How to Social Engineer ISFJs | Social Engineering | CS Joseph

[@margekeler3112]

I'm pretty sure my mom is an ISFJ, and my Boss is an ISFJ. Both drive me crazy for different reasons. My mom is a very unhealthy isfj who in my opinion gets along best with my ESFP brother. Both my boss and Mom are very bad at being forthcoming with information. Both are stuck in "the way its always been done" mentality, and in my perspective are completely blind to whats actually going on around them. As an INFP these ISFJ's in my life have brought me a lot of grief honestly lol.

[@101yashu]

Hey what are the stark differences bw infps and isfjs as I am confused bw these two types help me out pls

[@Lycosa]

Sorry to hear that. Try to understand & not be hateful/toxic towards them. Unhealthy individuals of any type really suck.

[@Kuultyc]

I' have a hunch that intuiitve types don't get along well with ISFJs...INFP is most likely in there too probably because intuition function higher than thinking. I love INFPs you guys are great.

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

@@Kuultyc We don't. I could make everyone in my class laugh...except those with inferior N; who just look at me like they're offended. My mum's ISFJ. I can't stand her. I also know a couple who are the self-appointed cops of my old dojo. Can't f**ng stand them either. They're insufferably self-righteous, backwards looking and judgemental. Anyone who's N last, I learnt decades ago; to avoid like the plague. INFPs and INTPs are my very favourite types btw, the opposite of ISFJ; open-minded, tolerant, warm and curious. INTJ

[@irisout7463]

My father is also an unhealthy ISFJ. Though we’re similar, he’s an ISFJ and I’m an INFJ. I know the “being stuck in their ways” and he really wants everyone to live life for him while I’m trying to help him for what I believe to be the right path for him. He always seems to play the “You can’t teach an old dog new tricks game.” Finally he’s also stuck in the belief that money is the door to happiness which I’m still trying to figure out that viewpoint as it seems to be a common one. I hope that both of our parents can reach healthiness at some point.

[@lannypopcorn9429]

ESFJ cat? Am I missing something or animals can be typed? I'm calling it now, Mr. Joseph please make a new season on how to type your pet.

[@phillyjam2018]

Lol I requested this the first time he mentioned his cat was an esfj in the previous vid lolll. Please chase I need to understand my cat. Help us

[@Flamable1]

@@phillyjam2018 Use the type grid. Is the pet mostly initiating or responding? Does it spend a lot of time coming to you for attention (initiating) or does it only initiate sometimes (responding)... If it likes a lot of petting then it is probably an Si user, if it tries to pet you (e.g rubbing it's head on you, or other affection) then it is probably an Se user. This should narrow it down enough that you will be left with 4 options. Then decide if the animal is movement or control? An INTP dog i know eats extra slow, it will take a couple bites about 5 minutes after the bowl is filled. A movement type would be eating it as it is being poured. Also look for it's reaction to stimulus, does it instantly react (movement) or does it pause for a second(control)? This may have narrowed it down enough to figure it out. It was for me, worst case you will be left with 2 types to decide between and you will have to figure that out using clues that are quirks about that particular pet that gives you clues based on their stack. A caring dog over an intelligent dog may hint at an ENFJ (Fe Hero) over an ENTJ (Te Hero) if this was the last 2 options

[@ethanmcdonald5397]

@@Flamable1 I have an ESTJ cat and an INFJ cat. The ESTJ girl cat always runs up to me but waits to be petted though she licks me nonstop. The INFJ guy cat gives sensations by rubbing people with its head and it doesn't purr as much. I also have an ESFJ dog who is super friendly and she is welcoming when guests come to the house. My family knows some people who bring an INTP male dog to visit somewhat frequently. He has Se trickster, so he is super clumsy and often trips on things while running in the yard.

[@bravespirit1428]

An affiliative cat? That's a very unusual cat.

[@christianwellness4363]

That be great , i need help typing my pet iguana lol ..

[@LichColdheart]

Still waiting for an INTJ cat to build a company of their own.

[@valentynabelofsky9374]

The problem with people with Fe parent and Fi trickster is that that they can hear person A accusing person B of being mean and think that's worse than person B actually being mean. As an Fi used this is very hurtful and doesn't seem fair.

[@Lycosa]

True, but that depends on many things. Indeed, avoid unnecessary drama & hate. If someone was actually mean to you? Go ahead, call em out/talk about it... But be the better person, no need to publicly shame & crucify them!

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

That is one of our flaws as ISFJs- we can get wrapped up on the rudeness in the moment. Something we need to always work on

[@generalpatton838]

I have an ISFJ mother and she never forced me to do anything. She never made me go to Church when I really didn't. I was usually the one that ran roughshod and did things my way. "But", I don't know what to believe if even she is one even though she is consistent with the type grid. I'm wondering if maybe she has been pacified by my Si demon never to cross it (I find ISFJ's irritating and annoying). One thing is though, I do see a pattern of denial such as "needing more storage space" when she really doesn't and that she is a disorganized hoarder. So frustrating she will never get it and I had to suffer from it (messy house). What are your thoughts Chase? -INTJ

[@abesapien9930]

I have an ISFJ mother. Oh boy did she force me to do things. And, in my 30's, when I finally asserted myself, she made sure to let me know I was "dead to her," and that she wished I was "never born." I was a model A student growing up, graduated with honors, won piano competitions and was the lead in our school play for multiple years. But that didn't matter when I left the Christian faith she raised me with, gained an unacceptable amount of weight in her eyes, and bugged her too frequently for financial assistance. Did I mention I bailed this person out of jail for shoplifting? Despite this, she has made me out to be the evil one.

[@generalpatton838]

@@jellyfishi_ I read the Boom of Mormon

[@hedgeearthridge6807]

My mom is ISFJ, been waiting a while for this. And at an hour long, this should be extra dope!

[@Flamable1]

@Gio M me too, maybe we ride the same algo train

[@hedgeearthridge6807]

@Gio M WTF? Really? Wow, i guess we are Algorithm buddies, hehe. What channels?

[@jaredvaughan1665]

20 percent of women self identify as isfj. It is also the type most resistant to change. It is from Chase that I discovered my mom is an ISFJ. Thanks Chase. I spent years trying to figure her type until you came.

[@lauren-gx1lg]

I'm an INTP and my mom is an ISFJ. It's....rough.

[@emmanuelasamoah4973]

Same It's war everyday

[@lauren-gx1lg]

@@emmanuelasamoah4973 yeah, i mostly cope by avoiding interacting with her

[@toastypuppy4042]

Same situation with me. I still love her just as much as I would if I was an ESFP. Please, don’t waste your potential relationship with her. You both should humble yourselves and talk about it. I took us a couple of weeks, but my mother and I now have a good relationship. We don’t fully understand each other, but we try and we respect each other regardless. Just, please, think about it. Neither of you will regret it, I promise. - INTP

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

My mum's ISFJ. I can't stand her. I also know a couple who are the self-appointed cops of my old dojo. Can't f**ng stand them either. They're insufferably self-righteous and judgemental. INTJ

[@infpaola9436]

dang, it's so weird for me to hear how this relationship doesn't work, maybe cause its a parent/child thing and expectations are different. I have an INTP partner and we've been together for 2 years. Hell, it's the best relationship i've ever had, we have great communication, it's really easy for us to be blunt without getting offended. It's honestly amazing. Guess everyone's different, even within types.

[@ryan-paxton]

Watched the whole vid. This seems like more of a critique of ISFJs rather than how to actually hack them positively and help them mature like your other videos focus on. Certainly you're not suggesting to use MLM or cult type of schemes to manipulate?

[@Dedo70]

Duuuude! This one is SO good! The intel is so valuable!!! Sincerely, INTJ female with an ISFJ friend, whom I love dearly.

[@dumdum8271]

This video was really timely.I applied everything just like you said and it worked. You are a genius CS Joseph! I hope your next video is on social engineering isfps, I really need that one urgently.

[@CSJoseph]

it was posted

[@Seljhbff]

True, I am sick and tired of people not verifing and then playing the victim, like it is not their responsability. I think a lot of people including me have stories about ISFJ's taking dumb and harmful actions in the name of faith. Anyway, great lecture as always.

[@naturalinstinct4950]

@@_productivity__nill_1131 this always makes my Te hero mad 😂 lmao

[@kindauncool]

+@@naturalinstinct4950 That would actually be Ti lol Te don't care

[@d.o.9072]

Here is a possible useful tip for ISFJ's , if you want to keep your Ti child verifying everything, always hold on to healthy dose of paranoia (which wont be hard courtesy of Ne inferior) and before you know it, your fear will serv you ( withing reason, remember "healthy dose". You were warned ! if you loose control of your paranoia your in BIG trouble. )

[@d.o.9072]

Ok , I wrote this comment before I watched the video to the end, so it was valuable at the moment, but I jumped before i watched the video. My apologies. ( judge me if you must).

[@infpmadness]

Lmao! You get all Norman Bates every time you start talking about our Te trickster! Not laughing at you, but it is soooo funny. As an ISFJ I do need to believe in something, never even realized it was a personality trait until recently, but.... I turn everything inside out before believing anything, for the most part at least. Maybe because of past childhood trauma? Not sure, but I constantly analyze what I believe and why I believe and follow things out kind of logically. And I tend to come back to things over and over and over, taking them apart and putting them back together until I am satisfied with the why of things. My thoughts, my beliefs, my actions. I guess I might be more skeptical than most ISFJs, even of myself. And I would never force any way of believing on anyone. I would ask someone to do something even if they didn't want to if I felt it would keep the peace of the group, i.e. asking my son to go to family functions if I felt it was expected, but that would be a keeping the peace kind of thing rather than trying to "enforce" tradition on him. p.s. I quit a job of 18 years because someone came into upper management that I absolutely could not follow his fear style of leadership, meaning he was my VP and I was lower management and he expected me to manage those under me in his "fear based" style. I could not, in good concious, lead in that way, or commit what I considered those types of atrocities, because I was blindly following his "orders" so I quit! I hate that you don't like us, lol. I promise we are not all the same. Come pick my brain, I swear it!

[@jom.458]

I am an infp and love my isfj husband. He is amazing. I think a mature isfj is needed in Everyone's life.

[@teddmented]

Right. An Isfj who willingly does things that harm people is completely repressing dominant fe and ti logic. Also si to the extent society’s rules conflict with their traditional beliefs. Isfj doesn’t cling to evil beliefs in the name of tradition unless they’re born into and indoctrinated with it, and even then fe, ti and eventually ne would cause deep inner conflict once exposed to society’s moral code. It’s a lot of cognitive functions not acting properly which make it an exception to the average.

[@muhammadamininfj5999]

@@jom.458 He might be an INFJ.

[@kindauncool]

+@@teddmented "Also si to the extent society’s rules conflict with their traditional beliefs" You say this as though all ISFJs share beliefs.

[@someonerandom713]

3:41 THAT right there! Can you go more into how which functions cause which interaction styles?

[@arande3]

Ne hero, for example, means you're always focused on new information, every moment, to the point that you neglect Si. My Si child by contrast, likes to stay on a reliable path. In fact I find going all over the place exhausting whereas Ne hero finds staying focused to be exhausting. Therefore ENPs will be movement types and INPs will be control types. Se hero also focuses on new information every moment, however it's different because it's tied to Ni instead of Si, which makes you direct when combined with Ti. However, Fi is an informative function so the SFPs are going to be informative naturally. Likewise, even though Ti is a direct function, the infornativeness of Ne tends to overpower its directness. However, the reality of interaction Styles is that they're more statistical, not absolute. INTP is more likely to be informative, but they can also be direct while still being in their ego depending on the context. ENTJs while they can be direct to a fault, also have the potential to be informative. So the classified interaction style is really just a result of the Tendencies of that specific combination of functions, like how informative Fi is generally stronger than the Direct Ni in SFPs so they are classified as informative, but when you flip it around in NTJs, the Ni-Te dominance then makes them Direct. Something like that

[@someonerandom713]

@@arande3 Thanks for the answer. Where've you got this from? I did figure something like this was the case. But if it is just generally true by statistics, I wonder how we can say that interaction styles is a 100% bullet proof way of typing people immediatly. I don't believe the immediatly part of it anyways, I think it got to take more time if you want to be sure. And that's when the statistical behavior may become more solid as well.

[@arande3]

@@someonerandom713 heya, it's just me reasoning through the functions and how they work

[@arande3]

@@someonerandom713 ya probably not immediately, you need microexpressions and social cues to tell more of the story

[@rayanrafea5869]

Mom is an ESFP and dad is an ISFJ. She can't persuade him with anything. He is unmovable 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@honor9lite1337]

She's not an ESFP

[@nyasha9623]

I’m an ENFP and I remember watching your video thinking you may have had a bad experience with ENFP’s but I enjoyed the video anyway because I need it for self awareness. I’ve seen a consistency in your videos; you just say it as it is. I have a staff of about 20 people and have typed all my employees and how you describe ISFJ’s really explains it a lot. I have one staff who seemed to want me to be wrong or would give me incorrect information for decision making. But I’m realising it’s an isfj. I remember wondering why he was so dedicated to his job but had an absolute wrong belief system of how things worked or what my job was. And he loves to correct people but after seeing this that’s where the defender comes from. I found it better to not tell him anything privileged because it was causing issues and he wanted to dominate facts. & now listening to you this make sense. & he is so religious.

[@Jess-yv7zc]

Thanks, Chase; very useful. ISFJ mom and ISFJ German shepherd.

[@someonerandom713]

Lol, I want to meet the ISFJ German shepherd! :O

[@Jess-yv7zc]

@@someonerandom713 She's hilarious. Always keeping me to a routine and bossing me around. She makes any other canine(s) in the vicinity follow The Rules. lol

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Arent all German shepherds isfj? :) mine certainly is! He’s the best!

[@catinthepeng2686]

Trying to manipulate my ISFJ mom to see how she’s the cause of her troubles and solve generational trauma by engaging my superego ISFP. Wish me luck.

[@Flamable1]

My ISFJ mother wonder's why her sons do not really communicate with her, but it's because anything they say can be used against them so they are safer saying nothing at all. It's sad, I hope ISFJ's can learn to be more forgiving to not alienate people. For example if i tell my mum i will visit on the weekend but then I'm ill or have another reason not to visit she would inevitably get very angry since i told her before that i would visit. So eventually I, and my brothers stopped making commitments to her since I fear letting her down too much. This is just one example but anything I say can be brought up later as an example of my failings, often outside of the context it was originally meant. Since I am an INTP and can talk about ideas and possibilities and she will recall it like i was talking about it literally. I do my best, i want my mum to be happy, but it is a tough relationship to manage sometimes

[@Lycosa]

Oh :( that sucks man. I feel for you. Hope it gets better or you can deal with it somehow. I really dislike it when people make promises & break them. I don't like untrustworthy people (ISFJ Male here). But yeah, that sucks.

[@johnk8608]

Looks like INTP will be episode 16. Can't wait!

[@Greg-lw4zb]

Amazing stuff. Your children will be so proud of everything you have accomplished on this subject. Thanks as always, Chase. Absolute fire.

[@gepisar]

54:00 AH! Starting to see the pattern in this video series. Very clever - yes. Very good!!

[@mehran2877]

Intj here ... how come you thought they are gonna watch this when you've pulled truth in their heart by a bullet

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Because not all of us just blindly believe everything and want to learn from all sources. I’d hardly call this TRUTH, though. Some of it- absolutely. All of it? No chance. Credit to him, CSJ doesn’t pull any punches when it comes to us. But he inappropriately assigns negativity to functions that are opposite of his own and assumes the worst of them.

[@jesssss12]

@@sirbradfordofhousejones he’s telling truths. He’s offended all of the types 😂. Even intjs. You have to grow thick skin if you ask an ENTP to analyze you.

[@jmz8210]

Omg, you don't know how many times I was saying "Yes!" My ISFJ brother is very much like that. The Village is a movie that hits home for since I feel my brother follows that system and yes, he gets triggered by Harry Potter 😂

[@Ibrahimovic4life]

@@sirbradfordofhousejones what if you actually are?

[@leahboynton1280]

In between all the ranting, I learned that I need to use my fear to verify information. If I can master this then I will take a lot less punishment in life. I have a choice. For the record this ISFJ has always questioned dogmatic beliefs presented to me in many areas of my life. It's been a saving grace. The reason I follow blindly out of fear is because when I do question or argue my opinion than I'm considered difficult. This is difficult for me being ISFJ because we are pleasers and harmonizers. Another lesson I will take from this is that I will no longer give a shit how difficult I appear or how exasperated someone is with me. If that person does not verify than I will not 'sign up' to your belief. A newly enlightened ISFJ

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

If I was your personality type, i would see what an INTJ thought about your data. Blind commitment is a killer...

[@leahboynton1280]

Google User I was married to to a INTJ for 20 years.. lol!!

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

@@leahboynton1280 really? How was the marriage? i was best friends with an ISFJ until i wasn't.

[@leahboynton1280]

Google User I could write a book on my marriage. It wasn’t good at all. It was challenging to compromise and parent with two polar ways of thinking. Main issues, he viewed relationships as a means of meeting goals. I view relationships as sharing a life together as a team while supporting each other’s goals. I’m an easy going person who can roll with the flow. He needs a master plan for everything. Our temperaments don’t work together at all. He sees all the faults in the system and tries to streamline everything. I see faults are try to work with them for harmony. Too different

[@GoogleUser-wy2vv]

@@leahboynton1280well-said... I know a couple people who like to ...roll with the flow. They usually end up in alot of debt or in some sort of emergency that could have been prevented. I watch what they go through and it is scary to me. ISFJs talk about harmony but it always looks like shoving problems under the rug or denying there is a problem in the first place. I couldn't live putting my entire life into someone else's hands as i have seen some ISFJs do. As an INTJ, i appreciate a relationship that is a bond for better outcomes in various areas of my life. I like a mind-mate. Exercising together, cooking healthy food...saving money and hanging out for fun. All healthy living...

[@nutcracker2023]

Thank you. I think you should to put some special effects on your magic wand during using and swinging it. That would be fun. C.S. Joseph The Social Engineering Wizard. And of course, your magic cat too. LOL

[@avaricedsoul9936]

Hmmm im isfj but im not a part of a religious org or something and im always doubting every information fed to me but its true, sometimes i just don't care abt the info

[@elnara1]

Ma. Alexis Benitez, yeah I’m not religious and doubt everything too. Joseph just can’t forget his mother for the way she treated him so he’s projecting his anger to ISFJs and he thinks that her personality is the reason why she was a bad mother. He forgets that there are other things that may influence people’s personality, like personal history, health, culture, religion, etc. Luckily I’m a psychologist so I don’t take it seriously

[@knifeyonline]

@@elnara1 well thank you for gracing us with your presence, most superior and educated one *bows

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

elnara1 yep! I see very little of myself as an isfj in this video. He’s right about a lot of types, but is off on ours. IMO.

[@aladdout9454]

yeah infjs cant relate either.I think a lot of this is relates to Fe parent boomers (and some other affiliative types too) and not really our better generation.

[@AmateurEdits-u9m]

@@elnara1 they both were not compatible from the start but he has mentioned on his channel the difference between nature and nurture everyone is capable of maturity and immaturity and yes isfjs can be great but like everyone else they can be immature

[@dianatamayo3743]

I think I am an isfj, but I suppose that for my love to take care of others, my maternal instinct and to do what is right, I was very distracted by this...passionate resentment (? that you seem to feel about the isfj, it is a constant that I have noticed with the videos about isfj, I understand that it is from previous experiences but it provokes me to give you a hug and a cup of chocolate, I will try to learn from your videos, my ex-boyfriend (now best friend) is an entp, and it hurt to see how I could hurt him sometimes for things that you have described on previous occasions but at the same time I had a hard time dealing with how his actions make me feel, specially when we where with others, bad long-term combination, you mentioned in another video that ISFJ and ENTP work better as comrades, explains why we are working better as friends, thanks for your videos. I will continue to confirm my beliefs, I already did the same because of my fear of being manipulated, but I will continue working 🤣😂

[@SomeGal]

My mom is ISFJ, and all this resonates.

[@knifeyonline]

Did you make this shadowy and horror movie-like on purpose so ISFJ's would actually listen?

[@CSJoseph]

who knows

[@brycenwhitesides6866]

such a good video! really appreciate this video and how deep it is.

[@Kuultyc]

I'm pretty sure my male dog is enfj, and kinda think my female might be isfp or esfp lol...typing animals can be difficult. Props for that kitty typing.

[@debbiebjork7626]

Ver-uh-fy-yah! Awesome. Love when Mr. CS Joseph starts ta preach. Especially while waving the elder wand.

[@erinjk123]

Isfjs atrocities sounds familiar. I didnt watch this all earlier. Esfp isfj combination is scary.

[@generalpatton838]

Is Mitt Romney an ISFJ?

[@LornaLens]

My son is this. I am enfj how do we get along better? I adore him. He is super organised and good hearted but stubborn.

[@Toni7926]

*rants about isfj being easy to manipulate* Two minutes later: *asks for money* Me: Err...I was told not to just believe in something.

[@CSJoseph]

lol well played

[@dinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn]

My son is an ENTP and I'm an ENTJ......I like your videos.....:D I got very entertained with this video ....I know an ISFJ

[@Ibrahimovic4life]

Must be heaven of productivity lol

[@ChantelleMarie]

I’d like to see another video of this. I love your content bro (seriously so helpful) though I feel like this was lead by a lot of your own past trauma & anger towards people you know who are ISFJs

[@CSJoseph]

It's data from all ISFJs, but for some types if you don't have any anecdotal experience, they won't listen so I try to get both in whenever I can.

[@boxy_tocs2035]

40:40-

[@PunkFiddler]

Oh god.. Now I am certain that my father's an ISFJ.

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

You have my condolences.

[@biancabraddock8457]

Hello. An ISFJ here. I really enjoy your channel and learn a lot through it. I do think some examples you use sorta misses the point you're trying to make, but overall you get your message across. From watching a number of your videos, I believe you address a lot of people who are still maturing. The audience seems to be directed at the youth, which is great, since I think a lot of young people are trying to find themselves. (Not saying that older people are necessarily mature.) I suppose the thing that really bothers me, which probably will not be a surprise to you, is the negative connotation you give to the religious beliefs my type "adopts." I understand how my type can become supremely judgmental and try to push their beliefs on others. I know I am guilty of doing this at times but, thankfully, and with the help of very different family members, friends, and clergy, I know when I am doing it and stop. I don't mean to be giving my life story, but I was not always religious and always questioned things (fi parent?). I still question all that is being presented and taught in my religion and really do believe I stand firmly on the truth. And if I do not find it to be true, I ask questions, which, I feel, has strengthened the faith I have. Anyways, I know you don't care either way of what a person's religion is or isn't, I'm just really trying to say, to others who may be reading this, that a solid foundation can be had through truth, through questioning, and in a religious establishment. Not demanding other people to conform to it, of course, but not bending to the ways of the world either. And you're absolutely right about the "sinner's prayer." There's nothing like that anywhere in the Bible. I hope this makes sense. Love your channel~

[@fjbz3737]

Bianca Braddock I think his point is that they tend to be religious without much fact checking to see if it’s actually true

[@generalpatton838]

Read the Book of Mormon (half-joke). There's lot's of additional info, or shall I say in general, information that is needed so that we're on the right track and faith, such as the concept and law of "agency". God does not like people to meddle, nor does He, with other people's agency to choose for themselves. ISFJ's can hold themselves to this tenet of faith in faith so that way they can get over their abusive religious enforcement, or forcing what they believe is right on other people to do the right thing, which is Satan's plan all along of him saying "Here am I. Give me thine honor and not one soul shall be lost" only to ignore the free will of man to choose for themselves for his own glory. BTW, is Mitt Romney an ISFJ? -INTJ

[@biancabraddock8457]

@@fjbz3737 I totally agree except for when he mentions specific denominations. We all have our bias and prejudices, of course, but even still, Mr. Joseph's tone is of a negative variety when not just speaking of certain type tendencies. I think he does a wonderful job with types in general and pointing out that religion could be used in a maleficent way. My only wish is for him to look into the religions he mentions so as to see what they stand for. I'm guilty of stereotyping religions myself, so I can't really say much.

[@CSJoseph]

thank you for your post, the sinner's prayer is a lie.

[@dogdonut3]

*talks about cats me (an isfj): ok, I'm in. 😆

[@shaun1293]

ISFJs, VERIFFYYYYYYY

[@elnara1]

I'm an ISFJ with well developed Te instead of Ti. Is it possible?

[@makingpeoplebetter8654]

@@elnara1 No. Take this test on the website.

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

@@elnara1 As the other guy said; no. An ISFJ will typically hear someone rage about someone being an immoral prick [and they ARE-it's obvious to everyone else]; but will instead assume the person calling them out, is worse than the prick!!! This is because they lack Te, plus have Fe with Fi trickster. Verify!!! Ask questions, instead of leaping to pass judgement!!!! They're especially hopeless at making the right calls based on little info, because they completely lack iNtuition. I know three ISFJs who have burnt their life to the ground, because they believe any old shit; and then act like self-appointed cops spreading rumours and passing judgement. It's an insufferable quality-the DEFINITION of self-righteous (it means sanctimonious [holier-than-thou] as well as pigs*t ignorant-yet opinionated nonetheless), that causes a swathe of devastation in it's path, that then comes back to bite them. It's pure karma, when they wreck their lives because of it, and as an INTJ; I struggle to have any empathy for such self-inflicted wounds. Don't be that person.

[@SantanaBanana47]

I now have the tools to defend myself. Thank you cs Joseph

[@whitneyvalens4126]

Peer pressure from dead people is kinda awesome!

[@someonerandom713]

Lots of SFJs from agnostic Europe love Harry Potter big time, I'm tellin' ya

[@Lycosa]

Lol well said. I'm a European ISFJ Male. Agnostic/Buddhist. Not that into harry potta' but I don't mind it either, I like it.

[@knifeyonline]

@@Lycosa did you read the books?

[@Lycosa]

@@knifeyonline No, maybe some day but I prefer non-fiction in literature. I'm just not that into fantasy like harry potta'. I like it tho, not bad. just not my thing so much

[@themoonbleu627]

why are you all agonist ? have you been abused ?

[@Ibrahimovic4life]

@@sirbradfordofhousejones not necessarily righ. It means, not bing in denial of a possibility that a god exists. -> God 'could' exist, doesn't have to tho.

[@ashleyw5579]

Hey!! I’m ISFJ and I don’t believe in god and I’m obsessed with Harry Potter, im offended 😂😂

[@knifeyonline]

10 points to ravenclaw!

[@naturalinstinct4950]

lol

[@jasminemariedarling]

Off topic, but have you spoken on your thoughts about Carl Jung's ties with the Occult? As someone who is open to the idea of Christianity, I hear some religious people are not a fan of Typing because of this.

[@EsetNarci]

Too much personal bias in this one. I see what you are trying to say, but when you start your video by mocking SJs for being SJs and only seeing the negative in it and how it impacts you then it's hard to take in any other information as something I should trust. You did something similar in the "How Do We Use The Type Grid?" video with how the sensor types indoctrinate the intuitive types in taking medication. Watching this video I can see the reasoning for why you feel that way. But again, this sort of information is just your personal bias and detracts the video as a whole.

[@CSJoseph]

lol@people who complain about personal bias. Like, its almost mythological at this point.

[@elnara1]

narcissistic this is obvious. He’s mad at his mother who’s an ISFJ so he’s projecting his anger on all ISFJs.

[@knifeyonline]

@@CSJoseph because you suck at appealing to ISFJ's

[@lyndsayn1742]

Same with Enfps

[@fbibarbie]

He is pretty harsh to everyone watch some of the other type videos

[@hfortenberry]

Chase you are cracking me up. 😂 I just keep envisioning the 3 primary ISFJs in my life, my girlfriend, my stepmom and my boss (of 8 years) and I cannot stop laughing. This is so spot on. Although I think my girlfriend is the most wise of the 3, next is my boss. My stepmom fits the stereotype to a tee though. 😂

[@Leverquin]

FEAR IS REAL AND FEAR IS STRONG. How to remove it? Please help

[@CSJoseph]

live in spite of it

[@kh2716]

My Wife is ISFJ, but she doesn't appear to fit entirely. The Virtues / Vice ISFJ video went really heavy on the religious faith which is hard for anyone to relate to if they are not religious.

[@SantanaBanana47]

Well the same thing applies to what ever she is putting her faith into.

[@Leverquin]

i believe i am defender of the truth. one unique meta truth.

[@blitz19113]

ISFJ for men is like the beta personality (in contrast to being an alpha male). And after reading No More Mr. Nice Guy and generally being red pilled/MGTOW, I feel I am contradicting myself and going against my ego and feel like I am living in my superego (INTJ). I don't think it's nice to do/live like that. I know this ESTP woman and when I feel she's being alpha on me, I shut down instantly thinking it is not the right frame so I try to emulate an ISTJ. I guess ISFJ's are to be celibates in today's dating climate. If not, then it's going to take a lot of internal contradiction/conflict within. I am an ISFJ who reads a lot, most especially nonfictions. And so I feel like I am a living contradiction because my gut or ego tells me one thing and what I know of the world is of another.

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

ISFJ men tend to have the natural pretty boy look that Se women tend to be into so if they work on their style and fashion, they can do well on dating apps.

[@MrRob2084]

Red pill and MGTOW is hysterically useless. Takes advantage of dudes with low self esteem and adds a few common knowledge tropes, then you all fall for it sinking money into these scam artists. Getting dates isn’t hard and women aren’t actively conspiring against you. As for relationships; just continue to make you better and stop sitting around doing nothing, aka stop being a bitch. Get a hobby, work on your career, date your girlfriend/wife being fun, and be active. Fucking simple and it’s in the RP movement’s interest to over complicate, so you give them money and views

[@someonerandom713]

Tenzin from The Legend Of Korra is a badass ISFJ.

[@EndlessKurtis]

Someone Random that’s actually a great example of an ISFJ. He even matches the socionics SEI description quite well.

[@Lycosa]

Good video, it felt like you were preaching (not necessarily in a bad way). ''Preach on CSJ!" lmao. But yeah, lotta truth about a lotta ISFJs. You have to question things & verify. Don't follow blindly. You may be biased but it's ok & understandable, at least you're aware of it. Rest assured that some ISFJs value the truth and real justice.

[@profilename1337]

Following rules is just living in fear from the rule maker

[@Sam-by3kk]

Damn mate, so much projection on this one.. I get it.. your demon is out to play but if you can I think it'd benefit people if you reigned it in a bit

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

My thoughts exactly. He hates us, but I get it. He had a rough life experience with an unhealthy isfj.

[@ctcamara]

Wow! Wow! Wow! Amazing video! Wow!

[@hfortenberry]

OMG, The Village was so good.

[@hfortenberry]

“Stop it! Get some help!” 😂

[@equityjustice2695]

I'm trying to figure out if I'm an isfj or an infp. You site typed me as both on diff occasion. What am I, I'm not confused. I have qualities from both. Gosh this is infuriating. Why did I get into mbti? All these codes 😵😵😵😵😵😵😵🤕🤕🤕🤕🥴🥴🥴🥴😩😩😩😩😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@equityjustice2695]

Okay, I'm convinced that I'm not an isfj. So this means your test was wrong 3 out of 4 times or my understanding of the question was the reason or maybe I'm not functioning on my normal type due to stress. Ahhhhh 😵 I'm still confused 😕

[@CSJoseph]

Download the free type grid companion at csjoseph.life and work through that, you'll get your answer. Or if you're impatient you can always get a 15 min typing session.

[@Leverquin]

I can't read that left part Robin of L- what?

[@CerceiLannister]

Robin of Loxley, aka Robin Hood

[@mindevol]

Oh man, this is so spot on. Anger and rage is due to ones unattainable standards being projected/forced onto others 😠 Such crap. Narcissism anyone 🤣

[@dolfdervish8495]

Malinda Eckert Yeah, maybe. But, noone seems to mind when the ISFJ is making tea for the depressed & rubbing sick shoulders... But, who serves the servant? It's okay though... We're all hypocritical (to some degree).

[@rocketassistedgoat1079]

Yup. I know three ISFJs, I can't stand them. Insufferably self-rightous and judgmental.

[@yazik7616]

I have problem, I find that I am a systematic concrete pragmatic person but that isn't any temperament, am I missing something?

[@dolfdervish8495]

Wait wait wait... Hold up. Can we talk about the Whale Shark in the Aquarium? How the heck does a 4th slot Si type have such a precisely specific & *OUTSTANDING* instant recall of each & every single episode of each & every single season? Help me out with some actually & factually consistent data here? Anybody? Chase?

[@CSJoseph]

Si aspirational.

[@redadventurer3552]

Random question but what are the top 5 mbti types that would be considered to have the potential to be jack-of-all-trades types?

[@Flamable1]

I don't know about top 5 but Chase said that INTJ is the number one 'Jack of all trades' since they can pick up new skills and information very quickly

[@CSJoseph]

ISTP

[@qasimimtiaz9668]

Intjs and Istps

[@purvab1683]

*Starts typing comment* Opens myself up to Social Engineering Wants to not feel afraid of Social Suicide thats about to go down in this comment section... Im a young isfj & new here (credit myself) please go easy All right... here we go.... 1. What happens when you have a broken idea/have no family and tradition as an isfj? 2. But how do you know what is truth and lies? I kinda don’t believe in good and evil. Paranoia spikes 📈 use fear am I right hehe...

[@CSJoseph]

Find a tradition and adopt it. Grab a Bible and begin the journey.

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

I’m an isfj- some thoughts (not CONTROLLING DEMANDS haha): 1) nothing. You’ll be fine. My family isn’t religious and I found great community and sense of purpose thru sports and D&D. 2) We have a strong Si function- you take in information all the time. Our Fe can be the problem- we care too much about how others FEEL about the info we have, so sometimes ISFJs will craft beliefs to make others happy. Don’t do that- go with your gut and take your own path. People will be less offended than you think. At least, that’s my personal experience. :)

[@dolfdervish8495]

This one's gonna get raw, dark, & enlightening. Wellp... Let's go! (Edit: Finished. Dope as usual.) PS.. Hey Chase.. I LOVE your obsession with the "Tradition is the corpse of Wisdom" bit. I also *LOVE* the "Tradition is peer pressure from dead people" quote. Though, I still invite/challenge you to dig deeper. As, you might just discover that: Tradition & Wisdom are like 2 rivers, flowing through a balanced heart. Still don't subscribe to that idea? Try this perspective: What is Tradition REALLY about (at root)? One might say: "control." And, I get that. Maybe for some (like, say, those with a particularly intense hypocritical acumen), it is. But, what is Tradition *REALLY* about? Isn't it about: Respect? Now, have you *ever* met a single human who, short term & long term, Respects someone who(m) they have been disrespected by? Now, do you see Tradition's True utility?

[@calixbenedict8216]

RIP logic

[@dolfdervish8495]

@Gravity Pillar: Please elaborate.

[@fjbz3737]

Dolf Dervish I would say that at its core, much of tradition really isn’t about anything as it’s encouraged by an illogical desire to prevent change

[@dolfdervish8495]

@FJBZ3: Thanks for taking the time to share your perspective. Insofar as Dogma is paraded as "tradition," I totally agree. It begs to be questioned: When you say: "Tradition.." What do you mean (precisley)?

[@calixbenedict8216]

@@dolfdervish8495 are you in IG? Wanna debate?

[@hfortenberry]

How did the ESFP demon develop a Spanish accent? 😂

[@liveforyouonly]

waiting for ISFPs 😮

[@savedbygrace6108]

I have intentionally avoided places and people where I knew I would be vulnerable to this... possibly because I know the dear price of standing and speaking up.. God has had my back when no one else did, but boy did it take an emotionally taxing toll on me.. Having so many people against me caused me so much emotional distraught.. it was so painful. How can I become emotionally resilient to this?🙏

[@Kuultyc]

lol I love you, this was great. way too accurate and true....and if it is true, is it also light? XD

[@AnnaMaria-co1bp]

How about a balance between tradition and change?

[@Lycosa]

Yep. I love traditional stuff/traditions, but also embrace change & modern stuff in some things. Just not as easy as others.

[@evoregnar5354]

Is there a chance of you doing an infj and intp comparison?

[@CSJoseph]

maybe

[@101yashu]

Can u help me to differentiate between isfj and infp ,i am confused which one i am

[@jedhigh1443]

More detail to why you are confused please

[@101yashu]

@@jedhigh1443 i took a test a few months ago and got infp twice and took a test recently i got isfj

[@someonerandom713]

@@101yashu Look how you relate to the cognitive functions of either type: INFP: Fi - Ne - Si - Te ISFJ: Si - Fe - Ti - Ne If you don't know what these terms mean, I suggest watching the "Who are the INFPs" and "Who are the ISFJs" videos, as well as the videos on what cognitive functions are. Should you be one of these two types, that should clear it up. Also, I gotta add that it can be more of a Te thing to value test results. That hints a bit towards INFP. But see for yourself before you settle on anything. =)

[@101yashu]

@@someonerandom713 thanks man!!

[@Entyipo]

@@101yashu What type were you?

[@dogdonut3]

Everyone has an isfj mom, but they couldn't possibly be an isfj themselves. 😆 They are one of the most common types, right? I suggest that, possibly, some of you out there are fooling yourselves. (About your moms type, or your own.)

[@Leverquin]

robin hood can be ISFJ but he is so much Chaotic good. ISFJ are Lawful good :P

[@whitneyvalens4126]

You lost me when you typed your cat. Just kidding, but seriously what the heck?! 😂🐈

[@CSJoseph]

Yeah it’s actually a thing

[@marcanton9083]

👍🏼👍🏼 Hosea 4:6 (NKJV) My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge. Because you have rejected knowledge, I also will reject you from being priest for Me; Because you have forgotten the law of your God, I also will forget your children. Hosea 6:6 (NKJV) For I desire mercy and not sacrifice, And the knowledge of God more than burnt offerings.

[@hfortenberry]

Your ISFJ mom thought you were on the spectrum! 😂 I’m sorry Chase but that is hilarious. I feel your pain though. My stepmom (since age 5) is ISFJ so I get it. That’s the only reason I laughed, because that inferior Ne always amuses me with the way they can come up with left field wrong stuff to believe. It’s actually cute…unless you’re their poor child being labeled with some disability that you don’t have. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I’m sorry, that’s not funny. That would have been super painful. It kinda reminds me of the INFP’s poor usage of Te. Cracks me up sometimes, coming out of left field due to their Ne. It’s like, did you even TRY to determine if you were correct before saying that??? 😂

[@annapolushina7958]

Everyone's mom is an ISFJ

[@davidpapojr8531]

maybe that part of the gift of the inferior my intraverision on the subconscious side is weaker but not as open and when it does not as subjective as it is abjective

[@yamisunaloli484]

social engineer ISFps

[@IndianGymBro]

So much information with soo much DRAMA😂

[@ashleyw5579]

Love the demonic character btw

[@artygator8167]

I like your lecture but quite frankly, sometimes, I would really appreciate if you could shut the hell up and get to the point. Like damn, to understand one lecture I have to go watch 3 other, the four of which are twice as long as they need to be. Nice wand tho

[@CSJoseph]

It’s literally free

[@davidpapojr8531]

forgot the phone sob , image knowing how to work with everyone. on hold alll morning go insane needed a break ... fear makes him angry and that pushes me into my negitve aspects so he has an si fear or is it ne. si > ne ok ... this is life chase..... lol put yourself around those who push you dont run.... we all lover differently you cant expect what you give but its our resposablity to understabd ourself and others.

[@jonathanmezzenga2501]

Is Railgun an INTJ or ISFP?

[@CSJoseph]

"Wouldn't you like to know weather boy?"

[@lotabody]

ESTP

[@piis3.142]

What are your credentials?

[@ashleyw5579]

I wonder if you’re an istj

[@dolfdervish8495]

Gio M: 1st off, I Respect Chase's work. Objectively diving into his work (& challenging his views) with intent to Seek & *Discover* Truth, has changed my Life (with beneficial results). That said... I submit, that the only reason Dr. Jon Beebe wouldn't disagree with you, is, because he (meaning, DJB) *actually* has his (Authentic Credentials). Until Chase has his (& for the Right reasons), he will never reach the audience as deeply & profoundly as he aspires to. Though, I have a hunch that Chase know's this. And, he's adapting accordingly.

[@scartdarcy]

His cat is really cute so you can believe him

[@CSJoseph]

we will see if you are actually correct.

[@phillyjam2018]

I can't find ur insta CS.joesph correct??

[@scartdarcy]

instagram.com/cs.joseph?igshid=1ciunf3k8654v

[@toastypuppy4042]

Awesome video! This will definitely come in handy seeing as my type tends to clash pretty badly with this one. Haha Dude, I don’t know what church you went to but I’m really sorry. That is definitely not true Christianity or true faith. There is no speech we can give or action we can take to be saved. It’s true faith and commitment that saves. He gives us the facts, God confirms. Church should never feel like a cult. It should never be a case of obligation or anything like that. We don’t clean up our act and go to church because it’s right. We do it to be examples and because we want to be more like Jesus. But we will NEVER be perfect. We can’t be. NO ONE can be. We will always mess up every day, but He forgives. That being said, we don’t do works to BECOME saved, but, instead, BECAUSE we are saved. I know how you feel about church and religion, but please take what I’m saying into consideration. As always, loved the video! I have and ISFJ mom and ISFJ twin brother. I am an INTP. Yeah... it’s hard. 🤣 Keep it up! - INTP

[@erinjk123]

I dont know any isfjs that I know of.

[@joyandrews3804]

No! I’ve never been interested in tradition. I’m sorry you’ve had bad experiences with ISFJs. Age and experience made a difference to me. I’m no longer a perfectionist. And now avoid people because I’ve not found anyone I can trust. Tell me, do you have anything positive to say about people who are ISFJ? I did not force my children to do anything! I left the church because I found that they didn’t practice what they preached. I’m going to watch your other videos to see if you hate the other types as much as you hate my type.

[@rxi4877]

It's a fool who listens to someone with an axe to grind about anything that they think they know something about. Because the anger and resentment coats the truth like poop around a gold nugget.

[@alexsantana3588]

50:00 The Sinner's Prayer is a human tradition which downplays the Divine Institution of the Sacrament of Baptism, which the Catholic Church calls: The Sacrament of Faith. It is always good if a person is sincere and devoutly seeking Jesus but human traditions like this are quite misleading as a human institution. But Jesus is patient and generous with the deceived and the ignorant I'm sure.

[@lanalvr2413]

Im here cause my moms an isfj IMAO

[@redadventurer3552]

Is Batman/Bruce Wayne an ISFJ just out of curiosity?

[@CSJoseph]

No sure.

[@bravespirit1428]

ESFP demon is hilarious

[@ucjapecuch9094]

You realny hate sensors, don't you? Its like your the most hated types: istj and esfp 😁 examples are at least unacceptable but I see your point. Isfj can do anything even sell their soul to be dutiful. However not every ESFP is a bad alcoholic party timer. Trying to convince isfj roommate to finally change his toxic job may someday happen :)

[@CSJoseph]

uh no