The Army is NOT for you!! 5 reasons why that might be the case

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I make videos on topics I have direct experience with as well as indirect experience with to help save some people the time to research the topic on their own. Be aware mistakes can be made as well as changes can be made by the Army. It’s best to use my content as a reference, but if needed you should always talk with an Army recruiter for more information on a topic. The content I create is my own opinion and experiences. The appearance of U.S. Department of Defense (DoD) visual information does not imply or constitute DoD endorsement. I also do not represent the DOD and all content in my videos are my opinions.

[@danielvelez6150]

Chris, I like your channel. Just a good format and straight talk. I am a retired SGM (41 years of service). I spent a lot of time during those 41 years as a drill sergeant, and can definitely state that the military isn't for everyone. A few things that could derail an Army career that weren't mentioned: 1) Being closed minded (being unaccepting of new ideas, different life styles). 2) Prejudice and discrimination ( you instantly get over a million brothers and sisters whom you have to depend on and who depend on you). 3) Severe financial inability . Military pays well (relatively so), but if you are really bad with money, the tools and services the military has may be inadequate. Seen many people blow promising careers with gambling problems, poor over your purchases (brand new truck/car right out of training with sky high payments/ interest). Army has tools to help, but too many Soldiers rapidly outpace them. Best advice I can offer is to be honest with yourself, do your research, and have good motives. The Army was a great move for me... a poor kid Brooklyn was able to get skills/education, travel the world, and retire with pension. Stay Army Strong!

[@marshalltille7770]

Like how you don’t judge, just simple facts and opinions with reasonable back up. As usual very spot on. Thanks.

[@alejandroguerra6755]

For me, the biggest issue was mediocre and toxic leadership. When you are a commander or a senior NCO, soldiers are counting on you to make the right decisions. No body is perfect. But when a “leader” punishes troops for giving an advice or an opinion, that’s when the issues begin and the unit starts to fall apart.

[@oldguy9078]

Didn't think the Army was right for me but they drafted me anyway.

[@handsomeman-pm9vy]

Who cares? That was over 50 years ago.

[@mikem2132]

@@handsomeman-pm9vyIt won’t take you 50 years to become irrelevant with that attitude.

[@kevintappe797]

LOL

[@BostonsF1nest]

@@handsomeman-pm9vy the draft is back

[@MaingelRodlipez]

​@@BostonsF1nest No it's not 🤦‍♂️😂 stop getting your news from TikTok and do your own research

[@calypsohandjack9278]

Did 8 years to find out the Army wasn’t for me. I sucked at promotion boards, sucked in Garrison, was ok during deployment…I think….now I fucking suck as a civilian. At least sucking in the Army allowed me to stay fit and only just suck instead of really sucking.

[@John_doe627]

Would u reenlist ?

[@calypsohandjack9278]

@@John_doe627 yep, either for 17C, 12P, or 35T.

[@DeepPoeticSociety]

What happens at a promotion board? Civilian here😂

[@Donner906]

Ok what are you going to do about that? what are you good at?

[@golfery5119]

​@@DeepPoeticSocietyyou're asked a bunch of questions like how far the bullets of a rifle shoot

[@sdlonewolf]

I went into the Army in 1990. I was a high school drop out with a GED. I got fired from being a tool maker in an aerospace job in San Diego. Prior to that I had 3 years as a union grocery store employee back in the late 1980's. My dad was lighting a fire under my ass to do something productive, and I was getting anxious about my next steps. I was unemployed at home in December of 1989, and saw the invasion of Panama. I remember seeing the 7th infantry Division "Light Fighters" on CNN and they had their woodland cammies with their Kevlar Helmets and some camo netting in their helmets. I told myself that's what I want to do. I knew that I needed to self-correct my future if I wanted to have a good life. I went to the Army recruiter, and they told me I could not enlist because I had a GED. I left rejected and felt down for a week or two. A neighbor kid knew I wanted to join, so he gave his recruiter my number. His recruiter called me and told me I could enlist if I went to a Jr College and earned 15 units. I signed a DEP contract and had a handful of jobs to choose from. I choose Infantry 11X with guaranteed Germany and Army College Fund. Anyways, Basic and AIT sucked, but I knew I had no other option to make my future better. After AIT, i was stationed in Schweinfurt, Germany and Aschaffenburg, Germany. Due to BRAC or Army downsizing my base close and I was sent to Fort Polk. I finished my time there and it sucked but built character. I was in the process to reenlist, but at the time the Army was downsizing and there were no bonuses, and I could not switch MOS's. I was an E-4 team leader going to reenlist for Infantry and to go back to Germany. At the end of the day, I got screwed on a last minute (12-hour notice) 2-month field deployment to Fort Hood. They only sent guys that were short and had not reenlisted for Singars Radio Testing. At that point I was 100 % getting out. Over the years I reminisced about going back in and did a little reserve time. At the end of the day, I accomplished all my goals earned my 2-associate degree and a bachelor's degree from San Diego State University. I have been in law enforcement for 25 years and the Army played a part in getting me track. I know it does not work for everyone.

[@Donner906]

Screwed by going to the field? The army does that. I was at FT hood my whole enlistment except for Iraq. At least you weren't stop lossed

[@denellgraves2397]

Christopher chaos makes a good point with these five reasons why the Army may not be for everyone. Now those last two I can relate to and the thing is I'm in the Army National Guard and those last two really hit home for me because I started to realize this as I stayed in the guard because I'm not as flexible as I thought I could be specially having to balance my civilian job which is commercial truck driving with the Army National Guard also that working under pressure part I definitely struggle with especially in the military and mostly it's because I believe there's necessary stress and then it's unnecessary stress necessary stress being having to form your duties as a soldier while Under Pressure like in a combat zone that's a given but the unnecessary pressure is when you have leadership that's just making bad decisions multiple times and they're starting to get frustrated and it's starting to project it onto you and everybody else that's unnecessary stress cuz that's stress that's not supposed to be in the job somebody else is putting overall I got about 3 years left in the National Guard and I'm probably done I keep thinking if I should do 20 years but I've been in for 9 years and I didn't invest in that Blended retirement system and I made the mistake of opting out of the traditional retirement plan so it's like I enjoy working at my truck driving company at Everett Express more than I like being in the garage so I think the answer is kind of obvious to me that I'm better off just getting out after my contract ends in 2027

[@danielvelez6150]

Hey, I retired from Army Reserve so understand what you dealing with. A few things to consider. What other PART TIME job can you retire from? You can and should contribute to TSP, like you would at your trucking job, but this is "extra". Leadership changes (as with all jobs), so take the opportunity to become the leader you envision and "destress" the situation for the next generation. Nine years is a large investment to walk away from, and the training/education opportunities can also open doors. You gotta make your own decisions for what is best for you and your family, so look for and research ALL options. Good luck. Army Strong!

[@jbone9900]

​@@danielvelez6150 I'm in a similar situation my uncle is owner operator and ready to retire in 4 to three years so I'm wondering should I go guard of do active I'm only 22.

[@danielvelez6150]

@@jbone9900 You can do both. That is beauty of the Army Reserves and National Guard. If you wanna do Active Duty, that is a commitment that you must decide. Not for everyone. I joined at 17, and did Active Duty, then Reserves... then after September 11th, constant and prolonged deployments.... Four Combat tours. That is the level of commitment you must make,. Yeah, sucks at times... it is a lifestyle and commitment, but rewarding and fulfilling also.

[@Michael_Livingstone]

I trained a Veteran how to drive a giant off road 400ton haul truck and apparently I’d do just fine in the Army based on the way I taught and explained things so it would just be a case getting past the first two years until I’m settled in my trade. If I could do anything I’d want to make sure troops and others can communicate (radios, satellites and such). But I do know being yelled at would break me down, curl up and cry real fast as I was never raised to be confident or have the mindset of being motivated by being drilled at my by Drill Sergeant. Oh well, there’s something for everyone.

[@cheeseman417]

Thank you for your content and your service. Even if actual military service isn't for everyone, there is absolute benefits you can adopt for civilian life which originates from the service, regimenting your schedule, punctuality, even how you earn or fold you clothes and make a bed!

[@sweetlou0023]

Video spot on💪🏾

[@Gabe_2000]

Would it be possible to join the army if you have completed a diversion court program. Ive got some charges pending but if i complete this program they get dismissed not expunged. I don't have a previous criminal record either and my charges are not domestic, drug related, or sexual.

[@Dillon41689]

Your videos helped me prepare to enlist as an 88M in the Guard at 33. I really appreciate your content and respect the unbiased videos you post.

[@golfery5119]

I wouldn't recommend enlisting in the army at that age. Enlist in air force if anything but at least you are guard instead of active duty

[@Dillon41689]

@@golfery5119 Its been great so far. Basic sucked but I think was easier as an adult. You know its all mind games and understand respect. Yeah it is definitely different being in the Guard but I had a few guys my age and older going active just to give their families a more secured future. I recommend the military at any age as long as your eligible. I used to always say, when your back is against the wall and your struggling, the Army is always hiring. I ended up in that kind of situation, so I took my own advice

[@kingstxn]

great content!

[@gamingwron8750]

Enlisting as a 12b on July 30th🎉

[@lelandgaunt9985]

Good news is you’ll be able to get your foot in the door at Burger King.

[@ApolloPerez-gt9ft]

Maybe the chair force is for some people.

[@golfery5119]

For a lot of people really

[@Snargfargle]

I went in for the GI Bill. Apparently I scored in the 98th percentile on the entrance exams and they had me meet with a congressman with an offer to go to West Point. I just wanted the GI Bill so I declined. They then wanted me to go nuclear subs or military intelligence but I went medic because it was the least enlistment obligation that required the highest entrance score. I chose Army because my dad and all of my uncles had been Army or Army Air Forces. I can't say that the Army was all that bad, especially as my boss was former Special Forces who was back in the RA after being shot in the knee. He did things a bit differently than your average platoon leader. We were expected to do our jobs and when there wasn't a job to do we were told just to make ourselves scarce so some NCO wouldn't try to put us on a detail. In the field, I was my own boss, medical advisor to the CO and XO but not under their command per se. I had good rapport with them and the men though because it was boring being a medic if nobody was sick or injured so I'd look around for things that needed done and then pitch a hand. As the only unmarried medic, I had no qualms about trading places with married medics who wanted to just work regular hours. I was in the field constantly and did three, three-month TDY training deployments. Sometimes, a major would come grab me in the middle of the night because he needed a medic for something or other and I'd be gone for a week or two before anyone knew where I was. My sergeant said that the first couple of times that happened he thought I'd gone AWOL but finally figured that if I didn't show up to work sick call then I was some other place I was supposed to be. I kept getting pestered to become an officer but I politely declined. It wasn't like I was a super trooper or anything but the military at the end of the Vietnam Era, like now, was way under strength. I got to travel to lots of the US and a couple of foreign countries and took two advanced military medical courses and a bunch of other non-military educational annex training on base. I got five years of GI Bill instead of the normal four because I was the last group that was in on the old GI Bill and the government had to use up the allocated funding. I went from Army medic to civilian EMT then paramedic before I finished grad school and went into research and teaching. I can't complain about my time in the Army at all.

[@joselopezjr8549]

Welp I’ve been really pro-active by giving my recruiter all I’ve could pertaining to my medical and moral waiver. I wish I could help my recruiter more in helping me achieve my dream but he said we’re good for now all we can do is wait… it’s up to the higher-ups at this point.

[@CloudJL]

Well to give you a little hope, I got approved for my medical and moral waiver with the Air Force but I’m looking at the National Guard now because “jobs haven’t came out yet” and its been almost a year. 🥱

[@heavymetalsuperhero]

I never make plans on the weekends because I’m literally the only one in my plt who will do details and not complain about but yet they will not send me to the board. They legit use every excuse in the book as to why

[@philquintana]

Oh man! The older guy joining and not putting up with someone younger out ranking them!!! I was a 22 y/o Sgt, Section Leader, and had a 30 y/o PFC (E-2) that didn't like me telling him what to do.

[@homiesenatep]

That is just a natural way of life, ain’t no way I want a younger guy telling me what to do lol

[@neiljohnson6815]

@@homiesenatep You'd have a hard time with a 21 year old 2nd Lieutenant.

[@Juan-oy6mw]

Mr Chaos thanks again for another video. Am interested in being a lifer, on the older side approaching 30yo. Mind doing a video on benefits and retiring with the 20+ contract? 🤘🏻

[@golfery5119]

Lots of people say they're going to stay for a while 20 years but only less than 20 percent wind up actually doing so. At your age, id recommend enlisting in air force instead of army. You'll be treated more like a child in the army.

[@wixom01]

During the Reforger exercises I participated in in 1981 and 1982, we would go to the field for a month!

[@Donner906]

Try a tour of Iraq or Afghanistan

[@richardfroste4548]

I was drafted in my day. The new volunteer army is somewhat different than the old real army. No one disqualificated because they can’t do a pull up. Too easy to weasel out of Nam.

[@josephguttmann1083]

If the Army is not right for you there's other branches out there and if the military is in general is not for you well there's other careers out there like firefighting correction officer

[@garymathena2125]

If you are a college graduate or are otherwise qualified and want to make a difference, there is always the Peace Corps. One of the best ideas for service ever, they operate in over 60 countries and make a world of difference wherever they serve. Thank you, President Kennedy.

[@egyptwns89_26]

My authority issues only flair up when an ego throws rank in my face. I am currently taking orders at my job from younger people than myself and I don't care. I no longer have an option for putting off the things that I need to get done anymore. That's about the only points that came close for me from your list.

[@steveedington5231]

I was at ft hood 1975 to 1978 3 years contract dont loan out money, always be on time for formations.Most single soldiers are better off than married.The rules have changed like the uniform I was 13 Bravo artillery cannoneer at 18 was fun but at 21 i was ready to get out.The best job if you just do one term is any kind of driver you get out of silly details and normally are just responsible for your vehicle that you drive just a thought thank you Chris

[@justinm3259]

Just remember that the Army is going to change YOU; you are not going to change it... so join the Army with that in mind; and just roll with it and everything will be fine.

[@Donner906]

Roll with it until you meet someone who is a predator.

[@TheBlackhorse1954]

Forget everything you thought the Army was going to be. It's probably not what you think. The Army owns you for the period of your enlistment. That's 24/7 baby. My first year after graduating basic and AIT I spent 9 months of the 12 month period in the field. Forget working 9 to 5. Nope not happening in the Army. Try down range for weeks at a time. Whatever you do, you do not want to be a support type MOS in an Armor/Artillery or Infantry Battalion. My first assignment was 6th Bn. 32nd Armor, Ft. Carson, Co. When each company went downrange we were already there to support them. Tank Gunnery lasted for months, because each company went individually back to back, so when A Co. finished, B Co, was moving out, the C Co, then CSC Co and finally HQ and D Co. I was Transportation 64C and we hauled all the ammo to the ranges, POL, gotta keep those M60A1's and 2's fueled up all the time. But we'd haul 105 main tank rounds, 7.62 and 50 cal for weeks. Getting it loaded at the ammo point was easy, they used forklifts, but when we got to the ranges, we manually unloaded and stacked the ammo. During ARTEPS and FTX's, we were used as aggressors. It never ended. Spent 2 1/2 years doing that. Had to reenlist to get out of there.

[@KingofConduits]

#1 reason: You possess independent critical thinking 👍🏼

[@AyeKLean]

You’ll be fine if you know how to turn it off ☝🏽

[@tomquirin4231]

hey military brotha chris , i am a new sub to your channel and i am a u.s. military/marine vet 93' to 97' active and a old salty cpl. n i only have email n i def. wanna talk more and i love talking military n such , thanks n we'll talk soon brotha > tom !

[@dalewoods7308]

The criminal record part depends on the record when i join in 2020 one of the recruiters had a felony. Also the senior drill Sargent had coke chrage last example one my battle buddies had a driving under influence, operating a vehicle with out a license and minor in possession of alcohol and right now with the numbers being low even with a record i would still give recruiter a call worse thing they can do is tell you no.

[@mylameusername1890]

Me watching this at 30th ag waiting to ship to infantry osut on Friday July 12th

[@kevintappe797]

My brother joined as 11B and during arms training told them that he would never shoot at another person. Of course, this triggered alternate "training" which did not work. He was eventually discharged. What do you think. We're all soldiers first but couldn't he have pushed papers instead.?

[@lelandgaunt9985]

Only if he reclassed to it after serving his term.

[@wixom01]

CC, it happened to my sergeant. He got his place searched. He and his wife lived in housing on the kaserne in Fulda, West Germany. They got drunk and high one night, started to fight, and his wife thought it would be a good idea to walk to the MP station with their pipe, and turn her husband in!!! Yea ... when she sobered up... Anyway, with that evidence, they searched their apartment. He lost a stripe and got a hefty fine. So, it does happen. But rare, yea.

[@opzwill1]

Lol, yeah....that's VERY different than an inspection

[@randyransio7870]

Don’t be stupid, anybody can be in the Army. Just follow orders and think.

[@VGMRMissCoriel]

i didn't have trouble listening to young ppl happily. Though some NCOs liked to shove it in my face that they were younger.

[@danlilly1790]

Location: USMC Parris Island Recruit Chow Hall, afternoon Chow. Recruit 1: "I can't take it anymore. I can't stand being told what to do, when to eat, when to sleep!" Recruit 2: "If you can't stand those things, WTF are you doing in the Marine Corps?" Recruit 1: "I wanted a pair of Dress Blues.".

[@Boog-alicious]

31 Kilo: Military Working Dog Handler. Thats the idea of what I want to do. If that doesn't work out, then 91 Bravo: Wheeled Vehicle Mechanic.

[@golfery5119]

I think you have to be mp first before being a dog handler. Do not be a wheeled vehicle mechanic, that job is almost as terrible as cook is.

[@thechillmaster5836]

I feel like most of this list can be applied to other branches

[@Swagdaddy-ox2cv]

Well, too late now I’m leaving in are days 😂

[@TyTheMotivator]

Do you and make it you best let the corn ball say what he want

[@user-xf2tj6jo7s]

I did 12 years on active duty and 9 in the Reserve. Everything you say is gospel.Some people are just not cut out for military life.

[@pmf2994]

As an Army, Vietnam veteran; one must understand that once you join the Army, you are making the commitment that you are willing to DIE for your country 🇺🇸

[@StudleyDuderight]

The medical shit will probably get me. I've been in and around healthcare for most of my life. HIPAA is a big deal on the civilian side. Whatever problem I have going on is between me and my doctor, or me and my patient. I'll definitely be raising a stink over that stuff. Still gonna join.

[@opzwill1]

Find out the actual regulations for this. NCOs think they can make you tell them way more than they actually can

[@GodaiNoBaka]

HIPAA in the military and in the private sector have some very significant differences. If you aren't already familiar with it, do yourself a favor and research the HIPAA military command exception.

[@StudleyDuderight]

@@GodaiNoBaka I already know about it. The exception only allows commands to ask for limited information. Medical personnel are still required to keep details private. I'm an EMT, nursing student, and have been in and around the healthcare industry for most of my life.

[@garouuchiha4041]

The ARMY is best suited for the average, the try hard warrior wanna be warrior's. Not too hardcore, just to get by.

[@JohnDoe-rt2bz]

Reason #1 the U.S. army is not for you, you have a functional brain.

[@user-is7up6ln6m]

If go to army owns you 24 hours per day

[@lelandgaunt9985]

Unfortunately

[@homiesenatep]

Gay

[@liahnotleah]

I enlisted because I needed a new step in life. I needed change. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my future. And coming from a military family, I wanted to keep that military tradition alive. My MOS is a 86Y, but that's just like a "starting" MOS I chose. I figured I'd get a skillset that can easily transfer over to the civilian side, and then if I wanted to re-up after my contract ended, I could then go do something that's more "fun". Because my only issue when enlisting was I couldn't pick an MOS. I wanted to do it all. I wanted to try everything. So I basically just made a list of my top 5 or so jobs and threw a dart at whatever was available. So..... 68Y it is 😂

[@Donner906]

Military training does not transfer to the civilian world. That is why the GI bill is a thing.

[@liahnotleah]

@@Donner906 hey, pal. You just blow in from stupid town?

[@Donner906]

@@liahnotleah Did you? It is just common sense. The military trains you for the military. When you get out you have to start over.

[@liahnotleah]

@@Donner906 ...... you can still gain skill sets while in the military 🤦🏼‍♀️ Although it sounds like your goofy ahh just picked a random, niche MOS that's specific to the military and that's why you can't easily transfer over into civilian work. SPED.

[@Donner906]

@@liahnotleah You can, it is rare. I was a radio guy. No call in the civilian word for skills with frequency hopping, crypto ect. The tech in the army is often 20 years behind the civilian stuff. The military can teach you things but it is not direct. Join the military to be a part of the military. You start over when you leave.

[@timothygibbs7351]

There were units back in the day did not give rest to the faint and weary. Those units were located in Germany and South Korea. I can remember soldiering 24/7 under tremendous pressure and stress as a sergeant at an artillery's TOC and as a PSG/PLT in South Korea, Camp Casey. I made men and women out of boys and girls. My soldiers knew that we were going to fight to the death if one of those morning alerts were the real McCoy. Oh hell no, we were not going to surrender if we were to have run out of ammo fighting. We would’ve had fixed bayonets. Hooah! I witnessed soldiers who did not want to lead others; refused to become a drill SGT or Recruiter; family issues, incompetence as an NCO; overweight; personal appearance lacking; couldn’t lead soldiers; drug and alcohol problems, and a myriad of other unprofessionalism issues when it came to soldiering. See, the 80’s army, only 13% of soldiers could retire from the army. It was not a given to retire from the army. I witnessed soldiers, NCO’s, and senior NCO’s who were kicked out before they made it to twenty. Hooah! I retired at 20, and I could have stayed in to the max years as a senior NCO. I rapid fired through the enlisted ranks all the way to E-7 with less than 11 years. I burned myself out for being a super sergeant. My MOS offered me early retirement with all benefits. I took it. My full bird was on leave when I had the HQ Co CMDR signed the paperwork for early retirement. The Colonel got back from leave and said, “I would have denied your early retirement.” So many of the army’s best personnel retired early that left the army hollow for a long time back in the 90’s.

[@user-is7up6ln6m]

Fat bob got ban from mess hall

[@gera2396]

If you join the military and you haven't done your homework, and realize what it entails, that's on you.

[@commosection]

In life if you have half a brain you never jump into anything without doing research or you will have a tough life trust me. Young people think 3 or 4 or 6 years is like a life time but trust me once you reach 50 or 60 your time in the military will be like a blink of an eye but the memories for most will be good. Today will the internet like utube you can see all aspects of military life and whats expected from you plus millions of personal experiences from veterans like me and Chris etc.I was in the military prior to cell phones and internet and i was expecting basic training to be like the Marines with non stop bullshit yelling/screaming which in the Army is much softer environment in comparison.Sure if you are a screw up you get your ass chewed but for the most part Drill Sgts are more instructors/teachers then non stop barking.I did 9 years total Regular Army and National Guard and reestablished alot of friends from my units i have not chatted with in 40 plus years including senior officers.Bottom line no regrets joining except maybe wishing i had a different job.

[@jurban611]

Notification platoon

[@oneksalami7791]

Is joining in the Army at 42 A BAD IDEA?

[@christopherchaos]

Check out my video "AM I too old to join the US Army".

[@oneksalami7791]

@@christopherchaosi couldn’t find the video.

[@soldierboy8276]

I bet someone listening to this that doesn't know what "HR" is: HUMAN RESOURCES is the department that does all the hiring. M.O.S is (Military Occupation Speciality) is the type of job you may have... it's identified by numbers like 63B is a wheel mechainc. Always explain all acronyms because you are talking to potential new recruits. I am a 28 yrs retired veteran.

[@user-is7up6ln6m]

Tell army going AWOL not coming back

[@menachem2521]

That's a criminal offense bud

[@IvanhoeWolfe-zn6fc]

This was over 30 years ago. But i did have a health and welfare married on post. My idiot wife couldnt keep her mouth shut. And wanted a pissing contest with someone above me spouse. Add to this she, my ex, was filthy, people in my chain of command knew howuch I struggled with her. So they pulled a health and welfare. I was embarrassed. There was only so much i could do in a day. I was religious and thought divorce was a sin. Two years later she served me divorce papers. I ran. Different unit. 6 months later. Im pinned E-5. Three years later E-6. Everyone knew she wasy anchor. Btw shortly after we divorved i found a great lady. But, my ex has caused problems for me ever since. Anyhow. They are done. Its just extremely rare. Oh and dont think I was upset with my chain of command. Way i seen it was. They were trying to get through to her. She has remarried 6 more times over the years.

[@thechillmaster5836]

Legally, you don't have to disclose whats wrong with you. Thats HIPPA

[@GodaiNoBaka]

You don't have to disclose anything. But that has nothing to do with HIPAA. HIPAA is about what medical care providers, insurance companies, and other "covered entities" do with that information once they get it. You are not a covered entity for your own personal information, so what you share and with whom is entirely up to you.

[@kennethgarland1021]

WHO THE HECK R U ?

[@delanodobson7697]

Bro shut up wtf are even on the post