You Aren't Successful Because You Care Too Much (How To Stop)

[@bobbysu]

"For every thought towards your future, there are 100 more against it". That hit home.

[@Chancel388]

Biostorm

[@Guirakksol]

That is so so true

[@sweetcapricorn]

😮ikr

[@omiloveastrotarot]

Its def a Hit⚡️

[@Chancel388]

Wow and here I am Telling Everybody

[@markrusso9235]

“The problem with the world is that the intelligent people are full of doubts, while the stupid ones are full of confidence.” ― Charles Bukowski

[@djurobrodarac3730]

lack of direction is even worse than lack of confidence. peace, bro.

[@nelisasiko]

I'm struggling with that right now. I'm doing a Bachelor course at Uni but I still feel lost😢.

[@Daniel-in-the-den.]

Real.

[@overcomingjeff]

@@nelisasiko- may I suggest a book that I have found very helpful and have given as a gift numerous times? It’s called “Discover What You’re Best At” by Linda Gale. It assesses your aptitudes, knowledge, skills, desires, etc., to produce a profile of what you can do for a career that you can learn easily, do well at, and enjoy. It’s the most accurate book of this type that I have ever seen. Best wishes to you!

[@djurobrodarac3730]

@@nelisasiko bro, I was born in a third world country, did a useless bachelor degree there. almost 10 years ago I packed my life into a suitcase and a backpack. Lived in Köln, Frankfurt, Limerick, Dublin, Milano, Berlin, Canary islands. now packing slowly to move to Zürich or Oslo and make money. self-taught programmer. I speak 6 languages. but so much wasted time, so much grief and misery, feeling lost and being lost. heartbroken since 2 years... but I am still standing bro. they don't know me... and they don't know you. learn and do things for yourself, improve, small steps. you will be alright. no matter how many times you slip or fall - always get back up. life is a just a big test, to see how much you can handle, carry and chew. you can't get through a diploma? ok, then you better be hella good at something else with your hands or mind. or work at McDonald's. but that ain't really you, is it? you are still young, I assume, take your time bro. you will have time for everything in life. peace

[@chris9527]

​@@spiralintobliss6785he's not this world he's a individual. And he's doing good going to school as a man he has to live a man's life become Jeff bezos or Michael Jordan unless you wanna be a nobody then give up I'm pretty sure he understands success and how to get there. For me I've overcome diversity and all kinds of stuff like pain and betrayal every man is different we just gotta use what life give us as tools to become great. Forget all that you're the world stuff that doesn't. help what is he gonna make it rain?? please explain.

[@chris9527]

My manager told me at 17 you can clean everything in the store but somebody will still find something to complain about. I understood the concept.

[@Mysticdesigner222]

“You can’t get to level 2 with the same character that got you to level 1.” A thought I could never put into words until now.

[@WardrobeWinners]

That’s true, as they say new levels new devils

[@abdulqadar9580]

This line likely refers to a skill-based context, suggesting that advancing to a higher level or achieving greater proficiency often requires a significant change or improvement in one's character or abilities. In other words, the strategies or qualities that helped you succeed at one level may not be sufficient for the next, necessitating adaptation and growth to progress further.

[@The_slash]

yeah, I was taking notes, then I ended up filling my entire notebook with his words, every single sentence of him can be but an a wall

[@Spartan-Of-Truth]

It’s scary a lot of times but it makes us sharper, wiser, stronger. Baby steps.

[@cynthia-jo1zz]

I put my future into my hands....my parents were teenagers when they gave birth to us me and siblings..long story short I have wasted 20+ years yearning, crying, wasting my life to have my parents be my parents..with open eyes I see that my mother and father are rather busy trying to parent themselves ( their lives goals) I simply cannot care anymore because my future belongs to me and is up to me..I have to parent myself thank GOD I am in no serious relationship nor have any child to abuse and waste...I belong to me

[@rastrus]

Parents usually did with us not correct, leaved for us a lot of trauma

[@attentionlabel]

Thanks a lot Dan, really learned from this one. Favourite ideas: | "Personal growth is a gateway drug into business growth" | "If you aren't getting results, that isn't a sign to quit. It's a sign to improve" | "You cannot reach level 2 with the character that got you to level 1 - growth requires change and that's why most people settle early" | "Becoming multidimensionally jacked is the path to the good life" | "The cure to anxiety is curiosity" | "writing, speaking, marketing, sales are absolute principles which you will have to learn, no matter which business model you go into"

[@byDisenyo]

Overcoming anxiety is all about staying grounded and present, rather than fixating on future events, that most likely won’t happen (as most anxious thoughts are negative). Great content 👏

[@sfrances]

Just stumpled on this guy this week... and I'm all over his content. He's surely my game changer. I literally feel surely so. Thanks Dan.

[@KaizenWithRen]

He's been 🔥 on Twitter for a while now Glad he's finally on KZbin

[@Kpurdy86]

Same!

[@JohnBradydoesstuff]

Me too. It’s a a little creepy. He’s telling me exactly what I need to hear but have been able to find.

[@debrabunger9302]

Same.

[@RealziesCuts]

I care more about these leaps and personal growth I keep achieving 💫🙌 328 days no alcohol 🥇

[@mattmccann1850]

Hey me 2 we must have the same date. September 14th?

[@suffolk.candles]

Well done, just hit 900 days myself. I've actually gotten stuff done, chased my goals and made leaps of progress. Keep it up, good luck to you!

[@sweetcapricorn]

Wow your a star 💫 keep shining 🎉love❤

[@zaddisworkbench1223]

Cheering you on to the big 365!

[@JtothaLA]

I feel like Dan is like my therapist. Thank you

[@edwinf9t]

Your teaching has truly empowered us to reach new heights. Here's to the invaluable lessons and growth. 🎉

[@elle_cobra]

What I love about your content is it's clear, actionable, and without fluff. One of the most freeing things is to know you have agency and choice to do whatever you want to do. I'd much rather have me holding myself back knowing I can choose to step aside when the time is right rather than something I perceive is outside of my control. Whether improving yourself or staying the same, it's all hard. Just choose your hard!

[@moniquelemaire5333]

Mr. Dan Koe is the modern version of Zig Ziglar!! Zig ziglar always said that our problem is the lack of direction and motivation. Dan is giving us the specifics of what to do!!! Thank you, Mr. Koe God is using you to help the world around you!! Thank you and God Bless you and your family. Miss Monique 🙂🙏💗

[@moniquelemaire5333]

@Chat__upDankoe_ You will be happy to know that I am in the process of setting up a tutoring service both local and online. $50/hr for tutoring much better than $14.51/hr. for being a Front End Manager at a Crazy department store!!!! Thank you again for all the help and encouragement!!! Keep being blessed and keep being a blessing to me and others!! Miss Monique 😁🙏💗🎶🎉

[@ConstantPursuitDaily]

I needed this today! So much to think about! The fear of what others think I believe is the single biggest thing holding others back!

[@velvetbees]

Ten seconds after most critics have dumped on you, they have already forgotten it. They are automatically back to thinking about themselves. Unless they have importance in your life, send their criticism into the sea and let it float away. And I try to deny them a second chance.

[@Fekuchand_]

​@@velvetbeesyes

[@sahil_arora]

Eloquently communicated as always. I really resonate with the message that you're drilling home here -- there is an abundance of opportunity and with consistency of effort, we can all reach an audience that resonates with us. Here's to all of the creators!

[@shotthebreeze9370]

Beautifully stated as well! 👊🏼📷🌬

[@karissaexplainsitadhdstyle]

I love that your videos/podcasts are a mixture of self help/reflection/growth and entrepreneurship. You hit my core interests all at once which makes your videos engaging. Thank you for putting out the content that you do, I'm happy to have found you online.

[@squamish4244]

I would say that anxiety in general is by far the biggest thing that stifles people's potential. Social anxiety, existential anxiety, anxiety in all its forms. A mind that never shuts up and defaults to the negative constantly. But more importantly, anxiety is what prevents people from being _happy,_ which is what we all want, and why we want success. And it doesn't have to be loud, clinical anxiety, but that low-level feeling that something is 'off' with life. You can be wildly successful and still have that feeling, and most people do. The Buddha called it "pervasive unsatisfactoriness".

[@squamish4244]

@@the_myron The gut-brain connection certainly is fascinating. I had an allergen blood test done and found some useful information, like my stomach had problems with dairy - I already knew that - super obvious - peanuts, cashews, and I was gluten intolerant, so now I only buy rye bread. I also eat much less sugar and fat. I wish I could say anxiety is my friend, but it's been a demon for the past 30 years of OCD, then a huge breakdown 17 years ago, then a narcotics addiction (thanks, doc) that destroyed my life 16 years ago. Anxiety has ripped a huge hole in my life for no reason at all. There was nothing I needed to change. Nothing at all. My life was going well, I was successful despite all my struggles. Anxiety by its very nature is wildly irrational. Our brains still think we are in the Stone Age, so they see threats everywhere. Anxiety causes you to worry about meaningless things, or things you can't change, like death. It loops crazily in your head endlessly, tormenting you, crushing the life out of you.

[@iamtaylored4u1]

You said it ALL right here! Have mercy! PLEASE LISTEN to this advice! I got it and I wish I had gotten it sooner! DON'T WASTE TIME! Thank you Dan! You are doing the dang gone thang! 🙌🏾

[@lelatexeira1647]

This! Thank you. I was just journaling about this before it popped up. Synchronicity gold. I wish everyone could hear this.

[@mustbecome]

Here's the #1 piece of the best advice I've ever heard to help "caring what people think about you: "Don't waste HOURS concerned about the SECONDS of scrutiny a person you BARELY care about MIGHT give your life choices." Start and don't look back. Your potential is your obligation. What you can become, you Must Become.

[@thegreatdivinie]

What you can become, you Must Become. fire.

[@mustbecome]

@@thegreatdivinie thank you sir. Much appreciated.

[@Cygx]

I am continually astonished by your eloquence, such lucidity in your thoughts. You possess an invaluable skill. Bravo!

[@Asimut30]

The reasonability of truth here was so intense and sharp, that a week ago I put a dislike, but now, after the week long intensive rollercoaster ride through Dan’s channel videos and submersion into this paradigm, I am watching again as literally for the first time - and now a simple like is not enough 🎉🙏🙏🙏💆‍♂️

[@Open-MindedObserver]

It’s one thing to know something and talk about it and another to articulate something very well. Dan you always articulate your messages at a high level and it’s great to hear and read!

[@bradacash]

Thank you. I'm lifting some emotional weights today. What a great and helpful perspective on the situation.

[@encon7340]

11:00 confidence through authenticity id a mental game.

[@The_slash]

these videos provide so much value, Dan is a very generous person, every time I watch one of his content, I end up questioning myself: am I even aware?, when I se people like Dan I feel so dumb, it shows how much work I still have to do to evolve and get access to higher levels, I genuinely enjoy this process. :)

[@pmussophilosophy]

I have a PhD in Philosophy, and I am only just now starting to fully understand and appreciate Dan's content. It really started to click once I started creating.

[@racheljune688]

New subscriber. Just wanted to say, keep going, don't stop sharing the truth and your knowledge with others. KZbin is hard to do and keep up with, but never give up on your dream/goals. This goes for both you (the creator) and the people watching.

[@rodrigosalazar767]

This video is just unreal. Incredible i love it!!! You inspire me so much!

[@weisscoaching]

Everytime I listen to you I get my dose of determination to continue. Thanks

[@JACK9ITE]

I'm in the same situation rn and can't sleep, lucky to get this video in my recommendation at 3 in the morning

[@nhungbuithicam9567]

Love video. Before, i am always focus and caring others thought😢. Now, i only concentrate my goal, my inner energy. I love myself. Thank you for great video❤🎉🎉

[@draenesteron]

Your authenticity is why I keep coming back to your videos. I wish I were more stoic-appearing, like yourself.

[@Tangi_ENT]

My dawg. The second I get a little anxious I just come back to this video. Seems I’ll be listening to this over and over for months.

[@premiertrvl]

Dan, just came across your channel, and I can’t stop watching. Thank You

[@mindyjocelyn3537]

Currently listening to you while at the gym! 🙌🏻 Always learning

[@MrReconcept]

To think that the basic skills like writing, speaking, sales, and marketing are easily neglected makes me 😢😢. Thanks Dan for always ringing that reminder bell. ❤

[@d.cultivator]

Your videos helped me get out of my comfort zone and start producing. Let's see how this goes.

[@YoBoyEd]

Koe this came at the right timing. You are doing Justice to the people that are looking for a way out.

[@kaseygay6265]

Bruh I am STRUGGLING today with this. The further I go, the more the demons pile up. Thanks ofr this.

[@TheWay413]

How so much thoughts running into your mind of what others think is the hardest thing to overcome. Because we are social beings seeking for everyone's approval and wanting to be accepted and be liked at the end of the day.

[@VivianaRodriguez-x8y]

I love this guy he is so serious that it scares me into doing what I need to do

[@TheNomadicNick]

Your always delivering bro👏, Thank you.

[@NoWorkNoCheck]

I’ve learned more about life in the past 3 days from watching this guys videos than I have from the last 5years of personal experience. Thanks Dan 🙏🏼

[@LeGabot777]

That really hit home. I had to cut ties with my family to start pursuing my dreams.

[@adalizasanchez7148]

Every so often I have to pause your videos, because I feel like at times… some of the things you say go over my head.😂 powerful!❤

[@thestarinthesky_]

@11:29 I fall in love with you even more after this part! That’s soooop true!!! Thanks for your insightful contents 💚🙏🏽

[@stevejava4336]

😂 "Fu$@ing leave ". I enjoy watching your videos in the morning with my first cup of coffie. Because your honest , intelligent and have good motivating information that I personally find very helpfull. This morning I wanted to finish watching a video I started the other day. 😂 within one minute I hear you say " If you don't like it, " Fu#@ing leave ". I laughed so hard I woke up the dog.! Your video's are never disappointing. Good quality information, with a dash of humor. 👍

[@ritasjourney]

I appreciate you so much, Dan. I’ve been watching you on KZbin for a few months, and recently reading you on LinkedIn. I’ve been learning video creation and editing, and really excited to get into some other topics. Can’t afford your courses yet, but hopefully soon!

[@ritasjourney]

PS. You probably don’t care, but I think your hair looks great. I was missing those curls :-)

[@Ramenko1]

Success comes down to doing the obvious thing for an extraordinary period of time without convincing yourself that you're smarter than you actually are. Hey, Dan. Your videos have helped reinforce the truths I knew in my soul to be true. Keep it up, friend.

[@Ramenko1]

Strange. You heart my comment. And then you take it away? I'm not sure why your opinion has fluctuated. However, taking your advice, I simply don't care what your opinion of me is. When you've worked hard, and you know you've worked hard, nothing penetrates you. Because you yourself know the truth. And you're living the truth on a daily basis. So no matter what anyone says to you, or what anyone does to you, you know the truth. And Noone can penetrate it. I may not have as many subs as you Dan. But I'm not comparing. Perhaps KZbin has yet to recognize me fully. But one day the Internet will behold the quality videos that I pump out. I'll show you, Dan. I'll show the whole world who I am. I will change the world. For I can do all things through Jesus Christ who strengthens me. Amen.

[@suzannenichols6900]

​@@Ramenko1I'm wondering if KZbin took your comment away because KZbin has been messing with content creators and comments all over the place. Have a great day. God Bless.

[@Ramenko1]

@@suzannenichols6900 God bless you, too, friend!!!

[@FarnazJisha]

Srsly the most authentic guy out there

[@itsmekarishma_____128]

Thank you dan, it was wonderful to get to know these awesome things to improve! Will surely apply them.

[@GmanGavin1]

One of the things I deal with is peoples cynicism towards self help, productivity, or business. It gives me fear of being shameful of succeeding, because the idea that success equals evilness or greed. I've talked about it with friends and family who are pro "go get it, grow, and start a business" but it is something even though I can consciously know not to listen to the cynics it's a subconscious thing I've picked up on from growing up. The fear of being someone else's blame.

[@GE0attack]

I recently was thinking I thought didn't cared but further inspection I realised I care too much about others think and this is caused me a lot of anxiety and stupid actions I have done

[@delicategrace]

Shooting gold nuggets 😍 much appreciated! I am already applying parts from here and that makes me a bit more confident.

[@lnhackley]

Thanks for this Dan! So much value!!

[@WizDom21]

We’re a cosmic flower that blooms through expression.

[@andilemaphanga2354]

" inputs that contribute to the outputs you want to achieve on a daily basis" ❤️

[@KamalTiwari82]

Thank you I feel like I needed to hear this.

[@nicolepink8312]

I have to get this book !!! You are on fkn fire and i love it !!!!

[@shugyosha7924]

Man, it's tough. I've been working on my business for 4 years, but progress is so slow so I thought I really have to dedicate myself to it if I want to see results. So I'm dedicating myself to it, but it's a lonely path. I don't go out drinking or socialising, I don't meet girls, I don't spend much time on apps. I work my full time job, I exercise, I cook my food, and I work on my business. All in the hopes that one day it will pay off. The cost is great, but it's less than the cost of the regret of knowing I didn't give it my all is greater. But it is difficult sometimes. Christmas and NYE particularly have been difficult.

[@monicamomney8756]

Same, stay strong ❤

[@Janevelyn]

The holidays were brutal

[@SelfLovewithAT]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge! I’m going to watch this video every day‼️👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥💯

[@agthaog1986]

this is great, i agree very much with the transferring consciousness part. its great for public speaking or anything else in that vein . the more u do this the more u remember everybody else got they own mental capacity n thought process and ur not that important to them...yet

[@writervictoria]

I have decided that i am trying everything i can afford if it can lead me to a better life and success, because eventually one of them will work and i dont care what anyone think now.

[@MAA-op4gw]

Great video man, I would say it's the best I have watched so far. It's just somewhat long. Can you make your video more around 10 to 12 mins long. Apreciate it big man 👊🏻

[@Telltalesign]

Thanks for this. Will definitely rewatch this to remind myself how to grow as a creator.

[@keatonmoore7413]

New subscriber as of today. I don’t know how I haven’t found your channel sooner but you offer everything that I’ve been looking for. This video is incredible. I own a trucking company and will be applying all of this information to my day to day. Thank you

[@presidualist4587]

12:56 going to watch this part every day

[@CoacheeMariadas]

Self talk is the algorithm for our mind. Watch what you speak to yourself

[@jawilliamsg]

Hey Dan, thanks so much. This is a MASTER CLASS 👊🏼

[@BlessingAmeho]

Another powerful bomb info here.We do appreciate your contents🙏

[@travelniz]

Love it how you're able to bring these things so good on point 🙏❤️

[@Feelgracegivegrace]

Would love to hear your recommendations regarding increasing sales and marketing skills! Thank you for this great video!

[@tiffszo]

19:32 Alan watts also has a really good philosophical tone

[@c.j.wilkerson9112]

Thank you for your service, Dan.

[@The_slash]

I enjoy so much with these content, tank you dan I really am appreciated

[@infinisourced]

Every new video, wow. Concentrated, very useful, inspiring. TY Dan.

[@filipinamindset]

I subscribed right away. Great content, Dan!

[@Jake-dx8pt]

Man I love your content. Genuinely extremely valueble to me. Thank you.

[@mcjackspaz]

I know you’re right. I’m struggling with chronic digestive illness that is also dragging down my mental health and vitality. I’ve worked with multiple doctors and done a lot of research, but I never get better for more than a few months. I feel like life trapped me out of it. My energy levels and mental clarity are super unstable. I struggle to digest food and get the nutrients I need out of it. I don’t know how I’m going to be able to consistently act in a way to turn things around. If you have any advice for this somehow, I’d super appreciate it. I was a high performer for many years, and right around when I wanted to go independent 3 years ago is when I got sick.

[@lisawynne-magnuson9469]

I’m so grateful that I found you!!!🙏

[@danielsidshow2290]

One of the best experiences of the week, awake up cup of coffee watch this… just: WOW

[@turquoiselizzie6874]

Trust Dan Koe to slap reality into me 😂 love this

[@ritzy5870]

I'm glad that I subscribed your channel cause your video has depth in every words you said ❣️ Your video help me to know where I'm lacking ... Thank you ❤❤❤❤❤

[@rayali9854]

I needed this.great vid Dan.

[@jawvees2585]

Appreciate this channel alot❤thanks Bro

[@shawnbruce6934]

Thanks Dan. This made Me think very differently.

[@brittany.demers]

Sooo good, thank you!

[@LOCOETTEMPORE]

Hi Dan, thanks again ❤ will you make any content in how finances work from your perspective? It would be so interesting. Thank you.

[@prestigequick]

this was so good i have to rewatch it thank you!

[@tylernigrofr]

Dan spits facts

[@duneetagerealautre9946]

Super content as always👌. I just started a business this year. Newness can be scary, thanks for the reminder "it is normal" 😅

[@okanhoruz758]

This video is so amazing and unique in terms of everything . THANKS .

[@angelachanellehuang5663]

Pursue the career you enjoy and are good at

[@fernandamonize420]

Você se preocupa muito com o que os outro vão pensar. 4pilares da autoconfiança: perspectiva -ninguem é especial Percepção- aproveitar as oportunidades Prática- não foge do desafio Autenticidade -nao confirma com opiniões dos outros -Diminua o zoom -Mente aberta A sua roupa tbm diz mto sobre vc -reconhecer os padrões do cérebro Seja especialista em um setor Você será péssimo no começo p conseguir melhorar Escrever, aumentar seu número, falar e nutrir, criar o produto ou serviço

[@Guirakksol]

Thank you for your work ! Just discovering your KZbin channel right now, so much value in that video that’s insane 💪🏽🙏🏽

[@shubhamsonawane5597]

Great, thank You!😊

[@Aiva33aiva]

Thank you

[@DoughDashWord]

This was deep! ❤