Do Military Couples See Their Relationship the Same Way? | Side x Side | Cut

[@pra5hii1]

“Don’t choose the money, don’t choose none of that. Choose the person you like” bro’s a keeper!

[@khalilahd.]

Came out the gate with wisdom!! I love it ❤

[@A1_Amir]

He’s got sum balls of steel to 1. enlist in a career that could potentially fuck ur mind 2. give a whole hearted trust in someone they think won’t cheat 3. number 2

[@kevscomet]

99% of women do not want to be broke

[@MrLechop]

If it's not about money why not just have a regular civilian role?

[@maryjane104]

@@MrLechop beliefs, morals, family tradition many reasons

[@commanderkeen3787]

He's right, she is awesome. She has a really positive vibe about her

[@khalilahd.]

Couldn’t agree more. She’s a keeper ❤

[@haileyjohnson7787]

agreed!!!

[@bellaflelona1614]

"She didn't think it was that much." "She ain't supposed to." That's so sweet of him to not want her to worry. 5:03

[@Emily-ln5ko]

But then she gonna watch the video and know…

[@jaydenbrock1834]

@@Emily-ln5ko i think he knew dat… but they already passed that hurdle…. Need more of a pause..

[@sosopeople9157]

I would have an issue with not knowing.

[@Sourpatchk1dz]

him saying that was the funniest thing lol

[@lifoxe]

The cutest couple ever

[@LevTri]

The way the guy in the white T-shirt hesitated makes me think he def cheated 😂

[@elizabethcartagena2300]

Fr, same.

[@raen3313]

Looked for this comment cause same

[@novembergold4144]

Someone mentioned that some editing had been done there. The hesitation was just edited in. Which is actually kind of messed up that Cut does that...

[@gbug5207]

I think they edited it to make it seem like he hesitated

[@MykkiOnTheCusp]

I'd probably have a brain fuzz moment if someone asked me point blank if I cheated while having a camera in my face.

[@courtneymichelle5746]

“She’s not supposed to” 😭 The way he hid how much he lost so she wouldn’t freak out

[@KombatW0mbat]

Sheet once she watches this she’ll know 😂😂

[@courtneymichelle5746]

@Electroencefalografista no its not lmao. He didn’t tell her how much money was stolen obviously because he didn’t want her to be concerned/worried. That’s quite the opposite of a red flag

[@courtneymichelle5746]

@Electroencefalografista Not everything is a red flag. He had money stolen from him, he didn’t lose it willingly. Relationships are not one size fits all, you might see it as an issue, but i know i’d do the same and so would my fiancé. A red flag would be him gambling our savings away and not saying anything. A red flag is NOT telling me he’s fine in a situation when he isn’t because he doesn’t want me to worry about him. If we go out to a restaurant and our order is wrong saying “im fine don’t say anything” to your partner doesn’t make you toxic lmao. You just don’t want them to worry about you. There’s literally nothing wrong with that. She knew the situation. She believed he had $300 taken. Truth is he had way more. It was STOLEN. Chances are if she knew the amount, she’d be extremely worried for him and he didn’t want his s/o to be concerned and sad. Its caring for her feelings. Its not malicious not toxic. Just because society tells us that everything is a red flag nowadays doesn’t mean we have to listen. Just because someone in a relationship does something you wouldn’t doesn’t mean you have yo be okay with it. We’re all different. But judging by his tone and the wink he did it because he cares. If my fiancé wasn’t the same type of person I wouldn’t be with him because that’s how our relationship works. Relationships are about setting personal boundaries for you.

[@arjunarun3033]

@Electroencefalografista yk maybe this is why you'll never be in a happy relationship

[@paolatrevisiol2010]

Romeo and Marianne have already been in some videos, and I've always considered them a lovely and loving couple with a lot of comprehension and connection between them. Seeing this and discovering this side of their relationship and the support they give each other is touching, honestly. I wish them and the other couples the best.

[@BSGSV]

Blaine: "Have you cheated?" Sexy dude: "......................no"

[@yoooitscarmie905]

I thought I was the only one who noticed that lmao. His body language said it all. 😂😂😂

[@Cayela]

He definitely did lol poor girl

[@kaitlynbui8834]

I thought no one noticed that;I was wondering why he took a while to answer 😭

[@dannym.1930]

I couldn't tell if it was just the editing. But yeah, he waited too long to respond either way.

[@when_life_gives_you_limes]

dude definitely cheated, his eyes gave him away.

[@AKbaby89]

I have PTSD and wakeup screaming and crying, and my partner is amazing about it, he always wakes me up and holds me and makes me feel comfortable, and ngl I teared up when the wife was talking about what she needs to do to be there for her husband when he's having night terrors. It's so nice to have someone who just wants to help you. ❤️

[@DA-js7xz]

Seek therapy. Putting that shit on your partner will make them resent you over time.

[@Breadystickle]

@Clarke April 100% agree, good partners are there to support you through your worse moments. If you're lucky enough to have someone by your side like that, it's not out of pity and certainly not out of resentment, It's out of love and care for the person they're with. And its mutual

[@haiIeyy]

@@DA-js7xz Where did she say she's not in therapy? You know nothing about her or her relationship. It's not your place to assume, not to mention how you stated it as fact.

[@helgaioannidis9365]

My grandfather had it, too. My grandmother would comfort him. They usually never talked about it, just once my grandmother mentioned how every night he would have horrible dreams and think he's in Russia again and scream and cry and she'd have to talk softly to him and hold his hand and make him understand that he's safe now. They got married during WWII while he was stationed in Russia and they were married for the rest of their lives. He died after 60 years of marriage.

[@sw8547]

@@DA-js7xzthat is so not true. They’re are not putting a burden on their partner by having uncontrollable night terrors…..

[@lovelight8722]

Would have been nice to see the perspective of a couple where the woman is the one in the military. Anyways, love your work Cut, you guy’s videos are always so informative ❤

[@khalilahd.]

Yes! I agree but this was nice

[@DevoutLikestoCreate]

Seriously! That's what I was really hoping for. The women almost never get their stories told like this. :(

[@Findinglelo]

I agree! I was hoping to see that perspective as I’m active duty while my husband is a civilian.

[@DA-js7xz]

Or not supporting imperialism at all...

[@Stella-cf4cl]

@@DA-js7xz that’s a very narrow and naive view. I’m very liberal but realistically there are benefits to the US having a military. Yapping about imperialism is such a Twitter take

[@heavenlyhashbrown1]

I had absolutely no clue about the high rates of identity theft, fraud, cyber crime, etc. among military personnel. I need to read into this!!

[@Allexz]

The whole video is a sponsored ad

[@Pedant_Patrol]

read up on this*

[@reemz9210]

@@Allexz for sure, but the stats are still true

[@alexryberg5946]

@@reemz9210 all right! Got a factual link to share?

[@librababe88]

The guy who paused before answering the cheating question 🤨

[@Honeydoyou]

His body language was loud

[@ivanalikesplants]

It was edited

[@ChanelFDSays123]

I miss when these videos didn’t have sponsored questions at that end. It throws off the vibe

[@althn]

i LOVE the young black couple. they both seem so sweet and genuine and just good

[@pizzapiepizza]

1:53 why did he have to think about that?🤨

[@whome7498]

Cause he was lying, his body language gave it away BAD

[@df-nk6gd]

Thank you! Man i thought i was the only one who noticed...looking up and down cmmts didnt see anyone else catch it. I am a MIL spouse so this vid hit hard for other reasons. My husbandhas served 17yrs, but in sept and oct of this year we experienced some very damaging trauma mh wise due to cyber bullying. And it went further than cyber bullying, this complete stranger called his unit and filed false allegations on him. Why? Because they were a toxic person and he ended their online friendship. That's it. His investigation was intense, OSI ran it. We knew he was innocent but the WAITING, it just ate him up. He became a shell of himself, things got very bad. At his base if they find out you visit a mh professional you'll be put on desk duty and do not arm. It totally isolated him from everyone. So i supported him any way I could and called in the calvary of friends. The day he was cleared we just held each other and cried for hours. That evil individual messed with our entire family! She doxxed the front of our home, our parents homes, my adult kids phone numbers. And so so much more. She's still lying about it on social media claiming she got him fired and other untruths. And even though he was innocent this just damaged his career. We may civilly sue her. But anyways I knew immediately he lied. He has.

[@klacier5111]

I thought the sameeeeee thing!!! 😅 that was a lie

[@nathanthomas8096]

He took more than 2 seconds

[@whome7498]

Stuff like this makes me sad though man like yo if you gonna cheat just leave.....that has to be the worst fucking feeling

[@folusoatanda2393]

“you want her” 😭

[@C116-b1z]

1:53 Bro definitely cheated

[@GinsengHoney_]

Lol he definitely has, at least a couple times.

[@notbadsince97]

That’s suspicious, that’s weird

[@AmericanBoy1118]

They cut the scene too so you know there's more to it

[@melaninmonroeeee]

And he has her so fooled by her response😕. Terrible smh

[@hiphopanonimous7136]

Not funny haha, funny weird 🤪

[@40dizz]

They all seem like such amazing people. ❤️ Being in the military can take a huge toll on a person so it's important to always have good support systems and understanding partners so shout out to all of them.

[@PapaPerk360]

Dude in the black hoodie has a unique essence about him.

[@elizabethcartagena2300]

I know, hard not to love the guy

[@Djoee05]

I was looking for this comment, he’s so funny and wholesome

[@StudentDoctor94]

1:54 The editor was slick with the delay. Almost me in the first half lol

[@Honeydoyou]

It’s the body language though

[@lianadotjpeg]

@@Honeydoyou Body language and the muted tone of voice. Excessive blinking. He likely cheated.

[@hariyoclicks]

so wholesome to see Marianne and Romeo here🥺🤍

[@samflynn97]

1:53 there's a lot of yes in that answer

[@troddenleper8915]

Being in the army is hard. Having a partner in the military is also nerve wracking. I wish the best for these people. To the guy with ptsd, I’m glad he could find comfort and solace with his partner. I hope he also undergoes therapy because it really helps.

[@daniellegoodhart1785]

When she said she is a representation of him , I felt that because folks in the military be so nosy it’s annoying

[@SolAndNat]

DONT END WITH AN AD IT COMPLETELY DESTROYS THE REALITY

[@Datingwithchris]

Dude In the white shirt has cheated 😂

[@AshleyJenkinsss]

Definitely cheated 😂😂

[@SaharaColeman]

The girl need to leave ya boi with the white shirt on. He’s saying one thing but his body language says another. Her friends can see what she can’t or don’t want to. Lmfao that one dude really said “you want her 👀?” 🤣

[@seankale5116]

my biggest ref flag with someone that served in any of that is the possible anger issues/being dangerously aggressive and the as someone said ware and tear that happened/happens.

[@imalwayspanicking]

1:53 this part...I dunno the hesitation tho

[@RextheRebel]

These people were extremely mature and understood the responsibilities that come with not only being in a relationship, but being in a relationship with a soldier. Honestly gives me hope for the future cause I didn't think there were people like this anymore. That blaque girl for instance, she is precisely the kind of positive influence wmen in this society need to respect. She is a guiding light. God bless her and her man.

[@kgalzthothela]

"She's mine"👁👁

[@thepinkcassowary2295]

That Channing Tatum/Colin Hanks hybrid dude definitely 100% cheated lol absolutely not faithful

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

Channing Tatum and Colin Hanks hybrid? Lmao he only looks like Colin Hanks to me.

[@edithputhy4948]

and I don't blame him either

[@smiley3239]

@@edithputhy4948 trash

[@youreapunkishthing9438]

@@edithputhy4948 i blame him 🥰

[@edithputhy4948]

@@youreapunkishthing9438 I mean he could do a lot better just sayin

[@TheHairiestPotter]

In my experience, it's not that military guys cheat it's that some of them are genuinely fucking crazy lol. Like the type of crazy that needs a restraining order. Almost every single guy I've dated that's in the military talks seriously about marriage, moving in together, kids, etc after two dates and they become super obsessive/clingy. For some people that's not a bad thing, but for a 20 year old girl who is just wanting to enjoy life first and get to know the person it's weird and off putting.

[@xxarianahiltonxx5116]

It's the same with cops. I will never date anyone in these fields. I'm not saying there aren't good people in those jobs, but I'm not taking anymore chances.

[@goldc4859]

uhm how about don’t date military men then if you know what THEY want.. sounds like you’re looking for the trouble

[@marissacoleman4947]

See I live not too far from Ft. Knox so when I used to use dating apps I would ALWAYS match with the “hump everything that walks” or “has a wife at home” kind of military guys. It would’ve been nice to meet a guy who was serious 🥲

[@TheHairiestPotter]

@@goldc4859 I don't anymore lol. Being in the military is a huge red flag and an instant nope from me and if you think taking it slow=looking for trouble your just as delusional as they are. Go touch some grass.

[@TheHairiestPotter]

@@marissacoleman4947 I've matched with a couple of those too, but majority where I am located want everything all at once. No good relationship is built within 3 months of knowing someone let alone a marriage and family. It seems like you either get the fuck boys or the obsessive married at first sight type of guys when it comes to the military, no in between.

[@J.LS.]

That pause said everything

[@Honeydoyou]

The look to the left, the body language as a whole, definitely.

[@Iexpedite1]

I married my wife before I moved to my first duty station. I never had to worry about her. I got a call from one of my people. His wife wasn’t answering his calls and he wanted me to go by his house. His truck was out front with expired temp tags. He had bought it prior to leaving. His house was a mess and most of his furniture was missing. She had packed up the kids and left. He had no idea they were having problems. When he came home they tried to work it out. One of the sticking points was the $25K missing from their account. She claimed to not know what happened to it. She spent it, but didn’t know where. Not being able to trust your spouse when you are away is the worst situation to be in. You can’t focus on the mission and its hard to function.

[@andriafernando9624]

This video is really nice! Full of some normal healthy couples...made me smile

[@JB-rp2ej]

I thought the interviews and people were great, but really didn't like how the ad was just slipped in there. Kind of felt like Cut had set people up to feel vulnerable about something then use that vulnerability to promote a product. If Cut had mentioned Aura at the beginning of the video, I would have been fine. But adding it in at the end felt a bit gross to me.

[@ppp285]

Completely agree. It was tacky and exploitative to slip it in at the end. To capitalize off trauma, that's another level of messed up.

[@JB-rp2ej]

@@ppp285 yeah, certainly felt that way to me.

[@xy4195]

Thanks! Ain't alone to think that too

[@234madePromise]

The producer with the old “you got a good one” 👀 what you mean by that bro

[@dandv428]

I enjoy seeing individual people talk about their significant other o someone in o around their life then see them in a video with that person seeing it come full circle.

[@TheCrazedEB]

Kinda wish this was asked both ways. Not just from the soldier side, cheating at home lines is also an issue in question. Also would've been nice to include women soldiers

[@sophiaisabelle027]

It’s interesting to hear their perspectives. Seems like they have a lot to share in terms of their overall experiences. Being in the military means that you’re pretty much willing to give your all no matter what.

[@daniellegoodhart1785]

My husband and I were dual active duty and that shit sucked I was active a little longer than he was but honestly the military made it that much harder for us especially after we started a family

[@DevoutLikestoCreate]

now THIS is a story that should be told on KZbin more often!!!

[@angelmushahf]

Would love to hear more. Did you meet in the military? How hard was it to land the same duty station?

[@daniellegoodhart1785]

@@angelmushahf yeah we met at the same duty station but he was gone a lot. Don’t get me start on the struggles of raising a baby

[@hugoprice44]

I wanna see a couple where the woman is in the military or both partners are in the military

[@sinae.5240]

with some couples i always think they are sitting next to each other because the answers match so perfectly!

[@kiuhraa]

“Y-y-y-yyou want her?🤨”

[@BlueTJLP]

You really fit in a half-hearted product placement there at the end. I think it's a bit much if you make the participants part of the ad section. That's not really cool

[@Kyle-vp2dk]

the soft "no I haven't" paired with the side eye makes me think otherwise...

[@smiley3239]

Don't be TOO trusting girl!!! you'll never know for sure

[@itsnotjazelle5646]

I’m back home and he’s in another state in the coast guard. I miss him and the closeness but I’m so thankful for how much we talk and stay connect 🥺

[@rais14]

when you realize too late this whole video was a sponsorship.

[@jessibache9207]

bro definitely cheated

[@coldweatherchristy5592]

Its so cute to see them all on the same page 🥹

[@mikebrandon8545]

I don’t believe that one guy who said he never cheated he had to think about it

[@Honeydoyou]

Looking to the left is a dead give away someone’s lying too

[@OKBoomer2k]

Look at how they edited it though. They added in the pause.

[@Quantum2142]

Wow that was a Really Smooth Commercial😂

[@PeopleTheseDays373]

Happy Veterans Day to all the vets and to all that are still in the military 🪖

[@DA-js7xz]

Fuck imperialism

[@merpythings572]

I’m in the Army, and the longest Ive been away from my wife is 7 months. I’m doing officer training, so I know there will be a deployment in the near future. It destroys my wife and I hate being away from her, but i love serving and I love helping others (I’m a combat medic)

[@jo_vonn_]

Fuckin Hoaah sir from hope your ocs goes well im myself deploying for a year to Poland so good luck with everything

[@merpythings572]

@@jo_vonn_ Thank you. There’s a lot of units deploying to Poland, good luck to you as well. Stay safe out there and spend as much time as possible with your family

[@malla4868]

You don't love your wife if you're doing something that's going to "destroy her". Just divorce, you're selfish af for getting married when you want to take on a job that makes marriage impossible.

[@jo_vonn_]

@@malla4868 you have no idea what you are talking about. If a woman decides to marry a man in the service she acknowledges the fact that he is going to be a very busy man. Someone important. It’s not easy being married and in the military whether you are a man or a woman both should acknowledge that fact. It’s not selfish to want to help people in the world especially ungrateful people. But that’s why we are that 1% in America that serves because we see the opportunities, and the military can help you in many ways whether it’s money education or a way of life and it has helped me in all those ways.

[@sponglish4903]

@@jo_vonn_ oh that`s my country goodluck

[@amb7177]

homie looked away paused for a second like he had to think about if he cheated or not. SUS

[@faith310]

Guy in white tee definitely lied about cheating 😂

[@melanierafael1745]

The fact that he hesitated and really think about if he cheated AND his lack of certainty in his no............whatever floats your boat

[@chelseawhite7117]

Cut, you had to go and turn it into one big ad at the end 😕

[@arachnidfingers]

the sponsored questions really take away from these episodes 😒

[@ikanc7516]

Lol, this was just an ad for Aura.

[@agr0nianTV]

Good vid, but too short. Would have also been nice to see a dual military couple.

[@ajcrowIey]

3:00 did she say he 'failed two stories?' what does that mean? i'm quite confused

[@AxolotlFrieze]

Fell two floors (28 feet), as in storey the imperial measurement (14 feet).

[@ajcrowIey]

@@AxolotlFrieze ohh that makes so much more sense lol, thank you

[@grey7153]

2:03 his body language says different lol

[@Kyle-vp2dk]

I've never even considered the perspective of someone in this type of relationship...Thanks Cut!

[@Littlemilkdud]

1:54 if he has to think about it…💀

[@sydneyendsley8609]

The way the guy in the white shirt looked to the left and hesitated before answering… poor girl. Definitely a cheater

[@kararoxon6098]

I’ve been in a relationship for almost five years with my boyfriend he’s in the military(army) and he’s an amazing man he’s told people I’m final and the one, and this was a good video to watch made me smile

[@gumdrop1533]

“She’s really awesome” “you want her 🧐🧐🧐”

[@cherri_tsuuuu]

2:04 the white shirt guy looked to the left before answering "no".... ppl look to the left when they lie so he defo cheating 😂

[@EricsABC]

nobody would never stop loveling a lovely person and maybe yes what strange question

[@AshleyJenkinsss]

Did he really fall 😩👀 he looked like he don't remember falling 😂

[@Marco-hb3ge]

This is NOT the right video to do a sponsor

[@C3SIL3Y]

I'm a Navy Vet and the first time my identity was stolen was while I was serving back like 2014, and the Gov't was hacked. The Navy was the reason my ish was stolen..haha.

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

He definitely cheated. He got that psycho look in his eyes and had that "I can lie without sweating"-gaze, LOOL

[@dannym.1930]

Wish we would have heard more from the 6 month couple.

[@karolina2293]

Is this guy In white shirt saying truth about “no cheating” ? - no sure about that vibe …

[@jonathanmuteba7279]

Did I just watch a 6 minute ad??

[@aesth1cc]

Was this just an ad

[@uncal4446]

Love this episode

[@redsippy02]

Thank you all for your service

[@Jake-be9ji]

The most replayed part lmao of course

[@emanuelelston8652]

I fell in love with a ARMY MP 🥰

[@evennotodd]

I know this is sponsored but it's true about fraudsters targeting military folks. My dad was deployed to South Korea and trusted a financer with his car. The guy ripped the family off and it severely overwhelmed my mom. He had to return to the U.S. to get this solved

[@l_raage1663]

This is so true, I did an architecture project of a veteran home inspired by Vietnam vet grandfather, and I got so much negativity from my peers, my grandfather spent 11 years in the vet Congs’ prison until he was released from the help of American vets, vets get such a bad rep these days and my grandfather isn’t violent either and he doesn’t even own a gun

[@hopethebabes]

Don’t believe the first man as far as you can throw him

[@unchartedstorm4755]

Damn, they really just chose all the dependappotamous’

[@IrishCat04]

"have you cheated?"....mad hesitation, care to explain?

[@angelmushahf]

Ppl in the military do cheat A LOT, but military spouses (civilian spouses) cheat A LOT as well. Military spouses are particularly cruel when they cheat while their loved one is on a deployment

[@rottytherottski522]

This is very true, I lost a friend when his love left him while he was deployed on the other side of the world, it just broke his heart. People wonder why military guys can be 'clingy' when cheating in general is something I've seen dozens of times from spouses. Not that the guys don't do it as well but I've seen it more from the civilian side and the pain has always been really bad.

[@jabbaweezy]

1:52 Isn't that a sign someone is lying?

[@mrkentusmc]

As having been a Marine, the detriment on the human body can be the worst, that said I wouldn't trade the experience for anything!

[@ilhuicatlamatini]

I thinks it’s interesting how some ppl perceive the one guys hiding the financial loss from his partner as sweet. To me it’s an automatic red flag to not be honest 😬.

[@loiteringrambler1268]

3:03 i dont want to be an ass but excercise is the best thing for your body even if it might hurt in the beginning. Also diet is more important for losing weight. And i know many people who are in pain every day but they still work out multiple times a week.

[@noh3987]

Baby girl… rethink that plan to marry him.

[@hellogiygas]

"Have you cheated?" white shirt dude CHEATED lmaooo get outta there girl

[@elizabethcartagena2300]

The guy in the white shirt... I feel like he has actually cheated. His body language shifted a bit and his eyes darted to the left when he was asked the question... Idk...

[@m1903rotc]

LOL watch that buff army dude lie about cheating on his girl with f****** hilarious. 🤣

[@autumnlove8870]

Man I can't do this today

[@tashachapman7872]

Crazy, I’m married, and my husband is active duty Army, and I have never had anyone judge me for being married to him. 😂 and the chick with mom who was passed around in the Navy, well duh ofc she wouldn’t want that for her daughter. 😂😂☠️ the cheating part, many military men cheat, but even men who ain’t in the military cheat.

[@mariabonifacio8017]

Bruh thought for a second🤨