What Is The Cognitive Attitude Of The Parent Function? | Cognitive Functions | CS Joseph

Today we will discuss what is the cognitive attitude of the parent function.
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[@Afronautsays]

My late teens: Ne-parent : It's time to do things differently or all of these terrible things could happen. Ti -hero : Nah, I'll figure it out. My early 20's Si-child : You're super cool Ti-hero, but maybe Ne-parent was right. Look at all the damage. Ti : You're right Voila, personal growth.

[@MBTIMemes]

oh fuck, this is really accurate

[@knockonce3450]

@@MBTIMemes my Ne parent has been bugging my Fi hero a lot lately, i gotta make some changes

[@georgexm2032]

Yes, the healthy mind of INTP. Just simplicity and brilliance!

[@Anonymous-bp8md]

Timestamps: 11:10 - Introverted Thinking (Ti) Parent 15:10 - Extroverted Thinking (Te) Parent 17:03 - Extroverted Feeling (Fe) Parent 18:16 - Introverted Feeling (Fi) Parent 19:39 - Extroverted Intuition (Ne) Parent 20:26 - Introverted Intuition (Ni) Parent 22:44 - Extroverted Sensing (Se) Parent 24:30 - Introverted Sensing (Si) Parent

[@frankk9105]

Thank you so much. You're such a lifesaver😇

[@stepjuan5515]

thank you

[@someoneelsewhere9519]

Thanks

[@timbeer8266]

5:26 there are tons of sources online for all kinds of psychology-related content. But most of it is copied from other people who have bad information. So when people start look mbti up they find lots of people talking about very basic information that is fundamentally flawed. And its reinforced by everyone else who got that bad info the same way. Thats why I got fed up with it a few years ago, but my interest in this topic recovered when I saw your videos.

[@DaBurntToaster]

Mbti is inherently flawed because Myers and Briggs tried to turn jungs typology into personalities. Jungs types aren’t personalities, they’re the cores of personalities, your core value structure and how you process information. Your type says if your going to throw something, your personality says whether or not you throw a brick, a rotten banana, or a water balloon

[@Darklord-uo3re]

@Serpentine Crone Well to be fair, much like most people. people barely scratch the surface with MBTI just like Astrology. I bet you didn't know but Astrology in accordance with it's deeper level understanding into your Birth Chart actually shows a person is made up of 22+ Zodiac Signs all each dictating a certain way a person acts in regards to different parts of their life and goes into detail with how they all intertwine with eachother. But no just like MBTI, people are like "I'm Scorpio, which means I go BRRRR"

[@knotlock]

I hope you have boundless success with this channel. Since I’ve started studying type psychology, I can see all the little parts of life that this science can improve nearly everywhere. I sincerely believe you can make this work for everyone.

[@CSJoseph]

I go out of my way good sir.

[@PunkFiddler]

Now i get it.. so my Ne protects my Si from having terrible experiences by seeing all the possibilities.

[@xIthilgore]

so you seat on your ass for your whole life. Thanks, Ne!

[@elisabethw9189]

So what we took as our "unique personalities" is just the extension of a set of cognitive functions.. From knowing this system you can tell more quirky details about me than most other people I know. You know my design precisely before we even met! Am I the only one to think this is hilarious? About time we get out of the cave now :) C.S you are a candy store of insights!!!

[@CSJoseph]

haha awesome, this comment is the dopest

[@kssgpv]

you just know the way they process their thoughts, but nothing about their values, system of beliefs, temperament,feelings,memories,habits.. basically you know nothing about this individual lol

[@elisabethw9189]

@@kssgpv One funny observation I have made these days, is that 80% of the ENFPs I know (about 15-20 individuals, many of them which dont know each other) are now in a rally against Covid vaccines and against all kinds of Corona restrictions. They believe in all kinds of conspiracy theories without fact checking. Also they believe they can think themselves free from the virus with the extraordinary spiritual abilities they claim to possess. I dont know one xxSJ with the same attitude.

[@user-lm4bv1gh7u]

@@kssgpv temperament yes feelings a good estimation memories no but memory capability yes habits a approximation

[@gianlucamatteo208]

It's crazy how much this stuff links to storytelling, writing characters and screenwriting structure. The four sides of the mind, the hero's journey. it's all just the interplay between the functions of the mind and reaching of one's own potential.

[@egomaniac7230]

Also I have noticed that Te parent forces people to be smart... Have lost many friends because of that...

[@CloudHopper789]

Lol Te parents are so funny. They act so serious when I can tell that they are actually really cute people. Don’t conceal your cuteness! - Enfp

[@joni-nv3el]

@@CloudHopper789 i mean you not wrong lol

[@LunarShark]

This explains why I didn't notice myself using my Ne yet; no longer have doubt about being an INTP.

[@caincaudell8979]

This is one of the greatest MBTI channels I've come across. You're the first expert that seems like you're connecting all the dots in a way that makes sense. I'm an ENFP, so I'll have to more rigorously study the relationship between my parent (Fi) and my child (Te). Thanks!

[@jasminemariedarling]

Why weren't you my teacher for every class I've ever taken? lmao *So* entertaining, so in depth and informative, loving your content, these videos are going to change my life. Thank you!

[@CSJoseph]

you are welcome

[@swampy2008]

15:08 Te Parent 22:42 Se Parent 24:31 Si Parent

[@carlymestep9001]

Always flunked penmanship myself (and I’m not even a leftie). How we write is how we write. I always liked the handwriting analysis part on crime shows. Also: loved when you said, “If you disrespect the parent function, IT WILL OWN YOU.” I have seen this in action with my loved ones.

[@geraldmarcano2514]

My dad is an intp and I'm an into, I typed him myself after carefully observing him for a few years. Observing when he expressed his Si child is endearing, it appeals to my Fi by telling me of the good times and experienced we had. I always thought he was very negative with many things, that's likely his Ne parent. He doesn't like my Ni vision or even my Te when I get all bossy on everyone to get things done. It's impressive how much one can improve family relationships with just a little bit of learning, patience, and great people like CS Joseph, you truly know how to explain things Thank you

[@malcolmmacinnis247]

Love the sass

[@ronaldmorillo1867]

I really need a friend with Ti parent to help my Ti child, because I get stuck just not believing people but not being interested in the content enough to research the information for myself unless I some how get obsessed about it.

[@catylee2703]

i've been interested in various personality theories for a long time, but after finding your channel this week, my learning is accelerating in a really exciting way. thanks for all your work!

[@rd-tb1uw]

These videos really show how functions are working together, supporting each other, and at times restricting each other.

[@qtdeshina]

Yeah, as an ENTJ I find that my "responsible" desires helps guide my inner child. In this way i can go for everything I want because i end up wanting mature things. It is pretty healthy, and helps me develop a better life experience and healthy overall daily living.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

23:35 very funny timing- I have Se parent and I had a come-to-Jesus discussion with my 7 year old about not being so cautious about something she really wanted to do. I am a laid back dad, but I was like “LOOK, either jump in the water or don’t. But I know you want to, so just do it. That voice in your head telling you not to is a jerk- and you’ll regret not doing it. Make a choice now, though, or I’m going to go do something else instead.” She listened and couldn’t stop diving for like an hour. She was so happy- just needed someone to give it to her straight. I love that Se parent in me for things like that.

[@mehdihassankhanloo5297]

It sounds miraculous that you answer my already risen questions in your recorded lectures! It's a proof that your prescience is pretty well developed as a result of an aspiration through your introverted sensing. So that's it; I need Adversity… 🖤

[@sarahamin10]

My parent function (Ti) is actually my hero in a sense, it saves my child function (Fe) from getting disrespected or abused. I am all about respect and fair conduct now, and not being afraid of calling people on their own shit. And it pays off. GREAT lecture. 💖💖💖

[@PsiCorps85]

It is cool to hear how each function behaves at different places within the function stack. Good work you're doing.

[@CSJoseph]

much appreciated

[@shelbynicholson4811]

So we grow the Parent by invoking the services of the Child to overcome Adversity? That's interesting logic. That answers my question how developing the Parent is the path to growth. The key word there is how...

[@CSJoseph]

Gaining knowledge and wisdom.

[@mehdihassankhanloo5297]

@@CSJoseph Through adversity, right?

[@jenstone4708]

So PROUD of you all and your contributions to all of us. 🦋 I listen over and over... you have taught me so much.

[@ippollite]

Tales from the INTP (part 3): I recently pissed off someone i believe to be an INFJ. Drunk INTP = unformulated, impulsive, arrogant jerk INTP i suppose (arguing for the sake of it, making ludicrous daisy chains of reason in the moment). She was furious that i disrespected the other party in our group by not listening to his story, being argumentative and thinking i was critiquing his point whilst actually just repeating what he said. She called me on it. Strike 1. Then, because i was being a child, i came back at her for being judgemental and manipulative. Strike 2. Then when we patched things up, i threw in a sarcastic call back to her accusation that i was manipulative and insincere. Strike 3. Door slam. FE parent is a beast. I'm now dead to her. She told me as much. :)

[@CSJoseph]

I can't wait for part 4

[@ippollite]

I'll add a few more: Don't be arrogant. Don't think they're playing mind games and take it as a fun challenge to mirror what you think they're doing by playing back. Take them seriously. Don't tell them they're being just as manipulative as you for calling you out randomly when they've come to the "truth" of your manipulative nature. And don't above all, be drunk near them as an intp (ENTJ shadow, and when drunk probably a really immature ENTJ). What seems judgy, manipulative, aggressive, and apparently from out of nowhere, probably has a locus. Chat back, get slapped. Chat back twice when they've literally just given you the benefit of the doubt, get slammed. I'll be honest. As an INTP, i don't get challenged much about being an asshole. I really admire that she went there.

[@livingdiystyle]

ISFP here. Would love a video about how you view DaveSuperPowers explanations of the cognitive functions. For example, he says Se is fact gathering and Si is organizing facts. He never talks about Se experience or short term memory, however I have found that when I combine his understanding of the functions with yours, it gives me a fuller picture and better understanding of how they work. You both seem to fill in the gaps in different ways. Anyway, would love a video about that!

[@CSJoseph]

Yeah i disagree with those definitions of the S functions. Si is more like storing information for long term use and Se is just keeping information for short term use.

[@sofia8574]

Cheri Paxton long term memory needs an organized hard drive; short time memory RAM memory only works on constant stimulation, aka gathering

[@GlobalResonanceDance]

Could you please elaborate on how each parent function is respected/ disrespected? You touched on a few but not all. Many thanks.

[@EyeHeartSUSHI]

having se parent is interesting.. i love making people as comfortable as possible. i dont expect thank yous for it.. when said people start complaining that they "have it hard".. i start doing less for them because i realize the only way to toughen them up is to do this, then they realize what hard actually is (and how easy they actually had it before). it always works.. they actually learn how to do more.. and it builds their strength and endurance. i love doing this.. others might find it cruel, eventually they realize the method to my madness.

[@emmac3143]

Can you talk about an example of hero-child looping vs mature parent function in the next child function vid? The lighting looked majestic today

[@CSJoseph]

sure I will do my best

[@plusultra6094]

I found this video to be all of those amazing adjectives 👍

[@jerusalem4492]

Learned so much through this lecture!

[@2sunalibar]

Imagine that an INTP person gives birth to an ENTP kid, the INTP responsibility in metaphysics and expecting the fate would be less because his kid has it as a hero Ne function. Then it would be easy for the former to raise the latter.

[@danielhochegger]

Thank you Chase for this important playlist! Could you please make a playlist where you explain how to develop Ne as hero, Ne as parent, Ne as child and so on? With one video for each function? So like this playlist, but instead of having one video for hero, one for parent etc., having one video for Ne, one for Ni and so on. It would be greatly appreciated! Thank you for all the great content and for being so harsh to us INFPs! Greetings from Austria

[@pragnyan7770]

I think I love this season out of all the most

[@treasurem2491]

This was just absolutely incredible.

[@kylehoorn5192]

I always learn so much from your teachings. Thank you for doing this

[@era1442]

19:38 Ne Parent

[@Leneah99]

Thank you for time stamp:) saved some time.

[@Musing_Mike]

Very insightful.Helps me in understanding a clash had with a person through my Fi hero and their Fe parent and the 'adversity' which may help my Ne grow, hopefully!! Great video, thank you.

[@laureltaliancich9290]

As a child, I was direct and take charge. I used my Se for art, dancing, and I did some writing. I also cleaned a lot. I haven't done much art as an adult, besides dancing but I hide if someone might see me. Something you said about estp and istp fits with me too. "You're not allowed to have an opinion on this, if you have no experience in it."

[@redroverly]

Interesting! Ne parent on the other hand would be like "You're not allowed to have an opinion on this, if you're uninformed in it."

[@pixellabcreative8205]

"I am biased and I don't make apologies or excuses for it. That's just who I am, sorry" hahaha

[@alisonjannette3084]

also, you should do workplace relationships and how types end up working together on a team

[@CSJoseph]

its coming!

[@ilovesamyo]

Top 10. Totally agree on the camera quality holy moly

[@someonerandom713]

12:03 Yeah, that's me, except for "I trust what you're saying" 😅👌 No spoilers, but Alex Jones' hero and parent functions are getting pretty obvious now... My mother, who's an Fe parent, will always become really quiet and careful when she's talking about something negative concerning others' emotional states. Like, it is her duty to make for a socially proper way of adressing a problematic matter. Looking forward to the episode on the inferior and trickster functions! =)

[@maladjustedmaverick6619]

"Don't be that guy" lol. I also had to smile when you described getting a minus in handwriting in fifth grade. I was a straight A student until 3rd grade when I got a B in handwriting, but I shrugged it off because I thought handwriting was a useless subject. I also have poor handwriting, which might be why I have no problem with yours...

[@user-rw5dc6pc4c]

،I hope all teacher like you i havenot evver feel boring when listening to your lectures greeaaaaaattt ✨🥀🥀

[@sofia8574]

Very well explained. Thanks!

[@shelbynicholson6749]

I didnt appreciate how Fe Parent gives me my sense of duty, as an INFJ. "I will help Joe sweep the snow off the car this morning; it is my duty to do so; God forbid I should not help, because that woul be socially irresponsible" Another example: "No I will not joke with that moralistic Ti user to not bump his head on the way out because it is not polite to do so, even though I would dearly love to say it, but no, I will not do it because social responsibility is tantamount." Even though I am a rebel, social values, doing the right thing...being a help, thinking of others, that is what drives Fe Parent, not overcoming social anxiety, which would be forcing myself to be more than I can be, something that has been tripping my understanding up about Fe Parent. I was told I grow by developing Fe Parent "auxiliary Fe.' Not exactly true, as I gave my all to Fe Parent at the expense of myself as a child.... The well being of the group took precedent over the well being of myself, not good, unless of course developing Fe means learning to say no to it, and then I would agree. So I quote: "Adversity develops the parent function; adversity matures the parent function. Your response to adversity grows your parent function. Your parent function protects the inner child."

[@boxy_tocs2035]

Parent function: 25:55-26:33 26:47-27:45-

[@Heroqualle9]

This season and the social engeneering season are my favorites right now. Did you already do a video on explaining why the subconcious is also called the anima/why the unconcious is also called the shadow in detail? I got an interesting experience regarding archetypes and personality sides and would like to learn more about it. Book recommendations are also welcome. Thanks!

[@CSJoseph]

thats season 17

[@Heroqualle9]

@@CSJoseph nice, i mean uhm dope

[@skyyadav4877]

Hey C.S Can we get a season on topic "purpose of every personality type in life" ?

[@CSJoseph]

this season already exists, it is season 19 here: csjoseph.life/patreon

[@skyyadav4877]

Oh ! Thank you. You do Amazing Job.

[@theofreeman4300]

The inherent pride leading to inaccuracy in Ti heros... yeah, I'd say you're right, that can happen, especially when you are a little lazy... -INTP

[@austinwilliams8174]

This actually explains a lot. You did alright on this one.

[@malcolmmacinnis247]

Te parent is super dope. It's like implementing your plan. It also filters out the nonsense. Basically it's like a filter. GET TO THE POINT. Other times though you drone on negative thoughts and it makes you very pessimistic. It's very blunt but effective. It partially defines my outer demeanor. My train is an hour and 15 minutes late.... goodnight. :) intj

[@Xenomorph788]

Auxiliary LOL! Agree 100% I took the day off today to watch this 😎

[@bradbrown9843]

Hi Chase! 😄 I just watched your full advertisement. Did you do the INFJ/INTP ‘Golden pair’ video so you can get more views and followers yet? I am in a relationship now with my INFJ girlfriend and we are exactly like the most famous INFJ/INTP ‘Golden pair’ in the hit finale season of The Big Bang Theory on CBS! Everybody loves Amy Farrah Fowler and Sheldon Lee Cooper so much. So please do this video soon so your channel can finally become more popular than Eric Thor’s channel. You will steal all of his INFJ fans and introduce them to your more educationally effective content. Thank you mate, and let me know when you make the video please. I hope you have a wonderful day! PS: The camera quality was astounding 😍😍😍

[@MrBrad1234567890]

Wow man! What a great idea!! This is exactly what I was hoping Chase would cover next to complete his popular comparison series... *WAY TO GO CHASE* 👊*respect* 👊

[@scartdarcy]

I'm not sure if I deserve video quality great like this

[@mehdihassankhanloo5297]

You do do!

[@tempest-tom9180]

Wow, so that's why i fight with my little brother all the time. My parent is his demon function and vice versa. Very interesting.

[@CSJoseph]

YES

[@franxx8]

Your hair is perfect

[@CSJoseph]

hah, thanks!

[@franxx8]

Dude, i have to ask you, what do you think of NLP? (Neuro linguistic programming) is kinda playing dirty, but I'm almost positive that works. Are there any types more suited for NLP?

[@dtrupl]

Rewatch timestamp Fe parent 17:00

[@abbynormal7525]

Totally love your beginning kinda recap kinda FYI kinda hey I will make it when I want because reasons. Let’s dive in . Parent function is mysterious.

[@Dooki6604]

Thanks for making these nice videos：) You're dope💕

[@BookofYAH777]

12:22 "Ti Hero always verifies as well but Ti Parent verifies more" how is it even possible to verify more than always?

[@smile6889]

Awesome stuff 👍 thank you

[@mythrilspartan7028]

I just now realized that all the introvert types have introverted functions as their primary attitudes, hero and child, and extraverted functions in their auxiliary attitudes, parent and inferior, and vice versa for extraverted types.

[@sofia8574]

Omg I finally get it! So type jumpers “don’t exist” as healthy because they’d be jumping to their child function! But still, what if there were a healthy NeFe type with Ti child? Would it be that some kind of yin-yang balance of introversion and extraversion would be limiting this to be true? Chase, please share your thoughts on this one!

[@jmcfixitjr]

I'd say the parent function also fits the creative function pretty well, which indicates some 5th houseness.

[@malcolmmacinnis247]

I'm very engaged but I have to take my train now. Goodday

[@duckbacon3117]

Ne Parent is such a cool function, man.

[@malcolmmacinnis247]

Ti parent is now a large black woman going *MHHMM* *Snaps. Thanks lmao

[@LilacSnowBun]

Love this video, thank you!

[@akaboo69]

I love karaokee and have tried to get people to.do it im like it's fun it's not so bad everyone sings bad so have fun

[@jmcfixitjr]

Oh shit, this gave me so many ideas, thank you!

[@outrageousmermaid9073]

Another great video thank you so much!!!

[@2sunalibar]

What I really hate about Ne parent is that how would I share and express my intuition?

[@taytay606]

Do you think it is impossible to type yourself because you can’t really see who you really are

[@erinjk123]

I've been kind of stuck in this mode lately. I've had quite a bit of progress and growth. Someone at work may be an ENFP or ESFP. Very high amount of Fi. I just started working there so I haven't interacted too much with people yet. It was interesting having him say whatever you need don't be afraid to ask, and kind of taking care of me.

[@McMoldys]

As someone with Fe parent, one of my life goals is to become patriarch of my family

[@xandirkuro4790]

3:10 Wut!?!?!??!?!?!?!?! A schedule wow, so praise

[@shaneaverystarr]

So the ESTP announces that it slew the dragon, while the ISTP doesn't 😁

[@CloudHopper789]

How do I get my INTJ to be more responsible and use her Te parent? She’s been stuck in the Ni-Fi loop for as long as I’ve known her, and I’m afraid she’ll never come out of it. We’ve both graduated and become adults, but she isn’t doing anything with her life and I’m scared for her bc I know she has so much potential and it would be so sad if she wasted it. I’ve already done everything I need to do to get where I need to go in life, and I try to tell her about it to inspire her, like “ you can do this too! You can do even more!” But she just responds by calling herself incompetent and complaining about how everyone’s life is working out except hers. She is very depressed. I feel like she needs someone to criticize her and set her straight but, I’m an ENFP and I have no idea how to criticize people. Every time I do, it turns into some kind of motivational speech 😅. So, does anyone know what I should do? Is there anything I even CAN do to help her?

[@CloudHopper789]

I interpret your silence as a suggestion to watch one of your videos on Intjs, so I will 👌😆

[@101yashu]

Maybe she is an infp

[@CloudHopper789]

@@101yashu Oh, shit. Please explain your viewpoint. I'll give you more perspective: She is not very talkative at all, around other people she seems very serious and silent and cold but confident. She took the test and got intj and said it made sense. HOWEVER, I have been confused about the amount of Fi that she's been showing me. I would have never expected it.

[@CloudHopper789]

@@101yashu Sometimes she seems very dismissive towards me but she doesn't mean to, and sometimes when she's scared of how close we've gotten, she tries to distance herself by acting excessively cold.

[@101yashu]

@@CloudHopper789 now look if she is an Se or an Si user,does she talk about her own experiences or more about whats others do? Like eg i developed an interest in bikes when i rode them is what an Si user will tell where as an Se user be like i developed an interest in bikes when i saw someone like an actor doing it or by movies etc

[@arkman2237]

I mean I think is a bit too late to ask but, as an infp what's the best way to develop my parent function NE?

[@CSJoseph]

self discipline nad thinking about what others want first.

[@zahraameygouni481]

amazing thank u

[@edwinortiz7114]

Oh my goodness the neck roll in this. 'nough said LOL

[@depzey6622]

Just wandering, could Si be viewed as personal experience? For example, me being an INTP with Si child, I sort of view it as me being very childish with the experiences I want to have, as well as being too quick and immature to want to be loyal to others and have duty and the stuff you talked about for Si child. I also think that Ne Parent causes me to look at other people with suspicion on their intentions, and my Ne Parent is responsible by protecting my Si child from getting experiences that I want because of the possible bad intentions of other people that might hurt me.

[@aniokay]

I also think that Ne for me has allowed me to explore and have experiences. Before that, I had a tendency to be a know-it-all-person (towards others)

[@mamikojuju1213]

Trauma in childhood and early teens severely drowns the parent function. I wonder what happens if it becomes the least developed finally.

[@jmcfixitjr]

I just figured out another way to distinguish Te from Ti natal chart-wise, Te is inherently more 9th houseish and Ti is inherently more 11th/12th houseish, even though I covered that to a degree with naming Capricorn Rising "The Motivational Guard" where Pisces Rising is more fitting of Ti as the "Emotion Strategist", even though it's mostly Aquarian in nature, but Pisces Risings are the real Aquarius'.

[@zenithgreyhatENTJ]

I seriously am going for an xNTP for my next relationship, I’ve had my share with xSFJ’s. But who knows. Especially with an ENTP woman who will create built in humility

[@christopherpoblete8562]

Chase, do you believe in Hero-Child loops?

[@CSJoseph]

yes

[@alisonjannette3084]

is it the most difficult to type someone when you are the same type as the person your communicating with? when is it the easiest to realize?

[@CSJoseph]

yes it is the most difficult. When you cant figure it out.

[@neurophilosophers994]

As an INTP my dad is an INTJ but i feel like he’s still not able to help me be less immature. Why might that be? I feel like I’d benefit from an ENTJ relationship where I can use my Ne but ENTJ’s seem to be so much that they overwhelm and I don’t find it worth it usually

[@CSJoseph]

highest compatibility parents can lead to enabling

[@tajmarie1329]

This makes sense. For INTJs, they call this phenomenon the Ni-Fi loop (I think a portion of INTJs confused themselves for INFJs because of it). Also, it could be nice if these videos could be released a little earlier 😎. I'm on the east coast and am about to stress my Te parent and Ti critic function tomorrow by figuring out numerical advection problem on behalf of a student I am supposed to be tutoring this week.

[@CSJoseph]

i have a day job that is salary pay, which is why it is so hard to schedule.

[@tajmarie1329]

I know. I'm just joking.

[@Clover501]

Video starts at 4:50

[@sylvial1985]

No ENTJ would move like this @0:05

[@dolfdervish8495]

Nor, 5:22...etc..etc. Etc.

[@dolfdervish8495]

@@prayer0308 My theory: He's an exceptional ENTP searching to (re)gain homeostasis. He often gets triggered & demonstrates rigid Subconscious Traditionalist (ISFJ) behaviors. If one has a very superficial level of PT knowledge, it can be easy to allow the latter to render one typing him as other than the former. Which, evidently, occurs quite often.

[@gregsander8439]

Honestly think he might be INTP. The ENTJ is probably just the shadow that people see.

[@era1442]

@@gregsander8439 From INTPs that I know, he doesn't seem like one all that much.

[@hannah_marie97]

Oh gosh, Se parent- I force people to jump in because I know life experiences are important, but maybe thats a bad thing?

[@JambAndSee]

🥲🥲🥲 @22:00 minutes: adversity breeds maturity. I always wondered why foster kids seemed to be so mature for their age. I knew logically why they had to mature, but I don't realise the cognitive function link. The foster kids had to mature their parent function to stop their child function from being used or be taken advantage of 🥲🥲🥲 that's heart breaking ☹️

[@therealyeti1482]

How would someone with Ne parent develop their function to help grow their Si child?

[@CSJoseph]

by becoming responsible.

[@pkk1652]

I'm listening to everything, but there is a lack of info on some of the parents that you talked about. For example Fi. Question - Where can i get better understanding of other cognitive attitudes ? - Te hero here ( Who wants a lot of information )

[@CSJoseph]

only here or John Beebe

[@nilooahadi1516]

I'm leaving a comment 💁❤️

[@dallyh.2960]

Maybe naming it "parent" is helping some of the disinformation to spread. What if it was called the "adult" function since it's developed and used mostly in adulthood?

[@CSJoseph]

its not though, it is developed when it is developed. But your point is still fair