Style Secrets That Stylish Men Know (Nobody Talks About This)

[@asacco2698]

Nice black shirt John I love black ... and tailoring is important, almost nothing fits off the rack .. a few bucks well spent

[@petermacklin7870]

Love my Slick Collar! I'm wearing it right now on the first day of classes at the university. Either you or Antonio promoted it, and I have not been disappointed that all my shirt collars are on point and smooth.

[@40OverFashion]

Awesome! Thanks for commenting!

[@pedrocols]

I have been using Slick Collar for over three years and highly recommended it!

[@DavidMeinke]

Thank you for this. I had been wondering where brogue shoes fit into the casual/formal line up. I think a similar video detailing when/how polo's should be worn would be informative.

[@40OverFashion]

Great suggestion!

[@peterwoods35]

I bought Slick Collar on your recommendation a few years ago. One of the best fashion Investments I've ever made. Thank you.

[@40OverFashion]

Great to hear! Thanks!

[@kathleenhamilton7608]

Thank you so much for what you are doing. My husband just came to me today showing me your video. He said, "hun, I'm going to learn to dress better." I said, "Alleluia!"

[@scarharting5577]

He refers to you as a "hun"??? You know that was an insult aimed at Germans during WW1 meaning they were bloodthirsty barbarian hordes, right?

[@michaeldavis2039]

Some of these I knew, but others I didn't!! Learning something new everyday!! Love wearing neck ties, but now I need learn how to tie that Bowtie! 🤣 Thanks John!! Salute to you!! 🫡

[@40OverFashion]

Happy to help!

[@DiegoB0525]

I bought those Slick collars accessories because of your recommendation. They're amazing!

[@40OverFashion]

They are!

[@lorenfederman9397]

John, What is summer chic attire for a Labor Day wedding entail?

[@georgebowman1060]

Nice break down on the shoes 👟- done a little differently lol 😆

[@aaustin1986]

Very nice refresher.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you liked it!

[@mikeknowles8017]

I've been using the Slick Collars for about a year now. They solved the floppy collar problem that I hate so much.

[@40OverFashion]

Love it!

[@eddielopez3702]

Great video John. I finally got the Slick Collar. It works very well.

[@40OverFashion]

Good to hear!

[@slapstra1970]

Getting one of those collars!

[@40OverFashion]

You’ll love it!

[@remi2206]

The channel i will always come back to for advice,thanks John❤

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Thank you!

[@ronm6585]

Thanks John.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@bsumm1473]

I've been using slick collar for awhile now and it works great!

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@marcoperez4712]

As always great advice.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching!

[@paulschultz5873]

Great tips John. I feel torn as a long time follower, between you giving away all the inside secrets but yet giving everyone the right advice. Respect 🙏

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! I appreciate that!

[@philipjackson6882]

Great tips John!! Every man should be aware of these!!

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@evadeanu1]

I’m not sure why I’m watching your videos as I’m not a guy. I guess is the way you simplify fashion. And your personality. Also, your clear and concise delivery is exceptional. I wish we’d have some prospective for the ladies here. Many thanks for your videos, very pleasant to watch.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that! Thanks for watching!

[@84KtnM]

Hey!! Nice video once again. Thanks for this. 4.51-4.30 Golden Nuggets. I was wondering if a video on the role compartmentalization of tasks and how it helps us at 40 in our daily chores. Personally, I have been trying to put my regular tasks into proper days and time in order to be able to focus on them better, or else I find myself scattered. Would love to hear your experiences and learnings on this subject. PS : just a suggestion.

[@EricPetersen2922]

My hair finally started to turn gray-I look like Paulie Walnuts on the Sopranos now. Anyways since I’m not into the whole hair dye thing, I decided to change up my entire looks. Except the tattoos (zero regrets). I’m 35% of the way done with the transformation. I really am enjoying this change. Dressing my age. I’m 56. I look 46 snd feel like I’m 76. So far so good. People take me more seriously now. I’m a biz man and have never really had issues with that, however I can accomplish more faster. The girls like it a lot. I’m happily married, however it’s good to look good and feel that way as well. Thx for the help! 😃💪

[@morrisyarnell6083]

Many high end stores include tailoring for suits and jackets. Shop there guys.

[@johnsanabria3279]

When it comes to color I have used an out of print book by Carole Jackson called Color For Men. It details a seasonal pallette for men according to 3 pre-requisites we were all born with that can't be changed--skin color,hair color and eye color(this is the reason in wearing a certain color or colors one might hear the phrase, "That color looks good on you." ). It is a book worth getting though out of print (publ. 1980s) if it can be found(btw, I am a Summer.) !

[@ingmanoff]

Found Color for Men 38 years ago. Excellent source of information.

[@alwayspooh1588]

Dressing well begins with being a healthy and compatible weight for your height (NOT THAT BMI CRAP - makes no difference between fatty mass and fat-free mass) and being confident. John, great video as always!

[@fishin4bogey]

This is arguably the most important point. It's not going to matter if you're wearing a fully tailored Tom Ford suit. If you're 6'0" and 300 pounds, it's not going to matter.

[@gergemall]

Excellent

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you! Cheers!

[@mars112v]

That last one cracked me up! 😂 good stuff as always.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for watching!

[@rafaelmangual6478]

Other things men should know are their neck size (for shirts), their inseam (for pants), the difference between Short, Regular and Long (when it comes to suits, blazers and sport jackets). All this can be done by simply getting measured by a tailor.

[@karlsenula9495]

That can change by shirt maker. I was wearing 17.5 x 34/35 ... then went to a higher end menswear store last week and their shirts fit me at 18 x 33 ... but I had to go back three times because they kept measuring wrong. Now they didn't have my size and the right fitting one is coming in three days before I have to leave for a wedding ... still have to take it to my cleaner to have it cleaned and pressed when it arrives too 🤦‍♂️.

[@drvaibhavahuja2]

ज्ञ

[@laturista1000]

Only a small percentage of men and women will notice. Don't dress for others They dont care, nor will they appreciate it if you point it out. Dress well for your own personal set of standards.

[@Athandatu]

Absolutely agree

[@jicalzad]

Sometimes u can just try on different sizes of clothes in various brands without getting measured to find one’s size. But yes, eventually you’ll need a tailor for when it comes to altering your tops and bottoms

[@moneyfornothing3264]

Legend! Thanks my friend!! 🙏🏽

[@40OverFashion]

Any time!

[@zakeebanks9757]

I wish you could have shown how you use the slick Collar……what makes it stay in place or how it attaches to the shirt.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for the feedback! It’s super simple. You just flip up your shirt collar, put the slick collar around your neck, and then fold the collar back down. That’s it.

[@phillipmarlowe0525]

I can attest that the slick collar works very well. I got a pair few years back and had great results. I have no affiliation whatsoever with the company only a customer.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing!

[@phillipmarlowe0525]

@@40OverFashion Thank you for the awesome videos

[@Andy_Unlimited]

Hey John, what’s the name brand of the loafer shown at the 4:58 mark ? . . Thanks in advance.

[@40OverFashion]

They’re from Jay Butler! I own several pairs. Love them. I know the owner and he does an incredible job!

[@guytrying4534]

Love that black shirt! Where did you get it?

[@40OverFashion]

It’s Ted Baker from Nordstrom.

[@iflyfa18s]

Legend. Great video, John. I’ve had Slick Collars for quite awhile. I love both sizes and don’t wear a collared shirt without them! #Legend

[@40OverFashion]

Good call! Thanks for commenting!

[@leonardcroft1467]

Thanks John Always Enjoy Your Style Videos …

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@ninjakris3004]

Great video with relative content 👍

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@thadboudreaux5692]

Yes 👍 for slick collar

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@joefaraci8575]

You cannot overemphasize details - little things mean a lot. Forty years ago I bought a book called Dress For Success by John Malloy. It's outdated today due to different styles, but the author emphasized things like you do John such as details, tailoring and color combinations. I may have to buy a Slick collar.

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate that! Details matter!

[@whu58]

Im not so sure about the darker shirt with the lighter tie being a problem, I wear a dark blue shirt that has a subtle grey faded small (1cm) square pattern, I pair this with a plain paisley type silk light blue tie ......... yes a little 1930`s gangsterish in look, but all the same stylish when worn with a dark grey speckled blazer and light grey chino`s looks great with two tone brown brogues.

[@jonsdavis]

The style secret I'm most interested in is where you got that shirt! Been looking for a casual black shirt like that for ages. The only ones I can seem to find are more of a dress shirt style, and they often have white buttons -- which may not exactly be be "1980's bartender" but it definitely gives me similar Chess King / Sopranos flashbacks.

[@40OverFashion]

It’s Ted Baker from Nordstrom.

[@tumbleweedconnection7906]

Any recommendations for athleisure for us men over 40? Specifically pants for lounging or running errands for when it's too cold for athletic shorts but too warm for sweatpants and you don't want to wear jeans or chinos. Do you like joggers for the over 40 crowd? Thanks

[@40OverFashion]

I’m a big fan of the public rec brand.

[@tumbleweedconnection7906]

@40OverFashion I actually just tried on a new pair of joggers from Twillory that just got delivered today. They seem like good quality, very comfortable and I love the material. Not sure if you're aware of that brand. It's my first purchase from them.

[@Puertorrican_Power]

Talking about timeless style...your watch is huge for your wrist. That Omega Seamaster 300 you are wearing has a lug to lug lenth of 50mm, which is usually good for people with 7.5in-8in or more. A watch is a jewelry accesory and to be fashionable, in a correct way, the bracelet has to be visible when looking from the top. For most average men, usually from 6in-7in the correct measures should be 36-38mm cases with no more than 44mm lug to lug lenth. That shows the entire piece, looks really classy and sets you apart from a fashion standpoint. Yours is a beautiful watch, no doubt, but since you always points out the importance of wearing clothes appropiate in size and fit, I thought it is ok to share that it also applies to accesories.

[@David-l7g6k]

A style tip would include removing the salt stains from your derbies. Try a vinegar solution and then moisturize.

[@kirkdarling4120]

Umm...yeah.

[@jeffreardon3969]

Good advice for guys well over 60 that still are in the game, thanks.

[@wayneious]

At 2:10 I can remember once I bought a jacket and the pockets were sewn closed like that, I was so scared to open them up because I did not know they should be opened I left them that way for years on that jacket and anything else I bought going forward. A date once a woman thought I needed a pocket square and shoved the one I had on my pants pocket into the jacket pocket and the thread broke, I dont think she even realized what she had done and we went about our date...I went back then and read and learned and opened up all the pockets in my jackets and suits...It was 'freeing' to say the least.

[@40OverFashion]

Great story! Thanks!

[@HopeOfJoe]

Great content 🎉😊❤

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@Nick.Brough]

yes to unpick the vents and breast pocket on a jacket, but caution on the side pockets - I leave mine sewn up because it prevents you from using your jacket as a "purse with sleeves", filling the pockets with junk and ruining the clean line of your jacket!

[@MarkRobertsBlog]

This is a genius hack.

[@KC-bv9kf]

Agree. Even when not using those pockets, the drapes and lines sagged over time.

[@evelynggomezdebourne8297]

But where do I put my piece?

[@Nick.Brough]

@@evelynggomezdebourne8297 talk to your tailor about that

[@TheBarryHughes]

John, do you have a suggestion for a watch around $100?

[@40OverFashion]

I’m not super up on everything that’s out there, but for starters, I would look at something from Orient, or Seiko.

[@chrisb3902]

Great video John! Loved the shoe breakdown from casual to formal! I bought slick collar per your recommendation previously - works great! Cheers!

[@40OverFashion]

Cheers! Thank you!

[@DemiCastro827]

Do you have a recommendation on a similar site for women over 40?

[@40OverFashion]

There’s sooo many. Try Busbee Style and Hot & Flashy.

[@DemiCastro827]

@@40OverFashion Thanks John!! I’m learning so much from you and my wife was looking for a site that would help her as well. ☺️🤙

[@crisco6583]

I’ll add one detail that men should never overlook: Shine your damn shoes! In my opinion, it is as important as wearing the right shoes. Whether they are formal or more casual, your look is going to be ruined if your shoes are scuffed up and dirty.

[@40OverFashion]

Great point!

[@canadafree2087]

I wear a Slick Collar every time I wear a dress shirt without a tie. Bought mine a few years ago. You completely nailed the shoe ladder of formality.

[@40OverFashion]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@frankmartinez4856]

Legend: thanks for exposing those Secrets 😮John!

[@40OverFashion]

You’re welcome!

[@karlsenula9495]

Plaids and stripes baby!!! 😱

[@alberttang6955]

A properly tied necktie knot should be perfectly centered between the points of the shirt collar. An improperly tied knot will cause the entire tie to skew to one side and look sloppy. Learn to pinch the tie fabric as you tighten the knot to create a nice dimple. The dimple will actually help keep the hanging length of the necktie centered on your shirt.

[@fugu4163]

Sloppy like after a hard night out?

[@peterat100]

Legend

[@40OverFashion]

Legend!!

[@jasonvoorhees895]

Please explain: 5:04 to 5:19 ... All I see in the difference there is one is wingtip and one is cap-toe. If I owned both types of shoe, (and maybe I do) I would just call them both "Brogues." How is that an Oxford vs. Derby? I guess I don't understand the difference in definition.

[@40OverFashion]

The Derby has open laces, and the Oxford has closed laces. The leather flaps that the laces pass-through are open on the derby, and sewn closed on the Oxford.

[@Drachselhuberjoschi_1]

Al Capones Helper =Bartender😉😜

[@jeremyjjbrown]

What kind of stores sell a jacket without removing the tacks?

[@Steven-hk2wb]

And very important. If your favorite shirt (pants) are a little bit faded, toss them out. Everyone knows. Sometimes I buy 2 of my favorite shirts so that when one is looking old, I have a backup. There is nothing like the look of a crisp new pair of pants or shirt.

[@georgelush1998]

Good point about avoiding a dark toned shirt with a lighter toned tie. I always thought that combination didn’t quite work and now that you mention it, I can see why. Too much contrast.

[@40OverFashion]

Exactly! Thanks for watching!

[@sparkyblazeup1]

If you wear it with a pinstripe suit you look like a 1930's gangster . . .

[@ayodelesylvester929]

Funny like you just exposed my past fuck ups 😂 nice work

[@omarcortes5754]

It is a journey. I started wearing jeans and protective equipment due to the job requirements. Then I switched to suits and formal clothes.

[@JohnSmith-ki2eq]

Back in the day I would just look at guys in magazines and newspapers that looked good and copied them, I'd try to pick guys who were my build, age and complexion. These days it's even easier because you have the whole internet to look at for ideas, and as long as you look for someone who looks like you do only better dressed then it's hard to go wrong.

[@40OverFashion]

Great suggestion!

[@courtpaul9334]

I'm a 52yrs.old guy.What I normally do is purchase a can of spray starch one that has a pleasant smell.I then spray the shirt collar ONLY....fold the collar down & after 2 minutes..iron it & it will remain in an Upright position for your entire event....This is from a fomer navigational officer ⚓

[@acsody]

Granted, a long time ago I have seen men with the label still on the sleeve, so that was real. I would have complained them beeing fixed so flimsily😅... but going around with sewn up pockets?😂

[@vespadavidson2315]

One does Not open pockets unless for a pocket square. Not opening keeps the shape of the jacket..... whilst putting things in a pocket, distorts the suit.

[@earlchapman7335]

As a blind person, how would I know my style? How would I match up colors and patterns?

[@darvoid66]

I saw a woman with her jacket vent still sewn closed at the grocery store tonight. I wanted to tell her but I didn't. Her skirt kept peeking through the "eye" shaped opening that formed when she walked.

[@40OverFashion]

Yeah, I have to bite my tongue in some of those moments.

[@svrocko1]

Looks like you're wearing a Tudor GMT, John.

[@40OverFashion]

Yes I am!

[@svrocko1]

Looks good!

[@keythwarren5075]

Clothes never made the man. This channel seems just a little bit OTT when it discusses the importance of style. Do I look clean, tidy and smart? Then I’m good to go!…..I’ll wait for the attack now!😂

[@wallyg77]

I went my whole 25th anniversary party with that stupid stitch on the vent of my jacket and didn't realize it until 2 weeks later 🤦🏻‍♂️😅

[@40OverFashion]

Oh no!!

[@wallyg77]

@@40OverFashion 🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[@erikbalcaen7075]

If the party was Okay there's no problem at all Wally !!

[@spi_media_core]

Many times, stylish clothing doesn't look good on me. I'm kinda stuck in a groove no matter what the latest fashion seems to be.

[@karlsenula9495]

Another thing for older men to consider is that you don't want to be 'mutton dressed as lamb' ... know what's trendy but also age appropriate.

[@DaveDolphinOK]

Stop letting your pants puddle at the shoes… get those bad boys to a tailor!

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely! Totally agree!

[@jackfenton2271]

Remove the brand tag on Levis! Why does everyone walk around with their size being advertised?

[@RLH_ITALIA]

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen some fool wearing a suit jacket with the vents still tacked 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@nerigarcia7116]

Sometimes it upsets me to see grown ass men who don't put in any effort. It really doesn't take much to piece things together even if you're just wearing a T-shirt.

[@Rhubarb2]

I'd give him a reach around

[@mohamedalkaboom]

I leave my sport jacket side pockets sewn shut. I’m not about to put a burger in them or anything

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Fair enough!

[@Roberto-tu5re]

Do guys really leave the tags on suits and keep the vent sewn up, if so you need to spread the word my sartorial wizard of how to dress and help the masses.

[@40OverFashion]

I’m trying! Thanks for watching!

[@fugu4163]

Perhaps i am a bit boring but i prefer clothes without patterns and logos on them.

[@mph7282]

I ask this because I see it in a lot of these types of videos, but...no one really is leaving the labels and tack stitching on their jackets, are they? Surely that's not really a thing?

[@40OverFashion]

Yes, it is actually a thing. I see it all the time.

[@bensmith4666]

You need to give your shoes a polish, it’s attention to detail.

[@vladradu9966]

My collars look ok without plastic inserts. I just buy decent quality shirts. Wouldn't it be weird, when you're invited at some place, having dinner, eating, having a nice conversation, and all of a sudden, a piece of plastic jumps out of your collar? Buy quality shirts, buy less, don't use plastic whims in your collar.

[@vladradu9966]

I was never and I will never be in a group that comments what people are wearing. I newer associate with trivial people.

[@ratchetwise440]

I just get my lawyer to do my tie....when...."shit happenz"

[@EJKelly]

But, I like that bartender look. It's hep.

[@freshpressedify]

'Nobody talks about this' Seriously? This is all the basic stuff every major style channel keeps mentioning over and over again. The first point is like saying removing the price tag from a garment is a 'subtle style secret'. Come on dude. Love the channel, but you gotta step it up a bit.

[@ralphsweat]

Dude’s ballin, but no wedding ring. Something is not passing the “sniff” test. A man on the back nine of life with all that style would have a trophy wife as a closing accessory. A ball cap is part of my look, no hatfishing necessary with a wife of 38 years that’s a hard 10. Give your style tips without ripping on some men.

[@40OverFashion]

Not sure what you’re getting at, but I just got out of something long-term. Not ripping on anyone, but some guys need more help than others, but thanks for your judgment. Congratulations on your long-term marriage. Consider yourself lucky.

[@raymondpuccini8352]

No one looks good over weight. Before the wordwrobe be fit. Then worry about style

[@CoachSteveJandS]

The color wheel doesn't care about passing trends....

[@40OverFashion]

Just rocksolid information.

[@thomasrudy6132]

why the hell do they make the collar stays removable? they didn't used to be that way.

[@alberttang6955]

If the collar stay is permanently sewn inside, it causes a noticeable stay shaped indentation on each collar point when the shirt is pressed or ironed. A removable stay allows the collar to be pressed nice and smooth. Also, a plastic stay will deteriorate over time. If it's embedded inside the collar, it can't be easily replaced.

[@stuartkennedy4570]

Maybe clean the water stains on your shoes before you show them on camera

[@punchcat0736]

Your shoes need a shine badly

[@yaakovhassoun8965]

I thought these were gonna be secrets, these were basic, learn how to tie a tie... lol

[@40OverFashion]

Basic, you’re right, but many have been forgotten.

[@davidthom7127]

Everyone knows stripes with stripes is a faux pas

[@40OverFashion]

False. It can be done.

[@davidthom7127]

@@40OverFashion 🤣 no

[@williamsheehan260]

I can’t believe people don’t already know this

[@omarcortes5754]

As simple as it looks the reality is that everyone has a different context in life.

[@jcronin3155]

So in your worldview, you expect everyone to know everything about everything.....🤔

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching William!

[@timothyslaughter476]

Are there instructions y tube gives you people to never stop moving your arms and hands around...ever?????