Clearing Up Family Confusion

[@highlander666]

A loose lifestyle can have lifelong consequences

[@TopherGrant]

Ho is Life Ho is Love

[@JacksQueen.]

The judge knew the whole time that’s why he was so rough on her mom. Sad situation

[@kiyannamckever1655]

It’s the defendant’s smirk for me .. She never was genuine about this situation. She’s actually happy & that’s sad 💯

[@dimelaschey3748]

Yeah I peeped that. 😩😞

[@sereneamani1713]

That's the way it appears to you and others. In reality, you don't KNOW, you just THINK you do.

[@kiyannamckever1655]

@@sereneamani1713 I said what I said frog mouf..

[@sweetsweet81]

What Judge Mathis was talking about is so true. My husband missed a chunk of his daughter's life for those reasons the judge gave...and my husband was paying child support. If the father isn't doing anything or living a lifestyle that's harmful to the child, then he has equal rights to see the child.

[@keyb0511]

It costs nothing to be honest in the end! She knew at conception there were other possibilities just trifling....Telling her not to cry when you don't feel her pain🤬.

[@sereneamani1713]

The other woman wasn't being mean when she told her not to cry. I believe they have built a sisterly bond and she was trying to tell her, like she said "it's okay". The other children didn't have the best relationship with their father just because he was their biological father because of his 21-year incarceration.

[@aleenabelladavis860]

Right, that was a bitch move smh?.

[@Bewtiful1126]

I hate when ppl tell others not to cry. That’s a positive way for her to release the hurt/pain she’s feeling. It’s HER reality. I get she was trying to “console “ her. Sometimes the way to do that is just hug someone as they cry

[@aleenabelladavis860]

Or in her case comfort her smh.

[@latarareed7321]

Yes Nieker Bew You So Right on that I found out that that s just their ignorance of it speak n

[@conchitawashington291]

That’s because they do not know what to say, understandingly.

[@disaffectednarcmagnet2305]

That was just cruel to the plaintiff. Telling the truth like a drop the mike moment and then leaving her in so much pain. Then defendant jumps in with her "don't cry" as if that's not one of the most devastating situations one could ever be in 😡😢

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

Right like wth was that

[@latarareed7321]

He wasn't intending Cruelty. How So when He clearly put an A and Easto how he felt at the end he was just a hurt Sorry You Mistook it A = Apology and E=Explanation A Person Being Intentionally cruel aint doing All that!100

[@amandabarrett2472]

There was nothing about that that was cruel other than the mother putting her in that situation. He simply gave the verdict and said he was also upset

[@sisbreaknfree992]

Love the judge to the fullest...he keeps it 💯💯 sugarcoat nothing about the realness to life. Tell it like it is Judge, cuz most men I know live in total denial of life, I can always watch the judge and receive a glimpse of reality in the flesh! Thanks for the Truth💗

[@latarareed7321]

Yes Sis break n free...... Only us Real Bonafides lovem2 the fullest He Stay Keepnit" Life Real "fa ShoI feel ya😊😊😊🌅

[@sweetsweet81]

I have been through what the plaintiff had been through. I had no idea I had 7 other siblings by my father until after he passed. They didn't know about us, either. When we met, most accepted us, but my oldest sister did not. We all get along now.

[@RONISU78]

The smirk on the defendant’s face pissed me off

[@sweetsweet81]

It really did for me as well!

[@sereneamani1713]

Emotions are funny things and they along with behaviors are often misread. You appear to be insinuating that the defendant was happy about the outcome. I don't believe that.

[@RONISU78]

@@sereneamani1713 if they are often misread why can we trust what you believe

[@latarareed7321]

🧐🧐😳😳😳😳wow

[@RONISU78]

@@latarareed7321 wow what 👀

[@jamesswanson8809]

Has anyone considered that Rochelle may be the one that is not his daughter.

[@sereneamani1713]

You know what!!! I think about just that so many times when sibling or parental DNA tests are done. First, you have to establish that the surviving relatives are actually related, and that's usually never done beforehand.

[@jamesswanson8809]

@@sereneamani1713 Exactly

[@sereneamani1713]

In cases like this (after-death DNA), there could be so many variables. James Swanson below brought up a good point. The father thought she was his child. The father thought the defendant and her siblings were his children. He could have been wrong in any or all of those situations. The defendant's mother discouraged her children from getting close to the plaintiff. Why? All of this just opens the way for speculations galore. What a wonderful world this would be if everyone was truthful, honest, and sexually responsible.

[@coreydbryant]

She needs to cry, it is not O.K...

[@akila5591]

Ok that was sad I hope the girls continue a bond and the mother needs to figure out who the father is so sad

[@toya1374]

I feel bad for the plaintiff. She was speaking so highly of her father

[@peace.404]

My best friends mom talked bad about her dad saying he is a no good hustler, and when we got old enough to go find him ourselves, turns out….her mom was right. 😢

[@howdyyall4352]

They should have tested all the siblings, what if Rochelle is not his child 🤔

[@Sunshine134chick]

Right 😂😂😂

[@terrellstowers4039]

They never hold the Mom's accountable that run father's out the kids lives.

[@HandmaidenOfDistinction66854]

Sometimes the mothers do not know because of multiple sex partners, one night stands, or drug and alcohol memory lapses. I feel like they should be honest about all of that though. In this age where we have access to dna test, one can do their own research if given honest information. I'd like to know how do we know if the other young lady is the man's daughter? How is that tested? That concerns me when I see these episodes. We cannot just go by word of mouth. Anyone know how they conduct the testings?🤔

[@lynnortiz3763]

I feel that all his children should it get a DNA test...maybe the Defendant wasn't his daughter...Who knows..next step she should get that ancestors DNA..My heart broke when she started crying..😢

[@100her]

Yep!

[@Subliminalmessage78]

That’s very unfortunate.

[@TheSaintb23]

I believe that smirk was DEFINITELY for what JM was saying about the Plaintiff's mom and not for her not being her sister. The Defendant really seemed concerned and sad when she saw the lady crying. I would like to know how are these tests done when it comes to sibling DNA.🤔

[@resat1830]

I don’t think judge Mathis likes doing these paternity test. I couldn’t do them….. too much of an emotional roller coaster for me.

[@momonie4]

THAT ISH IS NOTTTTTTTTT OKAY OMG MY HEART BREAKS FOR HER!!!

[@stacykingcade7594]

It’s not ok! It effects a lot of people. Believe me, it may hurt the grandparents , aunts etc. I know because I have a granddaughter and great granddaughter that I recently found out is not biological and my mother passed thinking she was her 1st granddaughter!😢

[@sussieasempapa6787]

Wow 😳! The defendant is cold.

[@jameelahbf4]

Heartbreaking

[@byiza9484]

Tears of Lies and pain

[@peace.404]

Why can’t she cry? I can’t think of a better time to fry in my whole life than that moment.

[@crystalcrystal9050]

Instead of being messy and disrespectful to this young lady, why not uplift her. Wow!!! This hurts me 😩😩😩😩😩

[@joannturner1453]

A ton of horrible mothers out here lying to their children about their biological father. People finding out decades later the person they thought was their father, wasn't and the mothers STILL LIE about the situation, knowing they are playing head games with their child about the truth. Karma will visit them in return

[@adrianprince7266]

This is the result from women sleeping around getting pregnant and not knowing who the father of their kids are. I feel for the plantiff because this is despicable.

[@Proverbspsalms]

It falls on both. The man was not violated either, Antoinette !

[@adrianprince7266]

The woman bears more responsibility in this because they're the ones having the children. That alone gives them the lion share of the responsibility.

[@RONISU78]

@@adrianprince7266 but the man’s sperm has to first fertilize the eggs smarty pants 🙄🫠🥴

[@TopherGrant]

@@adrianprince7266 that is definitely deadbeat dad mentality. Good job

[@sereneamani1713]

@@adrianprince7266 Absolutely archaic and stupid reasoning. Seriously, what is wrong with you?

[@jaeeluv]

Oh wow 😤💔

[@leezaleeza6539]

If it ain’t verified that the sibling has had a dna test with the parent, than I wouldn’t put much trust in a sibling dna test. She should buy a AncestryDNA kit & hopefully she has some close family matches than go from there.

[@bluecollarscholarmelrosepa5673]

Hello Ladies and Gentlemen watching this episode...When I watched this video,, I understand know the reason that 78%percent of the children in Chicago Public schools do not know who is their real DNA test Father 💯💯💯💯💯

[@sweet_tee_vibes]

which one not the daddies child tho🤔

[@miker6793]

God bless the plaintiff. 🙏🏾

[@nataliemscrzysxycoolharris]

I respect anyone wanting to know who their parents are but I think that's a place you should really think about treading. Personally, if that parent wasn't involved in my life then so be it. I would wonder possibly why but eventually I'd stop.

[@sereneamani1713]

We can only make decisions about what we would do and how we think, not someone else.

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

UMMMMM JM you need to find a better way of delivering paternity tests. Not like "I WISH YA MOTHER WOULDA BEEN MORE HONEST WITH YOU (y'all not related) I WISH YA MAMA!-" Slams hammer umm sir they almost missed the results 🤣

[@seanwashington2145]

Shocker 😢

[@caesarjay1665]

God bless her 😘😘😘

[@jiztel]

Awwwwwww is all i could say at the end 🥹🥹

[@charlessantee8329]

I don't why her father told her that they may be sisters when the DNA tests results reveals that they are not blood related what a disappointment.

[@sweetsweet81]

He had already passed away by the time the DNA test was done. They had to test the ladies to determine if they were related. He died believing the plaintiff may be his.

[@leezaleeza6539]

He said “may” so that means he wasn’t sure.

[@latarareed7321]

@@sweetsweet81 RIGHT HE DIED WITH THE MISBELEIVING LIE 2...MY HEARTACHES FOR MS. APRIL ...HOPE SHE FINDS HER DAD& DADFAM

[@makedamars]

Women who do this irritate my soul. How can you be so selfish & irresponsible?? The pain brought to your child or children by doing this should make you want to help your child figure out who it is. Instead of playing mind games with them & giving them false hope. Shame on the mom & the defendant looked kinda happy towards the end…. Or maybe I’m reading her wrong but telling someone “didn’t I tell you not to cry” is not comforting in this situation at all. She should be giving her encouragement and tell her it’s okay to cry.

[@sereneamani1713]

I really think (and hope) you and the others are reading the defendant wrong. It's not comforting to you or me, but people are different. Maybe her "smirking" and saying don't cry is her way of saying, "don't be sad, it's going to be all right". Again, everyone is not the same.

[@makedamars]

@@sereneamani1713 I know everyone’s different. That’s why I said maybe I’m reading her wrong but my interpretation of it wasn’t comforting in my eyes.

[@AlwaysAlicia2991]

But hold up what if the defendant isn't the man's real daughter 🧐👀

[@mz.ak4713]

This hurt me I'm really crying 💔 judge Mathis could have handled that different at the end I did not like it at all

[@lacadiarandolph538]

That was very heartless the way he delivered the results smh

[@latarareed7321]

More Like Heartfelt. Headdressed it and the why of it The Mamma and The Mamma Probably the most heartless One here -Think About It🤔🤔🤔😔😔😔😑🤨

[@ourfamily2947]

I feel like after a certain amount of time especially after the parent is deceased just leave the dna alone you done took care of this man in his last days now he’s not her father I wish they could of just left it alone

[@DjMzunderstood]

JM that was harsh how you ended it

[@latarareed7321]

MANNNNNN JUDGE MATHIS #ISSSAREALLLONE I SURE WISH SOMETIMES THEY WOULD HAVE. A ❤️JUDGE MATHIS REAL JMREAL FANNSSSS PARTY 🎉. 💜WHERE WE COULD MEET HIM 👋 AND LAUGH Talk over some of All our And His Fav CASE S🤣🤣🤣🤣😂 EAT & CHILL. 4 Alil bit

[@100her]

😭

[@Ladylegree21]

Second 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@ksmr9582]

1st

[@JT-sk3mg]

Don’t watch any virtual cases. Don’t even upload them , you got 1000s of old cases you could upload!

[@TopherGrant]

Or just don't watch