How Do ISFJs Compare To INFJs? | ISFJ Vs. INFJ | CS Joseph

[@amandagraves3024]

As an INFJ I've always accepted everyone for who they are. Yes, I put myself in other people's shoes and while doing that I think well... this is what I would do but I can't judge someone else because they are who they are and thier mind works differently. So, maybe I'm arrogant saying I understand people but it's really just knowing I don't understand them is how I understand them. I hope that makes sense.

[@CSJoseph]

well said

[@MithraSemiramis]

well said

[@Candellina]

My mind set EXACTLY.

[@stonebridgeoxfordhoa2829]

I'm an ISFJ married to an INFJ, and your comment makes perfect sense. It might not, however, if I had not become familiar with and read books about The Four Agreements, ancient Toltec wisdom. Don Miguel Ruiz wrote several that are very readable and thought provoking.

[@mariamattya8545]

Makes perfect sense

[@JonnyCrawford]

As an ISFJ, and having a best friend as an INFJ, this video really helped me distinguish how we're so similar in how we approach things, even if the why is very different.

[@ahmadmusle7]

"My mom is an ISFJ" Are you implying that there are mom's that are not ISFJs?

[@TNSaqib]

Or ESFJ, like mine

[@CSJoseph]

lol

[@haroldbaluyottan]

@@TNSaqib same ESFJ mom too

[@dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha9871]

My mom is an ENTP.

[@lostbuthopefull8788]

I got an esfp B) shes awasome

[@plusultra6094]

You're doing God's work here Chase. I made a lot of mistakes with a ISFJ that I loved. I don't want to bear the responsibility of having hurt someone like that again. ISFJ is pretty amazing and deserve to be handled with care.

[@ailurophilely]

I love that you argue with me in every infj lecture.

[@user-ez5vq9fd2t]

As an INFJ with a close ISFJ friend, this was immensely helpful. It's no wonder we're so close.

[@CSJoseph]

awesome!

[@akakikola]

Wow! This is such a great episode! I needed to hear this. Thank you❤ I was not sure for years about my type but now I am sure about being an INFJ. I was thinking for year or two that I was an ENFP. Please make an episode about shadow focused INFJs 🙏 By the way you are doing the right thing when you are telling us the true - even if you're a pragmatic. It's just that you use your Ti incredibly responsibly and I appreciate it a lot! Nobody has ever given me such accurate advices. I understand myself much better now! Thank you, Chase!

[@POVofanENFP]

4:03 - INFJ's are the tip of the spear 15:30 - Ne can influence Ni but only up to a point...At the end of the day the choice is up to Ni 22:00 - INFJ want you to brag about them to your friends and Be loyal to them. And give them recognition 27:10 - ISFJ stop being afraid of what other people's intentions are. Stop being afraid of what other people won't do. Or what they want 34:15 - INFJ ask children this question instead... 40:45 - INFJ/ISFJ on the topic of wisdom... 45:55 - INFJ prone to bad health 47:39 - Always tell the ISFJ what your gonna do b4 you do it and give them the recognition that they deserve

[@johnsonstringperform]

As an INFJ, I have to give a shoutout to my pragmatic friends who made me learn down to earth skills to take care of my needs (like driving, cooking, finance, sales, budgeting, time management and being able to relax and enjoy life sometimes). We are best when we each contribute our strengths. Every instrument in the band is important ;).

[@melodywilliams5812]

I am also an INFJ. Just as Amanda said below, I understand people because I know I don't understand them. I am "aware" that everyone is made differently and has been through different lives. Being aware and accepting the fact that they are different from me helps me to accept them for who they are and to be able to love them for who they are. I will never be able to understand another person to the depth I want to (I really desire to understand other people with the greatest depth- but I can't because I'm not God LOL), but what I can do is to accept them unconditionally. And this is the best I can do. If I can't understand them as God does, what I can do is to just accept them for who they are- which is the BEST thing I can do as a limited human being. A healthy INFJ will realize this- and instead of judging other people & enforcing their own values upon other people, they will be able to understand other people(by being aware that we will never truly understand them) and to truly accept them for who they are. As an INFJ- yes. I want change. I see things in society that needs to be changed. I am not happy with a lot of the things that I see. However, I have learned that change cannot be forced. I have learned that change starts with awareness and acceptance. CHANGE always starts from here. We can never "force" change. "Forcing" change will cause an unhealthy society. Because some people may not want change- and those people will be unhappy as a result of the forced change. Thus true change always starts from accepting others unconditionally. This is where everything begins.

[@CSJoseph]

well said

[@beautyinbutteamerica1776]

This video was fantastic! ISFJ here, thanks for calling us out on our loneliness, spot on! Great channel!

[@CSJoseph]

PunkInButte awesome, you are welcome

[@ginam1058]

The only intellectual pursuit worth having is one whose purpose is to discover the truth.

[@CSJoseph]

well said

[@btyeeee]

Thanks for the video Chase. This video definitely helped me verify that I'm an INFJ (I've been doubting for a while. It's not that INFJ did not fit me, I just wanted to find out to see if there are others types that fit me better and there really isn't). I also knew this information already as this is probably my 3rd or 4th time watching this video, but for some reason, I got the AHA moment this time around. What really got me was when you explained how INFJs needs these in order (Loyalty, Words of Affirmation, and then Quality Time.) It reminded me of the 5 Languages of Love and it really blew my mind because those 3 were exactly my top needs. Thanks for making me realize that the people I used to surround myself with were wrong and that it's okay (or normal) to ask for words of affirmation often. They made it seem like me asking for these things meant it was because I didn't trust them enough when it's actually not true.

[@amandagraves3024]

I could literally write a thousand comments on your videos. I think one reason why INFJ'S are so intrigued by this is because we want to understand people even moreso than we already do. I'm not arrogant in thinking I understand people but I am arrogant with my ability to be so willing to try and understand others and to accept others more so than anyone else I've encountered in life (minus my twin sister, also INFJ). I often find myself sticking up and defending certain things people do and become a voice for groups less fortunate to people who have no clue but judge and belittle these people. I point out things and say things to make others see what I am able to. This is where I'm arrogant, I WANT to understand. I feel like it's my duty to point out what others are so ungodly oblivious to and is crystal clear to me. I say the things that everyone else conveinently leaves out (or so I feel they do). I'm now starting to realize they really just can't see it. I literally came up with a term for this. I call myself an Oblivion Outsider.

[@SJaye-zv9er]

You're awesome. I have a version of this because I'm an INTJ. When Fe trickster takes me down, I envy you INFJs to no end.

[@lunac7454]

INFJ here and non-religious. I love your humor and realistic point of view. I see too many videos that fail to discuss the traps and pitfalls of each type.

[@Snelkrdfswhbdsf]

My bff is an INFJ and legit the most rash decision making , helpful , quiet spoken , kind , psychopath there ever was 😂 gotta love her

[@joelbedulla4]

I'm a Christian INFJ and you just got a new subscriber! I loved this video so much

[@trendsetter8138]

I completely totally crazily love my ISFJ since 12 years I am an INFJ. ISFJs are hardworking and genuine people they are your rock solid and they do not need constant ego boost to function in life they enjoy simple things like INFJs. The reason we keep ourselves aloof in life is the superficiality of people which we hate the most. We need and are extremely happy with one true genuine relationship with the one who understands us on emotional physical mental every level which is extremely rare.

[@intraserv3123]

Te trickster is so annoying because someone will say their thoughts to me and occasionally I don't even hear it because I'm focused on something else or I just spaced out, then I say exactly what they say because I thought of it too, which then they say "I literally just said that" and now I suddenly feel guilty that I might make them feel that I'm talking down to them and trying fake superiority when I'm not I truly just didn't hear what you said and didn't mean to come off that way, I always try to apologize and explain ASAP when that happens. Anyways, nail on the head there..

[@thes7450]

haha happens to me to

[@looovee1000]

Same😂

[@thereaIitsybitsyspider]

I just imagine an ISFJ trying to tell me, an INFJ, how I should behave according to some old tradition. That sounds like a fruitless endeavor.

[@sazude2]

Extremely fruitless. Just downright futile.

[@morningglory.213]

I, as an ISFJ wouldn’t do that unless I actually make sense of it myself and can see via my own experiences too or atleast understand if that can be good..

[@dxfifa]

ISFJs are masters of guilting other Fe users, they'd easily make your affiliative heart feel like a bad person

[@A.J.Breadman]

Your Ranty lectures are the best.👍

[@LegendaryanChannel]

Frickin awesome video man. Love your neighbor as YOURSELF. We have to love ourselves!!! I don't let anyone talk to me in a way that I wouldn't talk to myself. Also, I can see an ESTP come out of me sometimes. Sometimes I just need to enforce and speak the truth no matter how much it hurts. I've backed away from that before because I've hurt people by speaking truth. I'm working on it. I feel like MLK brought out the ESTP side a lot, probably because he knew who he was and he wasn't gonna let someone else define him. An INFJ who knows who he or she is is fricking POWERFUL. The world needs healthier people. Love yourself. Excellent video.

[@theespecificocean]

I like how it takes over an hour to describe infjs in every video we are in

[@stevedavenport1202]

If I am the tip of the spear, then why am I sitting on my couch eating Doritos and getting fat?

[@CSJoseph]

because you still have free will

[@beautyoddrose]

@@CSJoseph well said.

[@beautyoddrose]

Then pack your Doritos, and go be amazing!!

[@gabriellavictory3080]

Maybe study Infj's in the grip of their inferior function, SE.

[@stevedavenport1202]

@@beautyoddrose I switched to Fritos now 😀

[@amandagraves3024]

Also, it's funny because when I first started researching this I was trying to make sense of all of it and how it is relevant to me, and this is what I came up with: As a human race it all starts within and until we all learn to fully understand, accept, and love who we are and our role in life we will fail, all of us. You must love yourself before you can accurately do what you were meant to do. We need to love ourselves in order to be able to understand, accept and love others too. This is the key to the success of mankind and what you're doing is giving people the tools they need to accomplish that. So, for that I thank you C.S Joseph PS :. Why don't they have a LOVE button for your videos cuz I more than just like them

[@CSJoseph]

I know right. Also, it is written, "Love your neighbor as yourself."

[@amandagraves3024]

@@CSJoseph Well, that's a much shorter and just as effective way to say it. It's crazy because I get so excited about this stuff and so deep into it. I also remember (this was before I watched your INFJ vs INFP video) putting things together in my head and thinking the INFJ and INFP were in the wrong spots and they should be flipped. I don't know how I came to that conclusion, I just did and then when I saw your theory about how the J is really more P and vica versa it was a glorifying moment because it reinforced and validated the idea I came up with on my own. Love it

[@Elfen41]

I get what you're saying....about INFJs not necessarily understanding why someone feels the way they feel because we have a sort of blind spot in terms of we can step into the person's shoes and observe them like for example I can understand, say for example a serial killer's impulses but I personally don't wish to do the exact same things myself. However, I guess my issue is that I'm constantly trying to be fair and sort of expect others to do the same thing. So, I'm learning to stop expecting others to see things the same way I do. However, if someone's unfairness is abusive to me is when I put my proverbial foot down. My philosophy basically is "do what you will unless you don't step on someone else's toes". I mean there are people's opinions that I don't give a fuck about especially if I don't need them.. maybe that's bad, but that's me. My mom, btw is also an ISFJ and she's just that, constantly worrying about "doing the right thing" ALL the time. I worry about "doing the right thing" at work, at home, other people can go fuck themselves. And no, I don't think I'm the "most unselfish person in the whole world" lol.

[@KingaMoor]

Best video I've seen for both ISFJ & INFJ. The video help me understand them both. But it is crazy because I took the 16 Personality MBTI test and my result was ISFJ but I also identify half of INFJ as well. Everything to my I, F, and J is over 60% - 80% but my S and N is like 50/50 being my intuitive 42% while my Observant is 58%. It like I do half of both almost equally and not fully like the others. I'm neat and organized like a ISFJ but I have terrible memory and quick to forget. I'm always thinking and planning to improve myself but not all action unless I decide to just focus on the task when I start my day. Almost each of the things said for both of them in the video can describe me and some for them can't. The description make me feel more ISFJ than INFJ though but the traits mention and behavior of some INFJ also feels similar to my behavior as well. The test I've taken days ago made me dig much more deeper into MBTI and their function. That is probably how I will figure it out. Ever since then I've been researching about it everyday.

[@bethanybouley6679]

Great video, your passion comes out and it is so genuine and refreshing! i always always learn something that blows my mind when i watch. My long time best friend is an ISFJ and i have really learned so much from him, i really respect and admire the self discipline which is at a superhero level, i call him batman because essentially what makes batman a superhero is his insane level of self discipline! He also has taught me how to look at myself honestly, even when it isn't pretty, how to take criticism and use it in a positive way, to challenge myself in ways that have been very hard for me and keep trying and never give up. I also have learned how to speak up for myself because of him, i am not afraid of people not liking me or saying things that might make people uncomfortable anymore. Of course saying something is always a pick your battle situation because if i am going to do or say something i know someone wont like, it is with the knowledge and intent of doing good and going in a positive direction with it and never to just cause harm or hurt someone. Something positive has to come out of it, the intention being to do more good than harm. I do not know where i would be without my ISFJ, as unlikely a pairing as it is, he has had the single most powerful influence on me in my life. I love my ISFJ

[@CSJoseph]

Dope

[@lisaoutinen8692]

Six years into the future I am watching this. I am an INFJ working with children, I do hope I can fulfill my destiny by making them better.

[@johnharrison3001]

Tradition is the corpse of Wisdom. It has to be renewed, given life. 41:00

[@monisune]

Apparently I may be an ISFJ after believing I was INFJ. The thing is, I had some life changing experiences that caused me to change my ISFJ ways, and so it's hard to relate to the ISFJ characteristics now. But when I look at the past, ISFJ is how I was growing up in a very restrictive and sheltered environment. It's extremely hard to live in today's world staying very ISFJ, so I feel like a lot of them think they're INFJ because they've had to grow up and change so much that they don't relate to ISFJ (like me). I'm so glad I had the chance to evolve from how I was and have almost and aversion to the way I was as an ISFJ. But I'm also trying to embrace that as a part of myself and appreciate the journey and where I came from. Does that make sense? What are your thoughts on how early someone can be typed. Can you tell type in childhood?

[@CSJoseph]

use the type grid: csjoseph.life/typegrid

[@lizsanchirico1893]

Boy are you on the mark with the INFJ wanting to give a good experience. This can be very problematic for those who don't understand type. I can't tell you how many times in my life I've had people say to me "Jesus Liz, if you're this insane/possess these crazy standards about how you speak, look, etc, I can only imagine how you feel about everyone else." And I would feel TERRIBLE, and try to no avail to convince them that I only feel this way about myself, & that I probably think more highly of you than you think of yourself (as INFJs love to find & zero in on the unique beauty within everyone). INFJs are FILLED with seeming contradictions like this. Thank you so much for making this channel so that individuals are better able to elucidate these types of things. When I first heard your video on the INFJ, I'm going to be totally honest: I thought you had met a lot of immature INFJs 😂 But then I started thinking about the way I was at 13-16. All types of people go on KZbin, and it IS important to mention these things! I think arguably the biggest/most crucial piece of advice is to REMOVE THE LOSERS FROM YOUR LIFE. Not exactly for the reason you posit Chase (I can be in a room with whomever, for however long & never lose the sense of who I am & what I stand for--this is why I disagree with you about the INFJ vice in the ability to be corrupted, but anyways) but instead because YOU WILL FEEL THE NEED TO TRY TO FIX THEM. Especially if you have a background in psychology, forget it, you're in a great deal of danger lol. When I was obtaining my Master's I met an ENTP with almost boundless intellectual potential, but who was a mess. If I didn't get out of that when I did, it would've been trouble & supremely unfair to the both of us. He needed to get his shit together ON HIS OWN. Please INFJs, I don't care how capable you are: you are not immune. Chase is right--ditch the losers!!👍 **Edit: had no idea how long this was until I posted it, my apologies. TL;DR lose the losers.

[@CSJoseph]

all good

[@xandirkuro4790]

11:10 about wanting(Si) and wanting(Ni) there's a tedtalk "Inside the mind of a master procrastinator" and the presenter said: "You know I always wanted to do a Ted talk. Not actually do one, but be able to say: ' I did a tedtalk, once' " , imo it's a good example of wanting(Si) . Also imo wanting(Ni) is more about 'you know I want to become a *insert profession/social class/anything*' cause they can see/seamlessly see themselves in that situation in the future(like my friend always envisions himself as a person who acheived economic prestige and manipulates the environment(especially himself) to achieve success. I mean for instance I want to check out how good my acting skills are by once playing a person of the opposite gender(yes I know it is an odd want) , which means I want to expierience it once, sl it's more of an (Si) want . Dang just gave off an odd thing, well since it's a social moratorium idc.

[@teddysshow4302]

I’m curious what it’s like to parent your INFJ son. Please make a video just focusing on talking about that sometime. My type is INFJ and ironically my son is ENTP. And my dad is ESTP. We would have some awesome conversations! lol

[@ArethusaSpake]

Yes! I would really be interested in hearing about this, too.

[@sandradibiaso7316]

I have an ESTP mom. She is very self-absorbed, doesn't like to talk about things that don't concern her, doesn't like emotional conversations, hates schedules, loves to have fun, only likes to do activities she enjoys, likes mean sarcastic jokes, can be cruel while laughing and is a terrible listener. The good side of her is wanting to help those less fortunate and her family because it is the right thing to do. I would rather have an ISFJ mom or an INFJ mom.

[@katierenae4848]

My mom is a ISFJ too! She's amazing and caring and is very duty based in fact I don't hardly remember her doing things for her or because she wanted too, but because it was a commitment she made and felt obligated too, which I don't understand as a INFJ bc I HATE being told what I should do or need to do, usually say in response "technically I don't HAVE to do anything" lol because it's all about choice to me and what my heart gut etc are passionate about and I will laser beam hyper focus on it and always have a personal meaning to what it is I'm doing. having a isfj mom was amazing though they are absolutely beautiful souls, just don't do them dirty or they are capable of going to great lengths to get their justice on you lol. Thank you Chase!

[@AnneChandreamer]

Thanks so much for this detailed, informative and entertaining video! I’m an Infj who’s turning 42 but only found this out some 3 years ago. I find myself quite like an Isfj too - the need for cleanliness, justice, aesthetics... It’s really interesting what you said about Isfjs being afraid that people won’t want to come back for them and the Infjs having performance anxiety! How did you process and conclude that?

[@kejewa]

Hi Chase's mom!

[@Coneman3]

I always feel that Sensors can’t see a lot of what goes on in life. It probably also explains why they mostly aren’t interested in understanding personality typing.

[@Coneman3]

I think this video explains why I fell out with my ISFJ friend years ago. I kind of knew why, but this nails it really well. It was their idea of justice versus my idea of doing what works or is really important.

[@kj1227icecap]

Wait, were you flirting with Infj females throughout this video 😳

[@SnoozeTheRecluse]

22:41 I just ended a relationship because I couldn't spend quality time with my partner. I am in disbelief of your knowledge.

[@emmadaily8052]

I can’t remember which podcast of yours I heard this theory in but I’ll just use this related video to comment about it. The theory about parents liking the child that reflects their subconscious/who they (the parents) want to become themselves is scarily accurate. I need to do more people watching to totally confirm the theory for myself but I know an ISFJ mother that obviously favors her ENTP son and it’s mind-blowing that there’s that tangible of a connection/reason that she favors him over the other two, even her ISFJ daughter. Also, this ENTP guy has a similar fashion style, haircut, and facial expressions when compared to yours? Creepy connections.

[@angieauth1354]

This is an awesome video. As an INFJ with an ISFJ roommate this was interesting to watch, but what's even funnier is I learned something new about me and how I am in relationships. The most profound relationships I have had so far in life were with ENTPs, ENFPs, and ESTJs (this one always surprises people, but after watching your compatibility video I know it won't be a surpise to you lol). All Si users. Outsiders looking in on these relationships used to say things similar to "You're the one always going out of your way to please them, care for their needs, inspire and encourage them, but what do they do for you?". Honestly, they gave me everything I ever wanted just through that recognition. The ENTP and ENFP constantly reminded me how at ease they felt around me, how I grounded them, how they felt like they had someone who truly understood them and that lit me up 1000x more than a bouquet of flowers ever would. They really did keep track of all the little things I easily forgot about and were able to pull them out in milliseconds on even the darkest of days. Mmmm. Love me some Ne-Si users!

[@CSJoseph]

I wish more people appreciated us NPs.

[@tempest-tom9180]

Very interesting. I used to think i was an infj after a test. Turns out i'm an istp. Your insight helped alot to figure out my type.

[@CSJoseph]

I am thankful for this

[@haroldbaluyottan]

20:25 closing in to strike 20:37 landed the killing blow

[@varshas9652]

I need an isfj friend

[@stevedavenport1202]

Everybody needs an ISFJ friend. They are fantastic.

[@bangpleecement5782]

I listen to you at 0.75 speed. It's perfect.

[@arkman2237]

its truly amazing how good of a memory isfjs have, my grandmother who is 85 stills remember things from the time she was 3 to 4 years old, heck she keeps in check, reminding me everything, is useful though cause im pretty forgetful myself

[@cookiediangelo8511]

His mommy watches his KZbin channel:) That's precious.

[@Wizardesss]

When you talk about infjs you sound like you're parenting your son who I know is infj.... Would you talk to your old mentor the same way? -infj

[@CSJoseph]

I would yes, but in a very respectful way.

[@Candellina]

You can always be respectful and disagree with or correct someone. Infjs can be very open to consider things as long as you're not alienating them for not knowing or believing what you're trying to tell them.

[@Xeweros]

honestly everytime i meet friends friends, they already know a lot about me, while i barely know their name... sometimes it feels like i am a bragging right for my friends, because they think i am that good and they need to tell other people about me... which i would not say so myself. i guess when i desire it i can be good at it or when my Se inferior kicks so i don't disappoint them when they rely on me. Most of the time i am alone, because than i can do what i wanna do. As soon as people are involved i start making compromises... once i asked a bus driver something but i had to repeat myself 3-4 times because my voice was that quiet. Sometimes i think my voice has a normal talking volume when i am annoyed. when i haven't spent any time with some specific people, i start to think they don't like/want me anymore or i gave them a bad experience the last time When i help someone and i dont know if they already checked the obvious, i will ask them if they already checked that. This way at least, doesnt trigger that many people, because it doenst attack their intelligenz :D

[@joshuabreunig8564]

i like the mood of your inflection...not at first. i am a retarded INFJ, that failed English. i only speak English. i joke with the Christians i am around, and say "Thank you for not punching me in the face...they crack up hard. Sad that they don't understand that is really how i feel. i am playing this on loop because my memory is bad. My favorite part is when you come down hard on the INFJ for not loving themselves. THANKYOU.

[@sojourneroftheland]

C.s Joseph: its almost like you are annointed to do this job. You start off a little slow, almost like you arent even sure of what you are talking about. Then bam! All of a sudden, what I would call the Holy Spirit takes over and you speak with conviction and authority! It becomes so enlightening all of a sudden whereas before this happens its more informational (which is still great) thanks for this amazing synopsis.💜😊

[@Jeff_The_Weatherman]

As an INFJ who has an ISFJ "significant other" of several years - I do note the similarities. However, I highlight the differences too - which can be sharp dividing points at times. One obviously might believe that it is just the Ni vs. Si Hero differences, but can the Inferior Ne and Se differences be so significant between the two that they cause just as much division as the Hero functions? Thanks for these videos! I have been watching a good chunk your videos for weeks now, and taking literal handwritten notes, (plan to watch them all). They are all well done, especially with the Type Grid videos. They helped me confirm my type, as well as in others.

[@CSJoseph]

please review the season on social compatibility and season 5.

[@Coneman3]

An ISFJ I knew for a long time had a kind of superior (quietly smug) undergo mentality, constantly suspicious and maybe passive aggressive. Paranoid even. He didn’t get me as an INFJ at all. I thought he had a limited outlook on life.

[@cochi3917]

im an infj, this video made me realize that, literally omg

[@carmenchandler8336]

Im INFJ and my mom is ISFJ. She's always seen me as coldhearted and ive always seen her as petty, but watching this video I have a better understanding not just what makes us similar, but why we are different and in what ways we can both improve our relationship.

[@space935]

You make me want to cry 😭 like I know a lot of ppl mistype as an infj so I’m not 100% sure i am although I relate with all you say about them. I will invest my money to have a chat with you and figure out my true function!

[@ronaldmorillo1867]

I love these videos, even though I'm mostly looking up my own stuff, the infj explanations really make self actualization seem semi possible if I keep learning.

[@CSJoseph]

you are correct sir. Don't give up.

[@polmak1507]

I think the relationship you have with your mother is very sweet

[@CSJoseph]

its getting better

[@ThisUnifiedField]

So much passion! It's appreciated. Great video, as always

[@chaoticorder7481]

LOOL, so much Jesus references!! your mother would love this video!!

[@greg49284]

Can I develop my discipline to a somewhat decent level as an INFJ ? Great videos by the way! Thank You for sharing this!

[@CSJoseph]

you can if you surround yourself by Si users and mirror their discipline.

[@maryann5981]

Love it when you kick my INFJ ass with the harsh truths. Every once in a while I need to reset. Thanks.

[@THEECHIEFMUSICIAN]

I really like this guy, I really appreciate you taking the time out to make this. It all make sense now

[@mtpianohearder]

I think my ENTP Dad gave me the gift of critical thinking through his constant debating and questioning. Zero tolerance here for BS, especially religious BS. (See, I feel your shouting as tough love.) I have a feeling that this isn't typical for INFJ. I am the only INFJ atheist I know, even though I would think Ni -Ti would be decent at riddling out how irrational beliefs are formed.

[@RachelPun]

INFJ agnostic here :) Not sure how I would turn out though if my family was religious.

[@firstnamelastname6071]

I'm an INFJ and I'm agnostic, I know tons of INFJ atheists though. :)

[@space935]

Where are u people finding all these INFJs?

[@girlblogger3524]

I have a comparison request - infj and isfp? they're both artists and strike me as similar - also, isfp is pretty intuitive and uses symbolism in art

[@girlblogger3524]

JayP - that's interesting! Did people think you were siblings because of personality similarities? are you both artists, and if so, are there differences in the interpretation of art?

[@melancholikak6844]

yesssss....i believe unlike most, that most mistyped infj are isfp, I see so many similarities. I am isfp.

[@girlblogger3524]

so interesting! and thank you - I have noticed an ISFPs eye for detail and artistic transformations with landscapes. I typed my brother as ISFP. They capture people's emotions/expressions well also in their art. I noticed they are artistic in their clothing and can turn any material into something to wear if they wanted to. I remember he fashioned a rubber trench coat out of bicycle tires that was so kick-butt matrix style and I have never seen him sew a thing in his life before that. I'm sure your ISFP could have recreated the knots and gnarls! I appreciate their art also. ISFPs can get very symbolic with the meaning of the knots and gnarls though. I don't think I mistyped my brother - he has a very calm demeanor. I have noticed that INFJs online are artists and similar in self expression, which made me curious. Unfortunately, I don't know any INFJs personally. I definitely appreciate the thought provoking metaphors INFJs offer as much as I appreciate an ISFPs art. If I would have seen that knotty and gnarled tree, I would have wondered how it got that way..and probably would have talked to it. haha

[@lupuionut6286]

I think that Frank from the Punisher is a good example of an ISFJ gone berserk.

[@JackieKay11]

Awesome, thanks !!! You’ve helped me clarify my type as was getting mixed results. I love your passion and in depth knowledge. Brilliant job 👍

[@laurainrevison1162]

If you are an INFJ and you have narcissists around you, can you develop ISFJ qualities?

[@CSJoseph]

morel ike narcissitic ones

[@juni260]

i love your videos. my dad is an Infj and I'm an isfj. really good quality video. you know what you're talking about. you rule !!!!!!

[@filipcovran1474]

First time in my life I felt like someone was talking directly to me. Felt a bit scary (in possitive way) :)

[@greenserene2676]

Want to hear some NI HERO survival luck? I was 6 years old and I survived my appendix exploding mid surgery. Took a long time to recover but I did! I also almost died from swine flu, bedridden for a month with no medication to help as I didn't receive my test results until after I got better. I've broken one knee; dislocated the other in my lifetime. Gotten into a car accident where the car rammed right into my driver's side, I was completely fine whereas my car... crushed like a can.

[@riyajacob2909]

Bless you.Fellow Ni❤

[@juliahansen2439]

Thank you for the new grid 👍

[@sandradibiaso7316]

Do you think that singer/musician Josh Groban is an ISFJ or an INFJ?

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

Minute 16 and around, EXACTLY!

[@argent-kestrel90]

A close friend of mine said to me that he believes that I'm an INFJ with overactive Ti and suppressed Fe. His reasoning is that over the years I experienced a lot of trauma and had to "toughen up" and I did. I developed XSTP like tendencies and engaged in the external environment and logic. I often tell hard facts and have little regard to offending people, especially in the Church and I'm very quick to point out logical inconsistencies and moral corruption. Don't get me wrong I'm a follower of Jesus but not the Church. I had a history of feeling worthless and having self-hatred and I neglected my health a lot. I experienced some near death experiences such as heavy metal poisoning and nearly being murdered three times but I got through it. Its like I developed strong armour and it transformed me into a hardened man. I often type as ISTP but after what my friend said I can see his point through the four sides of the mind.

[@joelbedulla4]

*The truth is edgy. I am edgy. Edgy AF*

[@haroldbaluyottan]

And Chase's content is gradually slicing off the shitty parts of myself that grew from a terrible childhood environment; it's enlightening

[@saf1...]

I don't know if I'm an infj isfj or estp .but I do know I try to judge people how my religion says and I can get angry a lot if people don't follow those rules, but also if they don't listen to me after I tell them what they do is wrong after .I've txn times I'll start to copy their bad actions

[@pinklasagna8328]

Now i'm definitely conformed my friend who survived multiple road accidents and can dive like super deep is an infj. And my history teacher who is exposing and criticizing stupidos and hypocrites and people in their vice is an isfj.

[@just_axa]

damn it's really me as an ISFJ, nice content and i've watch your content about ISFJ as well

[@boxy_tocs2035]

Ti child 17:25-18:29 19:00- 22:30-24:03 34:20- Idk verify? 36:50-39:57 Season recommended 37:30-37:40 (Rec) If a man is trying to save his life he will lose it -jesus 38:37-39:57

[@_knitch]

Do you think that fulfilling that tip of the spear role for the INFJ requires a sacrifice in personal health? I'm thinking of Jesus's premature death, Dostoevsky catastrophic life, Dante's exile, Mandela's imprisonment. It seems that the kind of change offered by the INFJ can rarely be welcomed by the world without an initial phase of violent rejection.

[@CSJoseph]

No I do not. And personal health doesn't seem to have anything to do with some of the names you mentioned as they were killed or imprisoned by other men.

[@_knitch]

You're right, personal health isn't the best term, let me rephrase: do INFJs tend to attract hostile reactions towards them on their path to fulfil their vision? Or are the examples I gave dependant on historical circumstances rather than the INFJ's modus operandus itself?

[@ptb4049]

Powerful word young man 😎 I appreciate you.

[@MariaGarcia-cy2jv]

I have a question. I am an INFJ and I been coming up with this theory that there are different levels/maturity of an INFJ. Could this be possible? Because a lot of the traits you say I remember having those thoughts and I learned to over come them.

[@LilacSnowBun]

Yes, there are different maturity levels represented in all types. So, sharing your experiences and how you overcame challenges can be helpful to younger or less mature INFJs. ☺️

[@A.J.Breadman]

Firstly I am a Christ follower, and think it is funny how your mother worrys about how you dont talk about God. I have been watching this channel since it was around 3,000 subscriber's and dont really agree with that. In realty (or at least what I think from studying the Bible) much of what you teach parallels with with the Bible extreamly well, if you look in to what the it really is saying. Season 13 for example shares a lot of ideals with the bible, for example how you described the sacred genders is exactly how the book of Genesis teaches it. This is channel is awesome keep it up.

[@CSJoseph]

yep, definitely copy/pasting this to my mother

[@BunniLovePickle]

Asher Foskey It's funny you bring that up. There's a preacher who uses the enneagram if you're interested. I can't remember his name but it should be easy to find his videos on youtube if you search enneagram bible or God or something.

[@jasminemariedarling]

Have you written any books? Will you write an INFJ manual for self development? I would buy that immediately.

[@CSJoseph]

yes

[@elisabethw9189]

Dear C.S. Josephs mother! If people can learn how to understand each other better - isn`t that a like bringing heaven a little bit closer down to earth? At least it could potentially mean a huge step in the direction of a more peaceful co existence on this planet.. :) - Infj

[@SJaye-zv9er]

Tradition is a way to pass on wisdom? My mind is blown.

[@CSJoseph]

Tradition is the corpse of wisdom

[@thereaIitsybitsyspider]

@@CSJoseph I am saving that quote into my database. So powerful.

[@henkster6067]

If INFJ chart the course, what in the world does the ENFP do? Lol because most times I just want to better others... Could be ENFP virtue . But I relate more to INFJ.

[@CSJoseph]

ENFPs are starters, please watch the ENFP playlist

[@sandradibiaso7316]

Sandy from Grease is an ISFJ who taps into her ESFP shadow and ENTP subconscious when she becomes the sexy blonde bombshell. "Tell me about it, stud."

[@delinquenz46]

First time tuning in on your channel and I'm still not sure what to think about it, although I really enjoyed it. Your temperament is quite intense :D

[@david_oliveira71]

I have a question for you: Would it be possible to come to Quora and teach that stuff there too?

[@CSJoseph]

How do I go about doing that? email me at [e-mail]

[@david_oliveira71]

@@CSJoseph Easy, you simple click on that link, and then create an account and answer questions for people(It's an answer-question-forum): www.quora.com/ No need to explain more I hope. If you aren't sure, just take a look at this topic: www.quora.com/topic/INFJ-MBTI-Personality-Type There you can see how much only the INFJ topic follow and also questions, other related topics and people answering questions to that topic! Hope I'll see you there soon, would be SOO great for reaching more people with your insightful and amazing insights!

[@boxy_tocs2035]

Season recommended watching 33:20-33:52

[@oliviahsu5389]

could you do a video about INFJ ENTP mentor ship/ relationships?

[@verntoews6937]

INFJ is melancholy dominant and sanguine secondary ISFJ is also melancholy dominant with choleric as secondary Me INFJ specifically Melancholy 40% Sanguine 30% Choleric. 20% Phlegmatic 10% My choleric as 3rd would make me INFJA My ISFJ buddy Melancholy 40% Choleric. 30% Sanguine. 20% Phlegmatic 10% With choleric as secondary ,my friend is more disciplined than I He also had a sergeant shirt

[@CuddleClaw.]

Oh yeh, I do that, I put it all on the line and let what will happen, happen. -ISTP

[@kj1227icecap]

Why are you going in on me...😭😂 Infj

[@grumpyschnauzer]

A 40- year old cop with a resolved sex and pain killer addiction who became a born again Christian challenged me on my beliefs in God when I was 15. He didn’t like what I was saying and responded with “Women like you burn down churches.” He didn’t like looking in the mirror but I was a kid and didn’t know it would rub him the wrong way. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I like when people come back to me and apologize with “You were right.” I’d be lying if I said I didn’t take pleasure in it.

[@dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha9871]

I think most intuitives say to the INxJs. You have the free will to grab your inner power and go do amazing things to prove to S types we intuitives have something new to offer , in a practical approach so go on do it .

[@dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha9871]

For 30 years no one has been able to change my intention and intent about my future , and now everyday of my life is a living proof that has been the right choice for me all along. And they admitted it , happily.

[@dr.hebagadallahclinicalpha9871]

Me doing what you are saying during this video for years was helpful. I'd advise INFJs to listen to you . Me being direct bad ass about my beliefs who loves herself in a healthy way made me lost only the jerks, and good folks are coming around.