Common ONLINE DATING Mistakes You're making in Thailand

[@cpinventar]

You have a fun way of presenting things, but it's so right, thanks for your great videos. 👍🙂

[@HeeersEllery]

Hilarious. Other things that could be included are 1. Don’t let the women know you can speak Thai…because “Farang roo mak mai dee!” 😅 2. Ask the women what it was in your profile that attracted them enough to show interest. If they cannot answer that, it shows that they didn’t bother reading your profile and were just swiping right on every “Hansum Man” 3. Ask them why they didn’t write something…anything….in their profile. Their answer will let you know if she has any brains. And, if all you are going off of are their photos…well…”roo na, mai roo jai”. 4. Don’t waste your time with women who have multiple pictures drinking alcohol. Those are the party girls. They are one step up from freelancers. Much of what you say could apply to the women on Tinder also. For example….99% of the time, women start the conversation with “hi” also. The suggestions I would make for women are… 1. Write something in your profile. Most women’s profiles have absolutely nothing written. This means that all there is to comment on in order to break the ice is a superficial comment on your looks. It’s better to find a guy who will love and appreciate you for who you are rather than what you look like. The guys who go for looks only (and there are many of those) will trade you in for a younger prettier woman in the future. 2. Ask the guys something other than… “What do you do?” (this makes you look like a gold digger). “How long you stay Thailand” (this makes it obvious that you don’t want a guy who “roo mak” and he might assume that you are just looking for multiple sponsors) “Are you married/have Thai gf/wife”. If he does, he’s a piece of sh*t and shouldn’t be on Tinder (or any other dating app) and will lie about it anyways. DO ask him if he likes Pattaya. If he does, run. The good guys would prefer to go to Huahin. 3. If the guy asks innocuous questions…well…if the guy asks any questions (that are polite, of course)…answer him. Too many women just ignore any and all questions and treat the initial chat as a one sided “job interview” 4. Be wary of many of the younger guys in Thailand. Most either A. Won’t be living here a long time so your chances of a lasting relationship aren’t good. B. Are involved with some sort of sketchy business (hello…Bitcoin!) 5. If you are young and want children, don’t message old guys. And if you don’t want children and are ok with an older guy, make sure you know whether or not he has kids back in his own country. If you marry him and he dies, the “morodok” (inheritance) issue will be a pain in the ass to deal with in the future. 6. Watch out for the guys who are “very polite”. It’s fake. Find a guy who is real. The “polite” game is just a way to get into your pants. 7. Understand our (Farang) sense of humor. We might say something that won’t be “polite” but it is not done with malice. 8. Wait wait wait…a long time before you sleep with him. If a guy is worth sleeping with, he’s worth waiting for. The same goes for the guys…any woman who will jump into bed with you quickly will do it with any guy. Save yourself the future headaches. Sex without love is like food without nutrition. Be a steak 🥩 not a cheeseburger 🍔 Finally, if/when you start chatting on Line. Call the guy. Talk to him. Texting gets boring. And please…say more than “Good morning” “how are you” “good night” 😄 I will end my thesis with my favorite Thai word. เออ Oh….wait…that’s not polite. Sorry…. เออ ครับ 😜

[@HeeersEllery]

@@DanielMLaw Thanks….glad you liked it. I could say more….much more….but don’t want to offend the host. 😅

[@marknicholson6562]

Bonjour. Maybe a new show fishing with Chalida? :-) Your smile and positivity is so infectious. Thailands best smile!!

[@GoWithChalida]

Thank you 😊

[@user-ol1xd9pb9q]

Another good vid. Some very helpful advice. Men do need to hear it from the womans mindset. Women are shy because they dont know the man and are reallly concerned about another culture. They dont want to make mistakes and make the man angry. The woman might only know men from their own culture and think all men are the same. Keep rocking.

[@edwelsh9035]

Very good video with great advice. Thank you very much sharing this with us.

[@patrickclark9156]

I like your music selection, Chalida. Nice to listen to.

[@meeraslam5954]

I have a friend in Thailand. Her name is Chalida. So not need Tinder app.

[@GoWithChalida]

😊

[@computerwerks1875]

Absolutely funny and yet great advice !!! It is possible to find great people if we are real and smart about it. Start by knowing what you really want in life, set your sights and goals high.

[@FeelTheLife]

Thank you so much for sharing this information

[@jimreed7280]

Thank you for the video

[@theguynextdoor4978]

I gave up online dating in Thailand. They would show interest and then ghost me the moment I introduced myself. Some would say that they only want Asian men, and one said that they are too good for me, and only tall, rich and very athletic men deserve her love. She said I am quite good-looking, but I need to go for women who are less than her quality because she herself is at the top. Why do some of the girls have so high opinion of themselves?

[@rsin757]

Thank you Chalida. Excellent video with a lot of good advices. 👍

[@meeraslam5954]

Thanks for good information.

[@robkey69]

I sat next to the real Miss Thailand 15 years ago on a Flight from LAX to BKK and I have to say you're more attractive and have a much better personality.

[@GoWithChalida]

That was long time ago 😅 well thank you 😊

[@robkey69]

@@DanielMLaw LOL....I worked for Northwest Airlines at the time...was riding in first class with my Thai wife...Miss Thailand was sitting behind me with my friend Steve...she was OK looking but not a stunner...and she didn't even live in Thailand she was from LA...from a rich Thai family...My wife Id'ed her not me...and I'm not one to "take pictures" ...so believe what you want DB....I lived it...

[@sumanmandal2435]

Thanks chalida for your beautiful advices ....really loved it ❤️keep up the good work waiting for more vedeos in future n your smile is really very cute like you 😊💖

[@alansoalt5446]

Love you're personality.

[@stianjarnass]

Love your videos 👏👏🔥. And you're gourgous 🔥🔥🔥

[@bdogjr7779]

Awesome Chalida🌷《☆》For sure real girl like You my friend🖖🤓🏈

[@salwandawody6671]

Nice hair color 👌🏻

[@GoWithChalida]

Thank you

[@Maxwell_86]

Giggled at the line " ..make your move...".

[@digitaldesperado]

I giggled at "blow your load"

[@Maxwell_86]

@@digitaldesperado omg . I missed that. So cute, getting dating advice from someone young enough to be my daughter ;)

[@edexter97]

The wkrp episode where she wants the guy to stop bothering her.... Wears tons of makeup exc to get rid of him. I don't remember if she was wearing alot of makeup though.

[@GoWithChalida]

Oh sometime men can’t notice, not until she has no make up on lol

[@theskull3838]

Is this true all over Thailand Chalida? That the women have a lot of options? And options with viable men that they can meet?

[@WORLD_OF_M4V3R1CK]

Cute girl, good English, solid advice.

[@vandanakhalkho3844]

Hey How to make friends om online in Thailand? BC next month I'm traveling to Thailand

[@ernstnell9852]

My first question will be : she worked in bar or freelance and not name from dog

[@dinorossi2549]

Thai girl prefer thai but competition hard for rich thai men. May be less straight men n thai man n 1 playboy if rich.

[@dinorossi2549]

@@DanielMLaw hundred percent yes prefer thai men thai men richest in thai they drive lambo ferrari not farang

[@mg_surin7209]

New Hair Color Chalida ? 😎

[@GoWithChalida]

Haha not yet but it fade away a bit, what should be next hair color ?

[@mg_surin7209]

@@GoWithChalida maybe your natural color ? 😎

[@fanyong7883]

Chalida, you look like movie star.

[@christoff124]

hi!

[@MrDobberdude]

Is your channel monetized now krub?

[@GoWithChalida]

Not yet Kha

[@MrDobberdude]

@@GoWithChalida I left KZbin running your channel for 6 hours trying to get your hours up... 😂 You have 1000 subs what is left for monitization?

[@SuperHfhgfh]

I will look only here..😀😍

[@jagathkulathilake1692]

👍👍👍

[@rodgie06]

🌹

[@maaroufelchami2658]

Love you

[@tullimilliamarnadh1151]

I come to Thailand with in short periods so good young grills meet

[@ritzsd5597]

I miss u 😘

[@SuperBillybob53]

Tinder? How much And what time you coming. That’s it.

[@abdualrehmanchander9496]

I coming to Thailand I terveling with you help me ho mech charge ,and get me cell no

[@tullimilliamarnadh1151]

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