FEAR OF FAILURE - 3 Ways to get over the fear that holds you back.

[@jdmohan51]

"Failure is an inevitable part of success". Beautifully said.

[@rubencaballero8226]

I carry the attitude of gratitude with me every day. It’s almost impossible to go through life without experiencing some kind of failure. We can choose to see failure as “the end of the world,” or we can look at failure as the incredible learning experience that it often is. Failure stop us only if we left them. Strategies to help you get over the hump. Start redefining what failure means to you. Shade, people like you make the world a better place. You deserve a million thanks and all the hugs I can give, I’ll never be able to repay you for your kindness. We, your followers love ❤.

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I have recently started watching your talks . I found you highly informative and inspiring . thank you for your hard work and your intent .

[@avinashanilnair3537]

This is a wonderful video , just faced a bad rejection from a journal. I'm going back again , NEVER STOP 😊

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Hey you back again with fresh energy , you're always inspiring👍👍👍👍👍

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thanks! It’s good to be back - with energy! 😛

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More energy is required to speak continously and to dance.

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wow.... you have the Power of influencing, Acceptance... this is the first time i feel im learning new skills without feeling bored..

[@arifahmed1202]

I have been noticed that I am afraid of fear of failure, i didn't work on atychiphobia over the time, thanks for sharing this wonderful information with us.

[@macoydiaz7747]

Wow this is true and enlightening. As a designer who experienced a lot of rejection it made me fear failure, which led me to be a perfectionist and so I procrastinate in every given project. You can also connect this as a result of being a man pleaser.

[@ShadeZahrai]

Ah you make a good point - being a people pleasure and having a strong desire (or need) for social validation can absolutely lead to fear of failure due to the ‘social rejection’ that you associate with failure. Have you found any effective ways to work through your fear of failure?

[@prunes794]

I do the same...you have put it so well..beginning every single project is associated with fear and then procrastination, I do agree...it results from people lashing back on us and we end up reciprocating that by punishing ourselves by procrastination and mental dilemma..but how do u avoid that..i mean how do u face that fear..can u share?

[@macoydiaz7747]

@@prunes794 @Shadé Zahrai Every time I’m in this state I just accept the reality that I’m stuck but there is also this reality where you really have to move forward and make progress. While I procrastinate, I do research regarding my project, because for me enough knowledge about my project boosts my confidence that I can do a good job. It’s a learning process and sometimes I still stumble on this part. Don’t be too hard on ourselves too. This helps

[@boreycheng9260]

As I'm watching, I feel a lot better about myself. I hope to actually take actions. Thank you!

[@fatimaawalhe4677]

persistence pays. life lessons come from failure. we have go through certain situation to grow, and discover our untapped potential. great content love your video. 🙂💯

[@tariqzohair4624]

You are conveying things with extreme clarity. Impressive. Also, contents are well arranged.

[@arunp5987]

I learnt after 50 years of age that no matter what any relationship is, it is basically just a type of transaction between two persons. It can be physical, emotional or social but it is just a transaction between two persons. This was an eye opener for me and I am now living in totally different world and my expectations towards myself and my near or dear ones are totally different. Second thing I learnt was everything I do (Even when I get married or have kids) I do it for myself and to make me happy or make me feel better. My wife or my kids or my house.... everything is to make me feel better.

[@kedarpuranik2350]

What a powerful video this is, full of knowledge and facts . Beautifully compressed in 9 mins. Great 👍

[@AmratlalPatel-hf3kb]

Best teacher, who teaches us,how to live, how come back to our peaceful life, from any kind of depression, tension. Best Guru so call in Indian philosophy.

[@indikajayasekara9780]

Really worthy points for us to avoid fear in communications.

[@pradeepchethan3167]

Thoughts are not facts, yet we treat them as though they are!!!!! Impact full

[@jinsvj2387]

All of your videos are highly relatable to my conditions. They really help to understand the issue clearly and solve it. Thank you!

[@sumanthparakala2005]

Inspiring We suffer a lot more in our thoughts than we do for real..

[@bharathic4977]

Found the channel via Instagram, really motivating.. please keep us motivated. I use to hold back from things, this open up my mind, will implement this. Thanks for the video.

[@ShadeZahrai]

You're welcome! Thank you for making time to watch and so glad that this content is empowering you. 😊

[@sadhariyavishal]

@@ShadeZahrai Hi! I am learning a lot from your videos, please do make this kind of contents.

[@DeenHidayah]

if we think about it we learned a lot from failure

[@shafrazbop1]

Trust me you are the best.. I love the way you present things. It really helped me. Thank you and God bless

[@Betterworldforyou.]

You bring positivity to many people’s life . Failure or success depends on how you think if we always think we move forward whether we get whatever we needed sometimes what we thought at that time wasn’t not the best for you .. thank you shade you make my many days better..

[@AwesomeIam]

You are so charismatic and your voice has quite an affect. 🥳

[@shreedharkulkarni2346]

One of the Bestest channel..She is really helping me a lot.. Thank you so much for all of your work...❤️

[@olisehanineh]

Thank you Shadé. Fear is something I have suffered as a forex trader. I will put this tips to use, expose myself to risk so i can get more comfortable. Thanks again

[@rzem]

Just discovered your channel .thank you so much for this great video .with love . New follower from Morocco

[@mrsvoice7292]

Im so happy that i found you❤

[@YouToo510]

I have all these problems, fear of failure, perfectionist mind and a procrastinator. Since i have failed so many times and usually it back fires when i have shared my plans with friends and then they start to criticize. So i made 2 changes, first of all i never share my plans until i achieve it. And second, if i do share it, i tell them that i am trying something new to fail in. This way they will have an answer and i also get passed the fear of failure.

[@ShadeZahrai]

This is great! I’m so happy you were able to find a strategy that works for you - and I especially love how you’re embracing the possibility of failing and seeing it as a growth opportunity - more power to you! 💪

[@YouToo510]

@@ShadeZahrai thank you for all the great and helpful content you always provide 😊

[@tanvirkhan6687]

It is amazing to see your videos and informations are backed by research findings instead of just " so called facts"

[@thechisensei]

thanks! i am really in deep trouble because of this fear. i understand everything that you said but i find it really hard. but still, thanks! ill hold on to your advices as long as i can. a little difference will do enough.

[@vinceknowseverything]

I gave a talk about this topic a few years ago and most of the people in the audience did admit that they had a Fear of Failure. But after giving them solutions to overcome that fear, they were able to turn their lives around and for the better. Sometimes people just need to listen and actually apply what they have learned from people who are trying to help them. And I hope that more people will take your advice because it can totally transform the way they live. Amazing Video Shadé! PS. Outstanding Editing👍🏻

[@pitambaragarwal]

Very well researched inspiring content delivered with finesse. Good Work Ms. Shade. Mindfulness is the key to make the shift.

[@vaidyanathanrs6109]

So Many had Failures Rejections Dejections but came up So Successful. From Rajnikant called Thalaivar was driven out of home. Now A Millennium Super Duper Star known All over the World. Those who listen to you can come up Turning the Tables. ❤

[@luxushauseragency]

Nice and simple explanations. 10 points.

[@aysun1427]

Thank you so much for this wonderful video, it was all I needed not to feel disenchanted with my own performance which led to a failure I didn't want to face.😢

[@robertohernandez5596]

thanks you so much for this powerful video,receive my regreet from mexico, hasta luego baby !!!!!

[@Rahul-ug9xq]

Thanks a lot Shade...loved the video 🤘🏼

[@TheCaodangquang]

Failures is the mother of success!

[@as.if_0077]

You are going to be famous very soon!

I learning to be used to it. Since I’m looking for a job now, and went to hiring events, and interviews, and I don’t hear back. I feel bad that I am not able to get a job as fast as some people I know, but I got another one today, and I hope I get it.

[@Nialee-wp3oi]

Thank you. Time to jump. I agree, Stephany Meyers was rejected 21 times for Twilight and even encouraged to see a psychiatrist... I imagine their reactions when they saw the success of the books and the movies.... BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!

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You are one of a kind...çok guzel🧿

[@jeanjuniorjacques9772]

Hi Hrai. Thank's alot.This content is the true value of a Femme leadership of our time.!🎉❤

[@wRecHeDD]

This is so well explained!!!!! 🌟

[@ShadeZahrai]

Glad you think so!

[@jaydeepsinhdodiya3134]

Just like an enlightened woman! Thanks a lot ♥️🙏🏻

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Your accent is so clear that I am in literally in love with it. I had an Australian coach in my engineering training program... I could not believe that you are Australian... I thought you are Indian😄😄

[@tovidominic3154]

Great content. I needed it. Thank you

[@ganeshd.londhe2999]

I think people follow rules but legends follow principles. There is no such thing as FAILURE.

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The subs growing up so fast! 😉 She deserves that !

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Amazing source of information Liked ur videos..

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You are inspirational speaker. I really notice about your presentation and way you speak. Great. I want to be in such position where I can speak up clearly with confidence.

[@amartyakumarsingh3366]

Just discovered this channel, brilliant videos, really helpful, thnx a lot for such gr8 content ❤️🙏

[@ShadeZahrai]

Glad you like them! 🙏🏽😊

[@alex474590864]

Thanks Amartya for introducing me to her channel. Exquisite content, Shadé! 😊

[@felixserrao9384]

Your talks are well researched.. well organised and focused... so many benefit from your hard work... Thank you

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you so much Felix. My husband and I produce these videos together and it means so much when we receive positive feedback. We hope that you continue to get value from them. 😊

[@ammy457]

Hi Shade Zahrai mam you are furnishing really fabulous content to solve the problems of people

[@faisal-ca]

You bring good energy !! Thanks.

[@ShadeZahrai]

You are so welcome

[@zetajester]

Great video!! This couples in really nicely with a growth mindset!

[@Amy-mo9ki]

Thank you! Very helpful advice. I am going to take action!

[@bhargavmaheshwari3657]

Thanks for your all the video it's really helpful developed myself thanks 💝

[@ManishSharma-sk2zh]

Hi Shade, An interesting and informative video. I appreciate your efforts. Thank you,

[@Xavier-it8sq]

This is a really beautiful episode.

[@nasrullahmugheri3791]

Hi shade Now i seen your vedios i am impressed great way of explanation

[@nematsache97]

Much needed 👍🏻👍🏻 thank u !

[@shresthaditya2950]

Actual pain felt after failure will be less than the anticipated pain of failure. Failure imo hurts as you somehow see that you are not good enough and the world around you makes you feel that way

[@prunes794]

I just hope I can change the narrative playing in my mind..this was really informative..thanks

[@ShadeZahrai]

Little by little. Day by day. Just plan daily action that help you and be deliberately consistent. 💪🏼

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@@ShadeZahrai 💯👏👏

[@1jeremias]

Thanks for sharing !

[@g1kluang]

I wish i was as confident as you when speaking....

[@yoyopinks3264]

This sentence which you said is incorrect bcz this is conditional sentence so was replaced by were

[@anishani1118]

This video was really enlightening. I-am still a victim of this. This kind of fear is holding me back. Always rejections and cant even reach my goals. How can i overcome these fears and be a successful person

[@naveenmorapitiya577]

I think mindfulness is the key for this♥️

[@patravs2]

Am a psychiatrist and recommend ur channel to my patients

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you Ravi! We're glad that this content can be of service to your patients in some small way. 🙏🏽😊

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U deserve more subscribers.. u r awesome ❤

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you so much 😀

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@@ShadeZahrai 😊❤

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Insightful piece.

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Wow such a fab accent you have. I love to pronounce the way you do❤️

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I love your lecture too much.

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@Shadezahrai Thanks for sharing this amazing video related to overcome fear within ourselves... Much needed motivation on My Birthday... Thank You Very Much @Shadezahrai May God Bless You With Abundance of Happiness 🤲👍🙂

[@ShadeZahrai]

Oh it’s your birthday! 🎉 Happiest of birthdays to you! Faysal and I wish you a wonderful birthday week 🥳

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I am amazed with your psychological tricks in videos. Just "woooow"

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Thanks for all advice that you gave😊😊

[@FaheemRazaAnsari]

I can relate to this and thankfully overcome, great ideas and explanations, @shadé zahrai you are helping people a lot for which we should be thankful!😊

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As always, your topics are very useful

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Amazing As usual ♥️♥️

[@SridharVasireddy]

You nailed it. You the best!

[@stoogey1]

For me may 23, 1989 at 2:37pm gave me my worst taste of failure that still haunts me to this day. I was 9 yrs old trying to keep my mom from dying. I failed her, my family and myself. And my mind won't let me forget either. Every night in my dreams I watch her die. I've watched her die over 12,000 times.

[@ABHIGYANDIXIT]

Our intuition guides in one direction only, it's okay to be flamboyant I do, but I take my work first....

[@guiaflordemarlin1008]

Thanks Shade!!!

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New sub here, really you're the one I was looking for i am at start and want same guidence tysm for bringing this out.. ✨💫

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Hey your words are making me to stay positive... Thank you and continue the same❤

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thankyouuu so much for this 🥰

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You always inspiring me with your great ideas and refreshing thoughts👌👌👌👌👍👍 Keep going💪💪💪💪💪

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Your each video inspiring me and it's very useful in regular life suitvation.. and you look a like actress Gal Gadot..keep rocking

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🎉 U are my best instructor ever ; I admire ur tireless effort with patience, " continuous dripping of H2O undeniably can brake a rocky hard emotional behaviour, would u keep it up ? It's not only work; but , it's kind of u , indeed!❤

[@RazvanGeangu]

You’re so charismatic

[@ShadeZahrai]

Thank you! I hope you found value in the video 🙂

[@RazvanGeangu]

@@ShadeZahrai definitely, you spread the right message! I’ve always found failure and success just sides of the same coin!

[@techsocial7458]

That helped me motivate myself👍👍👍 Thnxs

[@barcataz]

Very beneficial. Thanks

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Your videos helps a lot

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Thanks for all your videos it's really useful to develop myself. Keep going madam

[@ShadeZahrai]

So nice of you.

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@@ShadeZahrai pleasure is all mine

[@rezarafiie]

Loved it, thank you

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thanks mam this side vansh oneof your biggest fan watching you since a long time i have become a more and more motivated now you charismatic look energies me the most ☺😊😇❤❤

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Wonderful and powerful

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You have such an amazing voice 😍

[@suryanarayanan5158]

Can you make a video on working with ADHD? And does CBT help get reduce of ADD completely?