Conquer the Fear of Relationship Failure - Relationship Advice

[@SusanWinter]

I just got an email from the lady who wrote this. And I’m thrilled to know that she loved the video. If you are the one who has asked me to answer your video request, make sure to write me here and let me know or write me on the email that I sent you alerting you to your request being live😊

[@GamercastMMs]

Thank you for the video. I am at this point in my life where I don't know who I am interested in anymore. I never see any kind of interest from any women in my life. I have fully healed from the previous girl who was a lesson. And want to try again. But I see no interest. Which is odd. What am I missing.

[@SusanWinter]

Just take a break. You need a total reboot. If you do want to re-enter dating, I would suggest doing “duty dating.” You can check my KZbin feed for what that is and videos. But it means to date against and not date for an outcome for a short period of time. If you only date tall brunettes, go for a short blonde. This applies to everything straight, across-the-board, including professions and nationalities. The point is to break your pattern. At the end of each coffee or drink date, less than one hour in time, you were going to walk away, asking yourself “what did I discover that was actually interesting?” You don’t need to date the person or have a relationship with them. This is research for you. You are dating for data to discover how to expand yourselfand your options

[@GamercastMMs]

@@SusanWinter Coming from Denmark, I just want to thank you and discovering your content has been the best decision. You are awesome! B-)

[@AndrewJovicHayagan]

"Courage is not the absence of fear but the triumph over it."

[@SusanWinter]

Love this quote. Thank you so much for that.

[@ManifestationPowerhouse]

I have social anxiety at times, which can be worse with dating. That type of fear does hold me back at times.

[@skamat1455]

Susan, this is beautiful. I have been looking up to you not only for relationship advice but also for self-development, work and life in general. ♥♥♥

[@SusanWinter]

I love your message. Thank you so much for that. Yes relationships are simply a part of life. And how we consider our position in life has so much to do with how we enter and stay in relationships.

[@hilea.m.z4460]

My dear Susan, as usual another brilliant insightful video. I’m just grateful, you thought me so much things. I hope one day I will meet you in person and give you a big hug.. love love from Hilea ❤

[@SusanWinter]

Hilea, where do you live? You never know because I’m going on world tours, and as I travel, I’m actually taking time to meet my clients and followers. And thank you for the lovely words.

[@hilea.m.z4460]

@@SusanWinter it’s going to be an honour to meet you my dear Susan. I’m Actually back home in Toronto Canada. sending you love your way 💕😘

[@SusanWinter]

LOVE MY CANADIANS!! @@hilea.m.z4460

[@hilea.m.z4460]

@@SusanWinter 💕💕💕🥰☀️

[@AlexPenn.DatingCoach]

Excellent breakdown on overcoming the fear of failure in relationships and life. Your insights on self-preparation and building confidence hit the mark. Love how you emphasize acknowledging past successes and challenging irrational fears. As a fellow dating coach, your wisdom resonates! Keep empowering us with your valuable content.

[@MikeHalley]

Stoicism I like to follow in life

[@jonwilkinson3886]

Dutch courage was the path to my best relationship. Maybe we need to go back to the old fashioned way of meeting people? Too much alcohol and sound lack of judgement. Life's a box of chockies - You never know who you'll wake up next to. LOL!

[@SusanWinter]

Well, I’m completely sober. And I agree with you-many daters allow alcohol and drugs to assist them in getting ‘close’ for the evening. But, they can catch feelings for that person.. Or just for the fact of having a connection. Because filtering and judgment didn’t come into play in the initial meeting, creating something meaningful Becomes frustrating and anxiety ridden

[@HeathenGranny]

For me I see love in real life as an emulation of how we see love in TV shows, cartoons, movies, books, and video games. It's just like the PS2 emulator called PCSX2 which allows you to play PS2 games through emulation at a higher resolution and quality than the actual PS2 system but no matter how much I try to fix the settings on the emulator I still cant get it to run the game that I am emulating properly because it lags and stutters and I sometimes obstacles are invisible which doesn't happen on the actual PS2 system. Same thing with love in the real world it looks so real and can feel good but not for long because no matter how much effort I would try to put into being myself to fall in love with someone there is always problems because then they get jealous and they don't want me to hang out with other people and especially doing the work that I do because I do adult orientated work online.

[@SusanWinter]

You have to realize that your typical audience, or the people with who you surround yourself in this sphere have skewed to a certain mindset. You may not be drawing in committed and responsible people who are seeking a healthy, loving, mutually beneficial relationship, and have the skill set that are capable of going the distance. I think you just need to fish in a new pond. Do whatever you need to do or want to do for your lifestyle and for your income. That's up to you. But when you go into the dating world, I'd suggest that you look for a different caliber of human being, separate apart from where you normally do your work. I wish you well.