seriously love these kinds of videos from you! Keep glowing and growing sis!
@usernamejeanea
@usernamejeanea 3 жыл бұрын
now that i am 27 i have learned that everything & everyone does not need a explanation if you say no. i use to come up with lies so i wouldn’t seem rude but now i just say no if i just simply don’t feel like it.
@jasminehopson4895
@jasminehopson4895 3 жыл бұрын
This!!!! I'm learning this too!!
@cherryivana1129
@cherryivana1129 3 жыл бұрын
I’m learning this to even though I’m 21
@Nokuthaba_M
@Nokuthaba_M 3 жыл бұрын
So true ,I’m 26 and this where I’m standing now
@desireenicole3
@desireenicole3 3 жыл бұрын
Chileeeeeee thisssss
@Rieka.Chanel
@Rieka.Chanel 3 жыл бұрын
Totally agree
@heathermuwonge-mukasa43
@heathermuwonge-mukasa43 3 жыл бұрын
BOUNDARIESSSSSSS! Take the time to learn yourself, don't be afraid to go ghost, focus on building up your work ethic and discipline, while making time to DATE YOURSELF. It will all outwardly teach people what level they'll need to meet you at. And find your voice so people learn not to take advantage of you or disrespect you.
@JessyB08
@JessyB08 3 жыл бұрын
LESSON ALERT- “What’s meant to be will be” Everything happens for a reason. Don’t all ways look at something that doesn’t work out as a “let down” or “failure” some times those “failures” happen to set you up for something better that you weren’t even thinking of or thought could be possible. This applies to jobs, friends, relationships, etc. Example- that boyfriend that you just broke up with is definitely a heartbreak BUT not a life ender. If it didn’t work out it’s for a reason. Learn from your mistakes and theirs too so that you can grow from it and not make those same mistakes again. Most time after you finally get over it you realize you dodged a bullet and that you were grateful for the experience because it made you strong and more prepared.
@ivylove14
@ivylove14 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley! This is why I love you! You are dropping gems that we can all learn in our 20s, 30s, 40s, etc. Thank you for empowering us to believe that we can be that girl…no matter what!
@ISOLUVMAL
@ISOLUVMAL 3 жыл бұрын
Everything the Bible states that love is (1corinthians…) accept nothing less than. (This depends on what your beliefs are and don’t be unequally yoked) ❤️
@ndidi08
@ndidi08 3 жыл бұрын
This one is verry specific but: If you are young, have sensitive skin, & don't have enough money or courage to remove your hair with waxing, get a men's electric beard trimmer and try it. Say goodbye to those unsightly razor bumps you can get from handheld shavers. Keep your skin moisturized and exfoliate. This might seem basic, but I wish I would have known this in high school. The struggle was really really real
@NurturingNatasha
@NurturingNatasha 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley this video was SOOO good! I watched it all the way through and couldn’t believe it had been over an hour. I’m 24 and I’m learning to take self awareness and reflection seriously to retrain myself. It’s hard to work past mindsets and limiting beliefs you’ve held on to since childhood but it will make you a better person to be in relationship (friend, family, romantic, etc.) with and bring you so much peace! We can get so used to our damaged way of thinking that we’ll always point fingers at someone else instead of facing our toxic habits.
@rosemichel7542
@rosemichel7542 3 жыл бұрын
Every single thing was money. The jealousy thing, the career thing got me the hardest. My add on: learn to be honest with yourself as soon as possible. Come to terms with the amount of influence you have on your life because sometimes youll find yourself wanting/ pursuing things you dont even really want because of what youre consuming. Then when you learn yourself do whats best for you even if its not popular. Theres so many trends and as you get older you catch on that they are just trends you dont need to hop on them, you need to just rock with your essentials and what you want for yourself.
@PJ-db2hl
@PJ-db2hl 3 жыл бұрын
I am a baby boomer who watches and enjoys your vlogs as well as your Instagram.😊 I am excited and happy for the younger generation that finds new, creative, unique ways to be financially free or to have that financial freedom; I think it’s incredible! As it relates to your comment on friends or just people in general-someone shared with me awhile back that people are brought into your life for a reason, season and or lifetime and I find that to be so true 😊 Keep doing you!!
@taybee4653
@taybee4653 3 жыл бұрын
I have been living by myself since graduating from college and I love it! I love being able to live my life on my own terms. It’s weird but I love coming home to silence. I am a social person but I love being myself. It’s an indescribable feeling. 😊
@JustAprilT.
@JustAprilT. 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! It's amazing.
@TrishunaTheMUA
@TrishunaTheMUA 3 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head when you spoke about friendships. I recently had to let a friend go simply because we were only friends because we had “pain” in common. For example, us dealing with bad relationships or mental health issues. I am no longer in that head space so I had to realize that I’ve outgrown the friendship because I’m not in pain anymore so I had to ask myself “what else do we have in common” NOTHING
@Rieka.Chanel
@Rieka.Chanel 3 жыл бұрын
That trauma bonding is too real
@SewPaMc
@SewPaMc 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed! Living by yourself is the best. I've lived with roommates, and though I've had mostly great situations, nothing tops living by myself, doing what I want when I want, being as loud or quite as I want, talking or not talking, just the best.
@SimplyLaceFace
@SimplyLaceFace 3 жыл бұрын
This was EVERYTHING! I’m 31 so every single topic hit girl. I’ve experienced it all…The no good men, crazy friendships, homeownership, etc..My little advice is not to take everything personally. When people mistreat you it’s not always about you but more so about what they may be going through. Hope this helps ❤️
@dj.1094
@dj.1094 3 жыл бұрын
You hit the nail on the head about post grad depression! I graduated in Dec 2015 with my MBA and I literally didn’t know what to do with myself. I was so depressed for weeks after my graduation trying to figure out Life after College. Once i find my way and secured a job in my career choice, i found my purpose 🙌🏽
@luvzouk4life7
@luvzouk4life7 3 жыл бұрын
Protect your womb, travel more, invest in stocks, maintain self care, breach out out when dating, and just do it; don't second guess yourself.
@Mimi8402
@Mimi8402 3 жыл бұрын
Cute video! I’m in my mid ish 30s, the biggest tip I have is to please please please invest/ save for your future self..a 401K/403, or an IRA. Your future self will be so thankful that you did. Most of my peers that did have close to or 6 figures already saved up, that compound interest really is magic.
@MsLiyah2015
@MsLiyah2015 3 жыл бұрын
The dating part about men dropping the ball 🎯 it’s easier said than done but do not stay with a man that is not ready for you. That doesn’t even have to be financially but even as far as seeing that he’s divided or doesn’t know what he wants. Also, keep in mind that friendship is cool even if you like them, leave it at that until he’s at a better place mentally, financially emotionally, maturity wise, then y’all can date and potentially take it to marriage, but if you see and your intuition tells you he’s not ready for you or actively, consistently getting ready to be able to have a partner then let him be. If he cheats, no matter the circumstances because all men do not cheat because that was their intention, still, let him be. If y’all decide to come back to relationship status after time & healing on both ends then do that. I don’t recommend staying in situations that bring that much pain or grief into your life. Pure happiness and being treated right the first time is real and it’s out there. Also beware of married men or even older men that come after you now that you’re at a decent age in your 20s. I never had to deal with that until now. I’m 24 and I still feel like a baby 🥴 Just steer clear love. Other advice: take the time in life to be by yourself. Take yourself on dates, go to the movies by yourself, stay in the apartment by yourself without a roommate or a significant other, etc. Be by yourself, get to know yourself, love on yourself. Also, love how Ashley pointed out finding your signature. Do that! All the way down to your nail shape, hair style, perfume scents, style of clothing, etc. Loved this chit chat! It was needed 🤍
@elysciasaint-hilaire984
@elysciasaint-hilaire984 3 жыл бұрын
I love hearing you talk about men and friendship because it is what I believe whole heartedly!!! It's the reason why I have like two friends and have only had been in (and currently in) one relationship. We need to be more stingy with our time and who gets be in our presence because not everyone has the best intentions. I could listen to you talk about topics for hours lol. Great video!
@olayinkas
@olayinkas 3 жыл бұрын
I LOVE THIS ASHLEY!!! I have a 13 year old daughter and I'm instilling these things in her RIGHT NOW age appropriately, but yeah! lol. You are the G.O.A.T when it comes to these serious sit downs with amazing solutions!!
@2youlauren
@2youlauren 3 жыл бұрын
39:00. Amen!!! I'm 29. And I learned that family can be toxic. And you dont need toxic people in your life.
@ayekayshua
@ayekayshua 3 жыл бұрын
I turned 25 this year and all of this is unfolding in my life, this talk was so needed! Down to the adult acne and the really bad anxiety. We appreciate every minute of you taking the time to explore your realizations with us 💕
@teairashae2661
@teairashae2661 3 жыл бұрын
Do you have a podcast? Bc girllllllll i love these talks
@AshleyDevonna
@AshleyDevonna 3 жыл бұрын
I’ll start a podcast when the response to my chit chat videos becomes overwhelming and calls for a new platform! Until then, consider this my podcast in video form! 🥰
@nknox1981
@nknox1981 3 жыл бұрын
I just turned 40 and loved this video!!! Still learning some of these things. I’ve been watching your videos for a few years now and i don’t think I’ve ever commented…..so hey girl heyyyy! Love your channel and your growth over the years. Thanks for sharing!
@slioness0078
@slioness0078 3 жыл бұрын
I definitely wish I Knew that about friendship. Ugh. The heart in you tries to see the heart in others, when they don’t have one!!
@BiancaColacin
@BiancaColacin 3 жыл бұрын
Now that I finished watching this, just wanted to say I LOVE ALL OF IT.
@NotesIHave
@NotesIHave 3 жыл бұрын
everything you said was so insightful but the one that really hit home with me was take pictures and videos with your loved ones. my cousin passed away unexpectedly, and she was so young that i thought we’d have more time to document our lives together. i’d give anything to have a photo of us grown up. so yes, no matter how annoying it might be, take those photos. capture those memories. one day, they’ll be all you have 💗
@khadyajah
@khadyajah 3 жыл бұрын
Know your rights, ESP. IN THE CAREER REALM. Know your rights as an employee. Always advocate for yourself because people will try to play you solely based on age.
@BiancaColacin
@BiancaColacin 3 жыл бұрын
The traveling this hit me so hard. I just learned that this year. Like now I'm just learning to have friends for certain activities. I don't have to do every single thing with the same people.
@janishatravels
@janishatravels 3 жыл бұрын
These were such good lessons that you learned!! One that I learned that has changed my life is that my life is my own. My parents (and other impt family members) opinions matter but they are not law. Also the love is unconditional, so there’s nothing I can do that will make them stop loving me. Learning that at 30 changed the way I move. I may disappoint them but if I’m doing what’s best for me, everything will work out fine! 🧡
@Alekala25
@Alekala25 3 жыл бұрын
Hello from your soon to be 38 year old friend 👋🏾 I would say to the younger ladies, and my twenty year old self ... be kind to yourself, give yourself grace. Do not take yourself so seriously, don’t be uptight; RELAX and breathe. Saying no has never been a problem for me, but I see so many younger ladies having a hard time saying no and explaining themselves. Please remember, NO is a complete statement and it doesn’t not need an explanation. Again, be kind to yourself.
@danyelwalker7667
@danyelwalker7667 3 жыл бұрын
It’s okay to tell your parents and loved ones that even tho they did their very best, that it wasn’t good for you. That doesn’t mean you love them any less, or that your discrediting their best. It just means you needed something different than they gave and that’s fine
@brittanybonnett2008
@brittanybonnett2008 3 жыл бұрын
I absolutely love you Ashley. I should start paying you for therapy session because this was most definitely the therapy I needed. Great conversations and wine.
@rosemichel7542
@rosemichel7542 3 жыл бұрын
Literally, same. Wish you were getting back all the effort you put into your videos. The content is so good.
@AshleyDevonna
@AshleyDevonna 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🥺
@chloerobinson2213
@chloerobinson2213 3 жыл бұрын
I’m currently focusing on cultivating meaningful female friendships instead of romantic relationships and overall surface friendships. Community is so important for self-worth and morale boosting.
@conflictpersona8
@conflictpersona8 3 жыл бұрын
💕 hoping you the best in that pursuit its a worthy one💕
@waeniwatuma5903
@waeniwatuma5903 3 жыл бұрын
I loved loved this video! so many gems. I am only 24 but I have been through a lot and I really wish I knew that life is honestly so beautiful and it is only as good as you make it. Also understanding that things do happen for a reason. And to not allow how others treat your or "love" you to determine your self worth and the love you should have for yourself if that makes sense. I am currently feeling kind of stuck so I will def do the 3-6month dedication because depression will suck the life out of you but once you get past it and no longer allow that label to define you it is tough seeing the world and getting your life back. loved this video so much!
@jaylamcdonald2636
@jaylamcdonald2636 3 жыл бұрын
Turning 21 soon and my anxiety about a lot has been through the ceiling. Watching this video was everything and you just inspire me and the woman I want to be in the future. 💖
@cany7206
@cany7206 3 жыл бұрын
I wish someone would have really told me to DECENTER THE MALE GAZE! I spent so much time worry about if a guy liked me or trying to be in a relationship when really I should have enjoyed going out, going on dates here & there, building my friendships, & career.
@rumbirue
@rumbirue 3 жыл бұрын
Wow! Ashley you may have just saved the rest of my 20’s journey. The part on “treating your career as a video game”, unbelievably relatable, honestly cant wait to create my ‘character’. And especially the post grad depression. omg. Felt it. Lived it. YOU, got a piece of me that I didn’t even know existed Through it with this video❤️. Absolutely love your content and SIS YOUR SKIN LOOKS SOOO GOOD!, Sending positive energy your way.❤️
@ceedee2432
@ceedee2432 3 жыл бұрын
The post grad depression segment was soooo relatable! Omg thank you. Currently pushing through.
@kalahamaya7749
@kalahamaya7749 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video and just the positivity, light and love. I am turning 22 in January and really needed this big sis moment. 💕
@jakeowens187
@jakeowens187 3 жыл бұрын
This was deep and informative for everyone so much packed in this video love it
@cuba3rocks
@cuba3rocks 3 жыл бұрын
This is so open and honest! Thank you for being so vulnerable ❤️
@cuba3rocks
@cuba3rocks 3 жыл бұрын
Not the gerbil!!! 🤣🤣🤣
@dollyroman5694
@dollyroman5694 3 жыл бұрын
I love everything about this video! This video really hit me in so many ways and I’ll be 28 in May. I sent this to all my friends for them to watch because this video is very powerful Ashley 🙌🏽. One lesson I wish I would’ve learned before my 20’s is to not put your all into a man because if you do, that gives them power to break you down and put you in a place you never wished you would’ve been put in. Please more videos like this!
@taylorjanee
@taylorjanee 3 жыл бұрын
We may be the same age but I'm always learning from you! That's what matters most to me as a woman.... a black woman at that. When you said the baby boomer dream is outdated I had a huge AHA moment! I love you Ash! Thank you being the big sister the generation under us needs and even our own generation.
@NYRARACHELLE
@NYRARACHELLE 3 жыл бұрын
Loved this, as usual, Ashley! Definitely agree on Post Grad Depression, you’ll get through it ladies! This is new, you’ve never been here in adulthood before, give yourself grace & finally listen to yourself to figure it out! & One lesson I wish I learned before my twenties was that my life was my own 😲 and how special is it that everyone has their own too, to worry about and to live how THEY want life to be lived 🤗 (even/especially the elders in your life), meaning do what you want, this one is YOURS, girl!!!
@XrizzTina
@XrizzTina 3 жыл бұрын
I’m going to have so many comments on this video! I already know. First I want to chime in on the schooling. It’s hammered into the minds of young people for so long to just get these degrees with no plan to transition into actual adulthood. I also feel like Americans specifically are made to fear exploring other avenues of living life. Were taught that other countries are dangerous, encouraged to obtain education (and huge debt), work ourselves to death, obtain properties and responsibilities we may or may not be ready for (marriage, homes and children) only to miss out on so many opportunities and experiences worth mentioning. Whew! I could go on and on. Don’t get me started on the full time job crap…
@j.lauren6282
@j.lauren6282 3 жыл бұрын
Soooo many gems here! One is add is go to therapy! Everybody has something to heal from, work through, and/or improve.
@LifeOfSindiswa
@LifeOfSindiswa 3 жыл бұрын
You're right about the home ownership thing. I have investment properties but have yet to buy a home for myself to live in. There are so many variables to consider with home ownership. I don't know where I want to settle. I potentially want to live in different countries. I don't really want a base at this stage of my life or perhaps ever.
@MrsOnuch
@MrsOnuch 3 жыл бұрын
Omg thank u for uploading on this my Pampering Saturday 😍… babies are taking a nap and mommy is enjoying Ashley’s video 😮‍💨
@QueenAmeirica
@QueenAmeirica 3 жыл бұрын
I love this, post grad I got a great paying job after graduation but the pandemic hit and had to wait months to start. After I actually started I hated the mess out of it. The worst experience ever and now trying to get back to me, self care and self love. The job really took over my life. But yes! Push through it and fight for what you want ladies!! Glad you spoke on so many great points 💚
@tandrawarren3542
@tandrawarren3542 3 жыл бұрын
My girl dropped gems!!!
@xauceamani
@xauceamani 3 жыл бұрын
I am seventeen, However I enjoy this video and reading the comments feels like advice from loving aunties. I will most definitely keeping in mind these advice and going back to this in moments I need a reminder/clarify. I wish everyone well and take care, God bless! ps - I really like the credit card tip, can't yet get one. But when I do, will be using the pay half on the 15 and the rest 3 days before the end of the month. To add for having memories and photos of loved ones! My father would take photos and I am grateful as, Its like a mental time travel through those images, looking through the photo album. So, I would suggest having a photo album/scrapbook, which is more a decorative photo album, i'd say. To have a physical copy. So when you want to tune out from media, you can still look at the memories you made through that album.
@makeupqueenroo
@makeupqueenroo 3 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this video and your honesty. Things I wish I would have learned before my 20s is to enjoy life while you have no responsibilities (aka kids) because it’s a different ball game when you’re not just free to do as you please. Yes I would love a dedicated video to your soft glam routine please.
@chelseaspence4182
@chelseaspence4182 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your tips, I learned so much and hopefully I can start applying these tips now so that I'm somewhat prepared when I do enter my 20s.
@amberm92
@amberm92 3 жыл бұрын
I’ve never enjoyed a chit chat GRWM more! LOVED this video 💕
@vanessascorner728
@vanessascorner728 3 жыл бұрын
This was so informative especially the bathroom things you learned and they explain some things lol. I def agree with taking pictures I have next to none from undergrad and regret it so bad now that I think back at those times they were so fun but I have no physical memories to hold onto,
@bbee678
@bbee678 3 жыл бұрын
I always love these sit down/talk videos from you!! ❤️
@Iamjavonne
@Iamjavonne 3 жыл бұрын
I just sent this video to my three daughters… thank you
@PorshaCierra
@PorshaCierra 3 жыл бұрын
Sis said even if you’re watching on a calculator lol…love it 😂
@Yagirlshanya
@Yagirlshanya 3 жыл бұрын
I am 21 and I am so thankful for this.. keep them coming ladies !!! ❤️❤️❤️
@moriahmartin6932
@moriahmartin6932 3 жыл бұрын
I’m 21 ☺️ and I’ve learned not to keep people around that make you feel guilty for setting boundaries for most of my life It’s been really hard for me to speak up for myself and set these boundaries out of fear of losing people but now I’m seeing I don’t want that kind of energy around me anyway the right people will respect them period. I’m also learning to honor my sensitivity and realizing I’m not too sensitive some people (even family) are just comfortable with disrespecting you and I’ll no longer tolerate that
@TheAnMariComplex
@TheAnMariComplex 3 жыл бұрын
I rarely ever watch a YT video these days without skipping through it--but this was such an easy watch. You practically said everything that has crossed my mind within this past year. And, the "don't date a medium ugly man in a bad financial situation" felt like a personal attack lmao. Men of all types (unfortunately) are attracted to classy attractive women who carry themselves well and live elevated lifestyles but many men cannot maintain them; and despite social media rhetoric, wanting someone to come into your (already full) life and add to/enhance it does not make you a "bird" or "golddigger"--it makes you smart (and less miserable down the road...trust me).
@Omo_I
@Omo_I 3 жыл бұрын
EVERYTHING YOU SHARED IS GOLD ❤️ Just turned 22 and it feels like you made this video specifically for me.. I’m so grateful for this 🙏🏽 YOU’RE AN AMAZING PERSON, LOVE YOU ❤️❤️❤️ Thank you!!!!
@krislatoya7556
@krislatoya7556 3 жыл бұрын
Smiling at something you said. I'm 31. Dated a guy for most my 20s, asked What future do you see for us? I asked twice at different intervals and never got an answer. I even told another guy about it years later and his response was: He didn't even tell a lie? Just goes to show right. In a much happier place now, thank God.
@justkayd
@justkayd 3 жыл бұрын
As a woman in her mid 30’s these are ALLLLLL FACTS!!!!
@rachelagyemang237
@rachelagyemang237 3 жыл бұрын
I hope you do more videos like this 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🥰🥰 Ashley you grew up so incredibly and very mature😇😇
@m.j.parker
@m.j.parker 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy I found your channel! I love your content so far. You’re a couple years older than I am, and already feel like you’re the older sister I always needed lol.
@popquanvlog
@popquanvlog 3 жыл бұрын
This video was so Relatable , thank you because I’m in my mid 20’s and I’ve been stressing myself out about a lot of these thing
@Kham_PhD
@Kham_PhD 3 жыл бұрын
This was sooo good and relatable! I had to come back and watch on my phone just to hit that “like” button! ❤️
@BossdomChronicals
@BossdomChronicals 3 жыл бұрын
It is NEVER TOO LATE… I’ve gone back and completed a few things I could have done in my 20s but didn’t because at the time I felt it was too late. Yes listen to your Elders we have life wisdom…
@niahnicole
@niahnicole 3 жыл бұрын
As a 31year young black American woman: Yes, yes, YEEESSSS to ALL the above!! Give the growls some hope out here! Definitely inspires me to chime in! Great video as always, Ashley!💕
@naomichanellaingg
@naomichanellaingg 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking about doing a video on my post grad depression aswel. You seriously voiced it soooo well! I’m going THROUGGHH it right now 😂😂
@JadynnJone
@JadynnJone 3 жыл бұрын
YOU ARE PREACHING IN THIS VIDEO!!!!
@Mariahtahresa
@Mariahtahresa 3 жыл бұрын
Listen this video is for EVERYONE!! Such a great video!!!
@slioness0078
@slioness0078 3 жыл бұрын
Hey girl hey! We missed you here in KZbin land and you came back strong. This whole video was RNS, especially the dating part. This is so true about men who approach a woman that’s well groomed and then don’t want to take her on a real date. Women think good men don’t exist but it’s billions of people in the world, what one won’t another one will. Also women stop letting these fools tell you he likes a natural girl and he doesn’t want you wearing hair, nails and makeup. Do wtf you want don’t let him make up basic because every girl that doesn’t wear it doesn’t make them automatically pretty and the ones that do aren’t automatically ugly just always feel like you’re best self, you deserve it. You have to live with yourself other ppl don’t!
@kangoocutee1198
@kangoocutee1198 3 жыл бұрын
"Knowing When to Walk Away, knowing when to run"😋
@KiKiCarr
@KiKiCarr 3 жыл бұрын
Of course KZbin counts! Time management.. accounting .. creativity.. meeting deadlines .. effective communicator .. should I go on?
@jasminedoll1508
@jasminedoll1508 3 жыл бұрын
please ashley dedicated soft glam makeup tutorial with a brush application breakdown if you can. 💕 learned a lot from this video, i loved this concept. 💗
@khandygurl01
@khandygurl01 2 жыл бұрын
I saw a TikTok RIGHT before watching your video that spoke about men typically marrying the woman who was right there when they’re ready, so never take it personally if they wife the next woman lol!! 36:04
@ebonywilliams7725
@ebonywilliams7725 3 жыл бұрын
Loved the advice and loved the video babe! 🤍
@simpllysharelle
@simpllysharelle 3 жыл бұрын
I love your chit chat videos. I do my makeup with you during your videos!!!
@theunjadedg
@theunjadedg 3 жыл бұрын
lmaoooo i'm afraid you're spilling !!! thank you for this video 1st of all... this is def needed given the climate. you pulled everything out of my head that for a long time i thought it was just me going through it... tysm 💚 1 lesson i learned (applied) in my 20s: writing things down; 1a. get a planner, 1b. a dry erase board/calendar - to get everything out of your head and into practice/practical action(s)
@Punchlinebaby
@Punchlinebaby 3 жыл бұрын
Sooo many gems. Post graduation depression is relatable to me. Thank you
@JadynnJone
@JadynnJone 3 жыл бұрын
I'm crying at the wings date. like sir please. I spent $200 on this perfume. no I can't come over to chilll
@vuyokaziq2407
@vuyokaziq2407 3 жыл бұрын
I live for your Chit Chats. So wise, wholesome and affirming, you're like my online big sister ❤
@amislife10
@amislife10 3 жыл бұрын
This video came at the RIGHT time. So many gems were dropped in this video. I'm turning 25 in less than 7 months and I've been feeling stuck. So I'm going to use the time from now until my 25th to really position myself into a good life - no more going with the flow in any aspect! 😭🥰
@AyeeNicole
@AyeeNicole 3 жыл бұрын
Here for it all 🙌🏾 especially the glasses cuz I can’t wait till the new insurance benefits roll around Lmaoo. Honestly great advice. Im now 31 and I feel as if women, black women specifically did not have access/were not told these things and/or encouraged for the many different paths in life. Pivot when you need to pivot 🙌🏾. At the end of the day, when you know and acknowledge your worth you will not let someone else devalue you- no matter friend or man. (& yes updated Soft glam video please)
@LaurenDanielle
@LaurenDanielle 3 жыл бұрын
Ashley, this was the one! I love this content and I’m grabbing me a pair of glasses 💗
@TheRealFashionablyFrugal
@TheRealFashionablyFrugal 3 жыл бұрын
Whewwwwwww, this video is resonating on so many levels! Definitely inspired me to make my own video like this, I loved it!
@NasiaG
@NasiaG 3 жыл бұрын
I wish I knew how to build credit , it’s okay to ask for help & NEVER EVER COMPARE YOURSELF !
@nyankaphillips3722
@nyankaphillips3722 3 жыл бұрын
Yes Ashley, l definitely love these kind of videos.
@ChitownFitQueen
@ChitownFitQueen 3 жыл бұрын
Ok Ashley 🔥🔥🔥🔥 I have watched you for years so, I feel like an internet proud aunt 👏🏾 at this point...lol The level of growth and maturity in you is amazing pooh. I agree and reasonated with a lot of what you said in this video. As ladies, we must respect ourselves and our bodies, and to put effort into taking care of it. Losing weight later in life although great, it gets so much harder to do so. That is my lesson if I could go back and change anything it would be to have stayed in the gym. Nevertheless, I remain a work in progress going after my goals. I loved this longer video. The content and quality is great. Keep these kind of videos coming
@rach__ow
@rach__ow 3 жыл бұрын
“Find your signature”❤️I love that, thank you! Ashley
@kenedimichele
@kenedimichele 3 жыл бұрын
this was amazing😭 as a 21 yearold girl in college this was spot on love you for this💗
@shaylafromoutwest2909
@shaylafromoutwest2909 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this video… I agree and feel the same way about everything so far!! Love this❤️
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