"Cis Men Dating Me Are GAY!!" Reacting To Delulu Trans TikToks

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[@boosqueezy2418]

referring to me as “cis” is misgendering me, because THERE IS NO SUCH THING

[@kaydabalab]

Yes

[@SDS-ee9js]

It’s called normal

[@TanyaRando]

They want to insist you're called cis, but then insist they have the right to be called whatever they want, even insane made up words!

[@darkblondewatch8652]

they are allergic the word women.

[@Raliviel]

Also they often say gender is made up, doesn't exist... So "misgendering" also can't exist with their "logic" and yet they get upset, when they are "misgendered", which confirms they actually agree that biology is real... Make it make sense.

[@bluespectrum1348]

"I demand you to respect my pronouns because I say so, while simultaneously imposing the word "cis" onto you, no matter if you agree or not, because it validates ME". These people are insanely narcissistic.

[@CajunGators]

Exactly. “Respect all my pretend labels” but also “lol you did ma man cewchi, you’re gay I decided” 😒

[@RoseGoldPDX]

​@@neko7606 I remember that, it was crazy! Trying to force her heterosexual husband to identify as "queer" smh I hope he divorced her too!

[@bluespectrum1348]

@@neko7606 That is beyond disgusting.

[@Anonymous-uw4sr]

@@neko7606 wow

[@Eragarev]

I tried to respect 'cis' for the sake of trying to even things out between the two groups, but cis isn't respected. It's definitely a pejorative term coming from a lot of people, it's reductive and they try to assume your struggles with gender, and once grindr made it clear that the reason they removed the ability to filter for cis men was because "transmen are men," clearly the differences are not respected, and they have a problem with you seeing the differences. Cis is obsolete for me.

[@heatherbeau4759]

Everyone needs to stop using "cis" BS.

[@mikicerise6250]

Pass a law, Mussolini. Ban the word. 😂

[@Eragarev]

​@@mikicerise6250 Or just refuse to go along with it. Just say "men" when referring to adult male development.

[@snapperjessen]

CIS, Center for Internet Security 😁

[@heatherbeau4759]

@@snapperjessen 😂

[@peaches4371]

YES! WE ARE BIOLOGICAL CALL US BIO lol

[@CajunGators]

Never felt phobic about anything until these ladies mentioned using their “bottom growth” bruh nahhhh. 💀 I like other dudes, I thought we were passed explaining this by now lol

[@attah-odejohogwu9357]

I really like gay patriots It feels like a vibe

[@Kathleen-vl5ws]

I wish I could forget the phrase bottom growth. I know too much now. 😂

[@m_d1905]

I've noticed the over explainers and the "date me or else" trans men and trans women give off their natal sex vibes and mannerisms. Which is why most don't buy what they are trying to sell.

[@minuishaq631]

Cos they are not genuine transexuals

[@NotAStanAccount]

Yes!!! It's like they're cos-playing as the opposote seggks while digging their heels into the absolute Worst Stereotypes of their natal genders, all whilst demanding the whole world applaud them for it. What's up w/ that??

[@Higesgirl]

Hiya Marcus! I'm a straight, black woman. I'm friends with trans people and they're just like you and Blaire. They hate how the screeching minority has the voice and drowns them out.

[@jrodspeaks]

Marcus and Blaire are extremist sell-outs telling half-truths and creating lies to defame legitimate transsexuals such as myself. Marcus isn't transsexual. Never was. If he was legitimately transsexual he would stop lying out of his ass about my medical condition that he does not understand whatsoever.

[@spiralrose]

It would be really nice if these trans communities who are against the sickos would go on their local news stations and publicly say that they denounce the autogynephiliacs, Child molesters, and rapists who are using the trans/queer label to go into women’s bathrooms and locker rooms. That has never happened… The trans community has never publicly denounced the invasion of women-only spaces and how places like Planet Fitness have left their female patrons open to violation like that. I would fucking love to see that happen

[@vanessac1721]

The activist class ruins everyone's fun by taking things too far

[@AdeleRakete]

Asexual does not mean asocial. They also want to have romantic, loving and meaningful connections but without the sex. Or did I get that wrong? So … yes they want to date.

[@minuishaq631]

That is understandable but most people want sex and sexual attraction. Other asexual people would be best for asexuals less chance of rejection.

[@tengosueno6555]

this

[@ziweiyuan]

Well, some do. There are also aromantic asexuals (such as myself), who have no interest in romantic partnerships whatsoever.

[@_fussyfangs]

Depends, some people aren't into romance either. I'm asexual, I date & I'm hella romantic. I love having strong meaningful connections with a person I admire or love. Just the impulse to have $3x all the time isn't there... non asexual people always seem a bit too horny for me lol

[@eri_sama]

​@@_fussyfangsi think what you're describing is varying libidos. also, it's not normal to want sex all the time lol

[@timothy4664]

Tiktok ban cannot come fast enough.

[@jrodspeaks]

TikTok isn't going anywhere. It never was. They already made a new version in the US that will be integrated into the current app. Y'all are some retarded ass idiots I swear.

[@kaydabalab]

hahaha

[@jrodspeaks]

@@kaydabalab Says the self-hating female with body dysmorphia and unresolved trauma NOT sex dysphoria. Shut up and sit down.

[@indy_go_blue6048]

They'll just sell to some other Chinese agent who's not quite as well known. Like Britain and Brexit, it ain't going nowhere.

[@taki7546]

Nah man, they‘ll just flood youtube shorts if that happens

[@britpoppansy]

Thank you again, Marcus, for making trans guys look just a tiny bit more sane.

[@hospitalsgivingpatientsdan8894]

Masculinity in woman

[@bonusvampirus]

RE 1:30ish: The response to you (TikToker) “repainting your car” may be so negative because you’re not just repainting your car. In order to repaint the car, they also have to permanently tear out your air conditioning, and there’s a good chance that the engine is going to make a loud crunching sound every 5 seconds whenever its in use for the rest of your life. Also, there will probably still be a lot of red showing beneath the blue paint, and if you don’t like the way that looks, it will not be possible paint it back to red. And you have to drive this car until you die. Does it make a little more sense, then, why people would keep checking in to make sure you’ve thought this through?

[@jessicadesrosiers7467]

This is perfect. You win the comments. Best way to break down that stupid analogy.

[@smukkejyde]

Ya, it's more like wanting to change the car into fx a motorcycle.. it's not just a paint job

[@megsley]

the reality is, I think, most men who are dating transmen or nb just go along to keep the peace - in their minds, they view their partner as a woman, as female, but they don't want to deal with the headache of getting chewed out for 'misgendering'.

[@PatricenotPatrick]

No, they’re just a lil bi, which is fine! Aren’t these the same folks screaming about things being on a spectrum? Yet they insist nope you MUST be L or G because ma feels

[@jrodspeaks]

Nope. More like we are accepted as the gay men we are. I've had cis men tell me I'm more of a man than cis men they've fucked. Shut up and sit down. I am so tired of you woke clowns fucking up my medical condition and life.

[@spiralrose]

I mean, their partners are female. Living as a man does not undo your chromosomal biology.

[@aeh3253]

I don't think that a straight guy would date a transgender. She might be physically female, but she might look way too masculine.

[@aeh3253]

Do straight guys like women who look like men though?

[@raythunder8619]

I am asexual but I won't throw a fit if people don't want to be with me. That's the point of aro/ace. People are just acting like victims

[@billbombshiggy9254]

I truly don't think this is a thing. Y'all just have low sex drives. My 19 year old claims he is.

[@Kiefsti]

@@billbombshiggy9254 Oh, hun lol. I am as asexual as the day is long, and I HAVE tried with a few different partners. I felt violated, r@ped even, and like my entire inner child was traumatized. It took years for me to feel alright again. I needed counseling like an assault victim. I knew what I was as soon as I knew what sex was, and I knew it was not for me - I never, ever should have tried. Don't push your son and ruin his inner self, just because you think you can play therapist by watching Andrew Tate.

[@caraengleking2159]

Thankyou for ur post it is a breathe of fresh air to hear someone with comman sense. I respect u

[@joygallavan6790]

@@billbombshiggy9254 modern life is damaging testosterone levels,drinking water now contains high levels of estrogen due to the pill and other chemicals,HRT ect contaminating the supply,processed food also contains loads of plant estrogens in the form of Soya,plus the constant bombardment about how men and women should act,usually hyper sexualised and the lack of face to face friendships allowing deeper bonds to develop with a bit of autism and childhood trauma thrown in are the reason teens and young adults are going down this road,to call it a "sexuality" is really damaging as the actual core issue dont get dealt with.

[@skilldeadly8888]

I can't wrap my head around asexual because it sounds like you just don't like sex. I don't think that is specifically an identity. Some people just don't enjoy it. I'm sure it makes dating hard because physical intimacy is something relationships usually need to grow. Whether it's procreation or just feeling closer to that person, it does really limit the choices you will have. I'm not going to force you to do something you don't want to do, but hopefully, through therapy, you are able to find a way to have that intimacy.

[@JRedrum]

There’s not much that truly surprises me anymore, but learning about “bottom growth” for the first time, while simultaneously trying to figure out what the fuck that stapled bloody mess was across her neck almost gave me a seizure.

[@Kiefsti]

I paused the video after "bottom growth" and got a drink 🤣

[@MsRinkaaaa]

I was confused about the neck. Did the surgeon miss the boobs?

[@Kirsty22.22]

I was looking to see if anyone else picked up on the neck situation. It crossed my mind that it may have been an attempt at their own life, but was left as baffled as you.

[@melissagolden6929]

Kinda looks like they might have gotten some fat removed from their chin area. Possibly had lipo or loose skin surgery after some rapid weight loss. It’s unlikely someone would be able to cut their own throat from ear to ear.

[@JRedrum]

@@melissagolden6929 it’s just the stitching looks so sloppy and morbid, it almost looks like she’s going for an aesthetic or something lol.

[@barizz1]

Does anyone noticed that ‘trans’ man on grindr, (which face is in the thumbnail) and how their neck is scarred? As if they were d3c4pitated and then sewed back to their neck? Or am i just trippin? It’s so strange

[@kimberly_happiness]

I said same darn thing. He look like his head was chopped off at one point.

[@xfile1966]

Frankenstein wannabe…..

[@krizismenya2171]

i thought the same thing, it looks scary

[@GIJadaSmith]

I hadn’t noticed I was stuck on her wanting a gay man to want her “bottom growth” 😭

[@RoseGoldPDX]

I noticed that too, creepy af

[@username666_w]

im so f tired of people trying to say being "assexual" is a sexuality omg..bro you just have a preference to not have sex, and thats OK. jesus.

[@TheRealMikki4ever]

What would you say their sexuality is then? If they’re not attracted to eggplants or tacos… what is their sexuality? /gen

[@mooma10]

I think you should need to be diagnosed to call yourself that in my opinion

[@username666_w]

@@TheRealMikki4ever i honestly don't know, that will depends on if they like woman or men better based on other aspects then their sexual organ. but disliking having sex or not is literally just a preference.

[@username666_w]

@@mooma10 that also makes sense! cause having sex is a normal thing on adult lifes, and it has it benefits.

[@geminorum741]

I always thought asexual referred to not feeling sexual attraction, but you could still have a romantic relationship with someone else without the sexual aspect

[@justinstewart5963]

This is like that Principal Skinner meme “Am I out of touch? No, it's the children who are wrong.”

[@idk-cm9lt]

Ha ha!

[@idk-cm9lt]

Ha ha

[@ferndoggiedogg181]

The person using the changing the color of a car argument seems to be conflating preference with gender

[@enibeni2071]

No, it's conflating prefeeence with sex. Sex =/= gender. Sex = DNA. You can't choose to be a woman or man. You can choose to unsergo surgery in order to make your body appear different.

[@shadariaworthy9456]

These people don’t even know what they be talking about

[@ebonydarknessdementiaraven204]

Yeah. Buyers at least have the choice of buying their cars blue rather than paint a red car, so it's not the same thing.

[@pawtrolling]

Better yet, sell the car and get a new one. Or leave it abandoned somewhere...

[@jamba622]

More analogous to changing your car into a 747. Simply can’t be done.

[@susanweiss1439]

Just by changing clothes i can "be" a man, everyone would. The mental side, is what they ignore. Which is why everyone else, looks at you so weirdly.

[@NYD666]

There are reasons, other than sex, to date

[@jayterra2060]

One thing that really bothers me about all of this sexual piecemealing and nit picking is that it takes the magic and mystery and sexiness out of sexuality. Sex should be creative, fun and private. Now It’s so clinical and analytic, and public! Way to take any fun out of sexuality. Ig that is the point, since pop control is a thing. Being sterile is the new emo 🖤

[@minuishaq631]

It's because most of the people making these ticktocks have never had sex. Never been in a romantic relationship. Hence why they are so removed from actual sexuality in their ideology.

[@SZombiie]

Did they slit their throat? That's horrifying to be showing off

[@spiralrose]

That’s very much a borderline personality tactic. And a lot of people with BPD identify as trans or non-binary They aren’t trans though… They just don’t know who they are due to their personality disorder. They are especially vulnerable to social contagion. These are not criticisms or value judgments on these people, it is just facts

[@batmanforpresident9655]

Fun fact: There is NO SUCH THING as a "cis" person.

[@darkblondewatch8652]

yes, it's an insult to all women.

[@kaydabalab]

yes, thank you

[@simonmoyen6871]

How so ? From what i understand, a cis person is someone who has never had to deal with gender dysphoria, or to question wether they are suffering from it, and i feel pretty confident in saying such people exist

[@ladywartooth]

​@@simonmoyen6871 that's just being normal

[@simonmoyen6871]

Not saying of course that it is not used as an insult by *some* people, but it seems to have a definition that refers to a non-empty set of people

[@MadameCorsaire]

Soooo, does anyone know why the neckbeard trans man looks like his head was cut off then stapled back on? You can plainly see the staples. Did he try to self cancel? I'm concerned.

[@cherrysyrup8650]

It’s a choker.

[@RedneckWarlock]

​@@cherrysyrup8650thank you! I was wondering too haha

[@pineappleTARDIS]

It's 1000% not a choker. Zoom in. It's staples. Idk what happened but you're right.

[@user-hc2vd7dn7o]

I love your channel, I'm white, straight, and a woman, I let you know because in these times it's necessary. You have helped me understand something I believed I already knew! Diversity is wonderful and relatable, and the way your LOGIC comes across and soothes my one lifted eyebrow, is Fabulous, and Fantastic. Thank you 🥰

[@codytime5712]

Not a good look

[@weswolever7477]

Trying to keep track of this game would require a scorecard the size of the phonebook (if you don’t know what a phonebook is, ask an old person)

[@morgangonnelly5683]

Wooo always click right away when Marcus uploads

[@jrodspeaks]

Marcus is a lair and a troll

[@THEMADHATTRESS]

Nah methinks that's you fam ​@@jrodspeaks

[@kimberly_happiness]

Why does that guy with the glasses look like his neck was almost chopped off. He has a scar that goes all the way around his neck what happened??????

[@camerokid78]

That’s what I’m wondering… Is it a body modification? You know most of these people like to look alternative.

[@enibeni2071]

The shade of blue fits you very well.

[@Juliette_santiago]

So when it comes to asexual people, they can date. They still crave emotional intimacy, they like kissing, hugging and holding hands, just not sex. And yes, it's much harder to find a partner when you're asexual, cause they have to be either asexual themselves or they have to agree to not have sex in that relationship, but i'm in asexual relationship myself and, we're full-on dating, just like the rest of the world, we just don't have sex and that's it😁

[@tkps]

Asexuality is not a sexuality. It's simply the absence of sex. There is nothing wrong with not wanting to have sex. But it doesn't require a label and what's more one's choices could very likely change in future.

[@taki7546]

But you‘re still either gay or straight. That is your sexuality. Not liking having sex is a preference, which is totally fine of course, but it has nothing to do with your sexuality in itself.

[@Juliette_santiago]

​@@tkps i can't agree 100%, i understand where are you coming from, i mean you can call a relationship asexual just cause people in it don't have sex, and it's either sexuality or their choice (caused by trauma or just preferances). In my case i am asexual, which means i don't feel the sex drive at all. I have preferances when it comes to gender tho, but i'm what's called a homoromantic person, which means i am attracted and will date girls. But when it comes to sex, as i said i'm not interested in it at all, it doesn't feel like a choice, i didn't choose to like girls either, so it doesn't matter if we're talking 😺 or an 🍆, i'm not interested in either of them.

[@Juliette_santiago]

Sorry for a long text, hope i explained it well

[@spiralrose]

Why do they always have septum rings??? And why are the rings so freaking huge??????

[@dreamerqueennotunderthemachine]

Hahahahaha this (by the way, I have a septum ring myself but it is a small gold closed hoop and very subtle and not freaking huge)

[@codytime5712]

Specifically to bother you

[@Silveirias]

Asexuality is not about "not wanting to have sex". Asexuality is lack of sexual attraction to people. I agree that it's not a sexuality in a similar way atheism is not a religion. But it does not mean "does not want to have sex" or "does not have libido" (although many asexuals have a lower libido than non-asexuals). Asexuals can have sex if they want to. Anyone can have sex with a person they are not sexually attracted to, including asexuals. Being asexual also doesn't mean that you can't fall in love or don't want to have a relationship. To put it very simply: Straight people feel sexual attraction to the opposite sex. Gay people to the same sex. Asexuals do not feel it towards anyone.

[@artemuliashkevych7892]

but why would you have sex with a person you’re not sexually attracted to? where’s fun (& joy) in that? it sounds like a self-torture

[@Silveirias]

@@artemuliashkevych7892 Why do non-asexuals do it with people they are not sexually attracted to? Probably because they like how it feels like. Sometimes because they're trying to please the other person (that I agree can be a pretty sad reason). For asexuals specifically, apart from liking the feeling, maybe because they love the person they're having sex with. Maybe they want to have a child.

[@Violetbunnyfish]

Asexual people are still either straight, gay or bisexual, though.

[@artemuliashkevych7892]

@@Silveirias okay, but the term "non-asexual" sounds to me like another "cisgender"… in a sense. Specifically, the way you used it to describe sexually active people with a "normal" libido. It sounds so weird

[@rakuafterdark7833]

I'm an asexual and I agree with all of this. For my entire life I have been very romantic, and I've always desired to get married, but I've never ever felt an ounce of attraction to the concept or the need for sex. I simply do not feel that kind of attraction, and I have never been through any trauma to make me this way. It makes dating hard because society is so hyper-sexual these days, but I stand firmly in the belief that you CAN be romantically in love with someone without a sexual aspect to it. I'm not sure how people aren't able to understand that, as I've had multiple people act like I shouldn't even want to be in a relationship at all. To me, hand-holding, dates, and kissing are all non-sexual shows of romantic attraction, but what do I know...

[@henrymccartyjr.6023]

I agree with the paint job point, it's like having a 4 cylinder, repainting your car and then telling everyone that they now have to tell u you have a v8.

[@JenMaxon]

I think it's telling that the first guy discussed changing sex as being like changing the colour of a car - and not liking red: the change is only skin deep. Changing sex (becoming a transsexual individual) is more like, I imagine, changing the engine. Something that fundamentally alters how the car works.

[@OmgPandamonium]

People who are asexual can still desire companionship, love and even romance. They get lonely just like anyone else.

[@juliamartin1962]

then they need to find another asexual partner/ because expecting a normal person to give up sex for you is stupid.

[@brockhampton3078]

@@juliamartin1962 Well yeah.. like was there even an implication made that assexual people would ask that of somebody? Obviously expecting such a major compromise from a partner would be out of the question. Doesn't contradict or even seem to relate to the comment you're responding to.

[@OmgPandamonium]

@@juliamartin1962well, duh. 😂 its just hard to find another person like that, it seems there’s no asexual dating sites.

[@minuishaq631]

​@@OmgPandamoniumdon't some LGBTQA dating websites have asexual as an option?

[@jaredoliver9347]

This dude is straight up hits nail on the head for me. Keep up the good work mate

[@mitetoOoOoO]

Off topic but I started usig words like cray cray and delulu in my everyday speach because of you 😂

[@Smokemercedes]

That gay guy that responded on Grindr was so hilarious 😂😂😂 was laughing for like 10 minutes

[@diaporamabygj]

'...because if you are a trans activist, you would have something to complain about...' Nailed it.

[@theta385]

as always I agree with what you said, but asexual just means you don't feel sexual attraction. It bothers me when people claim it's just not having a sex drive :/ it's like when you ask a gay man why he isn't attracted to women and he says ''eh doesn't do anything for me visually'' he could still hae sex with a woman because the body reacts even if you visually don't find the body sexy.. asexual doesn't mean you don't have sex.. it can coexist because if you don't fnd anyone sexually attractive you often don't need to have sex.. but there are enough asexuals with existing libido that have sex.. sometimes they prefer men or sometimes they prefer women.. libido does not an orientation make :(

[@bobkaiser8782]

Bad analogy. If I wanted a blue car, I would've bought a blue car.

[@dreamerqueennotunderthemachine]

Amen to that!! Because you can choose the car that you're going to buy, But you can't choose the gender you're born with. So yeah very stupid analogy

[@dkncd]

I wouldn't say it's a bad analogy because when comparing it to sex, you don't choose it when you're born. You're given the red car.

[@artscarpace6803]

Thank you for your videos. I'm a gay man in my 60s having difficulty understanding all the variations and nuances of the trans community. You bring some clarity to this. I appreciate your videos and your point of view.

[@jillsandwhich]

I am only 15, so I'm not the smartest person out there (despite age not really defining your intelligence, it's morely considered stereotypical) but anywho, watching your videos really educates me and helps me better understand all of this stuff. I won't lie, it's confusing, especially with how people twist terms, make up new random labels and never give you true information. Your content on the other hand has actually taught me a lot and I genuinely enjoy it! Anywho, just wanted to comment since I never have before. You're great, keep doing this content please!

[@RadicalValkyrie]

You're one of the few people who have helped me understand the trans experience compared to all the people shouting with offence at their phone cameras.

[@moonshineblues204]

Allll Gore Ryythm! 💙 Just a comment to pay for my entertainment 💙💙

[@4000Wiggins]

I can’t get past the pic of that 2nd person looking like they’ve had their head sewn on like Frankenstein’s monster.

[@kampiestarz]

I’m trying to figure it out as well…

[@svendsen6437]

Anyone calling me “cis “ will not be respected. It’s pure misgendering .

[@powdapuff77]

I like you OT. You are balanced, logical, reasonable and honest. These traits demand respect. 😀

[@YumegakaMurakumo]

I'm a FAB (female At Birth), not a cis. 😂 Christ. I know for a fact that I lost brain cells at that last one. 🤪 Had to pause it and change some wording around in my head for it make sense!

[@Draco19970125]

"Female at birth" - what we are was "decided" by nature, BEFORE the birth. So accurately it could be called "female at conception".

[@Shane-wn1mk]

I mean if your only reason for dating is sex then yeah, what is the point of dating as an asexual.......

[@bjrnhalfhand2258]

Not the only reason but for most people sex is an important part of a relationship and wouldn't enjoy a sexless relationship.

[@katherinepappas9741]

Love you Marcus!!!!

[@kwilson8452]

People want romance but claim they're asexual. Just make sure you tell prospective partners this in advance, because MOST people want sex to be part of their romantic relationship at some point. They might be willing to wait, but they aren't willing to forego sex completely.

[@SwankemasterSupreme]

“My mom told me I’m special” type mindset.

[@auzziernvdl]

I love your videos. You say it like it is and that is appreciated so much. ❤❤

[@KJ-ut4rw]

Keep up,the good work

[@ashio4365]

I am 30 years old never been in a relationship or had sex with anyone and I probably never will. I just lack all desire to seek out a romantic or sexual relationship. I've only ever wanted to date one guy but when I thought about having sex with him my brain went i don't want that. The closest I've felt to sexual attraction was with a different guy and all I thought about doing was touching his penis nothing more than that. However with me I do know it is a disassocitive issue because I do have a ton of sexual fantasies I just never included myself in any of them. Ultimately just like a gay person can't force themselves to be straight I can't force my brain to include myself in those fantasies or to want to have sex with anyone.

[@kyuutatsu]

What is it with people coming for Asexuals suddenly? Excuse you? Just because someone is Asexual doesn’t mean they’re undeserving of love. Sex doesn’t equal love. Love doesn’t equal sex. Sex is only one facet of a relationship, Marcus. I can’t speak to anyone else but my husband and I are Asexual due to sexual trauma in our past making sex impossible for either of us. Cause y’know being raped tends to screw up how you view a lot of things regarding sex and bodily image. Asexuality may not be a sexual orientation but it doesn’t mean you can’t date and it doesn’t remove the purpose for dating. I may not agree with all this trans crap but I’ll be damned if I sit here and listen to people say that just because someone is asexual it means they cannot date or there is no purpose to them dating.

[@OvalRock]

An asexual dating someone with a sex drive will leave someone frustrated, leading to infidelity and/or a breakup. When an asexual dates, they need to be certain to date another asexual, or else be prepared for an unhappy partnership.

[@Rosabear26]

Most people who are asexual have a low libido. Most times that's gonna be an issue with your partner.The act of sex is about connecting for most people rather if they say it or not. if you are asexual just make sure your partner knows that, cuz some of yall be lying, and then wanna act surprised when things don't work out, no offense.

[@tkps]

He said it's not a sexuality. You just agreed. Why get angry? We need to stop being so quick to judge what others say based on purely personal circumstances. Nor should anyone who wants to make an obvious generalisation have to list a load of disclaimers and qualifiers before they speak. I notice it's a thing many Americans do before giving an opinion. Most of us don't have the time or energy to police our every word.

[@brockhampton3078]

​@@tkps While I don't agree with word-policing or people having to tiptoe around their words to avoid offending others, I completely understand why the comments in this video regarding assexuality would rub somebody the wrong way. Assexuality is NOT a sexuality, so that's a reasonable thing to say, but I'm thinking the comment that this person is irritated about is the suggestion that there is no point in dating if you're assexual. Assexuals still often desire companionship, loyalty, emotional security, and may want to build families. And it's quite alienating to be in the position of having emotional needs or life goals that would typically be met in the context of a romantic relationship, while lacking the sexual interest that is typically required in that kind of dynamic. The comments in this video and the tone he has when he says them seem a bit dismissive of that and slightly insulting IMO, although it may be unintentional.

[@user-yc9kc3fp3k]

☝🤓

[@capatainnemo]

Why do they all get terrible tattoos, grow whispy beards get weird hair colours and face piercings? Is that what they think real men look like?

[@Jane-ow7sr]

I never understood the beard thing like it's obvious not working out and you're never going to get out of the awkward beard stage, just shave it off!

[@endo4682]

I always figured I am asexual so your response surprised me, and I would still consider myself as such. But I've noticed that asexuals are often pansexuals who don't want to have sex.

[@sixftturkey]

“You put zero effort to transition and expect the rest of us to do the other 100?” Basically

[@amadapedro9147]

Wouldn't the metaphor by changing the kind of car you are, not changing the color?

[@user-zs2dw1cg7y]

Wtf happened to the person with the cattle nose ring ? Looks like they did a neck tuck or something and the staples are still in..There’s no urgency to find a Grindr date , it’s ok to wait until they take out your staples. 😳

[@neednick]

Why date as asexual? Love and companionship. Asexual and Aromantic aren't the same. Trouble finding a partner can be an expected outcome, but you can still be sad about it.

[@helenetrstrup4817]

If we stick to the car analogy that the first guy insists on. It'd be more like being stuck with a red car that runs on gas while you'd much rather have a blue car that runs on electricity. So, you'll have to completely reconfigure this red car inside and out and I doubt the result would be a car that actually functions like it is supposed to. But I'm no expert.

[@nitramael]

Apart from the car colour analogy being about preferences, a paint job is also 100% reversible... Also, if we're going down the car route... You won't be owning a car and giving it a new paint job at 13 years old 🤡😂

[@Skitdora2010]

I would have identified as asexual in my teens to early/mid twenties, I found my body disgusting. I hated being touched. Cure was long term loving relationships with wonderful men. You do not see many men like that today. They do not stay like that either. Kind people burn out from abusers and users. But, where you find them? EMT/paramedic and firefighters for men.

[@meynari]

Marcus, with this look, you're such a stunner!

[@dakenny1282]

They're completely oblivious as to what they're undoing by explaining transitioning the same way you would botox.

[@elensila74]

Thanks for the quality content, it's always a treat to watch a new upload from you, Marcus. I usually find myself agreeing with your position, and I do for the majority of this video, too. Apart from the first clip. I mean, the person did look comfortable living as a man, and there's no hard rule that gender dysphoria is the single excusive case when transition can improve someone's quality of life. Personally, I only have a big issue with transitioning when people regret it and realize that it was a mistake, usually when it's too late for them, and especially when they were rushed or even pressured into it way too young. But if an adult person feels right in their new skin, does it matter why they made the choice? And for the record, being asexual does not automatically mean that the person doesn't want to find a loving relationship, but it is true that the dating pool is microscopic. Not all ace people are aromantic as well, and dating is not necessarily limited to the horizontal mambo, either. Hey, crazy Tiktok asexuals do not represent us any better than Tiktok "trans" clowns represent you. :)

[@Draco19970125]

"New skin" - the skin is the same. Male cannot "transition" into a female or vice versa. At best, they can become more feminine/masculine.

[@elensila74]

@@Draco19970125 In fact, it's never the same skin, as the cells of the body keep replicating themselves constantly, and skin is one of the fastest to get replaced completely. You can find a good part of your old skin in a thin layer on your shelves and the top of your telly. And of course people can transition into the opposite sex, it just doesn't mean they change their sex, only their appearance. Have you ever asked your friends or family if they liked your new hair? Was it a new hair, or just a new cut? Why do you think you need to correct me on these, anyway?

[@Draco19970125]

@@elensila74 It seems like I have to say : the skin was meant that a person will always remains the same, as what he/she was born as. This is a fact, what no surgery/hormone shots/make up will change.

[@Draco19970125]

@@elensila74 I simply reacted to the words "new skin" as we all know we never change. We agree on that only some secondary sex characteristics can be changed, tough I do not think it could be called as "transition" since the male/female in question will remain the same. Anyway, I assume we actually share the same point of view : women/men cannot change what they really are.

[@elensila74]

@@Draco19970125 Sure, thanks for clarifying that point. 🤐

[@jermg]

Just want to point out that being asexual doesn’t automatically mean you’re also a-romantic. You can still date, find a partner, and not have sex. And no I’m not woke, I just learned that from Bojack Horseman.

[@shurale123]

Todd Chaves, right?

[@syeddaahmed7460]

Asexuals can also have sex too. They experience horniness but no sexual attraction.

[@PancakeJay]

I mean- I’m asexual and I’ve dated many people. Just because I thinks sex is: “Meh.” Doesn’t mean I can’t have it :’)

[@JL_hahaha0303]

Pls keep up with great content!

[@pennyward5926]

How hard up does a man have to be to want to date something like that

[@x_dilf_lover_x]

As a trans guy myself your channel is a breath of fresh air tbh

[@joeyk5]

My brain hurts. Thank goodness for you Marcus

[@jacqulineball2284]

There is a big difference between "I don't like red" and "I hate myself and want to delete myself" The the bedroom is looking rather girly if you ask me. I have/had gender issues (managed to correct my mental health so it's currently locked down) But I had to sell a very nice pink and silver golf set, because it was too girly and made me feel disgusted with myself. I was fine with a male looking set though.

[@crazygamer_1082]

-I’m completely off topic sorry! But is Marcus in his regency glow up era? Sorry, I saw his beard and all I can think about is Bridgerton 💀😂 I was like, “Ninth Bridgerton is that you?” Sorry totally off topic I did enjoy the video!❤

[@Gaibreel]

Bruh youre lookin hella good here. Lookin sharp af

[@huitrecouture]

Grinder bro's got jokes hahahahahaha.🤣

[@bb-bu9vt]

I love you, Marcus!

[@PageofLegend]

"Straight with extra steps" is really becoming a thing these days.

[@1915FadedBelly]

You make me laugh, while also making perfect sense.

[@WhoIsJaiK]

Soooo I gave birth to my daughter and since then I barely want to do “it” anymore. Am I asexual or do I have a low s3x drive?🤔ladies we’re all asexuals after giving birth!!😂😂

[@Jesi-g]

2:14 It took me finding out about detransitioners, for me to come across the phrase gender dysphoria. Before learning about these two terms, I would just accept someone telling me that they were a trans person, but usually it was always adults. I had never had a child say that up until recent years, that I see it on TV, on the news and social media. So once I learned about detransitioners and then learned about gender dysphoria, it honestly all made sense to me, and I understood it better, as a bio woman.

[@seek_to_understand_]

Why. do. they. all. look. the. same. 🤦‍♀️

[@xfile1966]

S0cial c0ntagion in most cases, if they don’t have actual diagnosed g3nd3r dysph0ria…..

[@samanthaorologio6866]

❤ thank you

[@EEsYouTubeChanel]

It is hard to date if you’re trans. It is hard to date if you are asexual. I’m actually bisexual and am single right now because I have certain guidelines for behavior I won’t accept. I don’t date people who drink regularly or yell at me and you’d be surprised how much that limits my dating pool. It’s always been difficult for me to find a gf over a bf.

[@keg10609]

That’s crazy I did want to repaint my red car to blue.

[@hinduismwithpremananddasbhagat]

Your face! Its been 3 years since your first video, but you've changed. It just hit me. I forgot how old you are, but you're looking handsome. Keep the stubble. I always thought you looked incredibly young in your videos, but you're looking older, more mature, more masculine.

[@0ttoRex]

I wanna go back to the 90's

[@shanecrump7932]

I like women who are traditionally masculine in certain ways, but they are still all woman and that’s what I like. There’s someone for every one.

[@jayterra2060]

1:26 except you can’t paint the car back red again if you don’t like blue. Also the car might not be drivable!!! God the ignorance!!!

[@Yeet4life]

As someone who has suffered from gender dysphoria for 5 years (since I was 9) Marcus does a really good job of explaining it. Gender dysphoria is something that you don't choose to have, and everyone who genuinley has it doesn't want it and would rather be comfortable in their own gender then have to pay thousands of dollars to reduce the regularity in which we are reminded of their biological sex. I dress in a masculine way and have short hair, and just because of that many people see me and see a guy. I have a great hatred for the feminine parts of my body and being reminded I am female only makes my gender dysphoria worsen. I am hoping that by 18 my gender dysphoria will have reduced or even disappeared like it does for other childhood onset gender dysphoria patients. Thank you Marcus for being a voice for people who actually suffer from gender dysphoria.

[@Sailrjup12nh]

Explaining Gender Dysphoria as a mental health situation really helps people understand how important and why true transgender works.

[@sandraatkinson]

Gender dysphoria is a real struggle. I respect that

[@Inkubaszi]

Marcus I have a question, I don’t want to sounds like a bully, or so… I have an Asperger, to tope that up I am ambivert, that sadly make me [btw English is not my native, or even second language, so sorry if I sounds bad], so I have problem with understanding lots of things that are obvious for others, but also I see a lot of things that aren’t visible to others. Why 99% when there is subject of tolerance, tansfoby, orientation and pronounces, it is lectured by peoples who I can name: “hey I have no personality, so look at me!” I’m my opinion all those piercings, tattoos, and other body modification - are demising real subject, because somehow I can’t believe that those peoples feels manganese, or alienated - I think they are attention seeker and feeling good if others looking and talk about them.

[@Jane-ow7sr]

Your English is fine it's just your grammar that needs worked on. Anyways, you don't sound like a bully you're just pointing out the obvious. These are shallow self absorbed people who jump on the newest niche trend they can find in order to make themselves feel special.

[@emmapeel8163]

thank you Marcus

[@Jesi-g]

1:28 Oh my God I feel like so many light bulbs are just popping in my brain right now.💡 Because if he / she / they would have said I NEED it to be blue, versus I PREFER it to be blue, then we can look at the word NEED as an actual mental expression! NEED versus PREFER, is the difference in this statement, that lets us know that this person is more than likely NOT an actual trans person that experiences gender dysphoria. 💡

[@mattias969]

Asexual isnt an identity it describes a person without a sex drive and that just does not get pleasure from sex i am one of those people and it doesnt matter what you believe in or not i still exist. My identity is a male human being. The worst thing is that i can still fall in love and i am straight but since 99% of all women want sex its pretty much out of question the sad thing about it is that im cursed with being physically attractive.

[@jayterra2060]

You may have a medical issue like low T . Just saying.

[@Lemonade_Stand_]

​@@jayterra2060could also be a medication side effect. For example alot of anti-depressants kill libido. Also depression can make people lose the desire for sex so it can be a double edged sword.

[@jayterra2060]

@@blondewriter99 haha TRUTH this is so perfect lol

[@jayterra2060]

@@Lemonade_Stand_ yup

[@blackfishblues]

I had to watch the Jake Gyllenhaal segment some five times before realizing what it was about. Weird that this person uses a totally unrelated interview clip of a totally unrelated person to make a point about a boyfriend!?... I was already in a panic at the thought that Jake Gyllenhaal might be trans! Marcus, much love from a red-blooded fat cat mama.

[@slaterh8r]

Not them comparing trans people to cars lol