Criminal Lawyer Breaks Down the Only Fans Model who Allegedly Killed her Boyfriend

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CLR Bruce Rivers

CLR Bruce Rivers

2 жыл бұрын

Criminal Lawyer Bruce Rivers Breaks Down the Only Fans Model who Allegedly Killed her Boyfriend
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@alexabuerger3249
@alexabuerger3249 2 жыл бұрын
Obumseli's parents werent notified of his death until his body was at the morgue. they called his parents and asked what to do with the body and they said what body?! i can't imagine that pain of finding out that way. somethings definitely weird here with this case..
@jaylaselldasunboi5676
@jaylaselldasunboi5676 Жыл бұрын
Agreed
@sallycinnamon5370
@sallycinnamon5370 Жыл бұрын
That is wild. The police should have notified next of kin…
@Annie_Annie__
@Annie_Annie__ Жыл бұрын
That’s horrific. How did they drop the ball that badly?
@kimmurray9346
@kimmurray9346 Жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking 💔 for that family. The responsible people should be ashamed and punished for that!
@moosehead4497
@moosehead4497 Жыл бұрын
LOCK HER UP
@azanianduchess9837
@azanianduchess9837 Жыл бұрын
The best part about finding this channel yesterday.... is the fact that I have dozens of content to catch up on :p Love the commentary!!!
@qs390
@qs390 2 жыл бұрын
“She has not been charged yet, I think the DAs office are trying to figure out what happened” ……if it was reversed HE WOULD BE IN JAIL UNTIL THE DA “figured out what happened”!
@ronnieitaquab1008
@ronnieitaquab1008 2 жыл бұрын
And a bond to high to afford if one is even granted
@jbalvinmomsbiggestfan
@jbalvinmomsbiggestfan 2 жыл бұрын
@@ronnieitaquab1008 exactly, this whole thing reeks of privilege.
@iharris3466
@iharris3466 2 жыл бұрын
Facts
@iharris3466
@iharris3466 2 жыл бұрын
He would of got shot on the scene
@dylanhdclips
@dylanhdclips 2 жыл бұрын
It’s not even white privilege it’s woman privilege tbh
@hazelhadley-britt6396
@hazelhadley-britt6396 2 жыл бұрын
My father taught me when growing up to never raise my hand to anyone, man or woman. If defending myself yes, but in no other circumstance. He always said to me if I did raise my hands, I must not be surprised if I get hot back.
@PapiBooBoo
@PapiBooBoo 2 жыл бұрын
Yes you are right. Anyone in a abusive relationship whereby you are made to feel small, don’t give it anymore excuses. You are worthy and you are loved. You are stronger than you think you are. You can do this. Start something, start to get out. You will survive and life will be better. You can do this. Start something .
@Dynasty19
@Dynasty19 2 жыл бұрын
All I know for damn sure is if you flip the exact same scenario around dude would be in jail likely charged as we speak regardless of the legal parameters and details Bruce is so objective about the facts great work on the other hand dude got himself into this if you select a chick who’s clearly mentally off
@CLRBruceRivers
@CLRBruceRivers 2 жыл бұрын
No doubt
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 жыл бұрын
The sad hard truth
@IMOO1896
@IMOO1896 2 жыл бұрын
At least Johnny Depp is still alive-for now.
@flyingfrog7847
@flyingfrog7847 2 жыл бұрын
Tell that to the O.J. Simpson
@Idontwannashutup
@Idontwannashutup 2 жыл бұрын
@@flyingfrog7847 thats oj he doesnt count
@g.o.mproductions1762
@g.o.mproductions1762 2 жыл бұрын
Now we all know if the shoe was on the other foot, he would have been arrested from day one.
@user-ro9md9wp3j
@user-ro9md9wp3j Жыл бұрын
🙄
@milwaukeebrewers6337
@milwaukeebrewers6337 2 жыл бұрын
Never thought I'd take a bit of wise relationship advice from Bruce lol... "if you both put each other needs first, your needs will get met"
@CarrieMK
@CarrieMK 2 жыл бұрын
To add to “Guys, there’s never a good reason to put your hands on a woman.” Ladies, there’s never a good reason to put your hands on a man. (Assuming that he’s not trying to hurt you.) Men don’t deserve abuse any more than women do.
@TG-ir1kk
@TG-ir1kk 2 жыл бұрын
E X A C T L Y
@lafeelabriel
@lafeelabriel 2 жыл бұрын
This, absolutely this.
@darthcrowley5561
@darthcrowley5561 2 жыл бұрын
Bingo. And if a woman starts to hit you are aloud to hit back.
@platedlizard
@platedlizard 2 жыл бұрын
@@darthcrowley5561 terrible advice, whether or not she starts it if a man hits a woman he’s going to be the one arrested.
@thegrimreaper270
@thegrimreaper270 2 жыл бұрын
@@platedlizard try and record the bitch
@mammabear6875
@mammabear6875 2 жыл бұрын
I've been a Federal Correctional Officer for over 20 years and I absolutely love your channel and perspective!
@sharonwilson8208
@sharonwilson8208 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your words of wisdom about marriage and relationships. You are so right. I'm a survivor of many years of abuse. I disappeared for 10 years!
@coreythompsonTheOneandOnly
@coreythompsonTheOneandOnly 2 жыл бұрын
"What if she's got a bazooka and she shoots me with it" "well, you picked her" Bruce you are awesome and your son does great camera work. He shows a good humanistic quality when he laughs at your bazooka joke. People could learn a thing or two about a thing or two from watching 👀 you and how you do with your people
@a-listercrowley2737
@a-listercrowley2737 2 жыл бұрын
Bazookas are illegal 🚫 bro, duuuuuuh Get with the times u panzer Shrek
@dickdaring365
@dickdaring365 2 жыл бұрын
I thought that “you picked her” comment was strange. Do we say this to women who enter/stay in domestically abusive relationships?
@jeraldsikes6186
@jeraldsikes6186 2 жыл бұрын
@@dickdaring365 get over it bro
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 жыл бұрын
🤣
@coreythompsonTheOneandOnly
@coreythompsonTheOneandOnly 2 жыл бұрын
Bob Lazar you are awesome👌 and your comment made my evening 😁
@CursedSwede
@CursedSwede 2 жыл бұрын
"Think before you act". Simple words, yet they can save you from a lot of trouble in most conflict situations throughout your life!
@larrymcjones
@larrymcjones 2 жыл бұрын
Bruce, huge fan of the channel. Always love getting the perspective of a professional experienced lawyer on these issues. Want to congratulate you on being about to hit half a million subscribers. Much deserved!
@startervisions
@startervisions 2 жыл бұрын
DJ Paul and Lord Infamous
@larrymcjones
@larrymcjones 2 жыл бұрын
@@startervisions Two of the best to ever do it
@startervisions
@startervisions 2 жыл бұрын
@@larrymcjones ever!
@sintheticsounds1686
@sintheticsounds1686 2 жыл бұрын
Rowdy bounty hunter from the deep down under
@Trill_Mxde
@Trill_Mxde 2 жыл бұрын
Glad to see that you’re about to hit 500k subs man. Been loving all of the info that you’ve provided us with as it is so helpful and very entertaining. You deserve every bit of success that comes your way. 💯🙌🏽
@johncrook1776
@johncrook1776 2 жыл бұрын
500k now
@GreyGooseNWO
@GreyGooseNWO 2 жыл бұрын
I subscribed and made him 500k
@ShebrewQueen
@ShebrewQueen 2 жыл бұрын
He’s hit it! Woot!
@sebhollywood4777
@sebhollywood4777 2 жыл бұрын
This aged well
@goodluckchuck5316
@goodluckchuck5316 Жыл бұрын
800k +
@LucyDanube
@LucyDanube 2 жыл бұрын
Emotional cuts are as painful as physical cuts....and scar too. Love your analysis and advice. Better to be kind. And, if you can't in the moment, get away and get yourself together.
@tlavz3100
@tlavz3100 2 жыл бұрын
As always great to hear from you Bruce thank you for your time!
@maxhi88
@maxhi88 2 жыл бұрын
You should make an entire video on relationships from your criminal lawyers perceptive. Your advice is reasonable, to the point, and would resonate with a lot of people I think.
@user-bw7oe7gf9p
@user-bw7oe7gf9p 2 жыл бұрын
Hey Michael and Bruce, appreciate the content you guys put out. You make a great team!
@kbuckwild3234
@kbuckwild3234 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 500k Bruce and Michael! Been here since "who I smoke" great content and can't wait to see what the future brings with this channel!
@DrinkingArt
@DrinkingArt Жыл бұрын
The location of the stab wound would also provide evidence. Also, thank you for explaining the irregularity of her not being arrested, while still being fair in your assessment and providing information that could be used by either side. About bruises - We had a male cousin who had a disagreement with a neighbor (a man), they argued loudly across the fence, the next day neighbor accused our cousin of striking him in the face - the man actuaally hit himself with some kind of heavy item to have a bruise. So bruises arent always evidence.
@shadygirlxoxo
@shadygirlxoxo 2 ай бұрын
Remember Sheri Papini?
@pamelafrye4667
@pamelafrye4667 2 жыл бұрын
So glad I found your videos!!! Not only great legal break downs but done with great life advice as well!!! Love it!!!! Wish there were more in this world like you!!! Keep them coming!!!
@kristixmichelle
@kristixmichelle 2 жыл бұрын
Loving the amount of videos you been dropping!
@karencarleen8523
@karencarleen8523 2 жыл бұрын
“some weird guy is gonna say..” 😂 I love it. Calling people out already 😂 & it’s so true.
@Shroomskyoffical
@Shroomskyoffical 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advise Bruce! I enjoy listening to what you have to say.
@nonmihiseddeo4181
@nonmihiseddeo4181 Жыл бұрын
* Clenny had a history of stabbing and cutting Obumselli. That was pointed out early on. * If she stabbed him in self defense, why'd she lie about it? She said she threw the knife at him from about 10 feet away. The pathologist said, No, this is a stab wound, and the person doing the stabbing wielded the knife across their body, with a downward motion, such that the 3-inch blade went between his ribs and into his (heart)(lung), I can remember which right now. But he bled out. * She held him until EMS arrived, no attempt at first aid, stopping the bleeding, nothing. * She called her mom first, then 9-1-1. This is something I'm told guilty people do, calling a friend or family member before calling for help. * He asked her after an earlier time that she stabbed him and put him in the hospital, "Is love going to kill me?" * When Clenny was in the interrogation room, she was wearing very little clothes, a bra top, open kimono, harem pants. I didn't see any bruises. She's an Only Fans model. She probably still is. Her body is her money. She's not going to stay with a man who's gonna marr her livelihood.
@Quybz
@Quybz 2 жыл бұрын
Thank You for the content Bruce!
@BurdieFromHell
@BurdieFromHell 2 жыл бұрын
I'm obsessed with this channel. What a gem!
@jeffchesnut4659
@jeffchesnut4659 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on hitting 500k subscribers!! Great content and I always look forward to seeing your notification. Well worth following for the knowledge alone. Thank you
@D_Parks
@D_Parks Жыл бұрын
I never tire of your intro!
@funkyshade
@funkyshade 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats Bruce and son on 500k! Love this channel
@ctsv.donnnn
@ctsv.donnnn 2 жыл бұрын
Rappers In 5 years: We Grew Up Struggling. Our Mom Sold 🐱 Pics On OnlyToes For $1.99
@yeetus_cleetus7971
@yeetus_cleetus7971 2 жыл бұрын
🥶
@dfredankey
@dfredankey 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah that’s life that’s what happens some people sell crack or drugs which affects the whole community and some sell their body
@andie5031
@andie5031 2 жыл бұрын
@Recklezz literally no. How could you even think that? Selling photos and videos is not the worst way to support yourself at all
@nastynate2379
@nastynate2379 2 жыл бұрын
😂
@thinkinyblinko6666
@thinkinyblinko6666 2 жыл бұрын
@Recklezz I think selling meth and heroin is far worse than soft prostitution. Real prostitution isn't even bad either and should've been legal from day 1.
@Rachel.222
@Rachel.222 2 жыл бұрын
Great show, thanks!
@ShebrewQueen
@ShebrewQueen 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 500k!!! 🥳
@Bubbaluv8
@Bubbaluv8 Жыл бұрын
Great breakdown, excellent advice
@JeromeProductions
@JeromeProductions 2 жыл бұрын
Much respect for you looking at the deeper possibilities bro
@abeltesfaye_
@abeltesfaye_ 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 500k subs! 🙌🏽💜
@louistech112
@louistech112 2 жыл бұрын
Glad you’re doing this case
@BronzeBellaBria
@BronzeBellaBria Жыл бұрын
I love that you sit down and give us Dad/relationship advice,
@wusrllygoood
@wusrllygoood Жыл бұрын
Love this!!!!! So good♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
@bethgramkow5225
@bethgramkow5225 2 жыл бұрын
I am glad to hear you say these things.
@johnnyl321
@johnnyl321 2 жыл бұрын
Kudos and Congrats on hitting the half a million subscribers mark sir....I just found your channel a few days ago, and I'm a fan now bro.
@CjhEjdl
@CjhEjdl 2 жыл бұрын
Great channel. Smart content. Will be learning a lot.
@barbaramakarauskas8899
@barbaramakarauskas8899 Жыл бұрын
Great words Bruce. You are a true Gentleman. Thank you !!
@epeeps6214
@epeeps6214 Жыл бұрын
Great advice
@illegalskittles9386
@illegalskittles9386 2 жыл бұрын
Ayyyy congratulations on 500k
@Vindicta3127
@Vindicta3127 2 жыл бұрын
500k subs?! Congrats Bruce! And great video today, I was hoping you’d speak on this
@mikmcleanmusic
@mikmcleanmusic Жыл бұрын
I love your videos and the theme song SLAPS 😎
@Romeyspeakz
@Romeyspeakz 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats to 500K man🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾you been going crazy for a while
@MajorKeys714
@MajorKeys714 2 жыл бұрын
I've never done any of these criminal acts that Bruce covers, but that doesn't mean that one day I can't be in the wrong place/wrong time or wrongly suspected/accused. So what I've learned from Bruce is to NOT talk to cops in hopes of arguing my case. Just stay silent until you get a lawyer. Best chance of clearing your name. And even if you are burdened with a mediocre lawyer, as most of us will be, at least you have enough knowledge to instruct him or her.
@kristenstump8963
@kristenstump8963 2 жыл бұрын
Love this guy. Words of wisdom at the end. Need to hear.
@sean919191
@sean919191 2 жыл бұрын
There’s never a good reason to put your hands on anyone unless for self defense, man or woman.
@cinnamonpie8077
@cinnamonpie8077 Жыл бұрын
Your relationship advice was fantastic!And so true!
@bellezanegra0206
@bellezanegra0206 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 500k!!
@terryquick
@terryquick Жыл бұрын
I am so impressed by your kindness and insight into relationships. I think you are awesome!
@investigate711
@investigate711 2 жыл бұрын
good work on 500k!!
@djpainkiller3326
@djpainkiller3326 2 жыл бұрын
I like some of the stuff you said towards the end I give this video thumbs up👍🏻
@pamelagreen3252
@pamelagreen3252 2 жыл бұрын
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS MR. RIVERS. VERY IMFORMATIVE AND ENTERTAINING. THANK YOU.
@E.U.11
@E.U.11 2 жыл бұрын
Wise words!! Thank you, Bruce!!
@quantumdi4112
@quantumdi4112 2 жыл бұрын
Also his family was on dr. Phil and it was stated she tried stabbing her ex boyfriends in the past. And she Ian very aggressive. Almost similar to AH and JD mean girl privilege. This is very interesting.
@Tidepodsforbreakfast
@Tidepodsforbreakfast Жыл бұрын
What is AH and JD?
@GXDPLUTX32
@GXDPLUTX32 2 жыл бұрын
New vid let’s go LETS GO ‼️
@sperm8141
@sperm8141 2 жыл бұрын
Generally speaking the more attractive a woman is the more lenient they're treated.
@MonkeyDLuffyyy919
@MonkeyDLuffyyy919 2 жыл бұрын
Also she’s white so she’s gonna be treated like a Queen
@mellyray3017
@mellyray3017 2 жыл бұрын
@@MonkeyDLuffyyy919 jails and prisons are filled with white women. Either her family has connections and lots of money or yes the more attractive a woman is the more lenient they seem to be. Obviously race can always play a part but people are always quick to jump to that instead of looking at other things. Trust me she's not in jail right now because she's white. If she was an ugly ass broke white girl she'd probably be in jail. People need to realize money and who you know matters way more than race does. I think it's more of a sexism thing than race, if the tables were turned and it was a man even a white man who stabbed his girl he'd have been arrested day 1.
@GaParanormal
@GaParanormal 2 жыл бұрын
Lol 💯....
@kimbarleemoon3870
@kimbarleemoon3870 2 жыл бұрын
Not necessarily, I have had women actively try to bring me down because of jealousy... Or in terms of men, if I don't give them what they want they have tried making my life difficult too. I am old now and most of that is nominal now but back when I was younger I experienced a lot of hate because of my looks. Real facts!
@tannershanksftw
@tannershanksftw 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on 500k!
@rudeawakening5816
@rudeawakening5816 2 жыл бұрын
💥New subscriber here💥 Glad I found the channel ; ) I'm absolutely lovin this attorney! I'm lookin forward to goin back thru & watchin some older videos...
@giovannicamino5713
@giovannicamino5713 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, and thank you, sir! The best advice for men. God bless you and your family. Thank you again and again. 😊
@angietunstall2555
@angietunstall2555 Жыл бұрын
I presume you have updated yourself with this case, Bruce. I only found out about it last year through Court TV. The way they presented the case, it seemed that Obumselli was a murder waiting to happen. They aired the altercation Clenney and Obumselli had in the lift, where she kept hitting him. Now he must have had a wonderful sense of awareness under attack, or he really was as docile as he seemed to be, in that video, because he did not retaliate one bit. I believe he also did a Johnny Depp and recorded altercations with Clenney as evidence. Again, on tape he doesnt seem to do anything more than respond to her blistering tirades. I hope they measured the suze of her bruises as I have a sneaking feeling that they may turn out to be self-inflicted to aid her own purposes. You will know that it was Clenney that made all the money that helped them live in a hotel? and live the lifestyle that they did I think she's had the upper hand all along, and he has had to dance to her tune. She is seemingly a control freak, probably never letting him forget who is top dog, amd that he should put up with anything and be grateful for her allowing him to be with her. So there! And doubtless he was grateful. But so should she have been, given how she made her money. I have heard. About one step above walking the streets, as it is seen to be here across The Pond. I'd be interested to know if youve done an update to this video, Bruce, on this case. Thank you. .
@michaelwaninger3155
@michaelwaninger3155 Жыл бұрын
My old lady would hit me and bruise herself.
@mamapetillo8675
@mamapetillo8675 Жыл бұрын
New fan, here. I take my time before I sub to a channel. I’ve watched about ten videos. I am suitably impressed, good sir! And I’m grateful to have come across you. I look forward to watching more videos, as they come. Thank you 🤙
@thecookingshorts
@thecookingshorts 2 жыл бұрын
Love this guy haha keep up the great content
@55melange
@55melange 2 жыл бұрын
I have to say I LOVE the opening of your videos. Bruce Rivers is the criminal lawyer.🎶🎶
@AutoXela
@AutoXela 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 500k!
@roaddawgrobbaker6644
@roaddawgrobbaker6644 Жыл бұрын
We gonna hit a million subs n no time ....we got to have a special episode of some kind....love u Bruce an Michael...
@idocare6538
@idocare6538 Жыл бұрын
I like these older ones before the mumble rap intros. Good work and glad you are still hammering out videoes!
@lindazehnbauer5406
@lindazehnbauer5406 Жыл бұрын
I loved your advice about no reason for hands on, getting away and the more kindness the more everyone wins.
@asheburypress882
@asheburypress882 2 жыл бұрын
Man, as someone who’s in a great relationship, you speak real life and legal truth! How do you balance morality and professionalism? I’d have a hard time not being disgusted by a rotten client.
@clownworld5474
@clownworld5474 2 жыл бұрын
You don't have to defend people you don't want to
@catherinelane9243
@catherinelane9243 2 жыл бұрын
Could he have been lying in bed motionless after an altercation. And she wanted revenge.
@jamesferguson5780
@jamesferguson5780 2 жыл бұрын
Watching your channel makes me want to go to Law School! Just finished an Mdiv and MA in counseling. I should apply for a JD PhD program.
@themanfromdelmonte3589
@themanfromdelmonte3589 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations on the 500k subscribers Bruce 👏
@jackfitzsimons2569
@jackfitzsimons2569 2 жыл бұрын
Blicky Bruce congrats on the upcoming 500k. Btw are you gonna do a Q&A or anything special to celebrate. Big fan and you've kinda inspired me to consider making criminal law a career, although I kinda have some questions.
@Ruder6163
@Ruder6163 2 жыл бұрын
Don’t do it, most lawyers are unemployed and broke. After that a large percentage are over worked and underpaid. Bruce is the minority, the ones that made it and have successful practice.
@puketinmoarliek994
@puketinmoarliek994 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ruder6163 uhh source
@Ruder6163
@Ruder6163 2 жыл бұрын
@@puketinmoarliek994 look it up, just type in “unemployed lawyers” here on KZbin. There are plenty of lawyers who tell their story.
@puketinmoarliek994
@puketinmoarliek994 2 жыл бұрын
@@Ruder6163 "look it up" bruh dont insult my intelligence and my time you made that the fuck up lmfao
@D-AMJ-C
@D-AMJ-C Жыл бұрын
I was in an abusive marriage but didn't know it. I really, really thought that I was crazy, couldn't live without him, would lose the kids, & every bad thing that ever happened to me was my fault (i.e. I caused it to happen). It's easy to look back now & see all the wrongness being done to me, & to our kids. But not back then. It happened over time too. The first 2 yrs were perfect. The 3rd yr had a teeny tiny crack, but no big deal. The 4th yr that crack widened a wee bit more, but not enough to be concerned, & not enough to leave my OTP. By the time year 15 came around, well, I don't want to spell it all out here. "Getting out" required a 5 police escort & a long drive to my mom's with the kids, their safety objects, my meds, & nothing else, in the middle of the night. Yes, he *is* a walking/talking pile of rubbish. Yes, I "picked" him. But in my defense, no one else around me saw it coming either until none of us was allowed contact anymore without my ex monitoring it. If you knew what went down, you'd be shocked that I thought it was normal. I can't believe I lived it. If your videos were around back then, they actually would have been useless to me -- your messages of "take care of yourself". I NEVER would have been allowed to watch them. And if I did, & he found out... the hell to pay...
@jenkbade
@jenkbade Жыл бұрын
I was also in a relationship with a narcissistic abuser. Every single thing you described is EXACTLY what I went through, down to the 5 cops and a long drive to my mother's in the middle of the night. He got me away from my family under the guise of moving back to my home in Arizona, where I could reunite with all my people. However, we got there and and I never got to see one of them. He kept me in my apartment without internet, tv, my car, and when he went grocery shopping, he would only leave me with refried beans and salad. He was in charge of my meds, and I realized he had been double dosing me. He had me convinced I was crazy and had everyone in my family believing there was something wrong with me because I was falling all the time and had extreme memory loss. He was so "concerned" about me. He included them in his unending torture of gaslighting After suddenly losing my vision and being air flighted to a hospital, I went 2 days without him dosing me. Suddenly clear-headed, I realized he was in the process of "Dextering" me. He straight stared at me that night and said, "Do you think I could be a serial killer?" My blood ran cold. Then, as we were going to bed, he started telling me how he cleaned up my blood from a recent fall and "there was no way anyone would find dna." I called the police at 3am that morning because he slept with my car keys in his pocket. When he was taking his work things out of my car so I could escape, I was horrified to find that there was nothing related to his job in the trunk, but there was plenty of duct tape, zip ties, thick drop cloths, a hack saw, and he had purchased thick rubber floor mats (the kind you can take a hose to). It was a kill kit. The cops told me to run and not look back. He had nothing that was illegal. He hadn't done anything they could arrest him for. He gets to walk the streets while 3 years later I have developed agoraphobia, PTSD, and panic attacks that cause me to feel like I'm going to die and I end up running, even clawing my way on my hands and knees trying to find help.. Every month, to this day, I search for him on socials, arrest records, and obituaries. I have found nothing for the past year. He completely disappeared. I hope he's dead, and I pray he didn't take anyone else with him. How do you deal with the trauma from what you endured for so long?
@SacredDreamer
@SacredDreamer Жыл бұрын
This is an important message. Those of us in dangerous situations don't have social media, internet use... and may have our phone taken away from us .. ... It's like a kidnapping .. entrapment. You live by your wits alone. .
@cosmicmuffin322
@cosmicmuffin322 Жыл бұрын
​​​@@jenkbade How unspeakably horrific. I am so sorry this happened to you and especially for the panic attacks and agoraphobia, but I am so glad you are alive. 💜 Do you think he has murdered anyone? Or was it only you he was interested in killing? I just wonder if he had done it before.
@jenkbade
@jenkbade Жыл бұрын
@Cosmic Muffin I don't believe he had killed anyone before we were together. He was still pretty obviously throwing the idea around, making jokes about us going on a killing spree together. I didn't find that odd because he'd use it in the context of Natural Born Killers, so I'd laugh it off.. (but make sure he saw me give him the side eye just in case). It wasn't until toward the end when I saw that he was becoming obsessed with Ted Bundy. I don't know if he hurt anyone after I got away. I've wrestled with it, knowing it would happen and not be able to do shit about it. I know he hasn't been arrested for anything, no obituary, (not that anyone in his life would even care to write him one), no death records, and no social media. I should run his credit to see if there's been anything recent. I feel like if I knew he were dead, I can stop fantasizing about doing it to him myself. That's a darkness inside if me I have to get rid of.
@catherinepriebe6031
@catherinepriebe6031 2 жыл бұрын
Here I am In Tasmania. Well said Bruce. I'm a retired DV worker, involving....police, courts, lawyers. I'm so happy to hear your statements on male violence. Men listen to him he knows what he's talking about
@Madsiekins
@Madsiekins 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 500K subscribers (:
@beyonddeath9560
@beyonddeath9560 2 жыл бұрын
Congrats on 500k
@Ryan-gz9xg
@Ryan-gz9xg 2 жыл бұрын
You give very good advice
@lindapiet2275
@lindapiet2275 Жыл бұрын
CLR You are SO right about keeping your hands off!❤❤ Personal space… We’ve been married 42 years and I’ve known my husband since I was 15years old. Love of my life… his philosophy is “a happy wife is a happy life” and you’re right about reciprocations!
@susandavidson1691
@susandavidson1691 Жыл бұрын
Love 💕 you Bruce My mum and dad split up due to violence. I always hated my dad for it until as a teenager my mum slapped me and accused me of being “just like your father”…… he was remarried and I got to know him. He truly loved my stepmother, and oh me it was beautiful to see. On my said situation with my mother. Well. I balled my fist 🤛 and she saw it. She backed off and we never spoke of it afterwards. That was the day I realised how a woman can really push the wrong buttons…… and I’m her daughter???
@fistovuzi
@fistovuzi Жыл бұрын
instigate verb bring about or initiate (an action or event). "they instigated a reign of terror" Similar: set in motion put in motion get under way get going get off the ground get in operation start begin initiate launch institute lay the foundations of lay the first stone of sow the seeds of set up inaugurate found establish put in place organize get working get functioning activate trigger off set off spark off inspire foment kindle stir up whip up actuate generate cause bring about start/get/set the ball rolling kick off commence Opposite: halt incite someone to do something, especially something bad. "instigating men to refuse allegiance to the civil powers" Similar: incite encourage urge goad provoke spur on drive on
@nikkis7375
@nikkis7375 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you went through it too. Mine was my dad and after we got out of it he did it to every girlfriend he had after it. Would go to jail for a weekend here or there and be let out and did it again.
@briesthoughts2261
@briesthoughts2261 Жыл бұрын
Please seek therapy.
@JamesSmith-qe1mn
@JamesSmith-qe1mn 2 жыл бұрын
Solid advice
@freedfree7933
@freedfree7933 2 жыл бұрын
It's easy to say walk away.. until the abuser won't let you. It's something you can never understand until you have been in the situation. I always said the same thing till it was my turn. Gaslighting is a powerful weapon. It hurts longer then a punch.
@jenkbade
@jenkbade Жыл бұрын
I went through that, as well. I hope you're OK now.. ❤
@AliceNsWonderland
@AliceNsWonderland Жыл бұрын
I've always believed, if you put your hands on someone, expect them to put hands on you! Not saying it's right to harm anyone first but, as a woman I would never expect anyone to not hit me back if I hit them first. My ex-husband seemed to think it was a good idea for him to put hands on me whether I touched him or not (which I NEVER did because I never wanted to "invite" his violence). Even in the midst of him railing on me, I wouldn't fight back. Sure sucks when you call the police to report your cop husband and the cops that show up gaslight you, explain the stressors of his job and tell you it's up to you to make his life easier, not more difficult.
@NothinginMind503
@NothinginMind503 2 жыл бұрын
Respect to OG Bruce breaking down the facts
@josephnelson4376
@josephnelson4376 Жыл бұрын
he's not an OG my question to you is do you know what an OG is
@aimeechas
@aimeechas 2 жыл бұрын
I'm subscribing to you because of this video. Absolutely agree with what you're saying about putting hands on or calling names.
@markanderson3826
@markanderson3826 2 жыл бұрын
Definitely got new subscriber
@magicsinglez
@magicsinglez Жыл бұрын
Nice video.
@sgirl1234
@sgirl1234 2 жыл бұрын
500K subscribers. That was fast!
@GreenLadyDV
@GreenLadyDV 2 жыл бұрын
Well said… 💚💚💚✌🏼
@notsomuch273
@notsomuch273 Жыл бұрын
You are likable and funny. Love your videos.
@paytonmoore6559
@paytonmoore6559 2 жыл бұрын
Thought I was gonna be your 500k lol love the content 👌🏼
@tracymcdonald8440
@tracymcdonald8440 Жыл бұрын
You had me at bazooka! Lol!
@tropicalsnow
@tropicalsnow 2 жыл бұрын
Angry girlfriend with knife Time to run away
@callmejackson4018
@callmejackson4018 2 жыл бұрын
Naw she gettin capped bullets aren’t sexist
@tonyvelasquez6776
@tonyvelasquez6776 2 жыл бұрын
@@callmejackson4018 yes
@jbalvinmomsbiggestfan
@jbalvinmomsbiggestfan 2 жыл бұрын
@@callmejackson4018 the poor dude is dead. i hope youre not trying to say what you’d do in this situation because youre not in it. thats just insensitive to the victim.
@tropicalsnow
@tropicalsnow 2 жыл бұрын
you expect that to work out for you?@@callmejackson4018
@julieyoung3315
@julieyoung3315 Жыл бұрын
If I needed a Lawyer I'd hire Bruce Rivers!! Love your videos!
@InsufficientFundz84
@InsufficientFundz84 2 жыл бұрын
550K!!! Congratulations
@Pentazemin7
@Pentazemin7 2 жыл бұрын
Congratulations Bruce, you're not only funny and entertaining but spreading a truly helpful message, we love you.
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