Chit Chat: The Pro's and Con's of Going Gray!

[@jojorey6886]

My only regret about growing out my gray/silver was that I didn’t do it sooner because I listened to hairdressers tell me it would make me look older. Not true. Once I made my mind up about letting the dye go it didn’t matter to me what anyone had to say about it. I love my silver hair.

[@MrKongsMom]

I'm so glad it brings you joy! It should

[@cinma4890]

My hairdresser keeps telling me the same thing. You are too young. But when I see Grey on others I am like look how pretty and she insists on not for me. And you know what I realized that it’s actually best to go Grey early in life. Just my opinion Bc you can adjust to it and enjoy it and style it and do many things to it.

[@medicclasses2994]

Something is true, oldy is an attitude, if your spirit is young, you will look young. Grey is just a colour!!

[@hazelshand8106]

What's the name of the product?

[@smallhouseinthemeadow6131]

I am a retired hairdresser and we are not all like that.I supported many clients through their silver transitions...

[@TracyW-me8br]

When people say it’s a journey, they mean journey in so many ways besides your hair. Facing society expectations, facing your own insecurities, it’s so much more than hair.

[@beckysue7789]

Yes it is! And I am one, trust me has gone through it. My birthday is coming up next month. Last yrs birthday was a disaster. An inch of white roots. Failed hair trim. Shall I go on ? Nah. even though we are going through isolation, I am better than a year ago. And the h-ll with social expectations!!! Rock that gray, white, silver what ever is growing out!!!!! Will be 64 Yay, Woo Whoo, !!!!!! Can't wait

[@beckysue7789]

Go White Yes!!! Liberating

[@Musingsatcoco]

Totally agree.

[@clarisahernandez5280]

Yes, there's so much associated with women's hair. I'm wearing my hair short in a long hair society.

[@starseed8809]

Society sucks!

[@Jennifer-hc9rx]

I am 8 months in at 37 and I feel so liberated.

[@gaylejideofor6198]

OMG you are THE first person I have ever seen with grey/charcoal eyebrows~ they are marvelous and strikingly beautiful with your eyes. You are a gorgeous silverhaired beauty. Stay strong and continue to shine dear.

[@markybee7672]

Shes amazing looking isn't she,just so so pretty

[@GGGG1040]

Yeah me too she looks amazing

[@g2bk]

People who think you look old, 80, washed out, or anything else like that might need vision adjustments, attitude adjustments, or manners. You look great.

[@andeeanko7079]

Yes, she's gorgeous and not a wrinkle on her. ♡

[@GoOutside321]

Yes, your hair is beautiful

[@citizenjoevotes]

They need their eyes checked. Those remarks can only made by trolls.

[@missminti]

She looks pure class.

[@debbiesa34]

Love it. I have been letting my hair grow my grays. As a Hispanic . And I’m loving it. It’s been 3yrs. Now I’m 49. Yeah I don’t care what other people say, my husband loves it. So... yeah. Love from Austin,Tx❤️love your videos

[@ithacacomments4811]

I am 70. Pure white! The college girls all ask me who does my color ! God.

[@deek64dk]

👍😊❤❤

[@charlenelawshea3404]

Ithaca Comments, 💁‍♀️I hear you girl. I'm 57 and my hair is silver gray and white. And people are always saying you look to young to have that color hair 💁‍♀️but I love it and will never ever color it. It is my crown that GOD, gave me ☺🌹

[@kimba7567]

Its super trendy now! And we can grow it naturally

[@latinainwpb]

I am 72 and still dye my hair, been a “blonde” for over 20 years, first dark blonde, and 11 years later very light blond. I have the misfortune of having uneven gray, still too much dark hair on the front which I don’t think would look good but one day - one day- I’ll be ready to take the plunge.

[@QBee79]

I started going grey at 17, was naturally brunette, changed to blonde at 35 to hide my grey, just turned 41 and I’m done with dying my hair 😂 I have 2” of growth and I’m hoping it grows out faster. People have also said, you’re going to look old...🤦🏼‍♀️ I really don’t care what anyone says now, and I’m excited to see my final grey pattern when it’s grown out. Glad I found your channel 👩🏻‍🦳🤍

[@renellepenney1886]

This is my situation too !! I'm excited :)

[@crystalzacarias1829]

Did you stick with it?

[@Mmmmkaaay]

I'm 3 inches in and astounded by how much I love the color. Why have I been a slave to the dye all these years?! You are stunning!

[@Clleonie]

How is it going for you now a year later ?

[@Mmmmkaaay]

@@Clleonie It's almost to my shoulders and I get compliments a LOT.

[@catsrcute5313]

I’m 26 and started going heavily gray around my face about 3 years ago. At this point I want it to go gray faster so I could have it natural and it look consistent. Your hair looks great

[@lynette2978]

It was because of your confidence that I decided to go grey 2 years ago. My husband was like 'why are you doing that?!'...because I was tired of the cost, the time, and I wasn't fooling anyone with those roots showing up every 2 weeks. It was the BEST decision, so freeing! I too, am stopped by complete strangers complementing my hair. For me, to keep it looking updated I have a great cut, use AG silver shampoo and conditioner, and wear cooler tones of blush and lip color. Great video 😊

[@kirsten6371]

Does your husband love it now?

[@lynette2978]

@@kirsten6371 Yes he does 😊

[@lynette2978]

@Lore Sogge I don't believe I look older at all, I'm literally stopped by complete strangers (many who are much younger) complimenting my hair.... I'll never go back. 😁

[@charitywrenn3489]

One year ago I ditched the dye, and I went cold turkey. You were the person that really helped me decide to go for it so thank you!!!!

[@janiegonzalez8577]

It’s Beautiful! I’m almost 62 this year and I decided it’s definitely time for me! The transition is almost there. My Hubby too was fine. He knew I had been dying my hair since I was in my 20’s.🎉🎉🎉😍😍😍

[@elisabethr7787]

You look gorgeous!! Love how your grey hair matches your eyes. 😊

[@Childoftheking1611]

I'm not just saying this..you're hair is really beautiful and soft looking and healthy. Im 31 and starting to get gray and my hair is almost black 😭 so I'm needing to dye it every 2 to 3 weeks. I dont want to do that the rest of my life. You encourage me to embrace it. Love your hair

[@MrKongsMom]

You can do it! The transition can be tough, but it's so worth it. Get yourself some contingency items, hats, root touch up spray, headbands, whatever helps you through the process. It's so worth it in the end. The first few months are the hardest. Your stylist may also be able to help!

[@chrissyforanimals]

I’m going gray right now and I also cut my hair short so very drastic change, funny how people feel the need to comment on that you have gray hair.

[@susanshanks2407]

Lizzy ddd so true.

[@carriebrening6812]

I am trying to grow out my hair. I am scared when someone will comment negative about. I want a phrase to tell them to shut them down.

[@Mmmmkaaay]

@@carriebrening6812 I tell those haters that I will be sure to put their comment in the circular file beneath my desk. 😁

[@test1test219]

People with light eyes pull Grey hair off so well.

[@1950froggie]

My decision to let my hair go grey was actually decided through the COVD19 pandemic. I've colored my hair since my early 30's. Iam turning 60 and excited as well as nervous. Since we are sheltering in place my decision has been made for me.

[@fleur3986]

Me too. My white roots mean colouring every 4 weeks. I'm worried as I've got brown eyes and eyebrows.

[@tradale105]

Me too. I like wearing my hair long so making this commitment is going to take a long time, and my hairdresser is not on board yet, through text, and I love her so I’m conflicted. But it is just hair, and it’s my hair, so I’m going to be brave. Thank you for this video, you look absolutely beautiful, and you are inspiring me.

[@elri3543]

Me too!

[@lindamarocco4583]

Becky O'keefe same thing for me... I am 63, been coloring since in my 20’s!... Covid decided for me as well... I am nervous an excited at the same time!!!.. good luck on your journey!!!... I am 10 weeks no dye!.. 💜💜💜💜💜

[@baguibaguis]

Me too!! 👍🤗

[@monikavarro2020]

The hardest thing about growing out your grey hair is society’s expectations and other people’s opinions. I so completely agree that life is too short. 😃

[@HkFinn83]

When I got grey hair society said to me, you’re bad and deserve to be punished! I said wow, I should dye it then. I only hope one day to be able to be strong enough, and brave enough, and let’s be honest safe enough, to not dye my hair.

[@pamcakesokie283]

I just got sick of coloring my hair every 2 weeks. So, off with the long hair into a gray pixie. I live it!

[@bettyb1581]

@Lore Sogge I'm 54 pixie cuts aren't just for 80 yr olds

[@Danit.Talkscentswithme]

I see shiny silver hairs throughout my head blended in with my brown. My hair is colored but it’s pretty close to my natural , when I see the shiny silver hairs, I wish my whole head was like that. It looks like tiny shards of tinsel :) ❤️

[@paulastrachan4053]

I know! I am a brunette with a lot of white in my hair, and natural streaks on both sides of my face. I wish it would hurry and go pure white so I can see what I'll look like. And if it was good enough for the late Leon Russell, it's good enough for me.

[@beckysue7789]

Just do it ! let it go gray. I am 9months in

[@beckysue7789]

@@alegriart Just stop dyeing it.

[@mareenalewis4241]

@@alegriart I am the same. Ive decided to put in an ash brown lowlight, and ash blonde or silver highlight. I am hoping I can just slowly add more of the silver highlights. I want to just go grey, but like Danit, it's like tinsel on my head.🙄 it would be far too much up keep if I had it all colored grey.

[@KBC-ib6qm]

You look gorgeous. I’m 35 and thinking of making the transition. Your grey hair does not make you look old, your skin is radiant and glowing. 😍 thank you for sharing your journey, it’s inspiring and encouraging to see.

[@lisathornton4831]

To me a non-issue. My family had a hard time a few years ago when I decided to grow my hair to shoulder length! I will be 60 in a couple of weeks and, according to them, you don't have longer hair at my age🙄Everyone has their opinion on such things, I say apply them to yourself and move on. I think you rock your hair! 🌞

[@bethmiles5942]

Lisa Thornton I’m sixty and my hair is well past my shoulders, I don’t care what other people think

[@mcbrineart]

Also 60 with long silver streaks - better condition & shine, time and money saved!!

[@light-yi2me]

Lisa, you can rock long hair at any age, however long hair must be taking care of and healthy! If you are 20 with unhealthy hair pls don't make it worse by growing it longer .

[@faydiva8863]

Same here!

[@QBee79]

You go girl! I’m going to have long hair when I’m 80 🎉🎉 lol Humans are so opinionated 😆 I am waiting for the comments to start about my grey roots lol

[@jillianpurdy2542]

Your hair definitely brings out the colour of your eyes! You are a good advert for going natural, total rock star!!! X

[@jillarnold8638]

You're hair looks great and you don't look old. Some people don't feel good about themselves, and they want others to feel bad about themselves.

[@gingiyee9767]

Your hair is beautiful & has given me inspiration to go grey where I want to be!

[@traceymorim]

I love everything you had to say! Surrounding yourself with only supportive people and doing what you want with your body/hair. I have been colouring my hair since my 20s and am now a young 44 :) I’ve always thought I’d let my hair go grey in my 60s but I’m just so darn tired of the constant colouring. Your video inspires me to just do it! It takes a lot of confidence to do this but it’s also like a personal challenge that I may just be ready for.... You are so beautiful with your grey hair! Thank you so much!

[@MrKongsMom]

I'm so glad!!!! Wishing you a great journey! It's well worth it

[@StillPooh62]

Textural changes aren’t always a bad thing. My fine straight flat hair has always been a challenge. My wavy greys have added a lot of body; I’m currently wearing my hair pretty long, and don’t heat style it. It’s in the best condition I’ve had for ages! At 57, I haven’t colored my hair in 3-4 years, so going grey hasn’t involved a harsh contrast. My 64 year old sister (who remains steadfastly bottle blonde) is the only one who feels the need to discuss my hair on a regular basis.

[@GoOutside321]

Sis is jelouse!!! Women are so brainwashed by beauty products. God forbid we this we're gorgeous just "as you are"

[@starseed8809]

Lol sisters..

[@noelleagape8684]

Your hair looks pretty and you don't look one year over 35! Your makeup looks amazing. I congratulate you for your courage!

[@MrKongsMom]

Thanks Noelle! Best decision I ever made!

[@kathleent6653]

I still dye my hair, but that’s what makes me happy!!🤗! I have to say yours looks great!! And you’re right people need to mind their own business!! Live and let live!! 🤗

[@ImViviTors]

The gray hair complements your eyes so well! I also love how you did "duo palette" look with your eyes being naturally gray, your natural gray hair is on the lighter side and you matched them with gray shade eyebrows. In contrast your make up is nude bronze?.. You did put some thought into it and it works great for you! This is a great example of how someone should evaluate what they naturally have and come up with low maintenance look that works best for them!

[@MrKongsMom]

Thanks so much!

[@carahenken4452]

I am 7 months in and fine with it so far. My hair is much healthier, and I lose a lot less hair than before. Everyone around me has been really supportive and nice about it. It's good to be free and not have to think about constantly colouring my hair. I have long hair, and the best transition hairstyle for me has been putting it up into a high bun, so then the head is grey, and the bun is dark which looks pretty cool, and no transition line to have to look at. 😊

[@MrKongsMom]

Thanks for sharing!! I am so happy and excited for your journey! Welcome to the silver sister club!

[@Sconniegal]

You inspired me to let my gray grow out. I’m about 25% gray and went cold turkey about a year and a half ago. I found my first gray at age 15. It’s so freeing honestly. I think the majority of the growing pains for me occurred between months 2-5.

[@Pamela-hr9zi]

Im 62 and just now getting ready. Im tired of covering it. Thank you for your encouragement. I'm watching alot of videos for support and the dos and don'ts. All the tips help thank you!

[@johannedoucet3730]

Four months into COVID, I was set to return to the office and beyond the need for a good haircut, I was keen to dye my hair. I couldn’t let the gray growth show. Now two months later and turning 55 later this fall, I’m going to do the gray transition journey. My sister stopped dyeing her hair five years ago and looks gorgeous. I’m anticipating a challenge as a professional woman going through this transition at work but am determined to stay strong.

[@lesleydavies3953]

I stopped coloring my hair about 12yyrs ago, I cannot remember anyone saying I look old, I am 75yrs old, I think if you have a style that suits you and it's in good condition allow the Grey show, Grey is just another color

[@dr.susankaye]

Thank you for your strength and self-love. I am 72 and it is time! Hard....but if not now, when? I am on camera alot so this transition is a big decision and I know my hair will be happier and the rest of me is young, I do yoga every day since my 20's! Thank you again for the inspiration.

[@EWJC3]

Thank you for you video. Your hair always looks beautiful! I turned 50 this year, so I decided that I was going to finally stop colouring my hair because constantly trying to cover that ‘skunk line’, was exhausting and expensive. My family and friends have not been very supportive and I was surprised at the negative comments I got from some of my co-workers when I expressed my desire to go grey. Some of the comments were that I would look much older than I am, and that I would look like I’d let myself go. Funnily enough, my hairdresser, was also against my decision ... so, I found a new hair dresser who was willing to help me transition to grey. I just decided to do it for ME for a change! Yes, it’s been hard trying to get used to a new look, but as the year has progressed, I’ve found such freedom in not needing to worry about a root touch-up every 4 weeks. I make sure my hair is well cut and in good condition and I’ve grown to love it! I heard someone say that transitioning to grey is not about letting yourself go, but about just letting go... I have found so much freedom in just holding onto that! Sending you love from Australia 🇦🇺❤️

[@RoseBuds38Thornz]

I think the color looks gorgeous on you and I like the way you think, be yourself.

[@kimgarrison2904]

I hadn't seen this before. I'm 55 and made my decision earlier this year, so I'm definitely in transition mode. Working the grow-out phase in a couple different ways. Can't wait for the freedom. Mine is going to be a lot more white than yours. You're beautiful and you're rocking it!

[@smallhouseinthemeadow6131]

You and your hair are SO gorgeous! I just cut off a lot of my hair yesterday because the color was washing out and it felt and looked like straw. I am a retired hairdresser. I have been wanting to go silver for years, but kept listening to the naysayers who were saying I looked "too young to make myself look old". I tried to do it at 40, then again and fifty, and now and sixty, I am going for it! People will probably not tell me that I look too young to do it anymore,LOL. This time I plan on ignoring the rude people and comments from here on in. I feel sad that people are so rude on the internet and in general.What has made people so rude and ill mannered these days? It speaks volumes about them .I feel sorry for them. It must suck to be so miserable that you have to comment on others...Your skin and teeth look amazing too.I am so happy to have found your channel .You are an inspiration. I wish I had done it when I was as young as you are...I could have been on multiple vacations with the money I spent on highlights after I retired as a hairdresser...

[@kerendn]

Your hair is beautiful! I'm starting to grow out my grey. Thank you for the inspiration and for sharing your experience.

[@MrKongsMom]

You can do it!

[@annwood536]

I just started my journey with going gray. 6 weeks no color. Just had gray highlights added the other day. So excited to see the changes.

[@cynthiatennant9896]

You look beautiful!!! That’s awful that people say otherwise! I’m 60 and just decided to go grey a few days ago. Thank you for your tips 🤗

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you so much!! Best of luck on your journey Cynthia! It's a worthwhile one!

[@pjacksone]

When let go of the wigs and weaves and went natural 4 years ago, I was at the mall with a friend and this guy asked my friend if I was her mother. I was mortified and walked away from them. At first the transition had a few rough patches but for the most part I have had an amazing response to it. People think it's cool and like you said ask if I dyed my hair this color. I'm more salt n pepper and I almost wish I was straight grey because I like uniformity better. I have had my hair dyed grey for a photo shoot and a couple of fashion shows and people went bonkers for it. They wanted me to keep the color but I couldn't because it would bleed off unto clothing, hands, etc. They told me I looked like "Storm" (the comic book character). So I know at least when it does change all the way over, people will love it. Your hair is gorgeous.

[@tinagosnold9070]

Just starting my gray journey. I flew to California to have my cousin, who is crazy awesome with hair color, lift my colored hair to platinum. I have around 4 inches of natural gray growth, and the platinum looks better with my gray growth than the brown/blond that it was before. Appreciate your video. You look fantastic!

[@ibelieveinangelsyesido7436]

I was here during your journey, Melanie. It's so freeing, *never* fretting about roots! It does require some tweaking of colors but it's so worth it. Blessings! Jackie in upstate NY

[@yolita21]

I agree on everything you touched on. I’m 5 months in. Do what makes you happy, not others. Making others happy for their sake and not yours is not healthy. I love your hair!

[@MrKongsMom]

Congratulations on your journey Yolanda!

[@luguidubiela1654]

"Family or not, if you're not a supportive , then bye!" Yes!

[@luguidubiela1654]

btw, your hair looks gorgeous and i don't think it ages you at all.

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you!

[@donnaconyers7315]

I will be turning 62 in August. Yes, I'm so ready for this journey. I have had family members talk me out of it before but not this time. I can't help it if they are going to feel old because I am gray. Thank you for this video. Starting the journey today.

[@dizzyygirll]

I love your hair and your attitude! My last hair coloring was on Feb 8, 2019. I normally had blonde hair with low lights and bleach highlights. I've been using overtone colors (silver and rose gold, sometimes purple) on my hair I'm growing out and my bleach highlights really pickup the color which has made the transition so much easier. My grey doesn't really pickup much color. In certain light I can see a blue hue on my grey which comes from Overtone's silver (it has a blue base). I will be 50 in October and just got tired of it....spending so much etc. I haven't received any negativity, at least to my face. I have received MANY compliments especially from younger ladies. Some would love to have the color that I have naturally growing in which makes me feel quite trendy, which I have never been :) I enjoyed the video and am getting ready to watch your facial care video. Thank you!!!

[@MrKongsMom]

Congratulations on your journey! Its a beautiful one :)

[@Mathisontanner]

You tube friend, you totally rock your hair. Your channel has changed a lot of things for me! My home smells amazing, I have started to take care of my skin again. I am blond and never did anything to my hair till my mid 30’s. I do have it done now but I am 57. I love how our YT family lifts each other up and is supportive of trying new things💜

[@cornellfoodie]

Mathisontanner I ❤️ this comment! Melanie has reached in and altered many lives. How cool!

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you so much for your kind words! And you are 100% right, it's so great to find a tribe of similar minded people who can support and uplift each other! I am so glad you are finding some inspiration here

[@TarlaMakaeff]

Wow! Your hair looks like a dyed gray because it’s so even in color - gorgeous and very stylish

[@hedgehogginger]

Your hair is absolutely GORGEOUS, and I can't believe that anyone would say otherwise! About a year ago, I started growing out my gray, and it has been surprisingly liberating. I love it way more than I thought I would, and have really only gotten compliments (at least to my face.) So glad I found your channel! : )

[@irisk934]

I've always admired your gray hair. I'm starting to see a few silver strands now and due to your inspiration in some part, I don't really worry about it. I just think, it's just not something I have the time or energy to really stress out about.

[@carimartinez6779]

I'm so glad to see someone in their 40's embracing this!!!! I am currently growing my hair out and it's so much more healthy and strong. You look great! Thanks for sharing your experience so candidly!

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you so much for your kind words! Best of luck on your hair journey!

[@tamisue74]

I'm 45 and if I didn't color my hair it would be completely gray. I've been considering going gray for awhile but the growing out process scares me. I love your hair and think you look beautiful! ❤

[@purplebutterfly2900]

Don't know if this helps, but I dyed just my part, for the first 5 months and the transition was so smooth.

[@meeshalinproductions7640]

I've been thinking about growing out my gray for a while, I feel the same way you do. I damaged my hair so much trying to cover the gray. I'm now having my hair weaved with highlights and some lowlights leaving my gray to grow in. Try it and see how it goes, it definitely helps eliminate the skunk stripe!

[@DogGroomer-hd1oj]

I went cold turkey and enjoyed the gradual increase in personal growth . The uneasiness I felt during the first 5 months, turned out to be good for my ability to spend more time with self love. After month 6 , I got excited about how soft and healthy the growth was. After 8 mos , I had fun adapting makeup . 18 months into it , with an obvious grombre , I was fully committed to being in love with all the unique things my hair did. White hear , brown there , slate mixed in. It's been great. 👍

[@lindamarocco4583]

Meeshalin Productions how did that work for you?... I have brown dyed hair and want to add silver highlights to make the grey transition easier... does it make it easier?... thank you in advance?

[@katalinmcewan]

I think cold turkey is the best thing to do if you are brunette. I am also a brunette and managed to grow out my grey hair (I’m about 50% grey, it depends where it is on my scalp). I was “lucky enough” that the front section of my hair was still brunette and that tiny amount of brunette really covered over my greys in a pony tail. Could you do a few months growth perhaps then have a pixie cut? I had cut my hair to just about below my jaw bone and keep having regular trims. It was a huge change for my as I have always had long hair. Time goes quickly and I think you will be glad once you had gone past the first 6 months. I also like the idea of having a buzz cut then wearing a pretty wig. If I was 100% grey I would seriously consider that option. Perhaps not the best though if you live in a warm climate.

[@livp9771]

I turn 38 in May this year and I have super black hair but have been going grey pretty fast.... I’m so done with coloring it and am about to go on this journey...I’m excited...thank you for this video and I personally think you look absolutely stunning...be proud of your look 🤗

[@palo3000]

I don’t mind going grey, what I do mind is the coarse, freeze gray hair can be.

[@PerrySkyePhoenix]

I have the opposite problem. My hair is baby fine and extremely flat. I have to bleach or color it to give it life.

[@gardengirl9822]

dry hair oil works wonders ,use a light touch at first or spray some on your hand and smooth down the frizzy parts

[@lindaweathers3053]

Haters are going to hate! I'm in the process of growing out my hair and going grey. I've bought a wig so if I have a special occasion I can make my hair presentable till I get through this process. But I'm tired of paying to have my very resistant grey colored. So cheers to us! I've made the decision and plan to follow through!

[@carriehaggard2382]

So glad I came across your channel! I’m early in my gray journey and it’s a struggle. Thank you for all the tips and your honesty, it is truly appreciated!

[@Clleonie]

How's it going now ?

[@humadaud3575]

I think you look great! And that you have embraced your natural hair colour is commendable. Who cares about people making negative comments? This is your natural hair colour. I personally think that as we age, our skin tone and texture changes. My natural hair colour is a dark brown. I am about 7/8 weeks into not colouring my hair. I think that as you age, colouring your hair can age you especially if it's a dark colour. You look beautiful. You rock your grey hair!

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you so much!

[@boysrus2]

I stopped coloring my hair 2 yrs ago. I’d been highlighting or coloring my hair for 35 years. I’m in my mid 50’s and the I’m the only one of my friends that’s gray. My husband and best friend have been complimentary, but I’ve gotten negative comments too. And been told that I’m brave, lol. I love the freedom!

[@leahsmith2779]

I started my journey by shaving all my off to raise awareness for CancerFreeze in 2012, and to pay tribute and honor my beautiful mama who was a 9year breast cancer survivor, she passed away in 2009. The day I shaved all my hair off which was in February 2012, I decided I would never color my hair again. I can honestly say it was the best decision for me. What made it even more wonderful was when it started to grow back it was the same beautiful color my mama had. Its a beautiful white on top, gray and silver on back and sides. I have naturally curly and wavy hair and I love rocking my short asymmetrical pixie and I absolutely love it. What I can say is just be you and embrace this wonderful amazing journey. Good luck to you all on the way to becoming Silver and white Sisters. I love my hair color and style now.

[@MissDaisy-jr8vt]

41? I'm watching this vid. in 2020 you look amazing! You actually look about 31! You look awesome!

[@arleneolsen3231]

I can’t even imagine someone saying you look anything but beautiful. You’re inspiring to me. I’m five months out and thanking covid, actually.

[@andreawalker7138]

I just wanted to say that your hair is gorgeous! The color is very flattering to your skin tone (and your eye color). I'm very jealous and can't wait until my hair is fully gray; I've always said that gray hair is nature's highlights. 😁

[@joanneleib5887]

I’m 9 months in and your hair is fabulous and no you don’t look older at all. I wish mine will look so good.

[@MrKongsMom]

Congratulations Joanne! It's a worthwhile journey!

[@daemionluccas490]

41?? No ma'am. You're 25. I'm gonna need to see some I.D.

[@emily_cross5115]

right now I am 22 years old and i don't know how I got to videos about gray hair, and honestly once I start getting grays when I'm older, I'll let it grow out it just looks so beautiful!

[@Fluidx808]

"I don't have to color my hair anymore" - this is the biggest advantage! After years of dealing with roots/whole hair dying, it gets so tiresome. Plus the healthy aspect. You look very young for grey hair and I think it looks fab. I absolutely love grey on young women (those that do it on purpose - with a young face it looks so good). I went grey at 56 and haven't regretted it at all. Embrace the grey! One great tip!!!: I followed one woman on UTube who only colored the roots as the rest of the hair turned grey, such an easy, great transition. Even my hairstylist said it was the best way to go natural and recos this method to other clients I wear my grey proudly - at my age I think it's just fine to be your age and not be ashamed. Plus I have a young spirit and cute groovy haircuts really help.

[@theworldisavampire3346]

I'm 56 now and into my 2nd yr natural. your natural color is so much more flattering to your face and I didn't realize that until people started asking me if I had gotten cosmetic work done because my skin was glowing. it actually had nothing to do with my skin it had more to do with using unnatural hair dye when my age and face needed my softer and natural gray hair.

[@laurencemattioli2277]

Fluidx808 May I ask who you followed on utube who only coloured their hair at the roots to make the transition easier? Because I've decided to go gray at 48! Thanks so much.

[@Fluidx808]

@@laurencemattioli2277 It was a couple of years ago and now I can’t find the vid anywhere! Ugh! Anyway the concept is pretty easy. You can do it yourself or go to a stylist and ask them to do it. First off I was dying all of my hair, since most of it was already going grey, and would touch up the roots as need. I stopped dying all the hair and started just doing the roots… as the roots grow out, keep colouring them. In the meantime, the rest of the dyed hair will start washing out. There will at some point be a bit of a transition line between freshly dyed roots and the natural hair below. However it looks much, much better than having grey roots to deal with and the dyed roots do wash out. Also note I have medium to shortish layered haircuts so that helped to make it look interesting. As I said, my stylist thought it was an awesome way to go! She wouldn’t dye all of my hair grey due to the damage it would cause, so this was the best option. Good luck! I have absolutely no regrets going grey :).

[@laurencemattioli2277]

Fluidx808 thanks a lot for the explanation !

[@Fluidx808]

@@laurencemattioli2277 You're most welcome! Here is a vid that might be good if you have longer hair kzbin.info/www/bejne/bqPPaImGaKesaK8

[@mcourtois75]

Thank you for sharing your journey. I love your story and took the same route as you with some grey highlights to help blend the line. It's been almost 2 years and I am now fully transitioned. I agree with all your pros and cons! One advice is to show confidence in your choice of going grey - I didn't ask my family and friends what they thought about me going grey, I announced it. And I got no negative comments (they didn't dare telling me is my guess...and I prefer that!).

[@MrKongsMom]

Congratulations on your gray hair journey! It's so worthwhile. One of the best things I have never done, truly!

[@MIdnightChick197]

You look like a movie star. Silver screen queen :) My last coloring happened in August 2019 and I hope the transition goes smoothly

[@missy1194]

Your hair is like a majestic unicorn! 💗 I’m 32 and have been thinking about letting my gray hair grow out. Your videos have been very encouraging!

[@MrKongsMom]

You can do it! I know it's a process, but it's so wonderful once you can cut off all the "old" hair lol.

[@misskj7773]

I call people like that a vacuum sweeper nozzle, they will literally suck the life blood from you and will add absolutely nothing of a positive nature to your life. At that point, time to find a new friend. Great video!

[@jena8207]

You are an inspiration, Melanie! I started my journey four months ago. I am a natural brunette and have bleached my hair for years to deal with the gray. I think the most surprising thing has been seeing what color my hair actually is as it comes in.

[@lavonnedoehring9306]

Yes!!!! I once had an “ex” tell me he would leave me if I stopped coloring my hair. I now wonder why I let his opinion influence me but it did. I stopped coloring my hair a few years back and I absolutely love it. It is the same color as yours and I constantly am getting compliments. When people say they would like to go gray but fear it will be an “ugly” gray I tell them that it’s all in the products that you use. Anyway, your hair is gorgeous! Thank you for helping even one person who may be dectransitioning their hair color

[@lavonnedoehring9306]

Well, that didn’t go well towards the end of my comment but you get what o mean. Lol.

[@jennibee2307]

I started finding gray hairs when I was 13 and now I'm nearly 37. I last dyed my hair 8 weeks ago and while I have dye here, I just haven't wanted to bother with it. My inch of roots are almost completely silver so I am taking the plunge and growing them out. I have a pixie cut, so getting rid of the color shouldn't take long. My next haircut is in 4 weeks, my hair is like to look like a mop by then. I'm so excited to see what the color is like though! Thanks for the video and the confidence boost to keep going! Your hair is amazing, I can only hope my hair looks even close to that!

[@kdloveday]

I think your hair is beautiful. I decided 2 years ago to stop coloring my hair. It was so damaged, and felt like straw. I have received so many compliments on my hair, since I’ve let it grow out. I thought it would make me look older, but I figure it’s natural, so this is the color it should be. The growing out part, was the worst, but I just kept it up in ponytails most of the time. It is so much softer and healthier, and I’ve come to embrace it.

[@MrKongsMom]

The growing out process can be tough. But I am seeing more and more women do it and whenever I do, it just makes me smile and proud of them!

[@anitaoxencis6504]

I quit coloring my hair 3 yrs ago. I really agree with everything you've said! And my attitude is like yours. I've cut people & some family off for my well being. To the point of having only 1 bff & she passed last March. I don't regret losing people who I thought were my friends. So now I'm focusing as I've always done on raising my teen daughter alone. You really are beautiful!! And I love your attitude that I see!!

[@janisenstone5492]

I liked your video, good tips and honest story. My hair is baby fine like yours and very dark. I never dyed my hair until last October in lockdown. It looked good for a while then the grey came through, not just the rotos. I didnt like how the colour faded it was not good. So cold turkey is working but not easy. I am 10 months in and I know I can do it. I am looking at products for hair and clothes as well. You look amazing, your natural hair is beautiful. Negative comments are hurtful but dont let them get to you.

[@mariadavis7237]

Hello. I just saw your video on going grey, pros and cons. I cannot tell you how good you made me feel with your words. I'm 61 and I have been contemplating going grey for a few weeks but im nervous about it. I wear my hair in a very short pixie cut but after watching your video, I've gained new confidence and im definitely going for it. Thank you so much!! Your hair is beautiful

[@MrKongsMom]

Thank you so much for sharing this with me! Wishing you the best on your journey! I promise, it's so worthwhile!

[@eristotle2380]

you look so pretty!! thanks for sharing your experiences and advice. women like you have given me the courage to live in my authenticity!

[@bethkincaid8170]

Your beautiful blue eyes and gray hair is stunning - plus, your makeup is awesome

[@hollyyoder1213]

I am 12 weeks in and so far so good. Dyed my dark hair since I was 26 to rid the grays. I am now 59 and am ready ..... for the second time .... to let my silver shine! Thank you for your videos and support 🙋🏻‍♀️💜

[@maribelpabon4863]

Beautiful video , I decided to go gray 2yrs ago and I love it . Thank you

[@lindaschulman1789]

I’ll be 61 in 10 days!! Been dying since I’m 20, henna for 5 years before that. I’ve started the grow out a few times in the past few years, now in month 2 of growth. I don’t think of it as a “process” or “journey” just life. But embracing the growth this time.

[@mamadukes6671]

I enjoyed your video, I am on my journey to gray, I am 67 and just done with hair dye, I am doing cold turkey, yep, I will not do a pixie cut etc. I started going gray at the age of 40, beautiful auburn hair. The last time I went to my hairdresser was 6/23/2021, my color did not look good, this is when my decision to just let go. As i look at my hair in the mirror today 9/28/2021 I see the most beautiful silver crowning my head, my husband loves it, tells me it looks cool, winter is coming I will start a slow process of cutting my hair a few inches at a time. I have no problem with a granny bun. It is just a rite of passage for me, let go and let live. I earned every single gray hair I have. ty for video

[@stephaniecgilmore]

Thank you for you video! I am 33 and I've found my first gray hairs on my head this year. I don't color my hair regularly ( like once a year with a shade or two lighter in the summer. I've decided to stop coloring all together and let my hair be all natural. I want my gray hair to grow in naturally as it increases over the next how ever many years. I don't want to have to ever go through a gray hair transition with colored hair so I thought I'd be best to let it grow in naturally in my 30's. Lol Love the advice and experience you shared.

[@medicclasses2994]

You look so gorgeous!! I want to grow my greys but I am afraid of nevet find a couple again (i am divorced). But you are tight, I want people in my life that respect my choices and love me as I am!! I am happy that I find your channel!!

[@MrKongsMom]

Live your life for you! Someone worthy of your love will accept you for who you are. Not your hair color. Rock whatever color you want

[@lovewillwinnn]

On my 9 week journey. Best encouragement yet. Going to watch again and again. Been telling my friends and lots have decided the same. I LOVE your hair and your attitude. You sound like me. I’m a very youthful 52 but i want the freedom you already know. 👩🏼❤️❤️😍😍😍

[@MrKongsMom]

You got this!

[@cindygies975]

I am 50, and you have made me see the light. I will add grey streaks at first! Great advice on friends and staying positive!

[@tibisayhuerta]

Your hair looks GREAT, your Silver tone is THE BEST, you don't look "washed out", you look "ANGELICAL", if your following the "granny trend", COOL, and I LOOOOOOOOOOVE your channel. Those are trolls who has a so low Self Esteem that the feel the urge to "try" to makes others feel as bad and nasty as they feel inside... I LOOOOOOOOOOVE YOUUUUU! Keep putting the great work! 👍🏻😘❤️👏🏻👌🏻🎊

[@sandrabrachel4520]

I love your attitude! Beyond how you deal with the grey ... you approach negative, non-supportive people (even if it's family), just like I do! That can be hard to do. I like how you put your own peace as a top priority.

[@MrKongsMom]

Yes! You have to. I believe that everyone can live their own life without others always needing to put their two cents in. Don't like gray hair, then keep coloring YOURS. It is no one's business to tell me what to do with my hair lol.

[@sharitozelaya4146]

I turned 44 going on my transition of gray hair, 2 months or ready. You look beautiful God blessed your life.

[@juliawesterhoff2805]

You look fabulous!!! Thank you for sharing your gray Journey...be you... Just started my own gray journey

[@dianneporter3350]

Your hair colour is gorgeous and your eyes really pop. Thank you so much for this advice. After considering to stop colouring my hair for the past 2 years, I really think I am now ready. Greetings from Aussie.

[@clover309]

I’ve just started my grey hair journey! I love your tips and love your hair too 🤩 I’m looking forward to seeing what my grey hair looks like. I totally agree with your point that whatever colour you get is the one that will suit you :)

[@sherryw.1466]

Wow! Your hair is gorgeous! I wanted to go gray when I turned 40, but a few older women told me I was too young. I decided on 50, but when I turned 45 last year, I thought I couldn’t wait 5 more years. So I’m 2 months in and I can’t wait to go through this transition. I’ve never been attached to my hair. It’s thick, wavy/curly, grows super fast, and I spend way too much time collecting the hair that falls out in the shower, and making sure it doesn’t go down the drain. I lose gobs of hair when I wash it. I have always been able to walk into a salon and have a beautician cut it all off. That shocks most people, but my hair has always been a burden to me. I’m so excited to have the freedom! No more mixing my own color and finding little spots of brown color splattered around my bathroom! 😊 Thanks for your video!

[@WendyGlassenbury]

Wow, you look amazing, I'm 66 and been dying my hair all colours for 35 years. Absolutely had enough of it now and seeing how fabulous your hair looks has inspired me to ditch the dye. Short hair so shouldn't take to long. 👍

[@Stella42942]

Hello, your hair looks great. Very well said, I love your advice thank you for sharing your pros and cons. I'm on my silver grey journey, 6 months so far and I love it! So far I haven't gotten any negative feedback, I guess it's because I have light brown hair and the colors are blending together, now I have silver, medium brown and light brown hair all dancing simultaneously with each other, it's truly beautiful and it feels healthier as well. I can't wait to see my hair when it all grows out.🤗❤

[@MrKongsMom]

Congratulations on your gray hair journey!

[@suebycraft8319]

Have been dye-free for just over a year now. Watching KZbin videos (including yours) and joining a couple of gray hair FB groups gave me the confidence to stay with it. Am 69 now, wish I had done it much sooner; started to grow it out in my early 50s, but when a friend told me how awful I looked (she has since apologized) I immediately caved and went back to coloring it. Your hair is just beautiful, love it!

[@MrKongsMom]

I'm so glad your friend apologized. I find it hard to believe that women can be so hard on each other sometimes!