Asking For Advice Is Keeping You Unsuccessful (Here's Why)

[@JohnBradydoesstuff]

I just want to say thank you. You’ve been the final piece that has really allowed me to connect the dots for 40 years of looking. It’s incredibly useful. Thank you.

[@calculatormaster]

​@Chat__upDankoe_shut up scammer get real job report this scammer

[@alanikeiser]

I’m so glad I saw this… I have been asking advice on my music for years and finally feel like no one really knows, I just need to take action. These steps are so practical. Thanks

[@ZonymaUnltd.]

I am loving the new overlay-text style while you talk, it helps with absorption and note taking, great touch!

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

Success requires focus. Focus requires sacrifice. Sacrifice requires value. Value requires scarcity. Scarcity requires perception of pain. Perception of pain requires both a physical and psychological trigger. Physiological triggers are dictated by our biological needs. Psychological triggers are dictated by our cultures, religions, self beliefs, friends, family, relationships, … Relationships or the lack thereof form a critical pillar for domino effect of the above mentioned requirements for our sense of success and happiness in life. It’s so much about good relationships ❤ which is so much of what is missing in people’s lives.

[@JoePAcalaughs]

That last paragraph or 2 just gutted me. Thanks. Makes sense now.

[@lmz000]

I think that might be true for neurotypicals. I went most of my life as a neurodivergent without diagnose coming from a toxic family... hearing and listening is amped up, things quickly make my brain and senses overwhelmed. I also don't "get" those social unwritten rules easily. Hustling, "going" out and making my own way... I'm already tore apart from numerous tries. I really do not aspire to be millionaire and have a successful business but it seems there's no other way of having little peace. I want the peace to live with my child, eat well, work enough without hustling and that's it until I recover from severe anxiety "trying" things for myself over decades brought me. I can't enlighten myself through my erros and people say I`m not trying enough or victimizing. Very hard to find balance enough for me to have one full day at peace. I do agree with most of your content and really appreciate your teachings. The only thing I disagree is that I need to see people doing to understand and doing by myself can only go so far.

[@wildeevolution]

I’m so sorry. I know from experience how painful it is to live with anxiety every day of your life. 😢

[@jfridayhealth]

Yes he doesn't address disability. I autistic. I have to do these things interdependently. But because of trauma, it's been a whole process over six years just to make the friends to do this together Dan + interdependence is the transition to a creative sharing economy and an egalitarian world

[@jameezybreezy9030]

Look up trauma release exercises and “Letting go” by David Hawkins

[@wandererrrrrr]

I've read this in the newsletter and it sounds completely different in a good way to hear it directly from you ❤ following you from Libya 🇱🇾

[@Denmosocial]

KZbin is filled with idiots who will never take action and keep asking silly questions like this. But they also pay the bills and are the reason we get views. Gotta love em

[@huntsail3727]

Great beginning! Love it when I see someone model their own recommendations. Like a preacher who lives the Gospel, rather than simply preaching it. What you see in action, is powerful. Great job.

[@calculatormaster]

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[@michaelsanislo3345]

Dan, you consistently put out content that challenges us to look at a problem or goal from a different perspective. I like that your delivery of information is often so straightforward in tone and almost emotionless that as a listener, I don't feel as though I'm being sold something. It's like you're so confident that what you are saying is true that a person would almost be a fool not to apply it. It's a refreshing approach in the self-improvement space, and I'm sure others feel the same way.

[@davidschlais]

PREACH! Business owners solve PROBLEMS. How can you solve them for someone else if you are at a standstill looking for the steps on how to form an LLC..

[@sosaeholor]

😂😂facts

[@chrisignacio1791]

Dan Koe’s No BS Direct Advice is Well Received & Appreciated ❤

[@matuskrajnak9785]

this video is of the utmost quality deserving a comment... the longer someone neglects their future with meaningless tasks like games the more pressure will slowly accumulate either breaking or bracing the individual and giving them the energy to change...

[@andys8648]

Dan I am passing your KZbin to my nephews . If they start listening to you they will have an edge . Be the adult you wanted to meet as a child . Thank you brilliant content . Only if actioned and I will ❤

[@OlympusLaunch]

Be the adult you wanted to meet as a child is a great concept.

[@swaynxt]

You don't realize how much this can help snap people out

[@arnoldmarcus3634]

Love your intro to this one. It is absurd how much info is out there yet how few people utilize it. You have to put the books down, turn the screens off, and think for yourself eventually.

[@arnoldmarcus3634]

After years of studying personal development I’ve drawn the same conclusions you share here. I’m at a place more advice isn’t that useful to me, I’ve seen enough and just need to take action.

[@jaihind8819]

Thanks bhai... You give valuable information which can be implemented. That's why you are different from other motivational speakers...

[@supremesyb]

“do what you want and get better at doing it thru education and effort”

[@adelguitoun9179]

The time you are "afraid" of wasting on trials and errors is actually an investment. The time you are "confident" of investing in applying other's experiences without shaping yours is a waste. I love all your content ❤

[@Rahul1723_]

🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 🤔 Advice can hinder success; asking vague questions wastes time. 01:28 🎯 Approach goals with conscious intent; form habits aligned with goals. 02:25 🧠 Seek advice when faced with challenges; context matters for advice. 04:21 💪 Change requires identity shift; embrace pain for growth. 05:51 📚 Continuously learn, replace mindless activities with intentional learning. 08:48 🔁 Experiment with techniques; integrate principles for personal success. 12:40 🚀 Forge unique paths, blend knowledge, adapt to evolving environment. 15:32 🌟 Prioritize big picture understanding over technical details. 18:27 🔄 Systemize effective techniques; leverage what brings optimal results. 20:22 💡 Balance actionable advice with understanding the value of "fluff." Made with HARPA AI

[@StormBRNGER]

I agree so much. With social media specially, you see how much of the information out there is really good and helpful, but so little applies to your actual specific situation and moment in time. So, as Dan said, try by yourself. And by trying, by doing, you will get to the obstacles or questions that will direct your learning into something that is a truly and specific problem that you have. Then, you learn

[@Jafear]

My friend this is it!! the best advice. All the other advice that you get from everywhere, and everybody that mean shit. Set your gold and go like your life depend on it 101% that one percent is the fuel. If you don’t have a gold, what’s the meaning of life.

[@t3ntube357]

Would be cool if there's an article version to such videos, lots of valuable information ( i had to take poses to think and grasp, sometimes I repeat the same section over and over ). I'm new subscriber here thank you Dan Koe I like your content so much ❤

[@NewHealthOrderWellness]

Dan, the first 90 seconds of this video is absolute gold. Thank you.

[@NewHealthOrderWellness]

Not that the rest isn’t. The first 90 seconds was enough to make me realize it’s time to start.

[@NoirMorter]

Experience. The number one way to get over failure, the fear of failure, and any social stigma that may be associated is to fail. Try, fail, try, fail, try, fail, finally try, succeed. Keep doing it again and again. Asking for advice is like tutorial hell for programmers when the best way to learn is to do. Want the job? Apply. It all comes down to action, just do at some point stop thinking.

[@РомиоО]

Dan, you are a real deal!

[@Diagasaran]

One helpful piece of advice coming from me, just an obsessed freak with information and understanding, is to try ordering your information take-in intently as well. If I watch this, then watch a video on a thing I want right after, I'll listen to it differently. Using this skill will get you to go nuts over how much you can learn, but remember to take action with it, don't get lost in the sauce.

[@dotpenji]

Hey Alex! This video is seriously enlightening when it comes to understanding the learning process and personal development. You've highlighted the importance of shifting our identity to match our goals. I'm intrigued by your concept of programming our worldview. Could you dive a bit deeper into how we can practically reshape our perspective and use it to drive our actions? Your insights are hitting the mark! Keep sharing your wisdom with us. Cheers!

[@jordan.na.dzielni]

Is Dan's real name Alex?

[@iracaullenedimaranan]

I agree. Your perspective on the learning journey and personal growth is eye-opening. Your analogy of leveling up in a video game to personal development is brilliant. Keep sharing your insightful advice! 🌟📚

[@DenverOrtiz]

How you articulate that advice isn't a one-size-fits-all solution is truly eye-opening. Your analogy of leveling up in a video game to progressing in life adds such a relatable and engaging perspective to the topic. I especially appreciate how you emphasize the importance of self-experimentation and self-reliance as crucial components of real, lasting change.

[@markanthonymanayan2136]

Hey Alex! Your video is a true eye-opener in terms of comprehending the learning journey and personal growth. Your emphasis on aligning our identity with our goals is truly noteworthy. I'm particularly curious about your notion of programming our worldview.

[@itsme_jervy1404]

Your absolutely right. His video is incredibly enlightening about personal development and shifting our identity to match our goals, and I'm eager to dive deeper into how we can practically reshape our perspective to drive our actions. Keep the insightful content coming! 🌟🚀

[@CarterSams]

You vocalized this process perfectly.

[@oliver13deft]

2:31 is simply BRUTAL. thank you.

[@JohnCarlosMartinez]

Best videos on KZbin. Densely packed with value.

[@matthiaspollak1785]

I like you, Dan. :) :) The way you talk is smart, structured and strategic. And at the same time you have humour. Thanks for your videos.

[@BeasenBear]

Thank you so much! You're consistently making content worth rewatching to catch all the value.

[@xloox1615]

Man, I am taking notes like a mf and I can't even finish because there are toooo many gems being dropped for free God bless your soul, brother.

[@DevineHabits]

Bro, I actually want to thank you been watching 9 months now and I feel I’ve outgrown your content. I’m taking that as a positive thing I’ve implemented a lot of great knowledge, but I know my path now and want to send a huge gracious thanks to you my man. Maybe we’ll meet one day you never know, until then keep up the good work 🙏👍😉

[@Henry-zq5nd]

Your videos are arguably the best on KZbin. Most others are click bait overly edited garbage.

[@SimplyInspiredbySheena]

💙 wow…thank you for that. Subscribed!

[@freerangemarketers]

I’ve started going for more walks to clear my head. You’re one of my favorites to listen to these days.

[@Kpurdy86]

Self development preacher 👏🏾👏🏾 You better preach Dan 👏🏾 I would still be under someone else’s control if it wasn’t for you. I thank God I found you young man🙌🏾❤

[@randytotel6400]

So much valuable information here. Thanks for this.

[@Influencesubcon]

Thanks for Sharing Dan, I saw your growth since the early days of twitter, its inspiring to see. I am gathering many of your points for my one person business, much appreciated!

[@HighFrequencyNutrition]

fkn gold. I am SO over "the guru" and your guidance and gold.... back to the self-knowing! thank you

[@AggieCleans]

My business started failing the moment we employed a ‘business consultant’. I swear, had I gone with my own trials and errors, I would have still been on business. Advice is good only when if fits exactly into the actions you have already taken.

[@charmedprince]

I spent the past 10 years perfecting my business through trial and error. Now I am doing business as it should be. Now there's an advice for people wanting to strat a business or anything.......

[@ryanmarto]

I’m 4 years in and it’s a grind every day and every week. I wouldn’t trade it for anything but u have to have the skin to outlast the situations and the hurdles

[@charmedprince]

@@ryanmarto exactly. Work harder brother! You'll know when it's good, because it'd get easy and you'd feel it 🙏

[@BURNTMILLROAD]

Thanks Dan🙏

[@veerakesamudram2541]

True !Successful people have vision . I really love ur content Dan I’m from Rural India 🇮🇳

[@NikhilArora_in]

Where are you based in India?

[@YouREnoughTV]

Dan you are incredibly brilliant. You are a whole university program in one human😂.

[@ManifestationMan1111]

This is the content I signed up for!!

[@musicaddict6015]

honestly, everything you are saying is so straightforward, like a direct slap in the face. Appreciate the value , there's no one else talking like that. By the way as a side joke , you are giving us advice that asking for advice is keeping us unsuccessful. What would you recommend for someone who wants to change careers and get into the digital world, but feels so lost on all the possible opportunities ,side hustles and everything.. don't know where to start, how to learn,what to choose. Its so difficult to just start.

[@JohannesSteinray]

Great video. Makes perfect sense and you express things clearly

[@A_Students_Notebook]

One of the best videos yet. Came at the perfect time. Thank you👍

[@nitinkamalxstar]

I have been telling people how important the fluff is. People looking for pure actionable advice which is okay. But I believe fluff is what makes the actionable advice set into your subconscious mind.

[@thecatecan]

Dan my opinion only, brilliant. I so enjoyed this. I just get you. I just so happen to love your points to every single thing you expressed. Thanks for bothering to give. ❤😊

[@emperorsnewclothes2429]

First time viewer looked over your other videos and subscribed.

[@DilCardyn]

Asking for advice can hinder success because most advice seeks to avoid mistakes, leading to lack of experience and understanding. Effective learning involves conscious goal-setting. Personal growth requires skill development, self-reliance, and curating an environment that promotes meaningful suffering for growth.

[@lelatexeira1647]

Thank you. This is such a helpful reframe for me.

[@hleet]

it hurts but so true 😮

[@augustchu1538]

Thank you, Dan.

[@AndrewMulandi-v3f]

True mental Zeitgeist 😊

[@Kieshart]

You are literally the 🐐! How am I 42 and having so many revelations with every sentence you say? Do you actually know me?

[@davidjosiah4873]

This guy is so good, wow can't believe the way he teaches

[@jamisondittmar3226]

This is fire bro. Love your content.

[@sadaamhasaan_]

The modern day philosopher strikes again. I need one of those shirts with the book when it drops too ✍🏾

[@TheMagicSauce]

Mate, you're a breath of fresh air. Keep that sh*t up.

[@Katherine.knolys]

Thanks for the details 🎉

[@miketriesworld]

You seem to be the voice of reason I didn’t know I needed to hear. Thanks for your thought provoking message Dan!

[@VioletaChavez-kv9je]

I was waiting for my kids to go sleep to watch this without interruptions lol. Thanks Dan!

[@fabricefils-aime7142]

Always high level content

[@jawvees2585]

Wow this channel is so realistic and actually applicable to real life bless you man🎇🎈✨️

[@malone7655]

📌 *Nice video, love how you take your time to educate your viewers. You gave me the mindset to invest my savings now I have made profits over $120k Right now and still making more , I am enjoying a good life with what I made investing. Indeed ‚building a Portfolio income (investing) through a licensed investment adviser is one out of many ways to earn passive income.*

[@rickybishop8388]

That's awesome. I dealt with crypto last year on Robinhood, tried some index but didn't take it out so I lost it by the end. Any consistent strategies?

[@AKS-wf1mq]

Oh I made $69,420 after just 3 weeks of contacting her- nah fk bots

[@andreionisie168]

Bro this is a scam haha

[@AliKhan-ib4ft]

@@andreionisie168 this is so dangerous already in so many levels ,we still havent got used to bots , and if i hadn't seen the entire comment section i probably would have believed it , this looks so casual , its offcourse fake but still scary

[@des7638]

thanks Dan

[@mainelima7262]

They fail because they don't watch your content, therefore they don't do what they have to do 🥰

[@ZhengyiShen]

Love the content! Do you also post your podcast on Apple podcast or Google podcast?

[@bensaben3681]

Great one, keep them coming !!

[@rodrigosalazar767]

Your videos are just amazing, thank you very much man!!!!!!❤❤❤

[@Dange-xr7gb]

Thank you for this video ❤

[@darkodonnie2588]

I think the education and effort dots are aligning for me but what did u do when u felt your growth in purgatory

[@RPMentorTokyoChannel]

10:33 Very true.

[@chantalbueno]

Thank you Dan , you’re the best . Needed this

[@rmschindler144]

Haha, this is great. It’s the advice I most often give: don’t ask for advice!

[@gracehay8902]

Your advice is brilliant

[@ashleydavis8453]

So good 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@visheshharnal1]

This is life improvement, generational improvement.

[@aaronbisme]

Action is always king.

[@Farmer10000]

quá tuyệt vời tôi không thể tin rằng video này miễn phí vì nó có quá nhiều thông tin hữu ích

[@madelineaudurier168]

After one year of listening to you, I’m in :)

[@josephsuruiz]

I appreciated your work, Dan. Keep on going. 👌

[@zahramohamud5641]

Thanks

[@DreasHipHop]

Love this video thank you for making this

[@dailylearninglab-in-english]

love ur speeches

[@lindseym6534]

Dan you are awesome. Thank you

[@mohibquadri4053]

Dan which are your Favourite books ?

[@lifebyaprilb]

Amazing insights as usual ❤

[@datguydelali]

Dan you're amazing thanks for putting out value everytime.

[@Stï_018]

♾️♾️♾️ ...I forgot to get back to Leo and ReaEarth for months 😅 Thx for the reminder Dan. 😊

[@LudwigLunaris]

Hey Dan love your content. I have a question to your 2 hours writing course. Is it a one time fee or monthly?

[@illathansa5730]

Powerful content...

[@prativaneupane8927]

One of the best advice I ever received .

[@coolmagnifico]

What's the advice ?

[@Angell_Lee]

Man you are so beautiful and amazing! Thank you so much for sharing Dan xo

[@beebsblue]

I feel like I’ve heard this before. Is it because I’ve read it in the newsletter or has this been uploaded before?